how to cultivate strong self-love | filling the void you feel | @tiffanylaibhen
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- Опубліковано 7 лис 2023
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can we be honest for a sec? how many times have we been on the asking end of respect, love, honesty, compassion (the list goes on) ..that we fail to give ourselves? we're diving into self-awareness + taking responsibility for the role we play in our own longing... and also into the power we hold to change that immediately.. grab your bevvys + let's get into it 🍷
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“Everyone is actually doing the best they can at their level of emotional maturity.” Sheesh this is rich 👌🏾
Girl, I needed this because I was barking all morning, and I just sat down and started crying. I'm crying as I'm typing this. The lack of love I've been showing myself looking for it in others lately is disappointing. I feel like I've lost myself lately. Thank you for these words. I needed them. It's always up to me
I’m a bit late but I’m sending you the biggest hug girl because I gettt it! praying your able to make a few shifts to find some more inner peace.. you’ll start to see it reflected on the outside 🤎
Listening to this In the morning while showering was the best decision I’ve made✨ now I’m gonna get dressed and take myself out on a date and buy myself roses✨✨
Self love is beautiful
this made me smile so big 😌 have a beautiful day!
I will do the same….let’s start from there 😍
Literally just went through a breakup last night, that was completely unexpected so now today I have to move out after 2 years together. Thank you for dropping this. I love hearing your messages.
Stay strong sis ❤
Hugs 🤗 and kisses. You got this. 🤍💚
You got this sis❤️ your gonna love finding yourself again
Sending lots of love your way❤❤❤
Going through a break up right now with my boyfriend of almost 8 years & my now child’s father as I am currently almost 7 months pregnant and it sucks. But through out this process I need to just focus on my baby & I! Stay strong sis! We got this
Am I the only one who has it the other way round. I just want a relationship. I’ve been single for so long. I know how to look after myself be by myself, go out with myself, push myself to do better motivate myself, but sometimes I just want a shoulder to cry on or some support to keep me going 😢
@@user-st9fs6xu5yI’ve just said I don’t need someone to keep me going. I’m comfortable pushing myself and doing things on my own. BUT I WANT a partner. I don’t NEED one
That's real. We are taught on one hand that we are strong black women, we can make it on our own, trust in God & keep it moving. All of that is true but we are human & we were NOT made to work everything out alone so we need to be loved, held, talked to & cry with by other humans. I do agree that the work starts with self bc "no man is an island"
This was especially difficult for me because I couldn’t even define love, let alone give it to myself. I looked to 1 Corinthians 13 4-8 and my life has changed. Now I treat myself how the Bible defines love to be. And I’ve never been more full.
Thank you
Self-love is a different ball game if your single...You have 1 choice+ that is to LOVE YOURSELF ..it's hard but the journey is priceless+ empowering✌️✨💖
1. Identify the problem/void
2. Identify how you imagine the relationship is going to fix the problem, be detailed
3. Do those things for yourself
4. Choose one to implement
5. Don't point fingers/lash out
💕 Steps start @ 15:48 💞
Thank you 😊
Don’t know how I found this video, but I’m so happy I did. My husband and I had a major argument three days ago. He asked for space but it’s been three days. I’ve been keeping busy for the last 72 hours waiting for him to talk to me( I’m anxious attached and semi- codependent). After watching this video, I’m inspired to work on myself, love on myself, take the time to pour into me. I’m so use to “us” that I’ve been forgetting me 😢
I relate to this alll too well… it’s almost impossible to fix things in a relationship before we’ve healed what’s going on within ourselves. sending you love + and big hug on this part of your journey + praying for health in your marriage 🫂🤎
@@TiffanyTV thank you very much !
I was totally in this deep funk because of this very reason last week. I cried constantly all week. Thank you for this 🙏🏾💖
FINALLY someone who explains self love in a way that I understand bone deep. The idea about finding the void and filling it yourself is gold that I can practically apply straight away. Your content is excellent instant sub thank you 🙏
Your comment really is the cherry on top to this quest of self love 🥹🥹🥹🥹 your comment has truly blessed me indeed❤ thank you
Tiffany!!!!! As a mental health professional I want to thank you for your energy and your support to empower others to seek self-love. Self love is sooooo crucial to your mental wellbeing. I have shared your video with my clients as a source of motivation. Keep up the work mama! It’s truly healing to others.
Ah, how synchronized... self love has been the center of my awareness lately. Thank you for this video ❤
I used to give love and care to everyone but never giving it to myself I still have lots of insecurities but I'm trying my best to put me first this time it's a hard journey for me so please everyone pray for me 💙✨ and thank you Tiffany you've always been there since day one of my healing journey 💙✨
Same here
“Is this really about him”😮💨 we truly project unhappiness onto others in the form of nitpicking. I’ve been guilty of that. Learning to go within and be content with self has done so much for me! Great video Queen🫶🏽
that part! thank you love 🤎
Came back to this video after a few months and whew was it needed!! Thank you for calling me in. I feel like I am losing myself, allowing others to have power over how I feel about myself. Placing my happiness in what others say and do for me. I used to have such high confidence until a big emotional blow that has me questioning how I really feel about myself. I'm working to not get back to who I once was, but to allow adversities and trials and tribulations to inform how I love myself better and become confident with new and darker chapters to my story.
I’ve realized this as well and I’m glad you said it so I know I’m not crazy. Whenever I feel unloved it’s due to a lack that I started slipping on ❤❤❤
Tiffanyyyyy, ! Shouting amen amen amen .. at my big age Lord knows you have reminded me to wake up! Hug myself ! Love myself, be okay ! Build me. Recognizing individuality, regulating boundaries, my family reminded me. I am the common denominator and I need to show up for SELF and not always allowing people to be codependent or vice versa. Lord I really have some cleaning up. I am not for everyone. You may have just saved 50 percent of my mental health😢.. thank you
Yes! To be honest I still get kind of iffy and listen with precaution when being told to continually love myself I do think however that you have a good balance
I’m tearing up reading this. sending you a big hug 🫂🤎 we love aha/realization moments 🙌🏾
@@TiffanyTVthank you .. everyday has been a challenge.. I pray for strength and positivity energy 🙏
Thank you sooo much for you all your feedback...I am continuously praying for the guidance and strength on my life attributes.. work everyday and push towards abundance. Today is February 1st and I inhale/ exhaled
Yes you shouldn’t look for happiness or joy from others. It should come from within. However, just like someone can add to your happiness and joy they can also take from it. Your surrounding influences your mood.
Another home run. This is beyond impactful, this is exactly where I am. Thank you once again for sharing. I am speechless and taken back by how well you managed to deliver this message. This is an amazing starting point for healing ❤😊 You are so amazing 🙌🏿
I started back buying myself flowers yesterday. Each week I’m promising myself to do that. Also taking a least one day to do all self care things for myself. I also really enjoy cooking so that helps too. Don’t forget the gym!
So powerful ❤
Thank you for this ❤
Absolutely love you !!
Thank you! 💜
I absolutely love your videos ❤
beautifully said, thank you!
Wow, I needed this today. Thank you Tiff💜
Thank you for this! Love your words of wisdom ❤ keep shining!
This is so powerful! Self-love
thank you Tiff ❤❤❤❤❤
I definitely needed this ! thank youuu
i needed this.thanks alot 💖💖
Thank you, Queen 👸🏾💖
Your videos always hit at the right time. Thank you!
I appreciate this channel ☺️
Love love love this !!! Keep shining beautiful
beautifully said ❤
Much needed video, thank you!
You never miss Tiffany. Thank you.
This was everything I needed. Here goes!!!
Thank you for making content like this for us
Thank you so much for this video. I’m going through a divorce and I’m single for the first time in almost a decade… I didn’t fully realize just how much I’ve spent my life dependent on others for my happiness/ self-regulation/ self-love until I watched this! Thank you for giving steps to take to get to a place of self love. ❤️
I needed this!!1 SO HELPFUL
Thank you for this video ❤
Thankyou so much! Everything was very well said !
Love it Tiffany, keep it up! 💝💝💝
New subbie here, I love it! I was too that relationship girl! The codependency is real! I found myself "chasing" relationships as soon as one ended because I truly thought I needed one to be whole. Now, I here trying to fix this mess. If I could go back, I would change this about my younger self. This is great advice. Plus, loving me and focusing on "dating" me makes my even more desired.
This was another beautiful said reminder to fill my cup before anything I do. So that I can feel loved and good within myself and be able to pour out positive and loving energy with others. This was really really helpful for me, this week was a struggle and listening helped me see what I was missing. Thank you truly again for another impactful message! I truly believe god is working with you to help our generation ❤
Yes Ma’am. Well said. May God continue to bless you
Talk about perfect timing!! I really needed to hear this today 🥰
Thank you, love your video ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You are a gift. ❤
Thank you so much for your channel.
Thank you for this video:)
Your videos have truly aided me so much in my journey. Thank you so much.
Amazing content!
Thank you Tiffany… this video was just what I needed now ❤ 🙏🏼
wooowww this is good! Thank you!
This is a very great timing❤
Thank you! This video came just in time. I really needed to hear this
I love your positivity! I just wish I could be like this
This is literally what I needed to hear for today. Thank you so much ❤
Thank you❤
You're amazing and helping me through a tough situation.
This is so good ❤.
This video was right on time! Thank you for your wisdom Tiffany! 🙏🏻💕✨
This helped me so much , thank u
Thank you!
great way to start the morning. thank you so much!
What an amazing video . Thank you
Mmmmm thank you so much for this video Tiffany 😊
Ok so why is it that every time you drop a video it's exactly what I need! Thank you sis!❤
this was such a beautiful & needed video ✨ thank you!
I love the way she presents herself
I needed to hear every word of this omg😫
I’m so in love with your channel ❤️I can truly say it has helped me a lot.. continue changing lives lots of love
Thank you Tiffany. 😭❤🩹
This came at a perfect time
Hands down, the best cideo I've ever listened to about self-love. Thank you!
Im so glad i found you🥰
Thank you for being the big sister I never had but always needed❤️
Thank you for this video
Absolutely love this! Have to fill up your own cup because it's not anyone else's responsibility 🤞🏾
This video is everything. Thank you!
I enjoyed this. Thank you
U said a word..Love your messages !
Please keep going and I pray God blesses u
Wow! I’m so glad I came across this. Thank you. ❤
she brings out the best in me is swear
Girrrrrllll… i can’t believe this video was right on time fr. I had a whole melt down yesterday. I was feeling alone (my brother passed a year ago and all my family lives far away I was feeling so heavy balling my eyes out) Sometimes I rely on my man too much to make me happy. Now I’m realizing i do this to all my loved ones, our kids even too. I was crying and he didn’t know what to do but I also wasn’t communicating well. I definitely rely on others too much and my healing journey has taught me I am still learning. Thank you so much for this message I am definitely applying these lessons to my life. 🥹🤍🤍🤍🤍
Much love, you got this! 🙏🏾 ❤
Okay but I loveee!! I had a tough moment yesterday with work and I needed to hear this! Know your someone I look up to when it comes to growth! ❤️🙏🏼
Tiffany!!!! Oh my....you was in my head!!! I needed this!! I will be rewatching and writing down notes!! Thank u
Thanks for this video!! First tome here!!
To all the ladies feeling/believing we need to be "fully healed" before getting into a relationship, we must know this isn't correct. We get opportunities to heal within relationships as they help us grow. How else can we see where we must work on if it isn't reflected in relationship with others? Let's be gentle with ourselves and appreciate where we are (while working towards growth) and know that we are worthy of love and acceptance within the bounds of partnership. Working together ❤
This was an amazing video - really helped me x
Girl U just got a subscriber 🎉🎉🎉🎉am here for this girl 😊😊😊YASSSS baby
Thank you for sharing with us. I am sitting at work, working listening to this!! ❤❤❤
Your voice is so soothing ty for sharing and spreading this message ❤
Always so relevant!!