1. Call them by their name/say their name. 2. Give genuine spontaneous compliments. 3. Spend time with them/have a quick chat/develop familiarity. 4. You don't have to be or look perfect, nobody is perfect and people don't really care that much. Keeping it real may be more attractive. 5. Positives first, only show negativity when needed. 6. Actively listen, let others talk. 7. Be you!
Here’s all the tips if ya want (: 1. Call them by their name 2: Give genuine compliments when they across your mind 3. Spend more time with them 4. You don’t need to be perfect, so stop acting as if you are. 5. look to the positive first 6. You actively listen and let others talk about themselves too
Ya I can name a couple others that are chill for different reasons. Moist critical, jshlaght. And every other comedian UA-camr. every thing is a joke. Dont recommend if you have e strong opinions about something. Cocomelon. Pink pong. And nursery rhyme makers. Most videos dont have commentary but the ones that do are mainly parents thanking them for helping crying children. And math related videos. Some teachers suck. So if you stumble across these guys they probably saved your grade.
Yes I've found too tho that the tropical fish keeping community on yt are very nice and friendly too check it out maybe best wishes to you and family 🙂
"people who are happier make people happy just by being next to them" that just warmed up my heart, i have never felt more confident being myself! thank you very much
“At age 20, we worry about what others think of us. At age 40, we don’t care what they think of us. At age 60, we discover they haven’t been thinking of us at all.”
who cares {POV: did I , a nobody ,just start a war in the comment section because of a hate comment. People truly have so much time to waste nowadays!! None can just ignore)
If anyone else is like me and trying to change from an introverted person into an extroverted person in order to become more interesting to others and make friends definitely follow the tips about being positive and actively listening to others. These two have definitely been helping me quite a bit lately when meeting new people or even in current relationships
You don’t have to be extroverted to become more interesting :) I’m personally an introvert but I have made many friends as time went by you could say I’m a loud introvert, don’t change urself to make others like u, yes u can improve on yourself if you feel the need to but the best people come for the real u it’s great that the tips have helped u, but please please don’t change urself just to make friends sorry for this I just felt like saying it 😅
Exactly, being an introvert doesn’t mean you have to be bad with social skills or the like, it just means your personality and stuff is different, plus no one is really completely an introvert or extrovert of course
Trying to change who you are is just the stupid of stupid. You can improve on your flaws and try to change for better but why change the someone you took literally your entire life until now to build? You don't need to force changes, time will do it for you. What you're trying to do is to have a mental breakdown, I think you're not far from it.
OK that was funny I'm a little introverted I'm social but I get burnt out easily and like my alone time I'm glad my school friends know that and let me be alone when I need it
The “call them by their name” thing- i legit thought about this yesterday, when people call me by my name it makes me feel as though they care about and like me more so that makes me like _them_ more, its so true
Waveii I totally agree with you and this reminded me of my ex who didn't call me by my name, so I asked him if he knew it one day! He did call me bub, which I thought was a special nickname, until I found out that he said it to many women, even ones he didn't know. I'm so glad he's an ex now and I won't go into the many other reasons why that's the case. 🙂
A tip for #6: Repeat what they say back to them. This not only confirms that you haven't misheard anything, but also lets them know that you have been paying attention
A compliment goes a loooong way! When someone compliments me, I’m happy the rest of the day and honestly I remember it for a long time!!! Compliments don’t come very often so when it does, I definitely cherish it
I personally react to hearing my name in a conversation across the room as a survival instinct. I'm not flattered - I'm fearful about what they might be saying. I can't be the only one who feels this way...
Nope, I'm with you there. It always makes me anxious to hear my name anywhere far from me, especially since my name isn't really a common one so it's most likely me they're talking about. Is it good stuff? Is it bad? Well I'll never know, I'm too shy to ask
exactly it gaves me anxiety instead haha buit what about if it is your crush does that means he is tying to get your attention or just put you in the friendzone?
@@evlysian7670 I was just about to say the same thing. I am also an introvert who attracts people and I hate it😄 Im not looking for new friends nor for attention from others yet the more I runaway from it the more it chaces me😕😂
Having ADHD makes it feel difficult to fit in But recently I’ve been watching a few of these videos and now I’m feeling much better about myself and made myself some new friends
I have this weird thing where I ask someone's name and I DONT LISTEN. so I can't remember. It's the weirdest thing. No matter if I'm aware and I try to listen I still don't.
A little trick I learnt is after they say their name you repeat it in your next sentence like "I'm Connie" "Nice to meet you Connie. I'm Harriet" for instance. That way your brain registers the name properly.
@@rosytellez21 I can somewhat relate but when I ask people their name I pay attention but I don't hear what they said and I don't want to ask them to repeat it cuz it's awkward 😂😂
I’m not here watching this not just to make new friends. But to be a better friend. Everyone gets stressed once in a while and that’s how I’ve been and I realized I wasn’t acting as nice as I usually do. I’m going to try to implement talking about positive things and giving compliments more often
I was literally acting out conversations with people in my head and how to make people like me more than I already am this video suddenly popped up lol
Ikr. But I guess it's because the question itself is sooo weird. How am I supposed to know where to start and what to say when my knowledge of myself is so broad. It's a little like I have to spontaneously make a speech in class >.
I honestly feel weird when someone calls me by my name when I haven’t personally met them. If you haven’t talked to them or they haven’t told you their name. Please ask before you call them by their name or say “Your name is (blank) right?”. Just my advice for making the first tip work without creeping them out.
@@KanaYukino it’s not like I’m mean about it. Someone I had never met before called me by my name. Would you not be uncomfortable if that happened? I don’t get mad at them, I just feel weird.
I think the video focuses on getting the people you already know / who know you like your classmates or co workers, I think that is actually a good tactic to get people to like you . But ofcourse, random people calling you by name can be a bit unsettling especially if you haven't introduced urself to them or aren't familiar with them .
It's pretty hard to improve my social anxiety but I'm slowly working on it and I see improvement. I changed my class at school bcs I was very unhappy where I was. People here are nice and friendly and my best friend noticed that I'm more relaxed now. I'm happy that I'm changing for the better and it's all thanks to my amazing classmates! I never had such nice classmates🥰I'm even afraid of the day we are gonna go to our own paths.. But at least I can anjoy the time we have left togheter🥰
As an introverted person having to “spend time with others” or having someone, spontaneously ask me out for coffee is something I only see in my worse nightmares....
All of that sounds nice but it’s really hard to make friends, in class especially. Everyone already has friends and when i want to join a conversation i always feel like I’m just bothering them
I was in a similar situation when i was younger, I found out later that people-for whatever reason-found me intimidating. Perhaps it’s the same for you. Try to show you aren’t
The trick is making what you have to say worth the bother :) if you have something funny or intriguing to add to the conversation, people won’t mind the bother and might actually like you more for being brave and interjecting :)
Also, a good trick for becoming a part of a conversation is to laugh at something funny they’re saying. If you laugh, it tells them you were listening but that it wasn’t in a negative manner. They won’t think of your eavesdropping as a bad thing. They might even direct their next joke at you, since they know you find them funny.
Something that I used to do is when the person is alone I try to go make an excuse on why I'm with them like you need a partner or you need help on something. Also once you get the hang of it just approach a new person and introduce yourself.
8:00 THIS! This is also great dating advice. Especially if you're still in the getting-to-know-each-other-phase or on dating apps. Never has someone been more dislikable if they only answer your questions and never ask any of their own
I HATE hearing my name. It makes my stomach turn and I start sweating and laughing nervously. I wonder if it has to do with people saying my name only when I was in trouble, as a kid. I'm changing my name.
Sorry bout that. I get so annoyed when a new person I meet calls me Karen and then puts the stereotype of a Karen on me. First of all, that’s not even my name! And second, I don’t act anything like a Karen, I’m a fricken teenager...
Fair warning: be a little careful about that name thing. One of my colleagues overoes that. Sometimes he calls people by their names every other sentence, which gets really annoying. One of our customers even got really mad and asked him to stop saying her name so often. People know about the positive effect of using names and start to feel manipulated or patronized if you use their names too often in one conversation.
Ye, tbh reading this made me remember the times that I basically do that here and there, although I have no ill intention usually when doing this. I understand why it can be annoying. 8)
I almost never use peoples names in conversations other than to initiate or get their attention because of this. I typically don’t trust people if they use my name more than once or twice in a conversation
It is actually better to not try to make friemds actively. Let it happen without intervention. Most people are the type you really do not want to know. Why chance meeting that type of person. Not making an active effort to make friends gets a lot less people to talk to you, thus less undersireables. The very few that will talk to you first will be a lot less likely to be undesireables, though they will still be many of them. Should it happen that nobody starts a conversation with you, that is good also. If you have no friends, you will gain incredible benefits in the form of extreme self-reliance, resourcefulness, independence, freedom, and resilience that no social person could ever match. Either way, you win. Since I am ugly, taking the passive approach to making friends did not yield any potential friendships. Nobody wants to be seen with an ugly person, whether for a friend or boyfriend / girlfriend. Thus, I was not approached. But, I gained the enormous benefits I mentioned. So, it is okay.
lol, I completely understand you, but, something that actually works for me is look the positive things, you can be in a certain way ironic too it'll works
I was told by a certain person who I deemed a friend that I’m a wayyy too happy person and that was the reason why I was avoided by the shops ☹️ so sometimes people just prefer negative energy and it’s not at all your fault ✌🏼
Yup. Psych2Go's animator Evelvaii is easter-egging SAD-ist, the animator who made the now-famous super bishi short for that $100,000 Techno v Dream battle earlier this year. Nearly ten million views since September! Totally deserved!
Same with me....I'm a introvert.....usually a quiet person....I give people first chance to speak...but I think people don't want to be around me cause they think I don't talk cause I don't have any thing to talk...more like I'm boring
For the people who do more listening than talking in person its ok to voice up and talk about yourselves too. You should remember that you matter. Your opinion, voice, thought, action, feelings and health matter.
I’m an extrovert but I’m super nervous about going to junior high bc I’m going to be moving away and I’m scared that I can’t make friends. This video really helped
I’m going to high school in the next semester, and I’m a really introverted person, and I feel pretty alone sometimes. Hopefully, these tips will help me in high school :)
Wow, that introduction is me on so many levels. I tend to focus on one person that I want to be friends with, then end up missing out on loads of people that I could build relationships with
I just realized that I always do all of the mentioned things but people still don't like me and tend to judge me before even knowing me. This truly breaks my heart..
Same. Well. Almost. They all probably don't always judge me before knowing me. But the judgemental society throurough the years partially made me paranoid about what people think and now I'm even more closed in myself (was already introverted) and avoiding others. At least I'm glad it somehow keeps magnetising me to people who really don't judge others like that and thanks to that I became friends with few wonderful people. Sorry for shitty english, I'm from Alpha Centauri :P
Yeah I've met people like that. They usually think like you are trying to suck up to them tho. That's what happened in my highscool where I had fake friends and I was being all goody goody to them just to stay in the circle OTL. Don't do that.
Extras- - Constantly ask how they’re doing - Show then you appreciate them - try to remember things like their birthday, zodiac, last name, and etc. (It’ll show that you payed attention)
Even tho I got anxiety, I love giving compliments to strangers! It always makes them smile and I can tell that they are happy even when it's just a tiny moment. When I was at my workplace a girl came up to me and said that she loved my hair colour. I was so happy that I smiled for almost the rest of my work time!
Yes I once lost my bag at a store and was freaking out but when I was asking a girl if she’s seen it she said no but she thought my outfit was cute the first and only complement I’ve gotten in public and it’s been like 1-2 years and still remember it
Me too, I get really enthusiastic if someone initiates a conversation about something I can relate to or that I'm interested in, and often forget to let them talk... This has meant people unfairly brand me as "arrogant" :(
I have autistic family members and I love them deeply. They have gifts I wish I had. I hope you find a community but I also hope you know you're amazing and have a lot to offer the world.
Remember their names and use a person's name in greetings and goodbyes. It's such a simple thing but SO SO important!! Plus listen to what someone is saying with genuine interest. Knowing these basic tips has held me in good stead all through my life ..
This was friendship advice, dating advice, and interview advice all in one 10minute video! I love Psych2go, you ladies always state things so gently and purely, and I appreciate you and this channel very much
This eased my nerves so much. I'm going for my training shift at a new job tomorrow and I'll be buddying up with someone the whole time - hearing that people actually prefer flaws to perfection made me feel so much better. Thank you!
Definitely relatable! The idea of using someone's name or letting them talk about themselves might seem small, but it really creates a strong connection. I remember trying out these tips, especially giving genuine compliments and staying positive-it’s amazing how people warm up to you! These techniques feel like a kind of Sense of Humor Improvement Program for making friends because they bring out the best in people. Excited to try more of these and make new connections!
food for thought: we all have worries in common, and those can cancel each other out food for thought 2: setting boundaries doesnt make you unlikable, it shows that youre strong and cool B) people will respect you more too if you show them that you respect yourself. so set boundaries always.
I love this. I do this anyway. I just give people random compliments wherever i go. If I love someones hair, I tell them. If they are wearing a pretty dress, same. That could be the nicest thing somebody said to them in a while 🙏🏻
Spend more time around the people you're hoping to befriend. Compliment other people. Try to display positive emotions. Be warm and competent. Reveal your flaws from time to time.👍
I am really like this . Till now i had no idea why people were drawn to me even when i was awfully quiet . Moral of the story : even when your quiet these options will definitely work for you . Dont forget to give compliment to them , never hide your mistakes and just be yourself you will eventually become a happy person 😊❤
The “calling them by their name” is very good I realised whenever i get called by my name by a girl its so much better than just suddenly talking to me.
I found it is more relatable to people who made mistakes, even sinned, yet owned up to their failures and made great efforts to improve. This make me respect them even more. My secondary school head teacher was like my role model. When she shared with my momn I and her students about what she did wrong and how she overcame those failures, I respect her even more.
There’s this girl I like, and I watched one of these videos and heard that you should ask them questions about themselves, because like you said, people like talking about themselves. It’s been about a week now and I can already notice she’s wanting to spend more time around me.
The haveing flaws thing definitely really matters because I once got a reallybad score in French and the boy next to me saw I was upset and put his hand on my shoulder😍.that day instantly got 10 times better. Lol 😆
I've been told I'm a boring person- Sister: bts got nominated for a grammy! Me: that's nice. Sister: I'm having a bad day today Me: that sucks. She's not wrong. I'm a boring person.
Your not boring, I felt like I was boring and it was because I wasnt interested in what ppl were talking about and I responded with very simple answers. Nobody is boring, when they are talking about something they are interested in
OMG!!! Kudos for the artist of this video. Susie, Derrick and everything is so cute! Especially when Susie is slow walking towards Derrick and falls!! That's me EVERY SINGLE TIME I try to impress someone. Love and more love to everyone.
I think it might also be admirable if the person is always trying to improve; you can't be perfect but you can be your best! You made a lot of great points! Awesome video!
I try to binge every episode of this channel because I think there is hope for me, but I am just wasting my time because people will hate me no matter what. However I don’t regret watching these, as her voice is very soothing.
With the compliment thing I never really thought about it I said them sometimes but not much. Recently someone complimented my eyes even though I didn't know them that well and I have found myself thinking about that for ages whenever I feel sad. I have now started trying to compliment at least 5 people a day :)
Compliment are so underrated. Some 10 years ago, a random kid shouted at me at a bus stop "You're hair is awesome!". I used to have this big, black mohawk back then. It totally made my day, and I sometimes still think back to that. I also remember seeing this girl (at a bus stop again) who had this purple/pink/yellow gradient hair color. And it looked so cool! When she walked over, I tried to summon the courage to tell her that I liked her hair, but then notices she was wearing ear-buds. And I ended up not saying anything.. But I really want to be better at complimenting others.
Validation is like money in the bank. If you don't have any, nobody will give it to you. If you have a lot of it, people are lining up to give it to you. Switch it on its head and say instead "I don't need the approval of other people. Other people need my approval." It sounds arrogant but honestly, it means that you start to validate yourself. You start thinking "You know what, I'm not that bad really." Try it out and see how people react to you. Just don't tell them this is what you're thinking.
“There will always be someone who can’t see your worth. Don’t let it be you.” 🙏🏽
We are our worst enemy 😔
@@Dayserking and our best allies
Ouch
Too late....
My mum and my crush
"They wanna see you're human."
Aliens:
-Noted.
blue kinda sus
Ngl well said
@@blackroberts6290 no
O.O B-But I am not an alien (mind: Oh no, Almost busted my cover. O.O)
lol
Imagine shifting the narrative of “will they like me?” to “will I like them?” 🤔
Yes maybe I'll dont like them 👉🏻👈🏻🤣
Yeah! That's a good way to approach that.
@@thewriteinpresident wtf
Ugh ikr ;-; 💔
*Mind blown*
1. Call them by their name/say their name.
2. Give genuine spontaneous compliments.
3. Spend time with them/have a quick chat/develop familiarity.
4. You don't have to be or look perfect, nobody is perfect and people don't really care that much. Keeping it real may be more attractive.
5. Positives first, only show negativity when needed.
6. Actively listen, let others talk.
7. Be you!
Thank you! ❤
Here’s all the tips if ya want (:
1. Call them by their name
2: Give genuine compliments when they across your mind
3. Spend more time with them
4. You don’t need to be perfect, so stop acting as if you are.
5. look to the positive first
6. You actively listen and let others talk about themselves too
Thank you so much!
i actually hate my real life name. so, whenever someone calls me I think it's something bad. my name is cursed.
Thanks SuperRguy3000! :-)
:]
@@mellowblueu awww. If you hate it that much, is there a nickname you can go by?
I like the fact that this is one of the few communities of UA-cam that are non-toxic 😌
True
yeah
Ya I can name a couple others that are chill for different reasons.
Moist critical, jshlaght. And every other comedian UA-camr. every thing is a joke. Dont recommend if you have e strong opinions about something.
Cocomelon. Pink pong. And nursery rhyme makers.
Most videos dont have commentary but the ones that do are mainly parents thanking them for helping crying children.
And math related videos.
Some teachers suck. So if you stumble across these guys they probably saved your grade.
👍
Yes I've found too tho that the tropical fish keeping community on yt are very nice and friendly too check it out maybe best wishes to you and family 🙂
Me when I was 5: Making friends with people.
13 yo me: not able to socialize unless someone starts a conversation.
Same
Same😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
starting a conversation is low key kinda hard
People are more likely to care about what others think of them during teenage years:) it's completely normal!
I have no idea what happened!! Same
"people who are happier make people happy just by being next to them"
that just warmed up my heart, i have never felt more confident being myself! thank you very much
You rock!
You're awesome!
You're the best!
You're the bestest!
“At age 20, we worry about what others think of us. At age 40, we don’t care what they think of us. At age 60, we discover they haven’t been thinking of us at all.”
i must be 60...
Well I dont care and know that they dont care what the others think about me at all :D
I guess I hit the jeckpot on the xp :D
True lol
I have skipped a good 40 years ahead
I’m 17 but apparently I’m 60 😂
How is no one is talking about how beautiful her voice is!?
who cares
{POV: did I , a nobody ,just start
a war in the comment section because of a hate comment. People truly have so much time to waste nowadays!! None can just ignore)
Literally in every video there's some guy says : why is no one talking about the great voice '
Dude. YOU are THE one.
Because-
Society: *SIMP!!*
@@danishdubey bruh her voice is calming
Voice of an angel, honestly.
I'm shipping Susi and Derrick they are cute as hell together 🥺🥺
Yes!
Yes 😭💖
Thank GOODNESS I'm not the only one. I felt I was being weird lol😂😅
Would'nt it be really cute finding Susi and Derrick in another Psych2go Video?😍
Yesssssss
If anyone else is like me and trying to change from an introverted person into an extroverted person in order to become more interesting to others and make friends definitely follow the tips about being positive and actively listening to others. These two have definitely been helping me quite a bit lately when meeting new people or even in current relationships
You don’t have to be extroverted to become more interesting :) I’m personally an introvert but I have made many friends as time went by you could say I’m a loud introvert, don’t change urself to make others like u, yes u can improve on yourself if you feel the need to but the best people come for the real u it’s great that the tips have helped u, but please please don’t change urself just to make friends sorry for this I just felt like saying it 😅
Exactly, being an introvert doesn’t mean you have to be bad with social skills or the like, it just means your personality and stuff is different, plus no one is really completely an introvert or extrovert of course
YESS FR THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT IM DOING
Trying to change who you are is just the stupid of stupid. You can improve on your flaws and try to change for better but why change the someone you took literally your entire life until now to build? You don't need to force changes, time will do it for you.
What you're trying to do is to have a mental breakdown, I think you're not far from it.
"The person you end up sitting next to might be your best friend!"
Me sitting at the wall: Ok, good to know.
Walls are very loyal, they never leave! You'll have a best friend for life!
@@makotonaegi7649 me next year in a new class: so long my loyal wall, i will always remember you...
@@makotonaegi7649 omg it's you... Makoto... you're here
@@makotonaegi7649 unless they get "killed" or the school was changing the wall or maybe they are constructing it to become a building or something
lmao this is so sad
Introverts like me: *Write that down, write that down!*
Yes
There is a chance u might like me instantly because i read your comment
OK that was funny I'm a little introverted I'm social but I get burnt out easily and like my alone time I'm glad my school friends know that and let me be alone when I need it
yesyesyes
Why must you call me out
The “call them by their name” thing- i legit thought about this yesterday, when people call me by my name it makes me feel as though they care about and like me more so that makes me like _them_ more, its so true
Waveii I totally agree with you and this reminded me of my ex who didn't call me by my name, so I asked him if he knew it one day! He did call me bub, which I thought was a special nickname, until I found out that he said it to many women, even ones he didn't know. I'm so glad he's an ex now and I won't go into the many other reasons why that's the case. 🙂
@@cyndigooch1162 how in the world was he ur bf if he didn't even know ur name?!!
@@saswatmishra5644 she forgot duh
9 times out of 10 I just get startled when someone says my name. I am really really jumpy.
I need to practice I just call my crush bestie bcs we r besties
A tip for #6:
Repeat what they say back to them.
This not only confirms that you haven't misheard anything, but also lets them know that you have been paying attention
A compliment goes a loooong way! When someone compliments me, I’m happy the rest of the day and honestly I remember it for a long time!!! Compliments don’t come very often so when it does, I definitely cherish it
I'm gonna guess that you like words of affirmation?
Gosh, that's the same case with me.
@@tommygunn6901 mhmmm!
@@sugarandpie9123 ya but I would say I’m pretty good at giving people compliments!!!
@@SamElle good to know 😊
I personally react to hearing my name in a conversation across the room as a survival instinct. I'm not flattered - I'm fearful about what they might be saying. I can't be the only one who feels this way...
Nope, I'm with you there. It always makes me anxious to hear my name anywhere far from me, especially since my name isn't really a common one so it's most likely me they're talking about. Is it good stuff? Is it bad?
Well I'll never know, I'm too shy to ask
Yeah this happened to me a couple days ago
TRUE
Same
exactly it gaves me anxiety instead haha buit what about if it is your crush does that means he is tying to get your attention or just put you in the friendzone?
As an introvert who struggles making friends, this is very helpful
while im here a introvert with too many people trying to be my friends or get close to me want to switch?
Same
@@evlysian7670 I was just about to say the same thing. I am also an introvert who attracts people and I hate it😄 Im not looking for new friends nor for attention from others yet the more I runaway from it the more it chaces me😕😂
Me too
@Khunsha Mir aww thanks:)) I hope you have good luck with friends too!
Having ADHD makes it feel difficult to fit in
But recently I’ve been watching a few of these videos and now I’m feeling much better about myself and made myself some new friends
"call them by their name"
me, who can't remember names at all:
I have this weird thing where I ask someone's name and I DONT LISTEN. so I can't remember. It's the weirdest thing. No matter if I'm aware and I try to listen I still don't.
A little trick I learnt is after they say their name you repeat it in your next sentence like "I'm Connie" "Nice to meet you Connie. I'm Harriet" for instance. That way your brain registers the name properly.
I can remember names but when it’s certain people
Me who can't remember what I did and hour ago
@@rosytellez21 I can somewhat relate but when I ask people their name I pay attention but I don't hear what they said and I don't want to ask them to repeat it cuz it's awkward 😂😂
"Call them by their name"
Me, who can't remember names unless you tell it to me 10 times or made an impression: **chuckles** I'm in danger
(2)
Amen.
Why did i read it as the chorus for montero
It can help that as soon as they tell you their name, you immediately start using in around them :)
@@jumanahidris7432 Thanks, I'll do that next time I need to :)
Agreed-
I’m not here watching this not just to make new friends. But to be a better friend. Everyone gets stressed once in a while and that’s how I’ve been and I realized I wasn’t acting as nice as I usually do. I’m going to try to implement talking about positive things and giving compliments more often
Aye that’s some good character development
Good job my baby! I’m so very proud of you! God bless uu cutie mwah!
i had the same thing. Bur for me its too late bc i already lost my 2 best friends bc of that :(
@@JS-td7dg don’t worry! You got this at least you changed for the better! You’re still amazing regardless:$
That’s good, I hope you can be the person you want to be
As an introvert, I see method 6 as a win
Same lol
I was literally acting out conversations with people in my head and how to make people like me more than I already am this video suddenly popped up lol
omfggg
Law of attraction! 😻🎊🙏
Me too
I also do the same, acting out conversations in my head especially with my crush 😆😳
When someone asks me. “So tell me about yourself”....
Me: *panics because I forgot who I am* uhhhhhh....
The amount of times this had happened to me I swear
I'm glad I'm not the only one
Ikr. But I guess it's because the question itself is sooo weird. How am I supposed to know where to start and what to say when my knowledge of myself is so broad. It's a little like I have to spontaneously make a speech in class >.
Fr, i Don't know who am I
Ikr how am supposed to answer that anyway? 😑
I honestly feel weird when someone calls me by my name when I haven’t personally met them. If you haven’t talked to them or they haven’t told you their name. Please ask before you call them by their name or say “Your name is (blank) right?”. Just my advice for making the first tip work without creeping them out.
Well that makes you unapproachable. Especially if you make a face when they are trying to be friendly.
@@KanaYukino it’s not like I’m mean about it. Someone I had never met before called me by my name. Would you not be uncomfortable if that happened? I don’t get mad at them, I just feel weird.
@@KanaYukino sometimes when someone you've never seen before calls you by your name out of nowhere, it can be somewhat unsettling
I think the video focuses on getting the people you already know / who know you like your classmates or co workers, I think that is actually a good tactic to get people to like you . But ofcourse, random people calling you by name can be a bit unsettling especially if you haven't introduced urself to them or aren't familiar with them .
@Unknown550 you must be great at parties
It's pretty hard to improve my social anxiety but I'm slowly working on it and I see improvement.
I changed my class at school bcs I was very unhappy where I was. People here are nice and friendly and my best friend noticed that I'm more relaxed now. I'm happy that I'm changing for the better and it's all thanks to my amazing classmates! I never had such nice classmates🥰I'm even afraid of the day we are gonna go to our own paths.. But at least I can anjoy the time we have left togheter🥰
As an introverted person having to “spend time with others” or having someone, spontaneously ask me out for coffee is something I only see in my worse nightmares....
Im an introverted too and this is so true like while they're asking me i act normally but in my brain im like: PANIC
Me too!!
Literally so much anxiety and just bad feels.
Then you feel bad for not going, but you know you'd feel worse if you did.
All of that sounds nice but it’s really hard to make friends, in class especially. Everyone already has friends and when i want to join a conversation i always feel like I’m just bothering them
same
I was in a similar situation when i was younger, I found out later that people-for whatever reason-found me intimidating.
Perhaps it’s the same for you. Try to show you aren’t
The trick is making what you have to say worth the bother :) if you have something funny or intriguing to add to the conversation, people won’t mind the bother and might actually like you more for being brave and interjecting :)
Also, a good trick for becoming a part of a conversation is to laugh at something funny they’re saying. If you laugh, it tells them you were listening but that it wasn’t in a negative manner. They won’t think of your eavesdropping as a bad thing. They might even direct their next joke at you, since they know you find them funny.
Something that I used to do is when the person is alone I try to go make an excuse on why I'm with them like you need a partner or you need help on something. Also once you get the hang of it just approach a new person and introduce yourself.
*I can see a growing romance between Susie and Derrick.*
😂yes😂
haha fr
Tru
lol sussy
The blush and hearts gives it away :3
8:00 THIS! This is also great dating advice. Especially if you're still in the getting-to-know-each-other-phase or on dating apps. Never has someone been more dislikable if they only answer your questions and never ask any of their own
I HATE hearing my name. It makes my stomach turn and I start sweating and laughing nervously. I wonder if it has to do with people saying my name only when I was in trouble, as a kid.
I'm changing my name.
I changed mine for this reason, I recommend it for real. good luck!
Same, I go by a nickname since freshman year and rarely go by my real name. When people call me by my real name it feels odd..and i'm in trouble.
Heal your trauma 💚
don't change your name
Sorry bout that. I get so annoyed when a new person I meet calls me Karen and then puts the stereotype of a Karen on me. First of all, that’s not even my name! And second, I don’t act anything like a Karen, I’m a fricken teenager...
Fair warning: be a little careful about that name thing. One of my colleagues overoes that. Sometimes he calls people by their names every other sentence, which gets really annoying. One of our customers even got really mad and asked him to stop saying her name so often. People know about the positive effect of using names and start to feel manipulated or patronized if you use their names too often in one conversation.
Ye, tbh reading this made me remember the times that I basically do that here and there, although I have no ill intention usually when doing this. I understand why it can be annoying. 8)
I have found it best to use it once or twice to get there attention and leave it at that
I almost never use peoples names in conversations other than to initiate or get their attention because of this. I typically don’t trust people if they use my name more than once or twice in a conversation
It is actually better to not try to make friemds actively. Let it happen without intervention. Most people are the type you really do not want to know. Why chance meeting that type of person. Not making an active effort to make friends gets a lot less people to talk to you, thus less undersireables. The very few that will talk to you first will be a lot less likely to be undesireables, though they will still be many of them. Should it happen that nobody starts a conversation with you, that is good also. If you have no friends, you will gain incredible benefits in the form of extreme self-reliance, resourcefulness, independence, freedom, and resilience that no social person could ever match. Either way, you win. Since I am ugly, taking the passive approach to making friends did not yield any potential friendships. Nobody wants to be seen with an ugly person, whether for a friend or boyfriend / girlfriend. Thus, I was not approached. But, I gained the enormous benefits I mentioned. So, it is okay.
trying to get someone’s attention is a good chance to use their name such as saying “i like your shoes, [name]” or “hey, [name]!”
“Others love to be around people who are happy”
Welp guess I’m not making any friends
lol, I completely understand you, but, something that actually works for me is look the positive things, you can be in a certain way ironic too it'll works
Yep. Same :')
I feel the same way as you
@Profile Name f*ck money, make friends
Me neither
I was told by a certain person who I deemed a friend that I’m a wayyy too happy person and that was the reason why I was avoided by the shops ☹️ so sometimes people just prefer negative energy and it’s not at all your fault ✌🏼
Just wanna point out, that this video has one of the best romance plots than actual films
3:47 is that techno and dream
Yes.
Yesssss!
Y e s s s
Yes, yes it is.
Yup. Psych2Go's animator Evelvaii is easter-egging SAD-ist, the animator who made the now-famous super bishi short for that $100,000 Techno v Dream battle earlier this year. Nearly ten million views since September! Totally deserved!
omg i'm loving the chemistry between derrick and susie here, LOVE IT
As others have mentioned, your voice is very calming, and it makes people (in my opinion) much more open! Thank you for making this video!
can I just say Susie is absolutely adorable I can't- 🥺💗
IKR I think I have a girlcrush. ...orrr an actual crush lol I think I’ve been in quarantine for too long 😅
As guy yes she is adorable
Psych2Go: don't talk too much
Me: doesn't talk too much!
People: Why are you so boring??
why are you so quiet im the only one talking
That's one of my problems too 😞
Beware the quiet man. For while others speak, he watched. And while others act, he plans. And when they finally rest… he strikes.
Same with me....I'm a introvert.....usually a quiet person....I give people first chance to speak...but I think people don't want to be around me cause they think I don't talk cause I don't have any thing to talk...more like I'm boring
@@ShivangiVerma11 omg same here.
my introverted, shy, socially akward ass after watching this: oh yeah, i perfectly know that i'm *not gonna do any one of these.*
Felt that xD
yoo.. same here
Ok, you PERFECT HUMAN BEING 😕😕😕😕😕😕 bruh, why don't u just SPILL THE COFFEE BRO!?
@@ti-fi1qx 😀?
@@ti-fi1qx excuse me?
For the people who do more listening than talking in person its ok to voice up and talk about yourselves too. You should remember that you matter. Your opinion, voice, thought, action, feelings and health matter.
This video:
Sociopaths: *write that down write that down*
this, but unironicaly
Hi welcome to my school where everyone is a sociopath
sToP PErSonALly AtTacKinG mEeeeEeeeeEeEEEEEEEEE
Don't forget the rest of the dark triad, you can practically hear them scribbling down notes in the distance.
😂
"We like our names"
Everyone who dislikes their name: Am I a joke to you?
_when you get called by your dead name_ ;-;
Ikr, haha
My parents got my name from a hooters calendar 😬✌🏼
Dude the guy named Dick Thunder must love his name
Lol me
Me: see's Dream and Technoblade on the poster
Also me: "Wait a minute-"
OMG IM NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICED THAT
Glad I'm not the only one who noticed
Noticed it right off the bat
i thought it was fnaf 4 AND dream for some reason
IM NOT A L O N E, Y E S!!!!!
I’m an extrovert but I’m super nervous about going to junior high bc I’m going to be moving away and I’m scared that I can’t make friends. This video really helped
3:46 *YO THAT REFERENCE*
IKR
IKKKK
Yyeeaaaahhh they made in hehehe
Yeahhhh it’s crazyyyyy!!
YASSSSS I KNOWWW
Listening to Amanda's voice after a long day of being a mentally unstable just warms my heart , especially with such a great video topic and examples
#METOO
I’m going to high school in the next semester, and I’m a really introverted person, and I feel pretty alone sometimes. Hopefully, these tips will help me in high school :)
same🥲
Good luck!
I feel you, man😔🤚
Mee too introvert but i like to.be alone.
Go get em man
It is not the behavior. It is the feeling that comes behind the behavior. This is so accurate!
Wow, that introduction is me on so many levels.
I tend to focus on one person that I want to be friends with, then end up missing out on loads of people that I could build relationships with
What I learned from this: spill coffee at the end of my next job interview
Hahaha. I'm just not sure if spilling the coffee is the best idea, mostly when your boss is a berserker type.
Anyone with REAL cojones will spill the coffee before, during, and after the interview
@@onebadapple5053 this chaotic energy 😂😂😂
Not if you are applying for barista..
@@mirrailieva1111 lol
3:49 “men in masks”
That’s Technoblade and Dream
....in Psych2Go form
i have successfully found an mcyt enjoyer, perhaps? Was going to comment something similar!
I was searching the comments for anyone to mention it ya know?
I don't blame you for misspelling sych2go, it took me a while to spell phihc2go.
I was scrolling to see if anyone caught that XD
Edit: always great to see a fellow myct fan.
@@ember11 same
Holy ***! I watch these all the time but this is the first time they really helped me understand people's view on me. I love this channel ❤
I just realized that I always do all of the mentioned things but people still don't like me and tend to judge me before even knowing me. This truly breaks my heart..
Same. Well. Almost. They all probably don't always judge me before knowing me. But the judgemental society throurough the years partially made me paranoid about what people think and now I'm even more closed in myself (was already introverted) and avoiding others. At least I'm glad it somehow keeps magnetising me to people who really don't judge others like that and thanks to that I became friends with few wonderful people. Sorry for shitty english, I'm from Alpha Centauri :P
Welcome to the decent human beings club.
this happen to me .. they r just jealous dobt be friend with them ... happen to me they dont want to be my friend just cz my father rich
@@someguyintheuniverse415 I feel honored 😊
Yeah I've met people like that. They usually think like you are trying to suck up to them tho. That's what happened in my highscool where I had fake friends and I was being all goody goody to them just to stay in the circle OTL. Don't do that.
The Techno vs. Dream reference was wonderful and I'm here for it
yep i read this when it came lol
The one comment that I was looking for
@@Craazygirl same
Ok so I'm not the only one who noticed:)
I just gasped I just watched techno
Extras-
- Constantly ask how they’re doing
- Show then you appreciate them
- try to remember things like their birthday, zodiac, last name, and etc.
(It’ll show that you payed attention)
Even tho I got anxiety, I love giving compliments to strangers!
It always makes them smile and I can tell that they are happy even when it's just a tiny moment.
When I was at my workplace a girl came up to me and said that she loved my hair colour. I was so happy that I smiled for almost the rest of my work time!
Yes I once lost my bag at a store and was freaking out but when I was asking a girl if she’s seen it she said no but she thought my outfit was cute the first and only complement I’ve gotten in public and it’s been like 1-2 years and still remember it
I’m autistic and struggle with making friends
Me to! As an autistic I became better at making friends from the past few years.
Me too, I get really enthusiastic if someone initiates a conversation about something I can relate to or that I'm interested in, and often forget to let them talk... This has meant people unfairly brand me as "arrogant" :(
Same :(
I have autistic family members and I love them deeply. They have gifts I wish I had. I hope you find a community but I also hope you know you're amazing and have a lot to offer the world.
I'm also autistic and you're not alone
This video: * Exists *
My single, lonely self: _Well if that isn't what I need then-_
[Y] S ame
"The algorithm knows best"
@@waffleman4566 A very wise quote
Lol
Remember their names and use a person's name in greetings and goodbyes. It's such a simple thing but SO SO important!!
Plus listen to what someone is saying with genuine interest. Knowing these basic tips has held me in good stead all through my life ..
This was friendship advice, dating advice, and interview advice all in one 10minute video!
I love Psych2go, you ladies always state things so gently and purely, and I appreciate you and this channel very much
This eased my nerves so much. I'm going for my training shift at a new job tomorrow and I'll be buddying up with someone the whole time - hearing that people actually prefer flaws to perfection made me feel so much better. Thank you!
How was It?
How have you been?
Who else thinks her voice sounds so soothing
Definitely relatable! The idea of using someone's name or letting them talk about themselves might seem small, but it really creates a strong connection. I remember trying out these tips, especially giving genuine compliments and staying positive-it’s amazing how people warm up to you!
These techniques feel like a kind of Sense of Humor Improvement Program for making friends because they bring out the best in people. Excited to try more of these and make new connections!
Hey stranger , hope u have a nice day.
Thank u, u too
Thx man
Hey Aditya, have a nice day too!
This deserves to be the best comment in here. You have an even nicer day
Merci, toi aussi!. (You too)
People: "Why are you so quiet?"
Me: "I have nothing to talk about".
Always works.
(God dayum so many likes)
Its always good to be honest
Lol
I said that to a dude that I never talk to and he just said: Oof
@@jjphillips2648 Having a stroke buddy?
Ha!! My hubby never talks to people he don't know. He's quiet around strangers.🤷♀️
food for thought: we all have worries in common, and those can cancel each other out
food for thought 2: setting boundaries doesnt make you unlikable, it shows that youre strong and cool B)
people will respect you more too if you show them that you respect yourself. so set boundaries always.
I love this.
I do this anyway.
I just give people random compliments wherever i go.
If I love someones hair, I tell them.
If they are wearing a pretty dress, same.
That could be the nicest thing somebody said to them in a while 🙏🏻
Spend more time around the people you're hoping to befriend.
Compliment other people.
Try to display positive emotions.
Be warm and competent.
Reveal your flaws from time to time.👍
I like ur pfp and name lol
I don’t need someone to like me first I’ll have to learn to not just like but love my self ❤️
Your voice is an "Anti-depressant"!! i can listen to you all day!!!
I am really like this . Till now i had no idea why people were drawn to me even when i was awfully quiet . Moral of the story : even when your quiet these options will definitely work for you . Dont forget to give compliment to them , never hide your mistakes and just be yourself you will eventually become a happy person 😊❤
Hmmm that movie poster looks oddly familiar..
“Battle of the men in masks” tbh a real movie on the Dream and Technoblade battle would be real sick!
*Yes*
The “calling them by their name” is very good
I realised whenever i get called by my name by a girl its so much better than just suddenly talking to me.
I will try this
Edit: I got called simp
Jfisjdhds
This is a most unfortunate outcome.
Lmao, sorry to hear though.
Bro who the fuck would call a nice dude trying to get along a simp like wha???? Dw bro u good
*Same*
It motivated me to be more positive person. Thanks a bunch❤
compliment people as the thought crosses your mind:
me when you are around your crush: *aha, no.*
I compliment people as it crosses my mind because I'm a nervous wreck and my brain starts running out of words
hell yeah, i'm gonna spill coffee at every friggin job interview
U go get em i bet every company will be dying to hire you
This is the only channel I feel like I can be open to. And seriously. That's true for me
Your voice is like so calming and angelic
3:47 me immediately: DREAM AND TECHNOBLADE
YASSSSSS
ME TOOOO-
meee toooooo
YES
Yo I saw that too
Call people by their names. Depends on who’s talking. Absolutely cringe when a salesperson calls me by my first name. Instant hate.
So true.
How would they know your first name
I guess thats why this is focusing on friends...
Yeah but I just hate salespeople in general. So fucking annoying.
*Instant karate chop
I found it is more relatable to people who made mistakes, even sinned, yet owned up to their failures and made great efforts to improve. This make me respect them even more. My secondary school head teacher was like my role model. When she shared with my momn I and her students about what she did wrong and how she overcame those failures, I respect her even more.
There’s this girl I like, and I watched one of these videos and heard that you should ask them questions about themselves, because like you said, people like talking about themselves. It’s been about a week now and I can already notice she’s wanting to spend more time around me.
How i made new friends when school started: I talked to them, stayed around them, they talked to me, damn we're both weirdos, we friends.
Bro your prof pic is literally the Austrian Painter
Artwork 😌 👍 love it! Keep using it!
I found that I like people with interesting flaws, mainly mental flaws because I don’t care how anyone looks
If they have an amazing personality, but they look like an ogre... you're not gonna be around them.... you can't deny it.
It's not hard to make friends, it's hard to keep them
The haveing flaws thing definitely really matters because I once got a reallybad score in French and the boy next to me saw I was upset and put his hand on my shoulder😍.that day instantly got 10 times better. Lol 😆
I've been told I'm a boring person-
Sister: bts got nominated for a grammy!
Me: that's nice.
Sister: I'm having a bad day today
Me: that sucks.
She's not wrong. I'm a boring person.
No you're not boring. We just have different social tastes.
Your not boring, I felt like I was boring and it was because I wasnt interested in what ppl were talking about and I responded with very simple answers. Nobody is boring, when they are talking about something they are interested in
My so called “ Best Friend “ said that I’m boring because I don’t wear eyeliner. It’s not my fault I can only draw on a flat surface!!!!!!
Nobody who has attained 69 likes could never be boring
I do that too and I always think I'm boring.
OMG!!! Kudos for the artist of this video. Susie, Derrick and everything is so cute! Especially when Susie is slow walking towards Derrick and falls!! That's me EVERY SINGLE TIME I try to impress someone. Love and more love to everyone.
I think it might also be admirable if the person is always trying to improve; you can't be perfect but you can be your best!
You made a lot of great points! Awesome video!
I try to binge every episode of this channel because I think there is hope for me, but I am just wasting my time because people will hate me no matter what. However I don’t regret watching these, as her voice is very soothing.
With the compliment thing I never really thought about it I said them sometimes but not much. Recently someone complimented my eyes even though I didn't know them that well and I have found myself thinking about that for ages whenever I feel sad. I have now started trying to compliment at least 5 people a day :)
“Call me by your nameeee” and “that is a great film”
Oh god I’m dying.
and the peach reference 💀
Compliment are so underrated. Some 10 years ago, a random kid shouted at me at a bus stop "You're hair is awesome!". I used to have this big, black mohawk back then. It totally made my day, and I sometimes still think back to that.
I also remember seeing this girl (at a bus stop again) who had this purple/pink/yellow gradient hair color. And it looked so cool! When she walked over, I tried to summon the courage to tell her that I liked her hair, but then notices she was wearing ear-buds. And I ended up not saying anything.. But I really want to be better at complimenting others.
I.ill try them all thank you so much for all the amazing videos
"Do people like me...?"
Ask myself that every day.
I'm asking it to myself too but usually i can't answer it
Validation is like money in the bank. If you don't have any, nobody will give it to you. If you have a lot of it, people are lining up to give it to you.
Switch it on its head and say instead "I don't need the approval of other people. Other people need my approval." It sounds arrogant but honestly, it means that you start to validate yourself. You start thinking "You know what, I'm not that bad really." Try it out and see how people react to you.
Just don't tell them this is what you're thinking.
@@AutomaticDuck300 ok.
Yeah..I wonder the same thing every day..😌😔
Well, at least I know the answer!
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