Breaking Free From Toxic Relationships: How To Navigate And Thrive

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  • Опубліковано 20 тра 2024
  • In my first podcast I talk with Dr Ruth Ann Harpur. She is a clinical psychologist with experience and expertise in relationships, and different personality types. We had a chat about the dynamics that take place in unhealthy, toxic, abusive relationships, some of the obstacles to recovery, the impact of abuse and some ideas to help navigate a better future.
    This podcast should be available on most podcasting platforms
    Dr Harpur's UA-cam channel, and links to resources:
    / @drruthannharpur
    #narcissisticrelationship #unhealthyrelationships #mentalhealth

КОМЕНТАРІ • 25

  • @pab3783
    @pab3783 Місяць тому +10

    “Sometimes I think you have to be ok with being the villain in someone else’s story.” Thank you.
    This comment alone helps a lot.

    • @drruthannharpur
      @drruthannharpur Місяць тому +1


      Sometimes being the villain can be fun 😈😉

  • @narcissism-masterclass
    @narcissism-masterclass Місяць тому +12

    Hi Darren. I've found it takes time -- sometimes a lot of time -- to break free from toxic people. But, eventually, it happens.

    • @Vixinaful
      @Vixinaful Місяць тому +1

      Exactly this. Ive come out of 11 of them, one after another since I was 14 and it took on average 2-4 years on each because they are SO HARD to rid. They completely PANIC when one leaves snd start stalking which is incredibly pressuring so one gives in.

  • @kevinc9194
    @kevinc9194 Місяць тому +3

    Narcissm " The fear of not being Special" Brilliant, Thanks.

  • @manleenkaur7942
    @manleenkaur7942 Місяць тому +5

    Wow, you guys hit so many raw nerves. Love the fact that you need to be okay with being the villain in someone's story.

  • @TheeyeOftruth-yx2np
    @TheeyeOftruth-yx2np Місяць тому +2

    Thank you so much for this Darren and Ruth, Absolutely tremendous, I self validate and approval, And the best revenge is no revenge, The best revenge is to be unlike him, Keep up the good work and keep shining light and speaking truth on this subject, Peace, love, Respect to you both and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory to the universe, The most high God is great 💚💛💜❤🐶☘🌞🦄🤗🌌🌲🕊🐎😊🌝😃🦁🐉✌🌹😘

  • @northernsegageorge6510
    @northernsegageorge6510 Місяць тому +1

    Very true about connecting with people. I went through awful time with ex bpd gf and it really helped when I opened up and sought help and was just honest with what was going on and spoke to friends and a few others. It really helped me realize I was being abused by her.

  • @roverdover4449
    @roverdover4449 Місяць тому +3

    New format (interview), Love it!

  • @christinefeinholz9115
    @christinefeinholz9115 Місяць тому +2

    Oh wow, Ruth! Lightbulb moment! “We want to make ourselves needed so we don’t get abandoned, but we never really know if we are wanted”…😮…how can we address this?? It has always been my MO….thank you for your work .

    • @christinefeinholz9115
      @christinefeinholz9115 Місяць тому +1

      Something that has helped me is to slow down…a small example is not jumping in the car and slamming the door but getting in slowly and gently shutting the door.

    • @drruthannharpur
      @drruthannharpur Місяць тому

      Practice being a little more demanding, saying no to people, doing things differently to what you do now and observe the results - HTH ❤

  • @winter-qd4yw
    @winter-qd4yw Місяць тому +1

    Thank you! Great advice! Looking forward to your podcasts! Thank you as well Dr Harpur. Will check out your channel

  • @rfoley402
    @rfoley402 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for the very sensible and sound wisdom offered here. I hope you have her on again.

    • @drruthannharpur
      @drruthannharpur Місяць тому

      Thanks!
      Happy to come back if Darren will have me!

  • @richardgoreilly4706
    @richardgoreilly4706 Місяць тому +1

    Great presentation.

  • @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes
    @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes Місяць тому +1

  • @Anivasion
    @Anivasion Місяць тому

    Are there common petsonality traits amongst the victims of narcissists? In my brief experience, the more hopeful and compassionate the person, the more likely they are to become a target.

  • @SHEvolutionOfficial
    @SHEvolutionOfficial Місяць тому +2

    @DarrenFMagee, @drruthannharpur great info throughout. thanks for sharing yout sit down with us!

  • @Elizabeth-yg2mg
    @Elizabeth-yg2mg Місяць тому

    Wish I could be nutshelled--37 minutes of chit-chat.

  • @tom-vx1lp
    @tom-vx1lp Місяць тому

    i paid 3 different laew firms and was still forced to plead guilty over false accusations. very disappointing