@@trompell0( No he still will have sex with women. But he will not marry the women at all in America. Because they do not have a hymen. In other words men in America will just be with American women for sex not marriage. This is the future wether women like it or not.
Marriage never was made to give straight-males a privilege:was made to inflate hypergamy and destroy our poligamy but not the draft that were born of "one man and many girls equals survival"
They have to pretend that they don't know why because admitting the problem would be a form of taking responsibility. As we know, they'll do anything to avoid that and so continue to expect women posting similar videos.
Not really. Someone who robbed your place ends up in court a gets sentenced to jailtime when caught. But with a woman, you are the one ending up in court and sentenced to pay her for the rest of your life.
Men are pragmatists. We look at things through a prism of benefits and liabilities. Dating, relationships, and marriage have become liabilities thanks to modern feminism and the family court system.
I graduated high school in 1980. I'm now widowed seven years. Right out of the military, in '84, I got married. Chose wrong. My fault. In '91 I made the same mistake again. I stayed single for twelve years, and then married again TO THE RIGHT WOMAN! Fifteen beautiful years later our Creator took her away early. That was seven years ago. Now, being "off the market" for twenty years and seeing what we have now, I have one word..... DITTO!!!!! The whole environment has changed, including women. There are no modern, westernized women around that are worth taking that risk for! And I'm teaching my grandchildren the same.
Well what women want from men is very tangible - his last name, a ring, money, protection, etc. What tangible benefits does a woman bring - mother to his children, a sympathetic ear, a companion to grow old with. Are modern women taught that is all they bring to the table? No. They are taught that if they acquire money and success and a career, things women want from men, they will get a tech billionaire to wife them up. Women, and their upbringing in our public schools, is the sole problem.
Mrs Shirley ,problems are not that much simple..as a Lady stay away from your kind ,investigate more that you will reach up worst answers about your kind ,for this just watch them more carefully you will see more facts
Change from what to what? When I married at 32, I felt I had to do the changing. I learned to love fishing again (after a break of years of fishing with Dad), going to live sporting events and rodeos. We did yard work together, and took walks in the neigborhood to hack on the houses in the rich areas. But when I asked him to go with me to a sci fi con (a fave thing for me), he left early, forcing me to stay or join him. I felt bad thinking of him sitting in the lobby alone so left too. The only thing that really bothered me was his cheating. Can men ever be faithful?
I read about a guy who used to organise a meeting with women, and asked them to sit outside the coffee shop , he would drive past slowly, if they didn`t look like their photo.. he kept driving ... lol
It's really quite simple, really. You see, over the past 15-20 years, there has been one message relentlessly drilled into men: *You are not good enough.* The rejections put on the average man (and doubly the one trying to be a good man) have been essentially completely contradictory: "I want a sensitive man" is rejected for showing emotions as "weak", when you don't show your emotions you're rejected for "being emotionally unavailable"; when you pursue it's "try-hard"/"creepy", when you don't it's "passive; when you try to be confident/casual you're rejected because you aren't trying vs when you do try it's "putting up a front"; when you try stepping up on the 'provider' role, you're taken for granted… and, if you're religious and take your faith seriously, waiting until marriage, you get rejected with "I want an experienced man" or "you're too good for me" or "I'm not a virgin" (which was never a requirement) - and, then, when observing these difficulties the problem is always the men's fault: "you're not buff/working out!", and "you're not making $8X,XXX+/yr!", or "You're just not being social enough!" - no matter what, it's men's fault, and men have finally got the message that women/dating, school, and society have been telling them for the past 15-20 years: *you are not good enough* *_and you never will be_*. That's why.
You ought to study some history. The changes leading to what you’re pointing at started back in the 1850-ies. It didn’t take widespread hold before the 1960 to 1970-ies. The generations growing up in the late sixties and seveties strated to have widespread societal influence 20-30 y later. I.e. the late nineties and the double-o’s. So the “disease” started way earlier. It’s in the last 15-20y you see widespread symptoms. There are strong forces wanting women and men to distrust each other and stop having families. When families are weak society’s institutions (e.g. government) grows stronger and become relatively more powerful. Women become dependent on the state and power is moved from men to the state. And to a lesser degree from women to the state.
@@mstorgaardnielsen I'm not going into the history because there's multiple causes and, depending on the framing, multiple valid assessments; also, the chain of cause-and-effect could be followed so far you "lose the picture". *For Example:* (1) On the governmental side of things: it is literally self-defeating to undermine society in such a manner, to the point that there's essentially no difference between the policies our leadership is putting in place and what would be put in place if we were conquered/occupied by a foreign enemy. (2) On the societal side of things, the continual de-personing of men [e.g. as emotional beings: "the only masculine emotion is anger" (and any other emotion, esp. sadness, *is* weakness) vs "if you show anger you're out of control and/or dangerous"] drives a sense of non-belonging which, in turn, drives [much of] the self-deletion rates. So, no; going into the history, and multi-factor causes & contributing factors, is a book-length proposition; nor a comment-sized observation.
I'm an "older" man. I'll be Seventy Years EXPERIENCED in December. I spent so many years completely ignored by women in my age group that I gave up even looking when I turned 50 and realized that all I had to look forward to was possibly being the third or fourth choice after those same women failed in multiple marriages, I didn't see any future in getting married just to watch some used woman that wouldn't look at me sideways when I was 25 just to watch her or have her watch me die.
Ditto. I worked my whole life to become desirable to women, became very fit, financially independent, etc etc etc. Now I find that women bring nothing to the table
A lot of boomer men are boring. Golf, beer, no knowledge of history or politics, etc. It's always someone else's fault. If you choose women for how much they drink or how many vacations they go on, this is what you get.
Instead of partying and sleeping around, I worked on getting my CDL and HVAC license. By next year I’ll be 24 and have my HVAC intermediate license. I’m Single, living well off, nearly have all my debt paid off ($15k) and I don’t really need another mouth to feed. Kinda like this lifestyle, although it does get lonely sometimes to be honest. As I’ve learned from older guys, that feeling will disappear in a few years.
This isn't rocket science. Men are getting tired of being used as an early retirement plan by women who will leave for any little reason or no reason at all. Younger men have seen guys look at things like a romantic, then lose half their stuff for nothing.
I joined a new church and was immediately pestered by older men who wanted a nurse maid for their old age. I guess we all have our thing not attractive to the other gender.
I feel bad for my friends who are now having financial difficulties having to support children, as someone who grew up happy with video games my only concern is when the PlayStation will release the next Monster Hunter Wilds trailer
@@richardtheriault9121 Its sad though that based on one or two experiences, maybe a few more because surely not every woman you dated saw you as a wallet, or maybe you need help finding good women, but in any case, each gender is willing to completely fo without the other?
@@jamessibley6651 Am I mistaken? Or was Emmett Till the black guy who got accused in the elevator by a Karen in Oklahoma in the 1920s with Black Wall Street and they burnt the whole town down?
@@andrewglover9769 My friends are all the same, we all stopped dating years ago. A couple of my friends are single dads, I envy them. At this point I'm thinking it's to late to have a family and the women my age who wanted them already have so I just called the whole thing quits. I honestly haven't met a women I'd want to date in years.
I visited my son who is doing engineering, i casually asked him and his friends about girls, they all said the same thing - they are focusing on studies, tennis, video games, they see no benefit in chasing girls. I was impressed, as a divorced guy, i ensured they got their view reinforced.
Too much risk. "juice isn't worth the squeeze" It isn't just the state of western women; it's the state of society as a whole. High house prices and cost of living over all. Most people my age (30's) are just trying to keep a roof over our heads. We're too tired with dramas.
How about we seen many men get divorced even if they are rich or poor or good or bad men. It doesn’t matter because the marriage system in the west is just a retirement plan for women that they are taking advantage of so she can cash in a few years later. Don’t blame men for not playing a game they realize is a waste of time. That’s why men either walk away or get a passport and live in other countries where there’s no nonsense dating like that and there’s good women serious about having a family.
@@LennyCash777 I have been attending those parties for years, not once have I ever seen a drunken fight, and drugs being taken. Also no one there will play with someone unless their husband, wife or partner is ok with it. If you go to nightclubs you see regular fights, drugs being taken, stabbings etc. Walking into a swingers clubs is like walking into another universe. It's very strange.
@@riskykrispy8995 because we’ve been full enough try surviving the California child support Nazi death. It says you owe 66.6% of your income and then says a nurse practitioner is making 250,000 a year and 1994 wahoo of course I went underground, but I paid every dime for my children. She didn’t even work. 6.5 million and God knows how many more millions I did it for my children and I kept my word that the miserable woman live by herself forever. She said men are like buses well darling you’re old and there’s no more buses coming along.
I just tuned 60. I walked away 8 years ago. I’m twice divorced, screwed over by the family court both times. There is nothing a woman could do or say that would change my mind. I’ll die alone but I will be content.
You never should have taken that second to to ride. At 60, recovery is going to be a struggle. Once for me, and I am the only one struggling to have a solid retirement. I can have a comfortable retirement in time; however, if I get married and divorced again it is game over. It's all about planning asset protection now. Ensuring that some parasite cannot take advantage of me when I am old and weak minded. Irrevocable trust. Own nothing. When they realize there are no assets and money to acquire they will vanish.
12 years down the drain., met when I was 20 she was 19., were best friends., all the sacrifices I made working overtime in the worst economy in the history of mankind. Managed to save to buy a beautiful home. We ended up having twin boys. 2 months in to our new home after 12 years of busting my ass we finally made it. Only for 3 months later for her to cheat on me with my friend. Now being almost two years later she is pregnant with his kid. I tried everything did everything and it wasn’t enough. She took my kids from me and put me into child support and alimony. I’m fucking done. Women have ruined it for themselves. Let society 🔥. They made their bed they can lay in it… 😡
Me too . I loved my children and made my family my main focus. She hooked up with her friends BF who was on house arrest for DUI and got pregnant. She took my children and he turned her onto meth. Everyone is healthy now , but I cut off woman as romantic relationships because I simply no longer trust woman at all. I meet woman who want to get to know me and I immediately think it’s a trap. Sad, but I’m done.
Dude my kids mom did the same, minus the friend thing, but she was still a whore. Anyway, my oldest son just came off child support, so I thought they would at least drop it a little? Nope, they decided to keep it at the same amount stating, the total amount I was giving her for both boys, it was never determined how much was delegated to each child. Like wtf kind of logic is that? You pay 800 a month for two kids and one comes off, it should be cut in half? So now I have to go back and fight her in court just because she's an evil cheating bitch. But the court is also working to fuck over responsible, middle aged men. They are just fueling bad behavior for women, and it's getting worse. Why would a man ever want to deal w a woman, when at any point she can just use the courts to fuck him over?
All empires of evil will end at some point and that goes for the west whether we like it or no! They try to sell it that it’s all good! Freedom for effeminate men, the destruction of masculine men, the rise of masculine women. The dependence on fossil fuels and the greed of mass immigration!
I think you nailed it. Feminism and the rise of masculine beliefs and behaviour in women have also come with an unnatural and inflated disrespect for men. There has been a clear rise in the assertion to overlook the value of male contribution in society. This lack of respect and value is mirrored in the very behaviours of many women that men find highly distasteful, unappealing and unattractive. What is taking place is a natural response to an imbalance between the masculine and feminine relationship, which by nature is very beautiful.
As a man raising a teenage boy, I can tell you - I don’t think it’s that young men are watching or learning from older men that dating isn’t worth it. I can tell you from my experience, my son has known modern young women are absolutely mean, sneaky and generally insufferable. He has told me similar things since he was in grade school, and I’ve never talked bad to him about his Mother. She was a lying, selfish, adulteress. But I don’t ever tell him that. Women, even as younger girls and teens, are driving most men (and even young men) away just by their own poor behavior.
You're not wrong at all, even existing near one is enough for them to go on and on about how creepy you are or how you have "little d*** energy" and so on and so forth. It's sad to think there are entire generations of women now that are going to have the worst wake up call when they realize they pushed every good guy away, like my ex who after extensive therapy has done a 180 on the idea of feminism, called me crying begging me to forgive her for two hours straight. For context I had literally risked my life for her multiple times, even after dating. God help me I still love her but I can never go through that again, it nearly destroyed me mentally and physically. Sucks having the values of protecting and supporting a woman you love instilled on you these days unless you find one worth the effort.
Thank you for staying in your boy's life. I have 2 brothers, we all stayed with my dad after my mother decided she wasn't happy being a wife and a mom. I was old enough to notice her lies and selfishness but my brothers weren't. We are all single. My dad never introduced another woman to our home, we learned to take care of ourselves and I think we all agree that we don't need the chaos that modern femininity brings to a home, so we just take care of ourselves and support each other. I deeply love and respect my dad, he raised us with ethics and christian values which he also always followed himself. He never did drugs or was a drunk and always made sure that he knew who our friends were so he could support us in our interests. Having a great dad is so amazing that it doesn't matter if mom decides to leave on her own. In our case, things got much better and calmer when she left.
I’m sorry for what you went through, but at least with your Dad and your brothers you were all able to stick together and have a family unit. Your Dad sounds like a good man. I believe we all lose something without a good woman, a woman who truly utilizes the strengths she can provide in a family atmosphere. Sadly, most now want to be ‘boss bitches’ and act far too masculine and hard to provide anything much of value to a family dynamic. One look at what has happened to families and to our country to this point will give people all the evidence they need of the resulting decline.
Ladies: Remove your tattoos, go to the gym 4x a week or ride a bike, STOP SWEARING, grow your hair, take vitamins, LEARN TO COOK WELL, speak in loving ways, be supportive w your man, put down your damn phone and stop comparing yourself to instagram sleezebags, keep your apartment tidy, be feminine., try not to gossip and smile at times. You can do it ~
Which is proven by the fact that lesbian-marriages have the highest DV rates, s-assault rates of partners, and the highest divorce-rate of all of the types of marries there are. When women can't even be married to each other in healthy and functional relationships, it proves that men are NOT the problem in relating - especially when gay-men have drastically lower divorce-rates than lesbians do.
Are Women poison to politics? Is that the elephant in the room that no one will address? Can an individual women ever be equal when all women are poison? Will these Axioms be proven indisputably true before the empire is totally destroyed?
Young men have grown up with mothers who have thrown away and destroyed their fathers. It’s good to see they’ve learned the lessons they’ve been taught.
@@leonsessions2264 Agree. This will not end well... Because women are unable to think about consequence of their actions. They want to insult you. Then expect some kind of subservient fool to provide for them. No Thanks..
Funny thing is it was bad enough when fathers were deadbeats and a step dad could come in and given the authority to raise another man’s kid. But women shamed those men so much the next gen decided to be present fathers. Now the young boys get to see the devastation their fathers went through. Women failed at hiding their lies about the fathers and creates a general disgust to be in a relationship.
I'm trying to protect my son right now from seeing what his mom did. I don't want his future relationships to be judged by what he witnessed at 13 years old from his mom's poor decision making.
I'm a 26 year old dude. No wife or girlfriend. I was a quiet boy in highschool (mostly because I was depressed while parents were going through a divorce.) I minded my own business, did my homework, got good grades. The girls at my school were rude, obnoxious, and very mean to boys like me. Some were good at pretemding to be nice until you got to know them. The rest were airheads. Even though I wanted a girlfriend very badly there was simply no one around me to date. I'd very much like to have children to pass down the family name. But I don't know if that's gonna happen unless I adopt. Whatever happens will happen because it's the will of the Lord. That alone is enough to keep me content and at peace.
Yeah...no. Most men are simps. Then the next category are clueless men who can't break the female code, which is actually pretty simple to do So a lot of the latter are checking out, but simps always be simping
The protector role of men has charged, There is no keeping a woman happy, best to avoid all relationships. Use the wrong pronoun you can end up with a jail sentence.
Why is it so hard to understand? Statistically, over 50% of marriages end in divorce within the first 10 years. Leaving those men in debt, without a home, paying child support and alimony. Essentially, worse off than if they had stayed single. Most modern women lack wife skills and expect men to be providers and do half of the chores. The options are becoming a human ATM, miserable, and divorced. Or staying single. The choice isn't difficult to make.
Exactly that, as soon as I purchased my first place back in 1997 I knew my chances of getting married reduced considerable. 27 years later l don't regret my decision one bit.
The young Men have been bashed, Drugged and thrown in the bushes. Women teachers have red pilled the Young Men before they're out of School. Just ask one.
Not mention all these 3s and 4s who think they're 10s and "settling" if a man isn't a millionaire with sixpack abs even though she's 5'2", 240 lbs, and even heavier in debt
This is correct. I’ve spent a lot of time over the years training younger guys at work not to be “nice guy simps” for women who have no intention of being with them. They use simps as platonic coffee dates and as a shoulder to cry on… but will continue to chase their bad boys. As I tell them, you need to be one of those bad boys and treat them with contempt and disinterest, then they will chase you!
It is not the young teenagers and adults do not want to date, it is because majority of women have excluded them. In Middle School and High School, the only teenagers who were getting the girls were the popular kids or the athletes and having sexual relationships at a younger age, but they were getting the majority of girls, meaning that they were having relationships with multiple girls while they were all competing for the same guy, leaving countless normal and average looking boys and young college age adults sexless and not in a relationship. It is the same pattern with most women up to their 30s. After this age, the leftover women realize that they lost the game and now give a chance to normal, average or even below average men, but the problem is that these men have no experience but the female does and probably has high body count by then while most men have none.
Also, the post-30 relationships are loveless, oftentimes bedless, and usually miserable. The women you perfectly described are used to being with Chad/Tyrone. When they finally marry Peter Bob, he's not as experienced and so she ends up picking up side-pieces to have her fun while Peter Bob is her retirement plan. THe dual mating strategy, essentially. It leaves Peter Bob in a situation where he feels like he's never getting nor receiving any affection from her, and he's usually bending over hand and foot to vie for her attention, but because he's not an alpha, she has zero attraction to him; Peter Bob is just a utility service for her. It's why there are so many relationship advice posts from the Peter Bob guys asking how they can get more bedroom action from their wife and how they cook, clean, and work but she never seems interested. It's because she has zero feelings for Peter Bob, and Chad/Tyrone (or in some cases Emily/Stacey) are still getting her physical affection.
They have watched their elders get fleeced by the system, and want no part of it. Future population is at risk, is this what happened to ancient civilisations, the rise and then the fall?
@@michaelrodriguez3329 You get to keep what you can hide, and that which she never knew existed. The time to plan for divorce is before you get married! There are good reasons for marriage: If you have an overseas girlfriend or for tax purposes if you're about to die.
I am in a rather large social dance community in my large town. So it’s easy to meet women and make women friends because it’s the women that you always dance with. So you make connections. I have had at least four of these women, with long-term boyfriends, basically offer to dump them for me. And when I did not take the bait, they just kept on with their boyfriends. I was shocked they stayed with their boyfriends because they badmouthed the boyfriends so bad to me but then months later I’m seeing social media posts where the women are saying how great their boyfriends are and how much in love they are w them. When you have lots of female friends and you’re a decent looking guy like me, you really see their dark nature come out. (I am 58 years old and never married, monogamous dater. There are a decent women to date, but you’ve really got to be careful.)
I think what we're seeing now with Gen Z is an entire generation of people who have been directly affected by divorce. A lot of young men have experienced first hand what the courts did to their dads and they want nothing to do with it now as they enter adulthood.
Lets see if this one stays: What we're seeing with Gen Z is the first generation that has lived through divorce being normalized. The Gen Z men witnessed firsthand what happened to their fathers in divorce and want nothing to do with it.
Yes it is. The older men have been warning the younger ones and the younger ones have been listening, observing and taking notes and are convinced by what they've heard and witnessed...
He has to make sure she has her own address & sleeps a few times per week at that address. No mail can come to his place. Never Marry it's the only way. Never face jail from her either.
men actually listen and men actually give good advice. We do care for those who will inherit this earth after us. Women seem to want to lie to each other and keep themselves in misery.
facts! as a millennial kid from the late 80's growing up i was told by several older men not to marry and heard their horror stories, i was attracted to girls in high school and even as an average guy no matter what i did they were only into the top 10% of boys as far as attractiveness, but they didn't care too much about money and the 666 standards yet. i remember asking a girl out and the first thing she would do is run back to her group of friends and they would all snicker and laugh in a group judging me before she would come back with an answer. feminist English teachers that would give every girl good grades even when they produced dog wash and always mark down the men including those that performed well. people say millennials are entitled it's because the women of our generation were truly entitled and the men were envious of their entitlement and started expecting more for themselves too. things have just spiralled out of control since then. now these millennial women are hitting 30's and heading to 40's and are on the internet crying they cant find a good man when they hit the wall and got ran through in their 20's
The older men have been psychologically abusing the younger men by transferring their failures and regrets onto them. ie, a bitter 50 year old that had his time and had his fun is telling a 20 year old virgin not to bother with women and none of it is worth it anyway. There is nothing good to say about those broken "men", they aren't mentors.
Not really. Older generation had it easier to be honest. They were not required to have good jobs, high paying salaries to buy a home and start a family. The older generation also dated and found relationships easily and the way they found a woman was more easier as they would often meet in High School or at a dance party or in the streets or restaurant. I have heard stories that they even met walking their dogs at a park. Nowadays, people can really meet women anywhere or anytime less talk to one in public and women also won't talk to a man unless he drives a nice car, has a high paying job, and already has a condo or house. Young men cannot have those things. Older generation married at 17 or 18, today, this generation marries at 30.
@RayYounger-o8v it took 12 years for me to date around 20 women, that 2% might wind up being impossible to marry since the odds of finding the marriagable women are so low.
As Men we are taught we have to build our worth, Women are told from childhood they're special and deserve everything regardless... Now? Men are looking in the disparity that's created.
18 yrs together, 14 yrs married, two kids, she was sleeping around, not working, had a lot of hobbies. She asked for divorce and took the kids. She is a catholic. Apparently from a family with good values. Nah, she didn’t even use protection, as she confessed. Women like these are the reason why men don’t date anymore. I’m teaching my boys about women’s double lives and personalities.
ALL are the daughters of LILITH and EVE, the first 2 wives of Adam in the Garden of Eden. Google: Why was Lilith divorced from Adam and kicked out of the GoE? You'll see. LILITH Fair's celebrate her as the first FEMINIST! Yep. All true. Then Eve disrespected Gods word and commandment. These 2 are the foundation for womankind. See a problem?
Smart young men. In the 1960s girl’s were a mystery to most of us and we were interested. Now guys have seen their true nature and are going their own way.
I’m 52 my sons are 24 and 12. I’m worried they’ll never find good wives in the USA. My older is an engineer and travels. He’s very bright and he said, he “may or may” not have kids but probably never marry. He’s already suggesting to his younger to do the same. Quote, “Education, physical health, economic independence, and mental health should be a priority but a western women will kill all of that” it’s just a “different” time from how pop’s grew up. In my opinion, I feel the same way. Either way. If you take care of yourself as a man you’ll be fine. But never take a women seriously if they live in delusional expectations and serve no logic to their thinking.
@@badgerden7080 That is literally the only option nowadays. Maybe 2% of vvomen in the west are good vvomen but trying to find them will likely get you in trouble with the law as just meeting one crazy unstable vvomen and you are cooked. Do you wanna test your luck on dating 98 vvomen to find a good one because I sure don't!
My 24 year old son is tall, handsome and has his own flat and a six-figure salary. My wife has warned him of the low-quality choice of selfish young women today. And he has listened.
The first and biggest reason is that every woman thinks she deserves the top 20% man. The next reason is that men are tired of ridiculous expectations to pay for a million things and also be a mind reader. The third reason is that so many men have been put on blast on social media for approaching in person that they retreat to dating apps
Least in the middle-late 1990s we had America Online chat rooms, where you "kinda" still had to be personable. Not everyone had access to Erin's (whatever you call this) commentary
@@jeremycole3008 = Actually, AOL chatroom is where I reunited with a girl I went to school with for four months (until her father got transferred to another air force base). We were together for three years, then married until her passing in 2017.
And then their experience on dating apps is to be left on read by hundreds of not thousands of women because of all the social dregs of society hanging out there for one, and for two, way too many options and choices. Women have the power of both, but generally lack the real quality they are looking for. I can get left on read, not waste my time and money for free by eliminating the third party.
And the dating apps make everyone over selective, hypergamous, and not only anti social, but recluse, indifferent, and extremely shallow and discriminatory in conversation and giving someone a shot.
Man up and stop with that attitude and nonsense. You are a man get out there and take care of your shit and don’t ever chase a woman. Don’t even try to make them notice you or show them attention. Build your empire and a queen will show up once you have a castle and she will show you what a real woman will offer you. Most of all stop the whining and stop feeling sorry for your self. Now get out there and get to it. GL 🇺🇸
Remember, women are actively choosing being alone with a bear then a man. Women screamed about how dangerous and unsafe they felt when a man approaches them. I have no desire to make a woman feel like that so I don't even think about talking to a random women.
Gen Z is known as the "s-xless generation" for a reason. Despite having the most access to "adult material" and with everything around them being OBSESSED with s-x, they're the generation that is the most abstinent in many generations, by percentages. There's a reason (well, many) that is happening, and a LOT of it is because it's just not worth trying to date or get with any woman (or girl for those high schoolers). Society is doomed if this effenism and anti-male misandry doesn't get stamped out with prejudice.
From my experience, they also the sweetest young men ever lived. My twins son is 18 last year. They discuss everything with us (me and my wife) and never rebel or do nasty almost criminal things as I did at their age. The drawback is, I think they will grow up much late in life. They even asked me about things that I can make a decision when I was 18 yo. But I think this is understandably. Unlike in my young at 90's, the world they face is much different from what we are taught at home.
The bar for getting a girlfriend is actually just too high these days. Women went from being like used Corollas to being like trying to buy a brand new Porsche. I can’t afford a Porsche but if that’s all they sell these days, then I guess I’m not getting a car. Hope that metaphor made sense.
A 1930s comedian said it best: _"Women are like elephants to me. I like to look at them, but I wouldn't want to _*_own_*_ one."_ Keep your money, property, and sanity. Use all that to develop yourselves and live long and happy lives. #MGTOW
We young men don't want leftover women . We don't want something that chad and tyrone already had. Women don't appreciate or respect men anymore. The modern woman does not believe in loyalty.
I waited all my life (40 years of dating) for what I thought was the right woman, and when I found her, I spent almost 2 years making sure she was the right one. After 2 years of her telling me every day that she loved me and was happy, just as I was getting ready to propose, she walked out on me. Within a month she left the country with another man and shacked up with him. If you had asked me the day before she left if I was certain we were meant to be I would have bet my life on it. Just goes to show you can even trust your own instincts when it comes to women because they’re experts at fooling even the most experienced of us.
Yup I vetted this girl for 6 months before I decided to give her commitment. Within 3 months she became an unrecognizable monster. Woke up with her one morning to her telling me she loved me and to have a good day at work, only to be completely blocked everywhere the next day and never hearing from her again. My friends saw her in dating apps that week.
My school had 28 year old looking hotties, way outta my league. You can druel over a corvette and still realize you going to be lucky to land an Oldsmobile
I'm a millennial, we was the last of the dying breed. A lot of millennials seen generation x going through issues. We smarting up. Generation z just way more cold on the redpill. Proud of them
Older men aren't dating either. I'm 51, have never been married, and have no children. I used to be hot and women still think I'm good looking but I have pretty well withdrawn from relationships with all but a few friends because the world in general is acting like a bunch of narcissistic assholes. I would rather be alone by myself then alone with someone. My major malfunction is having a big heart and being somewhat of an intellectual. The vast majority of women I've known over the years liked bad boys and now have one or more children out of wedlock, sometimes with different men, and are card carrying feminazis. A life without love is bad enough but a life without peace is unacceptable.
@@jasongadbois4338 Gee.....thanks?... but is that seriously an argument since the average life span for men is 75 years for married men and single men tend to die in their 60's?
@@jasongadbois4338 Speak for yourself. I don't have much control over how long I live but I want to enjoy what time I have and it is unnatural for men and women to be at odds and the nuclear family to be destroyed. It doesn't bode well for civilization either.
In about a month I will be 63 I have a partner not married and she's older than me and I love her and she loves me life is give and take men and women are different. But just saying girls back in the 80s were just as bad, at least you can meet women at clubs or at the library. But when I was young I didn't make the money or have a great career just a working man. I was just a date a good time I could not hold on to the girl I wanted. What I'm hearing is there's no Love or loyalty
You can be a teenager "full of hormones", whether you are attracted to girls, it's no use if girls reject you. When I was a teenager, I was never able to date a girl because I obviously wasn't good enough for them. I suffered a lot of mockery and contempt. Holiday romances, for me, were only fiction. When I started to have success with women, later, it was too late, I no longer wanted to be in a relationship with anyone and I was too affected by the horrible attitude of young women with Me. I never forgot how badly they treated me. 10 years ago, I preferred to stop dating, I'm happier and less stressed now.
By the time you are actually wanted, it is because their beauty has faded, and they are looking for a meal ticket. The funny part, is they get offended when you turn down their generous offer. Yeah, no thanks. You can get some cats, crazy woman.
@@bradleyfrank7933 100% when you want them eg young and havent slept around they dont want you, then once they looks are gone and they been thorugh lots of D they all of a sudden want us, worst deal you can make
Yes, the closer they get to 30 and when you have more money, they will 'settle' for you now, but often with divorce following and the financial disaster for the man. With women initiating divorce 70%+ of the time, it is a bleak landscape, and there is a guaranteed payday for them while they look to trade up. Marriage vows mean NOTHING to them.
You are right. Dating, sex and marriage are dangerous for a man. The sex comes with extreme life altering risk. The attitude of women has changed. Men have adjusted. This should not come as a surprise.
Why should I allow myself to be judged by old, male values when I can't expect traditional values from her in return? I should earn well, I should spoil her. I should treat her like a queen. What women don't want to understand is that men bear all the risk of a relationship. If a marriage breaks up, I lose half of what I have earned. I probably won't get custody of my children. I'm probably too old to find a new relationship. If I'm unlucky, my reputation will be destroyed. All of these old values were based on a system that is now completely perverted. Women are born with their worth. You have a much easier time finding a partner. Much easier! A man has to earn his worth. A status. They then want to benefit from this status. Be it social or monetary. What do I get in return? A woman with a body count of 10+?! If you're unlucky, you'll be used as a pay pig for a date. Women want to be conquered. They want you to fight for it. But if a man does that, there is a good chance that he will be called a stalker. The slightest mistake will land him on some TikTok videos as a failed date, narcissist or sexist. The worst thing is that most women are maybe a 4 or 5 but think of themselves as a 10. Ladies, look in the mirror and ask yourself what you can offer a man. Ask yourself why you, of all people, deserve a man of status. Get off your high horse. You have created a climate of fear for the last 10-15 years. A system in which the man can only lose. If you have nothing to offer except your body, you shouldn't be surprised that that's all you're used for. A man simply wants a loving, attentive partner by his side. A home to look forward to. Even if the day was so bad. Knowing full well that there is an attentive, sensitive woman waiting for you who knows how to make you feel noticed and would like to give you some attention. You are simply no longer worth the stress and risk.
Working 40+ hours a week for 50-60 years is stressful, frustrating, demanding, often demeaning, irritating and generally a complete PITA. So ladies, take a wild guess why most guys don't want a double helping of that ?
@@stpfs9281 They get a shit tonne more privelidges than men do when it comes to flexibility. Plus most office jobs are 'fluff' jobs and have no real value to society. The whole thing is going to come crashing down to the ground!
Not just Gen Z . .Men on the whole are not just staying 6ft away. We are staying 60 ft away. 55 Gen X here. Dont date , Never been married , No kids. So far so good .
I solved all my relationship problems in my mid 40's when I decided to follow celibacy, and amazingly everything just fell into place. My life as a middle aged man blossomed, I didn't realise just how emotionally draining it was trying to please others, but mostly my own desires! Truly, if you conquer lust, attachment and dependency, life is sooooo much more rewarding and you feel a sense of self-sovereignty.
I'm a 73yo batchelor. I was in university throughout the '70s (math, physics, electrical engineering) and became professionally established in the '80s. That's the time men normally settle down with a girl and start a family. However, at that time I was asked to appear in court as a character witness three (3!) times by male friends who were going through divorces. In all three instances the wife accused the husband of physical abuse. I knew these families very well, exchanged Xmas presents, birthday parties, etc. In two cases, I knew the wife for years before she met her husband to be. The first time, I asked her why she did that, knowing it was untrue. She just said that was the lawyer's recommendation. I was so shocked by the unfairness of it all that I never took the risk of getting married, much to my parent's disappointment.
Too true brother. It happened to me. My solicitor was female, my ex-wife is obviously female, and my ex-wife's solicitor was female. One of them, and I'll never know which one, accused me of "choking" my wife! Which of course led to a $2000 increase in the legal fees of the divorce due to the extra phone calls that ensued. I asked my ex-wife if it was her who made the claim, she said it was either me or my solicitor! I then asked her to write to her solicitor to have the claim refuted, and she didn't bother- even though she admitted to me on the phone that I never choked her! So forever on record, in some solicitor's office, is the claim that I choked my ex-wife. Truth be told I would walk away from her in arguments and never touched her, but as a man I'm guilty until proven innocent.
Young ppl want to see less sex in movies because most of it is story filler, unnecessary, and usually a form of social conditioning. And the kids are more aware of it than we were. Sex saturation makes people sick. Same effect as too much sugar.
I was in Iowa 3 years ago when I was going through my divorce. It was a small town. So I started going to the bars. I just wanted to be sociable. I was lonely. I talked with a lot of the local guys and they said every single girl in that town was on only-fans. I was shocked. I asked "all of them?" They said yeah, all of them. There was this one beautiful girl there. No one would touch her. She was in tears one night because no one wanted her. Everyone one of us saw her as a major sexually transmitted disease risk. I'm mid 50s. I absolutely will NOT even consider an American woman. I see them as disease ridden. I am actually revolted by them. The way they dress. The way they act. I am actively looking for a foreign girl friend. Don't know if I will find anyone but I will try. I really want to love someone. But it won't be here in the USA.
I'm 50 and feel exactly the same way brother. I am working to change my circumstances and I have my sights set on the Philippines. I love Latinas but they are too Westernized. I have noticed that Filipinas have a beautiful look similar to Latinas with their brown skin and black hair. I just hope they are much more reliable and honest.
37 and I am disgusted by them also. Married one for 13 years. Zero chance I'm digging through this proverbial dumpster for a piece of unspoiled fruit. On to better prospects 😅
I got married 9 years ago to a Filipina, and still married. It's so much easier than white women. I'm including Eastern European women. I went to Ukraine before I did The Philippines. I've met women all over the world and I've come to the conclusion that there's just something in Asian women's ability to think mathematically, meaning they can average pros and cons. White women can't do this anymore ever since modern technology made their lives so easy.
I’m 65 and have never regretted not getting married or having children. I have friends who have been through divorce and were destroyed financially. They recovered, eventually, one even remarried but didn’t have children. I own my home, and both vehicles. I have women poking around my life wondering what I am going to do in the future. I am going to retire and live well! I am not their retirement plan!
Two guys from the UK. Me and my best friend. Both been married before. This time round, we both looked abroad. I married a Colombian lady, he married a Thai lady. After 15 years, neither of us have any regrets
Because these women wanted a green card. I'm not from the West and would never marry a Western dudes. Y'all are scary, Colombian and Thai ladies are warning and running away from Wrstern men.
Because these women wanted a green card. I'm not from the West and would never marry a Western dudes. Y'all are s c a r y, Colombian and Thai ladies are warning and running away from Western men. But imagine telling the internet that no woman from your own country wanted you🤣👌
Absolutely. This is the key. It isn't divorce or anything else. It's economics and social media. Dating apps too. If young men were balling the women would like them but we aren't because the women got all our well paying jobs. So I sit here and wonder what the hell is the point of it all? So excited to be a debt slave who will own nothing and never reproduce! Yay!
They're going to put that theory to the test in the next 20 years as many of them become entirely too old and go invisible. They didn't plan for retirement and Social Security isn't going to be enough. It will be fun to watch.
My parents couldn't give two shits about raising their own children to be wise and confident. They were there for themselves, and we were just the next generation bred into the culture of slavery that provide them with their retirement and social security benefits. Concerned only for the thrill of their youth to continue. Can i blame them? No, their parents did it to them. And we are expected to do it to ours.
Let's be historical accurate, millions of domestic men didnt just up and decide domestic women weren't acceptable to them. For over a decade domestic women via social media have told at least 90% of domestic single men not to bother with dating because they aren't wanted. A couple of weeks ago domestic women promoted the meme if they had a choice of meeting a male they did not know or a wild bear in the woods they preferred to meet the bear...
Fact 62% of all Females are have been or Intending to become homosexual. & to that point they will have sex with a sister auntie Or even their Mother mesers Freud Hyte Kinsey After studying A lot of women Confirmed It
Women threw so much dirt on men to the point of digging their own grave. Men warned these feminist harlots but they laughed in their faces. Who's laughing now?
I'll be forty in November and the last girl I was in a serious relationship with didn't just leave and break my heart, she cut pieces of my heart out and took them with her. She decided she wanted to move to France randomly out of the blue on a whim. The next girl I tired to date fractured three of my ribs, so at this point I'm just about ready to give up, buy a goldfish and play my guitars alone, forever alone.
@@scrateshooter The type of guitar or the type of music? I play mostly Blues / Rock stuff. I have thirteen guitars, a banjo, a mandolin, a cigar box guitar and an Appalachian dulcimer. And they're all here to stay; unlike inconsistent, indecisive women. I loved that girl.
I am a 41 year old male. I have never been married. I have only dated/slept with two women. I haven't dated in ten years. I have no interest in dating or finding someone to marry. I joined the red pill movement before it was the red pill movement. I started focusing on myself and the man i wanted to be. I stopped seeking women's approval or acceptance. It was the best thing for my mental health. I go to work, raise my children, enjoy my hobbies and go home to a peaceful home nightly. Absolutely have no desire or need to add a woman to my life. My two sons have no interest in dating, they have dreams and goals in life. And being married is not one of them, thank goodness.
Married a little hippy chick, 28 years in I find out she talked to a divorce lawyer 5 years into the marriage. He asked her why she wanted out, and she said she was bored. He asked her if the marriage was bad, to which she responded no, he suggested she stick it out for a full 10 years so that she could take half of everything. Her childhood best friend snitched her out. When i confronted her, she gave me some lame story about how she was testing her buddy to see if she could be trusted. Lolol WOW! Her bestie said she'd have killed to be in my wifes position. Were living separately but married so that her cancer treatments are covered, cheaper to keep her, and with the recent discovery of her cancer spreading to her lungs and kindenys i might have made the right choice to stick it out. The guy she had an affair with has a year left on his cancer diagnoses, only one of the 3 of us that didnt take the COVID vaccination was me. Go figure. My suggestion to the young men out there, stay single.
@@bobkonradi1027 Pretty much, dad was the same, mom left him after 50 years together. Took care of him for the last 7 years of his life, best man I've ever known. While his friends were hitting strip joints and getting drunk laying into their wives he was the good one.
I would have divorced and left her but knowing you stayed it’s going to hurt her more than her divorcing you. Because she will wake up everyday knowing she failed to stay a good representation of a wife in society. This is what many of wives back then used to do with there cheating husbands take care of the old husbands when they are old so the husbands realized those they women they cheated on with never really mattered.
If you are alone and getting bored, obviously you are in bad company. By the end of the day, if you are feeling miserable, you are in super-bad company. The fundamental question is: “What is my problem? I have all my limbs intact, I can see, I can hear, I can smell, I can taste, what’s my problem?” But that is the big problem. That, you will know only if you sit alone. When there are people around you, you find excuses. If you are with someone, it is easy to say, “This guy is horrible, so I’m irritated. She’s not okay, that’s not okay, this is not okay.” But when you sit alone and the problem still exists, now you know what the source of the problem is.
The part that scares me is while western society is going through this, the Islamic cultures are multiplying as fast as they can. They WILL try to take everything over once they see the chance. Believe me or not it's going to happen if this continues too long.
Simply put: Men will not commit to women when they can destroy a man in the courts where he's stuck paying alimony, can't see his own kids, lose most of his assets, etc., because her feels tell her she can walk away anytime. Too much to lose. ITS A BAD DEAL!
I advised my two sons to never ever get married, due to how law enforcement and divorce courts are unjust and destroy men. Women are not worth your life getting destroyed.
I'm in my mid seventies and have watched over fifty divorces among friends/co-workers over the decades. Women initiated all but a couple of them, confident they would get the children, house, retirement, and child support (they did). The fathers were stripped of their own children and turned into wage slaves to the ex-wives. I've noticed most of the young men who were raised by the mothers and saw what happened to the fathers, are very hesitant to put themselves into the same situation as their fathers. Feminism won, and in doing so, has destroyed the family unit, just as it set out to do.
Ignore anything your penis tells you, and keep that apartment all to yourself my brother. Do not let any woman know you have that apartment, and don't let any girlfriend stay there.
I’m 65. I went to school at some top schools. I wanted to get married and start a family after college, but I soon found out that the trend of women then was that career was more important than family. I married in my 30’s to a Woman in the USA that grew up in the Philippines. I wish I had skipped out on American woman in my 20’s and had dated overseas instead. As a man iI grew up wanting a good job so that I could provide FOR a family. Women focus on careers for themselves.
Similar for me. 66, had a few dates in the late 70’s, early 80’s, remained virtually dateless, always friend zoned, til the early 90’s. Met and married a Filipina who grew up in the Philippines, best decision of my life. Wish I had gone for a Filipina early on too. If you’re a good, kind men so many American women will use you. Filipinas appreciate a good, kind man. It wasn’t good even back then, but I feel sorry for young men today. Sadly wife passed away, I tried dating recently. Shudder.
🎯 Men will look at a raise/promotion/inheritance/lottery winnings as an opportunity to provide better for their family. A woman in the exact same situation will focus on herself and think she no longer needs her husband, and will often destr0y her family.
"As a man I grew up wanting a good job so that I could provide FOR a family. Women focus on careers for themselves." That is the core of the problem with Feminism®in a nut shell. Men had power and used it for God, family, and country. When women managed to usurp power they use it for selfish self centered purposes, even to the point of canceling their unborn children.
@@interestingtimes6242 Only some Filipinas appreciate a good man. I am an expat in the Philippines, and got burned by a trainwreck of a Filipina! On paper she seemed wonderful, being a college grad, white collar professional, single mom, went to church every week, etc., but in truth she was a huge mess of a human being who horribly mistreated me. My vetting her online for several years just did not do it...
My son is 16 and was red-pilled from an early age. He had a front seat to my ugly divorce when his mom got bored and developed 7-year itch and blew up our family.
i'm 45. no wife, no kids, no house, dated 5 girls. never got into any longterm relationship. it's over. don't matter anyway. the world sucks and will end without me perpetuating my family line. no one will care. Oh, I have a 150k business with one employee, not poor. not ugly , I dont approach women, and probably never will. I'm friendly enough but dont really care i guess.
I’ve never even held a girls hand besides my little sisters, mom, grandma and aunt. I gave up 5 years ago i’m 32; i honestly starting to look forward to a peaceful life without drama ahead. I have a career and healthy life style and looking at what’s going on all around the world in relationships just makes me keep going my own way. I’ve learned to meditate and absolutely enjoy my own company and love being alone but not feeling lonely but perhaps if i do one day which i doubt i’ll just get a pet to care for and have company. Greetings from Ecuador. If anyone reads this learn to meditate and raise your awareness! Bless you!
Holy cow! That's basically me too. I'm 32, am a well adjusted guy with a decent career in the US. I've given up on women too, granted I did date only one girl ever for 6 months in my late 20s. But at 32, and having rejected the idea of getting or trying to get with another woman, I'm feeling optimistic about my future since I have no obligations to anyone for the foreseeable future. I'm aiming to retire at 45 or 50 in some beach town in Mexico. I actually fantasize about it 😅😅😅
@@jvo3777 literally 35 minutes ago 3 people replied to a comment that i posted on an instagram’s reels saying “Allah is the best of planners” “Jesus was a prophet”. And I’ve received similar comments from different religions all praising their god. So which God is it? Please learn to respect before saying my God is the one. If anything catholics and christians are the only ones disrespecting their god in mass; they could literally be doing the most degenerate stuff with a cross on their neck. That is why even westerners say the west is f*cked.! In other parts of the world they actually take their religion seriously but not Christians or Catholics smh. All i see is that religions fight and kill each other all the time and that’s a cold hard fact. Meditation actually has been proven under MRI along with many many other instruments to help you create a healthy lifestyle and more grateful without being indoctrinated or brainwashed into a religion.
Younger men are doubling down
I no longer care what women want, think, or feel.
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There delusional
they all think the same anyway
i know gay is taboo again but, maybe thats the problem?
Same.
Most modern women aren't worth it.
Most was an unnecessary word.
Modern also
Jesus is single. He know what the worth means.
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so true
As a decent man with a good income, I don't want a woman who has been run through by a series of bad boys.
Exactly, or raise another man's child.
no hymen no diamond ~drizzle drizzle
Well then you better find an Amish girl because those are nearly unheard of unless you meet her when she is a teenager
@@trompell0( No he still will have sex with women. But he will not marry the women at all in America. Because they do not have a hymen. In other words men in America will just be with American women for sex not marriage. This is the future wether women like it or not.
A bad deal
I am so proud of today's younger men. They're not making the mistakes that my generation did.
well thanks trying not easy but hey that life
It's nice to know I'm not the only who thought this.
Yup 😂😂😂
Marriage never was made to give straight-males a privilege:was made to inflate hypergamy and destroy our poligamy but not the draft that were born of "one man and many girls equals survival"
Wow
It's genuinely sad to see women pretending they don't know why this is happening.
It's not sad. It's pathetic. As usual.
They have to pretend that they don't know why because admitting the problem would be a form of taking responsibility. As we know, they'll do anything to avoid that and so continue to expect women posting similar videos.
They are illiterate losers
They do know
But they don’t care
They do know, they just pretend to be a victim while avoiding accountability
letting a woman in your home is like letting in a bank robber. she will destroy your life.
Like a vampire, never invite one into your home or she’ll bleed you dry
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This is creepily the truth.
Not really. Someone who robbed your place ends up in court a gets sentenced to jailtime when caught.
But with a woman, you are the one ending up in court and sentenced to pay her for the rest of your life.
They are like tornadoes. Come into your life, cause a bunch of destruction then leave just as quickly as she came
Men are pragmatists. We look at things through a prism of benefits and liabilities. Dating, relationships, and marriage have become liabilities thanks to modern feminism and the family court system.
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I graduated high school in 1980. I'm now widowed seven years.
Right out of the military, in '84, I got married. Chose wrong. My fault. In '91 I made the same mistake again. I stayed single for twelve years, and then married again TO THE RIGHT WOMAN! Fifteen beautiful years later our Creator took her away early.
That was seven years ago. Now, being "off the market" for twenty years and seeing what we have now, I have one word..... DITTO!!!!!
The whole environment has changed, including women. There are no modern, westernized women around that are worth taking that risk for!
And I'm teaching my grandchildren the same.
And even our parents knew that it is losing deal, but the women made it worth.
Well what women want from men is very tangible - his last name, a ring, money, protection, etc. What tangible benefits does a woman bring - mother to his children, a sympathetic ear, a companion to grow old with. Are modern women taught that is all they bring to the table? No. They are taught that if they acquire money and success and a career, things women want from men, they will get a tech billionaire to wife them up. Women, and their upbringing in our public schools, is the sole problem.
Too expensive - high stress - little enjoyment - no return on your investment
Facts
Mrs Shirley ,problems are not that much simple..as a Lady stay away from your kind ,investigate more that you will reach up worst answers about your kind ,for this just watch them more carefully you will see more facts
Just contract escorts for your primal needs. Cheaper than having a wife. If you want unconditional love get a couple of dogs
95% of women aren't worth the trouble. Those of you in the 5%, never change.
well… that’s 1 in 20 who might fit relatively, with all others p.i.a. to more or lesser extent. are ppl. really into crawling through that morass !?
In "The book of Numbers" by economist Aaron Clarey he argued that the number of marriage material women is 2.87 percent.
Change from what to what? When I married at 32, I felt I had to do the changing. I learned to love fishing again (after a break of years of fishing with Dad), going to live sporting events and rodeos. We did yard work together, and took walks in the neigborhood to hack on the houses in the rich areas. But when I asked him to go with me to a sci fi con (a fave thing for me), he left early, forcing me to stay or join him. I felt bad thinking of him sitting in the lobby alone so left too. The only thing that really bothered me was his cheating. Can men ever be faithful?
100% think they are the 5%. No woman would ever admit that she's in the 95%.
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Ayyyy, love cappy's books. World without men also is an eye opener
My last date was 2019. She was late, never looked up from her phone, and asked how money I made. I finished my drink and left.
Ah, yes… I did date a dreaded mobile phone addict once … just once … it was the phone bookings at our restaurant table that opened my eyes 👀.
I read about a guy who used to organise a meeting with women, and asked them to sit outside the coffee shop , he would drive past slowly, if they didn`t look like their photo.. he kept driving ... lol
@@jeffreybright8119 Ah, the old “you won’t believe how good my neighbour looks” … a lot fall for this once …
@@jeffreybright8119 I'm picturing a lowered 64 Impala driving by gangsta style haha
And you didn't marry her? THE NERVE OF YOU! 😂
It's really quite simple, really.
You see, over the past 15-20 years, there has been one message relentlessly drilled into men: *You are not good enough.*
The rejections put on the average man (and doubly the one trying to be a good man) have been essentially completely contradictory: "I want a sensitive man" is rejected for showing emotions as "weak", when you don't show your emotions you're rejected for "being emotionally unavailable"; when you pursue it's "try-hard"/"creepy", when you don't it's "passive; when you try to be confident/casual you're rejected because you aren't trying vs when you do try it's "putting up a front"; when you try stepping up on the 'provider' role, you're taken for granted… and, if you're religious and take your faith seriously, waiting until marriage, you get rejected with "I want an experienced man" or "you're too good for me" or "I'm not a virgin" (which was never a requirement) - and, then, when observing these difficulties the problem is always the men's fault: "you're not buff/working out!", and "you're not making $8X,XXX+/yr!", or "You're just not being social enough!" - no matter what, it's men's fault, and men have finally got the message that women/dating, school, and society have been telling them for the past 15-20 years: *you are not good enough* *_and you never will be_*.
That's why.
And it was all projection, as Satan taught ladies to accuse the men of the inferiority they suffer from.
Well said. DITTO!
Absolutely agree!
You ought to study some history. The changes leading to what you’re pointing at started back in the 1850-ies.
It didn’t take widespread hold before the 1960 to 1970-ies. The generations growing up in the late sixties and seveties strated to have widespread societal influence 20-30 y later. I.e. the late nineties and the double-o’s.
So the “disease” started way earlier. It’s in the last 15-20y you see widespread symptoms.
There are strong forces wanting women and men to distrust each other and stop having families. When families are weak society’s institutions (e.g. government) grows stronger and become relatively more powerful. Women become dependent on the state and power is moved from men to the state. And to a lesser degree from women to the state.
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I'm not going into the history because there's multiple causes and, depending on the framing, multiple valid assessments; also, the chain of cause-and-effect could be followed so far you "lose the picture".
*For Example:* (1) On the governmental side of things: it is literally self-defeating to undermine society in such a manner, to the point that there's essentially no difference between the policies our leadership is putting in place and what would be put in place if we were conquered/occupied by a foreign enemy. (2) On the societal side of things, the continual de-personing of men [e.g. as emotional beings: "the only masculine emotion is anger" (and any other emotion, esp. sadness, *is* weakness) vs "if you show anger you're out of control and/or dangerous"] drives a sense of non-belonging which, in turn, drives [much of] the self-deletion rates.
So, no; going into the history, and multi-factor causes & contributing factors, is a book-length proposition; nor a comment-sized observation.
I'm an "older" man. I'll be Seventy Years EXPERIENCED in December. I spent so many years completely ignored by women in my age group that I gave up even looking when I turned 50 and realized that all I had to look forward to was possibly being the third or fourth choice after those same women failed in multiple marriages, I didn't see any future in getting married just to watch some used woman that wouldn't look at me sideways when I was 25 just to watch her or have her watch me die.
Ditto. I worked my whole life to become desirable to women, became very fit, financially independent, etc etc etc. Now I find that women bring nothing to the table
A lot of boomer men are boring. Golf, beer, no knowledge of history or politics, etc. It's always someone else's fault. If you choose women for how much they drink or how many vacations they go on, this is what you get.
well as a young men i'm going to keep this as a lesson from you i got a lot to learn tbh
Instead of partying and sleeping around, I worked on getting my CDL and HVAC license. By next year I’ll be 24 and have my HVAC intermediate license. I’m Single, living well off, nearly have all my debt paid off ($15k) and I don’t really need another mouth to feed. Kinda like this lifestyle, although it does get lonely sometimes to be honest. As I’ve learned from older guys, that feeling will disappear in a few years.
@@michaelheitmann4049date men then
This isn't rocket science. Men are getting tired of being used as an early retirement plan by women who will leave for any little reason or no reason at all. Younger men have seen guys look at things like a romantic, then lose half their stuff for nothing.
I joined a new church and was immediately pestered by older men who wanted a nurse maid for their old age. I guess we all have our thing not attractive to the other gender.
I feel bad for my friends who are now having financial difficulties having to support children, as someone who grew up happy with video games my only concern is when the PlayStation will release the next Monster Hunter Wilds trailer
Teens raised by single moms hearing how bad men are...or even two parent houses where the woman isn't happy.
@@richardtheriault9121 Its sad though that based on one or two experiences, maybe a few more because surely not every woman you dated saw you as a wallet, or maybe you need help finding good women, but in any case, each gender is willing to completely fo without the other?
@@Iluthra I'm older from a different age...married 35 years and retired. But I see the world today.
The worst woman back im the day is the average woman now
Are you saying modern women have drastically depreciated themselves? 😂 Say it ain't so!? 😂
Great observation!
The Emmitt Till false accuser is the average women now a days.
@@jamessibley6651 Am I mistaken? Or was Emmett Till the black guy who got accused in the elevator by a Karen in Oklahoma in the 1920s with Black Wall Street and they burnt the whole town down?
Wise words!
A few weeks online dating changed my entire view of women , I went from wanting a gf to avoiding them.
Because you're just picking people based on some picture that looks like they're always on a vacation.
@Handle42-j2r Good luck with that, because people are leery of strangers. If you go to bars and clubs, it's the same as online dating.
The old fashioned way to meet women is to ask your friends, you'd be surprised how that works so well.
@@andrewglover9769 My friends are all the same, we all stopped dating years ago. A couple of my friends are single dads, I envy them.
At this point I'm thinking it's to late to have a family and the women my age who wanted them already have so I just called the whole thing quits.
I honestly haven't met a women I'd want to date in years.
@@DeadCat-42 Just remember...all it takes is ONE, she's out there probably thinking the same thing as you.
I visited my son who is doing engineering, i casually asked him and his friends about girls, they all said the same thing - they are focusing on studies, tennis, video games, they see no benefit in chasing girls. I was impressed, as a divorced guy, i ensured they got their view reinforced.
Too much risk. "juice isn't worth the squeeze" It isn't just the state of western women; it's the state of society as a whole. High house prices and cost of living over all. Most people my age (30's) are just trying to keep a roof over our heads. We're too tired with dramas.
They're not adding value to our lives but instead put more problem on it.
How about we seen many men get divorced even if they are rich or poor or good or bad men. It doesn’t matter because the marriage system in the west is just a retirement plan for women that they are taking advantage of so she can cash in a few years later. Don’t blame men for not playing a game they realize is a waste of time. That’s why men either walk away or get a passport and live in other countries where there’s no nonsense dating like that and there’s good women serious about having a family.
Forming a couple/ family was the way to deal with thee trials of life as a team, with modern women its just adding dead weight.
And the myriad of Laws arrayed against men. It's shocking isn't it 😮
❤ from Northeast England
The idea is that two can cope better than one. But modern women and societal structure do spoil it, I will have to agree with you guys.
We dont want to play a game thats designed for Men to lose.
That's why I go to swinger parties.
@@mgtowchampion7961 Degeneracy isn't the answer.
@@LennyCash777 I have been attending those parties for years, not once have I ever seen a drunken fight, and drugs being taken. Also no one there will play with someone unless their husband, wife or partner is ok with it. If you go to nightclubs you see regular fights, drugs being taken, stabbings etc. Walking into a swingers clubs is like walking into another universe. It's very strange.
@LennyCash777 that thing scares me. I've always been shocked at folks that share like that. Just scary imo 😅
@@riskykrispy8995 because we’ve been full enough try surviving the California child support Nazi death. It says you owe 66.6% of your income and then says a nurse practitioner is making 250,000 a year and 1994 wahoo of course I went underground, but I paid every dime for my children. She didn’t even work.
6.5 million and God knows how many more millions I did it for my children and I kept my word that the miserable woman live by herself forever. She said men are like buses well darling you’re old and there’s no more buses coming along.
I just tuned 60. I walked away 8 years ago. I’m twice divorced, screwed over by the family court both times. There is nothing a woman could do or say that would change my mind. I’ll die alone but I will be content.
Why were you Foolish enough to get married? Why didn't you stay a Bachelor your whole life and leave your Legacy to the charities of your choice?
You never should have taken that second to to ride. At 60, recovery is going to be a struggle. Once for me, and I am the only one struggling to have a solid retirement. I can have a comfortable retirement in time; however, if I get married and divorced again it is game over. It's all about planning asset protection now. Ensuring that some parasite cannot take advantage of me when I am old and weak minded. Irrevocable trust. Own nothing. When they realize there are no assets and money to acquire they will vanish.
@@MikeS-7 I am not struggling. I’m fine.
Amen
Thousands of brave honorable men have died alone in a fox hole or trench without ever being in a relationship. There are no atheist in a fox holes.
Lets keep it simple, women in America open up Pandora's box and now are trying to close it but can't. IT'S OVER!!!!!
12 years down the drain., met when I was 20 she was 19., were best friends., all the sacrifices I made working overtime in the worst economy in the history of mankind. Managed to save to buy a beautiful home. We ended up having twin boys. 2 months in to our new home after 12 years of busting my ass we finally made it. Only for 3 months later for her to cheat on me with my friend. Now being almost two years later she is pregnant with his kid. I tried everything did everything and it wasn’t enough. She took my kids from me and put me into child support and alimony. I’m fucking done. Women have ruined it for themselves. Let society 🔥. They made their bed they can lay in it… 😡
What a nightmare...
Me too . I loved my children and made my family my main focus. She hooked up with her friends BF who was on house arrest for DUI and got pregnant. She took my children and he turned her onto meth. Everyone is healthy now , but I cut off woman as romantic relationships because I simply no longer trust woman at all. I meet woman who want to get to know me and I immediately think it’s a trap. Sad, but I’m done.
@@sunrayrosin7181 ya it’s tough out there., but what can you do ? Gotta just keep going. I have twins to worry about
Dude my kids mom did the same, minus the friend thing, but she was still a whore. Anyway, my oldest son just came off child support, so I thought they would at least drop it a little? Nope, they decided to keep it at the same amount stating, the total amount I was giving her for both boys, it was never determined how much was delegated to each child. Like wtf kind of logic is that? You pay 800 a month for two kids and one comes off, it should be cut in half? So now I have to go back and fight her in court just because she's an evil cheating bitch. But the court is also working to fuck over responsible, middle aged men. They are just fueling bad behavior for women, and it's getting worse. Why would a man ever want to deal w a woman, when at any point she can just use the courts to fuck him over?
I feel for you, rebuild your life it's the best revenge, don't let yourself be victimised by these parasites
A society that has no love or respect for those that build it won't last. Let societies that appreciate their men continue.
All empires of evil will end at some point and that goes for the west whether we like it or no! They try to sell it that it’s all good! Freedom for effeminate men, the destruction of masculine men, the rise of masculine women. The dependence on fossil fuels and the greed of mass immigration!
Absolutely! Preach! I'm sick of being told I'm the bad guy just because I exist, while I'm also expected to keep the world turning.
I think you nailed it. Feminism and the rise of masculine beliefs and behaviour in women have also come with an unnatural and inflated disrespect for men. There has been a clear rise in the assertion to overlook the value of male contribution in society. This lack of respect and value is mirrored in the very behaviours of many women that men find highly distasteful, unappealing and unattractive. What is taking place is a natural response to an imbalance between the masculine and feminine relationship, which by nature is very beautiful.
China/Russia
Hail Rusland!
@@ernstthalmann4306Russia has the same problems.
As a man raising a teenage boy, I can tell you - I don’t think it’s that young men are watching or learning from older men that dating isn’t worth it. I can tell you from my experience, my son has known modern young women are absolutely mean, sneaky and generally insufferable. He has told me similar things since he was in grade school, and I’ve never talked bad to him about his Mother. She was a lying, selfish, adulteress. But I don’t ever tell him that.
Women, even as younger girls and teens, are driving most men (and even young men) away just by their own poor behavior.
You're not wrong at all, even existing near one is enough for them to go on and on about how creepy you are or how you have "little d*** energy" and so on and so forth. It's sad to think there are entire generations of women now that are going to have the worst wake up call when they realize they pushed every good guy away, like my ex who after extensive therapy has done a 180 on the idea of feminism, called me crying begging me to forgive her for two hours straight. For context I had literally risked my life for her multiple times, even after dating. God help me I still love her but I can never go through that again, it nearly destroyed me mentally and physically. Sucks having the values of protecting and supporting a woman you love instilled on you these days unless you find one worth the effort.
Thank you for staying in your boy's life. I have 2 brothers, we all stayed with my dad after my mother decided she wasn't happy being a wife and a mom. I was old enough to notice her lies and selfishness but my brothers weren't. We are all single. My dad never introduced another woman to our home, we learned to take care of ourselves and I think we all agree that we don't need the chaos that modern femininity brings to a home, so we just take care of ourselves and support each other. I deeply love and respect my dad, he raised us with ethics and christian values which he also always followed himself. He never did drugs or was a drunk and always made sure that he knew who our friends were so he could support us in our interests. Having a great dad is so amazing that it doesn't matter if mom decides to leave on her own. In our case, things got much better and calmer when she left.
This comment hits the nail on the head for me. I'm 34 and I won't deal with how nasty women are in this age. They literally disgust me.
I’m sorry for what you went through, but at least with your Dad and your brothers you were all able to stick together and have a family unit. Your Dad sounds like a good man.
I believe we all lose something without a good woman, a woman who truly utilizes the strengths she can provide in a family atmosphere. Sadly, most now want to be ‘boss bitches’ and act far too masculine and hard to provide anything much of value to a family dynamic. One look at what has happened to families and to our country to this point will give people all the evidence they need of the resulting decline.
It’s over for your son
Ladies: Remove your tattoos, go to the gym 4x a week or ride a bike, STOP SWEARING, grow your hair, take vitamins, LEARN TO COOK WELL, speak in loving ways, be supportive w your man, put down your damn phone and stop comparing yourself to instagram sleezebags, keep your apartment tidy, be feminine., try not to gossip and smile at times. You can do it ~
Agree with all, 100%. But, I'm 85, single and fulfilled, so what do I know.
Great advice 🎉
@@danepikkola9119 .......;-}
Exactly!
"LEARN TO COOK WELL" I would never tell a women to do that. I do all my own cooking.
The problem is women.
Toxic Marxist Feminism in a nutshell.
Which is proven by the fact that lesbian-marriages have the highest DV rates, s-assault rates of partners, and the highest divorce-rate of all of the types of marries there are. When women can't even be married to each other in healthy and functional relationships, it proves that men are NOT the problem in relating - especially when gay-men have drastically lower divorce-rates than lesbians do.
Are Women poison to politics? Is that the elephant in the room that no one will address? Can an individual women ever be equal when all women are poison? Will these Axioms be proven indisputably true before the empire is totally destroyed?
A lot of guys also don't have their shit in one basket.
@@Mrbfgrayyou mean the insanely high standards
Young men have grown up with mothers who have thrown away and destroyed their fathers.
It’s good to see they’ve learned the lessons they’ve been taught.
@@leonsessions2264 Agree. This will not end well... Because women are unable to think about consequence of their actions. They want to insult you. Then expect some kind of subservient fool to provide for them.
No Thanks..
A very good point of view
Funny thing is it was bad enough when fathers were deadbeats and a step dad could come in and given the authority to raise another man’s kid. But women shamed those men so much the next gen decided to be present fathers. Now the young boys get to see the devastation their fathers went through. Women failed at hiding their lies about the fathers and creates a general disgust to be in a relationship.
@@leonsessions2264 its the judge that took my kids that I can’t forgive
I'm trying to protect my son right now from seeing what his mom did. I don't want his future relationships to be judged by what he witnessed at 13 years old from his mom's poor decision making.
Men are fishermen, women are fish. The sea is currently polluted.
So read the Mandaean Book of John the Baptist.
What's that floating in the pool? It's NOT a Baby Ruth Bar.
Dangerous mutated fish, I’m just gonna stop eating seafood then 😂
😂Wildly underrated
And the fisherman is hungry and in a crisis, cause the fish is choosing the bear.
I'm a 26 year old dude. No wife or girlfriend. I was a quiet boy in highschool (mostly because I was depressed while parents were going through a divorce.) I minded my own business, did my homework, got good grades. The girls at my school were rude, obnoxious, and very mean to boys like me. Some were good at pretemding to be nice until you got to know them. The rest were airheads. Even though I wanted a girlfriend very badly there was simply no one around me to date.
I'd very much like to have children to pass down the family name. But I don't know if that's gonna happen unless I adopt.
Whatever happens will happen because it's the will of the Lord. That alone is enough to keep me content and at peace.
Most men are intelligent & observant; told they’re irrelevant and unwanted. Message received!
Lesson learned, not soon forgotten!
Yeah...no. Most men are simps. Then the next category are clueless men who can't break the female code, which is actually pretty simple to do
So a lot of the latter are checking out, but simps always be simping
Men aren’t fools, they will see how people are behaving and protect themselves
True statement, this has been their message for decades now and they are surprised that men have said fck it im out. Shocking
The protector role of men has charged, There is no keeping a woman happy, best to avoid all relationships. Use the wrong pronoun you can end up with a jail sentence.
Why is it so hard to understand? Statistically, over 50% of marriages end in divorce within the first 10 years. Leaving those men in debt, without a home, paying child support and alimony. Essentially, worse off than if they had stayed single. Most modern women lack wife skills and expect men to be providers and do half of the chores.
The options are becoming a human ATM, miserable, and divorced. Or staying single.
The choice isn't difficult to make.
Exactly that, as soon as I purchased my first place back in 1997 I knew my chances of getting married reduced considerable. 27 years later l don't regret my decision one bit.
Lesson here is, NEVER marry.
Seeing mom put Dad through the ringer has an impact
I have been hearing these stories directly lately. It is horrid. I feel for your experiences. I wish is was otherwise for you.
@@matthewridgeway9250 Moms and sisters can be the biggest red pillers for a young man. Trust me on this one.
@@arjunchatterjee1696Yes
This ☝️☝️☝️
Seeing mom bring home 17 different 'dads' during the first 12 years of your life has an even worse impact.
3:30 - Half of young men arent dating. So what? 90% of young women dont know how to cook - now that is a cause of greater concern.
I'm 63, most women on dating apps are train smashed.
😄
Busted dusted and crusted
Dating apps are for pointless hook-ups anyways, not real relationships.
I wouldn't dare use dating apps............
@@BrianWaller-qe7gr Busted dusted and crusted - GHOSTbusters!
The young Men have been bashed,
Drugged and thrown in the bushes.
Women teachers have red pilled the
Young Men before they're out of
School. Just ask one.
This is one extremely underrated comment
Not mention all these 3s and 4s who think they're 10s and "settling" if a man isn't a millionaire with sixpack abs even though she's 5'2", 240 lbs, and even heavier in debt
These modern "boss babe" type women have the most neurotic energy, it's exhausting just listening to them talk.
Unless its trash day 😊
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And yet you are the one giving women a headache.
@@zendle6502exactly, than we don't hear men nagging cause all of them got collected.
Triggered women are better than y ou? Have y ou forgotten the day of the plantation? That's where ngas place are.
Older men are teaching younger men the horrors they experienced. Younger men want no part of a migraine.
This is correct. I’ve spent a lot of time over the years training younger guys at work not to be “nice guy simps” for women who have no intention of being with them. They use simps as platonic coffee dates and as a shoulder to cry on… but will continue to chase their bad boys. As I tell them, you need to be one of those bad boys and treat them with contempt and disinterest, then they will chase you!
It is not the young teenagers and adults do not want to date, it is because majority of women have excluded them. In Middle School and High School, the only teenagers who were getting the girls were the popular kids or the athletes and having sexual relationships at a younger age, but they were getting the majority of girls, meaning that they were having relationships with multiple girls while they were all competing for the same guy, leaving countless normal and average looking boys and young college age adults sexless and not in a relationship. It is the same pattern with most women up to their 30s. After this age, the leftover women realize that they lost the game and now give a chance to normal, average or even below average men, but the problem is that these men have no experience but the female does and probably has high body count by then while most men have none.
Wow this is the realest comment ever it is happening throughout the west. Men’s only hope is the passport, some men are in 30s never had a gf👀.
Also, the post-30 relationships are loveless, oftentimes bedless, and usually miserable. The women you perfectly described are used to being with Chad/Tyrone. When they finally marry Peter Bob, he's not as experienced and so she ends up picking up side-pieces to have her fun while Peter Bob is her retirement plan. THe dual mating strategy, essentially. It leaves Peter Bob in a situation where he feels like he's never getting nor receiving any affection from her, and he's usually bending over hand and foot to vie for her attention, but because he's not an alpha, she has zero attraction to him; Peter Bob is just a utility service for her. It's why there are so many relationship advice posts from the Peter Bob guys asking how they can get more bedroom action from their wife and how they cook, clean, and work but she never seems interested. It's because she has zero feelings for Peter Bob, and Chad/Tyrone (or in some cases Emily/Stacey) are still getting her physical affection.
@@Billy-bc8pkI think we are slowly seeing the awakening of Peter Bob.
@@nahuelpatania3522 I sure hope so.
@@matgamer5916 I've only had one gf and it was sheer luck meeting randomly. She was a single mom who set my life on fire. Love it! I love suffering.
the younger generation see what is happening and responded with "the juice isn't worth the squeeze".
They have watched their elders get fleeced by the system, and want no part of it.
Future population is at risk, is this what happened to ancient civilisations, the rise and then the fall?
GEN Z Men just have to ask their DIVORCED FATHERS for advice on Marriage to a Modern Masculine Feminist Filtered 304!
The downfall of society along with its many more failing issues
80 percent divorce rate initiated by women,and 90 percent of the time the woman gets full custody,need i say more?
In other words ... You will own nothing and be happy
@@michaelrodriguez3329 You get to keep what you can hide, and that which she never knew existed. The time to plan for divorce is before you get married! There are good reasons for marriage: If you have an overseas girlfriend or for tax purposes if you're about to die.
@@Mikexxx531 safe travels 🚢
90% of those divorces are by degree holders
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I am in a rather large social dance community in my large town. So it’s easy to meet women and make women friends because it’s the women that you always dance with. So you make connections. I have had at least four of these women, with long-term boyfriends, basically offer to dump them for me. And when I did not take the bait, they just kept on with their boyfriends. I was shocked they stayed with their boyfriends because they badmouthed the boyfriends so bad to me but then months later I’m seeing social media posts where the women are saying how great their boyfriends are and how much in love they are w them. When you have lots of female friends and you’re a decent looking guy like me, you really see their dark nature come out. (I am 58 years old and never married, monogamous dater. There are a decent women to date, but you’ve really got to be careful.)
Fix the extreme bias in the family courts and you'll see men start dating and getting married again.
Take 10 year after the fix for it to go back to usual. When will be the fix - not any time that can be seen in the future !!
I think what we're seeing now with Gen Z is an entire generation of people who have been directly affected by divorce. A lot of young men have experienced first hand what the courts did to their dads and they want nothing to do with it now as they enter adulthood.
Dating maybe, but marriage is still off the table, these women don't know how to be wives at all in the west.
Good ol' UA-cam censor comments again I see. Heaven forbid you dare to speak against the grain.
Lets see if this one stays:
What we're seeing with Gen Z is the first generation that has lived through divorce being normalized. The Gen Z men witnessed firsthand what happened to their fathers in divorce and want nothing to do with it.
Yes it is.
The older men have been warning the younger ones and the younger ones have been listening, observing and taking notes and are convinced by what they've heard and witnessed...
He has to make sure she has her own address & sleeps a few times per week at that address. No mail can come to his place. Never Marry it's the only way. Never face jail from her either.
men actually listen and men actually give good advice. We do care for those who will inherit this earth after us. Women seem to want to lie to each other and keep themselves in misery.
facts! as a millennial kid from the late 80's growing up i was told by several older men not to marry and heard their horror stories, i was attracted to girls in high school and even as an average guy no matter what i did they were only into the top 10% of boys as far as attractiveness, but they didn't care too much about money and the 666 standards yet. i remember asking a girl out and the first thing she would do is run back to her group of friends and they would all snicker and laugh in a group judging me before she would come back with an answer. feminist English teachers that would give every girl good grades even when they produced dog wash and always mark down the men including those that performed well. people say millennials are entitled it's because the women of our generation were truly entitled and the men were envious of their entitlement and started expecting more for themselves too. things have just spiralled out of control since then. now these millennial women are hitting 30's and heading to 40's and are on the internet crying they cant find a good man when they hit the wall and got ran through in their 20's
The older men have been psychologically abusing the younger men by transferring their failures and regrets onto them. ie, a bitter 50 year old that had his time and had his fun is telling a 20 year old virgin not to bother with women and none of it is worth it anyway. There is nothing good to say about those broken "men", they aren't mentors.
Not really. Older generation had it easier to be honest. They were not required to have good jobs, high paying salaries to buy a home and start a family. The older generation also dated and found relationships easily and the way they found a woman was more easier as they would often meet in High School or at a dance party or in the streets or restaurant. I have heard stories that they even met walking their dogs at a park. Nowadays, people can really meet women anywhere or anytime less talk to one in public and women also won't talk to a man unless he drives a nice car, has a high paying job, and already has a condo or house. Young men cannot have those things. Older generation married at 17 or 18, today, this generation marries at 30.
98% of Modern Women is not worth the risk(s).
Lets Marry the other 2%
@RayYounger-o8v it took 12 years for me to date around 20 women, that 2% might wind up being impossible to marry since the odds of finding the marriagable women are so low.
You can't risk anything when in reality they are not choosing you, buddy.
@@TheGreatAustinohahaha, all of them were rejecting you🤣👌
@@mens-bodies-my-choiceshut up troll
As Men we are taught we have to build our worth, Women are told from childhood they're special and deserve everything regardless... Now? Men are looking in the disparity that's created.
18 yrs together, 14 yrs married, two kids, she was sleeping around, not working, had a lot of hobbies. She asked for divorce and took the kids. She is a catholic. Apparently from a family with good values.
Nah, she didn’t even use protection, as she confessed. Women like these are the reason why men don’t date anymore. I’m teaching my boys about women’s double lives and personalities.
Yep all of them are evil
That’s crazy Fam sorry to hear
The only way the moms receive feedback occurs when their children did not give them access to their grandchildren.
@@ruirodtube women are like children and should be treated as such
ALL are the daughters of LILITH and EVE, the first 2 wives of Adam in the Garden of Eden. Google: Why was Lilith divorced from Adam and kicked out of the GoE? You'll see. LILITH Fair's celebrate her as the first FEMINIST! Yep. All true. Then Eve disrespected Gods word and commandment. These 2 are the foundation for womankind. See a problem?
Smart young men. In the 1960s girl’s were a mystery to most of us and we were interested. Now guys have seen their true nature and are going their own way.
I’m 52 my sons are 24 and 12. I’m worried they’ll never find good wives in the USA. My older is an engineer and travels. He’s very bright and he said, he “may or may” not have kids but probably never marry.
He’s already suggesting to his younger to do the same.
Quote, “Education, physical health, economic independence, and mental health should be a priority but a western women will kill all of that” it’s just a “different” time from how pop’s grew up.
In my opinion, I feel the same way. Either way. If you take care of yourself as a man you’ll be fine.
But never take a women seriously if they live in delusional expectations and serve no logic to their thinking.
The abilities to false accuse where the accused must disprove her lies. Artificial womb is our only way to survive as a species.
@@petemorton8403 I agree agree with you, Peter. Funny how women are valued for their looks, but not for their intelligence or integrity.
I would recommend your sons go overseas for a traditional wife, and stay there with the woman. Don't bring her back to the states.
@@badgerden7080 That is literally the only option nowadays. Maybe 2% of vvomen in the west are good vvomen but trying to find them will likely get you in trouble with the law as just meeting one crazy unstable vvomen and you are cooked. Do you wanna test your luck on dating 98 vvomen to find a good one because I sure don't!
Women only want to be with the fine @@@ young 18 year old super good looking fresh out of high school so what is the point in trying to talk to women?
My 24 year old son is tall, handsome and has his own flat and a six-figure salary. My wife has warned him of the low-quality choice of selfish young women today. And he has listened.
Tell him the real truth and tell him women have to earn his respect and time and he shouldn’t even lift a finger to find a woman.
I have dated two women long-term. The result is always the same. I am much happier, single no drama. I have more money. I have less worries.
Exactly
level up your cash son no cap
Choose better. The problem can't be the women every time, take accountability.
But did those women gr3pe and abvse you? That's what's happening to women in relationships. So they left your ab3sive A*.
Men can start drama in an empty room. That's why y'all are unhappy and are lonely. But at least now women are safe and can live drama free.
Western women fulfilled their mission. Their pursuit of freedom has left them "free" to fight the world alone. And, watching them reap it is sublime.
and they can kiss it
It's a good thing they're strong and independent, otherwise they would crumble.... Oh wait they're crumbling
it's not freedom they want - they want a host ! It's fullon parasitysm !
Jealous. I'm not even a Western women and know that Western men ate tr3sh.
@@colourbasscolourbassweapon2135they won't, that's why Western tr3sh has a crisis.
The first and biggest reason is that every woman thinks she deserves the top 20% man. The next reason is that men are tired of ridiculous expectations to pay for a million things and also be a mind reader. The third reason is that so many men have been put on blast on social media for approaching in person that they retreat to dating apps
Least in the middle-late 1990s we had America Online chat rooms, where you "kinda" still had to be personable. Not everyone had access to Erin's (whatever you call this) commentary
@@jeremycole3008 = Actually, AOL chatroom is where I reunited with a girl I went to school with for four months (until her father got transferred to another air force base).
We were together for three years, then married until her passing in 2017.
And then their experience on dating apps is to be left on read by hundreds of not thousands of women because of all the social dregs of society hanging out there for one, and for two, way too many options and choices. Women have the power of both, but generally lack the real quality they are looking for. I can get left on read, not waste my time and money for free by eliminating the third party.
Sadly it is more near 5% or even less now.
And the dating apps make everyone over selective, hypergamous, and not only anti social, but recluse, indifferent, and extremely shallow and discriminatory in conversation and giving someone a shot.
Im a blackpilled incel ive given up on dating because its over.
Man up and stop with that attitude and nonsense. You are a man get out there and take care of your shit and don’t ever chase a woman. Don’t even try to make them notice you or show them attention. Build your empire and a queen will show up once you have a castle and she will show you what a real woman will offer you. Most of all stop the whining and stop feeling sorry for your self. Now get out there and get to it. GL 🇺🇸
Grow ur empire and castle but don't let a robber called Wife enter ur house
@@Gadsdenflags, you forgot the ending: once the self-proclaimed "queen" shows up, serve her with a restraining order and go on your way in peace.
Remember, women are actively choosing being alone with a bear then a man. Women screamed about how dangerous and unsafe they felt when a man approaches them. I have no desire to make a woman feel like that so I don't even think about talking to a random women.
Passport Bears FTW
And in return, I don't want them talking to me either.
Gen Z is known as the "s-xless generation" for a reason. Despite having the most access to "adult material" and with everything around them being OBSESSED with s-x, they're the generation that is the most abstinent in many generations, by percentages. There's a reason (well, many) that is happening, and a LOT of it is because it's just not worth trying to date or get with any woman (or girl for those high schoolers).
Society is doomed if this effenism and anti-male misandry doesn't get stamped out with prejudice.
From my experience, they also the sweetest young men ever lived. My twins son is 18 last year. They discuss everything with us (me and my wife) and never rebel or do nasty almost criminal things as I did at their age.
The drawback is, I think they will grow up much late in life. They even asked me about things that I can make a decision when I was 18 yo. But I think this is understandably. Unlike in my young at 90's, the world they face is much different from what we are taught at home.
Maybe in the US. In Europe, prostitution is legal. Many young bachelors can easily go to the red light districts and have sex there.
In the US, yes. In Europe, no. Bachelors go to red light districts in Europe because it is legal.
The bar for getting a girlfriend is actually just too high these days. Women went from being like used Corollas to being like trying to buy a brand new Porsche. I can’t afford a Porsche but if that’s all they sell these days, then I guess I’m not getting a car. Hope that metaphor made sense.
it's too late. it's already doomed
A 1930s comedian said it best:
_"Women are like elephants to me. I like to look at them, but I wouldn't want to _*_own_*_ one."_
Keep your money, property, and sanity. Use all that to develop yourselves and live long and happy lives. #MGTOW
They end up fat as well 😂
We young men don't want leftover women . We don't want something that chad and tyrone already had. Women don't appreciate or respect men anymore. The modern woman does not believe in loyalty.
I waited all my life (40 years of dating) for what I thought was the right woman, and when I found her, I spent almost 2 years making sure she was the right one. After 2 years of her telling me every day that she loved me and was happy, just as I was getting ready to propose, she walked out on me. Within a month she left the country with another man and shacked up with him. If you had asked me the day before she left if I was certain we were meant to be I would have bet my life on it. Just goes to show you can even trust your own instincts when it comes to women because they’re experts at fooling even the most experienced of us.
Yup I vetted this girl for 6 months before I decided to give her commitment. Within 3 months she became an unrecognizable monster. Woke up with her one morning to her telling me she loved me and to have a good day at work, only to be completely blocked everywhere the next day and never hearing from her again. My friends saw her in dating apps that week.
And men do it too, happened to me too.
Never Never Trust a Woman. Flakey and Irresponsible. Sorry you experienced this. Ever more common.
there were definitely red flags you probably ignored. a low quality women doesn't just switch up without showing any signs.
@@asdfxcvbn746yeah the red flag is that she's a western woman and has a smartphone.
In the 1990s in high school, I didn’t bother with women. To much drama and bull
Graduated in the 90’s the pickings were slim
My school had 28 year old looking hotties, way outta my league. You can druel over a corvette and still realize you going to be lucky to land an Oldsmobile
Same in the 70's.
I'm a millennial, we was the last of the dying breed. A lot of millennials seen generation x going through issues. We smarting up. Generation z just way more cold on the redpill. Proud of them
You had it way easier in 1990s, it's much worse now you cant even find a girl that's virgin now.
Older men aren't dating either. I'm 51, have never been married, and have no children. I used to be hot and women still think I'm good looking but I have pretty well withdrawn from relationships with all but a few friends because the world in general is acting like a bunch of narcissistic assholes. I would rather be alone by myself then alone with someone. My major malfunction is having a big heart and being somewhat of an intellectual. The vast majority of women I've known over the years liked bad boys and now have one or more children out of wedlock, sometimes with different men, and are card carrying feminazis. A life without love is bad enough but a life without peace is unacceptable.
Dude, 51 is not old! Lol
@@jasongadbois4338 Gee.....thanks?... but is that seriously an argument since the average life span for men is 75 years for married men and single men tend to die in their 60's?
@@fishguru73 living longer means nothing
@@jasongadbois4338 Speak for yourself. I don't have much control over how long I live but I want to enjoy what time I have and it is unnatural for men and women to be at odds and the nuclear family to be destroyed. It doesn't bode well for civilization either.
In about a month I will be 63 I have a partner not married and she's older than me and I love her and she loves me life is give and take men and women are different. But just saying girls back in the 80s were just as bad, at least you can meet women at clubs or at the library. But when I was young I didn't make the money or have a great career just a working man. I was just a date a good time I could not hold on to the girl I wanted. What I'm hearing is there's no Love or loyalty
I say that I would never date again , I am in a relationship and if it ever ends, I will remain single.
You can be a teenager "full of hormones", whether you are attracted to girls, it's no use if girls reject you.
When I was a teenager, I was never able to date a girl because I obviously wasn't good enough for them. I suffered a lot of mockery and contempt. Holiday romances, for me, were only fiction.
When I started to have success with women, later, it was too late, I no longer wanted to be in a relationship with anyone and I was too affected by the horrible attitude of young women with Me. I never forgot how badly they treated me.
10 years ago, I preferred to stop dating, I'm happier and less stressed now.
By the time you are actually wanted, it is because their beauty has faded, and they are looking for a meal ticket. The funny part, is they get offended when you turn down their generous offer. Yeah, no thanks. You can get some cats, crazy woman.
You are better for it. More money and freedom
@@bradleyfrank7933 100% when you want them eg young and havent slept around they dont want you, then once they looks are gone and they been thorugh lots of D they all of a sudden want us, worst deal you can make
Yes, the closer they get to 30 and when you have more money, they will 'settle' for you now, but often with divorce following and the financial disaster for the man. With women initiating divorce 70%+ of the time, it is a bleak landscape, and there is a guaranteed payday for them while they look to trade up. Marriage vows mean NOTHING to them.
But then why are you watching these kinds of vids?
In 2021 those weren't broken hearts they were myocarditis.
If George Harrison were still alive, maybe he could rewrite the lyrics of his song: "the tax man" to: "the vax'd man"
LOL
100% true
That wasn't myocarditis. That was the y u d e n World Order AIPAC enforced Democidaly purposeful side effects.
2021 and beyond, it continues everyday. I see it all the time.
You are right. Dating, sex and marriage are dangerous for a man. The sex comes with extreme life altering risk. The attitude of women has changed. Men have adjusted. This should not come as a surprise.
This should be pinned.. You nailed it..
Why should I allow myself to be judged by old, male values when I can't expect traditional values from her in return? I should earn well, I should spoil her. I should treat her like a queen. What women don't want to understand is that men bear all the risk of a relationship. If a marriage breaks up, I lose half of what I have earned. I probably won't get custody of my children. I'm probably too old to find a new relationship. If I'm unlucky, my reputation will be destroyed. All of these old values were based on a system that is now completely perverted. Women are born with their worth. You have a much easier time finding a partner. Much easier! A man has to earn his worth. A status. They then want to benefit from this status. Be it social or monetary. What do I get in return? A woman with a body count of 10+?! If you're unlucky, you'll be used as a pay pig for a date. Women want to be conquered. They want you to fight for it. But if a man does that, there is a good chance that he will be called a stalker. The slightest mistake will land him on some TikTok videos as a failed date, narcissist or sexist. The worst thing is that most women are maybe a 4 or 5 but think of themselves as a 10. Ladies, look in the mirror and ask yourself what you can offer a man. Ask yourself why you, of all people, deserve a man of status. Get off your high horse. You have created a climate of fear for the last 10-15 years. A system in which the man can only lose. If you have nothing to offer except your body, you shouldn't be surprised that that's all you're used for. A man simply wants a loving, attentive partner by his side. A home to look forward to. Even if the day was so bad. Knowing full well that there is an attentive, sensitive woman waiting for you who knows how to make you feel noticed and would like to give you some attention. You are simply no longer worth the stress and risk.
Damn Right!!!!!
Apparently I Ain't The Only One Noticing
The Reinforcement Of The Bad Boss Bitch
- Radical Feminist Agenda......
Women now are a waste of time
Nah, they always were. Now their true nature is just posted all over TikTok.
And money $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
@@ChrisSurdak-v2rthis!
I would say waste of energy❤ they are good for about 15 minutes😘
Working 40+ hours a week for 50-60 years is stressful, frustrating, demanding, often demeaning, irritating and generally a complete PITA. So ladies, take a wild guess why most guys don't want a double helping of that ?
Al Bundy shows it - the stress at work goes further AT HOME with the woman
They probably have no likelihood of experiencing that in their office jobs.
@@stpfs9281 It can be situational but the probability is a lot less. Women in the office create drama/problems rather than suffer from it.
That’s why I’ll never work
@@stpfs9281 They get a shit tonne more privelidges than men do when it comes to flexibility. Plus most office jobs are 'fluff' jobs and have no real value to society. The whole thing is going to come crashing down to the ground!
Not just Gen Z . .Men on the whole are not just staying 6ft away. We are staying 60 ft away. 55 Gen X here. Dont date , Never been married , No kids. So far so good .
You've saved yourself so much misery brother. Peace.
yup no cap and i'm going to do the same
Good looks
I solved all my relationship problems in my mid 40's when I decided to follow celibacy, and amazingly everything just fell into place. My life as a middle aged man blossomed, I didn't realise just how emotionally draining it was trying to please others, but mostly my own desires! Truly, if you conquer lust, attachment and dependency, life is sooooo much more rewarding and you feel a sense of self-sovereignty.
I'm a 73yo batchelor. I was in university throughout the '70s (math, physics, electrical engineering) and became professionally established in the '80s. That's the time men normally settle down with a girl and start a family.
However, at that time I was asked to appear in court as a character witness three (3!) times by male friends who were going through divorces. In all three instances the wife accused the husband of physical abuse. I knew these families very well, exchanged Xmas presents, birthday parties, etc. In two cases, I knew the wife for years before she met her husband to be. The first time, I asked her why she did that, knowing it was untrue.
She just said that was the lawyer's recommendation.
I was so shocked by the unfairness of it all that I never took the risk of getting married, much to my parent's disappointment.
Too true brother. It happened to me. My solicitor was female, my ex-wife is obviously female, and my ex-wife's solicitor was female. One of them, and I'll never know which one, accused me of "choking" my wife! Which of course led to a $2000 increase in the legal fees of the divorce due to the extra phone calls that ensued. I asked my ex-wife if it was her who made the claim, she said it was either me or my solicitor! I then asked her to write to her solicitor to have the claim refuted, and she didn't bother- even though she admitted to me on the phone that I never choked her! So forever on record, in some solicitor's office, is the claim that I choked my ex-wife. Truth be told I would walk away from her in arguments and never touched her, but as a man I'm guilty until proven innocent.
Today's women are like living with another man. Who wants to compete all the time.
GenZ men like me aren’t dealing with these batcrazy women of my generation.
yeah tell me about it dude no cap
As a gen Y, hell ya brother, with ya all the way ;)
Young ppl want to see less sex in movies because most of it is story filler, unnecessary, and usually a form of social conditioning. And the kids are more aware of it than we were. Sex saturation makes people sick. Same effect as too much sugar.
I was in Iowa 3 years ago when I was going through my divorce. It was a small town. So I started going to the bars. I just wanted to be sociable. I was lonely. I talked with a lot of the local guys and they said every single girl in that town was on only-fans. I was shocked. I asked "all of them?" They said yeah, all of them.
There was this one beautiful girl there. No one would touch her. She was in tears one night because no one wanted her. Everyone one of us saw her as a major sexually transmitted disease risk.
I'm mid 50s. I absolutely will NOT even consider an American woman. I see them as disease ridden. I am actually revolted by them. The way they dress. The way they act.
I am actively looking for a foreign girl friend. Don't know if I will find anyone but I will try. I really want to love someone. But it won't be here in the USA.
I'm 50 and feel exactly the same way brother. I am working to change my circumstances and I have my sights set on the Philippines. I love Latinas but they are too Westernized. I have noticed that Filipinas have a beautiful look similar to Latinas with their brown skin and black hair. I just hope they are much more reliable and honest.
57 here. I'm headed to Russia in 2026.
37 and I am disgusted by them also. Married one for 13 years. Zero chance I'm digging through this proverbial dumpster for a piece of unspoiled fruit. On to better prospects 😅
I got married 9 years ago to a Filipina, and still married. It's so much easier than white women. I'm including Eastern European women. I went to Ukraine before I did The Philippines. I've met women all over the world and I've come to the conclusion that there's just something in Asian women's ability to think mathematically, meaning they can average pros and cons. White women can't do this anymore ever since modern technology made their lives so easy.
I’m 56 and I’m planning a trip to china
I’m 40 never been married or had kids still this it’s the best decision I’ve made and never had any regrets.
It's not a decision. Removing yourself from the genepool is the default for men. It's only through struggle your genes keep going.
Same here. I’m 49 though. I would date a woman long term if she had the same mindset as me and was already in a secure place of her own.
@@X-7-Ripper exactly.
Cheers.
I’m 65 and have never regretted not getting married or having children. I have friends who have been through divorce and were destroyed financially. They recovered, eventually, one even remarried but didn’t have children. I own my home, and both vehicles. I have women poking around my life wondering what I am going to do in the future. I am going to retire and live well! I am not their retirement plan!
Do women have anything to offer a guy?
no, and vise versa. I wouldn't recommend to any young woman to get married
Nope
In the very rarest of circumstances, yes.
@@michah321 interesting
@@michah321 yeah, because no w0man is interested on a retirement plan XD
Two guys from the UK.
Me and my best friend.
Both been married before.
This time round, we both looked abroad.
I married a Colombian lady, he married a Thai lady.
After 15 years, neither of us have any regrets
Because these women wanted a green card. I'm not from the West and would never marry a Western dudes. Y'all are scary, Colombian and Thai ladies are warning and running away from Wrstern men.
Because these women wanted a green card. I'm not from the West and would never marry a Western dudes. Y'all are s c a r y, Colombian and Thai ladies are warning and running away from Western men. But imagine telling the internet that no woman from your own country wanted you🤣👌
I'm sorry for that Columbian and Thai lady, they got the leftovers of Western women🤣👌
Those two women ftom unfortunate countries ( because of men) had no other choice than to take the unwanted leftovers of W women.
@qutip-h2s yes, and no complaints there from any of the four of us.
Regards from Peter, Ana Cecilia, John and Napapon
Women refuse men under 6 feet. That alone excludes 86% of dudes.
Doh
The "leftover" women do that. That's but one reason why they are still single.
Good, stay away🤣👌
It's over for averagecels
And they get men for not dating fat women. You can change that.
Bottom line no normal man can afford it.
Absolutely. This is the key. It isn't divorce or anything else. It's economics and social media. Dating apps too. If young men were balling the women would like them but we aren't because the women got all our well paying jobs. So I sit here and wonder what the hell is the point of it all? So excited to be a debt slave who will own nothing and never reproduce! Yay!
✌️✌️
Modern woman can take care of themself. They don't need a man!
They're going to put that theory to the test in the next 20 years as many of them become entirely too old and go invisible. They didn't plan for retirement and Social Security isn't going to be enough. It will be fun to watch.
Till they hit the wall😅😅
Yep
Modern women get money from simps
From parents
And social media
fr fr no cap lmfao
My parents couldn't give two shits about raising their own children to be wise and confident. They were there for themselves, and we were just the next generation bred into the culture of slavery that provide them with their retirement and social security benefits. Concerned only for the thrill of their youth to continue. Can i blame them? No, their parents did it to them. And we are expected to do it to ours.
Let's be historical accurate, millions of domestic men didnt just up and decide domestic women weren't acceptable to them. For over a decade domestic women via social media have told at least 90% of domestic single men not to bother with dating because they aren't wanted.
A couple of weeks ago domestic women promoted the meme if they had a choice of meeting a male they did not know or a wild bear in the woods they preferred to meet the bear...
Fact 62% of all Females are have been or Intending to become homosexual.
& to that point they will have sex with a sister auntie Or even their Mother mesers
Freud Hyte Kinsey After studying A lot of women Confirmed It
Women threw so much dirt on men to the point of digging their own grave. Men warned these feminist harlots but they laughed in their faces. Who's laughing now?
I'll be forty in November and the last girl I was in a serious relationship with didn't just leave and break my heart, she cut pieces of my heart out and took them with her. She decided she wanted to move to France randomly out of the blue on a whim. The next girl I tired to date fractured three of my ribs, so at this point I'm just about ready to give up, buy a goldfish and play my guitars alone, forever alone.
It's a lot safer. And just think of all the money you'll save without the ACE bandages!!!
FEED ME SEYMOUR!!!
What do you predominately play?
Passport that has to be the option for all men.
@@scrateshooter The type of guitar or the type of music? I play mostly Blues / Rock stuff. I have thirteen guitars, a banjo, a mandolin, a cigar box guitar and an Appalachian dulcimer. And they're all here to stay; unlike inconsistent, indecisive women. I loved that girl.
I beg you to give up on women my brother. Stay with us though, play that guitar, look after yourself and seek the company of other men.
I am a 41 year old male. I have never been married. I have only dated/slept with two women. I haven't dated in ten years. I have no interest in dating or finding someone to marry. I joined the red pill movement before it was the red pill movement. I started focusing on myself and the man i wanted to be. I stopped seeking women's approval or acceptance. It was the best thing for my mental health. I go to work, raise my children, enjoy my hobbies and go home to a peaceful home nightly. Absolutely have no desire or need to add a woman to my life.
My two sons have no interest in dating, they have dreams and goals in life. And being married is not one of them, thank goodness.
Married a little hippy chick, 28 years in I find out she talked to a divorce lawyer 5 years into the marriage.
He asked her why she wanted out, and she said she was bored.
He asked her if the marriage was bad, to which she responded no, he suggested she stick it out for a full 10 years so that she could take half of everything.
Her childhood best friend snitched her out. When i confronted her, she gave me some lame story about how she was testing her buddy to see if she could be trusted. Lolol
WOW!
Her bestie said she'd have killed to be in my wifes position.
Were living separately but married so that her cancer treatments are covered, cheaper to keep her, and with the recent discovery of her cancer spreading to her lungs and kindenys i might have made the right choice to stick it out.
The guy she had an affair with has a year left on his cancer diagnoses, only one of the 3 of us that didnt take the COVID vaccination was me.
Go figure.
My suggestion to the young men out there, stay single.
Damn man!
The more boring a man is, the better husband and father he will be. He dead solid reliable, works hard, does good, does not cheat or run around.
@@bobkonradi1027 Pretty much, dad was the same, mom left him after 50 years together. Took care of him for the last 7 years of his life, best man I've ever known. While his friends were hitting strip joints and getting drunk laying into their wives he was the good one.
I would have divorced and left her but knowing you stayed it’s going to hurt her more than her divorcing you. Because she will wake up everyday knowing she failed to stay a good representation of a wife in society. This is what many of wives back then used to do with there cheating husbands take care of the old husbands when they are old so the husbands realized those they women they cheated on with never really mattered.
If you are alone and getting bored, obviously you are in bad company. By the end of the day, if you are feeling miserable, you are in super-bad company. The fundamental question is: “What is my problem? I have all my limbs intact, I can see, I can hear, I can smell, I can taste, what’s my problem?” But that is the big problem. That, you will know only if you sit alone. When there are people around you, you find excuses. If you are with someone, it is easy to say, “This guy is horrible, so I’m irritated. She’s not okay, that’s not okay, this is not okay.” But when you sit alone and the problem still exists, now you know what the source of the problem is.
MGTOW is spreading around the world.
Spaniard here.
Good luck ladies
@@petrovichev_peter Women all over the world are essentially the same.
The part that scares me is while western society is going through this, the Islamic cultures are multiplying as fast as they can. They WILL try to take everything over once they see the chance. Believe me or not it's going to happen if this continues too long.
Yep 100% im in New Zealand and its a shocker here. Only friends i have that are still married have foreign wives mainly south America
Yep, Australia here and it's shocking. We need more ladies like the one who hosts this channel. But it ain't gonna happen.
Simply put: Men will not commit to women when they can destroy a man in the courts where he's stuck paying alimony, can't see his own kids, lose most of his assets, etc., because her feels tell her she can walk away anytime. Too much to lose. ITS A BAD DEAL!
I advised my two sons to never ever get married, due to how law enforcement and divorce courts are unjust and destroy men. Women are not worth your life getting destroyed.
Divorce, every where I looked my entire life
I'm in my mid seventies and have watched over fifty divorces among friends/co-workers over the decades. Women initiated all but a couple of them, confident they would get the children, house, retirement, and child support (they did). The fathers were stripped of their own children and turned into wage slaves to the ex-wives. I've noticed most of the young men who were raised by the mothers and saw what happened to the fathers, are very hesitant to put themselves into the same situation as their fathers. Feminism won, and in doing so, has destroyed the family unit, just as it set out to do.
True, i had a big friend group growing most of their parents divorced. It seems like every month i know someone getting divorced.
I didnt date anyone since I was born .Now I am 27 years old and already have a luxury apartment.
Ignore anything your penis tells you, and keep that apartment all to yourself my brother. Do not let any woman know you have that apartment, and don't let any girlfriend stay there.
I’m 65. I went to school at some top schools. I wanted to get married and start a family after college, but I soon found out that the trend of women then was that career was more important than family. I married in my 30’s to a Woman in the USA that grew up in the Philippines. I wish I had skipped out on American woman in my 20’s and had dated overseas instead. As a man iI grew up wanting a good job so that I could provide FOR a family. Women focus on careers for themselves.
Similar for me. 66, had a few dates in the late 70’s, early 80’s, remained virtually dateless, always friend zoned, til the early 90’s. Met and married a Filipina who grew up in the Philippines, best decision of my life. Wish I had gone for a Filipina early on too. If you’re a good, kind men so many American women will use you. Filipinas appreciate a good, kind man. It wasn’t good even back then, but I feel sorry for young men today. Sadly wife passed away, I tried dating recently. Shudder.
🎯 Men will look at a raise/promotion/inheritance/lottery winnings as an opportunity to provide better for their family. A woman in the exact same situation will focus on herself and think she no longer needs her husband, and will often destr0y her family.
"As a man I grew up wanting a good job so that I could provide FOR a family. Women focus on careers for themselves."
That is the core of the problem with Feminism®in a nut shell. Men had power and used it for God, family, and country. When women managed to usurp power they use it for selfish self centered purposes, even to the point of canceling their unborn children.
@@interestingtimes6242 Only some Filipinas appreciate a good man. I am an expat in the Philippines, and got burned by a trainwreck of a Filipina! On paper she seemed wonderful, being a college grad, white collar professional, single mom, went to church every week, etc., but in truth she was a huge mess of a human being who horribly mistreated me. My vetting her online for several years just did not do it...
@@kylejamesdalzell2839 You need to stick with rural peasant women who do not own cell phones.
Some happiness is crushed by unhappily married people.
Met a father who sees his children every other weekend. Pays adulterous wife $1700.00 a month.
No fault divorce overwhelmingly favors women.
dam fr fr
I bet these h*es were angry with Florida getting rid of it.
Women may take a note of reality once the only thing chasing them are bears. Grizzle grizzle
Social media has destroyed relationships, especially with the younger generation.
My son is 16 and was red-pilled from an early age. He had a front seat to my ugly divorce when his mom got bored and developed 7-year itch and blew up our family.
dam
We don’t want used. If you are the town bicycle, everyone has taken a ride, no thanks. And if divorce happens men are crucified.
Always remember: If you aint first... Youre last!
@@nahuelpatania3522
Until it's someone else's turn.
Why date when you can barely sustain yourself has a man . The woman is going to dump you anyways ounce she finds out your financial status
Exactly build a life for you and don’t trust gold diggers, best thing we can do for ourselves in America.
i'm 45. no wife, no kids, no house, dated 5 girls. never got into any longterm relationship. it's over. don't matter anyway. the world sucks and will end without me perpetuating my family line. no one will care. Oh, I have a 150k business with one employee, not poor. not ugly , I dont approach women, and probably never will. I'm friendly enough but dont really care i guess.
I’ve never even held a girls hand besides my little sisters, mom, grandma and aunt. I gave up 5 years ago i’m 32; i honestly starting to look forward to a peaceful life without drama ahead. I have a career and healthy life style and looking at what’s going on all around the world in relationships just makes me keep going my own way. I’ve learned to meditate and absolutely enjoy my own company and love being alone but not feeling lonely but perhaps if i do one day which i doubt i’ll just get a pet to care for and have company. Greetings from Ecuador. If anyone reads this learn to meditate and raise your awareness! Bless you!
Holy cow! That's basically me too. I'm 32, am a well adjusted guy with a decent career in the US. I've given up on women too, granted I did date only one girl ever for 6 months in my late 20s. But at 32, and having rejected the idea of getting or trying to get with another woman, I'm feeling optimistic about my future since I have no obligations to anyone for the foreseeable future. I'm aiming to retire at 45 or 50 in some beach town in Mexico. I actually fantasize about it 😅😅😅
Seek God, Jesus is the way to heaven. John 14:6. True meditation should be on the Word of God, He truly does lead you in the best possible life.
@@jvo3777 literally 35 minutes ago 3 people replied to a comment that i posted on an instagram’s reels saying “Allah is the best of planners” “Jesus was a prophet”. And I’ve received similar comments from different religions all praising their god. So which God is it? Please learn to respect before saying my God is the one. If anything catholics and christians are the only ones disrespecting their god in mass; they could literally be doing the most degenerate stuff with a cross on their neck. That is why even westerners say the west is f*cked.! In other parts of the world they actually take their religion seriously but not Christians or Catholics smh. All i see is that religions fight and kill each other all the time and that’s a cold hard fact. Meditation actually has been proven under MRI along with many many other instruments to help you create a healthy lifestyle and more grateful without being indoctrinated or brainwashed into a religion.
There's a reason why women weren't giving rights in the past
@@jvo3777 i bet he does lol