I just blocked him on everything. I realized that he is a narcissist and will never change. The back and forth gaslighting, lying, cheating, bread crumbling got exhausting. This is not my standard or boundaries. My focus is my peace of mind.
People need to communication as that is the big problem since most are as guilty look as females need to have some self love and self 11:16 worth . Block him a casual R. Is whats happening . Clairfication . Instinct listen to your inner voice thats instincts they dont lie .
I'm talking to a guy on messenger, because we live in different states and it was going great for a month, he even said that his mother would like me and that l was amazing. l caught him in a lie, l know he Googled me, because he asked if I drive a certain car and l was thrown off, and said how do you know, he said he just guessed. That was a lie though. But l lied a little about my age, and l know he saw my real age on Google, and it shows that l was on several dating sites. If he really liked me, wouldn't he look pass these things? I'm going through a divorce, and l told him to bear with me. I noticed his attitude started to change, we used to chat everyday, cand he started being less enthused, and now, l haven't heard from him since friday. And l noticed he hasn't even read my last message. Should l move on? Should l message him?Men are confusing! I wish they would communicate.
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Hi i have question for you over emotional affair. Is it this all cass emotional affair Yes or no to this one is this really emotional affair. 1 Thinking about Stephen 2 talking to Stephen on phone 3 texting stephen Are these all class a emotional affair. Then hugging and kissing and holding hands without having no sex non sex affair just romantic
if you have feelings for another person and are keeping contact with them one on one instead of distancing and changing your thoughts to friends, then all of the above is emotional cheating. When i am with my partners previously, i never thought of another person while i was with them and made boundaries to protect me and him in our relationship.
just wondering if any of these bread crumb guys, avoidant types, man children ever evolve and grow to a place where they show up in a more consistent and authentic way?
Great question! I’ve found that some never do, and some simply aren’t that interested in this particular woman - once they find someone they’re really into, they’ll often commit to a relationship pretty quickly. That’s why it’s important to not wait around for a man who’s displaying these signs. My husband and I talked more about that in this video: ua-cam.com/video/_D37APGOy8Y/v-deo.htmlsi=71WhMsw_cWYTuozq
Depends if they work out they have avoidant issues and do the work. I've seen people in personal development school (that's Gibson) doing the work & getting better but it's harder to know you need to or to believe help will help if youre avoidant. A lot of DA (dismissive avoidant) aren't used to having any support or help that works 😢
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I just blocked him on everything. I realized that he is a narcissist and will never change. The back and forth gaslighting, lying, cheating, bread crumbling got exhausting. This is not my standard or boundaries. My focus is my peace of mind.
Thanks for sharing your experience here, I’m glad you were able to move on! 💙
I'm so glad that I don't have to deal with this situation anymore. Better to be single! ❤
Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💜
People need to communication as that is the big problem since most are as guilty look as females need to have some self love and self 11:16 worth . Block him a casual R. Is whats happening . Clairfication . Instinct listen to your inner voice thats instincts they dont lie .
Thanks for sharing your insights here. 💙
I'm talking to a guy on messenger, because we live in different states and it was going great for a month, he even said that his mother would like me and that l was amazing. l caught him in a lie, l know he Googled me, because he asked if I drive a certain car and l was thrown off, and said how do you know, he said he just guessed. That was a lie though. But l lied a little about my age, and l know he saw my real age on Google, and it shows that l was on several dating sites. If he really liked me, wouldn't he look pass these things? I'm going through a divorce, and l told him to bear with me. I noticed his attitude started to change, we used to chat everyday, cand he started being less enthused, and now, l haven't heard from him since friday. And l noticed he hasn't even read my last message. Should l move on? Should l message him?Men are confusing! I wish they would communicate.
Move on. Sign is Soo clear
This was FANTASTIC! Thank you for the “mini scripts” on exactly what to say in these situations. Very empowering yet love-centered language. 💥💜💥
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Jack Butler, one of my favs! Thanks for this great discussion. Very helpful.
You’re welcome! I’m glad it was helpful. 💗
I think I pushed him away… but he was also a narcissist. It’s a difficult situation.
While I don’t know the details of your situation, if he’s a narcissist I’d be happy that he’s out of your life. 💜
Hi i have question for you over emotional affair.
Is it this all cass emotional affair
Yes or no to this one is this really emotional affair.
1 Thinking about Stephen
2 talking to Stephen on phone
3 texting stephen
Are these all class a emotional affair.
Then hugging and kissing and holding hands without having no sex non sex affair just romantic
if you have feelings for another person and are keeping contact with them one on one instead of distancing and changing your thoughts to friends, then all of the above is emotional cheating. When i am with my partners previously, i never thought of another person while i was with them and made boundaries to protect me and him in our relationship.
just wondering if any of these bread crumb guys, avoidant types, man children ever evolve and grow to a place where they show up in a more consistent and authentic way?
Great question! I’ve found that some never do, and some simply aren’t that interested in this particular woman - once they find someone they’re really into, they’ll often commit to a relationship pretty quickly. That’s why it’s important to not wait around for a man who’s displaying these signs. My husband and I talked more about that in this video: ua-cam.com/video/_D37APGOy8Y/v-deo.htmlsi=71WhMsw_cWYTuozq
Depends if they work out they have avoidant issues and do the work. I've seen people in personal development school (that's Gibson) doing the work & getting better but it's harder to know you need to or to believe help will help if youre avoidant. A lot of DA (dismissive avoidant) aren't used to having any support or help that works 😢
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I’m so happy to hear that! 💗 Feel free to follow my podcast too, since that’s where I’m spending most of my time now - it’s available on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3
…and on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214
The truth!💯💯💯
Thank you! 💜
I pushed him away, I apologised and he’s not come back how to stop thinking about him, it hurts x
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Thank you for this wonderful information, Helena and Jack! 💖🪷💖
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