I'm right there with you! I'm working on it though. This video helps SO much. I have listened to it several times and will continue to listen to it as much as I need to. I am also lucky/blessed to have very supportive friends, one in particular, that reminds me of much of what Stephanie says here. We'll get through this! It takes time.
I understand you completely! I feel the exact same way. I feel so lost right now after nearly 4 intense years of giving everything I have to man with multiple addiction and just incapable of loving anyone😭
Accepting isn’t being okay with something, it’s recognizing that this is what it is. It’s not about agreeing with it or understanding. It’s just taking in the fact that this is life rn.
I don't think the point is for me to win and her (or him) to lose. I don't mind losing to her every single day as long as she is my partner. I don't even get to lose to her and that's ok. I forgive and move on.
Understanding that there are more fish in the sea that are actually higher quality than the last person you met is a good way of recovering from break ups.
One of the biggest things, was when I did or saw something that I would usually rush off to text or tell him about, and I stopped myself. That’s big. You become so used to sharing laughs, and sharing moments, and then you realize that sometimes you just have to appreciate those moments on your own ❤️ Or with other friends and loved ones.
I’m gonna list some powerful and uplifting break up songs 10/10 recommend . 1. B.S - Jhene Aiko ft. HER 2. Speak - Jhene Aiko 3. Define me - Jhene Aiko 4. Lexiis Outro - Kehlani 5. Love myself - Olivia O’brian 6. Best thing I never had - Beyoncé 7. Good As Hell - Lizzo ft. Ariana Grande
So good , thank you 😊 I'm at the end of the break up process, it's been 1 year and 6 months . And I let myself feel everything so fully. I'm at the point of now building up my belief & knowing that what u truly want is out there. I've done the work. I've cried my tears I've punched the pillows many many times ❤ Whoever is going through it, keep going 💪 I promise you it's gonna be worth it. Let your tears water your growth
I'm struggling being alone and feeling alone all the time after the breakup. I know it's something i have to go thru, but i am so sad and lonely and depressed. Everyone walks around me, i feel like i do not exist anymore
hang in there... this is normal. try a mantra before you go to sleep... "I did my best. I'm in a better position now".. keep it on repeat until you fall asleep...it's a game changer
This is so great and what I am finally realizing after 54 years and 2 broken relationships as well as the ones with my family of origin where all this stuff began. Cry at times but realizing the importance of self, boundaries and self worth. Thanks
If something causes pain it is not love is my new motto in life. Practising self love and care. Stand up and stay calm in difficult conversations with abusive partners. I forgive myself and him.
Hello I got my relationship fixed and my ex is back to me and we are living happily like never before I got help from a powerful spiritualist and his spells works effectively just as you want it.
These videos have saved my sanity! Thank you so much. During covid I haven't been able to see my therapist in person so being able to watch these videos really help me in therapy. I am going through a separation with someone I really loved and they hurt me badly. We have a beautiful baby so I have to deal with him still. These videos have really helped me! 💝
Thank you for this video, it’s been a hard 3 weeks for me since the break up, but I have hope that I will get through this hardship and be able to heal and find a man who can be respectful and have integrity in a relationship❤️
@whatsapphim8499 I’m talking with a therapist who has been helping me understand why I was attracted to someone, who definitely shouldn’t of continued in my life. I was in love with his potential, and even though he was very disrespectful as has little integrity, I kept returning to the relationship, hoping he would change. But I’m realizing through therapy he can’t change, he’s not at a level of understanding his faults and actions. He may never, and that’s on him not me. I’m moving through it, and talking to other men, have a weekend date the end of the month, so yea I’m moving on and much happier now.
Oh my gosh, you are such a cheerleader! You are singing my song! This so huge! What an epiphany! I am so encouraged to be me and learn to love myself so I can love others and being successful. I do deserve it and I am worthy. That relationship does exist! Allow myself to experience all the feelings including grief. Thank you Stephanie, this is a life changer for me. I am so grateful. Thank you God for the revelations.
ashley ware same here 💕🙏 some days I feel amazing, some days I’m crying hard. Lots of disappointment surrounding him and what happened. “We have to accept that things are changing...”
Rome wasn't built in a day. You're rebuilding yourself, so it'll take time to do that as well sweetie. You'll be bigger and badder ass than ever. It's #BuildABitch time!
Stephanie, Thank you for this message. You made me realize what was preventing me from moving on because of a recent breakup. Everything you said hit me hard because it was everything I was feeling and wondering about. I'm going to take some time to myself tonight for some reflective thinking. I can forgive my ex, myself, and move forward after this.
This is such a great message, and so easy to understand intellectually. But very hard to implement emotionally. The sense of injustice seems so strong even though I'm a year into this. And three kids that were so young. It's a very hard situation to accept and internally forgive.
This talk is very deep and i actually felt that it was very useful. You only grow through pain as you said and you need to know how to process your negative emotions and not suppress it and be kind to yourself. The fact that some people in your life will hurt you and that will awakens you is so true
Accept who they are & pay attention to the red flags y | build your self up with self-love | move on quickly & let go of controlling your future - life is good again 🤟🏽
Thank you for sharing this video. Your ideas make sense. Sometimes I feel like I must be okay now but it is not how it works. I figured out I feel relaxed when I let myself feel the feeling. It can be longing, anger, or anything both positive and negative. Additionally, I am aware that I will be remembering some instances from this relationship all my life. There is nothing like getting rid of it. Instead, making peace with them, accepting failures, trying to learn some lessons makes me feel relaxed. There are many things that I am disappointed of my ex-partner but I see that there are dozens of things that I could have acted differently too. I messed up in many points too. It does not mean I had a chance to save the relationship. It means from now on I can take the responsibilities to my hand instead of being codependent. Anyways, now instead of holding a grudge, I am re-learning to be self-reliant. I am sure that after that it does not matter if I stay single, get back to my ex, or start to date someone new. Surely, it will be a better experience as long as I take care of myself and share the rest of it with someone who has similar values and expectations.
I can do the forgiveness in my head, but the acceptance and moving on I'm struggling with, even though I know it's not good for me to stay in this relationship.
I just want to say you are really a blessing. And I appreciate your kind heart and tone. It helps when you're going through to have a kind voice to get advice from. Thanks and God bless you
Just a fantatic, on-point video again. True forgiveness doesn't come easily to most of us and it does require a lot of inner work that can be difficult and painful, but I'd far rather that than to be mired in negativity for the rest of my life; when people are especially resistant, they don't want to hear that forgiveness is something you do for yourself, first and foremost, but it really *is*.
2:50 why is it so difficult? I believe we push to see and believe what we want. Even when it’s clear. We have to let go, even when still in love and completely detach.
I forgive him because I know he loved me the best way he knew how. When I learn’t how to 💖 myself first, I was finally able to become unstuck, move on & let him go with ❤️ and ☮️. 🙏 Stephanie- you have taught me so much!
Very true. It's also valid that sometimes people can become, not only emotionally riveted to a person or situation, but economically stuck as well. Especially married couples with children. When it comes to nurturing a family, individual goals can often get lost in the fray, superceded by what's in the best interest of the whole, particularly where children are concerned. Accounts merge. Goals get postponed, even forfeited. Assets become communal and you really begin to lose autonomy, over time. This is amplified for families with one breadwinner and one parent who stays home. The domestic parent can begin to feel weakened by their situation and grow stagnant (another noteable lack). In those unique situations, I think many times, folks prefer to move on (even though it's hard) but, financially, it may not be feasible. In those cases, I think the stuckness becomes a kind of comfortable complacency.
I love your videos. Unfortunately i was someone who fell into the trap of not being able to move on for long. Until i lastly realized that they are living happily their lives and that i don't deserve to be dreading over them but, I deserve a loving and a happy life with someone else as well and, that this person didn't know me well to appreciate me anyway because it was their problem not mine. I'm still single but I'm much happier clean minded now.
I absolutely NEEDED THIS ONE TODAY !! Thank U!! I don’t feel I’m not forgiving my abusive X. Listening to this is helping me understand that I NEED to accept him for who he really is & believing I deserve to be loved. And that I’m not being selfish, I did the best I could & learning to get ride of my guilt, to self love & not feeling guilty in doing so. This is REALLY hard when I have 4 kids🥴
Stephanie, I love your videos. You speak so much truth and have helped me with a previous breakup! Happy to say that with your help I healed myself and moved on from a painful breakup in 6 mos
Your so good, your advice is so helpful. Their are so many people on UA-cam offering advice, and I have unsubscribe too so many after a couple of videos, but you always give me real clear advice. Thank you so much.
I can't say I've ever really struggled with a break up, I think I've just had trouble in the past, escaping bad situations. You almost feel dragged into helping certain people that are not strong enough to take care of themselves as much as they were and it makes me feel guilty, knowing I can't just pick up and leave like everyone else. When you get stuck, and somebody isn't feeling well anymore, it's hard to focus at times, but the good thing about this person, is that he finally came to terms with how I felt, and it's actually been more peaceful and easier for me to study, knowing that he's stepped back and just did his own thing and just by me being honest he's actually calmed down a little bit, and we've some how managed to remain friends, which is odd, but it does happen.
You may have already noticed this but coaching is misspelled in the website URL in your graphic. I really appreciate your videos - especially this one. I've been in therapy for depression, anxiety, and OCD for about 6 months. I've struggled with these since I was a child and I'm just now - at 48 years old - dealing with them. As I unravel all the damage over the years, I've had to take a very hard look at the people in my life and try to determine if they're good for me or if I need to move on from them. Your message is exactly what I need. Thank you!
It’s really interesting to me that there are men on the whole red pill MGTOW thing (which I’m not a fan of overall) that are appreciating some of your videos. It gives me hope that the anonymity of the internet will ultimately help humans relate and connect to each other in more positive ways, rather than just encourage disconnection and give shelter for dark corners of Internet hate, resentment, and bias confirmation (like we see with some incel communities). I think especially for Americans under 30, especially men but women too, there’s an epidemic of loneliness, isolation, negativity. I think it’s why suicide rates have gone up so much and contributed to the opioid epidemic. I’m happy to see positive stuff like this making it to new audiences, this isn’t vacuous positive thinking or evolutionary pseudo science (alpha/beta BS etc) it’s actually useful and true. Thank you 🙏
Thank you for you sincere words. I can tell that you can relate to words you say. You helped me realize that "it had nothing to do with me" on a personal level. At least I hope. But I feel it is right. Please know that your video made a difference for me. Thank you
Wow! This helped so much!!! The way you speak is so clear and helpful, and everything you say helps so much!!! I’m going to make sure to watch all of your videos and check out your website!!! Thank you!!
Thanks for another great video! I’ve watched so many great videos from many channels on the topics of personal relationships. I am feeling very empowered and truly believe there are amazing people out there that will appreciate me as a life time partner. Thank you Stephanie! Your words are spot on.
there someone who can help you get your ex back begging you for a second chance, his name is Dr Steve, he also helped me before and my ex came back to me
Make me so happy whenever your video comes on, can you make a video on making "space" in your life by gettin rid of clutter/toxic people/relationships?. I would love to put that in my playlist💖
LET GO OF Negative STORY.. I Will not let my Energy go to that person.. 🤲. YES I AM SICK OF TELLING THE STORY....♥️🙏 Dont play the blame game to ourselves.. The part were you say sometimes they have to hurt us so we can awaken OMG. This hit me so hard I am dealing with a tremendous heartbreak. 💔. I am dealing with it. Just found your channel its helping me. Thank you God bless.
I think the reason why it's so hard to leave , from experience is my abuser also gave me alot of love at the beginning which I fell in love with, once they show you the true colours you are constantly finding that person who you met at the beginning hence why I kept forgiving ... But you will only find that person for a few days and you are back in the horrible cycle x that's my experience x
Hello I got my relationship fixed and my ex is back to me and we are living happily like never before I got help from a powerful spiritualist and his spells works effectively just as you want it.
Thank you so much for this video, Stephanie. You describe exactly what I am going through. I hope I will make it. It just hurts so much... I am trying to let him go....but I am afraid of letting the hope go.
I’m on the boat. I want to let go but I still have hope that he can see how great we can be together and they can make it work if we both really try. My problem is that he don’t see that and doesn’t want to try now. It’s so hard.
I have Come to the conclusion that The Creator is handling it for me, guiding me, helping me to overcome it. . Knowing, And discovering about Narcissim is itself a Great Healer. Thank You 🌹🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕
I cannot sign off on the commonly accepted notion that “forgiveness is for one’s self regardless of whether the wrongdoer repents.” Forgiving a non-repentent person only serves to reinforce the wrongdoer’s willingness to continue to engage in bad conduct towards you and others. Thus, forgiving without repentence is immoral and selfish.
Forgive ourselves for not knowing what I know now. That hit home.
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I can't.
Hardest thing for me. Feel so ashamed.
It’s so hard to accept that he’s not the man I thought he was. So disappointed. Still grieving 😭💔
I know.. it is disappointing but there is someone amazing out there!! 💜
I'm right there with you! I'm working on it though. This video helps SO much. I have listened to it several times and will continue to listen to it as much as I need to. I am also lucky/blessed to have very supportive friends, one in particular, that reminds me of much of what Stephanie says here. We'll get through this! It takes time.
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I understand you completely! I feel the exact same way. I feel so lost right now after nearly 4 intense years of giving everything I have to man with multiple addiction and just incapable of loving anyone😭
@@jonsmith8083 You're funny. That's so out of the blue!
Accepting isn’t being okay with something, it’s recognizing that this is what it is. It’s not about agreeing with it or understanding. It’s just taking in the fact that this is life rn.
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I have listened to this 3 times in a row. Such a powerful video. If you don't forgive and move on then they have won.
I don't think the point is for me to win and her (or him) to lose. I don't mind losing to her every single day as long as she is my partner. I don't even get to lose to her and that's ok. I forgive and move on.
Understanding that there are more fish in the sea that are actually higher quality than the last person you met is a good way of recovering from break ups.
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One of the biggest things, was when I did or saw something that I would usually rush off to text or tell him about, and I stopped myself. That’s big. You become so used to sharing laughs, and sharing moments, and then you realize that sometimes you just have to appreciate those moments on your own ❤️ Or with other friends and loved ones.
The changed version of them is what I’m grieving for sure 😊❤ Thank you. 🙏🏽
Thanks!
I’m gonna list some powerful and uplifting break up songs 10/10 recommend . 1. B.S - Jhene Aiko ft. HER 2. Speak - Jhene Aiko 3. Define me - Jhene Aiko 4. Lexiis Outro - Kehlani 5. Love myself - Olivia O’brian 6. Best thing I never had - Beyoncé 7. Good As Hell - Lizzo ft. Ariana Grande
Thank u. @kristina Making sure I have these in my itunes.
So good , thank you 😊 I'm at the end of the break up process, it's been 1 year and 6 months . And I let myself feel everything so fully. I'm at the point of now building up my belief & knowing that what u truly want is out there.
I've done the work.
I've cried my tears
I've punched the pillows many many times
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Whoever is going through it, keep going 💪 I promise you it's gonna be worth it.
Let your tears water your growth
You are so good at what you do. Whatever you talk about ALWAYS talks to me and I don't feel judged but always eager to find healing! 🌸❤
I'm struggling being alone and feeling alone all the time after the breakup. I know it's something i have to go thru, but i am so sad and lonely and depressed. Everyone walks around me, i feel like i do not exist anymore
just try to be strong and know that this is normal you are 100% good on your own u will find somebody that you truelly deserve
Same rn
You need to try and spend time with friends or go to things where you can atleast be social with others but it'll happen once you're ready.
hang in there... this is normal. try a mantra before you go to sleep... "I did my best. I'm in a better position now".. keep it on repeat until you fall asleep...it's a game changer
@@RedRooster123 Wow. Needed this. Thank u!!!🙏🏽💙
This is spot on, Stephanie. Tears in my eyes. Thank you so much!
People who has parents with the same issues, it’s hard for them to see it’s not normal.
We gotta let them keep thinkn that...not your problem. Theres
Every episode, new or old, resonates with me. It's like you're talking directly to me. You'll never know how much you have helped me heal.
This is so great and what I am finally realizing after 54 years and 2 broken relationships as well as the ones with my family of origin where all this stuff began. Cry at times but realizing the importance of self, boundaries and self worth. Thanks
If something causes pain it is not love is my new motto in life. Practising self love and care. Stand up and stay calm in difficult conversations with abusive partners. I forgive myself and him.
Hello I got my relationship fixed and my ex is back to me and we are living happily like never before I got help from a powerful spiritualist and his spells works effectively just as you want it.
WhstApp him.
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“Nothing can grow without tears”
These videos have saved my sanity! Thank you so much. During covid I haven't been able to see my therapist in person so being able to watch these videos really help me in therapy. I am going through a separation with someone I really loved and they hurt me badly. We have a beautiful baby so I have to deal with him still. These videos have really helped me! 💝
Thank you for this video, it’s been a hard 3 weeks for me since the break up, but I have hope that I will get through this hardship and be able to heal and find a man who can be respectful and have integrity in a relationship❤️
@whatsapphim8499 I’m talking with a therapist who has been helping me understand why I was attracted to someone, who definitely shouldn’t of continued in my life. I was in love with his potential, and even though he was very disrespectful as has little integrity, I kept returning to the relationship, hoping he would change. But I’m realizing through therapy he can’t change, he’s not at a level of understanding his faults and actions. He may never, and that’s on him not me. I’m moving through it, and talking to other men, have a weekend date the end of the month, so yea I’m moving on and much happier now.
Pain is a great motivator
I’m finally accepting this phase of letting go. Ready to move on after being stuck for awhile.
Oh my gosh, you are such a cheerleader! You are singing my song! This so huge! What an epiphany! I am so encouraged to be me and learn to love myself so I can love others and being successful. I do deserve it and I am worthy. That relationship does exist! Allow myself to experience all the feelings including grief. Thank you Stephanie, this is a life changer for me. I am so grateful. Thank you God for the revelations.
This is what I’m going through right now. Going through the grieving process of a breakup that happened almost 2 months ago.
Me too girl. Im almost 2months in & its hard but me walking away was better than staying😞
ashley ware same here 💕🙏 some days I feel amazing, some days I’m crying hard. Lots of disappointment surrounding him and what happened. “We have to accept that things are changing...”
Yea the first two weeks were the hardest. It has been a rollercoaster of emotions for me. Acceptance and forgiveness is sooo hard.
Rome wasn't built in a day. You're rebuilding yourself, so it'll take time to do that as well sweetie. You'll be bigger and badder ass than ever. It's #BuildABitch time!
Karina Passi thank you sooo much for your kind words!!
This woman is so brilliant and giving of her wisdom. I"m so grateful for her.
Stephanie,
Thank you for this message. You made me realize what was preventing me from moving on because of a recent breakup. Everything you said hit me hard because it was everything I was feeling and wondering about. I'm going to take some time to myself tonight for some reflective thinking. I can forgive my ex, myself, and move forward after this.
This is such a great message, and so easy to understand intellectually. But very hard to implement emotionally. The sense of injustice seems so strong even though I'm a year into this. And three kids that were so young. It's a very hard situation to accept and internally forgive.
It’s the way he left that hurts. I can’t get past it. I know he wasn’t who I wanted to be with but the hurt won’t go away.
This talk is very deep and i actually felt that it was very useful. You only grow through pain as you said and you need to know how to process your negative emotions and not suppress it and be kind to yourself. The fact that some people in your life will hurt you and that will awakens you is so true
She ripped my heart out but I spent 10 years with her. It's so hard to let go, to move on.
Accept who they are & pay attention to the red flags y | build your self up with self-love | move on quickly & let go of controlling your future - life is good again 🤟🏽
Growth comes from pain squeeze out every lesson. Thank you Stephanie ❤️
Thank you for sharing this video. Your ideas make sense. Sometimes I feel like I must be okay now but it is not how it works. I figured out I feel relaxed when I let myself feel the feeling. It can be longing, anger, or anything both positive and negative. Additionally, I am aware that I will be remembering some instances from this relationship all my life. There is nothing like getting rid of it.
Instead, making peace with them, accepting failures, trying to learn some lessons makes me feel relaxed. There are many things that I am disappointed of my ex-partner but I see that there are dozens of things that I could have acted differently too. I messed up in many points too. It does not mean I had a chance to save the relationship. It means from now on I can take the responsibilities to my hand instead of being codependent.
Anyways, now instead of holding a grudge, I am re-learning to be self-reliant. I am sure that after that it does not matter if I stay single, get back to my ex, or start to date someone new. Surely, it will be a better experience as long as I take care of myself and share the rest of it with someone who has similar values and expectations.
This, right here, is exactly what I needed to hear at this point in my journey. Thank you for all that you do.
Thank you, I so needed to hear this and am making the final break after 26 years with a borderline narcissist💜
31 years here. It’s so hard when everything’s changed even when the change was needed.
Man this video came right on time!! I really needed to hear this! I’m going through this right now!
I can do the forgiveness in my head, but the acceptance and moving on I'm struggling with, even though I know it's not good for me to stay in this relationship.
I just want to say you are really a blessing. And I appreciate your kind heart and tone. It helps when you're going through to have a kind voice to get advice from. Thanks and God bless you
I've looped many of Stephanie's talks, this one in particular! Thank you Stephanie Lyn!
This is my 1st listen but am saving cuz will definitely b doing the same. @deborahmowatt
Just a fantatic, on-point video again. True forgiveness doesn't come easily to most of us and it does require a lot of inner work that can be difficult and painful, but I'd far rather that than to be mired in negativity for the rest of my life; when people are especially resistant, they don't want to hear that forgiveness is something you do for yourself, first and foremost, but it really *is*.
2:50 why is it so difficult? I believe we push to see and believe what we want. Even when it’s clear. We have to let go, even when still in love and completely detach.
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Yes!
So True 👍
The art of detachment
I found this UA-cam channel at the perfect time!!!
Your videos are so very helpful get me through a horrible breakup. Thank you.
You just saved my life. God bless you
I forgive him because I know he loved me the best way he knew how. When I learn’t how to 💖 myself first, I was finally able to become unstuck, move on & let him go with ❤️ and ☮️. 🙏 Stephanie- you have taught me so much!
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Very true. It's also valid that sometimes people can become, not only emotionally riveted to a person or situation, but economically stuck as well. Especially married couples with children. When it comes to nurturing a family, individual goals can often get lost in the fray, superceded by what's in the best interest of the whole, particularly where children are concerned. Accounts merge. Goals get postponed, even forfeited. Assets become communal and you really begin to lose autonomy, over time. This is amplified for families with one breadwinner and one parent who stays home. The domestic parent can begin to feel weakened by their situation and grow stagnant (another noteable lack). In those unique situations, I think many times, folks prefer to move on (even though it's hard) but, financially, it may not be feasible. In those cases, I think the stuckness becomes a kind of comfortable complacency.
I love your videos. Unfortunately i was someone who fell into the trap of not being able to move on for long. Until i lastly realized that they are living happily their lives and that i don't deserve to be dreading over them but, I deserve a loving and a happy life with someone else as well and, that this person didn't know me well to appreciate me anyway because it was their problem not mine. I'm still single but I'm much happier clean minded now.
I absolutely NEEDED THIS ONE TODAY !! Thank U!! I don’t feel I’m not forgiving my abusive X. Listening to this is helping me understand that I NEED to accept him for who he really is & believing I deserve to be loved. And that I’m not being selfish, I did the best I could & learning to get ride of my guilt, to self love & not feeling guilty in doing so. This is REALLY hard when I have 4 kids🥴
Thank you for this strong message. Working on self is eye opening with regard to painful situations!
Really helpful and clear. Thank you!
Tough but true, this helped , realizing I was with a narcissist has been paramount! I'm glad I wouldn't accept the behavior
Stephanie, I love your videos. You speak so much truth and have helped me with a previous breakup! Happy to say that with your help I healed myself and moved on from a painful breakup in 6 mos
Gosh!! Lightbulb went off with your video for me!!
If it doesn't hurt a little..it's probably not the truth. Thank you for this Coach Stephanie.💙 #TruthHurts
This is an incredible message!! Thank you
I have forgiven them and now i am working on forgetting them , its the only way to recover
Your so good, your advice is so helpful. Their are so many people on UA-cam offering advice, and I have unsubscribe too so many after a couple of videos, but you always give me real clear advice. Thank you so much.
I can't say I've ever really struggled with a break up, I think I've just had trouble in the past, escaping bad situations. You almost feel dragged into helping certain people that are not strong enough to take care of themselves as much as they were and it makes me feel guilty, knowing I can't just pick up and leave like everyone else. When you get stuck, and somebody isn't feeling well anymore, it's hard to focus at times, but the good thing about this person, is that he finally came to terms with how I felt, and it's actually been more peaceful and easier for me to study, knowing that he's stepped back and just did his own thing and just by me being honest he's actually calmed down a little bit, and we've some how managed to remain friends, which is odd, but it does happen.
You may have already noticed this but coaching is misspelled in the website URL in your graphic.
I really appreciate your videos - especially this one. I've been in therapy for depression, anxiety, and OCD for about 6 months. I've struggled with these since I was a child and I'm just now - at 48 years old - dealing with them. As I unravel all the damage over the years, I've had to take a very hard look at the people in my life and try to determine if they're good for me or if I need to move on from them. Your message is exactly what I need. Thank you!
I love this!!✨💕 Thank you For this long & detailed podcast
The video that has the greatest impact ever on me
One of my favorite teachers, thank you.
Such a healing message , it's really helps me . thank you so much ❤️
I needed this so much. Thank you so, so much.
Accepting the bitter truth is painful but necessary to let go
Another excellent lesson. Well done! 👍
It’s the ego man the ego is something else I rock with this video
Being concerned about financial stability as a senior citizen is keeping me stuck in a less than satisfactory marriage.
This is a fantastic speech
Thank you
This really helps me.
your very wise...................thank you
Thank you for all this knowledge and information
It’s really interesting to me that there are men on the whole red pill MGTOW thing (which I’m not a fan of overall) that are appreciating some of your videos. It gives me hope that the anonymity of the internet will ultimately help humans relate and connect to each other in more positive ways, rather than just encourage disconnection and give shelter for dark corners of Internet hate, resentment, and bias confirmation (like we see with some incel communities). I think especially for Americans under 30, especially men but women too, there’s an epidemic of loneliness, isolation, negativity. I think it’s why suicide rates have gone up so much and contributed to the opioid epidemic. I’m happy to see positive stuff like this making it to new audiences, this isn’t vacuous positive thinking or evolutionary pseudo science (alpha/beta BS etc) it’s actually useful and true. Thank you 🙏
Brilliant and thank you. This coaching has helped me heal.
I’m so glad 🙌
This information has been so helpful, thank you so much.
Thank you for you sincere words. I can tell that you can relate to words you say.
You helped me realize that "it had nothing to do with me" on a personal level. At least I hope. But I feel it is right. Please know that your video made a difference for me. Thank you
amazingly eye-opening along with having Blind Faith and going for it. Thank you
A fantastic, affirming, and personally informative video.
Wow! This helped so much!!! The way you speak is so clear and helpful, and everything you say helps so much!!! I’m going to make sure to watch all of your videos and check out your website!!! Thank you!!
I needed this. ❤️
This came at the right time for me x
Thanks for another great video! I’ve watched so many great videos from many channels on the topics of personal relationships. I am feeling very empowered and truly believe there are amazing people out there that will appreciate me as a life time partner. Thank you Stephanie! Your words are spot on.
Such a great video! Thanks a lot dear Stephanie!! Helped me so much! 💟😘
solid talk
Thank you so much for this.
Its super cute the way she says "and". And fantastic content!
Thanks a lot you really help me a lot with your worthy coaching..
Love this one.. Gonnabsave this and thank u steph.
Thank you so much..I needed this to hear again and again
Thank you, this has helped me alot.
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Make me so happy whenever your video comes on, can you make a video on making "space" in your life by gettin rid of clutter/toxic people/relationships?. I would love to put that in my playlist💖
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LET GO OF Negative STORY.. I Will not let my Energy go to that person.. 🤲. YES I AM SICK OF TELLING THE STORY....♥️🙏 Dont play the blame game to ourselves.. The part were you say sometimes they have to hurt us so we can awaken OMG. This hit me so hard I am dealing with a tremendous heartbreak. 💔. I am dealing with it. Just found your channel its helping me. Thank you God bless.
Same here 🙏🏽
Thanks ma’am
That was beautiful! Thank you
I think the reason why it's so hard to leave , from experience is my abuser also gave me alot of love at the beginning which I fell in love with, once they show you the true colours you are constantly finding that person who you met at the beginning hence why I kept forgiving ... But you will only find that person for a few days and you are back in the horrible cycle x that's my experience x
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Thank you so much for this video, Stephanie.
You describe exactly what I am going through. I hope I will make it.
It just hurts so much... I am trying to let him go....but
I am afraid of letting the hope go.
The hope or them returning?
I’m on the boat. I want to let go but I still have hope that he can see how great we can be together and they can make it work if we both really try. My problem is that he don’t see that and doesn’t want to try now. It’s so hard.
This is GOLD
I have Come to the conclusion that The Creator is handling it for me, guiding me, helping me to overcome it. .
Knowing, And discovering about Narcissim is itself a Great Healer.
Thank You 🌹🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕
I cannot sign off on the commonly accepted notion that “forgiveness is for one’s self regardless of whether the wrongdoer repents.” Forgiving a non-repentent person only serves to reinforce the wrongdoer’s willingness to continue to engage in bad conduct towards you and others. Thus, forgiving without repentence is immoral and selfish.