Dear Moms, YOU NEED To Do These Things NOW! Mom Talk
Вставка
- Опубліковано 5 лип 2024
- Purchase my EARRINGS! www.analuisa.com/sarah-therese
Previous Video: • My SKINCARE ROUTINE Fo...
How to subscribe and hit notification bell:
Click SUBSCRIBE.
Click on bell icon.
Easy peezy, lemon squeezy.
---------------------------------------------------------------------------------
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
What I Am Wearing:
Thrifted T-Shirt
Cuidado Earrings (link above!)
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
*For business Inquiries email me at:* sarahtheresemedialtd@gmail.com
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Instagram: @sarahtheresev
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Camera: Canon Rebel T3i or Canon M5
Lens: Sigma 1.4 mm
Mic: Rode Micro Mic
Editing Software: Final Cut Pro X
Thumbnail Editing: Pic Monkey
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
FTC Disclaimer: All things in this video are my legit opinions. I was not sponsored for this video. - Навчання та стиль
Am i a momma?? Nope
Did i watch the whole video? Yes
Yep. And I loved it 😂
Same
Same lol
Same 😂
Iq Ra ME. HAHAHAHA
I'd like to add this as well.
There is no such thing as a "bad" kid. There are only frustrated kids, scared kids, neglected kids, tired kids.
Children don't know how to regulate their emotions, and don't always know the appropriate thing to say or when to say it.
Doesn't make you a bad mom, and it doesn't make them bad kids. We're ALL just learning.
❤❤❤🤗🤗🤗
I love that ! I am almost a college graduate In education and I completely agree! Do you have any children ?
Thank you! 👍
Yes yes yes I was going to comment this.
Happy Holistic Housewife yes That was the only thing that I didn’t like. I would of used the word challenging and your exactly right children behave for a reason
Just a reminder that it's also a good idea to show physical affection to your older sons as well! Let's show the men of our world that physical affection is a good thing!
Yes!! Me and my teenage son hug every morning before school and every time he leaves!
Yes! :) This is SO important if we want to change the way fathers take care of their sons as well!
Sarah : I'm crying.
Ivy : it's ok, mom.
Me : 😍 soooo sweeet!!!!
That moment made the whole video! It was just so cute!
1) Get on your kids level
2) Stop saying the word "no"
3) How often do you physically show affection to your kid?
4) Be a present parent
5) Bad kids don't mean a bad mom
6) Be more organized
7) Use statements and reduce questions
8) Your child needs space
9) Encourage them to entertain themselves
10) Guve your kids responsibility
Justine Snyder Thank You!
Thanks 😍
I grew up in a large family without tv and our childhood was amazing
Inna Onu I grew up with a tv in basically every room and HATED IT. Everyone was so separated. I have one tv and barely use it, I listen to music or podcasts most days
That’s sadly understandable :( I grew up with 12 siblings in a Christian home and we spent our childhood outside climbing trees, jumping on trampolines, playing foursquare and swinging on tire swings.. even thou we werent rich or well off and our parents couldn’t afford the best of things, I wouldn’t go back and change a thing! I have kids and so do my siblings.. and we are all raising them the same way
We've always had just one TV and it's in the living room. Several of my friends have 3+ TVs in bedrooms, kitchen, ect. It chops the family up so much, and also is very distracting and doesn't help with productivity. It's so annoying when all the kids want to do is watch TV, talk TV, LIVE for TV.
Thats exactly how I wanna raise my kids. Music is good, conversation is good, dancing around, having imagination is all great. I feel like technology alone like TV is shifting the way kids grow up and it doesnt seem like a good shift.
The issue I have is that kids become anti social and their brains are filled with the things they see weather it’s fake or violent movies/video games ... they become too addicted and lose all their interest for making friends and being creative with everyday activies .
I wish there was a 'love' button on UA-cam like there is on Facebook because I swear 'liking' your videos is just not enough. You are an amazing mama and so inspirational! ❤
I would maybe like to see a video on how you and Kieran discipline your kiddos.
ShannonAnne J I think she has mentioned that Kieran takes on the main role of deciding how to discipline and she follows it
@@javiahschleibs4590 yes I agree and have seen those videos. I was just curious as to like what kinds of discipline. Like time out, spankings ... That kind of stuff. Not who does the discipline. 😁 Because a lot of momma's and dads don't have the easiest kids. I think it would be interesting to hear it from a momma. Or her thoughts on discipline in general. Because children are a blessing but also can be a handful. I have two godson's and one has a behavioral issue. But he is doing much better.
@@shannonannescriptauthor211 There's one video where she talks about the difference between punishment and discipline, and from that I would assume that there's no corporal punishment involved. I don't know them personally though, but either way I think it's wise to not "promote" physical forms of punishment with such a big following. When people talk about a biblical approach to discipline I believe it's important to remember the intention behind the written word. "Sparing the rod" in our time, knowing what we know about children psychological og kognitive development, should mean guidance and gentle corrections. We need to remember that children model our behaviour. You don't hand a baby a book on walking and speaking, or tell them to "speak or else...". They learn by seeing. If they see someone treat them gently, with respect and understanding, then that's most likely what they will do as well. I know that this is still a controversial topic in North America and honestly I find it heartbreaking that it is. Corporal punishment is forbidden by law in most other industrialised countries. Zero tolerance for violence, in any shape or form (also discipline) is the best way to go for secure and thriving children. Parental Magic by Hedvig Montgomery is a great book on the topic. All love
@@Idadaist interesting. Could you link the video of this topic by her? I would like to review it. 😀 And thank you for the book reference but I don't intend to read that author if they have "magic" in the name. I am a Christian and I don't believe in magic. And if by happenstance, that author is Christian or giving Christian advice on parenting, he is misleading his audience by using Magic as a lure. Christians aren't supported to believe in magic and parenting isn't about magic. There is nothing about "magical" about parenting. There is joy, peace, love, discipline, growth and so much more. Kids aren't magic and shouldn't be parented as such. (None of that was rude in any way. Just speaking the Christian truth 😀)
Ida Krogstad you don't change the meaning of Scripture based on "scientific" "evidence" from so-called "experts". You know who is THE ultimate Expert? THE LORD.
That phone point you brought up really annoys me too!
My #1 pet peeve in parenting!!!
same!!!!
Me too, I work in a school as a caretaker and a school crossing patrol, and mom pick up their children and the mom are on their phones ignoring the poor children who are trying to tell them about their day.
Allowing my boys to be bored is the BEST THING for them. The games they come up with are so creative and wouldn't happen if I was working to entertain them 24/7. Great tips!
Is that your son in the picture? He is beautiful.
"How precious is the flow, that made us white as snow. No other foun't I know. Nothing but the blood of Jesus!!" Amen amen. 😍 keep singing those Hymns Ivy!
You are wise beyond your years Sarah! As someone with a degree in adolescent cognitive psychology, you couldn’t have given a list of ten better tips for parents. You’re amazing, and it’s going to reflect in your kids.... heck it already does!
My boys are teenagers and they still want physical touch from both mom and dad. They were raised with a ton of affection. Agree with you on being present. It’s so important and I can see the difference in my kids when I’m not fully paying attention. Great video as always. Bless you. ✌🏼
how did you form your parenting philosophy ? did you read books, have a mentor, etc. you seem like such a natural mother
The ten people who disliked this video are the parents who sit on their phone instead of giving their kid attention😊
Love this advice❤️
I'm nowhere near being a mother myself, but God willing I might have kids someday and I'll save this video to rewatch it when my time comes, because these tips are huge. I love how you treat your children and how you raise them. Lots of love to you and your family!
Timea Püsök 🙌🏼 I have a UA-cam 📂 named “if I ever have kids”
Sarah: Your favourite drink?
Ivy: *slaps sippy cup*
Sarah: Almond milk?
Ivy: Yeah.
Not a mom, but I am a daycare teacher. The point you had about not asking them questions is SO helpful.
The intro was so cute. Both of you have lovely singing voices.
Very guilty of watching too many shows during the day. I need to reduce to 30min a day as well. It really does just take a little bit of time to set up something fun and they are usually good. Thanks for your mom talk!
Letting children learn how to entertain themselves (and outdoor playtime) also has a major impact on their capacity to learn and gives them a great start when they enter school! Love your posts.
“It’s okay momma” 😍
I agree with everything 100%!! The hardest thing for me is to not be on my phone so much!
Wow,you're going crazy with the videos lately, love it❤
Thank you so much for putting out videos like this! I completely agree with everything you talked about. So nice to have other young moms in this community 😊
i'm a kid whose parents did not use the word "no." i wasn't spoiled, and i was daily, frequently, told that i was not allowed to do certain things, always for logical and very good reasons. i'm with you totally, Sarah, and i'm here to say i'm gonna follow your tips and tricks on my future kids. you are very wise. keep loving Jesus! *hugs!* xoxo
You make motherhood looks so easy.You were born to be a mama.love you
Sarah, I just found you and I am so grateful. You are so young yet so wise. Thank you for sharing this. I'm a 40 year old momma of one super sweet 2 year boy and so grateful. Love and hugs!!
So true! Thank you, Sarah Therese!🤗🤗🤗
You are a light to this world I pray for a friend like you
Sarah, I loved this. God bless you! It brought back memories of my kids when they were little. Such a blessing!
Lot's of good points Sarah!
I LITERALLY LOVE YOU SO MUCH SARAH!!!!! You are such a good mom and have the cutest kids! I love your way of parenting💕
You're so inspiring Sarah! Especially for young mama's still growing up and into ourselves. Thank you
I love the singing you did with Ivy before you started the video it blessed me all over to see her singing for the lord,
I needed that! 😭 Keep letting God use you to minister to all the mamas.
your mom videos are helping me learning to be a mom in the future i love it Sarah
Jump 5 was my favorite when I was a tiny human! Loved that you opened with that song!
Aww. @6:50 ♡ sending love to all the mommas out there! The struggle to feel like we are enough is real. YOU ARE ENOUGH! love the "asking questions" part.
I need to work on every single one of these you mentioned, sadly. This gives me lots of hope to make my relationship with my oldest so much healthier and better because I’ve always been pretty hard on him. Thank you ❤️
Awww that intro. Made my night
Learning to say no is so important for children. Why would you not want your kids to learn to set boundaries? Isn't this part of a healthy upbringing? Sure it's understandable that you wouldn't want to use it against you as in saying no to what you suggest they do all the time, but in general I don't understand how learning to say no could be a bad thing.
Yeah I didnt get that a whole lot either. I mean I would say that I'd rather teach my kids to communicate boundaries more with the language she uses, but more of a direct vocabulary situation not a "not to use against me" sort of way. They can use "do not touch that" against you as well if you are taking away a toy if they throw it too lmao so yeah I dont get that part of the video.
You are an amazing mama.You're kids are really lucky to have you as a mama
I love the point of being present around your children. I notice my kids, even though they’re under 2.5 years old, I can tell they crave my attention sometimes even if I’m doing something else that isn’t on my phone. Thanks for sharing ❤️
Love this video so much! 💕🌸🌿 In regards to using statements instead of questions: while I agree that the examples of questions you gave are not productive (and oftentimes rhetorical) in a situation where a child has misbehaved, I have personally found that practising curiosity with my children during times when I can see they are struggling to remain in control of their big emotions has produced amazing results. I find that when I validate my children’s emotions first (ie: it’s okay to get angry, it’s not okay to hit) they instantly feel seen and understood rather than unfairly misunderstood and alienated (for things us adults oftentimes still struggle with.) I’ve found this helps my children to be more calm and receptive to me while I ask them things like “what caused you to become so angry that you weren’t able to practice self-control?” and “what are we going to do the next time we start to feel our anger getting out of control so that this doesn’t happen again?” I love teaching my kiddies to look inwards and investigate where a situation went wrong so that they can practice learning from their mistakes, rather than just blindly fearing consequences, making mistakes, and ultimately taking risks in life (which is crucial to personal growth and success). I’m sharing thear thoughts in the hopes that it might be helpful to some mamas out there in communicating with their little ones and also because I feel like this approach vibes better with the rest of the mama content I see from you, Sarah. Thanks for reading, much love!
GOOD job mama , I love the growth that happens as a Mama. I have 5 years under my belt Haha and have had so many breakthroughs in parenting just in past year .
So much i wish i knew ...then
For 3, I do think it depends greatly on your Love Language. Some people don’t like physical love or attention.. xx lovely video, Sarah!
Completely agree. I didn't like to be touched as a child, and still do not enjoy it.
I like to remind my kids when they do something unacceptable that I don't dislike them, I dislike what they did. I will always love them but not always love their actions. I think this is very important when building trust with your kids.
I agree with every word! You are a wise mom! Thank You for sharing
Loved this! Especially the last two. So with you there!
Thank you for all of these tips/ reminders! Especially about giving kids responsibility. Sometimes it's easy just to do it myself and have it done faster, or better, or "my way", but that is not helping kiddos. I've been struggling with depression since my mom and brother passed away within 5 months of each other recently, and I found myself almost disconnecting from my kids because I was so fucked up from grief, and didnt know how to move forward without my momma. Now school starts in 2 weeks and I need to get back on the healthy habits and be the loving thriving momma I know I am (and that my kids know I am 💕)
I love these. I have a 3, almost 4 year old, son named Malaki. I agree with all of the points u made. Most of them I also do, and a couple are things I try to do but am working on making it more of a habbit. I'm really glad u made the points about getting down to your child's level, and also bot just saying no all the time, but actually explaining - you can't touch thay because etc etc or whatever. Just saying no not only teaches them the word, but it also doesn't teach them why, and it can have less impact over time when it is overused and they are given anymore info other than "no". Also the affection and paying attention to your child - so important. My spn LOVES to show us what he is doing or making woth his toys, etc. And he also responds really well to verbal and physical praise over that, as well as any postive things like listening when he's told tp dp something or doing something good like using the potty, eating his food, etc. He's also really gopd at entertaining himself when I need to do chores and such, and u r right, that is not only important for both the parent and child, but also fpr the child as they grow up - it teaches independence and self confidence, as well as imagination and creativity, etc. Really just all your points were great, Lol. Keep the videos coming. Hope your all enjoying your new home! The kids must love all the space, as much as u do.
Thank you for making this video! I'm 18 weeks pregnant and I get so overwhelmed with fear of becoming a mom sometimes. I'm sooooo excited and my husband and I tried for a long time to get pregnant. But sometimes its terrifying but this video grounded me a little bit. I just need to do my best and a lot of being a mom will come naturally. These were all great tips!
Congrats!! I have a one year old and love being a mama!
Thank you. I needed this today. I've been struggling with being a mumma lately. I need to write these down somewhere so I can be more mindful.
Oh yyaayy, I am here for mama talks! I loved your perspective on no. I’ve been saying it a lot lately to my one year old trying to establish boundaries and of course she’s starting to say it back. I’ll have to try some new phrases. Number ten is something we’ve been implementing lately. I ask my daughter to help hand me laundry from the basket or help pick up toys and she loves it!!
Loved every tip! Always impactful to hear another moms perspective!
Great list Sarah!!! 😀 I think most of us mommas know these things... but we often need reminders!!! Thank you for sharing!!! 🥰
These are great tips Sarah I'm a grandma know, I was married at 18 with children so I always felt I had to prove myself as a mother know at 49 and grandmother to 5 great children the youngest is 3 years old, they love to help and have little jobs and be independent.
May God bless you for all that you do, to Educate Mothers like me!
I love watching your content. Literally wait all week
Completely agree with all of this! We don’t own a TV but I do let my toddler watch a show here and there throughout the week on our family shared iPad. I can definitely work on putting my phone down more often at home : I get so into researching things, just get so sucked in but for sure no phones at the park or when out with the family. Love it, thank you Sarah 💕
Sarah, love your videos. I'm not sure if you have one, but could you make a video on tips for first time mommas? Any books that really helped, blogs, how to find momma friends, etc? Your kids are so beautiful and I would love to have some insight on how you and Kieran raised them, especially cause I know the first can be quite a bit scary! Much love and blessings, so thankful to have found your channel!
Sarah, such good advice!❤️ Thank you so much for all you shared! I just had my first in March and hearing such great ideas and thoughts is so comforting when looking around, motherhood can appear so frustrating and daunting at times!🌿💐
So true!
Ahhhh!! You're such an awesome mom, Sarah!!
watching you and Ivy interact so sweetly with so much laughter made my entire day.
I’m not a mama, but a big sister that sometimes needs to take care of my younger siblings for when my mom is busy. A lot of these tips can help me too. Especially when they’re trying to get my attention, and I’m too “busy” on my phone. Thanks, Sarah! 💕
All of these tips reminds me of my mom.. and are very encouraging
What a great Video! I just started to get serious about my channel and looking for great Channel examples. Thank you for being such a great role model !
I wish I could DOUBLE thumbs up this video!!! Thanks so much Sarah! Love this video. Double thumbs up
I'm not a mom yet and probably won't be for a couple years, but every now and then I think about what kind of a parent I would like to be and this video definitely made me more confident about some things and taught me others!
you're such a sweet mom! I really needed to hear this tonight as I bake some yummy muffins. Thanks for the inspirational video
Yes! I totally needed this. Thank you so much for the video. Excited to start working on these things with my kiddos!
Thank you so much for doing another one of these videos I’m really grateful to hear some tips that can come into play in many rolls! Even with my friends kiddos it helps to learn how to navigate situations!!
I'm not a mom but my job is babysitting so this is very helpful for me in that way! I spend so much time with another momma's children so I think this advice goes for me as well! It was a great eye opener and I loved it!💛
The start. Awwww Ivy is the sweetest! 💕💕💕
omg the beginning of the video was so freaking cute Sarah💗
Although i’m not a mum but a 16-year-old high school student i watch and love your videos so much :D Especially ones like this because i feel like i can learn so much from these!
I'd like to modify number 5 bad behaviour from a kid does not mean you're a bad mom. I would rather define the behavior rather than the entire person.
Loved this video!
I have twin boys (1 year and 6 months) and they love to help me getting the table ready for breakfast, lunch, dinner... getting stuff like their shoes is a party to them. Watching tv in this house for our boys combines a show from five minutes when they drink their milk before they go to bed at night.
So many tips I can relate to! Thanks for the support by telling me the things I do aren’t that bad 😉
AGREE COMPLETELY WITH ALL OF THESE, especially the "if you respect your kids, they will respect you" part, because I have used this and said it so many times to others and to myself and it just gives them a good life lesson as well.
In my culture not holding your baby too much (from birth) is encouraged so the child doesn't grow clingy 😰 I cringe every time someone gives me this advice or see them practicing it.. If it was to me I would never stop cuddling my baby
This is so wrong!! Many studies have shown that babys tha have been given cuddling your baby and carrying it (a lot of physical contact) are more intelligent and also social stabil in their whole life. So cuddling your baby doesn't only feel good but it's actually very crucial to your babys development!! This has to stop! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise, trust your momma instincts, your doing great!! ❤❤
A baby also needs space to be itself. How would you like to be held all the time? I did this with my first daughter who was a premie and I was also held her all time, she didn't have enough floor time and so she didn't learn to crawl or walk in a timely manner. Put you children down on the floor with toys and let them explore their world.
DENISE JONE I held my son almost constantly and if I put him down I sat right next to him. He walked at 11. It wasn’t safe for my to leave him on the floor alone. He’s almost 3 and pretty independent now.
Young babies need a lot of physical attention, as they get older they clearly need the space to explore and to develop themselves. Usually a baby indicates what he or she needs: cuddling or going out for an investigation. A one-month-old baby is not yet exploring the world and is still busy getting used to the world outside the womb. An 11-month-old baby is usually busy packing things and walking or trying to walk.
Billie my older son has autism. He’s oblivious to things around him. 2x he ran right over the baby. He would also try to look at him in the pack n play but tip it trying. So I had to keep him with me.
i love this video so much!!! i have an almost 2 year old and another on the way (7weeks pregnant) i look up to you as a mama and love any advise and tips and listening to all your wisdom
I may not have kids, but the future holds so much. God willing, I will most definitely take these tips with me when I am parenting. Thank you Sarah!
These tips are super helpful for me as a teenage babysitter, still learning how to get respect from kids who maybe don't see me as quite an adult yet.
Loved this video Sarah.👍🏻
I totally agree with all 10 of these. And for me number 4 Really sticks out to me. Probably because like you, I see parents on their phone with blinders on. Basically ignoring their kids. It’s actually really sad.
Loved this! Agree with you on all of these! And will definitely introduce some if the ideas that I already hadn’t in my parenting style 🥰
Love watching your videos. You inspire me so much ❤️
I'm not a parent, but I love to babysit and take summer nannying jobs. This stuff is so true! Great advice! Some of this I use already, and some i need to implement. Thank you!
I loved this video 💕 I don’t have kids just yet, but hopefully within 2 years. Knowing my values and getting good tips before the kids are here is very nice in my opinion.
I have not really thought about the personal space in such a young age before, but it makes sense. Also keeping the tv-consumtion on a low to boost creativity is a little twist to the “no technology” idea I havent given much thought before. It is definently better to learn them to create instead of just consume.
Thank you for your thoughts, Sarah.
I agree with you with every point especially the last one. When i was young my parents always told me to help around the house and as an adult it really shows, that we people, who were taught responsibility at a young age are more responsible in adult life.
awe the opening clips with ivy were so adorable ! I was laughing out loud
I love your channel. This is the 2nd time I’ve watched this, I have 3 kids. 8, 4 1/2, and 2 1/2. I’m suuuuuper guilty of asking questions vs parenting/punishment. I’ve been thinking about this so much when I’m with my kids.
Thanks for making these videos I very much appreciated and enjoy them
YAY! I was binging your videos and here we are !!
SO GOOD, Sarah! I loved your arguments regarding the word “no.” While I’m probably not going to remove it from my vocabulary, I am going to try more often to phrase things differently. Several other points were helpful, too, and I’m saving this video to watch again later. 😉😁👍
Thank you for this video. I think we all need to be reminded of these types of things occasionally.
Good advice. Thank you. Parenthood is a big learning curve.
You nailed it. All of these are super important! My boys (21 months old) love helping with chores too, right now their favorite is putting laundry in the basket, doesn't matter if it's clean it dirty, it's going in the basket.
Amanda Lashley my 14 month old likes to help put his toys away at the end of the day. It’s so cute!
It's wonderful you're raising such responsible children!
Ever since I was a kid and I'd see my mom really stressed out I'd hug her thinking to myself "she really needs physical attention". I still do this at 21 and it still works. lol
Amazing!! My husband and I don't have kids yet, but we love this! You are amazing! I know I always say that but it is so true!