This was unrehearsed with no retakes......not bad for a debut interview!!!! Loved every minute of it!!!! Thank you for all the positive feedback! xoxoSandi
Sandi Maker you did a great job. My oldest nephew who is now in his 40s had that type of swing when he was a baby. I remember the hand crank but I also remember how if he didn't fall asleep quick enough would get startled by winding the crank again and he would start crying. I have twin great niece and nephews who had the current swings..no crank,easy gliding swing and no hard plastic piece that you have to fight when you put baby in or take them out. Congratulations to the new parents and Gramm to be.
We, Me and my husband, love your daughter Melissa. Now we got to know why she is so beautiful. Keep coming Mam in videos, we loved to see you. We wish to see u again n again.
Girl, you don't need all this junk. Trust me, we have six kids and we managed just fine without all of this stuff. You'll regret wasting your money on it. You're going to be a fabulous mum without all these gadgets - just like your mum. A simple bassinet like the one you had will be more than fine. As for baby monitors, rather than the fancy camera/phone type ones, I used one with an apnoea alarm on it for our youngest. She was seven weeks early and it was such a relief to know if she forgot to breathe we would know instantly. Also, if/when you decide to use formula it takes only minutes to prepare several bottles with water and you can get little plastic powder dispenser pots that you can use to divide the powder into the correct amounts and then you just pour it in and shake the bottle when it's time to feed. All the money you save not buying all these fancy gadgets that women have managed without since the dawn of time, can go toward your daughter's college fund or into a savings account for her. I know these gadgets seem exciting, but they really are designed to con parents out of money that they really don't need to spend. I never regretted not having any of this stuff, but I have friends who regretted buying it.
I agree..my daughter is pregnant with #5 and has a swing & bouncer and that's it! Mixes her own formula..only takes a min. Baby sleeps down stairs during the day..gets used to the noise of the kids and TV..at night goes upstairs with her in a little playyard until a year old then gets a full size crib and moved in with one of the other kids!
we have a one year old, and one of my goals was to not buy a bunch of baby gear. we only purchased the car seat and stroller combo, a crib, a diaper changing pad, and something to bathe him in. that's all.
First, I just want to say this is a great video! Never seen a video that talks about the difference in parenting over the years! Your mom is a great mom! You can tell how much she cares for you! Thanks for sharing! Contest answer... I need a new phone because I realized I need more storage capacity on my phone and a better camera! :)
Congratulations, Melissa and Chad! When I first found out you were pregnant, I immediately told my 2 sisters. We all love your channel and you inspire us to keep our homes cleaner and tidier. I am so excited for you to start sharing all things kid. I actually use an old school, non visual baby monitor with my 17 month old. Works great for us. I also used a hand me down crank swing with my first baby, nine years ago. 🙀 I would love a new phone for my husband. We have never used any Android phones and we would love to try them out. My husband has an iPhone 5 and it seems to glitch so much anymore. As a stay at home mom and homeschooler I devote my time to my family and my husband is the only breadwinner. He has sacrificed a lot for us and it would be awesome to give him something that’s actually new.
Gadgets are great, but there is no replacement for Mommy (and Daddy!). Follow your heart ❤️ Breastfeeding was really simple-not easy-and perfectly healthy and helpful with bonding...
Angeline Roberts AGREE 💯 %!!! These days every invention tries harder and harder to "detach" the parents more and more from their babies. Also everything is to accommodate the parents needs and not the babies!!
I agree with your mom. My son was also born in 1982. He had the swing'omatic, the door way jolly jumper, no bassinet needed, you'll have a crib. Let that baby cry and make noise, they are allowed to, I'm sure they take after parents if they like to 'talk' or not. Baby formula is stupid easy to make from powder, no need for a 'coffee' style maker. If you want something easier, use the tins of formula. Do not use that straight jacket!!! I never had a baby monitor, as I lived in an apartment. I managed as a single mum without all this Tech, and saved a ton of money which could be spent on more important things. (I even used cloth diapers which I washed myself!!!)
Your mother seems very reasonable and rational about the whole thing. I mean, really, some of those things do sound like the epitome of lazy parenting!
Parents in 1982 didn't know any different but did the best they could with what they had at the time and they were just trying to be the best loving and responsible parents they could be. I was born in 1982 as well and my Dad said that I had all the best baby paraphernalia a baby could have at the time even if it didn't look like much compared to all the cool baby gadgets new parents have to choose from today.
I had my oldest daughter in 88. I had her crib and this old fashion bassinet that they used to put babies in in the car. I had a lamb skin rug to lay her on. As she got older I had a johny jump up and like your mom, I wish I had an adult one! And this thing called a walker, the baby sat in a little seat and could push herself around. My mom did cloth diapers and for me it was disposable all the way. I also breast fed, so no bottles. The biggest and most important thing I got was a strap on baby carrier. The one I had was made by snuggly and it let me clean, grocery shop and all that. I loved it so much. Congrats! Love your videos and I think your mom was great on the video! A natural.
I love the "sit down and gather wisdom" time with Mom! So special. I'm due in December with my husband's and my first baby. A phone would be great for my husband because his has been through the wash a time or 2 and is starting to give out. It's a pretty sad little thing but truth be told, he makes it work and never complains. Thanks for the opportunity and I absolutely love your DIY cleaners!!
I love you videos and all the updates on the new baby. I also have my 1st grandson coming Dec 13th!!!! I'm 62 so I would say it is about time. Your mom talked about the swing, well that was the ONLY way I got my shower when my daughter was a baby. I would have to put her in the swing in the bathroom while I showered for work, otherwise it was cry, cry, cry. It was a life saver.As far as the tech upgrade------I use a tracfone and honestly it's ok for emergency when it works so I would say it is time for an upgrade. Keep up the videos, and I can't wait to see you daughter.
Melissa, my daughter was born in July of '82 also. Four years ago when my first grandson was born, I remember telling her the only thing that she and I alike with our newborns was test formula on our wrist. Too funny!
My kids were born in the 80's also. I now am a Grandma. The only thing I would have liked back then that is available today is the battery operated swings. They now let the baby lay down and be more comfortable and there's no "stopping" the swing to wind up again😊
Loved this video! I have 3 kiddos and I just wanted to mention, that all I used from your list was a bassinet and formula. Sometimes as a first time mom, you think you may need all sorts of stuff, but really and truly you don't. If we lived in a two story house I could understand the use a baby monitor but I have never owned one. The bassinet that we had was not technical in any way. It's amazing how technical things are these days!
Melissa, my babies loved their swing. The swings today may play nice music etc. but the swinging is the same and I recommend getting one. Swaddling is nice for babies but I guess I'm old school and I always heard my babies, which is how I learned to identify their happy sounds from unhappy sounds. Things are so technical today, you need to,use what is best for you and enjoy your little girl. I need a cell phone upgrade because I live in Upstate NY boonies and we just recently got a cell phone tower and my phone actually works at home. Time to upgrade!
Fisher Price Cradle swing and the video & audio monitor. Perfection. I did a Granny Nanny gig for my grand daughter and those items were wonderful!! She is now 6 and Grandma loves her!!!
This was such a fun video! Awe I loved that your mom joined you for this one, Melissa! Lol my babies were born in 1997 & 1998 and I had a crank up swing for them then too! My oh my how times (& tech) have changed! By the way, I need a phone upgrade so I can continue watching your UA-cam videos on the go! ;-)
My daughter had the same swing you had, she was born in 89 and she loved it she use to sleep there and she was fine, on the other hand my grandson had the sophisticated one with alll the lullabies, white noises you name it and he didn’t like it...luckily my daughter kept the box and she was able to return it.... your mom is so cute & I agree with everything she said.... congratulations grandma!
You know each baby is different so many like the swing, many don't. As far as all the gadgets, do your research but you can always send out hubby to get what you need once baby arrives. For us a play yard has always been our lifesaver and we've used the bassinet and changing table that came with it. We used it also going overseas. A breast pump is something that we didn't have with our first 1 but learned the hard way and with the 2nd one. You will learn a lot as you go. Trust your mommy instincts Melissa. You'll be great at it.
Great video! It’s not just about spending so much money on unnecessary stuff, it’s all the space all these things take up! And don’t go overboard buying things before the baby is born! You can always buy something later on if you think it is necessary! 😀 Your mum is great ❤️😘
Hello, Sandi. Welcome to grandmotherhood! My firstborn was also born in July 1982 and he became a father for the first time in February this year. I was astounded at the amount of stuff they have for him compared with my meagre baby items back then. I did have a Jolly Jumper, though!
This has to be one of my favorite videos you’ve done, You have such a beautiful loving mother, Your going to be the best mom like she is to you ♥️ To be honest I don’t need the cellphone, but my fiancée desperately does. He still has the first iPhone that ever came out. His whole screen is cracked and the speaker goes in and out.
Awe your mom is adorable! She reminds me of my mom! Regarding that thing that makes them sleep and simulate the womb; sometimes its good to let a baby cry it out it tires them, and it also is good for their lungs and development. Technology is nice, but sometimes the good ol' fashion way is best. Human interaction is always more important. Still, the technology we have these days so you can check on your baby well not at home is so amazing!
My first born was 1992 and so much has changed. I love the monitors. So handy. A would also make sure I had the baby formula machine. So helpful. Best Wishes
As a mom, nursing is so wonderful for you and your baby. There's nothing better than bring able to provide *free!* nourishment for your baby and watch as your baby is soothed and happy :D
if you are determent to do it you will do it! Get help if you have problems! There are certificate professionals out there that can help you and get you through any problem you might have! www.ilca.org/main/why-ibclc/ibclc check it out. Take it from a mom in Greece who gave birth in fancy private hospital where no one had a clue how to help me when baby couldn't latch and I was so desperate trying and crying when a certified IBCLC professional that helped a friend of mine came along, I am still breastfeeding my 20-month old daughter and it is really the best thing I have ever done in my life! Kisses from Greece, I have been watching your channel for years and putting into practice your tips and advice. I hope my advice will be useful to you in the beginning of the wonderful journey! p.s. this is an amazing website of a Greek pediatrician / expert on breastfeeding, unfortunately there is not much of the context in English pediatros-thes.gr/en/for-parents/diatrofi/%CE%B1%CF%80%CE%BF%CE%BA%CE%BB%CE%B5%CE%B9%CF%83%CF%84%CE%B9%CE%BA%CF%8C%CF%82-%CE%B8%CE%B7%CE%BB%CE%B1%CF%83%CE%BC%CF%8C%CF%82-%CE%BA%CE%B1%CE%B9-%CF%80%CF%81%CE%BF%CF%84%CE%AF%CE%BC%CE%B7%CF%83/
It also ensures you eat properly, to give baby good nutrition. I breast fed for 7 months, but it was not easy for me. I cried every time. That painful 'let down' feeling you get the first few times you breast feed, I had that every single time. I was happy for formula, but wanted to give my son a good nutritional start. The pain we put up with for our kids!
Hi chick256, out of curiosity... Did you get some support from some certified on breastfeeding health professional? I know breastfeeding can be painful for a number of reasons, but I also know that there is solution to all those reasons!
Roudiger1983 yes I went to the Laleche League, and their solution was to just to continue breast feeding. That was also their solution when I told them my nipple was hanging off due to my son biting it. Needless to say I never called again for help. Dr was male and wasn't very helpful. That's why I only lasted 7 months, as soon as I was visiting my mum in England I got her to bottle feed him and I dried up almost instantly. My body knew it had dealt with enough!
Loved this video! It’s nice to hear from previous generations and helps you realise how much stuff we get sold that’s so unnecessary I would love a phone upgrade as my phone is currently cracked screen, the camera is broken and and the home buttn has fallen off! It’s definitely been thru a lot!
Your mum is adorable - and with minimal technology you turned out amazing! X i also think some technology is good/ appropriate - other technology seems to aim at replacing you as a parent and takes away your instincts - don't let that happen x 💚💚💚💚💚
Let me tell you, your mom is so cute I love the way she responded to every single question... I agree with everything she said, my daughter was born in 89 and the only thing I would of wanted back then was the electric breast pump my daughter used, my breast pump was manual and it felt like if you were playing a trumpet.... beautiful video Melissa.
I would say one of the things that I absolutely wouldn't go without as far as baby gear is sleep sacks! You can get nice thick ones at Ikea so that you know baby is warm at night, and you don't have the worry of suffocation like you would with blankets.
Also a May 1982 baby, husband is July 1982! We've got 2 girls going to turn 17 end of July and 13 middle of May this year! I had a hand me down swing and the jolly jumper and they loved them! Had to formula feed my first occasionally. Wow! The whole bassinet thing is crazy! I wish I had something like that with my first! I was up with her every 2 hours to feed for a good 2 years! I wish you well and a quick labour and delivery with no complications. :)
Congratulations! It must be really exciting for you to be expecting your first baby, but it's probably a good idea to wait before buying a lot of the gadgets out there - for the first month or two most babies sleep a lot anyway, and you'll only discover what you really can't live without after a while, so you should concentrate on the essentials pre-baby. I really need a new phone because mine is acting up after 2 years of use and I don't know what I'll do if it dies on me.
What a great video! A great idea behind it. The differences. And it's true, the more sound you give your baby the chances they won't be able to fall asleep under normal circumstances. I just don't like white noise, I'm not sure about it. I personally would be checking with a skilled professional to see if there is any documentation on after effects of using white noise or any back ground noise on a baby. But that's just my opion❤It was so nice to see your Mom. Lots of things to think about, huh? Good luck💟💟💟
I know I was laughing and wondering how much they over priced that, I just wore my kids in a baby carrier during the day (lost most of the baby fat that way, obviously only when I was at home... and not in the car) but yeah just a plain bassinet works and they're so thin that they'll fit right next to the bed, making it easy for the mom to check on them when needed.
This is hilarious. I'm a modern mom and I have never had anything crazy. Just simple. And simple has been better than techie and fancy for my kids. The gadgets take the parenting out of being a parent. And breastfeeding is so good for them. Enjoyed this video. :) your moms so sweet.
love your mom!!! u guys have the same smile!!!! im also from 1982 with my first girl due in late December so i feel the 'pain' choosing what is too much tech or a waste of money... i like the idea of the swing that you can take down and it becomes a bouncer (i got it for.my baby shower)... and most things that have more than one prurpose or that ill be able to use for a long time... the bottle 'kerug" thing i think it's a bit much lol and the bassinet that rocks your baby too... what happens when you go away and u cant bring it or later on having to deal with having to constantly rock your baby to sleep once they outgrow the bassinet... i think whatever u get ur baby used to at the beginning is whats going to set the tone to what you will have to do later. so the simple-er the better... at least thats my plan... kitchen sink baths for the first few months, not too much quiet or white noise so she will be able to fall sleep anywhere. room temperature water if im doing formula etc... im sure you will be an amazing mom cus you are so relaxed and positive! the most and best advisenive gotten is 'go with your gut' cus God puts a little extra umph in it so we can do our thing 😉 re: the contest. i need a cell upgrade cus im about to have my first baby and i wanna get amazing pictures and videos in one place. my current phone is full...and 2 because the gps on my phone is very unreliable and i get lost all the time... indont wanna get lost or have to stop and reset my phone with a baby on board... my gps likes to make me go i circles lol.
Your mom is so sweet and adorable. I agree with her I don't envy all of the choices out there now. Way too hard as a new parent to keep up. I need a new cell phone because mine keeps glitching and shutting off and i have cute kids i need to take pictures of.
Melissa Maker I would be so happy for a phone upgrade. I have always had an android phone and actually prefer them for several reasons. But, the one I have now is so old I can only use it for talk or text! I tell family and friends that my phone is not smart, just mildly intelligent! Loved seeing you with your mother! Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with us!
Melissa Maker I was born in 86’ and my mom has photos of my falling asleep in my high chair with food all over my face. And she said I used to put the bowl of food on my head! 😂😂
Love this video with your mom! She seems like such a sweet lady! I’ve definitely appreciated my parents on a whole new level and my relationship with my mom has grown a ton since I became a mom. I’m sure you’re already seeing that just being pregnant. Have a great time in Hawaii!
Great video with you mom. I’m older than you so no tech for me either! My two cents is to limit the EMF exposure of tech as much as possible since the brain isn’t fully developed for several years. 🍼🤰🏼💕
Oh Melissa, I don't know where to begin. I think you are getting better prepared then I did before I had my son. It seems like as a new mom, one needs to obtain a Phd, and I mean that literally. It has been a quit a challenging journey for me. There is so much that needs to be known for care of a newborn. I could write a novel. But, to keep it short, I feel that with all the gadgets and apps of our current world. There is nothing more soothing to a baby than being held by its own mom or human being. You and Chad will have a new life and your priorities will change dramatically. Its wonderful that you are taking the time to prepare yourself with other moms & your mom.
Congrats on your precious new addition! It is interesting how technology changes over time. My daughter is only 8 1/2. Video monitors were available back then, but fairly new. I had only just switched from a flip phone to a smart phone right before my daughter was born, so I wasn't so tech "obsessed" by then. A video monitor seemed extravagant then, but I would totally buy one with a video and app if I were having a baby today! I do remember when my daughter moved out of our room (at 5 months old) I turned the monitor volume all the way up and put it as close to my head as possible so I could hear her breathing! I also used the monitor way past babyhood. I don't remember how long, but even after she switched to a toddler bed and could spend time playing alone in her room I loved being able to keep a close "ear" on her. One more thing, every baby is different...my daughter loved her swing and used it often - ours had a butterfly mobile with moving lights - and I usually left her in a swing when I dropped her off at daycare. BUT, some friends reported their children did not like using a swing. I could go on and on. Be blessed with your new little family. So happy for you!
Congratulations!! Cute video!! I love to take pictures of my fur babies, niece's and nephew!! Any new technology is a bonus. 💜 Gonna try to have a little one next year. Hehe!! Hope is well with you guys!! :-) From Canada!! :-)
Love your mom, she is adorable! I think all the tech is OTT! We have twin boys now 14 months. My only tech is/was video monitor (although not on my phone) & a formula machine. We didn't use swings & our bouncy seats didn't have vibration. We didn't use white noise, but that means they fall asleep a lot easier - almost anywhere. Personally I think they get hooked on noises or movements & then need it always - as a parent I'd rather not put myself through that. Oh & one item I wish I'd found earlier is the Zoli breathe - it's kinda disgusting, but a life saver!!!
Hi Melissa, I have had a Samsung Galaxy for 4 years now and I have been ready for an upgrade for a long, long time. Especially now, when I need a better camera to capture all the beautiful moments with my baby (BTW, congrats to you guys!). I hope the phone will come my way 😉👍👐
I am not a parent, but I've seen ads on my facebook feed about a bassinet that sits by the bed and swings closer when needed, so you don't have to get out of bed to get baby to nurse or whatever.
Suggestions only as you can do what you want/need: Get a swing that you can use for more than 3 months. Bumbos are not worth it as they start to use them around 3 mos and they don't fit in them for long. When it comes to sleepwear, get the zipper ones instead of snaps as they will save you time esp when you are tired and changing in the middle of the night. Instead of a bassinet, get a pack and play that has one and then you can use it for the time you need it as well as use the pack n play when you travel. Ours even has a changing station that connects to the PNP so we did not need a changing table. We never bought a baby bed, but used the PNP until they were ready for their big kid beds and we have guard rails for them to prevent falling out. Go to 2nd hand stores for a lot of your items. Since you have more than 1 floor, I do suggest getting the baby monitor, but be careful as hackers have been known to get access to the monitors and can view your child. We never connected the monitor online and I used it when I needed to when I was on a different floor. Be careful with electronics as they say to avoid using them when you are pregnant so this would be the same after they are born too - www.mamanatural.com/emf-exposure/ Hope these help. Again these are only suggestions that we have learned with our 2 (soon to be 3) kids.
Haha! This was fin to watch. Your mummi is a sweetie:) I feel so dated. My son turns 5 in febuary and we dis mot have a ny tech at all and managed just fine! We did have a babymonitor with sound only, made our pen formula and babyfood. We had a stroller and a car seat and a baby bed.. Nothing else. I dont think you need all those gadgets. Still to this day our son has only two toys with sound, and he has a lot of toys.. He loves noise and makes all the sounds of his own!
Love the baby comparisons. I'm going to be a first time grandma in May 2018. Even in the last 22 years so much has changed. I love the idea of the rocking bassinet. The only downfall really is that most of the baby stuff is barely used and out grown so fast. It was really fun to set up the baby's r us registry and look at all the new items. I could really use a tech upgrade. My current cell phone is older and has alot of issues. Battery life is pretty much non existent. I would love a new phone to take nice photos of the new baby. Thanks for all the informative videos and help keeping my home clean. I hope you have a future video on house prepping for a new baby. All the best to you and Chad. Also thanks for the recommendation of Ellie Lundquists channel. I keep sending my daughter all the links to her videos since her boys are young and she can see someone parenting in a more recent time.
I saw that bassinet you're talking about just before my second baby was born and as a mom, I was like "No Way!" Babies don't "just cry" you need to be vigilant and tech like that worries me that some parents get a little too complacent in passing on the responsibility of looking out for their babies.
My mom had the crank swing too, it’s amazing how much has changed! Also we were all fed an old fashioned canned milk recipe, no formula. And monitors were not necessary, my mom still doesn’t think so. No phone upgrade for me, I’m pretty happy with my iPhone :)
Awesome video! Just so you know, I just had my third baby last year. With the first baby, almost 10 years ago, I felt I had to have all the things. I had the diaper genie. I had the video baby monitor. I had a bassinet and then a crib. I've found that a lot of stuff, you don't need. With the latest, we don't have a monitor and the baby now sleeps in a crib in the other room and we can hear her just fine. Yeah, if you're breastfeeding, keeping baby in a bassinet in your room for the first couple of months is great. Something I really suggest is a Moby wrap. I love that thing. My baby would be snuggled against me and would sleep while I took care of the older kids or cleaned house, cooked dinner, etc. I even took her on trips with the cubscouts for my oldest and she was as happy as she could be snuggled in her wrap. Don't worry too much about needing all the baby things though. You're going to do great with whatever you have.
I think the bouncer and baby monitor are the only things you need. I'm currently a teenager and even I feel that some of the items that are sold in the market are plain excessive. My parents only has a bounder since my grandmother takes care of me and can't always coax me to sleep (I take like 30 minutes to sleep). Baby monitor might be good if you live in a big house and need to go back and forth at times. Having an extra 'eye' to look over your child is also a plus to me. I guess maybe get a feel for what your child wants in their first week, and just go with the flow, all children are different in the end. (Like I hated pacifiers and my parents didn't even buy one since they noticed I didn't need one but my sister needed it)
Fun video! Loved your mom's honesty! My hands down favorite baby splurge (and we didnt have many!) was the dockatot! Basically a portable bassinet that can be used as a lounger and for tummy time and safe for cosleeping! The rest we got second hand and spent money on photo sessions and easy to use carseats! Good luck to you!
Love your videos! Also, congrats on your baby girl!! I would love a new phone because mine is falling apart. We just had our own baby girl and can’t afford to get new phones. My phone has stopped recording sounds with videos. There are many moments I am missing of my daughter’s first life events that I would love to have to cherish forever. ❤️
I love how common sense your mom is. I also never find old gear funny - there wouldn't be any new gear if it wasn't for the development before, and all new stuff eventually becomes old stuff. Not common sense and motherly love though, your mom is super sweet.
You guys look soooo alike, specially when smiling ☺️ I personally don’t need a new phone but if i were to win it would be a great Christmas gift for my mom 😊
Actually, it's not me who needs an upgrade but my husband, and since the Holidays are coming, it would be great to win and surprise him :D he'd never see that coming!
This is giving me some great ideas to discuss with my parents soon :) Our pregnancy stories are super similar (I’m the eldest, from ‘81, pregnant with our first and due on Feb 27th!). Isn’t it the strangest thing to realise you have been pregnant for half a year 🙀 Hope your pregnancy is going well and it doesn’t cause you too much trouble. Enjoy it :) Thanks for the lovely video!
I found that all of the things I tried with my girls that were supposed to help make my life easier, usually went to the basement. I did love my portable bouncy chair (my kids hated the swing) and the wireless baby monitor. Other than those few things, I think your instinct to check on your baby will override any "piece-of-mind" these gadgets will provide--hopefully.
I have love love loved the sound only monitor from IKEA. the baby part has a soft rubber hook to hang anywhere close to them and the listening end has a simple belt or pocket clip. I’ve even hung it on my shower curtain on early work mornings. It’s rechargeable and super reliable and simple. I even bought a second one to have on hand in case the one I have breaks or wears out.
Look into a owlet baby monitor... I personally never used one but it saved my friends baby's life when she stopped breathing at night.. my kids are 5&3 now and we used some tech but not a lot.. and look into baby wearing... great for getting stuff done around the house when baby needs to cuddle.
Hello first of all great video with great information I need an upgrade because I am a college student with a broken down phone that literally feels like it won't make it another day fingers crossed over here and God bless
Hi Melissa...if you ask me..I would say...u don't need the formula dispenser. It doesn't take much time to make one.. my daughter is 8months old and we haven't even felt the need for this. A simple bassinet will do.. whatever these new tech gadgets provide cannot bring in the bonding between you and your baby while rocking her back to sleep. Ur heartbeat is more than enough to help sooth her in case she is just uncomfortable.. it is difficult only in the first 2-3 months..then things will start coming back to almost normal.. Good luck to both of you..
There's absolutely nothing wrong with taking advantage of innovative new products. Babies are hard enough, if something makes your life easier you'll never regret it.
Your mom is so sweet. Although the gadgets and new things may make things easier, it takes away from the whole, raw experience. I need a phone upgrade because my screen is cracked and the battery dies constantly :(
I love your mom, Sandy, she did a great job in the video :). proud of her. I agree with her I have a daughter your age and we lived without all the technology and raised pretty wonderful kids. The swing is the one item that I'd change the wind up would wake up my kids when it stopped and sometimes the noise from winding it up scared them awake :(. I'd love the cell phone upgrade for my sister who is struggling financially it would allow us more connection time :)
Congrats on baby to come. Honestly as a mom of 5 all the new tech stuff is not worth it. On our last baby we didn't bother to get anything like we had for our other children. We found they took up a lot of space and we're barely used. My phone is almost 4 years old so I am in need of an update.
Thumbs up for my Mom!!!
Thank you Bubbie Sandy! Melissa turned out pretty wonderful without the tech! 🙂
great job!
Melissa Maker your mom is just so sweet! I love this video 😊
Your mom is super sweet, where is she from?
Sherri she’s a sweet bubbie
This was unrehearsed with no retakes......not bad for a debut interview!!!! Loved every minute of it!!!! Thank you for all the positive feedback! xoxoSandi
Congrats Melissa’s mom/baby’s grandma!
Congratulations and thanks for the lovely video!! I was born in 1988 and everything you said reminds me so much of my childhood too :)
You did a fabulous, job!!! Congratulations on the new granddaughter coming soon!
Sandi Maker you did a great job. My oldest nephew who is now in his 40s had that type of swing when he was a baby. I remember the hand crank but I also remember how if he didn't fall asleep quick enough would get startled by winding the crank again and he would start crying. I have twin great niece and nephews who had the current swings..no crank,easy gliding swing and no hard plastic piece that you have to fight when you put baby in or take them out. Congratulations to the new parents and Gramm to be.
We, Me and my husband, love your daughter Melissa. Now we got to know why she is so beautiful. Keep coming Mam in videos, we loved to see you. We wish to see u again n again.
I'm literally 7 seconds into the video and I can't help but smile looking at your mom looking at you! She seems soooo proud of you!
and so beautiful like her daughter.
Girl, you don't need all this junk. Trust me, we have six kids and we managed just fine without all of this stuff. You'll regret wasting your money on it. You're going to be a fabulous mum without all these gadgets - just like your mum.
A simple bassinet like the one you had will be more than fine. As for baby monitors, rather than the fancy camera/phone type ones, I used one with an apnoea alarm on it for our youngest. She was seven weeks early and it was such a relief to know if she forgot to breathe we would know instantly.
Also, if/when you decide to use formula it takes only minutes to prepare several bottles with water and you can get little plastic powder dispenser pots that you can use to divide the powder into the correct amounts and then you just pour it in and shake the bottle when it's time to feed.
All the money you save not buying all these fancy gadgets that women have managed without since the dawn of time, can go toward your daughter's college fund or into a savings account for her.
I know these gadgets seem exciting, but they really are designed to con parents out of money that they really don't need to spend. I never regretted not having any of this stuff, but I have friends who regretted buying it.
Stace McSweeney-Woods it seems like 'less is more' applies to parenting, too!
I have 3, A lot of the additional stuff outside of basics is unnecessary and just takes up valuable space and money.
I agree..my daughter is pregnant with #5 and has a swing & bouncer and that's it! Mixes her own formula..only takes a min. Baby sleeps down stairs during the day..gets used to the noise of the kids and TV..at night goes upstairs with her in a little playyard until a year old then gets a full size crib and moved in with one of the other kids!
we have a one year old, and one of my goals was to not buy a bunch of baby gear. we only purchased the car seat and stroller combo, a crib, a diaper changing pad, and something to bathe him in. that's all.
Stace McSweeney-Woods I so agree with this statement the last thing society needs to do is let machines soothe their child!
Such a cute video! Loved seeing your mom, and the cat cameo was pretty great too, haha!
Anne Lemon hahaha thank you! The whole family!
First, I just want to say this is a great video! Never seen a video that talks about the difference in parenting over the years! Your mom is a great mom! You can tell how much she cares for you! Thanks for sharing! Contest answer... I need a new phone because I realized I need more storage capacity on my phone and a better camera! :)
We had so much fun filming it!
Congratulations, Melissa and Chad! When I first found out you were pregnant, I immediately told my 2 sisters. We all love your channel and you inspire us to keep our homes cleaner and tidier. I am so excited for you to start sharing all things kid. I actually use an old school, non visual baby monitor with my 17 month old. Works great for us. I also used a hand me down crank swing with my first baby, nine years ago. 🙀 I would love a new phone for my husband. We have never used any Android phones and we would love to try them out. My husband has an iPhone 5 and it seems to glitch so much anymore. As a stay at home mom and homeschooler I devote my time to my family and my husband is the only breadwinner. He has sacrificed a lot for us and it would be awesome to give him something that’s actually new.
Anne Zehring aww, thank you!
Gadgets are great, but there is no replacement for Mommy (and Daddy!). Follow your heart ❤️ Breastfeeding was really simple-not easy-and perfectly healthy and helpful with bonding...
Angeline Roberts AGREE 💯 %!!! These days every invention tries harder and harder to "detach" the parents more and more from their babies. Also everything is to accommodate the parents needs and not the babies!!
Aryat O my grandmothers had over 5 kids and did it all . They survived so can we
so agree. too much technology.. not enough human contact.
Angeline Roberts totally true!!!
Mama Maker is So adorable!!!
Thank you!
you're mom did great. She's so sweet. I love this
Thanks!
I agree with your mom. My son was also born in 1982. He had the swing'omatic, the door way jolly jumper, no bassinet needed, you'll have a crib. Let that baby cry and make noise, they are allowed to, I'm sure they take after parents if they like to 'talk' or not. Baby formula is stupid easy to make from powder, no need for a 'coffee' style maker. If you want something easier, use the tins of formula. Do not use that straight jacket!!! I never had a baby monitor, as I lived in an apartment. I managed as a single mum without all this Tech, and saved a ton of money which could be spent on more important things. (I even used cloth diapers which I washed myself!!!)
Your mother seems very reasonable and rational about the whole thing. I mean, really, some of those things do sound like the epitome of lazy parenting!
She is quite reasonable and rational!
Parents in 1982 didn't know any different but did the best they could with what they had at the time and they were just trying to be the best loving and responsible parents they could be. I was born in 1982 as well and my Dad said that I had all the best baby paraphernalia a baby could have at the time even if it didn't look like much compared to all the cool baby gadgets new parents have to choose from today.
I had my oldest daughter in 88. I had her crib and this old fashion bassinet that they used to put babies in in the car. I had a lamb skin rug to lay her on. As she got older I had a johny jump up and like your mom, I wish I had an adult one! And this thing called a walker, the baby sat in a little seat and could push herself around. My mom did cloth diapers and for me it was disposable all the way. I also breast fed, so no bottles. The biggest and most important thing I got was a strap on baby carrier. The one I had was made by snuggly and it let me clean, grocery shop and all that. I loved it so much. Congrats! Love your videos and I think your mom was great on the video! A natural.
I love the "sit down and gather wisdom" time with Mom! So special. I'm due in December with my husband's and my first baby. A phone would be great for my husband because his has been through the wash a time or 2 and is starting to give out. It's a pretty sad little thing but truth be told, he makes it work and never complains. Thanks for the opportunity and I absolutely love your DIY cleaners!!
love this idea for a video. I just had my fourth on jan 16 and my mom was here. Miss her so much. parents are a blessing!
I love you videos and all the updates on the new baby. I also have my 1st grandson coming Dec 13th!!!! I'm 62 so I would say it is about time. Your mom talked about the swing, well that was the ONLY way I got my shower when my daughter was a baby. I would have to put her in the swing in the bathroom while I showered for work, otherwise it was cry, cry, cry. It was a life saver.As far as the tech upgrade------I use a tracfone and honestly it's ok for emergency when it works so I would say it is time for an upgrade. Keep up the videos, and I can't wait to see you daughter.
Melissa, my daughter was born in July of '82 also. Four years ago when my first grandson was born, I remember telling her the only thing that she and I alike with our newborns was test formula on our wrist. Too funny!
Thumbs up for your mom! She seems like a very down to earth. I like her.
Congratulations, I just got back to watching your channel, and OMG, what a wonderful surprise!
My kids were born in the 80's also. I now am a Grandma. The only thing I would have liked back then that is available today is the battery operated swings. They now let the baby lay down and be more comfortable and there's no "stopping" the swing to wind up again😊
Loved this video! I have 3 kiddos and I just wanted to mention, that all I used from your list was a bassinet and formula. Sometimes as a first time mom, you think you may need all sorts of stuff, but really and truly you don't. If we lived in a two story house I could understand the use a baby monitor but I have never owned one. The bassinet that we had was not technical in any way. It's amazing how technical things are these days!
Melissa, my babies loved their swing. The swings today may play nice music etc. but the swinging is the same and I recommend getting one. Swaddling is nice for babies but I guess I'm old school and I always heard my babies, which is how I learned to identify their happy sounds from unhappy sounds. Things are so technical today, you need to,use what is best for you and enjoy your little girl. I need a cell phone upgrade because I live in Upstate NY boonies and we just recently got a cell phone tower and my phone actually works at home. Time to upgrade!
Fisher Price Cradle swing and the video & audio monitor. Perfection. I did a Granny Nanny gig for my grand daughter and those items were wonderful!! She is now 6 and Grandma loves her!!!
I loved that swing! I remember cranking it and putting my sister in it all the time.
This was such a fun video! Awe I loved that your mom joined you for this one, Melissa!
Lol my babies were born in 1997 & 1998 and I had a crank up swing for them then too! My oh my how times (& tech) have changed!
By the way, I need a phone upgrade so I can continue watching your UA-cam videos on the go! ;-)
My daughter had the same swing you had, she was born in 89 and she loved it she use to sleep there and she was fine, on the other hand my grandson had the sophisticated one with alll the lullabies, white noises you name it and he didn’t like it...luckily my daughter kept the box and she was able to return it.... your mom is so cute & I agree with everything she said.... congratulations grandma!
You know each baby is different so many like the swing, many don't. As far as all the gadgets, do your research but you can always send out hubby to get what you need once baby arrives. For us a play yard has always been our lifesaver and we've used the bassinet and changing table that came with it. We used it also going overseas. A breast pump is something that we didn't have with our first 1 but learned the hard way and with the 2nd one. You will learn a lot as you go. Trust your mommy instincts Melissa. You'll be great at it.
Great video! It’s not just about spending so much money on unnecessary stuff, it’s all the space all these things take up! And don’t go overboard buying things before the baby is born! You can always buy something later on if you think it is necessary! 😀 Your mum is great ❤️😘
Hello, Sandi. Welcome to grandmotherhood! My firstborn was also born in July 1982 and he became a father for the first time in February this year. I was astounded at the amount of stuff they have for him compared with my meagre baby items back then. I did have a Jolly Jumper, though!
Hey Junipa..... I was just scrolling through the comments and found yours!!!!! We have so much in common! Enjoy being a grandmother!
This has to be one of my favorite videos you’ve done, You have such a beautiful loving mother, Your going to be the best mom like she is to you ♥️
To be honest I don’t need the cellphone, but my fiancée desperately does. He still has the first iPhone that ever came out. His whole screen is cracked and the speaker goes in and out.
Awe your mom is adorable! She reminds me of my mom!
Regarding that thing that makes them sleep and simulate the womb; sometimes its good to let a baby cry it out it tires them, and it also is good for their lungs and development. Technology is nice, but sometimes the good ol' fashion way is best. Human interaction is always more important. Still, the technology we have these days so you can check on your baby well not at home is so amazing!
My first born was 1992 and so much has changed. I love the monitors. So handy. A would also make sure I had the baby formula machine. So helpful. Best Wishes
As a mom, nursing is so wonderful for you and your baby. There's nothing better than bring able to provide *free!* nourishment for your baby and watch as your baby is soothed and happy :D
Chelle K. It is something I hope I can do!
if you are determent to do it you will do it! Get help if you have problems! There are certificate professionals out there that can help you and get you through any problem you might have! www.ilca.org/main/why-ibclc/ibclc check it out.
Take it from a mom in Greece who gave birth in fancy private hospital where no one had a clue how to help me when baby couldn't latch and I was so desperate trying and crying when a certified IBCLC professional that helped a friend of mine came along, I am still breastfeeding my 20-month old daughter and it is really the best thing I have ever done in my life!
Kisses from Greece, I have been watching your channel for years and putting into practice your tips and advice.
I hope my advice will be useful to you in the beginning of the wonderful journey!
p.s. this is an amazing website of a Greek pediatrician / expert on breastfeeding, unfortunately there is not much of the context in English
pediatros-thes.gr/en/for-parents/diatrofi/%CE%B1%CF%80%CE%BF%CE%BA%CE%BB%CE%B5%CE%B9%CF%83%CF%84%CE%B9%CE%BA%CF%8C%CF%82-%CE%B8%CE%B7%CE%BB%CE%B1%CF%83%CE%BC%CF%8C%CF%82-%CE%BA%CE%B1%CE%B9-%CF%80%CF%81%CE%BF%CF%84%CE%AF%CE%BC%CE%B7%CF%83/
It also ensures you eat properly, to give baby good nutrition. I breast fed for 7 months, but it was not easy for me. I cried every time. That painful 'let down' feeling you get the first few times you breast feed, I had that every single time. I was happy for formula, but wanted to give my son a good nutritional start. The pain we put up with for our kids!
Hi chick256, out of curiosity... Did you get some support from some certified on breastfeeding health professional? I know breastfeeding can be painful for a number of reasons, but I also know that there is solution to all those reasons!
Roudiger1983 yes I went to the Laleche League, and their solution was to just to continue breast feeding. That was also their solution when I told them my nipple was hanging off due to my son biting it. Needless to say I never called again for help. Dr was male and wasn't very helpful. That's why I only lasted 7 months, as soon as I was visiting my mum in England I got her to bottle feed him and I dried up almost instantly. My body knew it had dealt with enough!
This was a cute video, but the best part of the whole video: Ninja Kitty eating the tree!!! 🐈😂 Awesome “cat-e-o” appearance! 😂😄
Loved this video! It’s nice to hear from previous generations and helps you realise how much stuff we get sold that’s so unnecessary
I would love a phone upgrade as my phone is currently cracked screen, the camera is broken and and the home buttn has fallen off! It’s definitely been thru a lot!
Your mum is adorable - and with minimal technology you turned out amazing! X i also think some technology is good/ appropriate - other technology seems to aim at replacing you as a parent and takes away your instincts - don't let that happen x 💚💚💚💚💚
That was your cutest video! Thx to your mom for participating!
Let me tell you, your mom is so cute I love the way she responded to every single question... I agree with everything she said, my daughter was born in 89 and the only thing I would of wanted back then was the electric breast pump my daughter used, my breast pump was manual and it felt like if you were playing a trumpet.... beautiful video Melissa.
I would say one of the things that I absolutely wouldn't go without as far as baby gear is sleep sacks! You can get nice thick ones at Ikea so that you know baby is warm at night, and you don't have the worry of suffocation like you would with blankets.
Also a May 1982 baby, husband is July 1982! We've got 2 girls going to turn 17 end of July and 13 middle of May this year! I had a hand me down swing and the jolly jumper and they loved them! Had to formula feed my first occasionally. Wow! The whole bassinet thing is crazy! I wish I had something like that with my first! I was up with her every 2 hours to feed for a good 2 years! I wish you well and a quick labour and delivery with no complications. :)
I need an upgrade for a gift for a special person. Loved the pictures of you when you were little!
I’m due next week with my first and was born in 1982 too. Now I can’t wait to ask my mom the same questions lol 😆
Your mom is adorable! Thumbs up for her😉👍👍
Congratulations! It must be really exciting for you to be expecting your first baby, but it's probably a good idea to wait before buying a lot of the gadgets out there - for the first month or two most babies sleep a lot anyway, and you'll only discover what you really can't live without after a while, so you should concentrate on the essentials pre-baby. I really need a new phone because mine is acting up after 2 years of use and I don't know what I'll do if it dies on me.
It’s amazing how much you two look alike!! ❤️❤️
What a great video! A great idea behind it. The differences. And it's true, the more sound you give your baby the chances they won't be able to fall asleep under normal circumstances. I just don't like white noise, I'm not sure about it. I personally would be checking with a skilled professional to see if there is any documentation on after effects of using white noise or any back ground noise on a baby. But that's just my opion❤It was so nice to see your Mom. Lots of things to think about, huh? Good luck💟💟💟
wait.. human touch is real important.. where is the sensitivity ...are we creating a generation of orphaned souls?
I don't think I will be getting that bassinet. I just came across it during some research. I can't wait to hold the baby and rock her to sleep!!!
I know I was laughing and wondering how much they over priced that, I just wore my kids in a baby carrier during the day (lost most of the baby fat that way, obviously only when I was at home... and not in the car) but yeah just a plain bassinet works and they're so thin that they'll fit right next to the bed, making it easy for the mom to check on them when needed.
Your mom is so sweet...
I wish to have the phone to give to my hubby in his birthday.
This is hilarious. I'm a modern mom and I have never had anything crazy. Just simple. And simple has been better than techie and fancy for my kids. The gadgets take the parenting out of being a parent. And breastfeeding is so good for them. Enjoyed this video. :) your moms so sweet.
Thank you! Yeah, I like the simple mentality, too.
Melissa Maker You are going to be such a great mama. :)
love your mom!!! u guys have the same smile!!!! im also from 1982 with my first girl due in late December so i feel the 'pain' choosing what is too much tech or a waste of money... i like the idea of the swing that you can take down and it becomes a bouncer (i got it for.my baby shower)... and most things that have more than one prurpose or that ill be able to use for a long time... the bottle 'kerug" thing i think it's a bit much lol and the bassinet that rocks your baby too... what happens when you go away and u cant bring it or later on having to deal with having to constantly rock your baby to sleep once they outgrow the bassinet... i think whatever u get ur baby used to at the beginning is whats going to set the tone to what you will have to do later. so the simple-er the better... at least thats my plan... kitchen sink baths for the first few months, not too much quiet or white noise so she will be able to fall sleep anywhere. room temperature water if im doing formula etc... im sure you will be an amazing mom cus you are so relaxed and positive! the most and best advisenive gotten is 'go with your gut' cus God puts a little extra umph in it so we can do our thing 😉
re: the contest. i need a cell upgrade cus im about to have my first baby and i wanna get amazing pictures and videos in one place. my current phone is full...and 2 because the gps on my phone is very unreliable and i get lost all the time... indont wanna get lost or have to stop and reset my phone with a baby on board... my gps likes to make me go i circles lol.
Your mom is so sweet and adorable. I agree with her I don't envy all of the choices out there now. Way too hard as a new parent to keep up. I need a new cell phone because mine keeps glitching and shutting off and i have cute kids i need to take pictures of.
Melissa Maker I would be so happy for a phone upgrade. I have always had an android phone and actually prefer them for several reasons. But, the one I have now is so old I can only use it for talk or text! I tell family and friends that my phone is not smart, just mildly intelligent! Loved seeing you with your mother! Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with us!
Please share your baby stories with me!
Melissa Maker I was born in 86’ and my mom has photos of my falling asleep in my high chair with food all over my face. And she said I used to put the bowl of food on my head! 😂😂
Love this video with your mom! She seems like such a sweet lady! I’ve definitely appreciated my parents on a whole new level and my relationship with my mom has grown a ton since I became a mom. I’m sure you’re already seeing that just being pregnant. Have a great time in Hawaii!
Ha! With six kids, it would take me forever.
Great video with you mom. I’m older than you so no tech for me either! My two cents is to limit the EMF exposure of tech as much as possible since the brain isn’t fully developed for several years. 🍼🤰🏼💕
Oh Melissa, I don't know where to begin. I think you are getting better prepared then I did before I had my son. It seems like as a new mom, one needs to obtain a Phd, and I mean that literally. It has been a quit a challenging journey for me. There is so much that needs to be known for care of a newborn. I could write a novel. But, to keep it short, I feel that with all the gadgets and apps of our current world. There is nothing more soothing to a baby than being held by its own mom or human being. You and Chad will have a new life and your priorities will change dramatically. Its wonderful that you are taking the time to prepare yourself with other moms & your mom.
Congrats on your precious new addition! It is interesting how technology changes over time. My daughter is only 8 1/2. Video monitors were available back then, but fairly new. I had only just switched from a flip phone to a smart phone right before my daughter was born, so I wasn't so tech "obsessed" by then. A video monitor seemed extravagant then, but I would totally buy one with a video and app if I were having a baby today! I do remember when my daughter moved out of our room (at 5 months old) I turned the monitor volume all the way up and put it as close to my head as possible so I could hear her breathing! I also used the monitor way past babyhood. I don't remember how long, but even after she switched to a toddler bed and could spend time playing alone in her room I loved being able to keep a close "ear" on her. One more thing, every baby is different...my daughter loved her swing and used it often - ours had a butterfly mobile with moving lights - and I usually left her in a swing when I dropped her off at daycare. BUT, some friends reported their children did not like using a swing. I could go on and on. Be blessed with your new little family. So happy for you!
Congratulations!! Cute video!! I love to take pictures of my fur babies, niece's and nephew!! Any new technology is a bonus. 💜 Gonna try to have a little one next year. Hehe!! Hope is well with you guys!! :-)
From Canada!! :-)
Love your mom, she is adorable!
I think all the tech is OTT! We have twin boys now 14 months. My only tech is/was video monitor (although not on my phone) & a formula machine.
We didn't use swings & our bouncy seats didn't have vibration.
We didn't use white noise, but that means they fall asleep a lot easier - almost anywhere.
Personally I think they get hooked on noises or movements & then need it always - as a parent I'd rather not put myself through that.
Oh & one item I wish I'd found earlier is the Zoli breathe - it's kinda disgusting, but a life saver!!!
Hi Melissa, I have had a Samsung Galaxy for 4 years now and I have been ready for an upgrade for a long, long time. Especially now, when I need a better camera to capture all the beautiful moments with my baby (BTW, congrats to you guys!). I hope the phone will come my way 😉👍👐
I am not a parent, but I've seen ads on my facebook feed about a bassinet that sits by the bed and swings closer when needed, so you don't have to get out of bed to get baby to nurse or whatever.
Great video and a thumbs up for your mom too!!!!!
Fisher price Bedside rocker was the best bassinet of all time for my girls. Having a great monitor will be a life saver
Suggestions only as you can do what you want/need: Get a swing that you can use for more than 3 months. Bumbos are not worth it as they start to use them around 3 mos and they don't fit in them for long. When it comes to sleepwear, get the zipper ones instead of snaps as they will save you time esp when you are tired and changing in the middle of the night. Instead of a bassinet, get a pack and play that has one and then you can use it for the time you need it as well as use the pack n play when you travel. Ours even has a changing station that connects to the PNP so we did not need a changing table. We never bought a baby bed, but used the PNP until they were ready for their big kid beds and we have guard rails for them to prevent falling out. Go to 2nd hand stores for a lot of your items. Since you have more than 1 floor, I do suggest getting the baby monitor, but be careful as hackers have been known to get access to the monitors and can view your child. We never connected the monitor online and I used it when I needed to when I was on a different floor. Be careful with electronics as they say to avoid using them when you are pregnant so this would be the same after they are born too - www.mamanatural.com/emf-exposure/ Hope these help. Again these are only suggestions that we have learned with our 2 (soon to be 3) kids.
I could use an upgraded phone because I’ve had mine for 2.5 years and have been thinking of getting an update. Thanks for this great video
the cat was eating the fern! You're mom is very pretty Melissa. I see where you get your beauty. :)
Haha! This was fin to watch. Your mummi is a sweetie:) I feel so dated. My son turns 5 in febuary and we dis mot have a ny tech at all and managed just fine! We did have a babymonitor with sound only, made our pen formula and babyfood. We had a stroller and a car seat and a baby bed.. Nothing else. I dont think you need all those gadgets. Still to this day our son has only two toys with sound, and he has a lot of toys.. He loves noise and makes all the sounds of his own!
Love the baby comparisons. I'm going to be a first time grandma in May 2018. Even in the last 22 years so much has changed. I love the idea of the rocking bassinet. The only downfall really is that most of the baby stuff is barely used and out grown so fast. It was really fun to set up the baby's r us registry and look at all the new items. I could really use a tech upgrade. My current cell phone is older and has alot of issues. Battery life is pretty much non existent. I would love a new phone to take nice photos of the new baby. Thanks for all the informative videos and help keeping my home clean. I hope you have a future video on house prepping for a new baby. All the best to you and Chad. Also thanks for the recommendation of Ellie Lundquists channel. I keep sending my daughter all the links to her videos since her boys are young and she can see someone parenting in a more recent time.
I saw that bassinet you're talking about just before my second baby was born and as a mom, I was like "No Way!" Babies don't "just cry" you need to be vigilant and tech like that worries me that some parents get a little too complacent in passing on the responsibility of looking out for their babies.
My mom had the crank swing too, it’s amazing how much has changed! Also we were all fed an old fashioned canned milk recipe, no formula. And monitors were not necessary, my mom still doesn’t think so. No phone upgrade for me, I’m pretty happy with my iPhone :)
I need an upgrade because my screen is cracked and the battery is horrible! You look great Melissa!😊
Awesome video! Just so you know, I just had my third baby last year. With the first baby, almost 10 years ago, I felt I had to have all the things. I had the diaper genie. I had the video baby monitor. I had a bassinet and then a crib. I've found that a lot of stuff, you don't need. With the latest, we don't have a monitor and the baby now sleeps in a crib in the other room and we can hear her just fine. Yeah, if you're breastfeeding, keeping baby in a bassinet in your room for the first couple of months is great. Something I really suggest is a Moby wrap. I love that thing. My baby would be snuggled against me and would sleep while I took care of the older kids or cleaned house, cooked dinner, etc. I even took her on trips with the cubscouts for my oldest and she was as happy as she could be snuggled in her wrap. Don't worry too much about needing all the baby things though. You're going to do great with whatever you have.
Thanks for such a great video!! Also, my reason would be that I finally have to face the music and bring my phone out of the dark ages!!! 😂💾
My son was born in 83 and I used what your mom used lol memories lol
Melissa Maker, you look so much like your mom! You guys look gorgeous together!
I think the bouncer and baby monitor are the only things you need. I'm currently a teenager and even I feel that some of the items that are sold in the market are plain excessive. My parents only has a bounder since my grandmother takes care of me and can't always coax me to sleep (I take like 30 minutes to sleep). Baby monitor might be good if you live in a big house and need to go back and forth at times. Having an extra 'eye' to look over your child is also a plus to me. I guess maybe get a feel for what your child wants in their first week, and just go with the flow, all children are different in the end. (Like I hated pacifiers and my parents didn't even buy one since they noticed I didn't need one but my sister needed it)
I have twins and the formula machine was a godsend, especially for those 3 am feedings.
Fun video! Loved your mom's honesty! My hands down favorite baby splurge (and we didnt have many!) was the dockatot! Basically a portable bassinet that can be used as a lounger and for tummy time and safe for cosleeping! The rest we got second hand and spent money on photo sessions and easy to use carseats! Good luck to you!
Wise mom. I agree, I also don't envy any of the techno stuff. I had my last baby in 2002
Love your videos! Also, congrats on your baby girl!! I would love a new phone because mine is falling apart. We just had our own baby girl and can’t afford to get new phones. My phone has stopped recording sounds with videos. There are many moments I am missing of my daughter’s first life events that I would love to have to cherish forever. ❤️
I love how common sense your mom is. I also never find old gear funny - there wouldn't be any new gear if it wasn't for the development before, and all new stuff eventually becomes old stuff. Not common sense and motherly love though, your mom is super sweet.
Totally agree!
I was born in 1979. I should ask my mom these questions!
Your mom is so beautiful and this was such a fun video to watch, even though I'm only a pet mom. Good luck navigating the baby gadget world!!
Aww thank you. Much appreciated!
You all are adorable!
You guys look soooo alike, specially when smiling ☺️
I personally don’t need a new phone but if i were to win it would be a great Christmas gift for my mom 😊
Actually, it's not me who needs an upgrade but my husband, and since the Holidays are coming, it would be great to win and surprise him :D he'd never see that coming!
This is giving me some great ideas to discuss with my parents soon :) Our pregnancy stories are super similar (I’m the eldest, from ‘81, pregnant with our first and due on Feb 27th!). Isn’t it the strangest thing to realise you have been pregnant for half a year 🙀
Hope your pregnancy is going well and it doesn’t cause you too much trouble. Enjoy it :) Thanks for the lovely video!
Awww your mum is lovely. :)
I found that all of the things I tried with my girls that were supposed to help make my life easier, usually went to the basement. I did love my portable bouncy chair (my kids hated the swing) and the wireless baby monitor. Other than those few things, I think your instinct to check on your baby will override any "piece-of-mind" these gadgets will provide--hopefully.
I have love love loved the sound only monitor from IKEA. the baby part has a soft rubber hook to hang anywhere close to them and the listening end has a simple belt or pocket clip. I’ve even hung it on my shower curtain on early work mornings. It’s rechargeable and super reliable and simple. I even bought a second one to have on hand in case the one I have breaks or wears out.
Look into a owlet baby monitor... I personally never used one but it saved my friends baby's life when she stopped breathing at night.. my kids are 5&3 now and we used some tech but not a lot.. and look into baby wearing... great for getting stuff done around the house when baby needs to cuddle.
Hello first of all great video with great information
I need an upgrade because I am a college student with a broken down phone that literally feels like it won't make it another day fingers crossed over here and God bless
Hi Melissa...if you ask me..I would say...u don't need the formula dispenser. It doesn't take much time to make one.. my daughter is 8months old and we haven't even felt the need for this. A simple bassinet will do.. whatever these new tech gadgets provide cannot bring in the bonding between you and your baby while rocking her back to sleep. Ur heartbeat is more than enough to help sooth her in case she is just uncomfortable.. it is difficult only in the first 2-3 months..then things will start coming back to almost normal.. Good luck to both of you..
I have a very old model with low phone memory and it's difficult to download some of the latest app. love you Melissa
There's absolutely nothing wrong with taking advantage of innovative new products. Babies are hard enough, if something makes your life easier you'll never regret it.
Your mom is so sweet. Although the gadgets and new things may make things easier, it takes away from the whole, raw experience.
I need a phone upgrade because my screen is cracked and the battery dies constantly :(
Ashley Feble she is lovely and managed just great without electronics lol!!
your mom did fantastic!
I love your mom, Sandy, she did a great job in the video :). proud of her. I agree with her I have a daughter your age and we lived without all the technology and raised pretty wonderful kids. The swing is the one item that I'd change the wind up would wake up my kids when it stopped and sometimes the noise from winding it up scared them awake :(. I'd love the cell phone upgrade for my sister who is struggling financially it would allow us more connection time :)
Congrats on baby to come. Honestly as a mom of 5 all the new tech stuff is not worth it. On our last baby we didn't bother to get anything like we had for our other children. We found they took up a lot of space and we're barely used. My phone is almost 4 years old so I am in need of an update.
Your mom is so cuuute!!
Your mom is just as cute as you are. I also had kids in the late 70's early 80's and she had the same things as I did. We managed.
Totally. It's all you knew and it worked just fine. I think simple is better myself!
I would soooo recommend a wipe warmer !!!
Your mom is really sweet :)