Should I Fight For My Ex?
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- Опубліковано 7 сер 2023
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I just hope one day they can at least realize all the good I brought in her life, that’s LITERALLY all I want, she acts like nothing happened, and expects me to be ok with how she left me
don´t count on it. i had the same hope after my last break up. that was 8 years ago and it never happened. but the best part about it? i don´t care and in a few months/years you won´t too.
i am in a new relationship for 5 years now with a wonderful woman, much better than the previous one. just let the ex go and accept it so you can find a better woman too. just realize that she didn´t want you in her future anymore. why would you want anyone like that?
karma will deal with your ex like it did with mine.
@@weisthor0815 if you don’t mind me asking, how did karma deal with your ex? I’m not trying to wish bad on my ex but she just seems so perfect yk? She’s attractive and is going out all the time with new people etc. while I’m here trying to heal
@@CountOfMonteCristo_ she was cheated on by the guy she was in a relationship with shortly after the break up. and since then she has slept around with probably a dozen guys. and two years after the break up i would have had the chance to at least sleep with her again but i did not even touch her, and there and then she knew she fucked up. i don´t know what she is doing now but i suspect she will end up with a guy she would have rejected a few years ago or as a cat lady. i am sorry for her.
you take your time to heal, that is the right thing to do. she is not doing it, she is "having fun", blocking out the pain.
it will come back to hunt her eventually.
@@weisthor0815 I want to sincerely thank you, it’s been a rough couple months but your word have really made me realize that ya, she’s just blocking out the pain, and that even though it hurts, as long as I take my time to heal, I’ll be ok.
@@CountOfMonteCristo_ you're not alone in this mate. My ex of 3 years monkey branch with her "soulmate" she was waiting 6 years! Even before i was in the picture, these 2 were "friends" and he was married! As soon as he divorce his wife, my ex jump over to him and dump.
She reached out not even 2 months after me going NC cause she was havin trouble with him.... stupid me throught out the 2 months we were in contact, try to convince her to come back with while she was still with him
She dump me again early this month sayin she cant do the sneaky around, hanging out, etc. Fckin hurt me that she chose him over me again. Trust me ur not alone on this and karma will get back to her i hope.
Quality advice as always!
If someone wants out you cannot negotiate. They have made up their mind. It’s crazy to suggest ways of making the relationship better since that’s what you want not them. Say ok grand. I’m
Good with that and walk way. Never reach out again unless they do and move on. Oftentimes they are interested in seeing me one else and you fighting for them repels them.
Thank you so much for sharing this with us on UA-cam ❤🔥from Seoul
My pleasure 😊
Hey Rory! Glad do see you still rocking the channel! Cheers man!
Thank you!! 😁
Another amazing video, Rory! Question-Would my ex’s bff discouraging her from reaching out during N.C affect the process? She’s consulted with her before the breakup & she has been following her advice throughout. Would appreciate some insight
Rory, can you do a video on how to stop wanting an ex back SIMPLY just to reject them? Almost as an ego thing?
Hey Rory, I was only in a short term thing, less than 3 months just. I think she's avoidant and she just got scared but it was abrupt. It's been 5 months, should I reach out as its her birthday next weekend? She claimed to feel the same way about me but thought we were at different life stages. It just feels so unfinished :(
Its weird but, some ppl when you call out a behaviour or pattern ,not in an attacking way but you say what you see, some ppl become more distant
I met my ex again after breakup, took her out for some nice food. Do I keep NC after that?
I begged him a lot that I sounded insane because that block was so triggering and because of the lack of communication he kept saying I want space I love you but am not stable ok I got it but he started sounding mean and saying that am immature and not patient and he doesn’t listen so I kept getting mad and just creating fake account every time to just text him like why ? And he keeps saying you are creepy stop texting just leave me in peace I said ok since ik that he is working on someone’s album and studying at same time I admit that I was kind of annoying but it was unconsciously because my mind kept saying why ? And how anyways he ended up adding that he loves me but he can’t be in a relationship with me and the day after I find he has a spam account with one follower that is another girl and he keeps posting for her I think maybe they are friends with benefits and it disgusting I still love him and waiting for him to come back because we always shared such strong connection and we both were sure about each other and that we made for each other Idk if my words makes sense but I don’t think that our angels crossed for no reason but since I didn’t like the way he treated me and asked me to never come back I just dont care anymore but somewhere he is still there in ma heart and am so sure that the same way he loved me he’s going to regret giving up on our relationship for no reason loyalty is not found easily anywhere and Ama make sure to not let him be sure am staying no matter how bad he treats me because these guys are just weird whenever they make sure you staying they start treating you so bad . ( i know I might sound stupid but ik from an old experience that guys when they treat “ THAT WOMAN “ like shit and realize what they did they might make a comeback I want him to do so .
Mutual friend of my gf, we are currently on a „break“ since 2 months, asked me, if everything is allright between my gf and me, or if he has missed something. He is more friend of my gf then mine. Should i reply or not?
I don’t see an issue telling a friend the situation
@@TheLoveChat thank you for your reply Rory, just one follow up question: as i said my gf wanted to take a break it now has been 2 months, but we still keep contact via snapchat. What is the best way to deal with this situation?
no contact... breaks are just a slow way of fading out and keeping you as a backup plan, don't be a backup and start healing