I was married for 24 years to a "Christian" textbook narcissist. (I think he WROTE the book, actually.) 😐My sanity and physical health were just about gone when I left him - contrary to counseling by church leaders to stay (that's a whole OTHER story). I am still healing mentally and physically from the damage done ... but ... I have come to the place of accepting that God has a plan for it - despite the fact that I don't yet understand. Joseph's story in the Old Testament is great comfort to me. I trust God's love for me and His sovereignty.
Shae, I wish you well as your healing continues. Christianity + narcissism is a bad mix, very bad. I've been there, and now I'll do almost anything to protect myself.
Shea I share your story. May we fulfill the scriptures that say we must prove the devil a liar. J w. Org Psalms 119 Then I will reply to the one taunting me, For I put my trust in your word. 43 Do not utterly remove the word of truth from my mouth, For I have hoped in your judgment. 44 I will keep your law constantly, Forever and ever. 45 And I will walk about in a place of safety...
Yes Genesis 37 and on, it led me to. The Cluster B (black and white thinking) (idealize, devalue, discard, replace). Joseph's discard by his unhealthy family was actually a great grace. As Kris says God rescues, God heals, God restores.
So good. I survived a 25 year marriage to a Christian narcissist that just about ruined me. Ten years later he is still reaping what he sowed and I have healed and am closer to God than ever. Praise His name!
Lord delivery me from this situation. I am certainly to blame for being here, all those red flags I wove into a beautiful ribbon and bound my own hands and feet with it. Its so bad that we have to get a degree in terrible things and it feels like we never graduate. I just want to be free from this extended family.
@@jennifersolga6172I know how you feel & I have to remind myself that these type people have a demonic spirit ( & Gods timing is NOT our timing) but because of these demonic Entitled People, I truly believe that there isn't any way that God won't take care of these Evil Narcissist! I couldn't get a word in on an argument with the Narc & the word salad being thrown at me & I remember saying to this person who seemed to have a demonic spirit & was directing some nonsense my way 8 managed to get out That I didn't have to worry about doing anything to this person But That God above my Heavenly Father would surely deal with and punish this person.... And I truely do believe that HE will... Keep that in mind & even if it isn't in this abusers life it will be at their death! This is what I tell myself try & remember hope that can help you... No matter how it seems also I also believe that whoever your x is now married to she will if she hasn't already she will see your X's true colors b4 it is over an may need help to get away from him... I realise I don't know your situation just a thght..
I believe there are seasons for all to be in hell not forever otherwise God is evil . If he holds infinity ♾️ and you steal a candy bar should you be punished eternally? All have fallen short even Jesus said I am not good only God
My mother was an extreme narcissist and still has some of the traits - but she did become a true Christian and the only reason I have a relationship with her is that I saw the changes in her life. She had godly fruit and now loves the Lord ❤️
May I see the same breakthrough with my mother and younger sister who are basically "thick as thieves" (codependent). May they be convicted in their spirit in Jesus name, Amen
I've had 10 years with a narc. I've had to watch him get away with everything and I get away with nothing. I don't understand how years of trying to be a good person landed me in this position. I ask God every day to help me.
@@danidesanti don’t give up. I felt the same way. I thought it was some sort of punishment that I ended up with my husband. I met him at church so I thought I was doing as I should. Sometimes God gives us the tools to save ourselves.,
As a child of a successful narcissist, i have never thought of Esther as a story of God's victory over a narcissist. Thank you for the Biblical insight.
I do the same with my former spouse. Stay away (nothing says that I have to interact with her) and PRAY that God leads her to Jesus. Pray for or enemies.
@@Zona-dw9rp Thank you, huge blessings to you! There are people who don't deserve healing, some narcissists have done incredibly atrocious things like killing animals and enjoying that, they deserve their karma, they deserve hell. Oh..jesus hated the narcissists, he didnt want them around him!! And...i don't really care why jesus was here, i don't like him, he was not vegetarian so he was cruel to animals. I prefer osho, he was more compassionate with ALL the living beings.
The narc's 7th marriage ended after 4 months. He couldn't keep a job or manage money. He's now 70 and driving a tour bus while he has a broken ankle. He lost his teaching license. He had a history of sexually harassing coworkers. He lost one job because he harassed our son's third grade teacher. Seven decades and this is his legacy. Oh, he's also an ordained minister. That was for his ego and access to vulnerable women. Thank you Jesus for healing me 🙌🏼💞
Please note you have to take the action to be free. I had been a victim of narcisistic abuse close to death, I would like to tell you this is dangerous, things go worse , God can make a way but you have to take the action. Stay safe and be blessed.
I will never forget as a young wife trying to figure out how this "saved" man was into all these ungodly things. We went to counseling and all the Preacher was focused on was me being submissive. All the blame was put on me being a good wife and also that without a word he may be won. I was like but wait HE IS CLAIMING TO BE A BELIEVER. I was so mad and confused. I then brought up Abigail who was listed as PRUDENT in the Bible yet the preacher says to me. So you think the woman who caused her husband to die was a good example. I said wow. The bible says she is prudent but you are saying her disobedience led to her "FOOLISH" husbands demise when it lists him as the FOOL. Looking back it made me so mad all the spiritual abuse I suffered from people enabling the narc and only focusing on me as the wife and not on what was ACTUALLY being done and all the SIN the narc was participating in. All they had was HIS word, the liar's word saying I'm not meeting his needs and I don't listen to him. I have learned now how to let GOD validate me and I don't care who says what, if I know it is not right I am not going to go with it just because it is a preacher. The Bible shows narcissism traits well and God will deal with them. Yes, I have forgiven however those who will not repent will answer. A true narc will NOT repent because they hate God in their heart and they are too prideful to repent. I'm so glad you teach on this. It's too many people confused on forgiveness, Christianity, being submissive, and allowing people to crush your boundaries.
This is very much what I experienced. Everything came back to “give him what he wants occasionally”, “don’t talk so much” or “give him space”. Nothing from them addressed “Hey why are you going so far in conflict that you frighten your wife?”
Kris Thank you so much for this prayer. I needed this so bad. I had a beautiful daughter with a complete diabolical Narcissistic Sociopath. I left him 15 years ago. But he has still managed to do some of the most horrific things to me. And he uses our Daughter as a pawn to do it. And because he's so crafty when I've tried to tell people what I'm dealing with No One believes me. People don't understand narcissism. The courts don't understand it. pastors in your church don't understand it. I've been beat up right in the courthouse. I've been beat up in the church. I've been beat up by all his flying monkeys. And just when I thought I was finally in an okay place. Out of nowhere he just started his Diabolical Evil Narcissistic crap again. I mean it comes right out of left field. He Loves to stalk me and send is flying monkeys to spy on me. And I find that as he gets older he gets worse. And his vengeful vindictive hatred is on another level. You would never know that somebody this calculated an Evil existed until you've personally dealt with a Narcissistic Sociopath. I do not wish narcissistic abuse on anyone. Again thank you so much for this prayer. It gave some hope. And reminded me to Trust GOD. ❤️💔❤️
Kris, my ex hurt my/our son so badly. He disappeared from our lives. He didn’t even acknowledge our son’s terminal cancer. After my son passed away three years ago, there was no contrition for his lack of compassion and empathy. I don’t care what he thinks of me, this was our son who had a beautiful sensitive and compassionate heart. I’m having a dreadful time forgiving him and the medical professionals who, after two years of urgent care, ER visits and trips to his primary care physician, not one of them caught it and there were many. I lost my one and only guileless son. My gift from God. I have so many that I have prayed for but the anger and bitterness is still there. Thank you for sharing your psychological and biblical knowledge. Before Kaleb died, I asked him if he was scared. He very calmly said, “No. I have Jesus and my mom.” I need help forgiving and ridding myself of thoughts of vindication. God bless you. In the name of Jesus. Amen!
My mom is one too I respectfully blocked her for my own sanity.& in Jesus mighty name I pray that you can forgive her and that he can give you strength for you to move on.
I’m dealing with the narcissist mother, I am a pastor to Africa, and she has hurt me so deeply, and all my life. She was a narcissist, and I didn’t see it, and I played into her hands, but I’m done. God is my stronghold, my God, his righteous hand is lifting me up and holding me and I am getting through this, I’ve had to leave it all behind me and go forward and wipe her out of my life, prayerfully one day very soon she will get her heart right with God and I pray for her, and every single day that she starts doing the right thing and quits trying to hurt her daughter, all I can do is pray for her, and God is wiped all my tears away and I know he’s on my side and I’m grateful, and thank you so much for sharing these videos. They were so helpful more helpful to me and your prayers so sincere and the love I can hear your voice as you pray. Thank you so very much blessings in the name of Jesus amen.
I was married 44 years to a very toxic, controlling narcissist. The Lord worked out details and got me out of the marriage. I did learn to cling to the Lord and draw close to him. Lots of years of counseling have helped. God is faithful. He shows the way. My heart goes out to those still in n relationships.🙏
I stopped going to church because pastors from several different churches worked for the same company I did. When I spoke the truth I was persecuted and conspired against, the pastors job was to confirm the lies being told. Most people who claim to be Christian and pastors are in it for the credibility it gives them in the community. My daughter just married a man that kicks her out of chairs, throws things at her, and hits her in the throat, then tries to talk about how he is a Christian.
I have been locked in a 25 year marriage with a narcissist and I have now been exposed to truth by grace. I left my husband to avoid the hospital 3 times in the last 10 years and I am at the place of fight with him. I haven’t been able to leave him for good because of the financial situation I am in. Every month he expects me to cover him regarding his bills. I refuse. He receives nearly twice what I do in Social Security and he thinks NOTHING of stealing from me!! I have had to get a separate bank account and bank,because of his thieving. 😖🤬🙄🙏☝️
It's such a struggle to overcome the deadly depression caused by living with a narc. He talks about himself all day long. Announces everything he thinks and is going to do. Flies into a rage if challenged, or thinks he is, in any way. He's so very miserable and wants me to be also...and he succeeds. I only want to die and be with Jesus .
We children had a narcissist mother. It was tough living with her envy, gaslighting, resentment, regret and revenge. She absolutely wrecked her own family, and nurtured narcissism among us.
Hey DHW256 thanks for your post as most list a man the narcissist and my experience is wife narc that ruined our family and my childrens youth suffered too and I'm a single dad patching up the damages my two boys are 18 and 22 and just now seeing the truth and I'm sure it's hard cause everyone loves a mom and I've held my mouth to let them see in fact she ran off with my children isolating them from me but I think God planned it to give them a full time view in isolation with her to let them see and I hope it is not damaging as I've always wanted my boys to have relationship with their mom as I provided while mom never worked stayed at home had new Mercedes every two years country clubs and travel and in the top 1% financially but even a strong man such as I am can be brought low by a wife that is a narc infact staying with a narc destroys your soul spirit and self identify and the funny thing is when I met this woman a model who loved her self so much nothing else mattered and I found it attractive and thought that was an asset and had never known anyone like that but after 20 years I'd never associate with such a person and one last thing when I met her I had a company with partners and 350 employee's that loved me so with that kind of attention and service I'm sure I did not see what I was yoking up with....this was good therapy, thank you all and to anyone out there it is written "guard your heart with all dilegence for out of it flows the issues of life".
I am divorcing my narcissist husband after 31 years. I would love to find an online support group made up of people who have gone through this nonsense.
A support group would be great. I’m 72 yrs old and have been alienated from 3 out of 4 children and now even my 3 young grandchildren……all in order to punish me and isolate me from telling the truth. It’s evil.
See the great book, “Truth Heals: What you hide can hurt you. “ by Deborah King. She points out that living lies makes us crazy, and that peace is only possible if we live in truth! So, by seeking and valuing nothing more than truth, on my own, I will heal. And then I will be in a position to help others. “Work out your own salvation, in fear and trembling.” Seeking and accepting the truth, no matter what it is, will heal me. She also says: what we thought would kill us, heals us and saves us, sets us free. From lies. Lies kill. Truth heals. 🙏😁❤️
Been struggling with feeling like he won. He’s getting remarried, he’s rich, he appears happy and all this has me distressed into thinking I’m being punished, that he is blessed. Thank you for this message. I’m encouraged snd plan to read Esher from a fresh perspective.
The narcissists who hurt me; my deceased mother, my older alcoholic sister, my younger alcoholic sister, my youngest daughter....whom I haven't spoken with in over 9 years. I was forced to cut them out of my life. So......I moved thousands of miles away. Yet, I still hear how insecure, jeslous, and hateful they are of me. Why? Because I chose to prove my evil, narcissistic mother wrong by making something of myself, and I'm not in their 200lb plus club.....I went to College and graduated, becoming a n ER/ICU/Trauma Nurse.....and worked 2-3 jobs to get through without help from anyone. Ive never spoken of it. It was my mother, who found out I had graduated by my awesome grandmother who saved me as a child from the hatred of my mother's extreme abuse of me. She was a Nurse too. She'd tell me I was special....different.😊
Praise the Lord for your amazing teachings. I am a Mozambican Watching from South Africa, Thank God for your teachings. I never knew about narcissism until sometime in the beginning of 2023 , after my wife chased me and my 9year old daughter out of her house in March 2023. We had a disagreement about parenting, because she allows her 15year old son, to do whatever he wants, to watch anything online and watches demonic movies, he started printing demonic pictures and place them around the wall in his room. I mean pictures where people are eating other people, and bloody queen pictures with blood dripping. When I expressed my concern about those pictures and the behavior of my stepson to my wife and my father in-law, I became the worse stepdad ever. I suggested that we talk to him the 3of us and ask him to remove the pictures from the wall, my father-in-law said to me, no, we cannot ask him to remove those demonic pictures from the wall, we must just pray. I said, but sir, the Lord have placed me here as the head of this family, to guide my children in the ways of God, before I could finish my sentence, He said No, you are not the head of this family, Jesus is. It's like having a snake in your house, and you become so religious and holy to just pray out a snake from your house. The sad part is that we not just Christians, we are Missionaries. We are living in end times; Jesus is coming back. Let's practice what we preach and hold on to biblical principles no matter what comes our way.
I have to remember the Adversary is tricky... if he can get us to feel like a victim and hold onto anger and resentment and not count our blessings we live in that pain and never move on or find happiness....this is the adversarys goal. I love this " if Gods hand is in it your going to win it" I needed that❤❤❤❤.
I am leaving my husband because of Narcissism And domestic violence. What I realized is to Play Kate him is the best way for me too. Deal with him as I pack my thanks.And move out and move on with my life
I survived him for almost 50 years. I knew it was bad but didn’t know what to call it. I do now. He left for a gay relationship and no one is surprised. Nonetheless I’m in the midst of healing still after nearly 2 years. Thank you for the support you provide.
Oh my dearest I so am with you and mine was 40 and in my 9 th yr of separation but it’s about to fall out and hopefully break this generation curse. My children are 4th generation and He is present and preparing me for a greater plan for His Glory . I pray the same for you also . Took me 10 lawyers to work with it in His time and ways. 🙏 I’m working on a project for women recovery from trauma.
Author Eric M. Hill accurately stated in his book, “Women must understand that any person who advises them to stay with a man who physically abuses them does not speak for God. He speaks out of his own ignorance and contempt for women.”
Jeremiah 7:16 NIV “So do not pray for this people nor offer any plea or petition for them; do not plead with me, for I will not listen to you. Jeremiah 11:14 NIV “Do not pray for this people or offer any plea or petition for them, because I will not listen when they call to me in the time of their distress. Mark 3:29 NIV But whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit will never be forgiven; they are guilty of an eternal sin.” Narcissist will never honor God, but themselves. There is no help nor hope for a narcissist. Narcissist are self-destructive. This is why GOD said to not pray for them, after GOD sent a messenger of hope to them, to turn Narcissist from their wicked ways. Narcissist attack, attack, attack anything and everything that will not agree with them nor submit to them. Narcissist are a god for themselves. Do not pray for Narcissist, but forgive them.
Agreed. I recently found those scriptures from the OT and stopped praying for them. They are forgiven, but I don’t ever foresee repentance and full restoration. Why? In order for a prayer to be answered, two must be in agreement and they are in opposition. Their pride enables them to be perfect and are the the devil’s minions in human form. The devil isn’t dressed with a cape and horns and holding a pitchfork, but it is his actions that speak for him by the way he moves. Scale back the human meat suit and there resides Satan himself!
@@sustainablelife1st Forgiveness doesn’t dismiss the abuse didn’t happen. It is a choice and healing is the process and God is in the business of restoring hearts. All forgiveness is, is accepting it happened and releasing it to Jesus. It doesn’t mean reconciliation or trusting the person again and they are still accountable for their actions. We aren’t the ones to play Judge and jury, as the Bible has already judged their fate. Get wisdom and read Proverbs and you will understand why letting go isn’t as hard as it seems. Proverbs is saturated with metaphors if a wicked person does A, B is the end result and simply the physical law of cause and effect and reaping what you sow. What angers you, controls you and bitterness leads to cancer in the body. At one point we all handed control over to the narcissist, stand firm and take your power back by letting go and letting God. Diamonds were built under pressure. God bless! ❤️🙏🏼✝️
👍👍👍 I've been learning so much about narcs for the last year or 2... I've learned about red flags, triggers & about what to do... But just yesterday, I asked The Lord, " ok, Lord!!! It's been a year now & I'm still recuperating from last year; but I know You have a Plan for me. Please tell me about it, so I can get off the hamster wheel and move on!!!" & Voila !!! I came across This !!! Thank You. 💗🕊️💗.
Oh man. Sadly, sure I am not the only one you are speaking to Dr Kris. Often it does feel like that, and it brings me to my knees and often can barely breath. Anybody else?
To Kris, I hear what your saying. My mother was a Narcisst, her mother was a Narcisst, children's homes I endured Narcissists. My ex-wife was a Narcisst. And the list goes on..."I have had enough".. my patience has run out.
My mother was my first narcissist. All the men I attract are narcissists because that is all I know. It's a familiar dance. I was groomed and trained from childhood to be a servant and a doormat. I'm 58 and now I am awake. Praise God
God wants 🙏 you ❤️ to Put on HIS ARMOR of God!!!God Always Wins Warriors Praise him Always and Rejoice!!!I If God is for us who can be against us❤Right On Yeah BabyGiddy Up🎉
I’m new and new sub. Thank you so much. I was married to the ex over half my life. The discard was horrible. God gave me what I could handle little by little all that was hidden, the lies, cheating the debt, stealing from me. Doing all this the last 12 years I was taking care of my bedridden mom after my dad passed away. Out in the country and secluded he did all he could to destroy me. I have got the house back after he forged my name and said I gave it to him as a gift. Found out he was with at least two other women and living with the one while we were still married. I swear I seen the devil in him. I been healing 4 years and it’s getting better. I take care of my mom 24/7 take care of the home, 10 acres I mow, weed eat and use firewood in the winter I gather. I have donkeys and goats, cats and a little dog. I have a lot on my plate. I have to get and pay caregivers to stay with mom to go to the store. But one thing I can tell you is I’m 65 with 2 knee replacements and I do it, everyday. God has been right there, giving me the strength and healing to get me through it. I praise his holy name. He pulled me out, showed me what I didn’t see, helped me get back up and heal through the hardest years of my life. Thank you 🙏🏼
I have a long line of narcissistic boyfriends and friends/aquaintances due to my childhood, from overts to coverts and a psychopath or three and let me tell you what happened to them: *One was murdered at a party, only 40 years old. (Like he murdered my selfesteem) We were all surprised he lasted as long as he did because he was *that* disturbed. *One became homeless after his girlfriend kicked him out (he mocked and abused me when I became homeless bc of a conman to a conman) *One went into schizophrenia and spends all his time on his couch super depressed. No women want him, iincel for life. (He nearly took my life and caused me heartfailiure I now live with) *One kept breaking women after me and now lives with the last woman he broke down, miserable. (Im hoping she'll one day leave, she seems like a real swetheart, met her accidentally once and instantly liked her) *One was left by his live in girlfriend and became a father. He now alone cares for the child and is still a sex addict, over 50 years old. *One (sociopath) actually admitted his fault since so many other women had all said he abused them but "Wasnt ready to apologize yet" He didnt have to, I forgave and left. He's fine as far as I know. Fine but lonely. *One (friend) started using heroine and is slowly killing himself. He planned to manipulate me to commit suicide to prove what a master manipulator he was so when he dies (it's a matter of time, I'm afraid) his plan for me, actually will be his own fate. (Hows that for irony?) *A conman that fooled me out of my apartment (psychopath, he had the diagnosis antisocial personality disorder) Died sick in bed with an amputated heel last year and spend his last time in a wheelchair and then bedridden getting sevral shots for pain a day. There isnt just a God but he keeps his word! "I will lay thine enemies at your feet" If you love him, he really loves you back, deeper than we can ever understand. Choose the right side; Choose God! *Gods soldiers are the last to stand*
I've also let too many narcissists into my life. My step-dad was a violent alcoholic that Mom stayed with for 6 years. I'm sure that it is the reason why I am subconsciously choosing narcissists. I recently ended it with the last one. I will pray for him to see how hurtful he is to women and get help. Other than that, I want no contact with him. This video was very helpful. I'm praying for you and I for God's help to break this cycle and to find a Godly husband. ❤
@@juliecarson4332 Yes I'm in therapy now but..I cant seem to break it. Im so used to being maltreated that my bar's too high for abuse so I dont see the unempathic behaviour until its too late. I ended it with the last in March and still am in an online contact with a diagnosed psychopath so its..You know..Not up to par but could be worse. Yes! Do pray for him as I pray for mine. They need it since they do suffer a great deal, these are brain damages of the prefrontal cortrex, that's why they behave so irratically and are so hard to grasp. And please do let me know if you find a way of ending these cycles, I'm doing all I can and will do whatever it takes (within reson of course) to break it bc it really does ruin ones life. Would be nice also to have someone to talk to in this same situation but none of the battered women Ive spoken to wants to talk for some reason..
If the narcissist is abusive you certainly don't want your young child being brought up in an abusive home that's scriptural and that wasn't that hard to answer. If you're being abused you don't want your child to be abused
My husband left me for his coworker 6months ago. We have to live together during the divorce process...well his girlfriend thinks he's cheating and keeps kicking him out and then he tells me his problems well I let her know. I was served recently and there are nothing but lies in it..I was praying and praying for all of this and to keep my home and he doesn't get a penny God is so good. I am so blessed beyond measure....God knows he left me to be with his girlfriend off the mountain before the big blizzard hit I was alone saving myself our pets and our home...I always respond to my husband with God knows the truth that's how I end conversations.....hang in there they do get what they deserve ❤
After another rebellious act last night, by my "Christian" husband (horrific narc), I asked my daughter if he will ever be punished for his endless evil deeds? This is my answer. Thank you for your Christian response. It makes me sad to think of the 29 years of emotional and spiritual pain my children and we have experienced, but as a mature believer, I know God works ALL things together for good...
I’m in the same situation; we have an only son, one child who’s now 23. My husband holds so much bitterness rage anger against him when he messes up. He’s been the biggest enabler for our son. And still thinks he can control him. If my son steps out of line, he starts calling him a sorry SOB, tells me he could careless if our son drops dead. These words break my heart. My son drinks, and I’ve put his addiction into Gods hands. I’ve been through so much between the both of them
I’m so happy I found your video! I have suffered a lot being abused by the narcissist 😢I’m so angry and feel like they are not getting their Karma! With God involved I know justice will be served.🙏🏻❤️
When you spoke to the fact that our God is capable of healing anyone, and that yes, there IS hope for a narcissist WHEN they wake up and repent, that God CAN change hearts, I cried and thanked you for that. Bless you, Kris. I continue to come listen to your teaching and guidance AS a repentant narcissist. There is still much to learn, much growing to do.
Kris, thank you for your Christ based therapy videos. You have helped me keep the correct Godly perspective and I realized yesterday that God pruned a violent narcissist out of my life, as I was too weak to do it after almost 40 years of abusive. Scott
She's right- set up boundaries. This happened with my daughter. And my ex husband. I set up boundaries and if you think stinky of me, oh well! I stick to my word. My life is so much better. Boundaries are healthy.
😢this really got to me. 12 years ago left and (divorced) a narcissist, biggest mistake of my life, abusive, liar and now dealing with another one who married my daughter and keeping the children away from my daughter and I struggled about leaving my relationship with God when it first happened and have been fighting for salvation and hanging in there…wondered a lot of things mentioned like here and questioned God and this watching you speak Kris really lifted me up and made me cry. I am committed to God, pray alot…thank you and going to make a point to hear next your story being married like myself to a narcissist.
I'm realizing I've never known so called SAFE people closely enough to know what to look for. When she said Abused people feel familiar with what tirn out to be abusers, i can so relate.. as a woman i tried to be submissive, it never caused him to love me, only more complaints. I have been single for like 32 years since then and have learned Jesus is SAFE, the only One i can safely feel okay with. He has always been nothing but GOOD to me, and so i am content now, my life is good. I can have peace as long as i stay close to Him😊
It took me 11 years to forgive my Narc. I knew it only hurt me not him so i prayed and prayed finally with no contact it happened. Now i actually laugh again and smile. I was beginning to think i never would again but you will! I think the harder we love the more we can hate them for the pain and time they stole from our lives. I never remarried because i never wanted to. I did not know till about a month ago anything about Narc. I can see that the more you learn the better you will get. I saw the hatred and did not understand what i had done. Now i know, Nothing!!😊
What a powerful message !!!That brought me a lot of hope, I have been listening to your messages lately and have received a lot of healing I’m going through a divorce from a narcissist and it’s been difficult you understand me I thank the Lord for your life THANKS!!
@@yolandagrabowski6043SADLY YOU HAVE THAT HUGELY WRRROONG FOR THAT WITCH YOU ARE COMPLAINING ABOUT IS YOUR SPIRITUAL QUEEN MOTHER JEZEBELS HER WITCH STILL SAYS IN YOUR BIBLE IN 1KINGS THAT SHE IS YOUR I AM. WITCH IS NOT YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER :: I AM :: AND THERE FOR THIS WITCH STATES THAT"" SHE WILL NOT SUFFER THE LOSSSSS OF YOU !!! THAT ARE LEGALLY HER CHILDREN FOR ::: JUST AS ADAM AND EVES DISOBEYED GOD HAVE BEEN BORN IN YOUR SPIRITUAL QUEEN MOTHER JEZEBELS WOMB OF HER WICKEDNESS !!! THEM IS GODS WORD WITCH HE BEGAN TO EXPOSE ABOUT HER ::: NOW SOME 37 YEARS AGO !!!! GOD BLESS !! AMEN !!!
@@yolandagrabowski6043 BUT THE HUSBANDS BODY IS THE WIFES ::: WIFES FOR HUSBAND !!!!!!! BUT IF ONE IS NOT HONOURING THE THEN .... IF THEY DO NOT HONOUR YOU ::: RE FUSE TO SHAPE UP ::: MARRIAGE IS NULL AND VOID !!!
I’m so thankful for these videos that “popped up” “out of the blue” a week ago (I know they are actually a gift from GOD). I was just hearing the part about taking care of yourself and I think of the many times that my mil would tell me whenever I did anything that benefited me in any way: “you’re so selfish”; “you should be ashamed of yourself”. Yeah. She’s been gone about 6 years now, but I deal with her daughter gripping at me for trying to do things that benefit my health rather than doing what she demands of me. I spend the majority of my time working to try to keep up with her bills while she spends the majority of her time in bed, in a chair watching tv or out running around town spending money. Did I mention she’s a serial adulteress? I definitely need help.
It’s so true when you said the narcissist hates whoever likes you and is nice to you. That has happened to me with every one of my family members. They not only smeared me, they eventually will say nasty things about people associated with me, but those who are mean or physically hurt me, they always praise. I can’t tell you how much this explained some of what they have done. It’s also comforting to know justice will be served. Thank you Kris for that beautiful prayer, it was so needed. Amen
I have been pulling my access to my “codependent narcissist” MIL away and it feels great. It has helped me finally lessen the resentment in my heart, that I was carrying around for years……. and as a widow, bring back my focus to MY needs and what’s best for my children here!
You bringing the story of Esther in this light was encouraging to me. I have been doing a deep dive on narcissism and working on myself for over 2 years now and I am besides myself and and dealing with depression with the impact narcissism from my ex and my husband's ex. They have made it thier mission to put our kids against us. We have been good parents but in the eyes of our children they only see the bad. In which it was from the reaction to the chaos the toxic parents created. Parental Alienation is no joke! I wouldn't wish it on anyone. We are so heartbroken. 💔😭 It's been years but I'm still hoping and praying for reconciliation. 🙏
I'm sorry to hear this. Narcissists seem to get enjoyment out of alienating people. I had this experience with a niece who thought I should have adopted her! She's a classic narcissistic who has turned her entire family against me - all because SHE thought I should have adopted her! She is merciless. I have seen what has happened to you in my family as well. It's heartbreaking. But I believe there will be justice one day for EVERY ONE. God doesn't just sit back & observe. He will judge the whole earth. God bless you.
I know the book of Esther well, but I saw something new in it after your explanation of it in this video. When God releases us from the power of the narcissist, He releases us to FIGHT for our lives. This requires courage and faith in God. Thank you Kris for your insight. Praise be to God our Father through the Lord Jesus Christ who never forgets us and loves us with an everlasting love in His Son. 🙏❤
What a godsend of a message so desperately needed right now. I lay here broken and confused and fighting through finding the strength to get up and fill up my cup! I'm so grateful your videos popped up in my feed again after losing so many saved videos and subscriptions after making changes to my phone settings. This is God working, I know it! Thank you for being faithful to His calling for you, sister!
I am still trying to survive a divorce from a 30yr marriage to a narcissist. He literally bankrupted me, abandoned me and our son, and turned every friend and family member against me. My car has already been repoed and now we are being evicted from our home. We have no help. I have gone to every agency and foundation and can’t get anything. I have also lost my job because of the stress from the situation, but the job was toxic too, so I am ok with it. It’s just not good timing. I have gone no contact at all. The son still has contact. My son and older son have found a temporary home for now, while I’m going to live in my van. I have prayed and prayed for help and nothing. I have tried to forgive him and let it go, but it is a struggle. I really want to be at peace with all of it, but I struggle because of what’s happening to us. I do not have any family of my own because I come from 8 yrs of being sexually abused and beaten by my own father. I was black sheeped after filing charges . So I have no help. It’s a lonely and hard struggle.
Over 30 year marriage to a narcissist. I have pain inside like everyone experiences. But hard to process. Because I'm not sure where it is coming from. At the same time. I'm sure God will bring me out better in time!
You have to forgive them for the betrayal. they are 2 yr olds emotionally. You have your soul intact. They are disconnected from their soul. Be glad you are not like them. "Psychopath Free" the book really explained so much to me and helped jump start my recovery. God Bless 🌹
My main worry/anxiety has not been for myself, nearly as much as how many problems and issues my 4 children have had from the divorce where there were no rules, just enabling. I am now being alienated from my own grandchildren, too. It’s called Narcissistic Parental Alienation.
I'm sorry about this. I often wish my children knew more about what happened, but I cannot say. With narcissism we dealt with some of the most evil motives and behavior around.
This is them adding sin to sin indeed. God does not overlook any of it. A true test to your faith to trust him and get ahead with him yourself and not give the devil any place in you. ❤
Same here. I'm not allowed to see my grandchildren but we can ask for power beyond normal for God to take care of our children and grandchildren. J W. O rg
The Devil Is A Narcissist is a book by Gavriela Powers. Though it’s very painful, I must remember 2Timothy 3, which says in the final days there will be very difficult times, especially children rebelling and hating their parents, hearts growing cold, lovers of themselves, selfishness, etc. No way around it. Only the Holy Spirit can give us the power to endure to the end.
My dad is a narcissist. Was abusive and angry my whole life. When my sisters and I grew up, they moved to get away from him and I’m the only child who comes around. He has no friends, parents are gone, his own brother doesn’t speak to him. He only has my mom because she is trauma bonded to him and won’t leave. He’s still emotional and verbally abusive towards her and I can’t stand it. He’s miserable, angry, and reaping what he sowed. Yet, nothing is ever his fault. He still doesn’t see how he caused his own misery. I chose to forgive him, but it’s definitely a continual process. Lots of trauma there. The thing is, he’s so inward focused that he cannot see that he is the problem. He’s missed out on so much, and I know he has a calling on his life to serve God but he will never know it because he refuses to submit to God’s will over his desire for control. It’s sad because he spent his life saving money over serving God and loving his family. Now he has a pile of money and no one to enjoy it with. he has always had major health issues due to poor eating habits and suffered a stroke last year. He will leave this world without knowing all God had planned for him and he will have to answer for that one day. He didn’t get away with anything. Narcs are miserable, and the older they get, the more misery they are in. A life wasted.
I have been married now for seven years to my second wife who is a narcissist. At first I felt ashamed for my choice but have come to realize that she was not honest in her feelings twords me. After counseling, I am leaving the marriage
My sister and mother are both angry, bitter, vindictive people. When I was younger I wanted justice however, now I only want them to find peace. Although my desire is to have a relationship with them. What I really want is Gods will be done, in my life. I want to truly be able to say, it is well with my soul.
Kris - I just recently found you and I’m so grateful. After 43 years of believing my narcissistic husband would seek help and help me keep our family together, I’ve had to let go. It’s a horrible time but I believe God has shown me a way out. Your words in another video have helped me in dealing with my adult children. “Jesus said nothing.” Thank you so very much.
Amen. ! I felt as if you were talking to me. I’m going through the storm right now. My husband was not an abusive husband so his narcissism showed in a different manner by cheating and breaking up our 23 yr marriage. The sad part is that I still love him very much but I filed for the divorce. I am encouraged that God will serve his justice as promised in His word. Thank you for sharing all your knowledge.
So true and a great reminder. Clean hands and a pure heart. God's favour and timing is upon us. Thank you Lord. I CHOOSE to trust you! ❤ Thank you for loving me, you haven't forgotten me and are aware and bringing healing forgiveness and justice that we will be renewed and the narcotics redemption Justice and remove the bitter root within me. Forgive me, block Satan in Jesus name. Amen 🙏
My mom was . Thought she was sick in the head mentally . Then married a person like my mom and dated the same. Found out she was a N . In 2016 . Who knew . Man I know the difference now . But thank you for your words
In tears here.. THANK YOU sister Kris for the reminder of Yah's power in our circumstances concerning narcissists. Thank you also for your touching prayer. Needed both at this time. If, our Father is glorified in my current situation in HIS time, I will gladly let you know!! Be blessed ALL. Remember Satan uses these people to trample on our faith in our MOST HIGH. WE are NOT to let this happen. Thank YOU Yeshua/Jesus for your mercy and humility which is shown during these times of waiting and wanting. Amen
Ms, you walked me through narcissistism in a way that I could never understand, and we always appreciate people like you, I tried to talk to my female managers at the job but he was ahead of me, I decided to cut him off when I realized that I can't win, but I did told him that I will expose him and make everyone else knows that he is a fake guy and hurt My family, I told him that his glasses don't make him Smart
I was listening to your prayer and I can honestly say that I don't feel that rage and confusion anymore since a couple of years ago. I did feel like that but I don't today. Anyone who could relate to the words in the prayer, this rage will pass in time while you keep praying and listening to smart people like this woman in the video. God bless and protect you! Merry Christmas. ❤
I was married for 24 years to a "Christian" textbook narcissist. (I think he WROTE the book, actually.) 😐My sanity and physical health were just about gone when I left him - contrary to counseling by church leaders to stay (that's a whole OTHER story). I am still healing mentally and physically from the damage done ... but ... I have come to the place of accepting that God has a plan for it - despite the fact that I don't yet understand. Joseph's story in the Old Testament is great comfort to me. I trust God's love for me and His sovereignty.
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Shae, I wish you well as your healing continues. Christianity + narcissism is a bad mix, very bad. I've been there, and now I'll do almost anything to protect myself.
I don't even that he cld be a called as a christian because he is not even attempting to be like Jesus who was full of grace and truth
Shea I share your story. May we fulfill the scriptures that say we must prove the devil a liar. J w. Org
Psalms 119 Then I will reply to the one taunting me, For I put my trust in your word. 43 Do not utterly remove the word of truth from my mouth, For I have hoped in your judgment. 44 I will keep your law constantly, Forever and ever. 45 And I will walk about in a place of safety...
Yes Genesis 37 and on, it led me to. The Cluster B (black and white thinking) (idealize, devalue, discard, replace). Joseph's discard by his unhealthy family was actually a great grace. As Kris says God rescues, God heals, God restores.
May God release my bitter heart so I may find forgiveness for those who offended and oppressed me.
So good. I survived a 25 year marriage to a Christian narcissist that just about ruined me. Ten years later he is still reaping what he sowed and I have healed and am closer to God than ever. Praise His name!
Stay in Gods light.
How is he? Just curious. Thank you
@@DailyWalkNuggets I went no contact, so I really don't know much, except that it cost him a lot.
@@DailyWalkNuggets nothing yet.
I so, long for this testimony 😢
Lord delivery me from this situation. I am certainly to blame for being here, all those red flags I wove into a beautiful ribbon and bound my own hands and feet with it. Its so bad that we have to get a degree in terrible things and it feels like we never graduate. I just want to be free from this extended family.
Sounds like me
“When God’s hand is in it you are going to win it” that touched me to the core. Thank you Jesus.
It doesn't seem God's hand is in my situation because I'm not winning. My ex narcissist is winning with every lie him and his wife tell.
I hollered and repeated it too! That was a word!
@@jennifersolga6172I know how you feel & I have to remind myself that these type people have a demonic spirit ( & Gods timing is NOT our timing) but because of these demonic Entitled People, I truly believe that there isn't any way that God won't take care of these Evil Narcissist! I couldn't get a word in on an argument with the Narc & the word salad being thrown at me & I remember saying to this person who seemed to have a demonic spirit & was directing some nonsense my way 8 managed to get out That I didn't have to worry about doing anything to this person But That God above my Heavenly Father would surely deal with and punish this person.... And I truely do believe that HE will... Keep that in mind & even if it isn't in this abusers life it will be at their death! This is what I tell myself try & remember hope that can help you... No matter how it seems also I also believe that whoever your x is now married to she will if she hasn't already she will see your X's true colors b4 it is over an may need help to get away from him... I realise I don't know your situation just a thght..
I believe there are seasons for all to be in hell not forever otherwise God is evil . If he holds infinity ♾️ and you steal a candy bar should you be punished eternally? All have fallen short even Jesus said I am not good only God
God is always working
My mother was an extreme narcissist and still has some of the traits - but she did become a true Christian and the only reason I have a relationship with her is that I saw the changes in her life. She had godly fruit and now loves the Lord ❤️
This is extremely encouraging. It almost seems impossible for them to change.
@@amberdawn5782 yes - Praise the Lord it is a miracle - pray for loved ones who are narcissists 🙏🏻❤️ God is able to save them and change them.
We are praying for my mom to have her heart changed. It seems like it's never going to happen but it's in God's hands
May I see the same breakthrough with my mother and younger sister who are basically "thick as thieves" (codependent). May they be convicted in their spirit in Jesus name, Amen
@@avanz2885 Amen!!! Lord please save them and change their hearts and minds to be more like You! Amen 🙏🏻❤️
Yes, I pray for the healing and repenting of narcissist that they stop hurting and stop hurting others.
I've had 10 years with a narc. I've had to watch him get away with everything and I get away with nothing. I don't understand how years of trying to be a good person landed me in this position. I ask God every day to help me.
@@danidesanti don’t give up. I felt the same way. I thought it was some sort of punishment that I ended up with my husband. I met him at church so I thought I was doing as I should. Sometimes God gives us the tools to save ourselves.,
@@Hadtoleave15 thank you for your loving reply.
"when God's hand is in it you're gonna win it!" yessssss so true 💪🏻👌🏻🙌🏻
As a child of a successful narcissist, i have never thought of Esther as a story of God's victory over a narcissist. Thank you for the Biblical insight.
I adopt the no contact policy. I do pray that God forgive them to avert their destination to hell.
I do the same with my former spouse. Stay away (nothing says that I have to interact with her) and PRAY that God leads her to Jesus. Pray for or enemies.
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@@Zona-dw9rp i pray for good people, not for demons! my prayers are precious!
@@nicoloclemente6564 I understand. But, Jesus came to heal the sick, not the healthy. Many blessings to you!
@@Zona-dw9rp Thank you, huge blessings to you! There are people who don't deserve healing, some narcissists have done incredibly atrocious things like killing animals and enjoying that, they deserve their karma, they deserve hell. Oh..jesus hated the narcissists, he didnt want them around him!! And...i don't really care why jesus was here, i don't like him, he was not vegetarian so he was cruel to animals. I prefer osho, he was more compassionate with ALL the living beings.
The narc's 7th marriage ended after 4 months. He couldn't keep a job or manage money. He's now 70 and driving a tour bus while he has a broken ankle. He lost his teaching license. He had a history of sexually harassing coworkers. He lost one job because he harassed our son's third grade teacher. Seven decades and this is his legacy. Oh, he's also an ordained minister. That was for his ego and access to vulnerable women. Thank you Jesus for healing me 🙌🏼💞
God will turn all of this around as only He can. amen
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Amen in Jesus Christ's name.
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In Jesus mighty name!
Romans 8:28
God set me free from a Narcissist through these videos
Please note you have to take the action to be free. I had been a victim of narcisistic abuse close to death, I would like to tell you this is dangerous, things go worse , God can make a way but you have to take the action. Stay safe and be blessed.
@@user-xt4jo7hj1sIt was fierce battle....but i deleted feelings and took action through Faith
I will never forget as a young wife trying to figure out how this "saved" man was into all these ungodly things. We went to counseling and all the Preacher was focused on was me being submissive. All the blame was put on me being a good wife and also that without a word he may be won. I was like but wait HE IS CLAIMING TO BE A BELIEVER. I was so mad and confused. I then brought up Abigail who was listed as PRUDENT in the Bible yet the preacher says to me. So you think the woman who caused her husband to die was a good example. I said wow. The bible says she is prudent but you are saying her disobedience led to her "FOOLISH" husbands demise when it lists him as the FOOL. Looking back it made me so mad all the spiritual abuse I suffered from people enabling the narc and only focusing on me as the wife and not on what was ACTUALLY being done and all the SIN the narc was participating in. All they had was HIS word, the liar's word saying I'm not meeting his needs and I don't listen to him. I have learned now how to let GOD validate me and I don't care who says what, if I know it is not right I am not going to go with it just because it is a preacher. The Bible shows narcissism traits well and God will deal with them. Yes, I have forgiven however those who will not repent will answer. A true narc will NOT repent because they hate God in their heart and they are too prideful to repent. I'm so glad you teach on this. It's too many people confused on forgiveness, Christianity, being submissive, and allowing people to crush your boundaries.
I Finally Left Recently
So Filled With Joy Now!
I got same experience too. So disgusting person have to say. This will take time for us and to learn which one is anti-Chris among the sheep
Wow!! That preacher was way way off!! Nabal caused his own death because he was an evil churl. The Bible states it plainly!
I had a similar experience to yours.
This is very much what I experienced. Everything came back to “give him what he wants occasionally”, “don’t talk so much” or “give him space”. Nothing from them addressed “Hey why are you going so far in conflict that you frighten your wife?”
Kris Thank you so much for this prayer. I needed this so bad. I had a beautiful daughter with a complete diabolical Narcissistic Sociopath. I left him 15 years ago. But he has still managed to do some of the most horrific things to me. And he uses our Daughter as a pawn to do it. And because he's so crafty when I've tried to tell people what I'm dealing with No One believes me. People don't understand narcissism. The courts don't understand it. pastors in your church don't understand it. I've been beat up right in the courthouse. I've been beat up in the church. I've been beat up by all his flying monkeys. And just when I thought I was finally in an okay place. Out of nowhere he just started his Diabolical Evil Narcissistic crap again. I mean it comes right out of left field. He Loves to stalk me and send is flying monkeys to spy on me. And I find that as he gets older he gets worse. And his vengeful vindictive hatred is on another level. You would never know that somebody this calculated an Evil existed until you've personally dealt with a Narcissistic Sociopath. I do not wish narcissistic abuse on anyone. Again thank you so much for this prayer. It gave some hope. And reminded me to Trust GOD. ❤️💔❤️
Kris, my ex hurt my/our son so badly. He disappeared from our lives. He didn’t even acknowledge our son’s terminal cancer. After my son passed away three years ago, there was no contrition for his lack of compassion and empathy. I don’t care what he thinks of me, this was our son who had a beautiful sensitive and compassionate heart. I’m having a dreadful time forgiving him and the medical professionals who, after two years of urgent care, ER visits and trips to his primary care physician, not one of them caught it and there were many. I lost my one and only guileless son. My gift from God. I have so many that I have prayed for but the anger and bitterness is still there.
Thank you for sharing your psychological and biblical knowledge.
Before Kaleb died, I asked him if he was scared. He very calmly said, “No. I have Jesus and my mom.” I need help forgiving and ridding myself of thoughts of vindication.
God bless you. In the name of Jesus. Amen!
God bless you
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You know you'll see your dear son, Kaleb, again. He sounds as if he was a marvelous young man, and I'm looking forward to meeting him.
@@bobtaylor170 It would be a pleasure to introduce you to him. May the Lord Bless you. Keep looking up.
@@marycahill4455 Thank you. 🌸 🙏🏼
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I marked my day 14/11/2023; and I will always celebrate; I have been set free ; Thank you so much Kris for allowing God to use you. Iii
This lady has the sweetest spirit, I'm actually in awe of it. She is such a gentle and kind and wise teacher. God bless you sweet sister❤
Amen in Jesus Christ's name.
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Married for 40years. Just now understanding that I am married to a Christian convert narcissist.
My mother is narcissistic. Please pray for my healing.
Lord please heal sanelabogdan! And all who have been abused by narcs. Amen 🙏🏻❤️
My mom is one too I respectfully blocked her for my own sanity.& in Jesus mighty name I pray that you can forgive her and that he can give you strength for you to move on.
I’m dealing with the narcissist mother, I am a pastor to Africa, and she has hurt me so deeply, and all my life. She was a narcissist, and I didn’t see it, and I played into her hands, but I’m done. God is my stronghold, my God, his righteous hand is lifting me up and holding me and I am getting through this, I’ve had to leave it all behind me and go forward and wipe her out of my life, prayerfully one day very soon she will get her heart right with God and I pray for her, and every single day that she starts doing the right thing and quits trying to hurt her daughter, all I can do is pray for her, and God is wiped all my tears away and I know he’s on my side and I’m grateful, and thank you so much for sharing these videos. They were so helpful more helpful to me and your prayers so sincere and the love I can hear your voice as you pray. Thank you so very much blessings in the name of Jesus amen.
I was married 44 years to a very toxic, controlling narcissist. The Lord worked out details and got me out of the marriage. I did learn to cling to the Lord and draw close to him. Lots of years of counseling have helped. God is faithful. He shows the way. My heart goes out to those still in n relationships.🙏
Thank you for your testimony ❤️
I stopped going to church because pastors from several different churches worked for the same company I did. When I spoke the truth I was persecuted and conspired against, the pastors job was to confirm the lies being told. Most people who claim to be Christian and pastors are in it for the credibility it gives them in the community. My daughter just married a man that kicks her out of chairs, throws things at her, and hits her in the throat, then tries to talk about how he is a Christian.
Same for me, it's so sad.
I see a woman I know in a toxic narcissistic relationship. Staying for 50 years or 30,40 whatever how does that happen?
I have been locked in a 25 year marriage with a narcissist and I have now been exposed to truth by grace. I left my husband to avoid the hospital 3 times in the last 10 years and I am at the place of fight with him. I haven’t been able to leave him for good because of the financial situation I am in. Every month he expects me to cover him regarding his bills. I refuse. He receives nearly twice what I do in Social Security and he thinks NOTHING of stealing from me!! I have had to get a separate bank account and bank,because of his thieving. 😖🤬🙄🙏☝️
It's such a struggle to overcome the deadly depression caused by living with a narc. He talks about himself all day long. Announces everything he thinks and is going to do. Flies into a rage if challenged, or thinks he is, in any way. He's so very miserable and wants me to be also...and he succeeds. I only want to die and be with Jesus .
When I think of narcissism, it opens my mind to the seven deadly sins and problems of the ego.
We children had a narcissist mother. It was tough living with her envy, gaslighting, resentment, regret and revenge. She absolutely wrecked her own family, and nurtured narcissism among us.
Hey DHW256 thanks for your post as most list a man the narcissist and my experience is wife narc that ruined our family and my childrens youth suffered too and I'm a single dad patching up the damages my two boys are 18 and 22 and just now seeing the truth and I'm sure it's hard cause everyone loves a mom and I've held my mouth to let them see in fact she ran off with my children isolating them from me but I think God planned it to give them a full time view in isolation with her to let them see and I hope it is not damaging as I've always wanted my boys to have relationship with their mom as I provided while mom never worked stayed at home had new Mercedes every two years country clubs and travel and in the top 1% financially but even a strong man such as I am can be brought low by a wife that is a narc infact staying with a narc destroys your soul spirit and self identify and the funny thing is when I met this woman a model who loved her self so much nothing else mattered and I found it attractive and thought that was an asset and had never known anyone like that but after 20 years I'd never associate with such a person and one last thing when I met her I had a company with partners and 350 employee's that loved me so with that kind of attention and service I'm sure I did not see what I was yoking up with....this was good therapy, thank you all and to anyone out there it is written "guard your heart with all dilegence for out of it flows the issues of life".
I am divorcing my narcissist husband after 31 years. I would love to find an online support group made up of people who have gone through this nonsense.
Have been married to one 30 years, yes would love the same
I was married 31 years. I just started up this private FB support group.
“It’s not love. It’s manipulation.”
A support group would be great. I’m 72 yrs old and have been alienated from 3 out of 4 children and now even my 3 young grandchildren……all in order to punish me and isolate me from telling the truth. It’s evil.
See the great book, “Truth Heals: What you hide can hurt you. “ by Deborah King. She points out that living lies makes us crazy, and that peace is only possible if we live in truth! So, by seeking and valuing nothing more than truth, on my own, I will heal. And then I will be in a position to help others. “Work out your own salvation, in fear and trembling.” Seeking and accepting the truth, no matter what it is, will heal me. She also says: what we thought would kill us, heals us and saves us, sets us free. From lies.
Lies kill. Truth heals. 🙏😁❤️
“Wherever there are ignorance and confusion, there are always lies.” author unknown
Been struggling with feeling like he won. He’s getting remarried, he’s rich, he appears happy and all this has me distressed into thinking I’m being punished, that he is blessed. Thank you for this message. I’m encouraged snd plan to read Esher from a fresh perspective.
A narcissist will never be happy with what they have riches and/or a beautiful wife. Nothing pleases them in the long run 😢
The narcissists who hurt me; my deceased mother, my older alcoholic sister, my younger alcoholic sister, my youngest daughter....whom I haven't spoken with in over 9 years. I was forced to cut them out of my life.
So......I moved thousands of miles away. Yet, I still hear how insecure, jeslous, and hateful they are of me. Why? Because I chose to prove my evil, narcissistic mother wrong by making something of myself, and I'm not in their 200lb plus club.....I went to College and graduated, becoming a n ER/ICU/Trauma Nurse.....and worked 2-3 jobs to get through without help from anyone.
Ive never spoken of it. It was my mother, who found out I had graduated by my awesome grandmother who saved me as a child from the hatred of my mother's extreme abuse of me. She was a Nurse too. She'd tell me I was special....different.😊
Opened my eyes where I was blind
Praise the Lord for your amazing teachings. I am a Mozambican Watching from South Africa, Thank God for your teachings. I never knew about narcissism until sometime in the beginning of 2023 , after my wife chased me and my 9year old daughter out of her house in March 2023. We had a disagreement about parenting, because she allows her 15year old son, to do whatever he wants, to watch anything online and watches demonic movies, he started printing demonic pictures and place them around the wall in his room. I mean pictures where people are eating other people, and bloody queen pictures with blood dripping. When I expressed my concern about those pictures and the behavior of my stepson to my wife and my father in-law, I became the worse stepdad ever. I suggested that we talk to him the 3of us and ask him to remove the pictures from the wall, my father-in-law said to me, no, we cannot ask him to remove those demonic pictures from the wall, we must just pray. I said, but sir, the Lord have placed me here as the head of this family, to guide my children in the ways of God, before I could finish my sentence, He said No, you are not the head of this family, Jesus is. It's like having a snake in your house, and you become so religious and holy to just pray out a snake from your house. The sad part is that we not just Christians, we are Missionaries. We are living in end times; Jesus is coming back. Let's practice what we preach and hold on to biblical principles no matter what comes our way.
I know what u mean...my wife lost her mind
You are an amazing man and father to those kids. May God guide you and give you peace through the hurt and pain you experiencing
Jesus angrily knocked tables over of those beings disrespecting his father's house. We are considered that house.
Geesh, I wished I had met a Godly man who cares about his family like you do
Hold on dear brother. Jesus is on your side. Don't give up.
I have to remember the Adversary is tricky... if he can get us to feel like a victim and hold onto anger and resentment and not count our blessings we live in that pain and never move on or find happiness....this is the adversarys goal. I love this
" if Gods hand is in it your going to win it" I needed that❤❤❤❤.
God has used you and this message to answer a prayer request I prayed just a few hours ago💜 Thank you beautiful sister in Christ🙏
IF THERE A LIE YOU ARE BELIEVING THERES A TRUTH YOUR NOT RECIEVING ❤
Amen, thank you Lord for this perfectly timed message. God is so loving and truly amazing. I desperately needed this reminder that God loves me.
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I am leaving my husband because of Narcissism
And domestic violence.
What I realized is to Play Kate him is the best way for me too. Deal with him as I pack my thanks.And move out and move on with my life
I survived him for almost 50 years. I knew it was bad but didn’t know what to call it. I do now. He left for a gay relationship and no one is surprised. Nonetheless I’m in the midst of healing still after nearly 2 years. Thank you for the support you provide.
According to Sam Vaknin - all narcissists are homosexuals because they are secretly in love with themselves. I think my ex is in the closet too.
Don’t let have any room in your mind , he done enough damage . Enjoy life.
Glad you got free. What a blow to the heart! Best wishes for your recovery. God bless?
Oh my dearest I so am with you and mine was 40 and in my 9 th yr of separation but it’s about to fall out and hopefully break this generation curse. My children are 4th generation and He is present and preparing me for a greater plan for His Glory .
I pray the same for you also .
Took me 10 lawyers to work with it in His time and ways. 🙏 I’m working on a project for women recovery from trauma.
"Clean hands pure heart"❤❤❤
Very true, "Veangence is of God"... Lord help me to have a Pure Heart 🙏
Thank you! I'm with You
Author Eric M. Hill accurately stated in his book, “Women must understand that any person who advises them to stay with a man who physically abuses them does not speak for God. He speaks out of his own ignorance and contempt for women.”
Jeremiah 7:16 NIV
“So do not pray for this people nor offer any plea or petition for them; do not plead with me, for I will not listen to you.
Jeremiah 11:14 NIV
“Do not pray for this people or offer any plea or petition for them, because I will not listen when they call to me in the time of their distress.
Mark 3:29 NIV
But whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit will never be forgiven; they are guilty of an eternal sin.”
Narcissist will never honor God, but themselves. There is no help nor hope for a narcissist. Narcissist are self-destructive. This is why GOD said to not pray for them, after GOD sent a messenger of hope to them, to turn Narcissist from their wicked ways. Narcissist attack, attack, attack anything and everything that will not agree with them nor submit to them. Narcissist are a god for themselves. Do not pray for Narcissist, but forgive them.
Agreed. I recently found those scriptures from the OT and stopped praying for them. They are forgiven, but I don’t ever foresee repentance and full restoration. Why? In order for a prayer to be answered, two must be in agreement and they are in opposition. Their pride enables them to be perfect and are the the devil’s minions in human form. The devil isn’t dressed with a cape and horns and holding a pitchfork, but it is his actions that speak for him by the way he moves. Scale back the human meat suit and there resides Satan himself!
Very interesting 🤔
100%. Not our place to forgive the unrepentant. Doing so make us complicit.
@@sustainablelife1st You must forgive.. Forgiveness keeps you free from chains and bondages.
@@sustainablelife1st Forgiveness doesn’t dismiss the abuse didn’t happen. It is a choice and healing is the process and God is in the business of restoring hearts. All forgiveness is, is accepting it happened and releasing it to Jesus. It doesn’t mean reconciliation or trusting the person again and they are still accountable for their actions. We aren’t the ones to play Judge and jury, as the Bible has already judged their fate. Get wisdom and read Proverbs and you will understand why letting go isn’t as hard as it seems. Proverbs is saturated with metaphors if a wicked person does A, B is the end result and simply the physical law of cause and effect and reaping what you sow. What angers you, controls you and bitterness leads to cancer in the body. At one point we all handed control over to the narcissist, stand firm and take your power back by letting go and letting God. Diamonds were built under pressure. God bless! ❤️🙏🏼✝️
👍👍👍 I've been learning so much about narcs for the last year or 2...
I've learned about red flags, triggers & about what to do...
But just yesterday, I asked The Lord, " ok, Lord!!! It's been a year now & I'm still recuperating from last year; but I know You have a Plan for me. Please tell me about it, so I can get off the hamster wheel and move on!!!" & Voila !!! I came across This !!!
Thank You. 💗🕊️💗.
Oh man. Sadly, sure I am not the only one you are speaking to Dr Kris. Often it does feel like that, and it brings me to my knees and often can barely breath. Anybody else?
Gods got my healing, God's got my justice, Amen!!
To Kris,
I hear what your saying. My mother was a Narcisst, her mother was a Narcisst, children's homes I endured Narcissists. My ex-wife was a Narcisst. And the list goes on..."I have had enough".. my patience has run out.
You survived.
You endured for sooo long!,
My mother was my first narcissist. All the men I attract are narcissists because that is all I know. It's a familiar dance. I was groomed and trained from childhood to be a servant and a doormat. I'm 58 and now I am awake. Praise God
God wants 🙏 you ❤️ to Put on HIS ARMOR of God!!!God Always Wins Warriors Praise him Always and Rejoice!!!I If God is for us who can be against us❤Right On Yeah BabyGiddy Up🎉
God is always working ❤
I’m new and new sub. Thank you so much. I was married to the ex over half my life. The discard was horrible. God gave me what I could handle little by little all that was hidden, the lies, cheating the debt, stealing from me. Doing all this the last 12 years I was taking care of my bedridden mom after my dad passed away. Out in the country and secluded he did all he could to destroy me. I have got the house back after he forged my name and said I gave it to him as a gift. Found out he was with at least two other women and living with the one while we were still married. I swear I seen the devil in him. I been healing 4 years and it’s getting better. I take care of my mom 24/7 take care of the home, 10 acres I mow, weed eat and use firewood in the winter I gather. I have donkeys and goats, cats and a little dog. I have a lot on my plate. I have to get and pay caregivers to stay with mom to go to the store. But one thing I can tell you is I’m 65 with 2 knee replacements and I do it, everyday. God has been right there, giving me the strength and healing to get me through it. I praise his holy name. He pulled me out, showed me what I didn’t see, helped me get back up and heal through the hardest years of my life. Thank you 🙏🏼
AMEN N AMEN. THE LORD LOVES YOU.
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Wow. To God be the Glory 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
God led me to you today!! Thank you for the prayer. I'm Healing over a year now. Only God ....only the father!!! Amen
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I have a long line of narcissistic boyfriends and friends/aquaintances due to my childhood, from overts to coverts and a psychopath or three and let me tell you what happened to them:
*One was murdered at a party, only 40 years old. (Like he murdered my selfesteem) We were all surprised he lasted as long as he did because he was *that* disturbed.
*One became homeless after his girlfriend kicked him out (he mocked and abused me when I became homeless bc of a conman to a conman)
*One went into schizophrenia and spends all his time on his couch super depressed. No women want him, iincel for life. (He nearly took my life and caused me heartfailiure I now live with)
*One kept breaking women after me and now lives with the last woman he broke down, miserable. (Im hoping she'll one day leave, she seems like a real swetheart, met her accidentally once and instantly liked her)
*One was left by his live in girlfriend and became a father. He now alone cares for the child and is still a sex addict, over 50 years old.
*One (sociopath) actually admitted his fault since so many other women had all said he abused them but "Wasnt ready to apologize yet" He didnt have to, I forgave and left. He's fine as far as I know. Fine but lonely.
*One (friend) started using heroine and is slowly killing himself. He planned to manipulate me to commit suicide to prove what a master manipulator he was so when he dies (it's a matter of time, I'm afraid) his plan for me, actually will be his own fate. (Hows that for irony?)
*A conman that fooled me out of my apartment (psychopath, he had the diagnosis antisocial personality disorder) Died sick in bed with an amputated heel last year and spend his last time in a wheelchair and then bedridden getting sevral shots for pain a day.
There isnt just a God but he keeps his word! "I will lay thine enemies at your feet" If you love him, he really loves you back, deeper than we can ever understand. Choose the right side; Choose God! *Gods soldiers are the last to stand*
I've also let too many narcissists into my life.
My step-dad was a violent alcoholic that Mom stayed with for 6 years. I'm sure that it is the reason why I am subconsciously choosing narcissists.
I recently ended it with the last one. I will pray for him to see how hurtful he is to women and get help.
Other than that, I want no contact with him.
This video was very helpful.
I'm praying for you and I for God's help to break this cycle and to find a Godly husband. ❤
@@juliecarson4332 Yes I'm in therapy now but..I cant seem to break it. Im so used to being maltreated that my bar's too high for abuse so I dont see the unempathic behaviour until its too late. I ended it with the last in March and still am in an online contact with a diagnosed psychopath so its..You know..Not up to par but could be worse.
Yes! Do pray for him as I pray for mine. They need it since they do suffer a great deal, these are brain damages of the prefrontal cortrex, that's why they behave so irratically and are so hard to grasp.
And please do let me know if you find a way of ending these cycles, I'm doing all I can and will do whatever it takes (within reson of course) to break it bc it really does ruin ones life.
Would be nice also to have someone to talk to in this same situation but none of the battered women Ive spoken to wants to talk for some reason..
If the narcissist is abusive you certainly don't want your young child being brought up in an abusive home that's scriptural and that wasn't that hard to answer. If you're being abused you don't want your child to be abused
My husband left me for his coworker 6months ago. We have to live together during the divorce process...well his girlfriend thinks he's cheating and keeps kicking him out and then he tells me his problems well I let her know. I was served recently and there are nothing but lies in it..I was praying and praying for all of this and to keep my home and he doesn't get a penny God is so good. I am so blessed beyond measure....God knows he left me to be with his girlfriend off the mountain before the big blizzard hit I was alone saving myself our pets and our home...I always respond to my husband with God knows the truth that's how I end conversations.....hang in there they do get what they deserve ❤
You have the gift of simplify confuse issues and helping to understand it so clearly. Bless you. God is using you in incredible ways. Thank you.
After another rebellious act last night, by my "Christian" husband (horrific narc), I asked my daughter if he will ever be punished for his endless evil deeds? This is my answer. Thank you for your Christian response. It makes me sad to think of the 29 years of emotional and spiritual pain my children and we have experienced, but as a mature believer, I know God works ALL things together for good...
I’m in the same situation; we have an only son, one child who’s now 23. My husband holds so much bitterness rage anger against him when he messes up. He’s been the biggest enabler for our son. And still thinks he can control him. If my son steps out of line, he starts calling him a sorry SOB, tells me he could careless if our son drops dead. These words break my heart. My son drinks, and I’ve put his addiction into Gods hands. I’ve been through so much between the both of them
I’m so happy I found your video! I have suffered a lot being abused by the narcissist 😢I’m so angry and feel like they are not getting their Karma! With God involved I know justice will be served.🙏🏻❤️
If God's hand is in it youre going to win it!🙌🏾🙌🏾
My husband is a narcissist. He always talks about himself all the time. If I don't give him my time he gets moody. It's exhausting
I pray Isaiah 55 for the toxic in my life. I am realizing I have to stay no contact for my safety.
When you spoke to the fact that our God is capable of healing anyone, and that yes, there IS hope for a narcissist WHEN they wake up and repent, that God CAN change hearts, I cried and thanked you for that. Bless you, Kris. I continue to come listen to your teaching and guidance AS a repentant narcissist. There is still much to learn, much growing to do.
Kris, thank you for your Christ based therapy videos. You have helped me keep the correct Godly perspective and I realized yesterday that God pruned a violent narcissist out of my life, as I was too weak to do it after almost 40 years of abusive. Scott
Wow Scott, I'm trying to protect my 7yr old from this craziness. God please help in Jesus name.
You're awesome
I love how you put the scriptures and Gods word together when your counseling. Your messages have helped me so much
Amen to that beautiful and accurate prayer for victims of Narcissistic Abuse and Thank You Sister in Christ.
She's right- set up boundaries. This happened with my daughter. And my ex husband. I set up boundaries and if you think stinky of me, oh well! I stick to my word. My life is so much better. Boundaries are healthy.
God is always working 🙏
😢this really got to me. 12 years ago left and (divorced) a narcissist, biggest mistake of my life, abusive, liar and now dealing with another one who married my daughter and keeping the children away from my daughter and I struggled about leaving my relationship with God when it first happened and have been fighting for salvation and hanging in there…wondered a lot of things mentioned like here and questioned God and this watching you speak Kris really lifted me up and made me cry. I am committed to God, pray alot…thank you and going to make a point to hear next your story being married like myself to a narcissist.
I'm realizing I've never known so called SAFE people closely enough to know what to look for. When she said Abused people feel familiar with what tirn out to be abusers, i can so relate.. as a woman i tried to be submissive, it never caused him to love me, only more complaints. I have been single for like 32 years since then and have learned Jesus is SAFE, the only One i can safely feel okay with. He has always been nothing but GOOD to me, and so i am content now, my life is good. I can have peace as long as i stay close to Him😊
Listening to this answered the question I had around revenge. I repent for the desire of revenge. God gots me.
Jewish and following you. This is incredibly profound connection made to narcissistic abuse. You are so amazing thank you!
It took me 11 years to forgive my Narc. I knew it only hurt me not him so i prayed and prayed finally with no contact it happened. Now i actually laugh again and smile. I was beginning to think i never would again but you will! I think the harder we love the more we can hate them for the pain and time they stole from our lives. I never remarried because i never wanted to. I did not know till about a month ago anything about Narc. I can see that the more you learn the better you will get. I saw the hatred and did not understand what i had done. Now i know, Nothing!!😊
What a powerful message !!!That brought me a lot of hope, I have been listening to your messages lately and have received a lot of healing I’m going through a divorce from a narcissist and it’s been difficult
you understand me
I thank the Lord for your life
THANKS!!
What will I gain from reading ESTER I WILL READ IT TONIGHT
I remember, women are only made to please men. I was taken advantage of by bad men. Now, I'm cold to god.
We are only made to please the last men's desire. I'm cold to God because of it.
@@yolandagrabowski6043SADLY YOU HAVE THAT HUGELY WRRROONG FOR THAT WITCH YOU ARE COMPLAINING ABOUT IS YOUR SPIRITUAL QUEEN MOTHER JEZEBELS HER WITCH STILL SAYS IN YOUR BIBLE IN 1KINGS THAT SHE IS YOUR I AM. WITCH IS NOT YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER :: I AM :: AND THERE FOR THIS WITCH STATES THAT"" SHE WILL NOT SUFFER THE LOSSSSS OF YOU !!! THAT ARE LEGALLY HER CHILDREN FOR ::: JUST AS ADAM AND EVES DISOBEYED GOD HAVE BEEN BORN IN YOUR SPIRITUAL QUEEN MOTHER JEZEBELS WOMB OF HER WICKEDNESS !!! THEM IS GODS WORD WITCH HE BEGAN TO EXPOSE ABOUT HER ::: NOW SOME 37 YEARS AGO !!!! GOD BLESS !! AMEN !!!
@@yolandagrabowski6043 BUT THE HUSBANDS BODY IS THE WIFES ::: WIFES FOR HUSBAND !!!!!!! BUT IF ONE IS NOT HONOURING THE THEN .... IF THEY DO NOT HONOUR YOU ::: RE FUSE TO SHAPE UP ::: MARRIAGE IS NULL AND VOID !!!
I’m so thankful for these videos that “popped up” “out of the blue” a week ago (I know they are actually a gift from GOD).
I was just hearing the part about taking care of yourself and I think of the many times that my mil would tell me whenever I did anything that benefited me in any way: “you’re so selfish”; “you should be ashamed of yourself”. Yeah.
She’s been gone about 6 years now, but I deal with her daughter gripping at me for trying to do things that benefit my health rather than doing what she demands of me. I spend the majority of my time working to try to keep up with her bills while she spends the majority of her time in bed, in a chair watching tv or out running around town spending money.
Did I mention she’s a serial adulteress?
I definitely need help.
It’s so true when you said the narcissist hates whoever likes you and is nice to you. That has happened to me with every one of my family members. They not only smeared me, they eventually will say nasty things about people associated with me, but those who are mean or physically hurt me, they always praise.
I can’t tell you how much this explained some of what they have done. It’s also comforting to know justice will be served.
Thank you Kris for that beautiful prayer, it was so needed. Amen
I have been pulling my access to my “codependent narcissist” MIL away and it feels great. It has helped me finally lessen the resentment in my heart, that I was carrying around for years……. and as a widow, bring back my focus to MY needs and what’s best for my children here!
You bringing the story of Esther in this light was encouraging to me. I have been doing a deep dive on narcissism and working on myself for over 2 years now and I am besides myself and and dealing with depression with the impact narcissism from my ex and my husband's ex. They have made it thier mission to put our kids against us. We have been good parents but in the eyes of our children they only see the bad. In which it was from the reaction to the chaos the toxic parents created. Parental Alienation is no joke! I wouldn't wish it on anyone. We are so heartbroken. 💔😭
It's been years but I'm still hoping and praying for reconciliation. 🙏
I'm sorry to hear this. Narcissists seem to get enjoyment out of alienating people. I had this experience with a niece who thought I should have adopted her! She's a classic narcissistic who has turned her entire family against me - all because SHE thought I should have adopted her! She is merciless. I have seen what has happened to you in my family as well. It's heartbreaking. But I believe there will be justice one day for EVERY ONE. God doesn't just sit back & observe. He will judge the whole earth. God bless you.
I know the book of Esther well, but I saw something new in it after your explanation of it in this video. When God releases us from the power of the narcissist, He releases us to FIGHT for our lives. This requires courage and faith in God. Thank you Kris for your insight. Praise be to God our Father through the Lord Jesus Christ who never forgets us and loves us with an everlasting love in His Son. 🙏❤
What a godsend of a message so desperately needed right now. I lay here broken and confused and fighting through finding the strength to get up and fill up my cup!
I'm so grateful your videos popped up in my feed again after losing so many saved videos and subscriptions after making changes to my phone settings.
This is God working, I know it!
Thank you for being faithful to His calling for you, sister!
I am still trying to survive a divorce from a 30yr marriage to a narcissist. He literally bankrupted me, abandoned me and our son, and turned every friend and family member against me. My car has already been repoed and now we are being evicted from our home. We have no help. I have gone to every agency and foundation and can’t get anything. I have also lost my job because of the stress from the situation, but the job was toxic too, so I am ok with it. It’s just not good timing. I have gone no contact at all. The son still has contact. My son and older son have found a temporary home for now, while I’m going to live in my van. I have prayed and prayed for help and nothing. I have tried to forgive him and let it go, but it is a struggle. I really want to be at peace with all of it, but I struggle because of what’s happening to us. I do not have any family of my own because I come from 8 yrs of being sexually abused and beaten by my own father. I was black sheeped after filing charges . So I have no help. It’s a lonely and hard struggle.
Over 30 year marriage to a narcissist. I have pain inside like everyone experiences. But hard to process. Because I'm not sure where it is coming from. At the same time. I'm sure God will bring me out better in time!
You have to forgive them for the betrayal. they are 2 yr olds emotionally. You have your soul intact. They are disconnected from their soul. Be glad you are not like them. "Psychopath Free" the book really explained so much to me and helped jump start my recovery. God Bless 🌹
Needed this so much. It's happening and I believe in the lord. He will answer prayers.. truth facts in this video ❤❤
My main worry/anxiety has not been for myself, nearly as much as how many problems and issues my 4 children have had from the divorce where there were no rules, just enabling. I am now being alienated from my own grandchildren, too. It’s called Narcissistic Parental Alienation.
I'm sorry about this. I often wish my children knew more about what happened, but I cannot say. With narcissism we dealt with some of the most evil motives and behavior around.
This is them adding sin to sin indeed. God does not overlook any of it. A true test to your faith to trust him and get ahead with him yourself and not give the devil any place in you. ❤
I pray they will understand one of these days I didn't see my boys for 6 years and I'm the mom most of all FAITH God bless
Same here. I'm not allowed to see my grandchildren but we can ask for power beyond normal for God to take care of our children and grandchildren.
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The Devil Is A Narcissist is a book by Gavriela Powers. Though it’s very painful, I must remember 2Timothy 3, which says in the final days there will be very difficult times, especially children rebelling and hating their parents, hearts growing cold, lovers of themselves, selfishness, etc. No way around it. Only the Holy Spirit can give us the power to endure to the end.
My dad is a narcissist. Was abusive and angry my whole life. When my sisters and I grew up, they moved to get away from him and I’m the only child who comes around. He has no friends, parents are gone, his own brother doesn’t speak to him. He only has my mom because she is trauma bonded to him and won’t leave. He’s still emotional and verbally abusive towards her and I can’t stand it. He’s miserable, angry, and reaping what he sowed. Yet, nothing is ever his fault. He still doesn’t see how he caused his own misery. I chose to forgive him, but it’s definitely a continual process. Lots of trauma there. The thing is, he’s so inward focused that he cannot see that he is the problem. He’s missed out on so much, and I know he has a calling on his life to serve God but he will never know it because he refuses to submit to God’s will over his desire for control. It’s sad because he spent his life saving money over serving God and loving his family. Now he has a pile of money and no one to enjoy it with. he has always had major health issues due to poor eating habits and suffered a stroke last year. He will leave this world without knowing all God had planned for him and he will have to answer for that one day. He didn’t get away with anything. Narcs are miserable, and the older they get, the more misery they are in. A life wasted.
I have been married now for seven years to my second wife who is a narcissist. At first I felt ashamed for my choice but have come to realize that she was not honest in her feelings twords me. After counseling, I am leaving the marriage
God will turn all this around
Thank you, Kris! And I think God for what you are doing for the Kingdom!
My sister and mother are both angry, bitter, vindictive people. When I was younger I wanted justice however, now I only want them to find peace.
Although my desire is to have a relationship with them. What I really want is Gods will be done, in my life.
I want to truly be able to say, it is well with my soul.
Kris - I just recently found you and I’m so grateful. After 43 years of believing my narcissistic husband would seek help and help me keep our family together, I’ve had to let go. It’s a horrible time but I believe God has shown me a way out. Your words in another video have helped me in dealing with my adult children. “Jesus said nothing.” Thank you so very much.
I felt The Holly Spirit joy in me when you were praying. Thanks.
God is always working!
Amen. ! I felt as if you were talking to me. I’m going through the storm right now. My husband was not an abusive husband so his narcissism showed in a different manner by cheating and breaking up our 23 yr marriage. The sad part is that I still love him very much but I filed for the divorce. I am encouraged that God will serve his justice as promised in His word. Thank you for sharing all your knowledge.
Amen! 🙌 I needed every word of that prayer! Thank you so much Kris! Thank you for sharing the story of Esther & your take aways from it! Fascinating!👍
So true and a great reminder. Clean hands and a pure heart. God's favour and timing is upon us. Thank you Lord. I CHOOSE to trust you! ❤ Thank you for loving me, you haven't forgotten me and are aware and bringing healing forgiveness and justice that we will be renewed and the narcotics redemption Justice and remove the bitter root within me. Forgive me, block Satan in Jesus name. Amen 🙏
Praying for divine justice in family .. IJNIP amen
Gets away with sleeping around and im here heart broken and hurt😪
My mom was . Thought she was sick in the head mentally . Then married a person like my mom and dated the same. Found out she was a N . In 2016 . Who knew . Man I know the difference now . But thank you for your words
God's will, thy will be done ✅
God is always working for me❤
Wow! I just found your channel and I’m binge watching. Such a concise and easy to understand explanation of these issues. Thank you.
My daughter and her husband are both Narcissist and have our only three grand kids and they use them against us.
In tears here.. THANK YOU sister Kris for the reminder of Yah's power in our circumstances concerning narcissists. Thank you also for your touching prayer. Needed both at this time. If, our Father is glorified in my current situation in HIS time, I will gladly let you know!! Be blessed ALL. Remember Satan uses these people to trample on our faith in our MOST HIGH. WE are NOT to let this happen. Thank YOU Yeshua/Jesus for your mercy and humility which is shown during these times of waiting and wanting. Amen
Ms, you walked me through narcissistism in a way that I could never understand, and we always appreciate people like you, I tried to talk to my female managers at the job but he was ahead of me, I decided to cut him off when I realized that I can't win, but I did told him that I will expose him and make everyone else knows that he is a fake guy and hurt My family, I told him that his glasses don't make him Smart
This was sooooo good. God is always working. Amen.
Amen and thank you for your praying 🙏❤
I was listening to your prayer and I can honestly say that I don't feel that rage and confusion anymore since a couple of years ago. I did feel like that but I don't today. Anyone who could relate to the words in the prayer, this rage will pass in time while you keep praying and listening to smart people like this woman in the video. God bless and protect you! Merry Christmas. ❤
God is always working