Their subsequent SHAMING ATTEMPTS when things don't GO THEIR WAY are quite hilarious. Thank you sister from another mother (as long as it's not the ultimate: NARC, my EX-older sister!)
Exactly correct. Perfectly articulated. It's like banging your head against a wall trying to reason with a person who is so mentally ill, going around and around and around in circle, getting nowhere with this disrespectful and delusional unhappy person.
This is the kind of stuff they need to be forced to accept and acknowledge this EXACT TRUTH. Spot on. Thanks for putting it in less words than it would take me! Mine would be a chapter in a book!!!
They are QUITE the species placed on earth. This is why there are flights to Mars, all narcs get one way tickets! Let them battle it out amongst themselves. Narc vs Narc. Let them decide the laws for THEIR society. What a reality show THAT would make! Lure the greedy narcs, offer it, they will come! LoL
@@LookingBehindtheMirror That sounds forceful. The problem with relationships is fingers pointed at each other. Narcissists do not engage me for long. I will drag them down my rabbit hole--- which they fear to go. I try to share insights about reality using a discovery I made as a young man but did not have the time until I was 48 to investigate. I knew nothing about Carl Jung and synchronicity until 2007. Now I find that people refuse to go farther down his rabbit hole.
💯 about them. They will make ridiculous demands of me...and if I can do it and it does not puff up their Arrogance. Even if it does make their Arrogance feel good. Soon enough it wears off and they must punish me. And if I set boundaries and say No...they decide she must be punished. No matter what they will seek to do harm to my life. Now husband and I moved far away and I initiated No Contact for a year and I do not miss them. I no longer have hopes they can be caring honest people.
Bullseye. My partner would rage about things I did that we both knew were not true. He would invent his own facts or start with “I know what you’re thinking”.
Just stop and think about it for a moment...If you had done any of the things that the narc chose to do to 'you'...What would the consequences have been? 🤔
Can you elaborate on their uncomfortable feelings. Like a shame attack of their inner critic? Even when they see you overly excited with joy? I had a narc mother who had a habit of stifling my joy. She always stopped me from finishing being happy. I can't explain it but there's something to that. That interruption means something that carries over into adulthood. It's like they're interrupting your experience of good, positive energy. Sounds like evil to me. This is a very serious observation you just made about these messed up people. Imagine running in a field of flowers and a wolf starts chasing you. That's how I felt when my mother decided I was having too much fun. Anybody have a partner like that? How can you ever trust yourself to let go and be yourself if this is expected? Or feel safe to let go and be yourself. As a pattern? You are conditioned to do? To be? To eventually never look forward to any thing good. Just being hypervigilant and anxious and paranoid. Sick people. That's all they are. Emotionally retarded.
My mother calls me an irresponsible person who is so shameless that I can't show her respect and dignity which she always deserves, this August I wished her happy birthday on messenger and she immediately replied Goodbye I won't make it long why are you not respecting me why are you ignoring me now she has blocked me for almost half of the month because I went out for a vacation and shared some pictures online
In the back of my mind I felt "dead mother" was being a little over used as an excuse to behave poorly. She has moved from dead mother to me as her external cause of her misery.
Thats very dangerous advice. I am a born again Christian. I was married to a narcissist and almost died twice because of his actions.God in His mercy removed him from my life. Many pastors did not understand the seriousness of it either.
@@jenniferbrooks87 Neiher does the so-called SCIENCE*. I left a girlfriend who ended up stabbing her dad literally in the throat. *LOOKING AT YOU Dr Fake/Dr Fauci with your "Trust the science" nonsense!
@@jenniferbrooks87 PS--I became a reborn Christian after being a denier my whole life too. It's definitely a rewarding "two steps forward one step back" process the last few years. Hallelujah!! (Congratulations on your way home too!!!)
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Their subsequent SHAMING ATTEMPTS when things don't GO THEIR WAY are quite hilarious. Thank you sister from another mother (as long as it's not the ultimate: NARC, my EX-older sister!)
Exactly correct. Perfectly articulated. It's like banging your head against a wall trying to reason with a person who is so mentally ill, going around and around and around in circle, getting nowhere with this disrespectful and delusional unhappy person.
Your presence gives them Your permission
Yes! 🎯
This is the kind of stuff they need to be forced to accept and acknowledge this EXACT TRUTH. Spot on. Thanks for putting it in less words than it would take me! Mine would be a chapter in a book!!!
They are QUITE the species placed on earth. This is why there are flights to Mars, all narcs get one way tickets! Let them battle it out amongst themselves. Narc vs Narc. Let them decide the laws for THEIR society. What a reality show THAT would make! Lure the greedy narcs, offer it, they will come! LoL
If we only we could force them to learn. All of our problems would be solved.
@@LookingBehindtheMirror That sounds forceful. The problem with relationships is fingers pointed at each other. Narcissists do not engage me for long. I will drag them down my rabbit hole--- which they fear to go.
I try to share insights about reality using a discovery I made as a young man but did not have the time until I was 48 to investigate.
I knew nothing about Carl Jung and synchronicity until 2007. Now I find that people refuse to go farther down his rabbit hole.
Exactly. And they will demand the Truth from you.
Not exactly. They will demand that you admit to what they believe, which is rarely the actual truth.
they made their bed - let them lie in it .
they planned and schemed their life without talking to you
you are creating great content
Straight Facts. Let King Jesus deal with these demons..
💯 about them. They will make ridiculous demands of me...and if I can do it and it does not puff up their Arrogance. Even if it does make their Arrogance feel good. Soon enough it wears off and they must punish me. And if I set boundaries and say No...they decide she must be punished. No matter what they will seek to do harm to my life. Now husband and I moved far away and I initiated No Contact for a year and I do not miss them. I no longer have hopes they can be caring honest people.
Accusing me of sleeping with our 80 year old neighbor. Couldn't convince him otherwise.
Omg I've never heard my exact situation explained so clearly. Great job with this one
This is so true. Zachery this is you cause you keep calling me a liar when I tell you the truth.and you won’t let me explain.
Bullseye. My partner would rage about things I did that we both knew were not true. He would invent his own facts or start with “I know what you’re thinking”.
You freaking nailed it. Spot on. 👏👏🙏. I appreciate you and your intelligence on the matter
Thank you for such a precise and accurate explanation of this dynamic. You rock
Just stop and think about it for a moment...If you had done any of the things that the narc chose to do to 'you'...What would the consequences have been?
🤔
Wow, spot on.
This is so accurate
Boom! 👌
Can you elaborate on their uncomfortable feelings. Like a shame attack of their inner critic? Even when they see you overly excited with joy? I had a narc mother who had a habit of stifling my joy. She always stopped me from finishing being happy. I can't explain it but there's something to that. That interruption means something that carries over into adulthood. It's like they're interrupting your experience of good, positive energy. Sounds like evil to me. This is a very serious observation you just made about these messed up people. Imagine running in a field of flowers and a wolf starts chasing you. That's how I felt when my mother decided I was having too much fun. Anybody have a partner like that? How can you ever trust yourself to let go and be yourself if this is expected? Or feel safe to let go and be yourself. As a pattern? You are conditioned to do? To be? To eventually never look forward to any thing good. Just being hypervigilant and anxious and paranoid. Sick people. That's all they are. Emotionally retarded.
Thank you for your suggestion. That is an important topic that I will give some thought to.
Listened to this 5x
I'm going to say this everyday
"I did nothing to lose the narc. I lost the narc to the narc."
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My mother calls me an irresponsible person who is so shameless that I can't show her respect and dignity which she always deserves, this August I wished her happy birthday on messenger and she immediately replied Goodbye I won't make it long why are you not respecting me why are you ignoring me now she has blocked me for almost half of the month because I went out for a vacation and shared some pictures online
In the back of my mind I felt "dead mother" was being a little over used as an excuse to behave poorly. She has moved from dead mother to me as her external cause of her misery.
Wow very well explained .
That’s so perfectly accurate. We know exactly what you mean.
This is so true
Yes, thankyou for bringing this to light!
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My stepmother beat me up for not coming home when she was calling me at loud. Didn't matter I was 1 miles away on the school basketball field.
Don't give up just because things are hard. Never stop praying. Amen Hallelujah praise God almighty Amen 👑💎💜💯
Thats very dangerous advice. I am a born again Christian. I was married to a narcissist and almost died twice because of his actions.God in His mercy removed him from my life. Many pastors did not understand the seriousness of it either.
@@jenniferbrooks87 Neiher does the so-called SCIENCE*. I left a girlfriend who ended up stabbing her dad literally in the throat.
*LOOKING AT YOU Dr Fake/Dr Fauci with your "Trust the science" nonsense!
@@jenniferbrooks87 PS--I became a reborn Christian after being a denier my whole life too. It's definitely a rewarding "two steps forward one step back" process the last few years. Hallelujah!! (Congratulations on your way home too!!!)
i think we diagnoses this wrong, describe completely someone not attracted to that gender and act like molestor