The idea that men are perceived as less attractive when they smile is strange to me. I’m a woman and I find it really cute when men smile. I was talking to a guy I like just yesterday and he had a big smile on his face and I thought it was adorable.
aaa fr though cause when the guy I like smiles at me I see it as he’s enjoying my company and our conversations, why would I ever NOT like that?! I crack a joke and he smiles, thats attractive AF. guys, smile more. because to the people that matter, you arent any less attractive for doing so.
I finally got the courage to ask someone else out. She rejected me (not surprised), but she did so in the most polite way EVER. I've never been let go so gently in my life. The harsh rejections were why I stopped trying for so long, but this rejection made me have some hope again. People, please hear me out. If you're going to reject someone, do so with kindness (unless they're actually a jerk or something). No need to lie about anything either.
Define “polite” please… I rejected someone recently (over text) and I need to know if saying that I pm not interested because I physically can’t is good
@@Sentient-potato As in, not in an arrogant way. Like she didn't use it as some way to belittle me or give herself a power trip. She smiled and said "no thanks," but then still talked to me like a friend for a bit. Her rejection didn't make it feel like I was denied because I was a lame person or anything. I never bothered her after that and we went our separate ways, but I didn't feel embarrassed or anything. That's what I mean.
My crush rejected me about a year ago. He was really nice about it though. He even said that it was mostly due to his family members who likely wouldn't accept us dating each other. He explained that there was a lot about his identity he has to hide from them and wasn't ready to deal with any potential challenges that would cause if he were to be more open with it. Which is fair, because I'm honestly worried about the same thing with my folks. But man, I'd've died for that mf. Hope he's doing well.
@hemant jain just make sure she's comfortable around you and be yourself! Make jokes together, laugh at each other but try not to offend her lol. And do smile once yall have reached that level of comfort with each other. There's no way that she'll find this creepy.
For all the guys out there, make sure you aren't just acting 'cool and mysterious' to make them like you. If its ever gonna work out between you, being yourself is the most attractive thing you can do. Go for it! Just be yourself, and I don't care how cheesy that is. Please please don't sacrifice your personality just for a crush. 💗💗
@@tapioca255in my own opinion it can be a mix of both. So long as you're at a point that you won't be letting self insecurity get in the way of how you feel about the relationship then it's fine to work on yourself while in a healthy and stable relationship! I hope this was somewhat helpful :)
For some reason, we both have the right approach. We find humor in our awkwardness. Just the slightest touch or brush on her arm or shoulder is enough. And a hug here or there. Took me a long time to realize how she felt until she finally said it.
How did she express what she felt? Was it her to do the first move in this case? I'm in a similar situation with a girl, unfortunately the "touchy" part is missing apart from particular "built" moments in our meets (ex. Showing her my watch, play around with other things). I'm not so experienced in going out with girls, so I'm not so confident in trying to be touchy with her, maybe because of my view of her character that might not appreciate it. On the flip side I might be wrong but I can't really understand that from her😅
@@xAgamennonex i’d say try to touch her arm lightly, and see her response! if she doesn’t like it, then you know not to do it again. the arm is a good place bc it’s still somewhat friendly
This is great to recognize how I’ve been doing this naturally, to everyone I’m comfortable with, without the intention of flirting. Makes sense why I sometimes attract unwanted attention from what’s suppose to be platonic interactions. Meanwhile, when I actually do flirt with a crush, it’s either too strong and blatant that maybe they’re intimated and it doesn’t go well for me 😂
I have realised that the key is to go with the flow , meaning that trying to plan your reactions , expressions ect are not ways to make someone like you. You may improve your image , but if someone likes you or not does not depend on any of these traits.. The way I see it , the solution is to open up , feel free to express yourself. That was my mistake. I was always trying to appear in a certain way in front of my crush, only because I was shy and nervous. He never even considered seeing me in another way. On the other hand , when I was hanging out with other people I was open and did not care that much about what to do or what they might think of me. This is how lot of them ended up being attracted to me. To conclude , someone can decide if they like you physically or not quickly , so your personality is what makes you stand out.
It sounds like it took a lot of courage for you to reveal your true feelings. You should be proud of yourself just for that! As for being able to move on, since you mentioned it happened about a week ago, it's completely normal to not be able to move on. Take time for yourself and things will certainly get better. Thank you for sharing your journey with us!
@@depressedsoul4081 try not to "force yourself" to move on. That's like hiding feelings (suppressing). In my case I just suddenly "realized" something and then I was free 😅
I dont want my crush to look cool and mysterious,The whole reason i have this massive crush on him is because of who he is,I love when he smiles it makes me feel good when hes happy!Be yourself guys dont try to impress people by being someone your not
I alr have a crush within like a week of being in a new school, i think i didn't see him smiling but he'd look cute, + i have to act like i don't care about him in front of the girls cuz they always start ships 😅
@1:42 The right approach is not to sit across from them, or next to them, but instead directly in their lap, because they're probably too stupid to notice you've been crushing on them this whole time and need something far less subtle.
My crush is known for his jokes which I absolutely think are very funny but he also has the overly obnoxious laugh (which is cute) but what’s even cuter is when he just does a small chuckle. He rarely does this tho but I adore it 😭
I always though as a woman...that women like a shy men, it looks authentic.... yozu amky be shy and confident at teh same time. Woman probably isnt falling in love with a robot.
I had a crush way back in elementary school. Her name was Alexandra, Alley is what I called her, and I really liked her, but never had the courage to tell her, when she moved to New Jersey. That affected all of my relationships in the future. So, I had celebrity crushes, that's pretty much it.
To those who are telling me to find her online, I really appreciate your advice, but I don't even remember her last name. All I know is her first one, that's it.
2:19 This actually makes sense to me. Guys do like feeling close to people (speaking from experience, as I am one.) and close proximities with females absolutely helps. We do like our cuddles after all. Meanwhile, my personal observations tell me that girls like their space more, at least at first, not to mention the face-to-face interaction. I don't know if I'm just spitballing or not, but that's my theory anyhow.
Around 2 years ago my PE teacher played one of your videos about mental health (since that was put topic at the time) and I was so happy to release that it was you! I told my teacher after class and she said it was really cool that I watch this kind of stuff regularly! I recommend her. Few other videos about similar topic :)
Yeah 😭 I think I have watched like over 100 and I litterly have already seen this video.. like during the summer I was like really am I actually thinking about this and watching these videos in the middle of summer when I can't even talk to him.?? And now it's the beginning of the school year and I am here again..
@@amayajohnson-us9gy I am so shy that anytime I am near him I have a freaking anxiety attack. Before I had a crush on him I wasn't like this so I like really need to fix it.
The timing of this is UNREAL. Literally, I was asking around some of my friends and my wise family how I can ..well, do this last night, and then boom, 2 hours ago!!! Thank you Psych2Go. You're helping loads of people, including myself. :) Gonna follow these tips, though. Thanks so much!
@@Psych2go I'd say the right approach was the tip that really shone toward me. This whole time I'd been trying to sit/stand beside her in conversations, and this definitely made a difference! Again, thank you :D
@@matthewtan614 Yeah I guess, she's pretty nice heheh I got her number with this and everything, and now we're really good friends; unfortunately I don't think I'll be stepping it any further though because it seems she's into somebody else, and either way I have to leave in about 2 weeks to transition into a new college, so.. brick wall :(( Thanks for asking though!
Timestamps 1). To smile, or not to smile 0:31 2). The right approach 1:39 3). Got jokes 2:33 4). The majic touch 3:30 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
For me, personally I like a guy who smiles and very happy and excited and joyous. Because for me, you’re more approachable that way and that’s gonna get me excited and happy and I’m gonna hang out with you more because you’re showing that positive side of you and I love that because that means you’re compassionate and caring. (And you’ll be excited to see me too.)
Funny is so perfect. As a woman, if I'm approaching a guy I find attractive , I rather sit beside him as I'm more discreet. That makes me attractive to him!❤
The first point is real funny to me because the trait I liked most about my crush was literally his smile. If he never really smiled in front of me I would've probably been intimidated. And not like idk devilish type of bad boy smile either, just wholesome friendly smile really gets me
I like that these tips are subtle because I cannot be direct, I’m too afraid of rejection. I would have never thought of the side approach or showing shame. I’m already good at the laughing at his jokes 😉 and I do like it when he smiles and is goofy. I’m not usually into the silent and mysterious type.
fr 😢 i’m so confused though. idek if my girl likes girls, if she’s single, or if she’d be interested. and idk how to best approach this 😢 i’ve been trying to get over it for months bc she’s a senior and i’m a junior and she’s gonna leave next year but, i just found out this week, she won’t be leaving! she will be staying in our hometown for two years! soooooooo maybe i might have a shot! (i’m delulu)
Thanks, we're about to have a date just now, he's making his way here, so I still have time to watch this, sadly I'm REALLY tense and scared even though this isn't our first date, just hope your tips work huhu
@@indxghost3157 thanks! Hope so, been busy this week and he's not active online, so this is our only ACTUAL contact in a while, and I'm impulsive online too, so idk if he's gonna say anything about how I talked to him :
I know in some ways she’s attracted to me because I just naturally do all these things. But the one thing I haven’t tried yet is the magic touch. We’ve been friends for a year now and I have been crushing on her since April, so I’ll try it out. Wish me luck y’all🙏
Messed up my interactions with my first crush and then they stopped talking to me, blocked me, and never wanted to talk about why they stopped talking to me when I confronted them. So this will be useful for any future crush I might have lol.
@@Jubileerichmond ummm.... I have no clue... whatever feels more comfortable for u ig idk Lol and if ur wonder I do have a new crush but they being deported 💀 Yeah so umm won't be seeing them for to long... 🥲
I had my first crush for almost 3 years on my friend and I had no idea how to ask him out, until I got recommended a video on this channel about having crushes, and it was the only motivation I had. I asked him at the start of the year and he said no, but I respected it and moved on. Few months later I get a crush on another one of my friends and I went straight to this channel and managed to ask him out not even 2 weeks into liking him because I just wanted to get it out the way since he clearly didn’t have a crush on me back, but he genuinely said yes. 5 months later and I still watch this channel often even though I don’t currently need it, thanks
Either you have extremely low self esteem or you are looking for people that are more attractive than you physically, cause people tend to go for people of their same attractivennes or higher. To know wether you re attractive physically or not you should ask a person or more that you think are objective. If you are not attractive then maybe you re ignoring other people that are looking at you that may have the same level of attractivenness as you, so maybe lower your standards or make up for your lack of good looks with a good personality and goals. Even then, you ll have to be more open so people get to know you, otherwise it ll be invisible to others. And even being social is attractive, but that depends on your nature. Depending on wether you re a woman or a man, some things might work out better for you, as men and women are attracted to different things in general. And even as an unattractive woman you ll have far more options than more physically attractive men, as women dont care only about visuals. But either way you can go to the gym. Hope I helped you out and maybe you can correct me or add something 😊
totally gonna use this once i get to know my crush 💀 i just started at a new school so i don’t know him at all. his name is leo, he’s hispanic, super duper tall, and absolutely GORGEOUS. like perfect hair and skin and body perfect. i only have 2 classes with him (band and math) and i just don’t know how to approach him bc we just don’t sit close to eachother (he’s a sax and i’m flute, we sit like across the room in math) once i work up to courage to actually attempt to talk to him i’ll totally use this
1:22 I don't know if this is good but this is how i act around my crush. It's like an reflex. I thought i was being awkward never thought it would be considered as "attractive" 😃
Heres the thing. All women are either 1: occupied 2: haves a boyfriend already, or 3: are single but haves actual good taste in men, and it means you do not stand a chance. Learn when to give up man.
@@anderstermansen130 Pretty much, yeah. Also take into account that many women flock for the same guy, so one guy could basically have 5 women all over him leaving the other guys with nobody. I hate that harem mentality.
I recently played Nick Piazza in my theatre group’s production of “Fame”. For those who don’t know, Nick and Serena are the “main couple” of the show - they are the romantic plot line. Because of this, my opposite has to tell jokes around me, smile at me, and she even comes to sit next to me from the side. And it wouldn’t be a romance without us holding hands and a kiss. So now my opposite has displayed all of these signs to me and I am just realising that I actually have a crush on them for real because of the play. So I guess “real life will shape the way you act” works the other way around.
I’m new here (found the channel a week ago when I was mentally breaking) and I’m not into asmr but whoever voices these videos has a voice that comforts me a ton.
I try to smile, but I'm usually known for giving a frown and deadpan look, which seems to fit my (sometimes) cold demeanor and sweet personality. Sometimes, approaching isn't as easy as it looks. I suck at making jokes and my sense of humor is on and off.
since humor is sujective, i believe some might find your jokes funny while some wont confidence helps a lot too. if its a good one, the joke combined with the confidence helps make it funnier. if it was a lame one, people may think you were being sarcastic, which is pretty good too ig so chin up comrade, and spam that funni button
I read about this study that showed that if a group of people are in a circle and a person's crush is in the circle, they are most likely to point their feet toward their crush
I legit don’t get the one about men not being attractive when they smile. I think it’s sweet and adorable. Literally. I always love seeing my crush smile, but there was this one time when someone made a funny comment to him and he smiled in a different way than his normal smile and it was literally the most adorable thing ever!!!
Smile and laughing is the most attractive thing in the world, the first thing that make be to be interest in someone is people's smile😊 I'm watching this video with my brother and we both agree its nor true!
As a filipinp, seeing Filipino captions for the first time in a video on youtube feels great, I've been consuming more foreign media from my country since the dawn of time so maybe I could have just been missing out but I couldn't help but smile :>
That was very interesting and kinda surprising in a way I must say. VERY valuable episode this is :3 And I think that it is cool that tips were shown for both genders. They could be even useful for persons who are not hetero.
I don’t even know what I want anymore. Like I identify as Angled AroAce and only feels romantic attraction to males (I think.) But, I want to be in a relationship with one of the girls in my friend group. I am afab and sort of identify as female. She is not homoromantic (I think) and that is why I am on the video.
The idea that men are perceived as less attractive when they smile is strange to me. I’m a woman and I find it really cute when men smile. I was talking to a guy I like just yesterday and he had a big smile on his face and I thought it was adorable.
Good one😂😂😂
Thank God for you.
i love when people i like smile. it gives me butterflies
aaa fr though cause when the guy I like smiles at me I see it as he’s enjoying my company and our conversations, why would I ever NOT like that?! I crack a joke and he smiles, thats attractive AF. guys, smile more. because to the people that matter, you arent any less attractive for doing so.
Wait im a girl but i think i might like a girl
Is that possible
By being yourself and don't try to be someone else you're not just to impress. Be genuine and let your true personality shine
Got that right 🎯
Be yourself, but you can always be better.
@@BloxxingDinosaurus yeah, there's nothing wrong in improving!
Your true personality is wat people want you to be so trying to be someone else if you want to reach your true personality
@@BloxxingDinosaurus Very true.
This channel is carrying my social life at this point lol
You are not alone!
Yep you are not alone
You are definitely not alone
Same lol
Samsies lol😂
this boy has me watching psych2go videos 💀
GIRL ME TOO
SAMEE
HA yeah same mine's a girl tho
I’m right with you
That’s when you know it’s getting bad 💀💀💀 (same tho 😭)
It’s crazy that men are seen as unattractive when they smile, my crushes smile is what got me to fall in love with him…
Same! I don't like when men DONT smile
I'm a dude and a lot of people have complimented my friend's smiles. Maybe I should start smiling
Yess he's so cute
AAA THATS SO REAL his smile is so pretty it's insane
Yeah when I smile I get complimented when I do it
I finally got the courage to ask someone else out. She rejected me (not surprised), but she did so in the most polite way EVER. I've never been let go so gently in my life. The harsh rejections were why I stopped trying for so long, but this rejection made me have some hope again.
People, please hear me out. If you're going to reject someone, do so with kindness (unless they're actually a jerk or something). No need to lie about anything either.
Define “polite” please… I rejected someone recently (over text) and I need to know if saying that I pm not interested because I physically can’t is good
@@Sentient-potato As in, not in an arrogant way. Like she didn't use it as some way to belittle me or give herself a power trip. She smiled and said "no thanks," but then still talked to me like a friend for a bit. Her rejection didn't make it feel like I was denied because I was a lame person or anything. I never bothered her after that and we went our separate ways, but I didn't feel embarrassed or anything. That's what I mean.
@@DeRez19 good to know, that’s pretty much what I did
My crush rejected me about a year ago. He was really nice about it though. He even said that it was mostly due to his family members who likely wouldn't accept us dating each other. He explained that there was a lot about his identity he has to hide from them and wasn't ready to deal with any potential challenges that would cause if he were to be more open with it. Which is fair, because I'm honestly worried about the same thing with my folks. But man, I'd've died for that mf. Hope he's doing well.
@@Sentient-potato why over text it would been much nicer to the person to face them because over text they probably feel like crap
Bro if my boy crush smiles I melt, no way thats unnatractive, he has such a bright smile 😩😭
Btw: as a woman I prefer being aproached by the side.
Lol same
@hemant jain Smile, be friendly, and if the girl shoots you down after a couple of seconds, you calmly say goodbye and walk off.
@hemant jain just make sure she's comfortable around you and be yourself! Make jokes together, laugh at each other but try not to offend her lol. And do smile once yall have reached that level of comfort with each other. There's no way that she'll find this creepy.
@@vishxky exactly
@@vishxky true 👍
For all the guys out there, make sure you aren't just acting 'cool and mysterious' to make them like you. If its ever gonna work out between you, being yourself is the most attractive thing you can do. Go for it! Just be yourself, and I don't care how cheesy that is. Please please don't sacrifice your personality just for a crush. 💗💗
Yeah but should I work on my self first to a point where I'm comfortable in my own body or go for it and help myself after
fr, "being cool" is for fuckboys, not real mens who want to find the right person
I just be myself. And fail miserably cuz I am too direct
@@tapioca255in my own opinion it can be a mix of both. So long as you're at a point that you won't be letting self insecurity get in the way of how you feel about the relationship then it's fine to work on yourself while in a healthy and stable relationship! I hope this was somewhat helpful :)
ONE DAY YOU4LL FIND SOMEONE WHO LOVE WHO FOR WHAT YOU ARE@@WinWinKyaw-c5e
This chanel is that friend who has never seen a woman in his life but gives you the best advice you've ever heard.
Here's the time stamps:
0:32 - To smile or not to smile
1:42 - The right approach
2:34 - Got jokes
3:31 - The magic touch
OMG thanks for 114 likes!!
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Well now it’s 947 likes
"to smile or not to smile"..hahaha
Thanks dudeeeeeeee!
For some reason, we both have the right approach. We find humor in our awkwardness. Just the slightest touch or brush on her arm or shoulder is enough. And a hug here or there. Took me a long time to realize how she felt until she finally said it.
How did she express what she felt? Was it her to do the first move in this case? I'm in a similar situation with a girl, unfortunately the "touchy" part is missing apart from particular "built" moments in our meets (ex. Showing her my watch, play around with other things). I'm not so experienced in going out with girls, so I'm not so confident in trying to be touchy with her, maybe because of my view of her character that might not appreciate it. On the flip side I might be wrong but I can't really understand that from her😅
@@xAgamennonex i’d say try to touch her arm lightly, and see her response! if she doesn’t like it, then you know not to do it again. the arm is a good place bc it’s still somewhat friendly
Congratulations love 💕
Youre a fool for believing women have humane feelings.
Good for you, man!
WHY IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT THE ART STYLE⁉️⁉️ ITS SOO COOL
OMG YESSSSS
This is great to recognize how I’ve been doing this naturally, to everyone I’m comfortable with, without the intention of flirting. Makes sense why I sometimes attract unwanted attention from what’s suppose to be platonic interactions. Meanwhile, when I actually do flirt with a crush, it’s either too strong and blatant that maybe they’re intimated and it doesn’t go well for me 😂
I have realised that the key is to go with the flow , meaning that trying to plan your reactions , expressions ect are not ways to make someone like you. You may improve your image , but if someone likes you or not does not depend on any of these traits.. The way I see it , the solution is to open up , feel free to express yourself.
That was my mistake. I was always trying to appear in a certain way in front of my crush, only because I was shy and nervous. He never even considered seeing me in another way. On the other hand , when I was hanging out with other people I was open and did not care that much about what to do or what they might think of me. This is how lot of them ended up being attracted to me.
To conclude , someone can decide if they like you physically or not quickly , so your personality is what makes you stand out.
Had a crush on a guy for 4 years and finally expressed my feelings a week ago.. He's really understanding... 🥰💛
4 years? That's dedication! How did it go? :)
@@Psych2go I got rejected in a polite manner. :) . I still can't move on.
It sounds like it took a lot of courage for you to reveal your true feelings. You should be proud of yourself just for that! As for being able to move on, since you mentioned it happened about a week ago, it's completely normal to not be able to move on. Take time for yourself and things will certainly get better. Thank you for sharing your journey with us!
@@depressedsoul4081 try not to "force yourself" to move on. That's like hiding feelings (suppressing). In my case I just suddenly "realized" something and then I was free 😅
@@iCraftDay thank you ☺
I dont want my crush to look cool and mysterious,The whole reason i have this massive crush on him is because of who he is,I love when he smiles it makes me feel good when hes happy!Be yourself guys dont try to impress people by being someone your not
THANK YOU This is perfect. If you act like someone else you aren't. They aren't liking you for that. SMILE MORE BOYS
when my crush smiles at me it is the sweetest thing in the world. I am so attracted to this man
Saaaame 🥹 his smile is so cute 🥹
SAMEEEE UGHHH
Same 😭
SAME aagghhh i literally die, his smile is the cutest ❤😭😭
I alr have a crush within like a week of being in a new school, i think i didn't see him smiling but he'd look cute, + i have to act like i don't care about him in front of the girls cuz they always start ships 😅
@1:42 The right approach is not to sit across from them, or next to them, but instead directly in their lap, because they're probably too stupid to notice you've been crushing on them this whole time and need something far less subtle.
Lmao 🤣
😂😂
Instructions unclear, I'm on top of the Eiffel Tower.
@@PowlidBRO
The lap is insane dude
Im not even hear for the advice im here for her voice its so calming
Damn right😮💨
i literally crumble inside when my crush is smiling or happy/excited. its adorable :sob:
My crush is known for his jokes which I absolutely think are very funny but he also has the overly obnoxious laugh (which is cute) but what’s even cuter is when he just does a small chuckle. He rarely does this tho but I adore it 😭
same, mine gives half smiles more and rarely fully smiles or laughs but when he does i actually melt
They are so right about that facial expression one! It is absolutely adorable when I see my crush get flustered or embarrassed.
same here
Lol
Same😅
I always though as a woman...that women like a shy men, it looks authentic....
yozu amky be shy and confident at teh same time.
Woman probably isnt falling in love with a robot.
WHAT I LOVE WHEN MY CRUSH IS SMILING! his smile isnt even a perfect smile. I just love him.
Am I cooked?
Most likely we both are
@@micahhartfieldIk my word means nothing to you, but keep going on in life, you got this
@@justableachfan7302 you too brotha 🫡
@@micahhartfieldnah most of us are bro trust
me too
"Do you think playing hard to get works best?"
I can't play hard to get, I'm already hard to want!
Fr same
THATS SO REAL
Fr
LMAO IM DEAAD
I don’t even have someone in interested in at the moment but I’m watching this. Your voice is just soothing to me
You guys need a cinematic universe with the different personalities types, plants and stuff like that. We need to love this animation
Tbh, i absolutely adore guys who smile a lot, and don't try and act hard and cool, but ya'll be yourselves
This woman’s voice is so relaxing. It makes me so relaxed and happy 😭😭
I had a crush way back in elementary school. Her name was Alexandra, Alley is what I called her, and I really liked her, but never had the courage to tell her, when she moved to New Jersey. That affected all of my relationships in the future. So, I had celebrity crushes, that's pretty much it.
current objective: confess your feelings to Alexandra
find her online. im sure you know enough to stalk.
To those who are telling me to find her online, I really appreciate your advice, but I don't even remember her last name. All I know is her first one, that's it.
Maybe you guys will meet again the future ❤
Same case 😓 but I am trying to talk to her
Yes, another video to feed my delusions about my crush 🥰
So true
real
Right 😂
REAL
Real asf
2:19 This actually makes sense to me. Guys do like feeling close to people (speaking from experience, as I am one.) and close proximities with females absolutely helps. We do like our cuddles after all. Meanwhile, my personal observations tell me that girls like their space more, at least at first, not to mention the face-to-face interaction. I don't know if I'm just spitballing or not, but that's my theory anyhow.
I'm a bit of the opposite I love getting close to someone, touching their arm, and overall give affection (as a girl)
1:09 idk what ur talking about my crushes smile makes my stomach do flips
SAME
REAL
Literallyy
ON GOD 😭😭😭 and he smiles so rarely so whenever he does smile at something I do I crash all the way out 😭
Around 2 years ago my PE teacher played one of your videos about mental health (since that was put topic at the time) and I was so happy to release that it was you! I told my teacher after class and she said it was really cool that I watch this kind of stuff regularly! I recommend her. Few other videos about similar topic :)
you know you got it bad when you gotta go to “how to” crush videos💀
Yeah 😭 I think I have watched like over 100 and I litterly have already seen this video.. like during the summer I was like really am I actually thinking about this and watching these videos in the middle of summer when I can't even talk to him.?? And now it's the beginning of the school year and I am here again..
@@AAABatteries. I haven't been to these videos in years but I'm watching it and I still know I'm too shy to talk to him!!!
@@amayajohnson-us9gy I am so shy that anytime I am near him I have a freaking anxiety attack. Before I had a crush on him I wasn't like this so I like really need to fix it.
@@AAABatteries.this is so real😭
@@potatoaliens1312 guess whattt I mostly fixed it :D
The timing of this is UNREAL. Literally, I was asking around some of my friends and my wise family how I can ..well, do this last night, and then boom, 2 hours ago!!! Thank you Psych2Go. You're helping loads of people, including myself. :)
Gonna follow these tips, though. Thanks so much!
Thank you! Which tip stood out to you the most?
@@Psych2go I'd say the right approach was the tip that really shone toward me. This whole time I'd been trying to sit/stand beside her in conversations, and this definitely made a difference! Again, thank you :D
@@whitespace_hours Have you made any progress with him?
@@matthewtan614 Yeah I guess, she's pretty nice heheh
I got her number with this and everything, and now we're really good friends; unfortunately I don't think I'll be stepping it any further though because it seems she's into somebody else, and either way I have to leave in about 2 weeks to transition into a new college, so.. brick wall :((
Thanks for asking though!
Timestamps
1). To smile, or not to smile 0:31
2). The right approach 1:39
3). Got jokes 2:33
4). The majic touch 3:30
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
i hope everyone watching gets the Connection you deserve
Aww thank you for the lovely sentiment! We wish the same for you as well!
I have a crush too
Aww so sweet thanks
You’re so sweet:333
For me, personally I like a guy who smiles and very happy and excited and joyous. Because for me, you’re more approachable that way and that’s gonna get me excited and happy and I’m gonna hang out with you more because you’re showing that positive side of you and I love that because that means you’re compassionate and caring. (And you’ll be excited to see me too.)
this channel is helping me cope with self-hate
To Smile or not to smile 0:32
The right approach 1:42
Got jokes? 2:34
The magic touch 3:31
I love how you make videos about almost every topic and make many videos of it detailed! These videos are my source for life fr❤
We try our best! :) What type of videos do you personally like from our channel?
Personally I like the quiz videos they are my favorite
Can I chart you up
@@Psych2go i personally like the ones about psychology and love.
Funny is so perfect. As a woman, if I'm approaching a guy I find attractive , I rather sit beside him as I'm more discreet. That makes me attractive to him!❤
I have no crush so far, but I’ll keep this video safe in case I get one.
Thanks to this video, I confronted my crush, started dating, got engaged, then married, and had kids. Tysm for this video
I love this channel. Gives me enough hope to kind of believe I’m doing research that’ll help me and not just feeding my delulu 😂❤😊
Gonna be needing this for my next hopeless romance journey. Thanks psych2go!
Thanks for watching! And it's not hopeless! 😭
The first point is real funny to me because the trait I liked most about my crush was literally his smile. If he never really smiled in front of me I would've probably been intimidated. And not like idk devilish type of bad boy smile either, just wholesome friendly smile really gets me
Confidence is definitely key. Don't just be yourself, but be proud of yourself
The smile one, I'll tell you when I have a crush on someone and they have a beautiful smile, I love it, no matter if they are a man or woman.
When your crush is not that social and you only know your crush name 💀
This is very well said with a lot of excellent information. This is also very well animated.
Thank you so much for noticing! We have many talented writers and animators that work hard to produce quality content! :)
Your smile will not just attract your crush but also the people around you.
@@SouperEmmKay LMAO STOP im sure your smile is cute hahahha
I like that these tips are subtle because I cannot be direct, I’m too afraid of rejection. I would have never thought of the side approach or showing shame. I’m already good at the laughing at his jokes 😉 and I do like it when he smiles and is goofy. I’m not usually into the silent and mysterious type.
This channel is the only advice I’ve been getting that makes sense for finding love
I love the fact that they said at the end that the research was mainly straight-oriented. This small act of inclusiveness can go a long way
fr 😢 i’m so confused though. idek if my girl likes girls, if she’s single, or if she’d be interested. and idk how to best approach this 😢 i’ve been trying to get over it for months bc she’s a senior and i’m a junior and she’s gonna leave next year but, i just found out this week, she won’t be leaving! she will be staying in our hometown for two years! soooooooo maybe i might have a shot! (i’m delulu)
i just said to her :”Im very comfortable ranting to you”
How did it go?
Hopefully it went well with a plain message like that 💀
It basically also says "I'm comfortable dumping all of my emotions on you"
Bro's confident is higher than my Ego 💀
@@MrDespresso17 she said “Thanks”,and thats it
@@zenkiane That's better than "Thanks I guess"
Thanks, we're about to have a date just now, he's making his way here, so I still have time to watch this, sadly I'm REALLY tense and scared even though this isn't our first date, just hope your tips work huhu
You got this homie
@@indxghost3157 thanks! Hope so, been busy this week and he's not active online, so this is our only ACTUAL contact in a while, and I'm impulsive online too, so idk if he's gonna say anything about how I talked to him :
Hope the date goes well!!
@@classyvxbe I think so, he's really nice in person, the problem is my lack of self awareness lol
@@TheNegative69 haha no matter what I’m sure it’ll work out great
I know in some ways she’s attracted to me because I just naturally do all these things. But the one thing I haven’t tried yet is the magic touch. We’ve been friends for a year now and I have been crushing on her since April, so I’ll try it out. Wish me luck y’all🙏
0:33 To smile or not to smile
1:40 The right approach
2:34 Got jokes
3:31 The magic touch
Messed up my interactions with my first crush and then they stopped talking to me, blocked me, and never wanted to talk about why they stopped talking to me when I confronted them.
So this will be useful for any future crush I might have lol.
oof, that's what I'm scared of lol! I have a really great friendship with mine and I don't want to lose it!
@@Jubileerichmond lol just don't make it obvious
@@SunAtinus Okay, cool. How should I do it? through text or irl?
@@Jubileerichmond ummm.... I have no clue... whatever feels more comfortable for u ig idk
Lol and if ur wonder I do have a new crush but they being deported 💀
Yeah so umm won't be seeing them for to long... 🥲
@@SunAtinus Ya, okay, lol. oof
Everytime i see these vids it makes me smile instantly
Thank you so much for watching! What about our videos makes you smile? :)
whenever my crush, who’s a guy, smiles, i js die inside. he’s so adorable, and when he smiles, it makes me so happy bro😭
I had my first crush for almost 3 years on my friend and I had no idea how to ask him out, until I got recommended a video on this channel about having crushes, and it was the only motivation I had. I asked him at the start of the year and he said no, but I respected it and moved on. Few months later I get a crush on another one of my friends and I went straight to this channel and managed to ask him out not even 2 weeks into liking him because I just wanted to get it out the way since he clearly didn’t have a crush on me back, but he genuinely said yes. 5 months later and I still watch this channel often even though I don’t currently need it, thanks
I just avoid the people I like because I know they’ll never like me back.
Same, truly based
Ikr
sad realism hours
Either you have extremely low self esteem or you are looking for people that are more attractive than you physically, cause people tend to go for people of their same attractivennes or higher. To know wether you re attractive physically or not you should ask a person or more that you think are objective. If you are not attractive then maybe you re ignoring other people that are looking at you that may have the same level of attractivenness as you, so maybe lower your standards or make up for your lack of good looks with a good personality and goals. Even then, you ll have to be more open so people get to know you, otherwise it ll be invisible to others. And even being social is attractive, but that depends on your nature. Depending on wether you re a woman or a man, some things might work out better for you, as men and women are attracted to different things in general. And even as an unattractive woman you ll have far more options than more physically attractive men, as women dont care only about visuals. But either way you can go to the gym. Hope I helped you out and maybe you can correct me or add something 😊
@@nimaltra7353dang that prob took forever lol
totally gonna use this once i get to know my crush 💀 i just started at a new school so i don’t know him at all. his name is leo, he’s hispanic, super duper tall, and absolutely GORGEOUS. like perfect hair and skin and body perfect. i only have 2 classes with him (band and math) and i just don’t know how to approach him bc we just don’t sit close to eachother (he’s a sax and i’m flute, we sit like across the room in math) once i work up to courage to actually attempt to talk to him i’ll totally use this
Excellent production value, great job
This goes hard while I’m writing most of this down in a old journal while watching Aliens🔥🔥
smiles and humor are a hugeeee thing for me. but also kindess and affection.
1:22
I don't know if this is good but this is how i act around my crush. It's like an reflex. I thought i was being awkward never thought it would be considered as "attractive" 😃
This is my expression of I'm in the same TOWN as him
It's always nice to find out that your crush already has a boyfriend 😞
yup 😮💨
Yeah :/
or married.. with kids...
Heres the thing. All women are either 1: occupied 2: haves a boyfriend already, or 3: are single but haves actual good taste in men, and it means you do not stand a chance.
Learn when to give up man.
@@anderstermansen130 Pretty much, yeah. Also take into account that many women flock for the same guy, so one guy could basically have 5 women all over him leaving the other guys with nobody. I hate that harem mentality.
Great timing, You’re the best Psych2go 😊
You're the best too! Did you learn anything new from the video? :)
Yes, I did! Physical touch is still too earlyyyyy, I’ll start with practicing my humor. Still searching for the right person on dating apps.
As a girl,I personally find guys smiles absolutely adorable. Sometimes I remember a smile for years, I'm that might be just me.
I recently played Nick Piazza in my theatre group’s production of “Fame”. For those who don’t know, Nick and Serena are the “main couple” of the show - they are the romantic plot line. Because of this, my opposite has to tell jokes around me, smile at me, and she even comes to sit next to me from the side. And it wouldn’t be a romance without us holding hands and a kiss. So now my opposite has displayed all of these signs to me and I am just realising that I actually have a crush on them for real because of the play. So I guess “real life will shape the way you act” works the other way around.
3:33 is basically the miles morales touch
"Hey"
1:06 Me who's crush has the most amazing smile I've ever seen: AHEM AHEM COUGH COUGH WHEEZE WHEEZE
I’m new here (found the channel a week ago when I was mentally breaking) and I’m not into asmr but whoever voices these videos has a voice that comforts me a ton.
This is actually very useful and informative ❤
Thanks for helping me Psych2go! My life changed ever since i saw your channel.
Because of this channel i finally was able to ask my crush out and she said yes
04:15 wait, then what am i supposed to do with it
Real asf😅
I try to smile, but I'm usually known for giving a frown and deadpan look, which seems to fit my (sometimes) cold demeanor and sweet personality. Sometimes, approaching isn't as easy as it looks. I suck at making jokes and my sense of humor is on and off.
since humor is sujective, i believe some might find your jokes funny while some wont
confidence helps a lot too. if its a good one, the joke combined with the confidence helps make it funnier. if it was a lame one, people may think you were being sarcastic, which is pretty good too ig
so chin up comrade, and spam that funni button
@@simpleneeds2582 ha ha okay. All right. 😂
Hey hey you're talking just like my crush. Give me tips on how to approach someone like you😂
@@alobhlyamii3525 I don't know. Not usually the best at giving advice.
@@kenrickbautista6141 hmmm!! Okay one question tho- would you like being approached by someone if u think they're interested in u ?
3:26 if you can make them laugh and giggle, you can make their cheeks clap and Jiggle
NAWWW WHAT 💀💀💀
Lmao
@nearwateryt2070 hold on, let him cook
@@dakingofbrickzI always cook
Wtf did i just f#cking read?!?!
Y'know People Fell so hard that they started improving alot and searches this to not screw up.
I read about this study that showed that if a group of people are in a circle and a person's crush is in the circle, they are most likely to point their feet toward their crush
thats yap 😭
Now that's what I wanted
I literally don't even have a crush and still watching this video 💀
Plot twist: your crush watched this video too and you both do the same thing
Amanda you’re voice is so smooth and you never stutter please! Teach me! I stutter so much! 😂😅😊
I legit don’t get the one about men not being attractive when they smile. I think it’s sweet and adorable. Literally. I always love seeing my crush smile, but there was this one time when someone made a funny comment to him and he smiled in a different way than his normal smile and it was literally the most adorable thing ever!!!
What if you’ve never talked to your crush? How can you gain the confidence to even talk to them?
this
Needed this when I was in middle school 👁️👁️
I really need this
Smile and laughing is the most attractive thing in the world, the first thing that make be to be interest in someone is people's smile😊
I'm watching this video with my brother and we both agree its nor true!
I just met this girl and we haven’t even talked, but……… I heard her answer some questions is class about herself and uh…….. I’m crushing so hard
Me having very low self esteem: I see, perfect
Nah I rather be alone💀
Then do that
Then why are you watching?
Introverted?
And earn power and be stronger
Be a man boss
Or girls boss
Then suddenly you fell to someone
It's an oopsie
Bro's LYING
YES THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED
ME TOO
We are all in need for advice fr
YESSS SAME
Anya
@@DeRez19 Anya ?
As a filipinp, seeing Filipino captions for the first time in a video on youtube feels great, I've been consuming more foreign media from my country since the dawn of time so maybe I could have just been missing out but I couldn't help but smile :>
Ladies and Gentlemen, welcome to the most useful chanel on the entire youtube!
That was very interesting and kinda surprising in a way I must say. VERY valuable episode this is :3 And I think that it is cool that tips were shown for both genders. They could be even useful for persons who are not hetero.
idk i’m not sure cuz i’m assuming men were rated to be attractive when stoic by women, and my crush is a woman, so… confused on how to proceed.
I don’t even know what I want anymore. Like I identify as Angled AroAce and only feels romantic attraction to males (I think.) But, I want to be in a relationship with one of the girls in my friend group. I am afab and sort of identify as female. She is not homoromantic (I think) and that is why I am on the video.