5 Shocking Things To Do When A Man Pulls Away Or Needs Space + Say THIS When He Comes Back!
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- Опубліковано 10 кві 2019
- Discover five shocking things to do when a man pulls away PLUS what to say when he comes back in this video with Adrienne Everheart.
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HI❤🍑🌹🔥💣💥LADY!!!
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When I've shifted my vibe and done my own thing to new experiences, I've noticed that a man will stick around if he's the same. Otherwise he'll pull away cause there's issues with him. Like controlling issues, jealousy in a negative way and doesn't discuss how he feels and keeps it to himself and deliberately goes out of his way to hurt you. That's red flags and a turn off. Like it's a competition instead of it's a way to come together to share good news and learning to inspire each other.... Otherwise life ends up boring and becoming a stalemate.
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Boy 👋🏼 bye. I don’t chase after anyone anymore. If a man wants you, he’ll pursue you, and move mountains to be with you. My life is rich with family and friends and plenty of things I can focus on. The right man won’t have to be chased, but will do the chasing.
Amen!
Marie Desiree I disagree. The “chase” should only be when it’s appropriate. It shouldn’t be a power play. Personal space is key to a healthy relationship.
@@flowolf4189 Yes I will only move mountains if she is definitely showing a lot of interest in return and not playing games. She also has to be consistent in the playback.
@@flowolf4189 what is an example of being "appropriate" to chase?
Oh I just noticed, you are male. My question is null and void
Men who act like this are immature little boys and should stay away from relationships. If a man treated me like this I wouldn't have him back. Women need to avoid emotionally unavailable men.
Char Bar so true on the flip side some men get activated out of boyhood when women are in feminine energy. 🥰
But I guess every person meeds space.. Even men do.
Char Bar sounds like you’re the kind of person who wouldn’t respect their partners personal needs.
True
Chat Bar I thought the same!!! My best male friend started dating a girl lately. He was over the moon for that girl and suddenly got “scared” at a certain point! He couldn’t even put it into words his feelings. He was very confused too but felt the urge to take a step back from the girl. He called me in total panick telling me he didn’t know what was happening!!! He knew with his head she is perfect for him and he feels a deep feelings for her.
He felt as he had to take a step back to be able to go from single to not single... even if he was the one wanting a relationship
So yes some men get scared from the closeness they crave themselves.
The good thing about all this is that even if it doesn't work out, it keeps the woman positive and moving in a good direction. Stand! Proactive.
Yes, absolutely!!
Men SEE what they want. Women KNOW what they want.
You can not enforce anyone to love you or be in a relationship with you.You are not a beggar, you are a Goddess!
Thanks for sharing your insights here - I agree! 💜
If you fell pulled away.. Just love yourself and spend time with different guys which treat you the way you deserve it!
Excellent advice, have self respect and self esteem. Its degrading to run after someone whose obviously not appropriate for you.and No do NOT TRY TO GET HIM BACK
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Exactly!👍
my friends tell me to just leave him alone. He tells me to start getting busy go out. but I just wait for his calls. I have so much anxiety and depression. I lost interest in my hiking and riding my harley. At my age I believe. I have to settle. I really believe this is the best I can do.
@@angelfire402 no!!! Don't ever feel like settling. Ever. Trust me and our advice.
We were apart for 3 months and he came back in fill throttle and wants marriage. In the interim, I became a new person and worked on me. It works!
So happy for you! 💖💖💖
I'm so happy to hear that, Linda!
I am so excited you are engaged now and getting married. Please keep us posted. xoxox!
Congratulations! & this gives me hope 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I've had that happen to me before too. We dated a couple of years before and when he came back he proposed. How many men ghost because they are worried that they know you are marriage material? Fear of commitment. Although I'm sure it happens also when it's the opposite, they are just not that into you.
I've learned to be intuitive to my man's cycles when he needs space. When that time comes, I up my self love and do things that may be neglected while we are spending lots of time together. Men have their reasons for why they take space, and we women should be solid and secure inside, not reliant on anyone else to make us happy. It works!
Thanks for sharing your experience and insights here, Brook! 💕
Smart lady
What if he is cheating us when we give space ?
@@tittymohanan7718 Gives you strength enough to move on to find someone who wants you only
In the last 2 weeks my man and me have not been in communication due to me telling him I didn’t feel appreciated so he said I was dramatic and lost. I decided to stop communication as I am always the one messaging and apologies even when it’s nothin I’ve done wrong: I have decided to take back my power and learning to appreciate just going it alone for now. I won’t be treated like shit anymore.
Thanks for sharing your experience here, Lisa! 💜
How did it end up?
Just say nothing, let him go. When he comes back, Say, " THANKYOU, for this friendship." Do not complain or ask any questions. He will appoligize, he will explain himself. He won't like just being called a friend & will boost this Friendship to more. Lol. Be happy anyway. Be busy doing all your favorite things anyway, be with other groups of people & friendly to all men & women.
I have always accepted arrows from homeless men. They are most genuine and they deserve to be thanked.
that's beautiful
What are arrows?
Same. I always smile and thank them and often they look surprised at the response because they're usually ignored or treated badly. Also I've never heard crudeness from them, usually just "You're beautiful".
This!! Yes, they are absolutely the most genuine people! That’s what I thought I heard it. I talk to people like that more than others. I let everyone know they matter...no matter what socioeconomic status they are in!!!
Me too
I absolutely love this! Like Adrienne, my guy and I have had a bit of a back and forth relationship ourselves. I just decided, I cannot do this push pull thing anymore, it was both of us and our fears. I took a step back and decided to pull my energy off of him, do my own thing, focus on me and my own self and inner peace and self worth. When we spend time together, I just enjoyed every moment with him, lots of laughs and such ease. His energy has completely come toward me, making dates ahead of time, making me a priority and we just love our time together. We’ve known one another for almost 2 yrs now and one break was 6 mos no contact whatsoever. We are now having the relationship I always wanted and it just feels like we are just starting to genuinely build on it. This really really works! it’s so freeing and rewarding! Thank you so very much ladies! your the best! ❤️
You're welcome, Kelley! Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many women can relate.
This sounds so similar to what is happening to me. Love it 😍😊
Has he left again though?
Had the same thing happening to me.
He was hot and cold and breadcrumbing and exploring his options and eventhough I totally went head over heels I didn't want to be put in competition.
Don't compete where you don't compare.
I just went on building up my life while we were not talking. Then we ran into eachother again and had a good time.
I realized that I am the game changer, I don't think he could find anyone else that matched my energy and the chemistry we have when we are together.
It's funny, he glows around me.
It's nice to see. Not sure where this is going because we just reconnected and I friendzoned him. He's going to have to be OK with where I put him in my life now because he was OK with trying to line me up into his harem 😆.
I need some work done around my house and even though I can do that all by myself I give him an opportunity to be helpful and I appreciate him.
He looks pretty hot with a drill in his hand putting up shelves and stuff 😆 and I tell him that while I go make dinner and we relax with a movie.
Then he goes to sleep in my guest room.
I'm trying to see what a life together could possibly look like and I do like the picture.
When we met we were both truckers and I didn't have my own place because I didn't see the need for one.
I was in my masculine energy being out there making money and working hard etc.
Then I invested into a home because I did miss having a home and doing Betty crocker stuff 😆.
Was an opportunity to show myself a different side of myself and now he sees that too.
I'm happy with or without him but he does enhance my wellbeing and I know enough of him and his issues to know how to bring out his best life.
I had to come back on here to let you ladies know I've taken your advice by allowing my man a lil time. He went away to care for his son who had surgery and he reached out to me while gone all on his own saying he misses me and giving me the update of his son surgery. You ladies were so right. A lil space works EVERYTIME. 💫💫
Thanks for sharing your experience here, I'm happy this worked for you!
Lovely topic,
Well my guy pushed himself away from me without a word, and its been 3 months now but he still watches everything i do on IG but i dont watch his ( hes on mute), but one thing i can say is that im learning from this experience that you can only experience people and not be possessive of them. He may or may not come back but i will be fine with or without him.
I love your mindset around this! 💕
I am just curious...how do you know he is watching you on IG?
@@carrielegg5480 because i muted his stories so i wont see it instead of unfollowing him so it wont look obvious, but this was months ago tho
@@karamel31 oh ok...when you mute their stories...it will also show the looking at your posts?
@@carrielegg5480 yes you can mute there stories but you can tell if they are looking at yours but you don't have to view theres, so they will think you are still friends with them technically you are not
It's different when your married n living w someone when they need space, you know where they are and your commited!
Men ALWAYS come back. All of my exes came back. I didn't take them back because at that point I didn't want them anymore. It's really annoying. "They need space". 🙄🙄 So he gets to walk in and out like this is a revolving door? Well, he shouldn't be surprised if there is another guy on the other side of that door when he tries to walk back in. And if I do let him back in, he should come baring gifts.
Yes, men usually do come back - and if he's truly not available for what the woman wants or he's not treating her well it's my hope that she moves on just like you did!
Revolving door, lmao, that got me laughing loud hahaa. Right, my exes also came back...and I chose to make them my exes:)
@@BaibaVulgaris Exactly!!!
Super agree with this! 🙌🏼 They ALWAYS come back indeed!
Ladies - if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it! - Remember all our lives ain't no dress rehearsal - Awright! THANKS 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
This is so great! Just hearing you two high vibration women tell us this raised my energy levels and I feel so much more positive and excited. Thank you!
You’re welcome Alexis, I’m happy to hear that! Our latest livestream should also be helpful if you haven’t seen it yet: ua-cam.com/video/E8AUlOddk4U/v-deo.html
Gosh, Helena, this video is just what I needed to hear! My husband suddenly pulled away, at first I panicked but I let him go and told him I also needed some space. Like Adrienne mentioned my focus was only on him and I forgot myself along the way, I have found my energy back and have been enjoying doing more activities, sports and I love the way I look, I am confident and I actually do look at men while before I wasn't and that is a great feeling!
I’m so glad this was helpful, thanks for sharing your experience here! Here are a couple other videos I’ve recorded with Adrienne that you might enjoy: ua-cam.com/video/MyQr7d2NScA/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/E8AUlOddk4U/v-deo.html. 💖
@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you Helena, I’m heading right through it! 😘
@@faye_bulous You’re welcome! 💕
Also, I took a month with going back into the relationship. When I did, I told him he disrespected me and if he ever did this again don't contact me, because I'll never come back. What a changed man, he calls me his princess.
Wow, what an amazing story. Thank you for sharing.
Thanks for your story, you do give some type of hope.
Good on u
You guys have helped me so much. My life have been full of abuse and trauma and it’s made me clueless about men.
I want to be mindful and not continue to make the same mistakes, you’ve totally grounded me today, I feel so much less freaked out and a lot calmer ❤️ much love ladies!
I'm so glad this was helpful for you, Sarah!
Oooooo.. Mercyyyy..you gonna be fine..this sounded painful to me..
This chat came in a sweet calm energy. Very soothing and insightful. Happy I found you wise ladies.
Thank you, I'm so glad you enjoyed this! You can check out all the videos I've recorded with Adrienne here: ua-cam.com/play/PLfrD0nnKRylQjkbk6khzRwfjv082LztiW.html
Never chase a man . Period . Thank you both . 🎀🤍🌸
You’re welcome, Maricel! 💕
I really enjoyed watching your video. Both of you ladies give a lot of good advice. This is coming from someone who was married for 25 years that ended in divorce. Never lose yourself or your friends while in a relationship. It will make you stronger and more capable when the hard times come, and they will. I wish someone had given me this advice before I got married.
I’m glad you enjoyed this, Lisa! I love what you said here, thanks for sharing your insights! 💜
There is a very fine line between vulnerability and neediness. It seems, for me, when I chose to be vulnerable with my ex, he would call me needy. It is very difficult for me to show my needs or desires or pleasures to a man...
I love Adrienne. She's got such a wonderful heart and energy. Thank you for these videos. It helps so much.
You’re welcome Steph, I’m so glad they’ve been helpful! Here are my latest videos with Adrienne if you’d like to check them out: ua-cam.com/video/E8AUlOddk4U/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/HxhizkrTqbU/v-deo.html.
BEST advice I have heard on this subject and it resonates with me. Thanks so much for this!
You’re welcome, I’m glad this resonated with you! 💗
Great video! AE is so delightful and has such great advice. I love "go high vibe" when he pulls away. Pretty much that is the only answer to ALL situations we see as negative. Thank you ladies!
You’re welcome! Yes, I agree! 💖
I love how supportive you are of each other!
Aww thank you!
Yes and respectful
Taking space or pulling away girls he doesn’t go anywhere to be alone or get in touch with his feelings! He is with another woman 99% of the cases! Yes he can come back but it’s only because he realizes you are a better woman!
I agree with you. If he disappears there's another woman. Why would he need space? I think he's with someone else.
You may be right. Or 'grass is greener' thinking. You are still better to get your life back on track, move at your own pace and when he comes back be ready for him to claim you forever. xoxo!
Sometimes the heart wants what it wants and women may push even more to the man when he pulls away. AND not all men are pulling away because of another woman. As @Helena mentions it’s part of the process to deepen a bond. Every man in my life has done it to some degree.
@@AdrienneEverheart thank you so much.... I really appreciate your response
@@AdrienneEverheart thank you for the clarification. We should not alwayd think tge worst when it comes to man. Even my dad and my brother pull aways from life from time to time I feel every man needs his space some times. We are not the ONLY thing he has in his life.
This is SUCH great advice. Your philosophy makes so much sense over other dating coaches. I watched a video with Antonio Borello who said a man pulls away either because he’s manipulating you or he’s not interested. That is a ridiculous theory. I believe that they can come back and it can be turned around. Bravo for you two!
Thank you Lisa, I’m glad this was helpful and gave you a new perspective! 💗
Exactly it could also be the man stays away because of personal issues, pain problems etc
@@joannagomes6917 excuses when a man claims he needs space
Thank you I needed to hear this!! This advice is really helpful and makes things more interesting and less painful! Thank you
You’re welcome, I’m glad it was helpful! 💕
Well done, everything here is spot on.
Yes they do come back, especially if the exit is not met with resistance.
Focus on yourself, what your needs and desires are. Great time for personal growth and doing/ trying something new.
Decide if you want him or you want what you think was a potential. Understand the push pull of dynamics. If he is pulling away, loosen and create slack.
When he comes back, breathe and listen to your gut. You may be shocked, you may have grown to an extent that he is no longer what you want. You have moved to a different level and seeing him again would be regressing.
I love everything you said here, thanks for sharing your insights! 💗
@@HelenaHartCoaching what about guys who don’t ask for space .. they just distance themselves do you pull them up and say hey I notice this or do you mirror them !! Bec if you both act distance won’t it just fizzle out !!!
Clarity is the Key!!
Thanks for helping Women define their Feminine Energy!!
You're welcome, Katherine!
And I don't mean that as negative towards anyone, so I apologise if it comes off like that, but I don't understand why people won't say hello to someone homeless, or who's "lower" on the dating totem pole - so to speak - because people deserve the courtesy of a smile and a kind word.
Beanie Green there’s saying hi to people/strangers versus accepting arrows/flirting. First things first: You don’t owe anyone a hello. This is your right/choice/decision Always. 👉🏼Why people avoid saying hi, the answer imho: it’s the ego and fear. In a comment below I felt if I ACCEPTED ARROWS from any man I wasn’t into that meant he’d want to go further with me and I didn’t know how to handle that with warmth or boundaries so I used to just keep quiet to avoid any distress it may cause. Again this is about accepting arrows or being flirted with not simply acknowledging and saying hello to complete strangers. (Again your choice.) Many women don’t know how to have boundaries and get stuck in being ‘nice’ and that how women get hurt, abused, abducted, raped and other terrible things. Know how to accept an arrow YET have your boundaries in place, know them beforehand. Be prepared. ❤️
@@AdrienneEverheart We definitely DON'T want anyone to get into a bad place! And I do understand there are women who get into positions because they haven't developed how not to. But if they can do it and walk away, this is probably a good exercise for them.
Beanie Green some women really don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings and feel they must be nice to everyone. ❤️ It’s simply not true, no one owes anyone anything. 😉💋
This is my absolute favorite video for information on how to handle the separation/break. My favorite hint is that he will come back… even just to see the impact his decision made.
Thanks Sharon, I’m glad you enjoyed it! This one should also be helpful, especially if you’re in “no contact” right now: ua-cam.com/video/EFjOGdW_c60/v-deo.html
This makes me smile while watching it. OMG I have done all desperate things for him, I just stayed home and crying over him when he seems distant. I am just so glad that I’ve found this video and this channel.
Thanks for sharing your experience here! ❤️ My latest livestream might also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/7FBAsHoLSOA/v-deo.html
I am going through it RN and I am so glad I came across your video.
We’re not talking anymore and it’s been so lonely but I’ve been surrounded by my friends. My friends are my high vibe! I got complimented on my skin being clear! I got complimented on my outfit today by several people! It makes me feel happy when thinking about it. Like y’all said, it’s about me & my vibe.
I deserve better. So much better. We all do. I just want peace and me stressing out like this is the opposite of peace.
Thanks so much for sharing your experience here! 💖 My latest livestream might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: ua-cam.com/users/livevaZBN5TU6i0?feature=share
Good summary from 34:47 although I watched the whole video and found it very meaningful. There was also a comment below that I think I'll take with me into the future; "you can only experience people and not be possessive of them." Wonderful conversation, thank you ladies for sharing!
You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! Here’s the latest video I recorded with Adrienne if anyone would like to check it out: ua-cam.com/video/9KxQ1Z07_Xk/v-deo.html
Thank you for posting this.
Very awesome video ladies! Thank you for making this❤️❤️❤️❤️
You’re welcome, Cassie! Our latest livestream should also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/E8AUlOddk4U/v-deo.html
Awesome video & tips, Ladies! Going through a few days of silence with a man I’ve been dating virtually during COVID, after we met in person first. Things were going well so I’m following your advice, leaning back, and focusing on areas in my life that need my attention. Will be surprised if he doesn’t return with an even deeper sense of commitment than before. Grateful for both of you!
Thank you, Cherie! These videos should also be helpful for your situation: ua-cam.com/video/_VRQpgSdmbo/v-deo.html, ua-cam.com/video/Rdzfpp3A8FE/v-deo.html, ua-cam.com/video/qA6BgG246bU/v-deo.html, ua-cam.com/video/7r_ba4kReaQ/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/4CbO9qRmvDM/v-deo.html.
Soooo true! About a month ago or alittle more my ex broke up with me the first 3 week's I suffered and stayed home and watched Lifetime lol but then I don't know I woke up and started on some good energy and started going around high vibe friends guys and girls and I kid you not thing's turned around and sure enough one the vibe changed it must've sent a vibe out to my ex and now he's sniffing to be back in my life and now his vibe is low and I don't want that energy. Lol! Crazy how energy does not lie! I'm still keeping my options open. I'm speaking to my ex but I don't know. GREAT FREAKING VIDEO! HOLDS SO MUCH TRUTH!
Same girl, exactly the same. A month ago for me too
Thanks for sharing your experience here Jeanine, that’s exactly how it works! 💖
Now just be careful that you don't get ensnared back into previous behavior. You are not the marked down item sitting on the discount shelf. You are the gem which is kept under lock and key in the glass case of high value! Keep learning and improving yourself.
@@phanda7877 love your advice
Oh wow! I’m happy to hear from you. Keep up the good work 🥰
Feeling - yes this is underdeveloped in me. Thank you for this valuable interview . 🌹
You're welcome, Sara!
another awesome topic, i was going to say if only i had this years ago but this will be gold for when a man is in the picture.
Thanks Diane! Yes, we believe this is important information for women to know no matter where they’re at in their love life. 💕
What a great video, very informative and SO true!!!
Thank you!
Reading this in 2022…this is outstanding advice!! My guy is still showing up but he did pull back. Thanks to you and other dating coach videos, I’m having fun on my own and just grateful that he’s still showing up.
Thanks Clare Lee! The next video I’m going to publish should also be helpful - it’s about why men respond to distance when they’re not contacting you. 💞
Thanks very much for this advice. There is no better advice I would have needed than this because am going through exact situation right now. I am looking forward to making myself happy by keeping myself busy rather than being sad.Thanks very much. 🥰
You're welcome! We'd love to hear how this goes for you.
Thanks ❤ This is very practical… especially the arrow concept I never heard about it but it makes perfect sense I used to think about stuff like that and you guys confirmed it . Also I love how u emphasize on doing things for you, not for manipulating a guy. That’s very important.u earned another follower today!!😊❤
You’re welcome! I’m glad this was helpful. 💗
LOVE this!!! Wish I had heard this three weeks ago! It just feels right. I did everything wrong and got the results from those poor choices.
I'm glad you enjoyed this, Beth!
love the beautifully styled hair.
Thank you Adrienne and Helena. You are two are strong woman's and I admire both your confidence and helping other women out with your coaching. So inspiring!
My boyfriend broke up with me with an excuse he is having personally problems and held a lot of things for himself. He said he can't have a relationship at the side and he broke up with me and then he asked me to stay friends and that I can always reach out to him when I am lonely. I turned it down and to be honest through your coaching I realised how much I am worth and that one day a guy will notice me and love me truly.
I agree with the no contact rule and I am feeling day by day stronger and more confident about myself. I am not sure if my ex comes back but I do know I am already getting the better version of myself by surrounding me with good people and loving myself everyday.
Thank you so much all your videos helped me a lot.
You're welcome, Tamara! Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many women can relate. Your strength during this time to take a stand for what you TRULY desire is very inspiring!
Thank you Helena,
By following your coaching videos I went out there to surround myself with people and this new version of myself brought me new friendships and my ex saw and felt it. He reached out to me and I feel more confident to stay in my feminine energy without overthinking everything. We will see what happens because I know what I desire.
That's exactly how this works! Keep me posted on how everything goes for you!
@@HelenaHartCoaching I will definitely keep you posted and share my experiences with all the beautiful women's in the world.
did he come back? I am in a similar situation
Omg fantastic advice !!!!! Wish I would’ve had this guidance/advice years ago. Unfortunately, I had to learn these things the hard way but, through these videos I’m learning tons of new tips too ! Thank you 🤗
Christie Cooke so happy you are with us now!! Get Unzipped Collection and “500 Ways” to go deeper. www.everheartcoaching.com/courses
You’re welcome Christie, I’m so glad the videos have been helpful! 💕
I needed this 2 months ago! I’ve learned a lot since then!
You ladies are great! This was so helpful. ❤️
Thank you Sara, I’m glad this was helpful! 💗
Quantum dating! Love it!
everything this woman says is gold
Yes, Adrienne’s advice is spot on! 💕
Just to let you know the danger, I trusted my man and he took sometime off...and was betraying me with someone else! Plz girls don't be fooled...
honey bees that’s really hard when you care about someone. He wasn’t the right person for you
How long where you both together?
Even if that is the case, you still didn't lose. The point of taking your own space and recovering your energy isnt to wait on him and be perfect for when he returns. It is to truly work on yourself and date other men and focus on YOU. If you're on a break nothing is stopping you from seeing other men too, match his energy and dont wait around like a sad housewife.
@@victoriadorgu3207 how much does this guy charge ? I mean I would hate to go this route. It seems so intrusive, but when they string you along and break up with you and still connect and mixed signals and all. It’s overwhelming. I’m so sorry you found this out. God has a weird way of showing me the truth also, the last three douche bags I dated all were online cheating, but not just hey, what’s up let’s hang out ... like hard... like tons of chics and some acted on it, others no, and one I’m not sure so I am def more guarded, but this guy and I built our relationship on trust. However we never know what the curtains will reveal. 😞
Needed this! Awesome content.
I'm glad this was helpful!
Take responsibility for the choices you make!
Thank you so much ladies for your wonderful advices.
That's exactly what I have been doing lately. I think I should be working with you. ❤️
You’re welcome! 💜
I needed this tonight
Thank you
You're welcome, Julie!
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Thanks for guidance
You're welcome!
THIS!!! Omg I’ve been missing out on this information for far too long. Everything that was said makes total sense. I do feel like I need to tap more into my femininity. This helped so much. Thank you
You're welcome Brianna, I'm so glad this was helpful for you!
24:00 would you ladies say this is a relationship material? I get terribly turned off by men who are inconsistent. Is it now normal that they don't think before making such important decisions and can't stick to their decisions? Because I think I will never come to terms with that. I can't respect a man who is so wobbly and when I lose respect for a guy I can't possibly have sex with him anymore.
Stardust me too!!
Absolutely, you want a man who keeps his word. The key is to date men before you become in a relationship with them. When you are in a relationship with a man, THEN address these issues, not when dating. I hope this helps and much love to you.
Stardust I hate men with lack of word and inconsistent... ughh
totally agreed! At this point in life I prefer not to be in a relationship rather than having this nonsense behavior rip my life apart
37:16 for the conclusion of this amazing video. Definitely worth watching from the start to the end, really refreshing & really feminine.
Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💗
Excellent advice! Very comforting! 👏
Thank you! 💕
Yes!! 🙌
I totally remember when my guy and I had some rough times during our 6th year. I was devastated because for a long time I was used to the 'us' that I forgot how to be just me. Watching law of attraction vids, working on my anxiety by keeping myself busy and sweating out (it was not easy work, everyone could say that). What I realize if I have full faith that we're to be together in the future - why should I act worried in the present. i focus on myself because LOA made me realize if I focus on him too much- I would always feel lack because he does not want to be present in my life yet.
Thanks for sharing your experience here!
Emeraude Hime Thank you so much for sharing! So inspirational. It’s amazing how the things we focus on propagate good or bad. You focused on making your life better and wow, look at you now!👍🏻
Do you have any suggestions on law of attractions stuff to try? Videos? Books?
Sounds like a 7 year itch to me
This is 100% what I needed today, thank you
You’re welcome Jenny, I’m glad it helped! 💕
This is one of the most helpful videos I've ever seen on this topic
I’m glad this was helpful, Hannah! 💝
Thank you Helena! I will read them.
You’re welcome, Lisa! 💜
If he’s working on himself (like you working on you ) then he won’t feel stifled
Thank you for sharing...love this..xx
You're welcome, Jennifer!
Definitely great information 💞
Thank you, Sonie! 💕
Good content. Thanks for this.
You're welcome, Karina!
Thank you for this. It's so true we are born to be more of masculine energy being strong independent Women that we forget how to be feminine with our Men. I am actually going through this phase where I've been too giving and the man in the relationship where he no more feels any thrill or desire to meet me any more despite we are in an exclusive committed relationship for 1.5 years now. I have dealt with it in a good way by saying ok and no contact and he came back emotional not being able to be without me. I seriusly have to start be more in my feminine energy continue to lean back and definitely gift myself your books. God bless you
You're welcome! We'd love to hear how this goes for you.
So cute you both have Heart (Hart) in your name! 💖💕
LOVE Living Peach ❤️❤️
Good information, I didn't get it at first, but I get it now .Thanks ladies.
You're welcome, Debra!
guys often lie about what they do when they say they need space
That's what I'm saying . Nobody wants to be alone. If he needs space from you that means they need to fill your space with another brod
So do women.
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That is so true or they will continue seeing you but put hardly any effort into the relationship
I truly enjoyed this! Thanks.
You’re welcome, Jasmine! 💝
So happy to help you!
Love this video so much. I appreciate you both
Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed this!
Thank you!! Soooooo helpful! 🌹
You're welcome Michelle, I'm glad this was helpful!
Great job ladies!
Thank you, Donna! 💗
Great topic ♥️♥️
Women and men are both Unique😊 when two people can be who they TRULY are.. you will be amazed at how much more you will gain out of your relationship. If it's not working out now,, don't fight it... Just be happy.
BTW love is not a game. Don't treat it like one. When your efforts are elsewhere,,, there's NOTHING like it!!!♥️♥️
Thanks for sharing your insights here!
Ladies you are amazing thank you so much for giving me the strength I needed right now. My husband accused me of cheating and then got very distant. I don't think he's cheating I think he was afraid of how great we were doing and made that up to pull away which is messed up but I will focus on me and do things I need to do for myself and allow him that space he took.
I'm so glad this was helpful! Much love to you.
He may be hitting a threshold of intimacy then backing away. See if that’s the Trend.
Brytanika Gonzalez. I would be wondering if your Man is " Projecting" that on you because he may be " Cheating". I would keep a " Closer" eye on him. Does he keep his phone with him at all times? I would check his Cell phone. Or get a Phone Record of the incoming and outgoing calls. When he is in the shower check his Car. Or Check the Milage once in awhile on his Vehicle. I know a " Good" Martiage and " Relationship" is based on " Trust". Maybe he was " Cheated" on before!! Ask him " Why" he is Starting to " Question" you. Ask him when you are alone if anyone " Hurt" him before. Maybe Someone is putting this in his mind. I have a " Great" way to find out. When he is Homw tell him your going Grocery shopping. Leave a " Voice Activated" Tape Recorder under a Heavy Piece of Furniture.Maybe he will just watch T.V. or maybe as soon as you go out the Door he will Call somebody. Find out! Maybe he is just " Insecure" or " Controlling". Pray about this Marriage to God. God must be part of the Marriage for the Marriage to Work.
Nature walk, he does yes but will set it down or use it right in front of me like he has nothing to hide so im thinking he's just really insecure. We don't get to spend much time together and he gets all insecure when we go days without spending time because he likes being with me. Idk im hoping I'm right but who knows.
Great video! Helping me
Thank you, I’m glad this was helpful! 💕
This was really helpful
Thanks Bec, I'm glad this helped!
This is beautiful❤️
Thank you! 💕
Awh! So sweet. 🥰
Thank you ladies! This is great
You’re welcome! 💕
Being open to mrn and arrows is perfectly fine. Its making both of us feel good! My husbands hates when he says hello to a customer and they dont even give him recognition like he doesnt even share a space on the planet!
Thanks for sharing, Cindy! This video I recorded with Adrienne should also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/MyQr7d2NScA/v-deo.html
Thank you for this video! I was very invested in this guy, and then he started being super distant. When I confronted him about it, he said he was very busy and didn't have time for me. We didn't talk for two months. Then a month ago he texted me saying he missed me and really wanted to make it work. He tried really hard at first but now he's back to ghosting me all week. I'm so attached to him and don't want to let him go but it's taking too much of a toll on me
You’re welcome, Andrea! My two most recent videos should be really helpful for your situation: ua-cam.com/video/it3kv3I7bCU/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/CuWhh-DnLJY/v-deo.html ...this one should also help a lot: ua-cam.com/video/lB_L7zPBjtU/v-deo.html.
Have a look at my reply to 'Fetch' she is in a similar situation, hope my response helps. Get your power back by valuing yourself xx
I have the same situation, he came back after 1 month break up and said wanted to make it work but after 1 month he acted so distant again and said been busy. Are we talking about the same guy ? Lol
I needed this. Thank you ladies!♥️✌
You’re welcome, I’m glad it helped! 💗
Salamat sa mga tips 😊❤
Thank you for all the info!
You're welcome, Audrey!
You're welcome, Audrey!
I literally devour all you girls' videos...I want to do what you all do for a living!
I’m so happy to hear that! If you’re interested in the relationship coach training we both went through feel free to email me at helenahartcoaching@gmail.com. 💜
You are SO sweet, thank you.
You're welcome :-) @@AdrienneEverheart
Be who you are. Everyone does not acquire greatness. I had to come back and let myself know what I just wrote I was in the tunnel. I’m officially out of the tunnel. I invite the new in my life.
I'm happy to hear that!
Y’all are amazing. Thank you so much
You’re very welcome! ❤️
I was involved with someone who had the tendency of always coming bk whenever it suited him. In the long run I became aware of his narcissistic traits and ended it with him for good. Even went as far as changing my numbers...He was completely toxic, his manipulations and all, and he damaged me for years to come. Thank you for your vedios, they really help.
You’re welcome! I’m glad you were able to move on from that man. ❤️
Very meaningful and sensible information..esp the 'what does the break actually mean' part.. thank you girls, you both are helping in guiding so many women through these commonly traumatic situations.. can't thank you enough both of you...God bless..love
Sejal Kothari happy to help! Women are often afraid to ask are we not?!
You’re very welcome Sejal, I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️
All you have to do is move on from him and give another man attention and he will come right back like a boomerang! 🪃 But then you'll have to ask yourself if you'd rather have the new guy or the boomerang guy! Lol!
Thanks for sharing your insights here, Gail! 💞
Your videos have helped me more than any other relationship videos on UA-cam.
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This video is SOOOOO helpful, thank you!!!
You’re welcome! 🩷 These videos I recorded with Adrienne might also be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/9KxQ1Z07_Xk/v-deo.htmlsi=eXaSwX88BveSCrf5 and ua-cam.com/video/HxhizkrTqbU/v-deo.htmlsi=ebFf2o-c1GOzK9Dw.