8 Signs A Guy Secretly Likes You
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- Опубліковано 12 тра 2024
- is there someone special you have your eye on but you just can’t seem to figure out how he feels about you? When it comes to understanding guys and their feelings, a lot of the time they can be hard to read. Most guys aren’t as open or comfortable expressing their feelings as those of the fairer sex. Here are some tips to help you figure out when a guy likes you but is hiding it.
Do you have a crush you'd like to impress? Here are a few tips: • 6 Psychological Ways T...
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Vanessa Tao
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Hinata Honda
References:
Pines, A. (2001). The role of gender and culture in romantic attraction. European Psychologist, 6(2), 96.
Fehr, B. (2013). The social psychology of love. The Oxford Handbook of Close Relationships, 201-233.
Schmitt, D. P., Couden, A., & Baker, M. (2001). The effects of sex differences and temporal context on feelings of romantic desire: An experimental evaluation of sexual strategies theory. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 27(7), 833-847.
Hall, J. A., & Xing, C. (2015). The verbal and nonverbal correlates of the five flirting styles. Journal of Nonverbal Behavior, 39(1), 41-68.
Comment below if you're that shy guy ;D
I'm a girl
Very shy 😅
Yes
Yes
I am a girl but I don’t have feeling for anyone 😀
“He smiles a lot when he’s around you”
My crush 24/7: 😐
LMFAO
Sameee
😷 would be more fitting
LMAO 🤣
Are you in Middle School?
Watching this fully knowing that I haven’t consistently interacted with a boy in years.
Lol same here.
🙋🏻 Same here!
Same lol
Same
I'm a boy
1. He sends a lot of non verbal signs like body language like leaning in closer or mirroring you’re body language
2. Spends time with you
3. Doesn’t talk about other guys with u
4. He asks you a lot of questions
5. Subtly tries to impress you
6. Protective of you
7. Always smiling around you
8. Always trying to make u laugh or smile
You’re welcome
Thank you
Thank you dude 😄
#3- Doesn’t talk about other girls not guys. 😊
One quick thing, number 3 was he doesn't talk about other GIRLS with you, not guys!!
Thanks for the comment tho
@@lissettr4893 Oh right nevermind, didn't scroll down ^^'
As a boy, I will confirm as I go.
1: Yes but no. Sometimes we will lean back because of feeling overwhelmed. But usually, a guarantee is that we shuffle or pull our collar up. Another thing is that we become tight when near our crush unless we have softened up.
2: Depends on the friend's group or avabliality. If we have an active friend and don't come by you often it's because we are usually playing with our friends group. Just because we're not near it's probably because of fear, busyness, or if your friends notice. If you want good chances you should look to see if we are busy and approach us if we aren't. if you do approach and we like you we will enjoy every moment of it.
3: Yes this is completely true bc we don't want to make you mad. If we like you then unless you bring up the word "girls" we won't even have it in our vocabulary.
4: Usually we are scared to approach but saying we do, we have to stay since approaching and then backing away is just embarrassing. Also, a tip is that we will not have anything to say so you need to ask the questions. (most of the time.)
5: Boys most of the time don't have incredible care for their body care. Should you start approaching us multiple times (warning, just because this doesn't happen doesn't mean they don't like you.) we will make body care a primary thing in our lives. And if they don't know about this channel, simply tell them! Then if they watch one of these videos do exactly what it says and hopefully, we will take a hint.
6: Yes, sometimes next to you, and other times when a friend is talking behind your back we will usually say that's not true.
7: Not true in my case. Sure if you start to ease up around us then yeah we will smile. But if you approach us and we avoid it or we start freaking out and don't have our usual intelligence or after a min or so we will either ease up or find an excuse to get out of the nervousness. So if we leave don't take it we don't like you. also if we give a genune smile it usually means the like like.
8: Usually not in the form of a gift because coming to wherever we are and walking up to you with a gift is incredibly embarrassing, instead once we ease up we will joke and play around.
Coming from a boy that should clear things up. Have a good day and also plz like I beg you. I need everyone to see this.
Also if you come by and we instantly get happier is probably because we like you
Thank you very much for your help 😊
I always afraid of approaching my crush first thinking that he might be annoyed. How do I know if he gets annoyed? He still replies to my texts tho but I always overthinking about that.
I always afraid of approaching my crush first thinking that he might be annoyed. How do I know if he gets annoyed? He still replies to my texts tho but I always overthinking about that.
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other.
Women do emotionally connect with other women, better than men do. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more selfless, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women regulate emotion better.
Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.
Bruh u made this long
“He’s always smiling around you.”
Me, trying to figure out if he’s smiling under the mask: I guess I’ll never know
Yep. That's how I figured out that my crush likes me.
If their cheeks seem bigger then he’s probably smiling at you.
that's what the point of the mask is
SAME
thats what the point of the mask is
"Signs that a guy secretly likes you"
Me, a girl who has who doesn't speak to a single guy: INTERESTING
Same 😂
Don't worry I will tell you the best tip
Even if he doesn't make it obvious
If he has told any of his friends about you then homies will make it hella obvious for you.
Pro tip : To know if he has told his friends or not just try to think if he's a very private person who won't even tell his close friends or someone who tells at least his best friend.
wuss 😭🤣
Last time I talked to a guy was 3 days ago. That guy was my dad.
In your case I would recommend keep an eye on guys that stare at you commonly. That is basically a dead giveaway he's into you.
There are three steps to get in a relationship:
1. grab a pillow
2. grab a blanket
3. Keep dreaming
Remember, delulu is the solulu.
I said yes to all these questions BUT IM NOT CONVINCED. I need more self confidence !
Girl, idk if he like me. We both held our gazes for 2 seconds but I straight away looked away (BTW this has happened twice).and in lesson idk if he was looking at me but when I looked at him ne quickly looked to the floor. However he has a friend who's a girl and idk if he's looking at her because she sits behind me but diagonally, if you get what I mean???
@@hafsahaslam6663as a guy, sometimes I’ll just zone out and realize I’m looking at someone, also, never think that he doesn’t like you because he doesn’t talk to you directly. Him not speaking to you is a big sign he’s shy around you!!
@@Bruhbruh-on3ms hi i just saw now. The thing is though he sits diagonally in front of me, so he has to turn he body around to look in my direction. We both are in the same form class (and his friend who's a girl isn't in our form class) and he sits 2rows in front of me and I caught him once looking at me but I looked at him for 2 sec then we both looked away. Idk..what do you think? Aswell there was this one time when I was lining up for lesson and when I was going to the que he was standing next to my friend at the back and all of his friends were at the front and he usually goes there. Then when I came he stayed there for like 1 minute then left. I need help, am I going crazy?
@@hafsahaslam6663 yeah like I said, he’s probably very shy around you. Have you guys ever had a conversation or something?
@@Bruhbruh-on3ms nope. But were both almost in all the same lessons.
How guys tell if a girl likes them:
- In same room
- Looks in general direction
- Winks both eyes at the same time
@Vaggod1 nah maybe she is just being friendly
Wow smart
@Vaggod1 like me
@Vaggod1 not ur couch
Well expect a message soon😏
"he copies your body language"
Him: **breathes**
That girl: he likes me
my crush blinked after i blinked! OH MY GOSH HE WANTS TO GET MARRIED!
@@ishallcallhimsquishy2420 uhhh ok no
Umm.....my crush has slowly started talking my style so what should I think 🤔
XD
@@vandanakataruka1215 hmm are u guys friends
While I may do these kinda of things with a girl I like, I could also do these things with a girl I like platonically. It’s not strictly romantic but it does mean we usually care for you
Bro then how tf are we supposed to know if you like us or not😭
@@scissorluv8207 You can always ask, lol
It might be embarrassing, but at least it’s a direct answer
As a woman I can say this is 50 percent correct and men show subtle signs of liking someone and majority times hide their feelings because they don’t like to be rejected
I'm suprised you say this correctly and as a woman
+5 for correctness even as other gender
+3 for details
=8!
That's very true... We are mostly afraid of rejection , so better keep quiet or simply move on.
My Message for Ladies:- If you know a guy likes you & you also feel the same, then it's better to take first initiative, as your success rate will be much more compared to us.
Thanks for telling me HE IS TOTALLY NOT INTO ME
HAHAHHAAHHAHHAHAHHAHA
Same. It hits hard smh..
Mine shows most of the signs
Same lol
@@bestieedits4437 please dont listen to this video its pretty inaccurate
"He's always smiling around you"
**Him wearing a mask**
Me: *I guess its a mystery*
We talk when we’re outside so he pulls his mask down 🖐🏻
@@Eddie-zn9zr no luck with kakashi tho
Poor you
Guess you could count how many wrinkles they have under their eyes and hope for the best
frrr
There’s this guy in my class and he likes me and me and my friend like him but then suddenly, he says “i dont like you anymore I have a girlfriend now” and then at the end of the school day my friend like “me and him are dating now” like WTH
ouch
Hope you get well soon, you didn't deserve him probably
I will say, smiling genuinely and (rarely) blushing are signs that I like someone romantically
"Signs a guy secretly likes you"
*laughs in pandemic*
Lol yeah 6 FT APART *evil laughing*
Devil at the corner of the room: //blushes//Was I too obvious??
Lol face mask is no identification
Lucky my school opened up and a autistic kid told me he liked me in the middle of class and was about to ask me to go to his party and he literally yelled “IM TELLING MY FEELINGS” to my teacher HELP ITS SO AWKWARD!! 😭
that made me laugh sm i can’t 😭
Haven't seen anyone do it so I will
1. He sends a lot of nonverbal signs
2. He spends a lot of time with you
3. He never talks to about other girls around
4. He asks you a lot of questions
5. He subtly tries to impress you
6. He is often protective of you
7. He is always smiling around you
8. He's always tries to make you smile too
Half of that is literally just normal friend stuff lmao
@@randomstuffs3060 True
I'm a guy and that is 100% accurate
Number 3 is confusing cuz a lot of guys did that to me :-:
@@khitaraaldilla5406 Maybe they just don't like any girls in general, or like me, I honestly don't like mentioning any boy's name even if they're my friend. If I do it's probably just to call them
I have ASD and I don't understand social ques, your videos have really helped me understand what my friends are trying to put across. They know I struggle but I have 1 friend who isn't the most understanding so your videos have helped
You're channel is one of the best to promote this delulu persona of mine
As a boy I can confirm that this video is very accurate, but one more thing: sometimes when a boy seems to avoid you, it could be that he's just really nervous, so don't automatically rule him out
girls do that too
I have had so many situations when both girls and guys completely rule me out because i don't talk a lot xd
Your comment just gave me hope, thank you so much
This dude is kinda overly friendly with me and it's starting to get awkward
Oh yes that’s me (im a boy)
“Signs a guy has a crush on you.”
Me, a straight guy: Well, well, well, let’s find out.
You gota flatter the homies in some way
@@Phobia-qj9iy you have my respect
Same lol. I guess watching one of these videos that applies to others looking at you is just a little bit of introspection. People just like hearing about themselves, it’s like taking a personality quiz or something (I kind of feel like that’s one of the main draws of this channel)
Same... i was expecting something kinda gay in a way i dont know why but at the end i was just like "damn this is accurate, do i really look this awkward though?" Woman be difficult😔
Hey!, that's me!
No. 5 is very accurate. Always trying to impressed me w/ his intelligence and looks. 😊
I watch these kind of videos to help in form of inspiration for stories because I don't have personal experience with things like this
Nice video btw❤
i don’t think there’s anything more confusing than having a guy best friend that everyone ships you with
edit: they never like you back 💀
That's actually true
That actually happend to me... didn't have a great ending. Last time we spoke was december 2020 xd
Or the opposite, having the girl be shipped with you.
That's so true!
It happened to me all the time to the point they went crazy, ending up both of me and my guy best friend limiting our interactions together inside school. But we still talk via chat
I mean, if they're truly best friends and neither has an ulterior motive, then I can see why. They are the most comfortable with one another that they could possibly be... and that is what everyone WANTS in a relationship so how could they not ship it 😆
*he’s always smiling around you*
At school: HES WEARING A MASKSSSSSSS
eyes do also smile
SAMEEE PFF
but i cant complain i get to catfish people 😫
I can tell when he laughing 😗🌝
your pfp is everything
Me who's in the Philippines and not allowed to go outside: WE'RE ON QUARANTINEEEEE~
omgggg, all these are way to relatable, imma cry omg😭❤
I actually just had a situationship thing (or whatever it was) so this was perfect for me. I don’t think he was ever that much into me tho cuz he only did a couple of those things in the vid. But it was very helpful for future reference so thank you😊
Number 9 : if he has a big group of guy friends, just watch them. They will tease the shit out of him when you’re around
that’s so smart what
@@duckster-fos2747 it’s cause they think it’s funny
@@ilikesoccer1857 well yeah i know that. that’s why i said it was smart
But what if he doesn't tell them
Me and my friend group only tease the shit out of each other when the other guys crush isn’t there
“has a guy ever confessed that he’s had a crush on you?” that’s when i knew i was off to a bad start
Same
*Me Too.*
Someone confessed to me like a few weeks ago n I’m still like mentally processing what’s like able bout me 💀👍
Once. One time for me when I was in middle school. I freaked out and ran off because I didn't know who he was (super shy in that that time). Then later I remembered we were in a peddle boat race together, but I was too embarrassed to say anything after that. I liked someone else at the time, I just felt bad that I was too shy to give a proper rejection and apologize for running off 😬
Same. 😐
So, I just watched a similar video like this one, but with girls. I watched it, and that particular person did almost all the things that were listed in the video. And now, I'm watching this one, and it seems like that everything connects! I really like to make people laugh, as well as her, and we like to be together and talk for a good while. I'm not really sure if she is interested in me, but I gotta try!!
am goin through the exact situation too with the girl am talkin too you think I should ask her out?
All you have said rings true, as a female this particular person does what you have said, smiling, making me smile, protective, never talks about other girls, spends alot of time with me etc and the feeling is mutual and very soothing for the soul!
“Thoughtful little gifts”
Me: He once threw a donut at me…
BRUH BYE NO THEY DID NOT. BRUHHHHHHHHHHHHH FOR REAL? ._.
Well you might as well throw that ass in front of them and see how they react 0-0
JKJK
At least it was a donut depending on what kind it is those things are good
ahahaahhah
@@supergirlysofia3054 Nahh. This was almost two years ago, and we're not even friends now.
Did it land in your mouth 😃
"8 signs a guy secretly likes you"
me: "well this 100% confirms no guy has ever liked me 🙂"
me too all he do is avoding me 😭 but i guess him avoding made me move on more faster
@@ily4758 Avoiding you of your cuteness.
Yup. But according to my cousin her cousin had a crush on me at a point(I promise we are not related, I am related through my cousins mom, and the guy was related to her dad)
same 😢😢
im a guy and your crush could be just very nervous because they have never talked to you or they like you
Also your voice is so beautiful 💙💙
This is so true! I have never noticed this behaviours on myself
Remember: Like doesn't mean love. Dude could just consider you a friend and friends talk a lot, do similar things, and look out for each other's well being.
EXACTLY
Here's giving someone a reality check 😂
@@sweetnsour3693 EXACTLY
Yess
goes both ways, also! :)
“Signs a guy likes you”
Me who only likes fictional characters:
Interesting🤨
Thats so right lmao
Draco.......the ferret
Right 🤣🤣 Can feel as a Potter head🤣🤣🤣
Get a life, sorry not sorry. Don't mean to be rude but that's dumb
You're not only welcome to the club of otaku's hehehe it really hurts but it's happy when there is something new
Thank you this helped me so much!😁
And if he can cry around you he trusts you. He may not LIKE you if he cries around you/is vulnerable he trust you and is closer to you
As a guy, a guy constantly smiling in a genuine way is a telltale sign they like you
Also feel free to ask any questions
Hi! So there is this guy I work with and he's new. He transferred to this store recently but he is leaving around January. The other day he kept saying "gracias mi reina" which is "thanks my queen" while smiling, in Spanish. He kept playfully pushing me, bumping, nudging me. I couldn't reach the top shelf and he got behind me to help me. He kept trying to trip me (not on purpose) and when I stayed way past my shift, he said "let's hurry and go home." We would be alone for a bit and I noticed he took off his hat at least twice and messed with his hair and I don't know what that means. He's funny and cute and seems like a nice guy, but I don't think he likes me because maybe that's just how he is, a flirty type of guy. Any advice? Sorry for the long rant but thanks in advance !
@@caro9887 if he is leaving around january then definitely make some sort of move!
Maybe start by flirting back a little to get started, and see if he catches on, but please, take a chance and ask him out before he moves, you dont want to live a life regretting whay couldve been when you could know for certain by asking him.
Remember, regret hurts waaaayyy more than rejection does!
@@rudalph529 thanks a ton! And you're right regret does hurt more... I'm just too scared/nervous because of the fact that I MAY get rejected 😓
@@rudalph529 I learned the regret thing the hard way.
he’s always smiling
masks: *im about to ruin this whole man’s career*
Nah his smile is cute too 😔❤
notice his eyes it really shows if he actually like you
lmfaoo
In school I see him in the hallways every day, and I wave at him, he does not wear a mask, but he does not wave back, he smiles at me, and stays staring at me! Can someone help me find out wether he likes me or not? Like why does he not wave back? But he smiles at me-
@Arianna Rodriguez 🩰❤️
he might like you! the thing is, my crush did the same thing except he waved, and turns out he didn’t like me but some other girl :/
but yeah, there’s a chance he does !
00:00 Understanding how guys feel about you
00:36 Nonverbal signs and spending time are key indicators of a guy liking you.
01:15 Signs a guy likes you
01:47 Signs a guy likes you
02:21 Guys try to impress girls they like
02:59 If a guy is protective or always smiling around you, he may value and like you.
03:36 Signs a guy likes you
04:14 Signs that you've won his heart
For yall who need the summary
I’m glad this video exists because there’s this guy who always talks to me and I couldn’t tell if he liked me or now. Now I know the truth :)
My crush - “Hi”
My brain - “Ight don’t be nervous, you got this. Just say hey and ask how was your day”
Me- “hello women what a beautiful day we’re having.”
Same tho XD. when nervous I go into talking like it’s the 15th century all “Oh hello madame what a beautiful afternoon we are having” XD
@@abbyf763 once i said good night in morning and left.
@@amriteshkumar4799 man I say "good morning" when it's actually night and it happens a lot actually
That happens when you're shy and then just make fun of yourself even more
See, that’s when you add “but not as beautiful as you!” And then you pretend you did it on purpose
Yes
Oh my gosh, this helped me so much....
To realize that NOBODY FUCKING LOVES ME 😭
Rest in peace 😞
Same
@Jack Miller Your not ugly and hey I like you :) God says love thy neighbor so I love you and don't bring your self down im sure your handsome.
Lmao same
😂😂😂
My crush doesn’t smile... he just smoulders and scowls. I fell in love with that scowl 😂 and our long gazes at each other too. This man has my heart in his hand. We are both introverts and don’t know what to do with each other. I like my silent serious moody type of guy and he is that but also a leader and a provider. He likes to help and has gone out of his way to help me. It’s his way of showing that he cares and is looking out for me. He also asked me to help him with something a few months later out the blue, which I was very happy to do so. We never used to talk and now we do a little it’s just small talk. I don’t think he is used to putting himself out there and I am much like him too. I am 43 and I reckon he is a bit older than me. This man holds my heart in the palm of his hand. I feel good and safe when he is around me and when he talks to me for a little bit. I know he looks for me and seeks me out where he can. There can be others around but our eyes always look for each other. Always drawn to each other. I hope that we will get the ending to the story we want. One of us needs to make the next move... I cannot wait. I am a hopeless romantic can’t you tell. ❤
Awww. This is so funny because I thought you were a high schooler or something! I’m 13 and I have a crush on my friend, but I’m trying to get over it since he already is dating someone - although middle school dating never lasts and is stupid- but based off his behaviors lately I’ve been iffy but he doesn’t like me back, and I honestly just want to get over this crush so I can day dream about my future. I’m already a hopeless romantic at this age lol!
thank you so much, this definitely clarified a lot! i'm still confused because of the way everyone in my school acts, and his actions really match what everyone else does, but he does it differently than everyone else and only to me (does that mean anything?)
I've never seen boys more mature than the ones in these comments. You guys deserve everything
Thanks tho if never had nobody 😢
i literally know right wot.
Thanks for the love dude! (I think)
@@schizophrenicbullfrog lol im a girl its ok tho lmao
Thanks. But I noticed that most of these signs could just as easily mean they see you as a good friend. That's how I act around my friends.
“Signs a guy likes you”
Me and the boys: “this seems interesting”
We gotta make sure there is no misinformation going around man
Hi, we've been trying to reach you on your car's extended warranty 😃 *I'm your 69th like*
Great im ur 411 liked😃
But many did liked your reply
yesssssssir
Just want to say, thanks for posting this stuff. Very calming to listen to, but I never imagined I'd be able to notice signs in people. Funny, because my gut was right. -v-
I have this huge crush on one of my college mate... he also goes to the same gym as me (since it's located in our college campus) According to this video, most of the signs fits us.. like Him showing more body language, like leaning closer to me while he talks with me or copying my body signs and my way of speaking, He smiles everytime we greet each other and recently, I noticed he's getting more comfortable around me and comes to talk to me often when he sees me working out in gym alone and offers to help, He makes jokes to make me smile, He never make me feel bored whenever we start a random convo..and one thing which I find really sweet of him is that whenever he saw me walking around the campus, he stops his vehicle at the side to greet me or just start a small talk before he drives away... I'm either confused right now cuz he doesn't talk to me much on chat and doesn't seem that interested as much as he did in person... whenever I try to chat with him, he either ghost me after few convos...so lately, I don't messg him that much other than greeting each other in person.. that's why, I'm just confused if he genuinely likes me or he just consider me as one of his good friends..
1. He sends you a lot of nonverbal signs
2. He spends a lot of time with you
3. He never talks about other girls around you
4. He asks you a lot of questions
5. He subtly tries to impress you
6. He is often protective of you
7. He's always smiling around you
8. He's always trying to make you smile too
THANK YOU
tysm!!
Thank you
He subtly tires to impress you*
Thanks!!
“Is he flirting or just being friendly?”
Me: Neither, he’s really rude 😍
Omg are we crushing on the same guy😭
LMAOO FELT THAT
oh
@@aseeesa No there's plenty of dudes like that.
my crush be exact opposite lol-
My crush never starts a conversation... And he knows that I've had a crush on him for half and a year. And my friend told me that her boyfriend's friend/my crush, said that I'm not proactive enough to confess him. The thing is I just wanna take things slow.
My crush is over protective and he always hugs me and talks to me❤ I had a crush on him ever since 1st grade. I’m in 7th. Plus he is my first kiss!
These kind of videos are just fun to watch, whether u have a crush on not ✨
Thanks for the information
🤗
my crush: constantly reminds people that he doesn't want a relationship right now
me: _hahahaaha he'll totally date me_
Are we the same person?!
@@cadence3671 oh?! i mean, maybe.. 🤭
no because same- 2 of my friends asked him if he’d date me and said he doesn’t want a relationship right now and used wrestling as an excuse that he ‘can’t date anyone’ but _he’ll totally date me ahahaha_
Dont force him I know its painful, right person wrong time.
Go for it
So i'm a shyish guy and I have a tip for the girls who like shy guys: whenever I am sitting next to or walking past my crush, if she looks at me, I always look down at something, like my watch, fiddle with it a bit, maybe take out my phone for a few seconds. I kinda just subconsciously do it. Keep an eye out for that.
Very true
Ty so much, actually very helpful
Omg thankyou
hahhahahaa 😡😡😡 BRO YOU JUST BLEW MY COVER NOW EVERYONE'S GONNA KNOW
its more like having a lack of confidence rather than being shy,.. or are these the same things? im confused
I had a crush on a boy in 4th grade and the other kids were certain we would be together, I smiled so much around him and whenever he asked a question I would be dead silent. Then in 5th grade I stopped liking him, now its slowly creeping back but the boy started saying that i still liked him, but of course I never stated to him that I didn't like him anymore bc in 4th grade he knew. Its slowly creeping in, bc I could not stop thinking about him and the possibilities, so I look back into my diaries from before and now I'm starting to like him a little again. Just last year, he would talk to me like "are you reading your bible?" like I was a crazy person and he pushed his friend, and our seats were close together all the time bc of our nameskes, so the boy pushed his friend which almost involved aciddentally kissing me but he didn't, but the boy joked abou it. I'm quite confused, and litterally I just told you the whole story. LOL
I’m a girl, but I thought I’d share my story as well. So there’s this guy in my class, let’s call him NT. So in the semi-beginning in the year we were assigned to sit together at a table. Me and my friends have his num bc we were making a class GC. I didn’t know NT very well bc he wasn’t in our calls a lot and he wasn’t really involved in our friend group. Me and him were really smart, and that made us bond with each other. So after a while, we became closer friends, but we were still a little nervous around each other. So later on, my friend (we’ll call her Jojo) had a crush on NT. So at recess I told NT that Jojo had a crush on him. Unfortunately NT rejected her. (That might’ve been my fault) When we went inside, NT was telling the first initial of his crush’s first and last name. He said AA, which are my first initials for MY first and last name. So it was awkward after that. Plus, I already told my old crush ( who also liked NT) that I liked her (but I got rejected). But she wasn’t in the room when he said it. So me and NT were being shipped together. After us getting closer, I wasn’t sure if I liked my old crush or NT. I finally gave up on my old crush and went for NT. So we were close now, and we even texted more frequently. At this point everyone in my class knew that we liked each other, but we were just too shy to say it. My friends supported me, and I appreciate them so so much. Jojo gave up on NT and found a new crush, she’s going to ask him to be her bf in 2 days. During class, my friend (we’ll call her AL) was sitting by NT. During first recess that day, NT’s girl bsf told me that NT had something to give me. So I set AL on a mission to find out what he wants to give me. After music class, there was a laminated note on my seat. It said “Love you” with lots of hearts around it and his signature on it. Everyday, I think about him, and the note. This video is so accurate, keep up the good work🫶🏻
Ahem, ahem, I am her classmate and yes indeed this is true
You know what I hate the most?
_When there's a rumor that you know nothing about, but it concerns you & a girl/guy having feelings for each other when you don't even know them._
That's the worst. Apparently me and an another person are secretly dating 😒
Frrrrrrr! I always am in this situation!!
Happens to me
@❤️ShyBree❤️ i am myself. im quiet. lmao
@❤️ShyBree❤️ I'm now jealous of you 😶
I started liking this one guy, and he usually wears like white, gray, black... one day I see him and he's wearing a red! t-shirt. Naturally, I complimented him: "you look good in red"... he started wearing red a lot after that... but he was still distant. Fortunately, we've been talking more lately, and there's definitely a lot of the nonverbal signs mentioned in the video :)
OH MY GOD YESSS
I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOUUUu
even though ynow you aren't for sure together or anything yet. :)
He so likes you
good luck!!! hope he reciprocates
ooooooooooooooooooo
i like this guy, he made a song almost everyone uses and it has a part saying “Never gonna give you up, never gonna let you down..”
and hes hot ;)
since i recently met someone a candidate for love of my life, i can added to number 6: you protect her, because shes a part of you. you protect her like you would yourself. youre invested. simple as that. and that means A LOT!
Hii!! Tysm for this video!! I have no idea if this means anything, but this one person always perks up/smiles and waves whenever they see me, and whenever I hug them they always hug me tight around my lower back and smile! It's so cuteeee!! ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
Tysm for your channel! Have an amazing life, pls take care, stay safe and hydrated, and always remember you're loved!!!
He looks at me quite often when we pass each other in the halls…we’re dating but he just doesn’t know it yet🙄🤚🏾
Same girl same
same lol
He said "excuse me, sorry" when he bumped into me accidentally, who wants to be my maid of honor?
Yes same
lol
Does he smile around you?
Crush: wears a mask
lol
LMAO
He needs to be clowned if he wears a mask in 2023
Omg same... But he has an eye smile so it's clearly visible whenever he smiles..... it's so cuteee♥️💓😳
Pls why is this so true😭
Your drawing is so cute
yes
but he told my friend he doesn’t and every time I talk to him he alway like always blushes
Thank u for those facts cuz its usefull
"he doesn't talk abt other girls"
the homies who talk a lot abt my mother
okay, this got tons of likes, thanks
HAHAHAHAHDV
Underrated
Oof he def don't like U 😔
🤔 what homies 👷 bob the builder ?
@@seiko2618 him to
Guy here. A girl that shows interest in us is much more attractive than a girl that doesn't show interest. So even if we didn't really show interest to begin with, chances are we simply aren't aware of you as an option to us yet, and by being the one to initiate interest, you can start entering the guy's mind. Obviously working on yourself is the most important thing you can do, because no one wants a problematic or boring partner
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other.
Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.
Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.
@@icysnow57cold64 sounds like you haven’t met proper men. We don’t typically bond emotionally with each other, but we definitely soften up around women. We bond more with humour and sometimes with deep talks, so when we know you a bit better we will learn to open up more emotionally with you
@@johannvantassel4604 Men and women are very psychologically different from each other, and so they think very differently from each other, and that would make it very hard for them to bond with each other.
Male and female brains are wired very differently from each other. Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do.
Females have a larger frontal cortex than males, making them a lot more emotional than males are. Also, males and females produce hormones that are very different from each other that affect their brains and their way of thinking very differently from each other. Male bodies usually produce high levels of testosterone and female bodies usually produce high levels of estrogen. So males and females are both mentally and physically different from each other, and that would probably make it harder for them to bond with each other.
Women have oxytocin levels that are 8 times higher than in men. For women, oxytocin creates a strong emotional bond.
It is released 3 times in a woman’s life at a very intense level. women have better endorphin release capacity than men
@@icysnow57cold64 yet the only reason you and i exist after thousands of years of human generations and evolution prior to it is the result of male and female bonding.
@@icysnow57cold64they bound romantically because its conditional relation where a man satisfies a woman and a woman satisfies a man physically.
Life goes on even if you are not emotionally bound but if men and women do not have physical relationship they go berserk and that is how God has made all of us.
Berserk means man -man relationship, woman-woman relationship which is totally against nature.
So he doesn't, i finally found something to cry about. Never a guy did act like this around me, but it's okay. Maybe it's not the time yet to find my love. Anyways thanks for showing me the reality, so finally i can stop having these empty hopes.
Reading these comments from guys confirming this and realizing my crush (male) does most of these around me (fem.), it gives me hope to ask him out
Do it :D
My crush is VERY shy I guess and He doesn’t talk a lot. He often kept smiling at me and showing me his drawings. When I see him I usually stand or sit next to him because I often think he’s uncomfortable around me. I’ve never met a guy like him before so I’m trying my best! ☺️
Kinda sounds like me ngl xD but still adorable!
Lol that sounds like my crush
As a guy, don't assume he doesn't like you. 90% of guys will be too shy to initiate convos with girls. Try to talk to him first, as this will show him your interested and so that he doesn't have to be nervous to make the first move
Him showing you his drawings, especially if he is shy is such a great sign! It means your opinion matters a lot to him and maybe he's even trying to impress you 😉
Him showing his drawings is a good sign
Psych2Go: He sends you a lot of non-verbal signs
Crush: Never talks to me
Me: Yep, he totally likes me back
My sad story☹☹☹☹😩😩😩
This gave me a laugh that I totally needed
or he's the type of introvert where they're uncomfortable talking to people they don't normally talk to (like me)
But if you talk to him normally but then he just stops then that's a bad news
Engage in conversation. Find out what he likes and ask him a question, or start an argument about that thing. If you have an argument, you can gain a lot of insight about him as if he likes you he might be more likely to calmly argue and let you win the argument.
YUP.
This is it.
The fact that a year ago all these were happening and today it's all gone is terrific.
I brought up a topic about this one girl asking him if he knew her father's salon and umm, he was like, "Yeah, I got a haircut there'' and he brushed his hair sideways, yeah, it was awkward; he never mentioned any girl unless I bring up a topic about one.. 😅
He does smile when I greet him but sometimes when he's in a bad mood he doesn't yet he still greets me back. ❤️
"8 signs a guy secretly likes you"
me: "well this should confirm that no guy has ever liked me"
Same here 😢
Its ok I still like you😀
You made a stranger laugh with two sentences, you're definitely liked
same
Same
"Has a guy ever confessed that he has a crush on you?"
*No*
Sadly yess😢 this is so truee
yup but i rejected him but i feel bad
AHHHHH IM CRYING ITS TOO RELATABLE
This help a lot!
I feel so bad I never figured this out before. There's a guy I've been friends with for a couple years (I'll call him Bob for the story) that I hadn't really thought about as an option cause I had a massive crush on this other guy for a while (I have ADHD, so crushes tended to be a lot like hyperfixations for me) and it kinda distracted me from anyone else. The other guy didn't reciprocate my feelings, but I was able to move on. Thinking back on it, Bob would do all these things. Eventually, he moved out of state. Like 6 months or so later, a mutual friend of ours was getting married. I went to their wedding and found Bob there! We were thrilled to see each other! We hung out the whole party. At the end, he walked me to my car and gave me the tightest hug, nuzzled his face in my neck and just stood there. I heard him mumble something about how he didn't wanna leave (he was only back for the wedding). I was sad too, cause I didn't want him to leave again. He then asked if he could kiss me, and I said yes. He kissed me goodbye and went on his way. I knew for sure now that he liked me. Now, I think I like him too and might have before, but was too distracted to notice. But, I feel bad for not realizing how much I missed him until he came back for one day. Now, he's back home on the other side of the country and I don't know what to do...
Do you have his number?
@@Sophie-sy1hz I do, yeah
@@thealmightybipper3381 You could send him a message, tell him you were happy to see him again at the wedding
"Signs a guy secretly likes you"
Me, who has a boyfriend: This sounds like the type of video I need!
Wow
same
I will never understand how girls function lmao yall something else 🤣
@@romeoallkja9097 BAHAHAHA
@@romeoallkja9097 I watched it with my husband lol mostly because when he had a crush on me it was obvious and I thought it'd be fun to see how accurate this was. It was pretty cute honestly thinking back
When you listen to this video and no one comes to your mind....that's When you know...you are at the highest level of being completely single!🙂🌼
Lmaooo 😂😂 let’s enjoy it
I feel that :')
Or a guy
God damn yess… bruh
Single life is the bestest. Change my mind 💅✨
I often act protective towards my crush (I’m female, he’s male) like saying “don’t touch him” to others when I’m already up in his personal space. I just figured out that I like him recently too. But he has high-functioning autism, so I can never tell how he feels about me.
The thing is, the guy I like I barely ever get to see. The few times we do see each other it’s very brief and we often just make eye contact. I wish I had the confidence to go up to him or something
“Did anyone in particular come to mind?”
Me: *zoning out and imagining scenes with him* huh?
ayyyoooo
ayyooooo
Ayyyoooo
Ayoooooo
As a guy, this is essentially just letting me know how to not put that kind of energy out there to my female friends. Got to keep it professional.
Lol well some of these are okay between friends. Being protective to an extent, making them smile and smiling when you're around them are all pretty normal for friendships but in combination with some of these would cause a misunderstanding.
@@brattrox2939 I already do those things, although I try to be sneaky about it.
There’s nothing wrong with being genuine
Ong
Yeah, you wouldn't want a girlfriend or something.
I have a crush on my coworker, her name is Hannah, and I see signs like she twirls her hair, makes strong eye contact, asks me if I am "ok" everytime, asks me more questions and she's still single!!! (which I knew when we were discussing our coworker's engagement ring)
I do hope she doesn't look for anyone because I think she's the "one" for me. I just keep thinking about her day and night, it just makes me feel sick when I don't see her in the weekend or every time she works from home... I'm waiting at least 2 months or after christmas parties so I can first display my talents then tell her how I feel, I'm so done hiding these feelings, it's the first time that ever happened to me and I know that the Lord handpicked her for me. What's keeping me from asking her out are the external factors like what would my coworkers think if a 23 year old newbie is hitting on a 27 year old veteran. Or how will it affect the work environment especially when it's a small company. Man I'll just be at rest with Lord and praying He will make opportunities for me to know Hannah....
There's this guy in my class that everybody says he likes me but I didn't think that's true 😂
He also stares at me in class and when i look at him, he just smile weirdly and says it nothing 😅
He also strangely protective to me and jumps out of nowhere when i get hurt
😅😅😅
Oh, he likes you ❤
"Did anyone in particular come to mind?"
Yes. Myself towards my crush.
ahahahaha YES!!!
dude Marichat fan yasss
i feel like my crush has a crush on me but i don’t want to be in a relationship
@@Zoe.Is.Cool. you dont wanna be in a relationship but u have a crush on them and they have a crush on u as well. Lucky bro.
Yess
when adrien agreste is literally all of these 💀
"She's just a friend"
omg stawwpp yes
@@anhxd2199 :( brb gotta go cry in the bathroom
@@anhxd2199 he lied
😶😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
There is this guy at my school that claimed for awhile that he did not have a crush on me. It was obvious he did his close friends (also my close friends) noticed it too. He does everything x5 in this video. Finally a few days ago he said something to me along the lines of "thank you for being the only girl I can talk to without stuttering". He is also VERY affectionate towards me and trys to protect me.
What do you guys think? Does he have a crush on me, or not?
There is just this boy in my school, and we do these exact things, so thank you for posting this, now I know this boy likes me!❤
It hits hard when your crush hates you...
Edit,
Ok since lot of people are asking why he dislike me...It's cause we were rivals. Now it's not like that...But I don't know...He hasn't changed...
Happened to me today...
😶😥
Jesus bro
noo 😭
It happened to me year ago.
I swear i will never forget the day when i fell in love with her.
Now we are very close friends and now I'm happy again
He likes to do stuff with me when his friends aren’t around and walks close to me it’s so cute🥰
Cute
Be careful. That's a red flag.
@@b-utifulbruiser3693 not saying you shouldn’t be careful and alerted, but you can’t *always* assume the person has bad intentions. If they’re comfortable being with him then there’s no problem, i know what you mean though 👍
@@b-utifulbruiser3693 maybe he's shy, especially if they are still young, teenagers. Don't assume
The Kenma Pfp I love it
Ok if there’s any guys here I’d like some advice 🙏. There’s this guy in my class who’s a pretty confident and outgoing guy that I have a feeling may like me (but in a hallway crush kinda way). We’re seated close to each other in a lot of classes, but sometimes when I’m near him I feel my chest tighten and the single brush of the knee can get me flushed, but the thing is I have a feeling this is mutual, since I can almost feel the tension between us.Other times when I look in his direction his head will quickly turn as if he was looking at me, or I can feel his gaze, one time we even quickly locked eyes. (But the thing is we haven’t even had any proper conversations out of the subject of schoolwork, since he’s usually confident if he liked me wouldn’t he want to try and approach me?)
This is pretty helpful. I have a crush and he acts so weirds around me. And at the end of the day for all my fellow classmates and I, I was in the basketball court and he showed me a half-court shot. And I think he has no feelings for me, but my classmates say he does. I believe them more than myself. lol. 😳
It's great to see that my husband still has a crush on me after 15 years of marriage.
I'll watch anything from Psych2Go, especially when Amanda narrates it. Her tone makes my soul smile.
aww that’s so adorable!
That’s adorable! I’m so happy for you.
That’s not a crush, that’s pure love.
That’s good 👍
That's so adorable 🥺 I want me some man like that too!