A Young WIFE Answering YOUR Questions! christian perspective...
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- An excellent wife who can find?
She is far more precious than jewels.
The heart of her husband trusts in her,
and he will have no lack of gain.
She does him good, and not harm,
all the days of her life.
She seeks wool and flax,
and works with willing hands.
She is like the ships of the merchant;
she brings her food from afar.
She rises while it is yet night
and provides food for her household
and portions for her maidens.
She considers a field and buys it;
with the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard.
She dresses herself[e] with strength
and makes her arms strong.
She perceives that her merchandise is profitable.
Her lamp does not go out at night.
She puts her hands to the distaff,
and her hands hold the spindle.
She opens her hand to the poor
and reaches out her hands to the needy.
She is not afraid of snow for her household,
for all her household are clothed in scarlet.[f]
She makes bed coverings for herself;
her clothing is fine linen and purple.
Her husband is known in the gates
when he sits among the elders of the land.
She makes linen garments and sells them;
she delivers sashes to the merchant.
Strength and dignity are her clothing,
and she laughs at the time to come.
She opens her mouth with wisdom,
and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.
She looks well to the ways of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
Her children rise up and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
“Many women have done excellently,
but you surpass them all.”
Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain,
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
Give her of the fruit of her hands,
and let her works praise her in the gates.
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FTC Disclaimer: All things in this video are my legit opinions. I was not sponsored for this video. - Навчання та стиль
I’d love to see a ‘husband talk’ type thing where Kieran answers similar questions regarding his relationship with you and the kids!
Definitely!
Came down here to comment the same thing!
Me too, that would be so interesting!
Yes, yes
This
can you talk about how to raise well mannered children
yes please, with all the details!
Would also love this video
Yes! I want my son to listen and be as well mannered as Sarah’s kiddos!
Yes I was wondering that too. I have very strong willed children which makes things a little difficult.
I can recommend Paul Tripps book Parenting. Gospel centered parenting book that will help you through the beautiful trenches of parenting.
I love how you mentioned as long as Kieran's flaws are not planted in sin then you will learn to accept. I never thought about it that way to the degree planted in sin. Thanks for the inspiration.
Sarah, my Christian husband watches movies with violence, s ex and bad language. He said it was OK for a Christian, I disagreed and lost a lot of respect for him as my Christian leader. This has caused much harm to my marriage. What can I do about this other than pray.
@@denisejones7780 I'm no professional, but I really don't think it's a big deal. It's just a movie
@@cavetown7550 its not just entertainment, its stuff that you give access to in your life and affects your attitude, mental perspective, etc
Christians need to learn to say no things that don't glorify God. I had to do that with the music I listen to, the clothes that I wear, the movies that I watch and the books I read. As a Christian, you must allow the Word of God to come through and renew your mind
@@denisejones7780 we have to keep in mind that the flesh is corrupted. That means we'll always have to be strong in our faith in order to be able to say no to what's ungodly. You can do your part by making him see how YOU live your sexuality, choose your entertainment, keep a good quality of your thoughts (Paul also talks about it), etc. Communicate with him about how his behavior affects you and your marriage. If he's a Christian, suggest him to read the Word of God about what husbands should do and maybe even get counseled about it (even as a couple if he doesnt want to go alone)
Read “The Story of Marriage”
By
Lisa and John Bevere
:)
I hope that will will help you. It has a part with question. You can do that with him... I think it is important to Comunicate along the reading of the book.
One thing I do believe is that you should not have your happiness depend upon your spouse, and that you should fulfill your own needs first because that way you are giving to your spouse from a full cup and coming from a place of love. When it comes from frustration, depression, and an empty cup... it leads to resentment.
I love Sarah but im not a Christian and some of her views are Christian based and old fashioned and thats great but i agree with you every mom and wife needs to have her own identity as well.
I don’t know who you are but I needed to read your comment. Thank you
This comment hits home for me and it's very true.. Luckily, I have a very supportive husband that helped me through some vey tough times in my life. He is very understanding ♥️
I think YOU come first. Your husband is not a defenseless child. For me it's: my kids, me and then my husband, since he is an adult and can take care of himself lol
@@susanagonzalezcodina9758 So true. I cannot understand why would women believe that we need to serve our husband like it has been written 2000 years ago! Reality is so much different that 2000 years ago. I dont' understand how one can expect wifes of nowadays to live as before. That makes no sense.
I think you should talk about how not to abandon yourself while serving your loved ones 🙌🏻
From my experience, you wouldn't. When I started to focus on serving my husband, he gives me more love when his needs are met, his loves feeds me and makes me want to serve more and if you choose a man of good values, he will also give back in service and ensure you are taken care of, it's a beautiful domino effect.
Yes, maintaining a sense of self is so important.
Because obviously she doesn't neglect herself.
My family did something similar to your “couch time” growing up. At the same time, my two siblings and I would have an hour of quiet time. We were allowed to talk to each other and play with each other but we were too leave my parents alone. We would usually be upstairs in our room while my parents would be downstairs. I found this really let me mentally reflect on my day by myself and take time to be alone. It carried into my adult life, instilling in me that it is important to have alone time. It almost sounds not okay to tell your children not to talk to you 😂 but as a kid I understood it, and I never felt neglected. It is definitely something you have to deal with in real life and I too agree it’s important to learn those things as a child.
It's clear you have a strong marriage and your mindset and values are keeping it so healthy. Although I am not Christian, nor religious in any form I do agree with quite a bit of what you said. Putting my daughter to bed at 7pm allows my spouse and I the much needed quality time at the end of the day. In response to a comment that asks why you'd put your husband first, if you show your children that you have a strong marriage they will feel much more secure and in turn, they will thrive in their own relationships.
I appreciate your point of view on this, it's interesting learning from another perspective.
As the child of a marriage in which my (non-religious) parents always put each other first, I have to agree! It's so relaxing for children to know that their parents are devoted to each other. Even now that I am an adult and married with children myself, I just cherish the knowledge that while there's just the two of them most of the time now, my parents are happy and lead fulfilled and interesting lives with each other. It always warms my heart when I visit them and I come in and they just sit with each other laughing and talking and never out of topics to discuss. That's a direct result of their years of cultivating that relationship.
When children see their parents having a solid foundation in their marriage, it helps them a lot for their future when they get married and have their own family. Parents should be good role models for their children. Being a loving spouse will help reinforce a positive mindset about relationships and marriage and children who experience positive relationships in their parents will in turn have positive relationships when they get married in the future.
Thank you for being so open minded and inclusive to non-christian people! We can all lead good, honest lives no matter what inspires us to do that!
Your wife talks are my FAVORITE because they’re so convicting but motivating at the same time. You strike a perfect balance for me in your wife videos! Thank you for inspiring me to be a better wife - really, thank you ❤️❤️❤️
This was great.
I have been married almost 45 years and I would like to share something we started doing just this past year that I wish we had implemented from day one. Twice a week, at a prespecified time we have issue time. If we have an issue with each other we know that we can discuss it then. It allows for time to calm down and decide if the issue is worth discussion and to discuss things with respect and love. Though we have these times twice a week there is rarely an issue to discuss but we know we can and that is the saving grace of the plan. This has helped my husband share his feelings more openly and that has always been hard for him. He knows I will listen and he is safe.
You know Sarah, as an atheist I think some of your thoughts you've expressed throughout your videos are crazy stupid, just as you would think of mine. However, I love the passionate and respectable way you speak about it. I really appreciate people like you
Same here. I partially disagree with what she is saying, but it's just so interesting to see different Kind of view. So hear different opinions and maybe think about own views. Just fascinating :D
I think it has something to do with her confidence. Confidence without arrogance is appealing.
I was raised as an atheist since I was about 7, so I totally agree with your perspective on this
Saad Bin Masud most likely they disagree with her “traditional” servant-wife lifestyle. Also an atheist would most likely pretty obviously not put God or the Lord above themselves lol
@@vicltc why care about husband above your kids?! thats cray.
Yes!!! So much yes! I NEEDED to hear this today. I have been taking so much time for myself and my hobbies that I'm scrambling at the end of the day some days to get my husband's lunch and work clothes together, and I'm going to STOP that today because I want him to know I love him and am here for him. Thank you, Sarah!
I LOOOVE that you said you make your hubs interested in you. That is so powerful. You show your efforts and confidence and control over a situation that many others sort of fall victim to - not feeling good enough. I love how you show up and MAKE THE EFFORT in this regard, in ways that are important you and K.
Allison Savidge yes! What a great perspective she has on this!
Love love LOVE this Sarah! My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years now and were also married young (19 and 20), and we follow pretty much everything you laid out in this video. We pretty much never argue/fight (I think it's happened _once_ in our entire marriage) and instead have those deeper conversations you were talking about. We have open lines of communication and trust and we support each other in every way that we can. Marriage was honestly the best thing I could have ever done. It makes us both feel whole. I love these wife talks of yours and can't wait for you next one. :)
I just got married this past Saturday and I love all you advice!! I really don’t know how to be a wife and your advice is always amazing, thank you ♥️
“Let it go!” That’s my word of day😄🙏 Thank you!
You are literally my online mentor. So thankful to have found a woman faithful to the Word! Praise God, He's using you out here!! Always blessed by these vids
So amazing, love how you say "Its so cool" on things that are culturally looked down upon.
I loooove these Wife Talk videos because they're so sweet, but few and far between! Thank you for addressing these gnarly topics for us. It seems like a lot of wives don't like to talk about it in fear of stepping on toes, or they just don't live this way. So thank you for putting forth the effort and being a wonderful example for the rest of us. Be blessed!
Hello! I’ve been watching you for a couple of months now and I really enjoy your channel and your energy! You’re so bubbly and positive and HONEST! I’m 18 years old and I recently got married in August of this year, my husband I have never argued either! I know it’s still very early in our marriage, but even while we were dating we never argued. We have serious, deep conversations but it’s never arguing in the sense that we gesture at each other angrily or scream at each other. He is stationed in California in the Marine Corps for the next several months and I’m going to school full time in Michigan (where we both grew up and where our home is) I’m just so excited to finally be a wife to him in the sense that I’ll be able to cook him meals and sleep next to him every night and be able to do every day, loving things for him so he knows that I am here to fulfill his needs and give him all that I can as his wife!
Loved the fact that you talked about Proverbs 31. It is my personal guide in terms of making myself a better woman. It's true that it talks about a wife but a youth pastor explained me that the true wisdom of these verses is that it includes different characteristic and virtues, showing that a woman is capable and responsible of a lot more than what people used to think. Blesses to you and your beautiful family from Argentina!❤️
I needed this video in my life today. Thank you for sharing and being open and honest. I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and things haven’t been going well lately and this video is inspiring!
The similarities between a Christian perspective and an Islamic one are CRAZY!
As a practicing Muslim woman, I try to find content that I can relate to, mainly morally and spiritually. A year ago or so when I stumbled upon Sarah's channel, this was THE REASON that made me love her and watch her videos. I am going to be married in a few months and this kind of content is what I am looking for, and it's not easy to find, whether in the Muslim community or elsewhere. The "traditional" way for being a wife and serving your husband has been belittled everywhere, putting one's self before your partner and the exaggerated idea of "independence", I think, have changed the concept of marriage for a lot of people, including myself a few years back. But then when I dived into it in the Quran, my perspective has shifted, and what I have read in the Quran aligns with what I hear Sarah say from the Bible.
I really enjoy #wifetalk videos :)
I LOVE that you said you were working on accepting his flaws as long as they were *not planted in sin* and wow I just think that’s so good! Preach mama!
Love this! I love Proverbs 31. The Virtuous Wife is who I want to be to my future husband.
Thank you Sarah for always sharing and being so true to your faith.
This is really what I need to here! As a young Christian woman who is just starting to learn about love this is a great start!
Look at sex and intimacy as a gift from God to us. One is not obliged to have sex with their spouse everyday. But it’s important to find ways to please him. Maybe enjoying a meal or movie together, taking a walk in the park, dressing in sexy lingerie for him in the bedroom or better still, willingly be naked in front of him. Communication is important so you both must learn to come to a compromise as to how your marriage and sex life should be like. Cheers.
Andy Stanley has a great series about sex and dating that I highly recommend for that.
Best wife talk yet. I can't wait for the next one. Make it be soon. After watching this I went and read Proverbs 31 for probably the 100 times and yet I feel like I got so much more out of it than I ever have. Thank you, Beautiful Woman.
I love this & everything you said. Totally taking some of these tips, I 100% agree. I’m so grateful for women saying the things you do in this world we live in. Keep doing your thing girl
Yes yes yes!! My husband comes home every lunch and supper to a warm meal ready for him♥️
I love you and your content. You are a great role model as a mum, wife and a person in general.
God bless you and your family
Please never stop making videos, as a new wife who is also a christian and loves minimalism your channel is a treasure.💗 You are such an inspiration.
i love these videos and i’m not even married. i love these videos and i have completely different views. i love these videos regardless of our differences!!!!! love you sarah!!!! ♡
Though I know it's annoying when people say things like "wait till you are married" or wait till you whatever. But I had completely different views two years ago before I got married and in that first year, I learnt to change all that views of mine and it has changed our marriage and our lives. So..they may still change ;)
I absolutely love you wife talk videos! Please do more of these as well as mom talks. You are such an inspiration 🥰
Was just praying on how I can be a better wife and I your page came up! Great video thanks for sharing!
I absolutely love your wife talks! ❤️ They are soooo refreshing and also keep me in check because I know its all biblical. Giiiirlll you give incredible advice! And my question came up, super excited about it so thank you for that.
Also I thank God for your life, you are such a blessing and role model for all of us young Christian wives/mamas! ♥️
You and I have very different lives and sometimes views, but I genuinely appreciate your videos. It's the focus you place on kindness and mutual respect, and the way you always give me perspective. I also share your view that the probably truest form of self-care is not in putting yourself first and pampering yourself, but in making smart choices and mostly in caring for those you love - and if you are a religious person, that surely includes your God.
Sarah! It is so refreshing and inspiring to hear you talk... you are such a beautiful person and so many you say resonate with me in so many ways! Thank you for sharing your Christian, down-to-earth voice & servant's-heart in this world
Hey Sarah! I live in Australia and am 16 years old. My parents have home schooled my three younger sisters and I for our whole schooling. We absolutely love it, and have become so much closer to God and our family than our friends in normal schools have. We all have a passion for learning, and have found that home schooling has allowed us so much more time to invest into our church. We are so close as a family, and I truely believe homeschooling has shaped me in the Godly young woman that I am. I am content in who I am, and find that I have so much more energy to invest into the people around me. Homeschooling provides me the time to work a part time job, which I use to demonstrate the love of Jesus to people in my community. I thought you would love to hear this, as it may provide confirmation and inspiration in your and your children’s homeschooling journey. As a teenage girl in today’s toxic secular society, I am eternally grateful to my parents for making the decision they did to implement Godly morals and standards into our education, at home. I hope and pray that your kiddos will have the same experience, and you will grow closer as a family for it. Much love 💗
As a newly married couple whose planning to homeschool our kids in the future (even if I think our own parents and other people close to us would disagree with), I am greatly encouraged by this. Thank you. ❤️
Wow, just from the way you wrote this comment is a confirmation in itself, it shows how you are so beautifully raised and so wonderfully made! You are going to rock the world with a lot of love, Jena =) May God bless you!
Beautiful testimony! I decided to homeschool our son and I find this very encouraging! Thank you!
I had to cry during this video. It is so heart warming how deeply in love you are with your husband. I hope some day I can be a wife as loving as you are. Best wishes from Germany ❤
Thank you big Sister for this meeting! I'm waiting for the next one ;-) And I hope you know that your videos serves many of us. Thank you
I really love that you said God first then your husband and then your children. I think sometimes women feel that in order to be a good mom that their kids have to come first or at least before their spouse. Growing up if I wanted to have a shower around the time that my mom was to get home from work then my dad said I had to wait incase my mom wanted a hot shower when she got home (he didn't want me using all the hot water). If I wanted seconds then my mom would tell me to leave enough so that my dad could have a full plate of food when he got home from work. They were always considering each other and taught me to consider them as well. And I'm really thankful for that!
BEST WIFE TALK YET. Thanks for the soul food. I appreciate your wisdom
This was so refreshing and beautiful! Thanks, Sarah!! I loved this ❤
Been married for 5 years and I LOVE this video!! You are truly inspiring, so thank you ❤️❤️
Sarah I'm so happy to have someone like you on UA-cam! I'm a very traditional type of girl too and somehow it's so hard to find people who relate to that nowadays... I'm not married yet, or Christian, but always happy to hear advice from those from happy marriages. Especially as someone who's parents divorced so I never really saw a good example. Thank you! 😊❤
You are such an inspiration to me and so many others. I love your advise and speaking so openly about your faith. As a fellow Christian, it makes me so happy to hear all of this advise in that perspective.
I knew it. I knew you were a Proverbs 31 regular reader! ❤️ You shine it!!! Keep it up girl. What an awesome ministry you have!!!
WIFE TALK AND ITS FRIDAY?? Does it get any better!!?
Love you Sarah:)
Can't say that I agree with the way you describe you scholl/educate your kids. However, the shear amount of positivity you radiate through these videos is stunning!
Keep up the good work! 🙂
Engaged chica here 🙋🏼♀️ Loved this video, thank you for sharing your heart!
I would love to hear Kierans version of this to see where the balance and equality is and how it comes together to form a beautiful dynamic of a loving marriage. I struggle with hearing how the wife works, takes care of children, cleans and maintains the house, feeds the family, grocery shops, serves the husband, etc... How and where does the other side compensate? What bible verse talks about how the husband is supposed to be a great partner?
Yessss!
A verse for the Husband is Ephesians 5:25, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the Church and gave himself up for her." Christ DIED for the church. Christ took upon himself the sins of the church and gave up his life. A husband is to sacrificially love his wife and willingly take upon himself her worries, her irritations, her pain, her struggles, her problems, etc., as his own. Wife upholds the Husband; Husband loves and upholds his Wife.
@@sandrab.3538 I love this!
Patricia Huxtable From my understanding, the husband’s duty is to love his wife as much as Christ loves the church and to take care of her and protect her. However, as Christian wives we are told to serve our husbands no matter how they respond to it, because we serve God first and He commands us to do so. As long as there is no actual abuse on the part of the husband, we have to serve our husband even when they don’t deserve it. It’s not “I will scratch your back if you scratch mine”, it’s I will be submitted to you and I will serve you even on the days you don’t deserve it or I don’t feel like it.
Velina Peykova When you are a Christian, you understand that all relationships are in the context of your relationship to Christ. We understand that it is not “fair” to serve someone knowing full well you may never receive anything back. It is not easy, but that is what Jesus Christ did for us, he died for us. We aren’t just struggling to blaze a new trail of selflessness all by ourselves, we have such an amazing example in Jesus Christ who went before us and is encouraging us.
You always inspire me to be a better person and a better partner.
Love these wifetalks! ❤️
Sarah you are blessed and such a blessing! Love you sister in the Lord!
So inspirational thank you so much for this video ♥️ definitely going to read proverbs 31 more often!
I literally got married today 😂😂❤️
Congratulations!
Go and enjoy your marriage! Get out of UA-cam 😁
Haha!
Happy 1 year ❤️
@@aman8086 LOL thank youb
I have been being watching your videos ever since I found you, like a week ago. I too am a young wife and mother. I am twenty two (I got married two months before my eighteenth birthday), I have two kids (a three year old and a two month old) , and have been married for four years. I also plan on homeschooling (Lord willing) and try to live a minimalist life style. Your videos really speak to me and I'm so blessed to have found your channel. ❤
This video was for me, thank you so so much,I needed this! Thank you ❤️
Love this video. Putting my husband first stuck out to me. Thank you.
Hi Sarah! please more of this content! I love this video. I am a new wife and I have never felt so excited about a vocation before but I did NOT grow up in a household with traditional family values. I am also a Christian (a convert!) and just want to hear more from people who are married and God fearing - especially just learning more about how to live out some of those more "traditional" views and lifestyle!
I’m still working on this, but I have to find the delicate balance between doing these things you said and working on myself and taking care of myself. I have severe anxiety and that changes things a bit, because I can become really obsessed and overwhelming, and my husband having ADHD being overwhelming can really suck for him. We’ve been working on it for many years, and there are still areas we can both work on, but we are SO 👏🏻 MUCH 👏🏻 BETTER 👏🏻 than we used to be and I am eternally thankful for that. I love these videos for inspiration either way ❤️
I have SO much respect for your openness to everyone, regardless of their faith. Even though I know we don't share the same opinions, I absolutely trust you as a wise and understanding person.
I didn’t grow up with very stable parents so I really appreciate these videos to teach me how to act in a healthy relationship
It would be really great to see you both together talking about your marriage, and Kieran answering some questions.
I struggled with so much guilt with intimacy with my husband as well! We’re in our fourth year of marriage and finally coming into a season where I’m able to enjoy intimacy with my husband. I’m so glad to hear there’s someone else who struggled with it 😂
Awesome advise Sarah!!! Making marriage works is really the core in giving our children sercurity and an example of a loving home. Thanks for sharing.
I love your wife talks. You and I are on the same page. :-) Not many women out there any more who are fully dedicated to the awesome occupation of WIFE!
Just stumbled upon your channel, I found this so refreshing as a young Christian wife. Thank you 🌻
I agree. Making food that your partner loves is always a little thank you in your day. This is talks about wives but it can be the other way around too and it also works. This works with friends and family too. Food is something that always warms the heart and most of the times people get more open around food and happier too
This was so refreshing to hear! I recently did a marriage related course at my local Islamic College and similar points were raised. Thanks Sarah! From Sydney Australia x
You have so much wisdom for only being married 5 years! 😊 I always learn something from your wife talks ❤️
Thank you!!!!! A friday with an awesome video! Love it💚💚💚
I love the part about choosing your husband over everything else. Started really doing this about 2 years into marriage, and man, it changed everything🤗 Might have missed out on some things, but I learned that I'm not married to my friends or family, my husband is by far the most important person in my life, and it doesnt bother me to miss out on those other trivial things anymore❤
I'm also not a wife (I'm only 21), but I'm in a serious relationship. I've been working to prepare for marriage by working on myself and my communication and ways of treating my boyfriend. How I do that is by watching videos like this, talking to Christian women, etc. and actually taking notes and applying the advice! It has helped with my communication skills in hard situations, how I view my boyfriend, and how I treat him. It has made a HUGE difference in our relationship.
Sarah. I love when you do wife talks & I'd definitely listen to a podcast from you lol I have a three year old boy & I have been struggling with him during his toddler phase. We are the same age & have the same morals & beliefs so I trust what you have to say. Can you please do a video about how you are raising your kids..such as how you introduced them to little chores, how you discipline them, how did you get them use to quiet time, what kind of activities do you do with them during the day, how you taught them their manners, behavior at stores or when you go out.. etc. This would be so appreciated. I'm sure many other people would benefit from this type of video too. Thank you!! God bless you & your family. Love you!!!! 💜💜💜
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i found your page because of minimalism ..
and then i see youre a christian!! :') im so happy
You are so blessed that you have all this figured out already! God is good.
I am just in LOVE with your hair with this style and length! 😍
Hola 👋 💖💕
Edit: Great video as usual, TFS 🙏
Always love these videos, you have such a loving and wonderful view and you share insights that I never really thought of, like preparing the house for the husband. So much better to think of it in that way than thinking chores are terribly boring tasks that you have to do 🧡
Thank you so much for discussing your struggles with intimacy! It was really relatable, and I'm looking forward to your follow up. Love love love your vids
Oh and I’m so pumped for the next video!!!! This is an area we just had a big positive jump in. I’m so glad 😂
Also, I love your hair like that!! Its at a great length and you're ROCKING it!
Please never change your hair girl! IT’S THE BEST🤩
I loved this- I’ve been married for 15 years and have a 3,7 and 8 year old and people always say that my marriage and friendship with my husband (and kids) is perfection, but it’s not and this was an awesome refresher 😉
I love your videos and I think the reason is you’re such a lovely person. I’m not a religious person but I love hearing your opinions. I dont always agree but I can tell your opinions come from such a place of love that I just keep coming back to your videos. I think more people need to hear opinions that don’t always align with theirs. It helps make people more rounded.
I like your answers and the rationalisation of your thoughts. ,) I am not a christian nor a religious people but your ethical and moral sense/thoughts are so good and inspire me.
As always Love your Video! You're such an inspiration. Our 2 kids are grown and gone, so it is just the 2 of us. He works and I don't. It is such a Blessing to have him as mine. I feel like it is my calling to be the best partner that I can be. I make sure his breakfast is ready for him each day. I make sure our home is tidy and things are done that need to done around here. He shows me his Love in so many ways and ensures that I am well taken care of.
Sooo good! I really like proverb 31 woman as well. Love your wife talks. Have a blessed day.
Please please PLEASE start doing podcasts!! I would literally listen to you talk about anything every single day on the way to and from work if I could. This would be so amazing!
I totally knew you were going to say Psalm 31! 😂 I do love that chapter. I need to read it again.
I've always sucked at cooking and I was rarely cooking. My husband loves cooking so for a couple months I was just letting him do all of it. But recently I've realized that I really enjoy serving him by having supper on as he gets home from work. I am enjoying learning how to love and serve him better ❤️
I would just like to say your videos are so encouraging and as someone who is always dreaming of the day I can finally get married and do all that, your vids really just help to PRACTICALLY know how to prepare. Thank you for being practical as well as spiritual. That is something the church is quite frankly heavily lacking in. Keep up the good work. 👍
18 mins wife talk 😍😍😍😍 I’m here forrr itttttt
Your always talking about how a wife fulfills the needs of her husband...but what about what the husband does for you. Also self care is a thing too especially if you have things like depression
sakura hall yes! I agree on a being there & supporting your husband but you have to keep an identity for yourself & expect him to support you just as much. It’s a partnership you’re a wife not his mother. You have to be able to stand on your own two feet with or without him.
She's done a video on what he does for her before - I think it's a top ten things he does for her video or something like that.
Sarah made a video before on 10 things her husband does for her. She also has multiple videos about self care and she Instagrams about self care routines sometimes.
@@lizb.4734 i have the same perspective as Sarah. I have been married for 9 years and the first 4 was really difficult because I had high expectation on my husband. i always think that "i deserve this, i deserve that on and on" instead of giving, i was too focus on receiving. it was really tiring and it affect our marriage. it is not that my husband didn't give what i wanted in marriage but i was actually i was 'blinded' by my expectation. so year 5 i decided to change. well, i cannot change people, not even my husband. the only person i can change is my own self. i focused more on giving without expectation of receiving anything. i pay attention to his needs and honor him when in private and when in front of others. it makes me happier because i have one thing less to think about (worrying about what i deserve). and the best thing is i started to feel more love from him, i can feel that he appreciates me more than before. he became more open about his feeling. and without i notice it, everything that i want before (when i had high expectation) was granted. i dont even have to ask anything. I thank God for that. love is giving.
@@ummshaheed The most important biblical concept is to be selfless. Don't think about yourself and what you want, or even the earthly things that you need. Thinking about what God wants from you is first and foremost, which is to obey His commandments: love Him unconditionally, and love others as yourself. Loving yourself is about reveling in who God made you to be and what He has made you for. Loving Him and obeying Him go hand in hand and cannot be separated from each other. And Jesus said that when you serve others, you serve Him. We were created to love and to serve, and when we do what we are designed to do, He gives us a sense of peace and joy that only He can give us.
I absolutely love these videos! I’m so happy to hear someone else’s views so close to mine, you’re a breath of fresh air Sarah! People in my life always question my opinions on things, they say that it’s weird I think certain things, and I just brush them off and wonder why so closed minded? such as homeschooling for example, I always get “trust me, you will want them to go to school to have a break” and I just think to myself, no I won’t but think what you want to. People also think I’m insane for wanting a home birth with no medicine if possible and I always get “you’ll change your mind” which it’s possible I may but why not cheer me on you know? I am not saved but I hope to be one day, but I try my best to live by the word I was taught as a child and young adult, the KJV Bible. (Also I know that just doing your best and being a good person will not get you into heaven, I know that). you’re very inspiring to me Sarah. I wish you lived close to me and that we could be friends! I need friends like you. (Another thing I got recently was how “I am so lame” for not going to a bachelorette party when I know there will be drinking going on and I’m the MOH and the bride was kind of mad at me- we’ve since made up though. I guess her and I will go do some day plans like our nails or something and then she can party after. The sad thing is, I really wanted to plan that party and have a great time. But oh well, it’s their loss.). Ps PLEASE START A PODCAST AND DO MORE VIDEOS LIKE THIS! I feel like you really help me a lot.
As a mom, fiance, and business owner and community worker, I tend to take on way too much. I am wrecked at times and when too busy I sometimes feel distant from and irritated by those I love most.
I'm grateful for this video because of the emphasis on focus: family, partner. I believe the heavens find ways to speak to us through people if we listen. Thank you. :)
Loved this video! Great advice. It is very evident that God is all over your marriage! I look forward to your videos every week. Love from Australia xx
I cannot relate more! This was so on point!!! I think my favorite point was making our husbands excited about the marriage. We have a great intimate life but I am sooooo much more mushy and lovey and I crave doing activities together. I really want to work on planning things like that more and being open to his thoughts on them. I recently became a stay at home mumma 😊 also the point on not fighting eachother. We are like that too - however, my husband has raised his voice (me too lol) and in those rare times we basically enacted a “no none sense” policy - whoever is the offender is blatantly told “this is unacceptable and you need to stop immediately” if the person is unable to do so - the conversation is called to a close until the person calms down. Basically - it helps so much by keeping it in mind. No one wants to be told like a child to calm down 😂 that works for us. We have the same expectation and we do our best to honor that.
So much to think about! Thank you so much💜