Wait on God sweet strong Angels of the Heavenly Father 🌸 dealing with Narcissist and anyone else with psychological issues is a spiritual battle that only God can fight for you as he helps you. That why the devil and some try to drive others away from God knowing he is their shield and protector Talk to God, apologize for going astray, alot has, humble ourselves, pray, thank God for helping save us even when we weren't aware of it then get busy rebuilding a geniune intimate relations with God by praying, reading the Bible, healing, growing and following God's guidance. You're all very special and the devil uses others to try and destroy the good in you, don't let him. Fight back with God, Jesus Christ of Nazareth, The Holy spirit and your guardian Angels on your side and don't allow anyone close u less God says they are okay and sent by him. You're special, you're worthy and you're loved by God, please never think otherwise
I'm in the last age bracket and I have to pat myself on the back for not settling for being " broken off" by a broken man. Soul ties is a no go and celibacy is everything 💯
I've said it before, @Leon R Walker Jr Def knows what he's talking about; he put it into context & broke it down by the stages of the demographics. By textbook & traditionally speaking from the Narc handbook. It comes in many forms; emotional manipulation; mind games: : for example (g00gled) *TRIANGULATION:* when a toxic or manipulative person, often a person with strong narcissistic traits, brings a third person into their relationship in order to remain in control. There will be limited or no communication between the two triangulated individuals except through the manipulator. IMO, THIS Ignites insecurities and self-doubt, DEEP IN THE WOUNDS of the Empath (usually known as the victim) in the very TOXIC- UNREQUITED LOVE:: ONE SIDED- NON RECIPROCATED, "UNBALANCED" LOVE. *ONLY ONE PARTY IS THE ***_GIVER_* IN THE RELATIONSHIP, SEEKING VALIDATION AS THE *_"PEOPLE PLEASER"_*
This form of manipulation is done by men and women alike. Narcissistic Parents TRIANGULATE w/ their children all of the time. Pinning their "fave" the golden child against the black sheep, or scape goat all of the time. IT'S A MIND FK. It doesn't necessarily have to be a person either. A Narc can/WILL throw anything in the mix to make you feel that you are vying for their time & attention, SEEKING THEIR VALIDATION & #1 PRIORITY ON THEIR ROSTER. i.e. [their job/ career, their family/ children, an Ex-, social media]. ANYTHING to keep your mind going. Manipulative tactics & GHOSTING...RINSED♻️ RECYCLED♻️ REPEAT♻️
@@letssee6473 36 years married to a covert narc. Been through many 3rd party triangulations. I certainly know what I'm talking about~ lived through it. As far as the 3 categories of victims, this is correct. This is Not triangulation; research for yourself. Leon is making $ on this platform, remember… narcs are not intelligent people.
@rozdevin6798 He wasn't really defining triangulation. He was just explaining how he triangulated women of different ages and backgrounds to get different needs met. That's why he said "this is how triangulation works for me". Other people look for different things.
Very helpful information, I'm 44 and have the characteristics outlined and was looking for a self employed person like myself. During the love bombing phase he presented himself as just my type, with similar goals and aspirations, we soon embarked on a collaboration and relationship...man was a clown, fortunately my cut off game is pretty quick, soon as he attempted to devalue it was a wrap...
Broke that math down to a science.. And it was definitely all facts. I was with mines in my 20, 30s and just threw him away in my 40s. We was doing exactly what your 45-60 breakdown was, until we both just understood it was foolish… 🤣 but he swears we are gonna die in the nursing home together. I know that I am healing because just a few months ago, I would be hurt at all the truths in this video, today I am actually laughing. God is good!!!
FACTS!!!! You are sooo on point Leon!!!! My narc chased women younger than me and older than me!!! Im so glad God delivered me from that toxic relationship. Thank you for your honesty! I will share this video with my daughters!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
You right I got tired of him , I was in the last age group… but, I did not want to use him nor did I allow him to use me any longer … I didn’t want anything from him, definitely not sex… I wanted out and I never looked back…
Wow! I am just in that last age group & you described it perfectly. He popped back up out of nowhere. I was so busy with my career & children that I had no time for games then & still not now. I was ok when he went ghost then. I knew he wasn't the one for me. I just ghosted him this time. I know I am not narcissistic, but he is a textbook sociopath. Thank you for sharing your insight on this :).
You’re right about that “street credit score” being low..book smart, but not street smart..didn’t give up on him for 4 years. I did everything you said! Until my brother and my cousin started giving me the game! It was so hard to get out, I had to move out of the state! My “street credit score” is now at a 800!!
That was me too, I wasn't street smart. I learned a lot from my narc. It took me only a few months to figure out his game, and I discarded him. His game didn't feel good. It was sick. I was used to being treated better than that and knew I could do better. I called him and told him I didn't want to see him anymore. Thankfully he moved out of state after that. He would call me up once in awhile, but I would let him know I wasn't interested, was happy, was doing great, was loving my freedom. He stopped calling. I'm very thankful for what he taught me about a narc's game, though.
I’m blowing away as to how disgusting this behaviour is ………,,, And what’s really happening !! What about sexual transmitted disease 🦠????? 🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮. . Oh Thank God above in Heaven I’m fully awakened & free… Amen 🙏🏿. It’s mind blowing…. I was unaware a number of years ago but I’m fully aware now Thanks to God 🙏🏿. And utube . Absolutely disgusting 🤮 and appalling behaviour.. no respect no regard . Thanks for been so honest & sharing Leon that I do appreciate.
Leon, this was so accurate it's scary. I saw myself and my husband's side chicks in the categories that you described. I used to think about the fact that they and the relationships he had with them all seemed to be so different and didn't get it at all but this makes total sense to me now.
Whoa! This was me and my child's father. I was 23 and he was 30 already divorced with a child and he had a 10 month old with another woman. I didn't have any children at the time and just moved from one state to another. Once we had a child ( after 5 years together) he left and started dating a 19 yr old who worked at Burger king and lived with her Mom. He was 35 at the time of them dating.
Never try to keep someone around.. We are not nurses or doctors. Its not our job to cure someone,or heal someone. A person has to acknowledge themselves that they have a problem,they are the ones who need tu take the steps to change and show by actions consistently. GOD also is the heart healer ,not anyone else
This is my husband totally he cheated on me with a girl in the 35 age group fathered a child with her lied to her and he now has custody of the child and wants to bring it around me The came to my house looking for him cause he lied to her and said I was just a relative only to find out I was his wife
Very sorry about what occured. But the child is not an it. No matter what occured. Even if you don't accept the situation. The child is a child that has nothing to do with your husbands poor behavior. Hopefully you wish that child well and were able to move on from your husband with a sound mind.. I wish you well through and through :-)
I was 28 when I met my ex narc… had multiple miscarriages due to the triangulation I had no clue about. Highly upsetting when he started revealing the other woman in so many ways to me! I left after 5 years went back after two months and fell pregnant. Currently 33 and going through this pregnancy without him (after 5 years). These are some of the most unstable people. No lie. I know I rocked his world in every way not just sexually but he took my down mentally and I kept having to save myself as I am doing still to this day. After the baby I will never go back. I would rather raise my son alone, this boy can’t show my son how to be a man. At all. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences it’s highly appreciated. Atleast you took a look in the mirror and are honest with yourself. My narc sadly has not gotten to that point yet.
Stunned by the accuracy in all that you said 😳I watch a lot of your content to keep reminding myself of why I should remain non-contact and not fall into the delusion, It really helps. Thank you for your work, its truly appreciated 💞
LEON THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSAGE. I BEEN THERE WITH MY PAST ENERGY PERSON WHO IS 40 YRS OLD AND I AM 52. BUT LEON I AM TRULY DONE WITH THE PAST ENERGY PERSON. I AM LOVING ME NOW.
The people who come into your life and do things like this are a blessing-putting you in situations causing you to heal. Any relationship I was in that was toxic; I noticed our childhood experiences were similar; how we chose to behave was different. It forced me to heal, look within, and turn to God. Eventually, I healed enough to where I didn't have to have that type of experience anymore. Leon is doing a great thing by letting you in the mind of a toxic person, allowing you to gain insight and create peace within yourself. The toxic people in my life were sent to help me heal and I'm grateful, now I can be the best version of myself.
This happend to me met him at thirty wanted kids and a nice man but he took all my 30s I’m 39 now and he left me and gave me nothing …he cheated and lived a double life ..
It only says something about you when you find out and continue to be a good supply good sis. Other than that, you just being the awesome person you are ❤
Triangulation is just a sick twisted 🤢 psychotic game. They like to put you up against there Ex’s some of them like to play games and gang stalk you! It’s sad hence is it’s all to satisfy a thirst pathetic! &low vibration,and your right they have no standard or preference when dating it’s all about an orgasm & body count they like to body build , body after body ! No disrespect Leon however this spirit is from the pit of hell and is a hinderance to All!! Peace and blessings to you and your family 🙏🏾
It’s my opinion agreed: but the behaviors of the people you describe are people that are simply loss………… ~ I’ve observed in life that many believe in evil, know it exist, been exposed to it but don’t seem to believe that if there is evil then there is good in that “GOD is”……Truth says, woe to the person who causes the child of GOD to stumble as no one get away with evil though it may appear that they do…A believer knows Satan (evil) has already been defeated in that evil doers have been giving a delusion to believe in self…..The irony of a Narcissist is that, they truly Believe they have the power of deception when many times they come across people with agape love which displays attributes of long suffering, love, forgiveness, kindness etc….. but to a Narcissist they think those attributes are weaknesses However, it takes strength to love to forgive your enemy…….You see true love displays loving a person where they are at. A Narcissist does not comprehend nor apprehend that concept of self sacrifice for another but a believer in GOD stands on that concept~
Man I just shared this out to about 20 people! Continue to motivate and inspire us all, you CRUSHED dem folks with this one! 🙏🏿🤞🏿 Blessings and Abundance to you, that Therapy is paying off!🔥🔥
Hey Leon I’m 23 and my ex narc broke up with me “to be single” but decided to talk to a 34 year old girl with 2 daughters yet REFUSES to take her seriously. She has no standards or expectations of him and he laughs about it… He is quite literally looking down on her and trying to become her savior and it makes me look at him so weirdly… when I met him (at 19) I was very vulnerable and I didn’t understand anything about life being that I was raised by an overt narcissist to be codependent. It took me 3 years in this relationship to begin to realize I was extremely codependent and as SOON as I healed that part of me, I was discarded (at right under 5 years)… now that I’ve started to accept that this isn’t meant for me he is starting the breadcrumbing. The only issue I’m having is turning him down from s3x because we still sleep in the same bed. I am making an exit plan but I don’t have an exact date because of my current circumstances. Do you have ANY advice for me? Ik this is a lot to read but I genuinely don’t know what to do…
Sis. Make an escape plan. Leave and get your own place and ghost and go no contact. You need to leave because he won’t. Don’t give him anymore of your life.
This is the one that I was waiting on! Never understood this part - it makes sense now! Smh! So yall know what yall be doing! Nothing but a PREDATOR!!!
I loooove you bro. Im not saying that because i don't care to gain anything from you lol😂❤. I'm saying it because you need to know how helpful you are how much power you have is helping us heal so thank you🙏🏾 you are spot-on I love this video.
Always do it. I do it with my narc father and siblings all the time. When you are high vibrational. Everyone loves and trusts you. The narcissists have no chance.
Hey, I’m 70 going on 71 and have been told I am still attractive and appear to look loke I’m in my late 50s early 60s and there are many of us out here that run into narcissist unfortunately in our generation we just called them players but now knowing the dynamics that go on, those of us that are followers of Christ understand the dynamics are actually evil and demonic. It’s really sad that there are no warning signs about this subject should be taught in high school even though there are female narcissist, and majority are men and they destroy women’s lives. It’s a complicated situation because a lot of the young women are looking for daddy figure and the demonic narcissist understands that and steps in to destroy them.
It depends on the person some people are MORE mature for their age especially if you had it hard growing up ,and you know already alot of the games, and people who don't have love like a narcissist or you might have narcissist in your family and you know the tricks of the game at a very young age, and, or able to get rid of the narcissist,Quick, because you probably grew up around them and can spot a narcissist quick at a very age.
Leon I don't recall if you ever used flying monkeys or why they were so quick to believe and help the narc spy on or help abuse. Can you do a video please
Age/ status doesn't matter when you're spiritually delayed/weak. Mature spiritually and put on the full armor of God. That's how you protect yourself. ❤
A bucket of chicken, a pair of shoes for kids that are NOT his , a trip to the grocery store if they don't have a car or a job. This is what these demons do d or the demons they hook up with. Ask my no good ex.
that is so spot on, im dealing with a 49 year old narc and i watched how they went after a 29 year old and sucked them in easy while triangulating me as a 54 year old but i wasnt playing really i just played along as i knew what this person was, the 29 year old fell hook line and sinker 3 months i knew that dynamic would be other, and sure enough it did end . hell the narc even sent the 29 year old to try and reconnect with me as a possible friend because they how we where, but i rejected the offer of converstion from the 29 year old who was unaware they where in the stages of disguard, kinda sad really, because this person thought the narc loved them they where used and loved bombed hard. Now that 29 year old is struggling to understand whats happened ,I watched them since April and we are now in august how they are trying to regain the narcs attention , while the narc is chasing younger supply and trying to get me to show up at their parties, i get the narcs attention because i play along but also pull away so now ive taken time out, its god i feel good and i received a invitation to attend the narcs next party in the form of a email meant to look like a general generic email , but i know its nor as its kinda personal in parts like i would love o see you again , but the it reverts back to let us know what we can do to help . its the narc wanting me to show up as ive skipped 3 parties and i never skip more than 1 or 2 in a row. i wont reply why because im busy with my life and also as long as im interested inthe narc they know they can draw me in , hence the email before the normal marketing email the narc knows the longer im away the less i care, plus i was after their ex not realising it was their ex at the last party , but the narc sabbatge us connecting after, but i did not chase that person after the reached out as i knew the narc would sabbatge it even sleep with that ex i bet to stop us connecting, luckliy for me i wasnt that into them once i knew that they dated anyway. so now life is bless im focused on me again and it feels amazing but there is still feelings there and thats why i need to stay away. im tired of the nothing its not going anywhere so why try.
Brava!!!You spoke all that with true clarity. Self awareness at its finest. Keep going! Im one year ZERO contact today after he tried to put me on Forensic Files... Do you even wanna still go to any of his parties? Maybe that part of your life has run its course. You're not looking backward anyway.
@@mingo2024 thank you I Live London UK it was hard when i first encounted my first narc person, 3 months the relationship lasted, but i think any longer I would have had mental breakdown, mine was so cruel i felt somthing was off from the first time tslking online as it seemed very intense and needy, but i gave it the benefit of the doubt, I did manage my revenge after the disguard mind and by this time i had figured out what i was dealing with, it must the the Dvne that guides you to the right place to research as i had not heard about this conditon until I started to do reaserch on youtube anf bang there it was right in front of me, every experance i had gone through, i was in shock , but once that Narc came back to hoover i was ready, i took away their job security and i left that narc ringing my phone constantly ! i won i walked away and blocked them and never went back.. i have had 2 other ones try, and i meet another in Decemeber, but by the grace of god i saw the signs, this one knows i know , but because they are so greedy for supply espeacally if your high grade they cannot resist and try to get you. this Narc is a master of deception been at it for years , but I got this ones number pretty early, once you have been with one of these demons you never mistake them for anything else ever again and this Narc knows it. the goal I believe is to have me begging, publicly humiliated, but I will not chase and that's the difference, it is not in me to chase anymore even if i wanted too , because I know it results to nothing but misery, and I'm glad. I know that now. i have the luxuary of knowing and remebering they dont feel and they only cry for what they cannot get. the trick is to love your self selfishly and thats how i conquerd the hoovers and fantasy they create. once you love your self your will not allow disrespect, thsats when i realised I had allowed my family to disrespect me and thats why I was attracting these type of beings.
I’m sorry this is one channel that I take very seriously but this is too funny, not “chicken, and Similac milk? 😂😂😂 Omg. However, very informative channel, for those like myself that are dealing with these very similar situation’s.
Just curious, Since people who experience NPD don't attach well, how does any age group hurt them when they're discarded? Don't they have plenty of low hanging fruit supply? Aren't they constantly seeking supply at all times? Are people who experience NPD ever full enough to not look for new supply?
@leonrwalkerjr - please do a vlog about this if you can. Also, my narcissist was a cop. So he tricked me because I thought he had morals and stood for something. I was in that 40-year range, and he was just playing. Of all the men, he hurt me the most. I have only been with 1 man before him because I was sheltered and shy. Typical pretty big girl.
@@karen-hernameispoetry6239 I can do that for sure. Seen this a lot too. We are deeply attracted to you all, that’s a fact!!! This was a great question, too.
The narcissist becomes a Professional at the game and has compartmentalize his prey based on promiscuous experiences. It's a self serving game of MANIPULATION and the discard is inevitable. They absolutely know what they are doing as they are not ignorant, just vacant empathetically.
I saw your picture on Google of you in the navy...You are a very handsome man,it's just unfortunate that the devil got ahold of you in that way that invited all kinds of demonic spirits into your soul.. But in order for GOD to use you in his KINGDOM you must first REPENT,seek DELIVERANCE from those demonic spirits and follow JESUS..The calling GOD has on your life to GLORIFY his KINGDOM is GREATER then you talking about Narcissism,it's GREATER then this
@@leonrwalkerjrYour videos are short and straight to the point EVERY single time !!!!! So happy that I found your channel . May GOD Bless you for your honesty and willingness to enlighten others 🙏
@sacredflowspace he's not confused bc he Def put it into context & broke it down by the stages of the demographics. By textbook & traditionally speaking from the Narc handbook. It comes in many forms; emotional manipulation; mind games: : for example (g00gled) *TRIANGULATION: when a toxic or manipulative person, often a person with strong narcissistic traits, brings a third person into their relationship in order to remain in control. There will be limited or no communication between the two triangulated individuals except through the manipulator. Igniting insecurities and self-doubt, DEEP IN THE WOUNDS of the Empath (usually known as the victim) in the very TOXIC- UNREQUITED LOVE:: ONE SIDED- NON RECIPROCATED, "UNBALANCED" LOVE. *ONLY ONE PARTY IS THE ***_GIVER_* IN THE RELATIONSHIP, SEEKING VALIDATION AS THE *_"PEOPLE PLEASER"_*
Wait on God sweet strong Angels of the Heavenly Father 🌸 dealing with Narcissist and anyone else with psychological issues is a spiritual battle that only God can fight for you as he helps you. That why the devil and some try to drive others away from God knowing he is their shield and protector Talk to God, apologize for going astray, alot has, humble ourselves, pray, thank God for helping save us even when we weren't aware of it then get busy rebuilding a geniune intimate relations with God by praying, reading the Bible, healing, growing and following God's guidance. You're all very special and the devil uses others to try and destroy the good in you, don't let him. Fight back with God, Jesus Christ of Nazareth, The Holy spirit and your guardian Angels on your side and don't allow anyone close u less God says they are okay and sent by him. You're special, you're worthy and you're loved by God, please never think otherwise
Thank you for this.
Wow! I love this ❤ and it’s the Truth
This is sad and sick for someone to plot on destroying another person. Smh
It really is
It is, very much so
This is why, after dealing with a Narc...I am happily single. 😊
I'm in the last age bracket and I have to pat myself on the back for not settling for being " broken off" by a broken man. Soul ties is a no go and celibacy is everything 💯
Very well stated!!! 💯💯💯❤️🙌🏾
Amen.
That's not what triangulation is. It's when the narc has the 2 women fighting for them, narcs get a kick out of watching this play out.
I've said it before, @Leon R Walker Jr Def knows what he's talking about; he put it into context & broke it down by the stages of the demographics. By textbook & traditionally speaking from the Narc handbook. It comes in many forms; emotional manipulation; mind games: : for example (g00gled) *TRIANGULATION:* when a toxic or manipulative person, often a person with strong narcissistic traits, brings a third person into their relationship in order to remain in control. There will be limited or no communication between the two triangulated individuals except through the manipulator.
IMO, THIS Ignites insecurities and self-doubt, DEEP IN THE WOUNDS of the Empath (usually known as the victim) in the very TOXIC- UNREQUITED LOVE:: ONE SIDED- NON RECIPROCATED, "UNBALANCED" LOVE. *ONLY ONE PARTY IS THE ***_GIVER_* IN THE RELATIONSHIP, SEEKING VALIDATION AS THE *_"PEOPLE PLEASER"_*
This form of manipulation is done by men and women alike. Narcissistic Parents TRIANGULATE w/ their children all of the time. Pinning their "fave" the golden child against the black sheep, or scape goat all of the time. IT'S A MIND FK. It doesn't necessarily have to be a person either. A Narc can/WILL throw anything in the mix to make you feel that you are vying for their time & attention, SEEKING THEIR VALIDATION & #1 PRIORITY ON THEIR ROSTER. i.e. [their job/ career, their family/ children, an Ex-, social media]. ANYTHING to keep your mind going. Manipulative tactics & GHOSTING...RINSED♻️ RECYCLED♻️ REPEAT♻️
@@letssee6473 36 years married to a covert narc. Been through many 3rd party triangulations. I certainly know what I'm talking about~ lived through it. As far as the 3 categories of victims, this is correct. This is Not triangulation; research for yourself. Leon is making $ on this platform, remember… narcs are not intelligent people.
@@letssee6473
Mens prayer group. It’s me or them. Playing ball with friends every Sunday.
@rozdevin6798 He wasn't really defining triangulation. He was just explaining how he triangulated women of different ages and backgrounds to get different needs met. That's why he said "this is how triangulation works for me". Other people look for different things.
Newsflash the 35 to 45 year olds are done as well now in this day and age 🚨🚨🚨
Facts!!
Divorcing a Narc after 30 years of marriage.
There’s better I promise you.
Wow!!!!! That’s deep, after 30 years? I understand though.
Good for you, now go heal. I was 34 yrs in upon divorce. Keep living well.❤🎉
Very helpful information, I'm 44 and have the characteristics outlined and was looking for a self employed person like myself. During the love bombing phase he presented himself as just my type, with similar goals and aspirations, we soon embarked on a collaboration and relationship...man was a clown, fortunately my cut off game is pretty quick, soon as he attempted to devalue it was a wrap...
Broke that math down to a science.. And it was definitely all facts. I was with mines in my 20, 30s and just threw him away in my 40s. We was doing exactly what your 45-60 breakdown was, until we both just understood it was foolish… 🤣 but he swears we are gonna die in the nursing home together. I know that I am healing because just a few months ago, I would be hurt at all the truths in this video, today I am actually laughing. God is good!!!
God is good. The fact that you can listen and laugh means a lot for sure! I’m glad that you are better💯🙌🏾❤️. I know it feels good too
FACTS!!!! You are sooo on point Leon!!!! My narc chased women younger than me and older than me!!! Im so glad God delivered me from that toxic relationship. Thank you for your honesty! I will share this video with my daughters!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
You right I got tired of him , I was in the last age group… but, I did not want to use him nor did I allow him to use me any longer … I didn’t want anything from him, definitely not sex… I wanted out and I never looked back…
Wow! I am just in that last age group & you described it perfectly. He popped back up out of nowhere. I was so busy with my career & children that I had no time for games then & still not now. I was ok when he went ghost then. I knew he wasn't the one for me. I just ghosted him this time. I know I am not narcissistic, but he is a textbook sociopath. Thank you for sharing your insight on this :).
Same...came back around... Left me a message...I laughed to myself...and Blocked him ... haven't heard since.
Thank you Jesus!
You’re right about that “street credit score” being low..book smart, but not street smart..didn’t give up on him for 4 years. I did everything you said! Until my brother and my cousin started giving me the game! It was so hard to get out, I had to move out of the state! My “street credit score” is now at a 800!!
That was me too, I wasn't street smart. I learned a lot from my narc. It took me only a few months to figure out his game, and I discarded him. His game didn't feel good. It was sick. I was used to being treated better than that and knew I could do better. I called him and told him I didn't want to see him anymore. Thankfully he moved out of state after that. He would call me up once in awhile, but I would let him know I wasn't interested, was happy, was doing great, was loving my freedom. He stopped calling. I'm very thankful for what he taught me about a narc's game, though.
I’m blowing away as to how disgusting this behaviour is ………,,, And what’s really happening !!
What about sexual transmitted disease 🦠?????
🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮. . Oh Thank God above in Heaven I’m fully awakened & free… Amen 🙏🏿.
It’s mind blowing…. I was unaware a number of years ago but I’m fully aware now Thanks to God 🙏🏿. And utube . Absolutely disgusting 🤮 and appalling behaviour.. no respect no regard .
Thanks for been so honest & sharing Leon that I do appreciate.
Leon, this was so accurate it's scary. I saw myself and my husband's side chicks in the categories that you described. I used to think about the fact that they and the relationships he had with them all seemed to be so different and didn't get it at all but this makes total sense to me now.
Facts
I’m the 46 yr old who wasn’t haven’t it I peeped game right away & got away thank God for discernment
Why even bother dating! My God. They’re all like this.
Whoa! This was me and my child's father. I was 23 and he was 30 already divorced with a child and he had a 10 month old with another woman. I didn't have any children at the time and just moved from one state to another. Once we had a child ( after 5 years together) he left and started dating a 19 yr old who worked at Burger king and lived with her Mom. He was 35 at the time of them dating.
Wow! That was a big downgrade. God's rejection is truly protection 🙏🏽
A waste of time and creation of bad luck & karma; especially if there are children present.
Never try to keep someone around.. We are not nurses or doctors. Its not our job to cure someone,or heal someone. A person has to acknowledge themselves that they have a problem,they are the ones who need tu take the steps to change and show by actions consistently. GOD also is the heart healer ,not anyone else
This is my husband totally he cheated on me with a girl in the 35 age group fathered a child with her lied to her and he now has custody of the child and wants to bring it around me
The came to my house looking for him cause he lied to her and said I was just a relative only to find out I was his wife
😔
That is Heavy!!😧🤷🏻♂️🤯
Very sorry about what occured. But the child is not an it. No matter what occured. Even if you don't accept the situation. The child is a child that has nothing to do with your husbands poor behavior. Hopefully you wish that child well and were able to move on from your husband with a sound mind.. I wish you well through and through :-)
I was 28 when I met my ex narc… had multiple miscarriages due to the triangulation I had no clue about. Highly upsetting when he started revealing the other woman in so many ways to me! I left after 5 years went back after two months and fell pregnant. Currently 33 and going through this pregnancy without him (after 5 years). These are some of the most unstable people. No lie. I know I rocked his world in every way not just sexually but he took my down mentally and I kept having to save myself as I am doing still to this day. After the baby I will never go back. I would rather raise my son alone, this boy can’t show my son how to be a man. At all.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences it’s highly appreciated. Atleast you took a look in the mirror and are honest with yourself. My narc sadly has not gotten to that point yet.
Stunned by the accuracy in all that you said 😳I watch a lot of your content to keep reminding myself of why I should remain non-contact and not fall into the delusion, It really helps. Thank you for your work, its truly appreciated 💞
Thanks for continuing to educate us on NPD and all the variables that come with dealing with these types of people in relationships.👍
Triangulation ruined our relationship.
It’s so weird how people are obsessed with sex so much they will destroy a relationship over it.
Dang that’s pure evil 👀
LEON THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSAGE. I BEEN THERE WITH MY PAST ENERGY PERSON WHO IS 40 YRS OLD AND I AM 52. BUT LEON I AM TRULY DONE WITH THE PAST ENERGY PERSON. I AM LOVING ME NOW.
The people who come into your life and do things like this are a blessing-putting you in situations causing you to heal. Any relationship I was in that was toxic; I noticed our childhood experiences were similar; how we chose to behave was different. It forced me to heal, look within, and turn to God. Eventually, I healed enough to where I didn't have to have that type of experience anymore.
Leon is doing a great thing by letting you in the mind of a toxic person, allowing you to gain insight and create peace within yourself. The toxic people in my life were sent to help me heal and I'm grateful, now I can be the best version of myself.
This is honest now I understand
This happend to me met him at thirty wanted kids and a nice man but he took all my 30s I’m 39 now and he left me and gave me nothing …he cheated and lived a double life ..
Damn if a narc chose me then what does that say about me? Im so done with relationships.
It only says something about you when you find out and continue to be a good supply good sis. Other than that, you just being the awesome person you are ❤
Sooooo true! Thanks for your confessions of honesty to now heal others.
Big facts
This is 100% facts
Triangulation is just a sick twisted 🤢 psychotic game. They like to put you up against there Ex’s some of them like to play games and gang stalk you! It’s sad hence is it’s all to satisfy a thirst pathetic! &low vibration,and your right they have no standard or preference when dating it’s all about an orgasm & body count they like to body build , body after body ! No disrespect Leon however this spirit is from the pit of hell and is a hinderance to All!! Peace and blessings to you and your family 🙏🏾
I know of one who is 45 and picked up a 20 yr old at most. Easy to control and manipulate is my take on that one.
It’s my opinion agreed: but the behaviors of the people you describe are people that are simply loss…………
~ I’ve observed in life that many believe in evil, know it exist, been exposed to it but don’t seem to believe that if there is evil then there is good in that “GOD is”……Truth says, woe to the person who causes the child of GOD to stumble as no one get away with evil though it may appear that they do…A believer knows Satan (evil) has already been defeated in that evil doers have been giving a delusion to believe in self…..The irony of a Narcissist is that, they truly Believe they have the power of deception when many times they come across people with agape love which displays attributes of long suffering, love, forgiveness, kindness etc….. but to a Narcissist they think those attributes are weaknesses However, it takes strength to love to forgive your enemy…….You see true love displays loving a person where they are at. A Narcissist does not comprehend nor apprehend that concept of self sacrifice for another but a believer in GOD stands on that concept~
WOW!!! POWERFUL!!!!! I ALWAYS enjoy your comments, knowledge, and dialogue!!! You help us all❤️💯🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@leonrwalkerjr My pleasure….. I’m only adding to your already insightful mind~
Great info 😊
Thank you
Powerful message ❤❤❤
Man I just shared this out to about 20 people! Continue to motivate and inspire us all, you CRUSHED dem folks with this one! 🙏🏿🤞🏿 Blessings and Abundance to you, that Therapy is paying off!🔥🔥
I paused twice in this short video... The triggers were definitely gut checks 😢
Hey Leon I’m 23 and my ex narc broke up with me “to be single” but decided to talk to a 34 year old girl with 2 daughters yet REFUSES to take her seriously. She has no standards or expectations of him and he laughs about it… He is quite literally looking down on her and trying to become her savior and it makes me look at him so weirdly… when I met him (at 19) I was very vulnerable and I didn’t understand anything about life being that I was raised by an overt narcissist to be codependent. It took me 3 years in this relationship to begin to realize I was extremely codependent and as SOON as I healed that part of me, I was discarded (at right under 5 years)… now that I’ve started to accept that this isn’t meant for me he is starting the breadcrumbing. The only issue I’m having is turning him down from s3x because we still sleep in the same bed. I am making an exit plan but I don’t have an exact date because of my current circumstances. Do you have ANY advice for me? Ik this is a lot to read but I genuinely don’t know what to do…
Sis. Make an escape plan. Leave and get your own place and ghost and go no contact. You need to leave because he won’t. Don’t give him anymore of your life.
Every time you sleep with him, you're discarding your own soul & self-worth... it's self-sabotage at this point.
The longer you stick around & make yourself available, the longer & more challenging it will be to heal. *_YOU ARE WORTHY_*
This is the one that I was waiting on! Never understood this part - it makes sense now! Smh! So yall know what yall be doing! Nothing but a PREDATOR!!!
PERFECTLY SAID 💯💯✔️🚀GREAT PLATFORM!!
Thank you 💯❤️🙌🏾. I appreciate that
So true Leon! Spot On! Thanks again👍🏾🙏🏾
I love this breakdown!!
Insightful. Thank you for sharing this bluntly.
Wow the ACCURACY of what u just said as I look back on it all.
I loooove you bro. Im not saying that because i don't care to gain anything from you lol😂❤. I'm saying it because you need to know how helpful you are how much power you have is helping us heal so thank you🙏🏾 you are spot-on I love this video.
Leon you are on point with this one. Lol I'm in the latter age group and don't give a dam.
trust when ur giving the silent treatment or ghosting women we are not being faithful to the narc lolllll
Not all, I was but only because I didnt want anybody else, and I was grieving
😂😂😂😂this is insanity 😅😅😅omg😅😅 but it happens 😂🤣🤣😭😭😭
Always do it. I do it with my narc father and siblings all the time. When you are high vibrational. Everyone loves and trusts you. The narcissists have no chance.
Hey, I’m 70 going on 71 and have been told I
am still attractive and appear to look loke I’m in my late 50s early 60s and there are many of us out here that run into narcissist unfortunately in our generation we just called them players but now knowing the dynamics that go on, those of us that are followers of Christ understand the dynamics are actually evil and demonic. It’s really sad that there are no warning signs about this subject should be taught in high school even though there are female narcissist, and majority are men and they destroy women’s lives. It’s a complicated situation because a lot of the young women are looking for daddy figure and the demonic narcissist understands that and steps in to destroy them.
Thanks for sharing this priceless information!
It depends on the person some people are MORE mature for their age especially if you had it hard growing up ,and you know already alot of the games, and people who don't have love like a narcissist or you might have narcissist in your family and you know the tricks of the game at a very young age, and, or able to get rid of the narcissist,Quick, because you probably grew up around them and can spot a narcissist quick at a very age.
Leon I don't recall if you ever used flying monkeys or why they were so quick to believe and help the narc spy on or help abuse. Can you do a video please
Spot on!! 🎯
Age/ status doesn't matter when you're spiritually delayed/weak. Mature spiritually and put on the full armor of God. That's how you protect yourself. ❤
A Bucket of Chicken?
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A bucket of chicken, a pair of shoes for kids that are NOT his , a trip to the grocery store if they don't have a car or a job.
This is what these demons do d or the demons they hook up with. Ask my no good ex.
*** this is what these demons do ***** FOR the demons they hook up with
No self esteem
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Important video. Thank you
Another brilliant video Leon ❤
Very informative Leon thank you for sharing
Great info
FACTS!!!!
Facts...
I agree.. ❤👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you
that is so spot on, im dealing with a 49 year old narc and i watched how they went after a 29 year old and sucked them in easy while triangulating me as a 54 year old but i wasnt playing really i just played along as i knew what this person was, the 29 year old fell hook line and sinker 3 months i knew that dynamic would be other, and sure enough it did end .
hell the narc even sent the 29 year old to try and reconnect with me as a possible friend because they how we where, but i rejected the offer of converstion from the 29 year old who was unaware they where in the stages of disguard, kinda sad really, because this person thought the narc loved them they where used and loved bombed hard.
Now that 29 year old is struggling to understand whats happened ,I watched them since April and we are now in august how they are trying to regain the narcs attention , while the narc is chasing younger supply and trying to get me to show up at their parties, i get the narcs attention because i play along but also pull away so now ive taken time out, its god i feel good and i received a invitation to attend the narcs next party in the form of a email meant to look like a general generic email , but i know its nor as its kinda personal in parts like i would love o see you again , but the it reverts back to let us know what we can do to help . its the narc wanting me to show up as ive skipped 3 parties and i never skip more than 1 or 2 in a row.
i wont reply why because im busy with my life and also as long as im interested inthe narc they know they can draw me in , hence the email before the normal marketing email the narc knows the longer im away the less i care, plus i was after their ex not realising it was their ex at the last party , but the narc sabbatge us connecting after, but i did not chase that person after the reached out as i knew the narc would sabbatge it even sleep with that ex i bet to stop us connecting, luckliy for me i wasnt that into them once i knew that they dated anyway.
so now life is bless im focused on me again and it feels amazing but there is still feelings there and thats why i need to stay away. im tired of the nothing its not going anywhere so why try.
Brava!!!You spoke all that with true clarity. Self awareness at its finest. Keep going! Im one year ZERO contact today after he tried to put me on Forensic Files... Do you even wanna still go to any of his parties? Maybe that part of your life has run its course. You're not looking backward anyway.
@@mingo2024 thank you I Live London UK it was hard when i first encounted my first narc person, 3 months the relationship lasted, but i think any longer I would have had mental breakdown, mine was so cruel i felt somthing was off from the first time tslking online as it seemed very intense and needy, but i gave it the benefit of the doubt, I did manage my revenge after the disguard mind and by this time i had figured out what i was dealing with, it must the the Dvne that guides you to the right place to research as i had not heard about this conditon until I started to do reaserch on youtube anf bang there it was right in front of me, every experance i had gone through, i was in shock , but once that Narc came back to hoover i was ready, i took away their job security and i left that narc ringing my phone constantly ! i won i walked away and blocked them and never went back.. i have had 2 other ones try, and i meet another in Decemeber, but by the grace of god i saw the signs, this one knows i know , but because they are so greedy for supply espeacally if your high grade they cannot resist and try to get you. this Narc is a master of deception been at it for years , but I got this ones number pretty early, once you have been with one of these demons you never mistake them for anything else ever again and this Narc knows it. the goal I believe is to have me begging, publicly humiliated, but I will not chase and that's the difference, it is not in me to chase anymore even if i wanted too , because I know it results to nothing but misery, and I'm glad. I know that now. i have the luxuary of knowing and remebering they dont feel and they only cry for what they cannot get. the trick is to love your self selfishly and thats how i conquerd the hoovers and fantasy they create. once you love your self your will not allow disrespect, thsats when i realised I had allowed my family to disrespect me and thats why I was attracting these type of beings.
This was so good!
Thank you
This isn't triangulation but very good information
Thank you🙌🏾💯❤️
Definitely not triangulation lol - but very good info!
U spot on about 35 and up age range
What about 60 yrs old to 80+?
Guess you wouldn't know?
One I know goes for 60 to 83?
What about that?
That is so special.
Damn true!
Good morning to all 🙏✨️✝️
Good morning.
Good morning Queen
Shocking 😮
This is facts
You are right 👍
Deep
FACTS!!
we the victims we cheat on all narcs u just never know u cam blame ur silent treatment and ghosting we do not value u either
So true
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Leon how do you know you wasn’t cheated on
I’m sorry this is one channel that I take very seriously but this is too funny, not “chicken, and Similac milk?
😂😂😂 Omg. However, very informative channel, for those like myself that are dealing with these very similar situation’s.
Just curious,
Since people who experience NPD don't attach well, how does any age group hurt them when they're discarded? Don't they have plenty of low hanging fruit supply? Aren't they constantly seeking supply at all times? Are people who experience NPD ever full enough to not look for new supply?
Leon, were you ever with an overweight woman because you felt you would be the best she could get, and you knew you could get away with more?
Yes, and I did that often. She was also REALLY good for my ego. She spoiled me too!! I started liking her and got scared-most men do that.
@leonrwalkerjr - please do a vlog about this if you can. Also, my narcissist was a cop. So he tricked me because I thought he had morals and stood for something. I was in that 40-year range, and he was just playing. Of all the men, he hurt me the most. I have only been with 1 man before him because I was sheltered and shy. Typical pretty big girl.
@@karen-hernameispoetry6239 I can do that for sure. Seen this a lot too. We are deeply attracted to you all, that’s a fact!!! This was a great question, too.
The narcissist becomes a Professional at the game and has compartmentalize his prey based on promiscuous experiences. It's a self serving game of MANIPULATION and the discard is inevitable. They absolutely know what they are doing as they are not ignorant, just vacant empathetically.
@@MONICA-tl9dj well stated and VERY true💯💯💯💯
I saw your picture on Google of you in the navy...You are a very handsome man,it's just unfortunate that the devil got ahold of you in that way that invited all kinds of demonic spirits into your soul.. But in order for GOD to use you in his KINGDOM you must first REPENT,seek DELIVERANCE from those demonic spirits and follow JESUS..The calling GOD has on your life to GLORIFY his KINGDOM is GREATER then you talking about Narcissism,it's GREATER then this
Thank you for that. Yes, I agree with you 100%! I appreciate this❤️🙏🏾
He is doing "Gods work"... sorry, not sorry, can you please slowly step down off your soapbox.
@letssee6473 Telling us how narcissists operate while still being narcissists, hurting people, isn't doing God's work fool..
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Absolutely true with my ex….
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*_The breakdown of these age brackets & demographics is VITAL Leon_*
Will do a one on one
I do. Please email me if you want to. We can plan from there. Lassen82cmc@yahoo.com
@@leonrwalkerjr thank you
@@leonrwalkerjrYour videos are short and straight to the point EVERY single time !!!!! So happy that I found your channel . May GOD Bless you for your honesty and willingness to enlighten others 🙏
Thank you. I appreciate that. I really try my best to get to the point!
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I think you might confused about what triangulation is..making up your own definitions sir? Checking all the qualifications 🤣
Please explain
He knows what he's talking about.
@sacredflowspace he's not confused bc he Def put it into context & broke it down by the stages of the demographics. By textbook & traditionally speaking from the Narc handbook. It comes in many forms; emotional manipulation; mind games: : for example (g00gled) *TRIANGULATION: when a toxic or manipulative person, often a person with strong narcissistic traits, brings a third person into their relationship in order to remain in control. There will be limited or no communication between the two triangulated individuals except through the manipulator. Igniting insecurities and self-doubt, DEEP IN THE WOUNDS of the Empath (usually known as the victim) in the very TOXIC- UNREQUITED LOVE:: ONE SIDED- NON RECIPROCATED, "UNBALANCED" LOVE. *ONLY ONE PARTY IS THE ***_GIVER_* IN THE RELATIONSHIP, SEEKING VALIDATION AS THE *_"PEOPLE PLEASER"_*