I Know Why You Always Attract Narcissists: If You See This Video, You Were guided to hear this

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  • I Know Why You Always Attract Narcissists: If You See This Video, You Were guided to hear this
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  • @thenanajourney
    @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому +10

    Hey ladies please just hit the subscribe button as it helps the channel grow and the nana journey community here so more women can find us and feel less alone in their journeys. Please comment your thoughts and journeys as i love to see them and I'm sure other women would love to hear them too! never alone here :)

    • @ligeiarumay3775
      @ligeiarumay3775 2 місяці тому +1

      The best narsasist video that I have seen to realy helps the victim.
      And I have sees a lot.
      Wonderful video.

  • @IslaBonita007
    @IslaBonita007 2 місяці тому +11

    "Sometimes you can't even see your own greatness, but someone else can. They want to take that away from you, the envy is too much" That was powerful.

  • @pemmylewis2861
    @pemmylewis2861 8 місяців тому +14

    How many people you will heal with this channel! Congratulations with it!❤

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому +4

      Thank you so much that is the goal hopefully even if one person heals something from my journeys I'm happy! ❤ Thank you

  • @monicastewart337
    @monicastewart337 8 місяців тому +10

    Thank you so much it was very calming and relaxing listening to you i can tell you are very wise. I needed to hear this thank you for your wonderful advice it was much needed 💯💯💯

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much! this means alot to me and i'm glad you got something out of it :) Thank you

  • @EmpressJess86
    @EmpressJess86 8 місяців тому +13

    Envy, is the weakest of the seven deadly sins🤔🙏🏼

  • @lesliethurston2151
    @lesliethurston2151 8 місяців тому +11

    You nailed it. Emphasis on their thanklessness. Enough is never enough. Family is perhaps the most damaging.

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому +2

      Thank you and i'm glad you could can see that i appreciate that! I agree family is very damaging but we got this!

  • @MarshaFord-v6o
    @MarshaFord-v6o 8 місяців тому +9

    Facts just spent the last 20urs with that demon. I'm grateful to The Most High for knowing my heart and reminded me who I am❤. Took my power back and going for my dreams and my destiny ❤
    Once you know you got to 🚶‍♀️

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for sharing! I'm glad your taking your power back and on the path to healing proud of you! ❤

  • @florencemaybeasmr
    @florencemaybeasmr 8 місяців тому +13

    I am narcissists favourite victim. My first one was one of my parents so I had narcissistic abuse for my entire life. Once I managed to run away from home, I attracted a man who made me miserable. Recently I became friend with another girl who made my mental health miserable again and I had the courage (after over a year of abuse from her that made me start to lose hair and have panic attacks) to tell her I didn’t want to be friends because I never liked how she made me feel. But to this day ( a few months that I don’t speak to her) I still carry a huge trauma. I cry randomly, I think of the whys, I wonder if I will ever find someone with a genuine and pure heart. Sometimes I’m even scared I picked up too much from those people because all my life I have put up with them… I’m terrified that I could now have narcissistic traits. Although I try my best to educate myself and see through this so to understand if I’m having bad behaviours. I think I need therapy really bad but I can’t afford it. I cry very often… some days I don’t want to leave my house. Thank you for this video by the way🤕😪

    • @florencemaybeasmr
      @florencemaybeasmr 8 місяців тому +1

      Is there a group where we can share experiences and heal together in the uk? I feel like I need to talk about it with people who went through it. When I try to explain my feelings to my friends they just can’t understand how bad it is. If we want to create a group of support, I’m in London and happy organise it💙

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому +2

      I can deeply understand this experience first hand, as I too have a parent who has caused me similar struggles throughout my life. It wasn’t until I matured that I fully understood the impact they had on my life, and the delay it caused in my life and sometimes why i feel behind in life. It’s frustrating to look back, but it’s important to remember that even our parents have their own healing to do, which is often beyond our ability to help.I’ve chosen to cut off contact with one of my parents, and it’s been years now. Yes, there’s a grieving process involved, but remember that you’re choosing yourself, and trust me, you’re making the right decision. People who haven’t experienced a narcissistic parent may not fully comprehend the mental stress it can cause in your life. But anyone who has a narcissistic parent and is still persevering is incredibly strong. You’ve got this. Maintain the no-contact rule and keep focusing on yourself. You’re not alone in this journey.I plan to make a video about maintaining no contact soon. I also have plans for a group where we can come together. I’m waiting for more women to join us first, but please stick around. This group is definitely something I would like you to be a part of in the future.Thank you for sharing your story. You’re doing great, and I’m proud of you! Keep going, you’ve got this!

  • @sffrg
    @sffrg 8 місяців тому +38

    im a model and college graduate, when im kind they use me- when im more “mysterious” they use me. never had a boyfriend before but everyone cant believe im even single. and the thing is its not like im going for aholes, they are SO “nice” in the beginning- dates, buying me things, etc. then it always switches like clockwork after a couple weeks

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому +11

      Being a model who is both attractive and intelligent, you’ll find many people desiring your company. They seek your beauty and intellect for their own validation and to enhance their perceived success. However, navigating the world as a beautiful woman isn’t as straightforward and easy as it seems you have to be wary of peoples intentions .I’m glad you’re beginning to recognise certain patterns. It seems like you’re experiencing ‘love bombing’,. But there are other signs to watch out for, which I’ll cover in an upcoming video. The sudden change in behavior, or ‘switch up’, is indeed very real. Girl set your boundaries strong and early on, maintain them, and not allow anyone to alter them. Avoid becoming dependent on these men. I’ll create more videos on this topic. Remember, never let anyone belittle your beauty or intelligence. Thank you for sharing your experience, and I hope you stay in this community here!

    • @sffrg
      @sffrg 8 місяців тому +4

      @@thenanajourneythank you so much. coming from an abusive, narcissistic home where i wasn’t ever allowed to say “no,” speak at times, and was belittled- setting boundaries is challenging at times, and my naivety comes out because i know that im a beautiful, lovable person so i don’t understand or expect it when guys just “throw me to the curb.” it hurts but i am glad that i am learning these lessons and learning more about myself on the way, especially while im still young. i loved this video and subscribed!

    • @EmpressJess86
      @EmpressJess86 8 місяців тому +5

      Stay smart. Stay strong. Keep a keen eye. And keep your crown held high🫶🏻🩵 13:23

  • @bluediamond1343
    @bluediamond1343 8 місяців тому +7

    I been there.
    Abused by NARCISSIST physically,
    emotionally mentally and financially, big big time.😢
    Thank you,
    Outstanding content ❤

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому +1

      I appreciate your openness in sharing your experience. I can relate to the difficulty of growing up with a narcissistic parent; it’s indeed a draining experience. Please remember, you are strong and resilient. I sincerely hope that you’ve managed to find a way to distance yourself from this narcissistic person! Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @Somebodysomewheresometime
    @Somebodysomewheresometime 8 місяців тому +5

    The new definition for narcissist should be:
    Demon in human skin. Energy vampire. Soul eater. Master manipulator. God of charisma. Love bombing con artists

  • @shirleydaniels9310
    @shirleydaniels9310 8 місяців тому +10

    yes choose u love u more always

  • @pemmylewis2861
    @pemmylewis2861 8 місяців тому +5

    Awesome content! Awed by it for sure! The truth you give breaks the trauma bond drastically!

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому +1

      Thanks Pemmy appreciate you always commenting and supporting my content it means alot to me! ❤

  • @fatumamunyakazi841
    @fatumamunyakazi841 8 місяців тому +7

    There are also female Narcissist can you talk about topic one time

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому +4

      Yes I will make a video on this thanks for the suggestion :)

  • @lauracatherine9925
    @lauracatherine9925 8 місяців тому +5

    I wish I could hug you. This video has helped me understand i could never fix him and had it continued i would've been dragged down to hell

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому

      Thank you I will take a hug! Thank you for sharing your journey and yes I truly believe you can never fix people with narcissistic traits they have to go on a deep discovery and your right the quicker you leave the quicker you can get back to yourself! don't let them drag you down with them! :) ❤

    • @lauracatherine9925
      @lauracatherine9925 8 місяців тому

      @@thenanajourney He broke up with me for another woman, moved her into our apt. Forcing me to move back in with my parents a few weeks ago and i was so devastated. He kept complaining to me about her, and the more i wanted closure the more hurt i got. So i decided to just stop texting him or responding in anyway. Then i came across your video last night and i realized i was dealing with a narcissist that i could never fix. That girl did me a favor, one that i would never do for myself. I am loyal to a fault and would never have willingly left that relationship. Thank you again for this video and taking the time to respond.

  • @willowclay5406
    @willowclay5406 8 місяців тому +5

    I put them On blast! NARC ALERT! NARC ALERT! THEY RUN!

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому

      Yes i'm glad you have found this alert and the signs to trigger you to notice this early on :)

  • @laisgp1261
    @laisgp1261 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you, Nana. I'm also 35 and also a daughter of a narcissistic mom. I know first hand how hard it is and I appreciate you sharing your journey with us. 💖Sending you love from Brazil

  • @ND-or5so
    @ND-or5so 8 місяців тому +3

    Nana, I know I keep commenting because I want to show my appreciation and agreeing with what you have said. Sounds like my story and all the things I've noticed about being with the passive-aggressive covert narcissistic husband. I found you to be very unique. The flow of your meaningful help to us really resignated. As I'm boarderline ADHD. I see your devotion to help is very deep, so keep it going. I'm glad I ran across your video. Thank you and take care.
    N D from CT.

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому

      Thank you so much! you know i promised myself when i distanced myself from the narcissistic person and lived by myself where i had the environment and peace to make videos I promised to talk about this as I have tried to understand this for many years and try to educate myself as much as i could because of how much it's affected my journey so your comment and support is everything to me and the reason for making these videos! Thank you for supporting me :)

  • @ND-or5so
    @ND-or5so 8 місяців тому +10

    It's very hard and very difficult to get out of. You can't find the door to leave. 9 years of waste with this monster. Up, down up, down, and once you're pulled down so much, you now have to fix yourself from all the damage he's done to you.

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому

      I hope you are on your healing journey mine was never a romantic interest but a family memeber but that is also hard and you have to grieve these people almost but no contact is the only route i see here but i hope your on a good path and thanks for the support :)

  • @ND-or5so
    @ND-or5so 8 місяців тому +5

    To talk about this wipes me out, too. You are the best, Nana. From the heart you are very giving and you are so great. Don't give up this .. I appreciate you!

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for this yes even recalling this and talking about it can be draining i won't give up :) I appreciate your comments too!

  • @marymotherofgod4861
    @marymotherofgod4861 8 місяців тому +3

    The NARCISSTIC is encapable of love they r 1:

  • @Love11904
    @Love11904 8 місяців тому +6

    Your voice ❤

  • @nancybrunelle5405
    @nancybrunelle5405 3 місяці тому +1

    was married to one,,extremely toxic,,,i see that now yr right

  • @aspiemom6044
    @aspiemom6044 8 місяців тому +4

    Great video, great information thank you! 🩵

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому

      Thank you so much and i'm glad you got something from it 💕

  • @danielborrowdale3903
    @danielborrowdale3903 8 місяців тому +2

    They don't love that is how you got sucked in, in the first place.

  • @finabond8926
    @finabond8926 8 місяців тому +3

    Thanks very much for this information.

  • @thedisabledanddiscarded
    @thedisabledanddiscarded 8 місяців тому +3

    This is So Helpful and needed! Thank you sweetheart ❤

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому

      Thank you for being here and commenting were a community here ❤

  • @IceChampakaWolf888
    @IceChampakaWolf888 2 місяці тому +1

    Much Love From KENYA 🎉❤.

  • @sueayres494
    @sueayres494 8 місяців тому +4

    Well said. U seem peaceful. 😊

  • @mindyhalter779
    @mindyhalter779 7 місяців тому +1

    I think empaths get thrown around too much also.… empaths are very rare. Last, many narcissists claim to be empaths.

  • @emmr2739
    @emmr2739 26 днів тому

    I wonder if being in a support group might work for you? You could dip in and out, have company but not be overwhelmed. If you enjoy your own company do not be pressurised in conforming to a perceived norm. You know yourself best.

  • @finabond8926
    @finabond8926 8 місяців тому +2

    It's definitely true, that is me
    most of them have been in my life.. we sometimes think we can help them and heal them. So true what you have said.

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing yes it's the empath in us but this is beyond us they need to want heal there trauma and alot of them run from that but we can't heal them! i hope you are on route to escaping this energy and finding your peace you deserve it :)

  • @honeymoonavenue97
    @honeymoonavenue97 2 місяці тому

    In elementary and middle school, I had two narcissistic friends. In elementary, a friend of mine literally choked me during a very lightweight argument. In middle school, a girl made me feel like shit after I revealed to her that I had feelings for both boys and girls. Instead of just breaking off the friendship, she stayed friends with me and insulted me and everything I liked, like favorite UA-camrs of mine or whatever, for the whole year. She called me “weird,” told my crush I liked her and lied and told me she “overheard” us talking when I told her when we weren’t even in school.

  • @womenonfire3818
    @womenonfire3818 8 місяців тому +3

    I can't wait till the light gets brighter and the energy lighter 💫💕

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому

      Thank you for quoting this I just came out with it whilst talking but i'm going to use this for myself too and it will get lighter and brighter i promise 💫💕

  • @sheilaakinyi-e2r
    @sheilaakinyi-e2r 2 місяці тому

    Wow! Am glad to have overcome the same situation some two months ago. It wasn't easy but I realized my worth, my capability and that I deserve the best. Women let's take control of our lives and our peace matters alot. Am a happy soul today❤

  • @ND-or5so
    @ND-or5so 8 місяців тому +2

    He walked all over my boundaries.

  • @lornahallett7749
    @lornahallett7749 15 днів тому

    Wonderful video…helped tremendously!!!

  • @Naomi-o1z
    @Naomi-o1z 20 днів тому

    Story of myn Life 😢I am now 15 months free from the Devil 😂I am single 😊

  • @ND-or5so
    @ND-or5so 8 місяців тому +3

    You got it ! Go girl!

  • @keniasharpe1610
    @keniasharpe1610 Місяць тому

    Prayer prayer definitely helped me I had to cry my way out of that mess and it is so much better

  • @NazASMRSA
    @NazASMRSA 2 місяці тому

    5:41 omg

  • @tiffanyjackson8121
    @tiffanyjackson8121 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your personal journey and words of wisdom. This is a God send for me, and an answer to my prayers. Thank you for letting me hear exactly what I needed ❤

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for sharing and I'm glad you were led here just know that you got this and as soon as you detach and let go watch you get back to Tiffany and shine that light :) you got this!!

    • @tiffanyjackson8121
      @tiffanyjackson8121 8 місяців тому

      @@thenanajourney Thank you! ❤

  • @rachelcoloradomy3kidz778
    @rachelcoloradomy3kidz778 8 місяців тому +1

    Yes 💯🙌🏻❤ Tfs 💕 and great work New Subbie here!
    Keep your channel going
    This is a beautiful channel And Yes You have helped spark me to follow through by finding My Peace 🕊️ Ty XOXO 😘 for Your vulnerability and truly are helping many

    • @thenanajourney
      @thenanajourney  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much this makes me very happy to know through my experiences and what i have learnt that it can spark something in another woman. Peace is a path you deserve! Thank you for sharing! you've got this! 💕

  • @aboutthatlife1418
    @aboutthatlife1418 8 місяців тому +1

    This video was brilliant. This is exactly what I face with my mother. It's so sad because she will never change. Gaslighting, denial, emotional blackmail, lies, sabotage, control. The woman tried to destroy my life!

    • @ligeiarumay3775
      @ligeiarumay3775 2 місяці тому +1

      But the big picture here is to see that we do the same to or self
      Then we is here to blame here?
      Them of orself??
      A narsasist is a good inpath the bad one.
      Also we must be True about life that everyone has the same human DNA but we are not the same level.
      All of us have some narsasit traits.
      When we understands this we will learn the tools by knowing.
      Its not being away from one narsasist is knowing life is knowing how to be mature.
      In relationship same as being a good mature inpath.
      Because the baby inpath will incounter a lot negative energy along there Journey.
      It isn't about narsasist is about being inmature humanbeen.
      I love to adress it simple where its my problem because only me can change my baby persoon to my mature persoon.
      We as victim are also the same time negative because we have what narsasist needs .
      When we mature in this we will not be the baby inpath that narsasist of others need.
      Life is not about narsasist of family or bad friends
      Life is about or self being capable to mature or self to the level whole self realisation .
      To achief positive life we must adress it good.
      To or self and not narsasist family or friends.
      And know that in this life are so many narsasist that do not have nor good of bad friends because they are mature narsasist that also are on the Journey to heal theirself from being narsasist.
      But no body speak about them on sociale media.
      Because nobody want to adress this type.
      I told a narsasist if you think ican be only impath you are verry wrong because I can be also a narsasist.
      We all are it but we are passive one and not active one as the narsasist.
      Is lessons to be learn.
      We see it more like illess.
      I hope that this CHANNEL can switch the the learning proces to or self more then the focus to who has Hurt us but more to we was Hurt because we was inmature humanbeen's.
      We did wrong doing to or selfs and not others.
      If we stay like this one year will be a narsasist the other year is for family and so goes life.
      Learning what we must do and not do as human not as impath or as daughter or wife
      JUST AS HUMANBEEN'S.
      WE GIVES TO MUCH NAMES TO IT.
      AND THINK THAT WE MUST LEARN TO MUCH.
      IF WE LEARN ONLY HOW TO BE A MATURE HUMANBEEN.
      WE CAN DEAL WITH EVERYONE.

  • @jannajensen8901
    @jannajensen8901 8 місяців тому +2

    Tak❤🇩🇰

  • @Elle777
    @Elle777 Місяць тому +1

    Found my ppl 🤍