How do I deal with my partner's bad past?

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  • Опубліковано 31 гру 2024

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  • @ALPHA.23253
    @ALPHA.23253 Місяць тому +3

    For all man just apply this quote " I return what i get . If they give me love i will return it double or they give me pain i will also return in double " That's all....

  • @justinjustinjustin10
    @justinjustinjustin10 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks Jason and Dr. Bob

  • @crispinswainstonharrison9042
    @crispinswainstonharrison9042 Рік тому +4

    Easy to read Jason’s past from this.

  • @tom71619
    @tom71619 Рік тому +1

    You are both an inspiration

  • @LiveToFly-Br
    @LiveToFly-Br Місяць тому +3

    How if the partner has no shame or regret?

    • @ethang3143
      @ethang3143 Місяць тому

      Hi! I hope and pray all is well. I would say don’t be with that person.
      We all are sinners, but one who is not sorry for their sins (and truly sorry) will likely make the same mistakes without concern. Those women are not worth it.

    • @LiveToFly-Br
      @LiveToFly-Br Місяць тому +2

      ​@@ethang3143 28 Years praying and she still believes that sex before marriage is ok, abortion is ok, and that all she did in the past has no problem. In spite of that she is indeed a great woman, great mother etc. I just find her ideas and beliefs really disturbing and troublesome. Believe it or not, we both grew in hardcore catholic families. Learned everything, except that she threw everything from the window somewhere during her teenage years. It shouldnt be like that. Sad.

    • @ethang3143
      @ethang3143 Місяць тому +1

      Well, if you’re marrried to her, I would definitely stay. 😅
      I know that is very difficult, and I pray that she repents. Please keep praying for her. She shouldn’t throw those principles out the window, which are some of the most fundamental Catholic beliefs.
      Also, pray to St. Rita. She had a very difficult marriage I believe, but she kept praying, and it wasn’t until right before his death that he converted.

    • @ethang3143
      @ethang3143 Місяць тому

      And hopefully she will apologize to you. I think deep down, every person desires to have their spouse be pure and a virgin. Many just want to justify their sin and their lack of self-control to not save themselves for their spouse.

  • @atruelovestoryneverendsforever
    @atruelovestoryneverendsforever 3 роки тому +4

    Very important subject - thank you for bringing it up! 🙏

  • @atruelovestoryneverendsforever
    @atruelovestoryneverendsforever 3 роки тому +7

    I pray that my future spouse like God will be able - if it's God's Holy Plan - to _forgive me_
    If you read my comment please pray for me too, thank you 🙏
    God bless - chastity is very important - don't throw it away for somebody it wasn't meant to be
    Ω

    • @simoneracioppa5733
      @simoneracioppa5733 9 місяців тому +1

      Men and God are not the same. God made the man, but the man is not God.

    • @atruelovestoryneverendsforever
      @atruelovestoryneverendsforever 9 місяців тому +1

      True. I wish you a peaceful Easter 🕊

    • @ethang3143
      @ethang3143 Місяць тому +1

      And it takes courage to both forgive and be open about your past.
      Don’t be afraid about being vulnerable, and God-willing, that person will still accept and love you. No fear, and God’s near.

    • @atruelovestoryneverendsforever
      @atruelovestoryneverendsforever Місяць тому +2

      @@ethang3143 Thank you so much. May God bless you very much. 🙏
      So true, God is near, thanks God!!!
      ❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

  • @joel4960
    @joel4960 Місяць тому

    I gave up trying to find a virgin and finally got married at 30. Her past has made me regret waiting until my wedding night.

    • @ethang3143
      @ethang3143 Місяць тому +1

      Hi, Joel! I hope and pray all is well.
      Please don’t think like that. Is she sorry for her past or not?
      You saving yourself was and still is the right decision, because God wants that. I know it’s tough to accept someone else’s sexual past, and it’s really tough not to be afraid to love them.
      Never settle, but always love. If she’s your wife, don’t give up on her. You gave her a gift that at least God appreciates, and hopefully she does too. Hopefully she also will be sorry about her past. God bless!

    • @ALPHA.23253
      @ALPHA.23253 Місяць тому +1

      Then why u got married bro .. Now your all life become a regret... And insecure...

    • @joel4960
      @joel4960 Місяць тому

      @ALPHA.23253 yes, I should have spent my life alone as a virgin. Great idea.

    • @ethang3143
      @ethang3143 Місяць тому

      Honestly, I’ve to the conclusion that I rather be a virgin than with the wrong person.
      The girls I have dated were not wife material. I didn’t realize it until after the fact, but I’m happier to be released from them, than be with them.
      Many girls (at least in my experience) sometimes hide things, because they truly don’t want to commit, and are willing to move on so easily. These women are not worth it.
      Someone who really is worth having for your whole life is the one who is worth giving your virginity to. It’s because that woman is truly a great gift from God.

    • @ivanfunctionx8431
      @ivanfunctionx8431 29 днів тому

      ​@@joel4960why buy cow if other can get free milk 😂