HOW TO READ ANY LIAR | Top Ten Tells For Catching Deceit
Вставка
- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- Everybody lies. Sometimes it's to prevent emotional discomfort (for instance: that dress doesn't make you look fat.), but other times, it's to hide the truth when it should not be hidden. Here are ten ways you can read anyone, and see that they are lying.
BASELINE VIDEO: • Video
MUSIC:
/ miss-emeli
SUBSCRIBE TODAY: / @observeyoutube
BECOME MY PATRON: / observeentertainment
Business Email: logan.portenier@gmail.com
these are some really great tells that you can look out for, however i noticed that a lot of them can be attributed to other things about a person. as someone with autism and social anxiety, i do a lot of the tells you talked about even when i'm not lying. for example, my anxiety might cause me to bounce my leg but when i notice it i might stop because i don't want to seem weird; because of my anxiety my breath is often irregular; i don't have a lot of empathy so when i tell stories, no matter the context, i might seem very unemotional even if i am telling the truth; i keep very little eye contact, again because of my anxiety, and i might compensate for it by keeping too much eye contact so i won't seem weird.
my point is, it's important to know if a person has those kind of issues, since it can give "false positives" if you are figuring out wether they are lying or not.
I've never heard someone admit that they arnt very empathetic before. At least your honest
i relate to this so much. i dont have autism but i do suffer from depression and social anxiety. im also worried people will think im lying, especially when i talk about something emotional and i dont show that specific emotion
Well that's why he tells us to establish a baseline first 🤷🏻♀️
That would be included in your baseline, which he stated to establish one first.
which is why it’s extremely important to construct an “emotional baseline” for each person, because those things that are typically deemed red flags could just be part of how they naturally carry themselves.
Don't stop doing your work sir. You are doing a great job
Zooming into the fake smile with that ominous music was TERRIFYING.
i found you a couple hours ago and ive been bingewatching you. you deserve so much more likes and subscribers. keep up the great work!!!
I touch my face a lot because it's pretty oily so I'm making sure that either
A) my makeup is intact or
B) it's become oily and I need to wipe it off or
C) I'm wiping the oil off.
However I know someone who is a terrible liar and also lies all the time and she starts touching her face only when she does it and she has a oily face too. So I think I just have a fixation/paranoia about my oiliness
It is useful and we are lucky to have a serious channel to learn things like that🤗
Awesome 'checklist', gonna start keeping track on all of those aspects (at least try to xD ). I didn't know that the voice pitch changes for example (or that hesitating feet express happiness and not an uncomfortable feeling 😅). Thanks for this video, really enjoyed it ^^
I have emotional misalignment from intellectualizing in conversations far too much. I hope people haven’t interpreted my defense mechanism as deceit. Also I have been emotionally abused and learned to disconnect from raw instantaneous emotional expression. I wonder if people believe then that I’m cold, robotic, or fake from this misalignment.
So, they're telling a story and suddenly *they're telling a sTORI*
Also listen to your intuition, people ignore it alot
I'm a bit late to this, a lot actually.. but i have a question i need answered. For the last point, emotional misalignment - you mentioned how peoples faces will go with the story they're telling - but what if they're so numb to the story (let's say it's something terrible that happened to them) that their face will stay kind of like stone? I'm asking because I tend to do this - I've been through quite a lot of bad things, and i'm also an open book about my experiences (will talk about them if the conversation arises or someone is asking for advice in some way), but i tend to keep a straight face because I'm not phased by it anymore, maybe because i've gone over it in my head too many times or because i blocked it out of my emotions. What happens then? If someone is saying a story and their face doesn't align with what they're saying? It doesn't necessarily mean that they're lying, right?
This is why body language should never be used in isolation and IMO should only be an addition, if necessary, to psychology.
It is incredibly common for people to have emotional misalignment when recounting something traumatic, either they'll show very little emotion or, like in my case in the past, they'll be smiling or laughing about it.
It's our brain's way of protecting us from repeating the trauma over and over.
Also someone having prolonged eye contact can be a sign of ASD.
Someone who suffers from anxiety can show lots of these signs and you'll see lots of people saying that they're so worried others might think they are lying that they end up acting like a liar.
@@shescalledirina that's why he started with mentioning the person's baseline because knowing that might completely change the reading.
@@zfox4743 the problem is these channels assess the baseline on a few snipets of videos, to truly know a person's baseline is to *know* them, therefore a psychological assessment.
Your flippin awesome you've made me a better observer ever since I watched Sherlock Holmes I've wanted to observe better and you've helped me do that cheats bro
I love how much effort you put in your videos, thank you!!
The pupil tell isn't quite right. Check out sympathetic and parasympathetic response. "happy" does not cause pupil dilation, excitement does, whether it's for positive or negative reasons (like fear) Sympathetic response, adrenaline. Constricted pupils are part of the parasympathetic (rest and digest) response. If a person is super relaxed and happy, pupils are small.
You got so much better a year or so after this video.
Ty u are my favorite nonverbal Annaliset
Now I'm worried that people will think I'm lying when I'm being truthful or I dont know when I'm telling the truth or lying.
I do 8 of those just from being stoned.... and I'm ALWAYS stoned lol 😆 I wonder if people be thinking I'm lying all the time
I don't really understand the purpose of the camera angle changes.. its kinda distracting.
John Luc it’s a way to cut out “ummm’s” and other sort of stumbles without creating a jarring jump cut, the idea is to keep the video visually engaging and also not jar or bore the audience
The Art of Deduction ah thx Jordan
I touch my chin because I had a goatee for 30 years. Being a philosophy student, I often would strike my goatee/chin as I was thinking. Though I haven't had it for the past 5 years (my employer made me shave it off), I occasionally still strike my chin.
This is great for someone with a narcissistic dad 🤪
Thank you Logan! Your amazing 🌸
I've noticed many people have a tendency to focus on some trivial thing that's wrong in the question if they're questioned(even when they know exactly what the question is, instead of answering they focus on that detail). I wonder what it's about.
Sometimes I have to fart. Sometimes I try to hold it in and sometimes I try to let it out quietly. Either way, I definitely deviate from my baseline at that point in time. XD
100 comments HERE! 🔥
I loved Lie to Me but if Cal were staring at me I'd be butter in a microwave 😃 Okay! I did it! I confess!
what
I dunno about all of these. I think it really depends on the person. I have a lot of emotional misalignments due to being used to sad and traumatic stuff but, might choke up at a certain point in a story but not the whole thing and when telling happy stories I don't think my face does very much. Neurodivergent folks and other people with anxiety would be hard to tell.... I feel like this might work if I was trying to catch a neurotypical person with a healthy upbringing lying to me.
Very informative video but the constant changes in angle are making it hard for me to keep watching.
Why am I coming across this channel now? 🙆🏽🙆🏽🙆🏽
This is wonderful.
Love your vids👍🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
It was informative.. thanku
I really liked this video in so many ways, the only constructive criticism that I do have is that some of your camera positions make it so that you aren't looking at the camera. (the angle changes themselves are good, just the fact that you aren't looking at the camera in some isn't)
the camera is a little too close for me.
its a bit daunting.
Ok serious question and I really hope you see this...when my ex took me to court, when he would be talking to the judge and I knew he was lying so I couldn't help it and I kept putting my hand over my mouth and touching my chest my heart almost. But seeing the covering the mouth being a sign og lying, was I doing it because I knew he was or because I was trying to stop myself from just blurting out at him in front of the judge?
Can u put subtitle in your video? Please 🙏
I did like this video - thank you!
Me watching this so I can look like a lier for dnd reasons:👁👄👁
I'm African always moving my self touchs my face..... But . I'm not laying.🙄
?
If I'm talking to my gf and I mention a trigger word like lie or Charing what should I look out for
💚
Thanks I'm a pro at the game among us 😀
Jokes on you when someone can’t move their fave because they have Botox lol 😋😋
Good tells, but what about resting bitch face? I have one, and no one ever caught me when I'm lying. Also, my body posture is naturally relaxed, even when I'm not, I look relaxed.... I am curious now, I would really like to see if you could catch me in a lie.
Uses video to lie better*
you dont like to bath, do you?
I can deduce about you. U r an introvert, you have lack of confidence. You are not in a serious relationship. You fell sad about something, idk . You do hard work but it's not consistency.
Am I just deduced myself! Lmao
Observe, forget the angle changing.
Bali Bodi the angle Changing makes it feel like a documentary
Might be akward just seeing all this tips from just a frontal cam, he's already too near of it
My mother-in-law and I agreed to openly talk about the drama she started. Every time I confronted her with a lie she spread she kept saying, "you can look in my eyes and see that I'm not lying." I kept wondering why she believed that would make her seem honest....
I use these deductions to catch my MIL in lies or manipulations all the time. She is a huge emotional manipulater and it drives me nuts.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
When someone is telling you how to see through there own deceit that could clearly be the very way to tell of there deceit. So observe her on a normal day say when she says I love you to her grand baby or gives a compliment watch her eyes learn how she tells the truth by knowing when she’s telling the truth than when she lies it will be so clear that she is.
I wouldn't agree with the eye contact. I think that it doesn't necessarily mean your're laying, especially if you are just comfortable with looking people in the eyes while having any kind of discussion or conversation. it's just my natural conversation direction to look at, and I'm looking in other perison in the eyes almost 80/20 or 90/10 of the time. to me and to other perison it just acknowledgment that i'm or they are actually paying attention to what they are talking about and vice versa.
Oh, and since you're always looking directly in our eyes through camera non-stop, does that mean that you're lying to us? :P
No
Haha, that overcompensated STARING INTO THE EYE thing wasn't even that exaggerated.
*Lower your bass, slow down and give examples of faces doing the expressions you're giving examples of.*
0:21 - House M.D.
I find these videos so interesting to watch. Keep it up, Observe!
I just found your channel and I love the content you push out.
4:07-4:12 I love the voice change 😄🐭
Whelp this video just helped me to realize my fiancé is a Lying fucking cheater. He did alike 80% of the things you said to lookout for when I asked him recently about “bruise” on his neck. My gut told me it was a hickey but I didn’t want to believe it
I got a question for you Logan creator of this page so have you ever used your knowledge of knowing how to detect deceit and used it for your self as in have you used reverse psychology to lie steal or cheat???? I know I have
I just found you and I love your videos!! But I noticed you haven’t done more of the OJ videos or the Logan Paul videos! I hope all is well!
Ooh, yes, thank you thank you! Lovely video. - going to go check out the baseline video! And the editing here - very nice and professional.
What are his feet telling us as he speaks?
So ‘lie to me’ was pretty accurate! Great content :)
I mean it was influenced by Dr. Paul Ekman. He coached the director on how to set all of it up
Omg this is so good
So I have a question, when I observe, should I describe the details of what I see in my head?
Ofc, the details are the most important factor
Agree that great manipulators and Liars are the best at holding eye contact because they know that’s what people are looking for.
Yes, the tale about the eye contact. I know people who can ly into your face with big innocent looking eyes, that do not shift and twinker. I guess they believe their lies and a good memory filtering program that not so coincidentally omits all unwanted data might help too. It gets especially hilarious when you meet a group of such people with exactly the same memory data loss aka ly of omitting. I don't know whether this kind of behavior is more prevalent in some women.
Definitely useful.
Also with the prolonged eye contact (no.9) they do that after their lie. In some sort of way they look at you longer to seek approval or a sign, to see if you believe their lie or not.
Love your vids! And... I touch my face, mouth & chin when I'm thinking during conversation as well.
Are there any exceptions in the rule!
I’d imagine because of my DID it would take someone more work to read a base line for me ?
Thank you so much for the great information!
great job
may be i can deduce about you maybe i am wrong but if i am right please tell me about it you are a thinker you are living i cold place may be. you seems like an introvert or ambivert.
With emotional misalignment remember sometimes myself I talk abt a sad story but don’t feel sad bc i numbed or dissociated from the story.. idk how to explain lmao
He's such a fetus
Lmao, what are u then? A genius?
@@Leahcartman1504 I meant...because this is a very old video and he's so young in it. What? A genius?
@@elizabethwalker7993 oops sorry I misunderstoodz
@@Leahcartman1504 it's alright I understand 😌
I do number 4 a lot but it’s definitely not cause I’m lying... it’s because my teeth are yellow and I get self conscious when I start smiling big
I absolutely love u.