"Most Women Learn It Too Late!" - #1 Narcissist Expert on How She Got FOOLED TOO | Dr. Ramani
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Get ready for a RAW, honest look at the devastating effects that narcissists have on our self-worth, the allure of magical moments in relationships, the pain of betrayal, and the realities of navigating emotional recovery.
In today’s episode of Women of Impact, we’re joined by the world’s #1 narcissist expert who is here to help you actually heal and move on from narcissistic abuse!
As a licensed clinical psychologist and expert in narcissistic relationships, Dr. Ramani digs deep into the behaviors and patterns that narcissists use every single day to manipulate the hell out of you and keep you sucked into the relationship.
Most people don’t know this about her, but my girl Dr. Ramani has actually been a victim of narcissistic abuse many times throughout her own life. And in this episode she is sharing some of the lessons she learned from her own experiences and the knock-on effects those experiences still have on her to this day.
In this episode, we’re diving into:
- Societal myths about narcissists that diminish the seriousness of their abuse
- How shame deeply affects your actions AND the narcissist’s actions
- The best way to approach someone you think is in a relationship with a narcissist (and how to respond if YOU’RE the one approached!)
- How to finally move on with the “recover from the lie” method
- The self-blame spiral that has you thinking it’s YOUR fault & why you MUST escape it to take your power BACK from the narcissist!
- How confusion & despair wear down your spirit and energy for life
- The 3 Rs that keep you trapped in the toxic web
So if you’re ready to finally frikin’ MOVE ON from that toxic person in your life then grab a cuppa and listen close homie, because this episode is here to help you heal from the abuse and put the pieces back together.
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Chapter Markers:
💔 [00:00] The Last Effects of Narcissistic Abuse
❌ [16:22] Why the Narcissist Won’t Change
❤️🩹 [21:36] Phases of Healing
💁♀️ [38:54] Expressing Needs, Building Trust, Making Progress
🔥 [43:56] Toxic Shame, The Narcissist & You
🚪 [59:37] Despair & Painful Realities of Leaving the Narcissist
👉 [1:19:28] Bonus Episode: Jenna Kutcher
***Bonus Episode: Change EVERYTHING with Jenna Kutcher***
Keep watching for a BONUS conversation with my homie Jenna Kutcher, who is helping us get to the heart of what so many women are struggling to articulate. She’s talking about how to stop wasting your life feeling stuck, why you need to feel your feelings, and what you need to change to get excited and really look forward to a version of you 5 years from now.
🔥 DR. RAMANI’S FIRE QUOTES:
“And so things that I feel like I could do now were simply not possible then. The resources, the knowledge, the information. So when I feel like I want to be hard on myself, I have to recognize that it's actually a damned miracle that I'm doing all the things I'm doing, given how much doubt is in my mind about everything."
"Enough people have told me that they have narcissistic mothers to let me know there's plenty of narcissistic women out there. I've worked with enough men who have been through relationships with narcissistic women to know there's plenty of narcissistic women out there."
"Narcissism is considered a maladaptive personality because it puts them at odds with other people. So it's even less likely to change. And more importantly, because the personality won't change, the behaviors won't change, and the behaviors are what affect us in relationships."
“A lot of people often don't want to tell their friend or family member that [they're] a little worried about your new relationship because their fear is that they're going to alienate that friend or family member. They don't want to lose that relationship. And so most people don't say anything."
“People will lose 20 years over one night.”
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Makes Sense Lisa !
hey, we are with you, homie, not those who did not invite you back on their show, LH and all....
Someone keeps doing that to me claiming to be Dr. Ramani.....
Thank you for all you do. ❤️
After 36 yrs of marriage, I only started hearing about narcissist abou two yrs ago, it answers alot of questions...especially the one "am I losing my mind"
Same here! My narc brothers horrid behaviour rattled me to my core...and I turned to the internet for answers! Discovered Dr Ramani, discovered Narcissim...and realised how my Mom is the biggest narc, my sis the golden child and possible covert narc, my father the big enabler and possibly a covert narc as well!!!
Phew! I now realise it was okay to not feel okay about my family all these years! And I am 54!!!
Its a new fad. Remember a couple decades ago when men were "suppressing a woman's inner goddess"? Same kind of thing. You'll notice right away that a single black sheep in the family will always decide their parents, siblings, boss, and any spouse or ex is a narcissist. Its mostly used as a social pain reliever for divorce. Obviously if they were a narcissist who tricked you into marriage, THEY are the one who made you start to break the promise to stay forever. Even if you serve the divorce papers, you have already primed everyone else to know that they divorced you emotionally first.
Feeling like you are losing your mind when dealing with others is completely normal. What do you use to evaluate your own sanity? People dont need to be crazy to disagree.
No you're not losing your mind
@@Sleetstorm Your response is completely dismissive of the fact that people are suffering everyday at the hands of narcissists. It’s not a “new fad.” It’s only newly publicized. It’s now being talked about because narcs seldom believe their behaviors are problematic and don’t seek professional help. They do everything behind closed doors to maintain their image publicly. These decades-old behaviors finally have a name. The type of emotional, mental, psychological abuse is most times worse than getting physically abused. Their behavior is so sneaky and manipulative, it’s hard for anyone to believe you; they don’t believe your spouse could do such a thing or be such a person. You’re completely isolated at that point, a shell of the person you used to be, and literally made out to look like you’re crazy…that’s how these demons operate. To say “it’s a new fad” mocks those suffering for decades and didn’t know how to explain their messed up relationship/life. Now this deranged disorder and the traits of these abusers are being brought to light. People are completely valid in now discovering that something is very wrong and get the help they need to work through it and heal.
40 years in September and I just discovered it and realize that my father and husband are narcissists. 🤦♀️
Dr Ramani sorry to hear about your long history with narcissistic relationships. Your trauma channelled into helping others is commendable!!! You are a very rare gem!!! 💎
What Dr Ramani says...'wanting to be a mind reader' just to please people and stay safe/feel safe...its painful, but so relate 🙏💝
I am getting out of a 12 year relationship with a neglectful narcissist…it was the hell 😢you both are helping me sooo much, thank you 😭
I 've been married to a malignant narcissist husband for 28years. I finally have the courage to get out of this relationship.
Much love to you as you work your way out & begin moving forward into the light.💖💖 I left a 7-yr marriage to a narcissist & my self doubt & his indifference (& sometimes cruelty) were painful & hard but I made it and SO WILL YOU! 💙 Every step of the way, try to remember you are not alone, & you deserve a medal for every step you make. Try to be kind to yourself & know life will eventually be much, much better, and much, much happier! You deserve to be loved and supported. 🙏🏼💖
Congratulations! 🎊
I did too and now I'm left with broken pieces holding the bag.
@@bumblebee_mrsYour light inside, is the gold that will put those pieces back together. Hang in there.
I love the comparison between a narcissism survivor and a cat testing whether a surface is safe to walk on.
Yeah, it’s like walking on eggshells to minimize any abuse or wondering when again the abuse is going to start again. The ruminating is about the injustice of it. You go over and over the interaction because you don’t understand why you are bringing abused and how you are supposed to cope with it. There’s a ring leader too amongst my siblings orchestrating a hate campaign against me.
Thank you again ladies for this. I have forever been changed by narcissism in my life. I’m consciously finding my grounding again. I’m in total shock and disbelief, dare I say traumatized by the situations I’ve been falsely brought into. Half of my life seems like just a lie. I’m recovering.
Thank you ladies.
Thank you so much for your honesty, transparency and vulnerability my homie! You are not alone and we are here to help support you as you go on your recovery journey! This community is very near and dear to me and your voice here matters!
@@LisaBilyeu thank you so much. This is confusing and draining. Every choice I make has a consequence I’m fully aware of now. I’m trying to stay physically, mentally and emotionally safe.
Thank you again. 🙏🏽
Are 😆🫡@@LisaBilyeu
I now remember many mornings getting up and saying why am I here in this house but if I didn’t wake up one morning at least all the health issues and life insurance is in order. But I kept going every day as he was playing victim and moved on with someone else inside my own home. As he was happy making a life someone else in my own house and laying next to me and neglected me and I neglected myself and lost myself worth value etc. but I had no clue what was going on as he had hidden Facebook with a whole life with her and his town friends and family. Over 300 Facebook friends and I knew no one. She was friends to all and introduce her to even my friends and his boss and co workers. I had no one. Just work and home. No life outside no friends no circle of support because he hovered over me every day but he will be on the phone with them for over 15 hrs and only interact with me from 5p till 9p after he gets home to say I am tired I am going to bed and that was it mon to fri. Found text 2am 3am 5am as I was laying next to him. You reap what you sow. Thank you 🙏
@@tracysnipes2144 I pray one day the pain we suffered will be so distant from our memory as if it was actually another lifetime ago. We are forever changed and new. Now we can be New and Great!
Peace and Wellness to you.
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Dr. Ramani is so lovely! She is honest and wise and firm in what she knows! Whenever I listen to the video where Dr. Ramani is speaking, it feels like she is a personal therapist, as well as a parental figure who mirrors back to those of us who listen our experience, affirming our words, and understanding what we are going through. It is so vital to healing to have someone tell you they understand! I can’t say enough good things about her! Right now, I am reading her new book and loving it and highly recommend it to anyone who is in a relationship with a narcissist in any capacity. Thank you Lisa, and thank you, Dr. Ramani, for these informative, insightful and helpful videos! The Lord bless you both! 🙏🏻🕊️
narsist aunt and narsist uncle video exposition video
Years ago I didn't know anything about narcissistic behavior. I just knew that I was not going to put up with anyone who behaves like people in my family. However, even though I ended those toxic relationships in days, weeks, or seven or eight months, I still had regret that I put up with it for.that length of time. We should let that go, because people reveal themselves gradually over time, until things pile up, and now you know who they really are. Covert narcissist cann hide who they really are very well.
I didn’t either. After decades of abuse by my siblings I have the same symptoms she describes within herself. I think it’s made me hyper vigilant towards manipulate tactics they use. The abuse has sent the messages to me that in order to be “ friends” with my “ siblings” I have to put up and shut up about the abuse. It’s like these people who should be my friends and sources of support, get the opposite. This Dr has given me the strength to set boundaries with them.
My malignant narc mother made my whole life extremely difficult as she chose me as the family scapegoat/punching bag.
My mama too, now i have third lunatic bf i cant break up with him...cheater
@@Nyc99 I'm so sorry. I went thru that too. I'm struggling alone big time.
Me too
@@Divine_healing Sorry to hear it.
Thank you, bumblebee and also to you
Dr. Ramani, your descriptions of yourself and the aftermath of narcissistic abuse had me nodding my head throughout When your used to accepting that most people won't understand or relate to my experiences, and some may even question my credibility, it can be such a relief and so grounding to spend a little time with people who do see us and understand our pain.
🎉almost makes you want to have a group of survivors in your city.
The Bible says "Hope deferred makes the heart sick". I'm no longer feeling heartsick mode. I'm hoping in something way more positive with way better dividends.
Amen sis
Thank you for this verse! Wow!
❤ beautiful said!! 💯
That is how I felt in my relationship. Always hoping. I had an anxiety attack and made him move out. He then broke up with me. Now, I'm beating myself up for making him move out and therefore triggering the break up. I miss him so much even though he only gave me breadcrumbs.
Amen.❤❤❤❤
"True love in a relationship means that we are the custodians of each other's vulnerabilities and wounds."
The challenge of despair is definitely a reality for many of us. 💔
Narcissist do shift.. If you say stop calling me these names.. They stop for a few months but, start again with different names to call you and instead of calling you stupid they now say do you hear yourself and how stupid you sound. Then they say I didn't call you stupid just the things that come out of your mouth. They just start their control, bulling you in a slight different way.
That’s still gaslighting and manipulative. That’s not a shift either . You can’t tell them what hurts bc it only gives them more ammunition and they will use sneakier tactics . It is more psychological abusive to hear “ do you see how dumb you sound “ opposed to just being called stupid . It is insidious bc they will gaslight the hell out of you “ I didn’t say that “ yet now they just have us gaslighting ourselves ! I am such an idiot was the main phrase of most my life yet I wasn’t CALLED ONE OUT RIGHT . they get us to abuse ourselves and act like they have nothing to do w it !
I really like Lisa as a host. She is so empathetic. And Dr. Ramani is always worth hearing.
There’s nothing wrong with having a smaller circle of relationships.
I’m a dozen years older than Dr. R. and I feel like we were twins separated at birth.
So blessed to have lived long enough to UNDERSTAND what happened to me.
God bless you Dr Ramani, you've been light for thousands of people
Omg! This video. Came at the right time. I have been thinking all week, how can I be a fooled to believed him( covert/vulnerable narcissist) Gave him another chance but to be played again. Yes I get rid of him a week ago but I blamed myself for wasting another 7 months than I should've never gave him in my life again. After he wasted 7yrs before that. Thank you to both of you.
I swear to God, I've had the exact same conversations as Dr. Ramani, with other people, over the last 30 years. However, Dr. Ramani is the one who helped me understand, that, it wasn't normal.
@16:22 - I wish I knew what the word "Narcissist" was 20 years ago, .. THIS could have saved me, all the unnecessary pain I went through and the drama/chaos "they" created in my peaceful life. I always in some miracle ways thought "Narcissist people" could change, but I guess that "Hope" will never happen sadly. As a victim, I feel so dumb NOT knowing what I know now, but at least I can use my new knowledge to move forward minus the people who hurt me. I kept forgiving them, but now "Enough IS Enough." All they do is create drama/chaos, been feeling Emotionally drained like a vampire leaving US (the victim's) dry. Thank You, Dr. Ramani for this video clip. Very Educational. 😊
Now my body can recognize narcissism, even my heart doesn’t, and in order to protect me I becoming sick. Thank you
I was suicidal 20 years ago, after my narcissistic boyfriend discarded of me. Talking about that with him now, he called me a coward, because so many sick people who want to live don't get the chance. I shot back with 'well maybe these sick people have loving people around them, something I'm lacking!'
Thank goodness you’re not with him. Your life will be infinitely better. He will be garbage forever.
It is useless to talk to them. The best thing we can do to protect ourselves is to walk away once and for all. ☮️
I’m blown away. Description of yourself is so much the same as how I feel. 💔
We regret staying too long, but it takes what it takes to wake up and finally be done with the relationship!
Because people who don't really know what Narcissistic is and use it.. It really does harm real victims of it. Going through a divorce with one and I know when I first met my lawyer it was important to me he understands what I am fighting. I know when I told him, I felt that silent eye roll. We'll my lawyer is finding it out on his own.
I experienced the following at the beginning of the relationship- We went out with a friend he hadn’t seen in a while. I was excited that I was being introduced to his friend. We had a good time. And the next day he said to me that his friend warned him about me because I gave out a negative energy. He felt that I was going to cause trouble for him in his life. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing him say. At the time, I thought I was in the hands of a special person but little did I know!
Your special to God anyway ❤
I wish we all had angels to protect us. You got closure without being harmed.
Dr. Ramani’s videos on narcissism helped me become a better person. I learned to look at my relationships differently and sought therapy too. The positive side affect of learning about narcissists is that I have become a better parent. I realized how toxic my parents are in the process and working everyday to be a better parent to my kids.
Oh my. I remember knowing 20 years ago that I should not care what other people want, not care about anyones expectations, but then I went and did it all anyway. It all feels so futile.
“Meaning out of suffering…” so true.
Back then…you don’t know what you don’t know…speed forward 36 years clarity confidence conviction in your beliefs…it’s a journey; we live we learn if we’re smart. ❤
Dear doctor is survivor , i love her❤
You're not trying to prove yourself YOURE MAKING SO MANY PEOPLE AWARE. #GRATEFUL
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I love Dr. Ramani ❤
right? such a beautiful human being
Dr. Ramani. The insight when you look at your cat testing the waters or blankets and sen yourself that’s remarkable. I think you are awesome.
My mother is a narcissist. More than my brother or dad. It was hard to tell if my brother or dad are narcissistic but they have some traits of narcissism. But my mom is a full blown narcissist. And an alcoholic too
Maybe your mother has been sexually abused or maltreatment by her parents. She isn't an alcoholic just because of that. May there are things she isn't telling anybody.
It always need not be sexual abuse always.. Some people are born without the empathy part in the brain and some don't develop it due to varied reasons and become narcissists like these. It always need not be any abuse always.. I have so many in my expended family, that it seems hereditary and surely not all of them were abused because there is one in each nuclear family on every generation. @@ms.liszz.9206
I can relate to not regretting leaving the relationship I never thought I could of given myself more and now knowing what I do I'm glad I went through it to know and experience and not make the same mistake I now no longer care or wonder what happened to my ex who was an abusive narcissist.
Dr Ramani, thank you so much! Saying that when you are out in tge rain, you didn't create the wet. I have been for so long saying that so many therapists & psychiatrists treat people in a vacuum, as if everything is generated internally & outside interacts & abuse & neglect & gaslighting & confusing demands don't have anything to do with anxiety, depression, nightmares, & so much more.
It is time for the medical worldto ask questions about home life, work life, & relationships.
Thank you so, so much!
When my husband is around me i begin to be anxious and feel like something is going to happen... he is a narcisist who loves to abuse me mentaly, psysically, financially and all ways he can... and i can't do this anymore... i am done! My stress levels are high always when he comes around!
Listening to you ladies always helps me realize I am not crazy n’ that I can overcome these aspects of my life. Thank you so much for all this content, literally saving my life*
Inspiration. The honesty and earnestness.
You are so so right. It’s absolutely disgraceful the minimizing of this. I got so angry during my recovery, I’m like these people are walking around, accepted by society, I might be served by one.. how is this OKAY? it should be super criminal xx
Oh my goodness the despair & depression is so real
I am in a Narrcissict relationship now but I have started making a plan to leave after years of abuse. Because of her videos ❤🙏🙏🙏😘
I admire and respect you Dr. Ramani! I love all of your smart and informative videos! You remind me of my fathers sister, my aunt, who was a math teacher, guidance counselor, and worked for an attorney when she retired, she was smart, intelligent , and kind, just like my father was! I was so blessed to have them in my life. I encouraged my daughter to get an education, she has just graduated from a university with a bachelor's degree! Such a wonderful accomplishment for her, I am so proud of her! I hope to go back to school eventually too, to get a degree myself! Thank you Dr. Ramani I appreciate you so very much for all of your help on this topic!❣️
I’m 48, single daughter of a profoundly narcissistic mother and a dad who went from doormat to narcissist (don’t even know what you call this)… years later, meet the narc ex who was simply familiar, ‘more of the same’. Luckily, after 3 years of marriage, my son was born and all I new is that I had to get out. There’s no way I was going to allow him to be treated like that or, even worse model that type of behaviour. He was 10 months when I left, twelve years later I haven’t regret it for a single day. There might be self doubt but, deep down inside, I know it was simply too toxic!
That was when I realized it too. When I started having kids, and realized the things my parents did, I would NEVER do to my kids. :( Someone has to break the cycle of generational abuse. Let it be us.
Thank you both for SEEING us
Not caring is sooooooo healthy
1:43:50 " Thank you so much for this invitation, I am so flattered/honoured that you reached out to me. I just want to know that I am going to politely decline, and it is not in anyway a reflection of you or your ideas nor your invitation. It is only a reflection of me living out my values. If I say yes to you, I am saying no to what matters the most to me or what I say matters the most to me. I just want you to know that I am cheering you on, and I wish you the best. I hope in doing this, it invites you to live out your values in a stronger way."
POWERFUL and THANK YOU!
I am so grateful for you!!!❤🎉 You have saved lives❤❤❤
33:59 wow this is exactly what children tell themselves when they have narcissistic parent(s)
In the past 12 years things have changed so much! Twelve years ago I was seeking high & low for help but couldn't find it. Now there are so many resources and a comprehensive understanding of narcissism.
This is a 5 star podcast * * * * * ❤
So real and so relatable. ❤
This brought me to tears, she described everything I have gone through and the confusion i have been facing trying to put the pieces together... WOW Wish i can get therapy from her
"Unless they could have swallowed me up whole", I felt that......
Thank you Dr. Ramani❣️ You are helping so many people and we are all so proud of you! You are our example of surviving and thriving with a loving heart and empathy intact.
For me it took being a cancer survivor to get to the point of not caring what other people think and doing what makes me happy. Of course it’s a daily process because people pleasing tendencies are so ingrained in us, especially as a woman. I did date a narcissist for three years and I’m still healing from the emotional abuse I endured from him. Love this interview thanks ❤
The rumination is something six months later I still am going through. She cheated, denied, and lied and told me I was crazy. She would never admit it. I asked her just to tell me if she was and she called me boring. She finally left me and made me feel like it was my fault. I never understood how I was dropped like I never mattered. Her friend was the one who finally told me about everything simply because she also eventually screwed her friend over in business. Turns out she left me so the new man would not find out about me. All the time and effort I put in for love was for nothing.
Thank you Lisa and Dr Ramani ❤
It makes it so much more relatable when people that seem like they have got everything together let us know they are going through the same and they have the same self doubt.
So insightful as usual. Thank you xxx
I’m so glad we hav the doctor share her experiences
When I started dating a love bombing narcissist I'd never even heard of a narcissist. Scariest, worst relationship I've ever had !!! For about a year I dated him. I can't imagine the damage it does to someone that's been in a LONG term relationship and has children with a narcissist my Lord 🙏🏽 I've been single and celibate since and that was 12 years ago!! I started listening to Dr R , also a couple other doctors and that's when I finally understood what I'd gotten myself involved in. I literally had to escape ✈️ then go to the police 🚓🚨 to make the sick narcissist stop stalking me !!! 3 years of healing from this crazy dude after a 1 year relationship!! He'd been talking about us moving in together and thank God I didn't agree on that , never wanted to live together with a man unless we were married since I bought my own home. So thankful I also turned down his marriage proposal twice!!
You're our hero Dr Ramani. ❤
22 yrs blaming myself. It truly becomes exhausting mentally & emotionally.
Lisa, every time you do a segment, I feel the world becoming stronger, better. Love Dr. Rahmani. She has opened up my eyes. My brother is a miserable narc, with my mother being the enabler. Just because they’re family, it doesn’t mean you’re stuck. There’s no such thing as a Hallmark Family. Love yourself, go find safety,
much 💛 love to Dr. Ramani, and to you too, Lisa.
And yes it can for sure be a very different depth and empathy when you have gone through that stuff AND studied it for your whole life... I do think there might be excellent therapists with depth and empathy that have not gone through all that dirt, but i think they are exceptions. Really, it's hard to find excellent therapists when you have a high level of trauma.
Brilliant. I get told off by friends - you should leave you should run away but I am me and I give people chances . ( and I don’t regret them ) But I do believe when it’s the end it’s the end . AND You feel it coming ( so weird there’s a feeling of knowing or of growing boredom or something that seems to happen ) and then it’s done .
Thank you Dr Ramani as always . You have helped me so much
I was ready to hear ALL for this conversation ❤ thank you both so much for this authentic calibration xxx
Dr.R you are awesome!
Thoughtfully profound, candidly sincere, & forthright! -- You speak for all of us! Women making a difference in this world & the human race!
They will also cause you Bankruptcy if given the chance.
This is so helpful i could scream. Seeing progress in action , gives so much hope☺️🤩🤗🤗
I always have to make people happy. I NEVER want anyone to feel that pain.
Thanks to both of you💌
Dr.Ramany is a great blessing
YOU ARE AMAZING! You have helped me immensely!
Fantastic interview thanks ladies
❤Thank you both for the great work you do!
Moral injury.. invalidatition is cutting into an wound. It's so unreal that each time it takes you aback and then find yourself costantantly on guard... you anticipate madness every single day & when it went alright that moment you never too sure... it needs to take you to the cliff & opt jumping off .. cause it makes sense
Dr. Ramani, thank you 💛
PLEASE TALK ABOUT SIBLINGS!!!
Another great interview. More important content. TY!
Dr Ramini & Lisa thankyou xx
Thank you, I do need to listen to you daily, because you confirmed what I’m going through right now when you spoke about confusion and feeling like things are not right one moment and the next that things feel right like the relationship is going to be okay.
God Bless you for your honesty.
Loved this episode. Opened my eyes. Still reading Dr. Ramani's new book. I am finding it extremely insightful and healing❤
Everything is so me!! Learned a Lot! Thank you ladies!! Lisa your voice is firm and confident, and gives me energy, I can listen to you all day!
Thanks for the work but I especially appreciate Dr. R’s willingness to share her inner world about her interactions and pain dealing with narcissists. Acknowledging her own painful interactions. Meaning out of our suffering! Well said. ❤
Yes preservation is vital for yourself
Thank you for this episode. Omg does it help in processing when you discover the lies. I was happy at that time and don't discount that
Love this and thank you. Finished her new book and it was so helpful. Thank you for all of your hard work, ladies. ❤
Dr Ramani is a great human being❤
Dr Ramani You are devine and your menages are great.Lisa you are outstanding !!!! Thank your all you broadcast !!!
My goodness l needed to watch this episode! Thank you very much 🙏🙏 God bless you ❤
Love these genuine/autentic conversations. You are awesome Lisa and Dr Ramani ❤
Much love
Love you Dr Ramini! You are such a beautiful blessing to my life!
Very well said,its how all survivers feel. She is well on point with this.
I am watching your videos from France, thank you so much for this content, these videos are so interesting and helping so much to understand what we, ''victims'' of narcissist abuse, went through. Dr Ramani is really the best. And you Lisa are a great Host. Merci beaucoup ! ❤
Wonderful video thank you 2 for sharing. It is so true, I do recluse and am happy doing so. Most of the time anyway. God Bless you!
I'm thankful for this interview on Doctor Ramani's personal experiences! 2 women of Impact in my life! 🙏
47:40 that is why I am going to these communities first. India, Brazil, Nigeria, Norilsk Russia. Help the ones who suffer the most come to joy again and and let them inspire others who dont have it "so bad" see their own resilience.