Part 1-A few reasons why narcissists lose interest in good, wholesome people! It’s not your fault!

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  • @estherticharevamusic4221
    @estherticharevamusic4221 Рік тому +149

    Wow. As a narcissist, you loved women who wanted a little boy not those who wanted a wholesome man!

    • @leonrwalkerjr
      @leonrwalkerjr  Рік тому +56

      Right. My immaturity, inabilities, fears, you name it.

    • @karenblueford9082
      @karenblueford9082 Рік тому +6

      Wow

    • @thegiftedseer6764
      @thegiftedseer6764 Рік тому +20

      You don't know what the hell you're talking about until you're victimized by a narcissist. Wait until it happens to you. I pray it doesn't.

    • @ThingsILike12
      @ThingsILike12 Рік тому +16

      @@thegiftedseer6764Sounds like he was talking about the women he cheated with, not the good women that were work to be with.
      I didn’t tolerate the little boy tendencies my ex tried to live in. I wanted a man. His kids needed a man as a father. He faked it until he simply couldn’t do it anymore. Then, he’s angry with us for making him have to man up. He loved the image we provided for him but he hates us wanting an adult.
      I don’t know the lady he left for. She strikes me as the kind that’s really into herself, so perfect for him as they are both so self-centered.
      A woman looking for an adult man isn’t going to tolerate being made the other woman. So I think that’s what Leon is saying.

    • @moon_light893
      @moon_light893 Рік тому +3

      @@ThingsILike12just when I think my story is unique ( minus the kids) here u r.

  • @saraliburd7752
    @saraliburd7752 Рік тому +36

    BUT narcs can only help themselves -the ‘victim ‘ needs to protect their energy and life and get out -we can’t save people like we thought we could

  • @Meilani-Rae
    @Meilani-Rae 10 місяців тому +18

    Gosh this opened my eyes so much. I am the wife that gets left for "gorillas" and gets disrespected and abandoned with our kids on the regular. He rather choose drinking, drugs and lesser women. Now I understand why. He likes that life, the drama is more comfortable to him. He is not mentally/emotionally capable of staying faithful or being a good man. WOW thank you for the truth.

    • @BCCseats
      @BCCseats 5 місяців тому

      Shame on you for calling another woman lesser

  • @homespace1268
    @homespace1268 Рік тому +33

    The problem with some women is they treat their men like children. Other women like myself want someone who is a grown up and equal partner.

    • @empathicwarriorlissy3716
      @empathicwarriorlissy3716 Рік тому +3

      I agree with you. When you are in a relationship with a Narccisst you take the role of their mother.

    • @homespace1268
      @homespace1268 Рік тому +4

      @@empathicwarriorlissy3716 I"m not mothering any grown ass man. I met his inner child a few times and his "child" is a spoiled brat who has never been told no. Don't think he wants ME as a mother cause I'm strict and not tolerating any bullshit. I don't allow children to control my life...I also don't take punishment from children. I won't take the role of mother...I will take the role of the adult. Some women treat a grown ass man like a child while neglecting their kids... it's sickening but whatever...

    • @ginagina9592
      @ginagina9592 Рік тому +3

      Yah but women are naturally nurturing. It doesn’t mean it’s to woman’s fault if a man takes advantage of that and manipulates that quality out of her. Most women will leave eventually but sometimes the switch to being his mother happens gradually that the woman doesn’t notice. I was with a man who would casually ask you to look some information up for him. I didn’t realize he was slowly attempting to move me into a mother position in his life.

    • @homespace1268
      @homespace1268 Рік тому +1

      @@ginagina9592I'm a woman and I can clearly see the childish temper tantrums for what it is...and I lose respect. Don't know why some women would even put up with it. It's a real turn off to me. If a woman wants to be a mommy maybe she should have a kid or adapt a pet.

    • @ginagina9592
      @ginagina9592 Рік тому +3

      @@homespace1268 for sure who wants a tantrum lol I can see obvious immaturity. The man I have experience with with didn’t throw tantrums a very level headed calm gentle man.. who asked for favors. Some of these manipulators are very refined.

  • @annag3601
    @annag3601 Рік тому +19

    Nope, I walked away. I don’t care if a person has a mental problem. If your issues is slowly killing me I have to walk away and choose me.
    If children are involved walk away for the sake of your children. They are the ones suffering in the end; not the narcissist. Love yourself more than you love someone else

  • @johnholmes6741
    @johnholmes6741 Рік тому +19

    They need help I will 100% agree but the problem is they don’t want help. So there’s nothing you can do and if you really want to help them - you’ll leave them and maybe that will force them to wake up and change. Small chance. But no chance if you enable them.

  • @lboogie2570
    @lboogie2570 Рік тому +17

    My narc ex literally told me after I left him, "I didn't think you had it in you, I really didn't."
    In that moment I wanted to strangle him.... but the Lord kept me.

    • @90charim
      @90charim Рік тому +4

      Lol the audacity sometimes you just gotta laugh, shake your head n walk off lol

  • @jessicamarks5577
    @jessicamarks5577 Рік тому +22

    As a woman matures and gets healthy she realizes she's dated down for some time , a woman's most important relationship as a child is with her father the first male figure in her life ,, if that relationship is not healthy and the father is emotionally unavailable she will go onto mirror men after her father. Once she heals and eyes become opened she will be more frustrated with her self for the time wasted for dating down and so beneath her value . With even more healing her mind set changes even more and she begins to look at the whole experience as a gift cause without the experience she would not be who she is today.

    • @kynathomas4809
      @kynathomas4809 Рік тому +1

      Amen. ❤️

    • @PRINCESS2527
      @PRINCESS2527 Рік тому +3

      This is very true ….Just wasting our beauty and youth…☹️

  • @isha6085
    @isha6085 Рік тому +14

    This is too accurate my God. I knew he was childish I would tell him. His aunt raised him she was emotionally and mentally abused. Mother left him at 7 years old. I always told him your a boy in a man's body. When it's time to do family things he's depressed,smoking,drinking,gambling, unorganized and likes confusion. His childhood trauma really mentally destroyed him

  • @lovepink9561
    @lovepink9561 Рік тому +16

    “I looked for the women that wanted a little boy and not the women that wanted a man” I felt that !

  • @carlamitchell466
    @carlamitchell466 6 місяців тому +12

    My husband would do the exact same thing, any young woman who would give him a ego boost and let him control her that's who he liked to deal with., but I was crazy though for allowing him to run in and out my life whenever he pleased. This last incident finally woke me up I filed for divorce and it's almost finalized

    • @kynathomas4809
      @kynathomas4809 5 місяців тому +3

      My ex ran into another relationship immediately after I had our child, and we broke up. Sadly, he was 35, and she was 17. He was really a screwed up person once I sat back and replayed the whole relationship. I was screwed up because I thought I could heal him with my love , care and support.

  • @teesahurt2074
    @teesahurt2074 8 місяців тому +14

    You said a mouthful. You knew you could come back. I learned years ago. Once I say I’m done. I’m done. There is NEVER EVER ANY COMING BACK. PEROID. My Mother told me years ago. God don’t back you up. He lifts you up. I DONT GO BACK. EVER

  • @Michelle_Michelle___
    @Michelle_Michelle___ Рік тому +16

    I can spot a narcissistic man whom I’ve never met before. They’re at the grocery stores, the gas stations, etc. In the scenario I’m speaking of, they’re more so predators. For example, I was leaving out of RX Optical, holding the door for an elderly woman, as I was holding the door, there was an older man walking into T-mobile which was right next door to RX Optical- but his attention was so fixated on me that he could barely walk in. *I always notice who’s watching me so that I can watch them 🤷🏾‍♀️* I went to my car (parked right in front of the T-mobile store) and sat for a few moments looking at my phone to call my mom while I drove home. Afterwards, as I was pulling out of the lot, I immediately heard someone’s car horn. I reacted slowly, looking to my right for a bit, and then immediately looking through the window of T-mobile, and guess who’s standing there with his key in his hand watching me? The man that I mentioned in the beginning. I stared at him for a bit until I finally pulled completely out of the driveway, and I mouthed unpleasant words so that he KNEW that I KNEW what he was doing. Narcissistic harassment. I’m sure he does this to random women in public all of the time and he gets a turn on off of their reactions. But I looked directly at the car horn and fixed my attention on him because I knew he did it. Ladies, this is how you protect yourself- BY STAYING VIGILANT! These weirdos are watching you, WHEREVER YOU GO! Be careful and pay attention!

  • @504queentiggty
    @504queentiggty Рік тому +15

    Thank you for explaining this too me because I was trying to figure out why “Leon” literally that’s his name always look like a crackhead when I left and came back he said to me why you always leave me but then said if I treat you so bad why are you still here… but you know what I said YOU REALLY THINK IM WEAK huh Lee but you will finally see I will love me again and you will be gone… 5 years I was in and 6 months no contact and last month day before my birthday 4/26 I got the Hoover apology and love me lies again I hung up the phone on him and celebrated my strength I refuse to ever go back to a 50 years old man who only out to destroy me and never get help for himself his 7 grown kids and about 10 grandkids let him dry up like a prune and perish forever I will never ever again let anyone abuse me anymore he better go call Tyrone or them other 15-20 women over the span of 5 years poor lost soul thank you for clearing up why the “Leon” in my life was a devil’s spawn 💯💯

    • @tnpfocusgroup7252
      @tnpfocusgroup7252 Рік тому +3

      Thank you for sharing
      I fully understand just ended up having to look the truth in the face . Hard enough to accept u wasn’t the only one but all of a
      Good for you to get out of the web of the narc

  • @fashionsocial11
    @fashionsocial11 Рік тому +15

    I know this but the damage was too great to give him any more of my time and resources. I have to focus on my healing and getting back on my feet for my own good and responsibilities. If he wants help he can get. God will never turn his back on anyone. I can love him from a far and pray on his behalf. That’s the best I can do. His well being is not worth the price of mine.

  • @carlamitchell466
    @carlamitchell466 5 місяців тому +10

    You are correct my husband left me for a younger woman bc she would allow him to be a raggedy little boy and sleep with her and other women at the same time. I'm done filed for my divorce and it's almost finalized

  • @eyeleesmiley
    @eyeleesmiley Рік тому +12

    It is a mental condition. Having narcissist parents I thought everything was my fault & that I could “fix” someone if they were shown love. No they would take advantage and my ex husband and ex boyfriend were and are big huge mommas boys with momma issues. I began to care for myself. Can’t save or change anyone but myself. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @theonerealestatesecret
    @theonerealestatesecret Рік тому +8

    I went out with a man who wouldn't eat. He was a hot mess and I blocked him. Thanks for the insight.

  • @watchingthewaves1
    @watchingthewaves1 6 місяців тому +9

    I wish I didn’t let my ex come spin the block on me again. It’s been a year now and I am still not over what happen.

  • @n0426
    @n0426 Рік тому +27

    Don’t waste your life on someone that Likes the way they are in. Give them back to GOD. You don’t own anyone anything in life.

  • @carolannburke5450
    @carolannburke5450 Рік тому +17

    Mr Leon--I am truly sorry that you went through all of that pain during your life. Now, you are helping others by sharing, explaining, teaching and understanding too. That is truly beautiful and selfless. I will say a special prayer tonite for you--Thank you.....

    • @leonrwalkerjr
      @leonrwalkerjr  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for that. I really appreciate your words and prayers, too. I went through it, victimized women, then got the help I needed. Now I help people.

  • @lbw9830
    @lbw9830 Рік тому +12

    It sounds like kids should be the focus…
    to give them a strong foundation, so that this cycle doesn’t keep repeating itself.
    But how!

    • @jemimaayoola
      @jemimaayoola Рік тому +1

      By being conscious in the moment

    • @nabilc1667
      @nabilc1667 Рік тому

      By healing ourselves so that we can live consciously in the moment and provide our kids with their fundamental needs

  • @ginagina9592
    @ginagina9592 Рік тому +15

    Yea, they need to be left if they are hurting the family and out of control. They’re acting like children like you said. Be careful telling people to stay with the toxic person.

    • @teesahurt2074
      @teesahurt2074 8 місяців тому

      I say leave I medically especially if you have children. Not putting my kids through shit. TOXICITY IS DEADLY.. I’m sorry LEON. PHUCK EM. Call on GOD. I cant help you. Goodbye…

  • @JustVita73
    @JustVita73 Рік тому +12

    My ex has NPD. I know it's an disorder and I ĵwanted to help him so much. I still do but I know I cant.. The Soul Tie, Trauma Bond is very real. Friday the 12th will be 3 months no contact. Protective Order in place.

  • @katashaluckey-prince8823
    @katashaluckey-prince8823 Рік тому +7

    ACCURATE!!!!
    Sometimes you gotta leave them for your mental health and safety

  • @EButta71
    @EButta71 Рік тому +14

    Any race and checked out, indeed! The woman I suspected my ex was messing around with looked like Mrs. Doubtfire 🙄 I said, "you know what...I gotta get up outta here". A mess. That turned me off and sobered me up quick. If you let her have it, I don't even want it. Thank God you've put that behind you🙌🏾

    • @jamielittles6197
      @jamielittles6197 Рік тому +2

      Yes,

    • @melissaflood3276
      @melissaflood3276 Рік тому +4

      They will F*** ANY BODY.... Pls be careful in the future. You'll end up with a ,Deadly STD and they Won't Care😢🙏🙏🙏

    • @christaldavis4988
      @christaldavis4988 Рік тому +2

      This !!!!!!

    • @moon_light893
      @moon_light893 Рік тому +2

      @@melissaflood3276omg😢… wtf have I experienced. Thx to universe the relationship only lasted 30 days… but left months and months of spiritual stench behind. 🙏🏽

  • @haisselburrell1903
    @haisselburrell1903 Рік тому +10

    Unfortunately they must humble themselves to get that help my husband won’t humble himself enough to even get help🤷🏽‍♀️this is why I left 1 yr be be exact after 13 yrs of marriage 😢

  • @fk271
    @fk271 5 місяців тому +6

    You have no idea how much you help, I have to watch your videos everyday to remain no contact. Thank you

  • @xoxo-vp7ww
    @xoxo-vp7ww Рік тому +12

    I’ve heard men say this about attractive women too. They rather be with or marry a plain, overweight, or unattractive woman so they don’t have to work as hard and she’ll accept more. I’m so exhausted by the way men think. Smh.

    • @maralinautube
      @maralinautube 10 місяців тому +1

      Girlllll... I'm EXHAUSTED TOO!!!😢

    • @QuiK075
      @QuiK075 9 місяців тому +1

      And you think that man aren’t exhausted too. It seems to me that you expect someone to go by the looks and not by the actual personality. How good is the looks of at the end all of that vanishes and nowadays every woman wants to or has fake boobs and whatnot that is ridiculous. 😒

  • @Honeypepper.
    @Honeypepper. 5 місяців тому +6

    I honestly admire people like you who not only recognize that they need specific help to address a specific personality disorder within themselves but that actually go and get the therapy needed to address this specific personality disorder. I say this because I know of people whom this very personality disorder is recognized about themselves but who instead choose to dance all around the topic of getting help rather than seek help to address this specific problem. Granted NPD is very difficult for a therapist to treat because talk therapy often involves challenging patients, and people with NPD by their nature resist being challenged. I appreciate those who embrace the challenge and go on to lead better lives and help others in the process.

  • @paigewhite1251
    @paigewhite1251 4 місяці тому +6

    *RIGHT.* _NEVER_ forgive!!!
    & If she took him bk RIGHT NOW....he would do thee SAME EXACT THING. People NEVER _respect_ mercy & forgiveness.
    They *ONLY* view you as WEAK.

  • @cmmack46
    @cmmack46 9 місяців тому +10

    Bro Leon I love your passion about your past life. Few men narcissitic or not are willing ro admit these toxic things about themselves. May God bless you as you bless others.

    • @leonrwalkerjr
      @leonrwalkerjr  9 місяців тому +4

      Thank you for that. It’s sad that I started so late. My honesty was always hard to find within myself. I appreciate this❤️🙌🏾🙏🏾💯

    • @LadyDivaD1AnOnly
      @LadyDivaD1AnOnly 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@leonrwalkerjr I hear you often say narcissist men don't usually acknowledge that the need help or seek help until their in their 30s, 40s, Or 50's. Sadly my ex husband is in his mid 60s and still determined to stay in his own private hell, no self reflection or acknowledgement of his narcistic behavior. It is really sad. I'm just glad I left him alone after his last discard and hoovering. He'll never change bc he never took or has taken the time to look within himself to understand that it is him who is so very toxic not only to others but also to himself. Thank you for your honesty and helping us to understand this mental health issue than truly destroys the life of others who simply love deeply and believe they can fix personality types such as these.

  • @narcnotallowed
    @narcnotallowed 11 місяців тому +9

    Thank You Leon... This is everything that I always wanted my ex to say...

  • @cedric_evans
    @cedric_evans Рік тому +15

    By the end of the video you seem to be very annoyed with your past behaviors. What you're doing is courageous and helps a lot. Keep going Leon ❤️‍🩹👍🏻

  • @shirleydaniels9310
    @shirleydaniels9310 9 місяців тому +12

    hell nooo leave asap they have to heal on their own u can not help or fix a monster save urself ur more important

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 4 місяці тому +6

    Yes!: at 34 he CHANGED into a monster i didn't even know! He begged for me to go somewhere with him and he looked at me stone COLD face and said i dont care about you. There was nothing behind those eyes... his pupils got big like a reptile 😮....he knows im not afraid of him at all anymore i tell him how it is. Im never going back and i make HIM RESPECT me!

  • @blevinsvaretta
    @blevinsvaretta Рік тому +8

    This must of been why he gave me something, got a new supply like he didn’t just have something, and posted about it on Facebook after my birthday 😒 The smear campaign was horrible. I never contacted the new supply, but she will find out once she go to the doctor one day. Been no contact since the beginning of the year. I refuse to let him ruin another year. He just had drama everywhere he went and tries to come back to me when it got too deep. Like, no.

  • @thewholeyou
    @thewholeyou Рік тому +26

    Everything was great that u said until u said don't walk away from them bc they need help. Naw everyone please run away because these narcs are messing up your nervous system. I love his content but we are not to repair these people and lose ourselves in the process. Sorry but not sorry. I will definitely suggest to them to get help as I leave them but that ls the most you can expect from us. 💕

  • @gingerelkins1268
    @gingerelkins1268 9 місяців тому +5

    I couldn’t understand why my husband would run to his mommy and crackhead ex wife. This video explains it all. Thank you Leon❤

  • @marvaedwards1719
    @marvaedwards1719 Рік тому +7

    Thank you Leon. My ex narc said “I married you, or I said I do, what more do you want?” That hurt!

  • @Ljbitt
    @Ljbitt Рік тому +7

    Thank you for sharing; it brings double confirmation for what I’ve always felt👏💙👏

  • @nailazion3113
    @nailazion3113 8 місяців тому +5

    Thank you a million times over...now I understand how a man can be a good soldier but not a good man....I waited for years being a good woman to someone that would never change...

  • @melissamiller3345
    @melissamiller3345 Рік тому +16

    Leon, you have helped me so much in understanding what I was dealing with and finding the strength to stay gone. I could never go back to that hell.

    • @leonrwalkerjr
      @leonrwalkerjr  Рік тому +3

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾. I’m glad that I am able to help you!!

  • @user-nb5xn7ig1v
    @user-nb5xn7ig1v Рік тому +7

    Thank you for your transparency! I hope that at least 1 Narc comes across this video and seek therapy to get better.

  • @Lucyfindit
    @Lucyfindit Рік тому +7

    Thank you for sharing. You have no idea how you helped us women and men who have been victims of narcs.

  • @rachelsaez3718
    @rachelsaez3718 Рік тому +5

    This video really resonates finally in a place where I don’t hate my husband and love him again where I understand by watching you. I don’t think you understand what you’re doing. I really wish he realizes he needs help not for me now cause I’m finally done.

  • @star3006
    @star3006 Рік тому +15

    Cus narcs are boring to be with they can’t have an interesting conversation… 🤢👺👹🤣😂😅😂🤣😅🤣😂. The End 🇮🇪🇮🇪👏🏻🤣🇮🇪

  • @sbanks9614
    @sbanks9614 Рік тому +7

    So true I will never ever go back almost years away no entertaining the narcissist whatsoever!! But he up to other tricks that don’t work Ik my worth and I love me and my kids.

  • @RestoringandPreservingMarriage
    @RestoringandPreservingMarriage Рік тому +13

    Was married to my husband for 20 years he walked away from the children and I, I will not give up, we have been praying for 3 years, I know God can heal him (PTSD 2 TOURS, Molestation, Golden Child, mother is a narcissist) he will have a powerful testimony.
    Keep growing brother, you will be redeemed, all that was stolen will be restored. God is working, thank you.

    • @90charim
      @90charim Рік тому

      😮

    • @90charim
      @90charim Рік тому +6

      What about healing yourself first..what about not giving up on you!?

  • @kathywalker4766
    @kathywalker4766 Рік тому +8

    Yep you are absolutely right, my ex would hook up with anyone!!!

  • @anthikerameos5400
    @anthikerameos5400 Рік тому +6

    Hey Leon... We were in a long distance relationship with my ex- partner. The minute he was supposed to move in with me and our daughter he started being the laziest ass ever... After 3 very confusing months of him giving me mixed signals i kicked him out... What is that with the TV?? He was all the time with his phone watching TV or sleeping when he was supposed to be with us!!! I was wondering and asking him why he didn’t participate more... No answer... He was always portraying himself as giving, caring, respectful and thoughtful... And when it was time to show these things in action, (finally our family was uniting) he was just ignoring me and his own daughter!! He seriously couldn’t care less... I know we deserve better both i and my daughter!!! I just wish i could understand this nature of his... It absolutely makes no Sense to me... I wonder why he ever wanted a family? Just simply so irresponsible and the most cold-hearted person I have met...

  • @chosennubiangoddessanunnak1391

    Lets not let a narc play with our hearts ♥️ strings 🗣🗣👁

  • @pattaylor8757
    @pattaylor8757 Рік тому +6

    Wow Leon you are speaking major truth. ACES Adverse Childhood Experiences that are unresolved are dangerous. I dealt with this with my ex that recently passed away. I see it in my brother he's an alcoholic and it's really sad because I can't help him because he wants to stay that little boy that is running his life.
    Thank you Leon❤

  • @2888HA0264
    @2888HA0264 Рік тому +6

    WOW LEON!!! I REALLY FELT YOUR HEART AND SPIRIT ON THIS TOPIC AND VIDEO.
    THANKS AND GRATITUDE FOR YOUR DEPTH OF HONESTY!!.XX

  • @cassiej31
    @cassiej31 Рік тому +5

    Trifling on the couch 😂😂😂 LOL my ex was being nasty all comfortable like that too

    • @NickysWorld88
      @NickysWorld88 Рік тому

      Mines too 😂 listening to that and visualizing it made me remember what I don't miss and keeps me wanting to stay no contact🙏🏽

  • @janicebullard5774
    @janicebullard5774 Рік тому +6

    Alright everyone pay Attention this Man has layed it out again Your Right Mr.Leon Mental health is a Diesase Ppl think it's embarrassing to Ask for help Depression can lead to Horrible things

  • @renae9199
    @renae9199 Рік тому +6

    Your explanation of this is exactly what i needed . Thank you so much.

  • @ejohnson4521
    @ejohnson4521 Рік тому +6

    Thank you for helping us understand why we have been through these situations!

  • @nonyabidness1838
    @nonyabidness1838 Рік тому +9

    Childhood things not resolved in this case cant

  • @jackiewilliams-sp1lb
    @jackiewilliams-sp1lb Рік тому +11

    Hi Leon a real woman will not put up with that mess a woman knows a childish individual you really need too thank God you're not dying with HIV and the lady too

  • @danalinsey5544
    @danalinsey5544 Рік тому +6

    I love how you say workout, military you will lead thousands of people. I am not going too lie this Made me wanted to send to my ex. He is a manager that I help him get treat everyone else great and treated me like I was scum on the bottom of his shoes. He will talked to any race any kind of woman and cheat but I left. I have no kids his son stole my truck I mentally checked out and then I hired two men and pack my stuff up and left

  • @Cellia836
    @Cellia836 Рік тому +7

    Thank you for sharing this video and this sounds just like my ex-narcissist. He behaves just like a little boy still. He doesn't clean his house, cook for himself, know how to pay his bills on time, whores around like a male whore and he runs down women when he doesn't get his way at all too. I wanted a real relationship with a full-grown man and not with a toddler at all.

  • @Peacefullymade
    @Peacefullymade Рік тому +7

    I'm so grateful for you!!! I respect your TRUTH! I have an undiagnosed narcissist that I've been with for 20 yrs. I have tried to support and love him through his trauma and of course it has caused more pain and suffering. I'm convinced that he is in need of serious therapy. Like you said I would have to leave in order for that to happen. So pissed off with the time I have devoted to speaking life into a corpse. I will pray and ask GOD for guidance and follow the path meant for me to heal and being open to loving again.

  • @beautyinthedark7406
    @beautyinthedark7406 Рік тому +10

    Great video but I will absolutely not help that triffling POS narc. The damage that was done to me and my children is unforgivable. The same way he intentionally and calculated the destruction of the marriage he should do the same seeking help. His issue are not my responsibility or problem. Should’ve caught me when I cared 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @dashseck7595
    @dashseck7595 Рік тому +10

    Leon you are doing GOD'S work right now!!! We empaths are also supposed to learn lessons about ourselves just like you did! I'm Soooo proud of you and so sorry that you had to go through this in order to be able to teach others. You are so courageous, and we..especially black women are happy that you have finally been released from that demonic energy. Every narcissist I know has an incubus demon spirit in them,which is why they sleep around carelessly, and it's also what is controlling their minds. Im just discovering the reason..Thanks for sharing your story and, more importantly, helping us survivors

  • @Moonless6491
    @Moonless6491 Рік тому +4

    I just wish I could help the person I cared for before they dumped me for no reason. I still miss them even though they're bad for me. It sucks. Wish I could rip it out

    • @latashakendrick9709
      @latashakendrick9709 Рік тому +2

      It's taken a long year but I realize he was just a user 😔 he was begging for money to give to his now wife that's when I realized he is fake and it was on a transactionship I have been really BLESSED though good karma is HERE I had to drop that dead weight

  • @nicolelouiselucas3996
    @nicolelouiselucas3996 Рік тому +5

    You have to leave them leon...
    I tried to help but in the end I needed helping 😥
    Anyway thank you for your honesty we need this raw thruth. God bless you.

  • @nonyabidness1838
    @nonyabidness1838 Рік тому +10

    Childhood....but when you're grown...🤔🤔🤔

    • @leonrwalkerjr
      @leonrwalkerjr  Рік тому +6

      We should know better, yes 100%

    • @nonyabidness1838
      @nonyabidness1838 Рік тому +9

      Hmm there's also the direction of psychology pushing the whole childhood issues thing in society since the late 80s after they created the drugs epidemic.

  • @jjfrost4526
    @jjfrost4526 9 місяців тому +3

    Whoa! She would go days with no appetite and I never understood at the time but it makes so much sense now. The guilt was killing her. She wouldn’t eat until we were on good terms again. Thanks Leon!

  • @malanikaflugence7170
    @malanikaflugence7170 Рік тому +6

    I want to thank you Mr Leon for being so open with your past struggles and triumphant present. I was married to a stone cold narcissist and you're filling in alot of the gaps (things I didn't understand at the time) we're divorced now and I don't regret that.

  • @bminnie2233
    @bminnie2233 Рік тому +4

    All i can say is Thank You. U speak for many other men who never sought help. All i dated was Narrsisst men and really took me thru the ringer smh.

  • @privacy9175
    @privacy9175 Рік тому +7

    Wow.. Hearing you dont feel hungry cause you are Guilty opened my eyes. Thats what l'm getting over here..
    Good Starve narc.. 😊

  • @christinabarrera5361
    @christinabarrera5361 8 місяців тому +5

    Thank you so much for being real and sharing this it helps us good women heal. God gave you a purpose to help people so keep doing videos and sharing this knowledge.

  • @CherylG
    @CherylG Рік тому +3

    This video tugged at the heart 😩

  • @JEden05
    @JEden05 Рік тому +8

    I appreciate your honesty. It takes courage to be that raw 💪🏼 Keep growing into a better man 😎

  • @Coayanisqatsi
    @Coayanisqatsi Рік тому +6

    Not everybody will let them come back. I was two times married to narcs. I was with another two relationships with a narcs. When i left them it was the end. I never gave them a second chance. People have to have the knowledge what they are dealing with - its the key to have a power over situation.
    I have a question...i met US American soldiers and...is that possible many of them are narcissists? They behaviour is.....🤔 Typical.

  • @rowenaroberts9284
    @rowenaroberts9284 Рік тому +4

    Thank You for Making a " Conscience Decision to get Help, Bless You!! & Please continue to spread the awareness that people need, to hopefully survive,, for Me, I got rid of tha narc' with Prayer & Faith, once knowing, his antics were straight out of the gates of hell😮 My Joy & Peace is Restored. & should he pop up or call, Jesus Christ,, Will Answer🎉
    #HealingSurvivor

  • @cynthiabrooks2785
    @cynthiabrooks2785 15 днів тому +1

    Dam straight to the point thanks 😮😮❤ Thanks Leon I am so proud of you Keep God first in your life. A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.🙏🙏😘

  • @dianadanielle81
    @dianadanielle81 Рік тому +5

    Wow…. Your honesty is absolutely amazing.

  • @NickysWorld88
    @NickysWorld88 Рік тому +6

    Wow yes this helped so much God bless your transparency🙏🏽
    Even after i knew he was a narc i still kept giving chances because i understand its a mental situation. But your health eventually gets jeopardized. You hit home with the part about them being able to be a little boy with the other woman, wow spot on! Had to rewatch this one, this is my new favorite video thank you so much🔥🔥🔥

  • @womanoftruth
    @womanoftruth Рік тому +7

    Wow, good honesty! You talking good. You are helping people😎

  • @romanhenry8475
    @romanhenry8475 Рік тому +3

    Keep plugging Leon....you're doing a valuable work.

  • @miaeba
    @miaeba Рік тому +6

    This was very helpful for me

  • @bxboyupqllnight
    @bxboyupqllnight Рік тому +6

    Narcissist like people that are toxic and that talk a lot of game

    • @thegiftedseer6764
      @thegiftedseer6764 Рік тому +7

      No they don't. Narcissists feed on good people or people with unhealed trauma.

    • @bxboyupqllnight
      @bxboyupqllnight Рік тому +1

      @@thegiftedseer6764 yes

  • @bakersdozens9934
    @bakersdozens9934 Рік тому +4

    Love and Light to you Leon💜 Have a great, delicious day!

  • @shaylanewlife
    @shaylanewlife Рік тому +5

    Narcissist are sick laugh but very serious 😂

  • @a.wilson6694
    @a.wilson6694 Рік тому +4

    I appreciate your work tremendously. You are giving back. May this message bring a sense of comfort and peace.

  • @anjailbee
    @anjailbee Рік тому +5

    Preach Leon preach🙌🏿🙌🏿🙏🏾

  • @tomikoeaton9786
    @tomikoeaton9786 Рік тому +5

    Excellent leon 💖💖💖 keep telling the truth you are helping us

  • @mingo2024
    @mingo2024 11 місяців тому +6

    This is so sad.

  • @deondra7848
    @deondra7848 Рік тому +5

    Thank you so much for sharing… your videos helped me a lot…. I’m sure releasing helps you more than it does us…. God bless you…❤

  • @sandraforber7834
    @sandraforber7834 Рік тому +5

    👌 Thankyou Leon 🌷

  • @rochelleb1338
    @rochelleb1338 Рік тому +2

    You are so right these are exactly the things that he did

  • @trusno7751
    @trusno7751 Рік тому +5

    Speaking pure facts....Keep us informed...That therapy is paying off🤞🏿💯🙏🏿

  • @deloisestaples4195
    @deloisestaples4195 Рік тому +5

    Thank you. Glad you got help

  • @poshy2453
    @poshy2453 10 місяців тому +3

    This was deep! Thanks for the insight!! When I saw pictures of that silverback I was completely shocked after all the condescending comments about weight he picked someone that looks like they was in the jungle the past 18 years of their life!

  • @deniseyoung5494
    @deniseyoung5494 Рік тому +6

    We love you leon we are praying for you you will get there you are Blessed stay strong and keep going God got you and you got this❤❤❤

  • @javireyes7333
    @javireyes7333 Рік тому +6

    True it’s a mental condition

  • @Wooptyfregendoo
    @Wooptyfregendoo 10 місяців тому +3

    This was extremely validating. Thank you❤

  • @anthikerameos5400
    @anthikerameos5400 Рік тому +8

    Yeah, for sure he needs help... But I know that if someone doesn’t want to get help, you cannot force them to it... I wish people could be more self-reflective...