Does Ignoring A Man Work If He's Been Distant, Pulling Away Or Not Contacting You?

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  • Learn exactly what to do and say if a man has been acting distant, pulling away or not contacting you in this livestream with Mike Goldstein and Helena Hart.
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  • @HelenaHartCoaching
    @HelenaHartCoaching  5 місяців тому +7

    If you're interested in private coaching, you can schedule a free strategy session with Mike here: www.ezdatingcoach.com/schedule-a-strategy-session-helena/
    Here's a video with our former client, a woman in her 60s who met a phenomenal man online within two months of working with us: www.ezdatingcoach.com/helena-testimonial/
    Follow my “Master Your Magnetism” podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3
    …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach 5 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for having me on. The advice you give is so spot on! Everyone needs a Helena mindset when it comes to dating!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 місяців тому +1

      Anytime! I love everything you shared, too!

    • @shonaboris6832
      @shonaboris6832 5 місяців тому

      If he keeps coming back he loves you 💖

  • @Pacifica74
    @Pacifica74 5 місяців тому +28

    I'm coming to the point (in all my relationships) that mirroring the behavior DOES NOT go anywhere. They keep doing what they're doing, and you keep giving it back to them. No real progress is made and years go by. You have to just say what they're doing is bothering you. Then they have to deal with it. Then end!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 місяців тому +7

      Thanks for sharing your experience and insights here! Yes, I talk more about that in this video: ua-cam.com/video/PEJ98MwHVTo/v-deo.htmlsi=jhgrLJXMbgISzgq4

    • @patriciafernandez4024
      @patriciafernandez4024 5 місяців тому +1

      Good theme! Great advice.

    • @Ashtarot77
      @Ashtarot77 5 місяців тому +6

      I was chatting to the guy I like yesterday (just a quick text) and I asked him a question about something since I wasn't born in the UK so not sure how certain things work. His response came across as a bit annoyed so I said, thank you for the info, I will stop pestering you now. He responded a bit later saying he didn't mind at all. I find that when I come across as aloof and not bothered, they tend to be more engaging. You're right, ignoring them doesn't work because they play the same game. They need to know that you're sick of their shit.

    • @jocko1532
      @jocko1532 5 місяців тому +1

      Wow, what you wrote about mirroring was very wise. I never looked at it that way. And now I can't see it any other way. Thank you for your insight ❤️🙏🏼.

  • @jenniferbento9141
    @jenniferbento9141 5 місяців тому +11

    Thank you for coming forward and really making this clear! No games! Be an adult!! We all have feelings and all need to be happy.

  • @AndreaReid-bl9ns
    @AndreaReid-bl9ns 5 місяців тому +9

    A gentleman who vanishes into thin air without any reason isn't worfth the floor space he stands on that is possibly al patter of his lifesy

  • @UniversoSpiritualUnido
    @UniversoSpiritualUnido 5 місяців тому +10

    Helena I love how you explain things and his perspective as a man.

  • @cheri6352
    @cheri6352 5 місяців тому +4

    My problem is that he CANNOT shut up!! He talks to the point he becomes freakn boring!!! He beats a conversation to DEATH!
    So now that he finally shut up, I don’t know what he’s doing. He’s driving me crazy! I get confused as to what he’s even doing now??!! I feel like he’s playing games & I don’t want to be doing this!!! This makes me feel it’s been 7 yrs tooooo long!!!

  • @shonaboris6832
    @shonaboris6832 5 місяців тому +6

    If he pulls away there is a reason because most likely he has another woman

  • @TephaRhi
    @TephaRhi 5 місяців тому +3

    Congratulations on 100% success… two fantastic coaches! Thank you for all you do❤️

  • @helenaferreira3799
    @helenaferreira3799 5 місяців тому +2

    I really needed to hear this. Thank you.

  • @teenafrench7236
    @teenafrench7236 5 місяців тому +4

    Thanks for your help Helena & Mike I’m having so much fun dipping my toe into dating. Can’t wait to catch up with you both again😊

    • @EZDatingCoach
      @EZDatingCoach 5 місяців тому +3

      Teena, you are a rockstar. Some man is going to be so lucky! 💜💜

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 місяців тому +3

      You’re very welcome! Looking forward to hearing an update! ❤️

  • @MaryKayAbblett
    @MaryKayAbblett 5 місяців тому

    Even on dating app

  • @helenaferreira3799
    @helenaferreira3799 5 місяців тому +2

    I texted him last night. I said good night my love” haven’t heard from him. I’m having anxiety. But I’m not going to contact him anymore.

    • @SS-cd6ie
      @SS-cd6ie 5 місяців тому

      Fk him. Move on. Youre better than that

  • @shonaboris6832
    @shonaboris6832 5 місяців тому +1

    From my personal experience I leave him a voice message see if he responds

  • @carlf.9035
    @carlf.9035 5 місяців тому +1

    So what youre saying is, if a guy doesnt respond to us for a while and acts distant, ideally we should ask him why he's not being in contact and let him know we don't like that? Cause otherwise how will a guy know how we feel and to not keep doing that if we don't tell him.

  • @Jacquie11
    @Jacquie11 5 місяців тому +2

    What if the response is vague or not important, like "I was so busy" and it's normal day-to-day busy. Like nothing that changed from day to day? Most likely it's an excuse, right?

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 місяців тому +1

      While I don’t know the details of your situation, these videos might help give you some clarity: ua-cam.com/video/_D37APGOy8Y/v-deo.htmlsi=m0mQ_mlY5SxmtL6y and ua-cam.com/video/2oFG-2Ro48Y/v-deo.htmlsi=Y3_-X-osuVwNEfKW.

  • @julzn8702
    @julzn8702 5 місяців тому

    Hi Helena, i've been following most of your programs, and i don't fully understand, how circular dating ties in with meeting the guys' family
    Lets say am circular dating 3 guys and they all invite me to meet their families.
    I find that would be too much. What would you advise to be a healthy boundary/feeling statement for meeting with my dates' family?
    For e.g, if i were to say, "i'd like to meet your family once we're proposed, or once we're sure it's you and me at the end of this". Would that be normal? Cause i feel it could be weird meeting his family for the first time with an engagement ring already on my finger

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 місяців тому

      It really depends on the details of the situation, is this something you’re going through right now?

  • @Jess-wk5jo
    @Jess-wk5jo 5 місяців тому +1

    I have question Can people who got autism or down syndrome can have affair or cheat on their boyfriends without never having no sex ?

  • @annabarone8727
    @annabarone8727 3 місяці тому

    We have been un each others life since September 2020... hes been hot and cold with his texting sunce the beginning he always comes back.
    We have not been in contact since march 15th 2024. We are both in no contact for 9 days today.
    Hes gone 7 days before but not 9 nothing happened between us please help

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  3 місяці тому +1

      These videos might be helpful for your situation: ua-cam.com/video/_D37APGOy8Y/v-deo.htmlsi=XetsamcDPKd21Di9 and ua-cam.com/video/dLj3_tqtCmo/v-deo.htmlsi=_fHChwKMhFK0YhA9.