Gaslighting: She Wants to Finesse Men (Simps) for Life: You're Dealing with an Emotional Terrorist

Gaslighting: The Toxic, Destructive, and Invisible Relationship
How to identify if a person is gaslighting you
Manipulation
Emotional abuse is about manipulation. The abuser feels empowered by his or her actions.
Public degradation
One of the most humiliating experiences is to be degraded in public. Someone can do this to you unintentionally, so if it happens once or even twice, and the other person agrees to change his or her behavior, it can be forgivable