Hey man you are doing just awesome work actually i wanted to talk with you with some of the things I just messaged to you on Instagram (@shinestartups) please reply me over their.
1. His Text are random and unpredictable 2. He’s there for you... just not when you actual need him 3. he’s hot and cold in how he communicates 4. One of his friends has a chat with you 5. He tells you one thing and does another 6. He disappears faster than a magic trick 7. He’s into you in private and treat you like a bro in public 8. He’s vague (but only about the two of you together) 9. Hes both jealous but won’t care enough 10. He likes being with you... when he only needs you Thank me later :p
Because feelings change once you get to know them. He doesn't want to waste his time and energy on fake love or confused love on the girls part. He is trying to find out if it's him you really want not his car. House or money.
aight that's it. im just cutting him off. i know being confused is not a choice, i love him but im sorry, i need to love myself more and it hurts like hell when he says he's all willing and able but disappear only after for trying for 4 days. we're both guys btw. he is definitely confused and he needs to decide what he truly wants in his life.
me and my best friend, we're both males, and we do things like,only us things...he knows i am gay and he is straight. to the extend his girlfriend would be genuinely jealous of me.. of how he would speak of me in their conversations, when im not even there, often remembering the little things only i would do among our cicles of friends 1.we cuddle a lot, for 3 sems it has been, bcus we're roomies. but smtimes we sleep separately in our own compartments, cus yk smtimes, we need space. 2. we share our life experiences, things we enjoy and dont, as well as some secrets his loved ones dont know. 3. we check up on each other a lot. smtimes im moody back from class, and smtimes him. we are there for each other. for a while, i had to deal with a stalker once, an actual creepy one, and my bestie volunteered to step in to be my protector. walked to class with me, hit the showers with me (walked only), lulled me to sleep when fear literally deprived me of sleep. he was there most of the time when he can to be with me. 4. he goes out of his way, that is being straight, to find me my kind of gay contents; tiktoks mostly, lay next to me, show them to me, and purely to enjoy my reactions to them, which drive me crazy usually. he is happy as well to give me compliments such as "ur smart/ hard-working/ cute" but heres ones that rlly hit me different "it must be a real fun to have a bottom like you" and i instantly went silent 5. we communicate well thru our differences, but needing me to initiate the talk bcus hes "not good at words" as stated by him. 6. he makes inside jokes, that only i would understand, when hanging out with our other friends, and look at me until i get the pun. often as well, few of our friends catch him staring at me, but i dont, bcs obvly i wasn looking in his direction. 7. he choose lots of things, that consists of me in it, like playing badminton with me bcs i need training for tournaments instead of studying for a test hes having the next day. go where i go and not where his cliques go. 8. and lastly, we make plans of having degree together, same uni ofc, he himself considering to change courses, so that we go to the same institution and get to see each other. 9. he DEFINITELY gets jealous, mad when i go for other guys hands and hugs and not from him, but he will never offer to me his hands or whteva like dude urghh they (our other guy friends) happily flood me with physicals but why not you my mannnnnn now, the thing is, i do have feelings for him, and see him as my potential couple. but hey hes straight, AND HAVE A GIRLFRIEND so lets just head back to the closet and rot in there shall we?
How you get him is how you will have to keep him. This person I think like some men who experience with other men are simply horny. I don’t think a lot of gay men understand that some men may have same sex experiences as it can be more convenient than a traditional relationship, but they really have no intent of developing any true relationship with you.
I was planning on writing a whole story but I could stop myself in time. He confessed his feelings for me, literally, but it didn't go smoothly and it just... blurted out due to a small, stupid, ridiculous event. The days after were kinda awkward, but we remained close friends. Although what had happened kept on hanging in the air. I needed some time, days, to let it sink in and think about my feelings for him. The thing is; whenever I meet a guy, I don't ever expect it to turn into something more than friends. I accepted the fact no one could fall in love with me, so when someone who has literally called you their best friend suddenly says he's never felt this way about anyone before... I was shocked and completely dumbfounded, like, pretty similar to that one emoji with the big round eyes. After that he said that no matter what would happen between us we would always remain friends and later that we should just see what would happen. And now due quarantine, I won't see him until idk when and he's not a texter so his messages are always short, but he answers basically within a minute most of the time since he's always on his phone. And he's always ready to help me even if I say I don't need it and I think his feelings will be gone by the time I see him again and I don't want that to happen because yeah let's say I've turned soft or something :(
True Medallion I will try, but saying “hey can you turn on your camera this time because I miss you” is sappy... Sorry, thank you for the reply. Your videos do help me out! I’m outta here before I comment anything else I might regret sharing
Oh my gosh. What is quarantine doing to people? Exactly the same scenario. A guy, we actually knew each other before but we weren't that close, confessed just days before the quarantine started and since then we were talking on the phone rather than in person. I'm not quite sure if he's sincere or not since we did not have that much time to talk personally. Though he said that after quarantine we would hang out and he would treat me. Still got this wall and still hasn't let my guard down. I would expect that after quarantine he would take back his feelings. Though he's a decent guy, just got this mindset that people would not love me enough and no one would ever lol harsh but it is better than expecting that people likes you and loves you.
@@TrueMedallion I'm watching your channel from a long time , my name is not Caesar my name is Mel , idk if u remember me , I just did a "cosplay" on a UA-cam channel with this name and acc which I can admit it makes me feel less insecure also the character comes from JJBA , the channel evolved pretty much since I last came here, still funny
Eh I am dealing with this situation right now...but it hard not to care and tell to yourself: be with someone who is sure about being with you. But to be honest I have never met a guy in my life like him when everything clicks and we are kind like soul mates 😍 so it is so hard to let it go🤦♂️
This dude and i have been good friends for a while. Around his bros and in public he doesn’t talk to me, but then we’ll text for hours, then when i see him again, he acts like it never happened. People tease us and whatnot but i don’t know. High school boys suck.
One of my male friends told me they like me, it's super awkward since I don't feel the same. Sometimes I feel like he's flirting, whilst other times he treats me like a close friend. When we hang out at school it's mainly just with our friends and he barely talks to me around them (in fact he hardly talks that much around his friends) we sometimes hang out just us together and we talk a lot and he sometimes even flirts. He told me he likes me, but never said why or what he was looking for. Either he is confused of how he feels, scared of ruining our friendship, or he is just to scared to tell his friends or show them that he likes me. (I seriously don't know anymore)
If he's younger than he probably doesn't know what to do with you. That takes experience and trial and error. He doesn't know how to show it or is wondering if you will be OK with it or if it will ruin everything.
What i struggle with is one moment he's very loving and you know makes me feel like he really wants me around and in the next minute it's like almost like he doesn't even want me to touch him. I just feel like he keeps jerking around my emotions.
Yas my shy crush i told u about he claims he don't like me in a way i would like BUT he ACTUALLY does Like you call Me bae which stands for before anyone else which meaning you claim ME even tho we not together he is giving me mix signals i think he is low-key secretly in love with ME he is a Christian and he is protecting himself cuz he is a sweetie and very help ful and I thinks he is scared of being used i think its TIME for Me to make my move ..😑
about that last point does it mean he is just using you and is done afterwards ? because that seems like he doesnt give a shit abt you and has bad intentions overall
This is random yo, but thanks for the amazing and interesting content! I hope to support you not only for “if he likes you” vid ~ you have so much potential as a UA-camr who’d give good advice so all the best c:
1. Well no, but he will leave any emails that get to serious, but I believe he remembers things I know he does. 2. Oof.... Depends what topic it is, he usually is there for me but it's sometime there sometimes not 3. Some days the day is dreamy and perfect, other times he's awkward and shy... But on emails he's open and sweet 4. No, his friends just ship us, does that count? They don't bring it up, just tease him and me oof 5. Well yes lot but also no, he bearly compliments unless I'm doubting how he feels, then he spills out feelings and questions 6. Not unless it's on an email, he loves to leave email when it's to serious 7. Only treated like a friend if our friends are alone, I don't blame him tho.. 8. Omg.... Yes he is! He's very much like that when I ask questions about how he feels he ditches 9. Well idk but I did tell him of a boy that confessed to me and his replies went emotionless 10. No, he doesn't reach out usually, but I know he likes being around me... Oof I'm screwed cause I think I love him, I'm just afraid of love and don't know what to do, I've been getting closer, he's opened up to me, and he actually will comfort me, but I just don't know if he's really shy, confused or just doesn't feel ready, giving it time cause I won't rush him at all, cause we can wait but what I know so far. He remembers the little details, he doesn't like me doubting his feelings for me, and he's possibly shy around me. Any advice? Or tips or things signs you can pick up that I cant?
I’m sooo glad to be in the neighbor zone! I am not interested in this guy and. It just because he lives with his girlfriend. So, when he told me he’d go crazy, if he saw me kissing another some guy, I was like, “WTH? Ewww!”😝
My crush says he like me then says he doesn't like me and he keeps going back and forth. He is nice and tells me "good night sweet dreams". I am so confused. We don't really have long conversations more like "hey how's it going" kinda thing. He has told me I am beautiful multiple times.
I have this problem with my friend/coworker. He has said that he likes someone else, but that was the middle of last year. Clear signs: -He likes to tease me (A LOT) -He calls me for no real reason (I mean, it typically starts off work related, but it's stuff he could ask anybody else, then goes on to talk about random stuff) -He's willing to help me with literally anything, work or not -He tends to get jealous of another coworker and always asks what me and the other coworker talk about or do -We are both comfortable opening up to each other, can tell each other personal stuff... etc. -He wanted us to work together for a production, even though my supervisor already said we couldn't. My coworker actually went and told our boss why we should be working together. In doing so, the boss secured my original spot away from my coworker :/ -another coworker has said he could see us on cute little dates Not so clear signs: -yes, he texts me for no reason, but it's like, he could text me every single day for a week, then I don't hear from him until we work together again. I find he does this when him and I will not be working for awhile, and he knows I'll be with another guy. -We will be talking to each other, then all of a sudden he will walk away. No warning! Just gets up and walks away. -Sometimes he flirts, sometimes he doesn't -He doesn't always remember things about me -He makes remarks about how other women are beautiful -I've complimented him about his appearance (it was a holiday, and I said it in a friendly way) and he didn't even look at me or say anything back. -He doesn't mind giving me advice about other guys -No serious physical touching, except for hair twirling (but only a couple of times). He will occasionally hit my arm, but that's to get my attention. Him and I have a really good relationship where we can say or ask each other anything. We have had arguments/disagreements before, but we always talk and work it out. I just don't know how to bring this up or if I even should.
@@TrueMedallion Thanks! Honestly, I would be down to go out with him and see what happens, but maybe after the summer? I am not sure I want to date anyone right now, but he's really sweet and I used to have a crush on him, so I'd definitely take a chance with him and see where things lead us :)
My crush and I are pretty good friends. In class we talk a lot and get along great, but I dont really know if he likes me. People tease us about being together. He isnt a texter so when dont really text. Help!
What if he is hesitating because of age difference or social status, I am older, and my family is well off, so could it be that he is scared of comfessing?
10/10 He does all of this. What should I do? I like him and I want to tell him but I'm afraid our friendship will be ruined..He's my close friend- seem like best friend but there is always something awkward between us :/
I've watched so many of these videos I feel like an expert in the Field, but I think my self esteem is so low, I still don't know how he feels about me.
It’s all about getting yourself out there. If he doesn’t like you, then it’s okay. The more you put yourself out there and talk to people, you’ll start to get better at it and your self esteem will improve. But never never store those rejection personally. Take them as learning experience and gaining experience point in life. Life is just a game. :)
My boyfriend cheated on me months ago. Found out around Christmas. January and this month he tells me he is confused and doesn't see a future with me...what do I do?
I noticed at camp I liked one guy but he always was talking to me then when not a lot of people are around he talks to me also and sits near me with a lot off people and when not much are arou d and he hanged out with me at a party and made me laugh does he like me or being nice ? He's also an introvert and when he's around me he plays with his fingers near me but he's quite near me when other talkative around others
What does it mean if a guys tells that if i need someone to talk too i just message him? But behind of it we are both in a relationship but we still communicate?
This was video like half advice half quietly roasting the confused guys “Until you try to lean on him, and you just fall flat on the ground. Why? Oh yeah, because he’s not there...”
It’s amazing how much all of these ten situations describe my crush. Our situation is pretty much complicated… we both come from the same country, but live in a foreign one. He says (sometimes may I add) that I’m his only friend here. I have developed feelings for him long ago, but have never done anything about it (including keep on with the topic of the conversation whenever he shows a little bit of affection). He acts exactly like you’ve mentioned here and I simply don’t know what should I do next. I’m afraid to open up to him because I don’t want to loose our friendship…
There this guy that caught my attention. In 9th grade, he is curious about me like "can I see what your feet look like (I know creepy😂)"; "what does your mother look like"; "What do you look like when you cry" and so on. He stares at me deeply and pinch my cheeks suddenly. Sometimes he drags me somewhere suddenly and demands for me to follow. But then at the end of the year he became distant towards me he ignores me and can be seen with another girls ( he never dated them). I don't know I think its because he saw me with my crush(that time 😂 i know...) taking picture in an event. In 10th grade, when the school starts he always sticks with me like if there is a homework, he goes to me. When he has nothing to do he goes to me. He just go near me to tease me. When the time we seated close(not that we are seatmates, just close) he stares at me when I am busy with something and when I caught him he still stares at me i said stop what the and he'll be like: "whats the problem of staring?". He is curious with my crush like when we play game kinda truth or dare he asked who is my crush. And asked me again if that same topic was mentioned. He teases me with the guy who confessed to me like often. And he always sneaked out my cellphone(idk how he got the password) and goes to my messenger and asked who is this dude? My friend caught his friend teasing him because me. When my friend teases me because of him and he notices it he'll just ignores it but continue teasing me after that .And being attention seeker for me, also some guys tell me we are a thing (even though we are not). Then again in the end of the year he is still close to me but he's like super caring /supportive and then very rude. Also there is a girl that has a crush on him and they started texting each other(idk, if they still) This guy is driving me nuts like does he has a feelings for me or idk just a jerk?
WoW thanks for the help 😊 Guía la my case. I have a crush on my ex's best friend and he was like flirting with me all the time in a school trip (my ex wasn't there). But now he's normal with me I guess 😔
I really want to ask out the person I like but I still can’t gain the confidence I need. I still can’t tell if she feels the same or not and it keeps making me think. What makes it even worse is that I never know what to say to her, I never know how to start a conversation and it’s always awkward when we’re not talking around friends. Basically, I have no game. I might just give up
He always says good morning and texts me every single day, we talk almost all day, sending random memes and discussing stuff we found through the internet, had deep conversations, went on several "dates", yet he won't admit that we are not just friends 🙂
you know that is kinda my situation! I know what your are talking about! It's not exactly the same but my guy is just not that consistent but I know exactly your talking about. Although we are more than friends though so:/
Haley Wright same for me. We are more than friends but like not together. And our communication is so inconsistent. I don’t talk to him for 4 days then all of a sudden he asks to see me. So complicated!
Okay can you help me I have a situation. Me and this guy I met at school started talking on text because we are both shy in person even though we see each other everyday. We talked every day and would smile at each other and laugh. But then one day he just stopped talking to me and I don’t know why. He was kinda avoiding me at first but kept glancing at me. Now he doesn’t avoid me but he still glances at me all the time and I want to ask him if I did anything wrong but I’m too nervous. Why do you think he did this?
1. He treats me like nothing 2. He rejected me 3. He said he likes me to my friends("i still have feelings for her " ) but he got a girlfriend 4. He is jealous of ALL MY GUY FRIENDS 5. He leaves me always 6. He replies late 7. He always send me ew u don't wanna know- 8. He blocked me on all social media accounts now 9. He did apologised but he seem like he never meant it and i didn't accept it he just blocked me on all social media So yeah tell me what u think I think he played me Edit; pls tell me what u think he is just to confusing
I have a small crush on my guy best friend and I think he has feelings for me but not committed it yet. And he also kinda invites me to be with him but on the other hand he has a small crush on another girl.. I don’t know what should I do because six months ago I confessed my feelings for him and he said he don’t want to ruin our friendship.. I NEED HELP PLEASE ❤️ btw, I’m sorry for my badddd English..!
We were video-chatting with some of our friends today and we were doing some math exercises. I wasn't paying attention to anything because I was looking at him and just day dreaming lol, but then he says my name and I say "uh? what did you say? I wasn't listening" while smiling. He then had a huge smile on his face and then shook his head while still smiling. He was also red lol. But man he gives me soooooo many mixed signals. What do you think about this?
OKAY SIGN 4, TALKING WITH ONE OF HIS FRIENDS. Okay please help me here. I do sometimes talk to one of his "friends" but I think it is him (this is on insta). Bc one time this "friend" sent me a voice recording and it sounded like him but he was trying to make his voice deeper (if that makes any sense.) ALSO, they talk SO SIMILAR. Same emojis, same.. Language. Kinda hard to describe. But this boi keeps denying its him. What could this mean? Also... I see him (not The friend) online but he won't respond to my dms for like days... Sometimes. So idk. Sometimes he says "I care" and then sometimes he says "I don't care." PLEASE HELP WHAT COULD DIS MEAN BRUH! IM SO HURT AND CONFUSEDDDDDD. ~ Thank you if someone helps me out.
I can't talk to him in Person. I can only Video call him, but he apparently doesn't know how to answer his DM's. *dramatic eye roll* I'm a very disappointing Person. I don't know when to let go of things, because someone can hurt me 1000 times and I'd still stay. So. HEH.
If started dating don't open ur leg's because man's are complicated if ever he's confused about his feelings u not gonna be lost it's because u didn't open ur legs
I think he’s confused/ just not ready or in the mind space for a relationship... we were talking frequently (he sucks at texting anyone) he hung out and it felt more like a date..then we open up about being attracted to one another and we both feel really comfortable with talking about secrets or personal life stories. We kissed and had heated moments. He says he appreciates me and wants me in his life. Then all of a sudden he tells me he wants to just be friends... we still text everyday and he’s even openly admitted to still being attracted to me and appreciating me ☹️ he even asked me to go to lunch with him and coworker and at work I feel like we still gravitate towards each other... but I think I’m just going to keep him at a arms length. I feel the hot and cold feeling but everything else just doesn’t fit with him so I’m still trying to figure it out
Okay @truemedalion I am here because I need to talk to someone and I think its time I finally clear my mind of this nigga and let my soul be free. You know all the red flags listed above here is everything that this nigga shows me, he's 24 and I am 26 and here's my story. I and this dude been working together at the same office for the past 4 months and everything was just normal , to me he was just a normal colleague at work but there's something strange about him is that, the very first time I met him, he looks so familiar like someone I have seen before but have no idea. I even remember there was a time that I confronted him and asked him if he attended the same high school as i but he said no and the funniest thing was that he wasn't even from the same state or sister as I and the first time I will be meeting him in this life was at my work place. But at work he was the person I was most unconsciously closet to but with no feelings of attachment and when it was time for the holiday and we had a work break and everyone at my work place all traveled back to their home town and after the holiday was over it took me time to return back to my work place because I had to ho write my last semester exam in the university and after 6 months when I returned back to my place of work, something strange happened to me one particular afternoon after my one week of returning back to work, I started having butterflies in my stomach because of this same dude and the feelings so intense that I started having headache and feeling very uneasy in my stomach and me and this dude actually sits very next to each other at work place, I remember before I experienced the butterfly in my stomach thing, whenever I and this dude's skin mistakenly touches each other it generates this intense electric painful shock and it has happened like that on so many occasions that he even jokingly said to me that I am in love with him which I never even had such thought or feelings towards him. It a week or days later that I started feeling the intense butterflies in my stomach and started having so much feelings for him which I feel isn't normal and I don't even understand why I started developing such feelings for him when I am not supposed to, physically and mentally and even age wise I am more exposed that him, he's just the same age with my younger brother and it feels awkward to me, but the more I am trying to resist the feelings the more intense it started growing and I then felt maybe the energy I was receiving wasn't mine, maybe he was actually the one feeling this way towards me and because I was an empath I was then the one suffering for it. So on one occasion while we were on lunch break at work I then asked him to let's speak privately with each other, I then told him about all that I am feeling and told him that I do not understand where or why I am feeling that way and asked to know if it's his energy if actually he was feeling anything for me or maybe he was in love with me, he then told me know and I persuaded him to tell me the truth and not lie to him but he looked me in the eye and said he doesn't have such feelings for me, that he just liked me as just an ordinary friend and nothing more than that. So I gave up asking him and then closed the matter but still that feelings kept growing intense and I started finding my self drawing emotional closer to him and I was acting all more than just a friend to him, but he was still treating me like a friend but he's usually all around me too. And when he was promoted and then left our office to another of our office branch which is still in the same city where I am too, he then sent me a text and told me that he had feelings for me but he couldn't show it because we were working in the same office and didn't want to cause any distraction or awareness in the office and before you knew it we were already having a secrecy affair and which I asked him to keep it secret untill we are truly sure that we are really into something very serious. Sometimes he blows my mind with all this sweet romantic words and even sings me songs on video call, but I am constantly having this off feelings from him, his actions says different from what he tells me, since he left the office we only saw each other once at a bar which I was the one who forced the meeting and since then we haven't had any date meeting except when he showed up for my birthday and for my boss birthday but he never asks for us to meet and sit out , sometimes he goes days and don't text and when he text he text are becoming dry and not so intimate but he keeps on sending me ring emojis and whenever sometimes he facetime me, he wil be telling me if he buys me and engagement ring and ask my hand in marriage will I refuse him??? He's just so confusing and it's stressing my heart if I should let go or keep holding on. There was even a time when I tried him to see his reaction when I told him that I am scared and confused of this relationship that I want us to cut it off and ended it but his reaction was like that of someone that was going to commit suicide,that I had to quickly let him know that it was all a joke. Please someone should talk to me and advice me on this dude 🙏🏾🙏🏾
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Smart xD
Did that first because i knew id love it
Hey man you are doing just awesome work actually i wanted to talk with you with some of the things I just messaged to you on Instagram (@shinestartups) please reply me over their.
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I knooow. 🤓men are so complicated
1. His Text are random and unpredictable
2. He’s there for you... just not when you actual need him
3. he’s hot and cold in how he communicates
4. One of his friends has a chat with you
5. He tells you one thing and does another
6. He disappears faster than a magic trick
7. He’s into you in private and treat you like a bro in public
8. He’s vague (but only about the two of you together)
9. Hes both jealous but won’t care enough
10. He likes being with you... when he only needs you
Thank me later :p
;) I see youuu
NO NAME i see you are extremely bored in this confinement period
Thank u
This exactly how behaves with me
Didn't dating coaches tell us that these clues are the biggest red flags and we must run?
Trust me, guys are usually straight forward , either he likes you or he doesn't, waste your time and you'll end up feeling used disrespected
So true
How can you like someone so quick he could be a narcissist...
My crush is so confusing. He could hug me and them 5 seconds later not talk to me for the rest of the day...
aww talk it out with him...
Aww same
I have the same problem...will give me the light of day for that moment and then later ignores me
I have the same problem what should I do
Fanta DIABATE we should both message them:) We can’t even see then bc of corona:(
When a youtuber know you more than yourself
Haha XD thanks
Lol
Why are men so complicated😂😂
Haha
Ikr 😂😂
Because feelings change once you get to know them. He doesn't want to waste his time and energy on fake love or confused love on the girls part. He is trying to find out if it's him you really want not his car. House or money.
@@tastelikechinahadababyandn9928 irritated much
This honestly answers so much
Thanks, Mallory! :D
aight that's it. im just cutting him off. i know being confused is not a choice, i love him but im sorry, i need to love myself more and it hurts like hell when he says he's all willing and able but disappear only after for trying for 4 days. we're both guys btw. he is definitely confused and he needs to decide what he truly wants in his life.
me and my best friend, we're both males, and we do things like,only us things...he knows i am gay and he is straight. to the extend his girlfriend would be genuinely jealous of me.. of how he would speak of me in their conversations, when im not even there, often remembering the little things only i would do among our cicles of friends
1.we cuddle a lot, for 3 sems it has been, bcus we're roomies. but smtimes we sleep separately in our own compartments, cus yk smtimes, we need space.
2. we share our life experiences, things we enjoy and dont, as well as some secrets his loved ones dont know.
3. we check up on each other a lot. smtimes im moody back from class, and smtimes him. we are there for each other. for a while, i had to deal with a stalker once, an actual creepy one, and my bestie volunteered to step in to be my protector. walked to class with me, hit the showers with me (walked only), lulled me to sleep when fear literally deprived me of sleep. he was there most of the time when he can to be with me.
4. he goes out of his way, that is being straight, to find me my kind of gay contents; tiktoks mostly, lay next to me, show them to me, and purely to enjoy my reactions to them, which drive me crazy usually. he is happy as well to give me compliments such as "ur smart/ hard-working/ cute" but heres ones that rlly hit me different "it must be a real fun to have a bottom like you" and i instantly went silent
5. we communicate well thru our differences, but needing me to initiate the talk bcus hes "not good at words" as stated by him.
6. he makes inside jokes, that only i would understand, when hanging out with our other friends, and look at me until i get the pun. often as well, few of our friends catch him staring at me, but i dont, bcs obvly i wasn looking in his direction.
7. he choose lots of things, that consists of me in it, like playing badminton with me bcs i need training for tournaments instead of studying for a test hes having the next day. go where i go and not where his cliques go.
8. and lastly, we make plans of having degree together, same uni ofc, he himself considering to change courses, so that we go to the same institution and get to see each other.
9. he DEFINITELY gets jealous, mad when i go for other guys hands and hugs and not from him, but he will never offer to me his hands or whteva like dude urghh they (our other guy friends) happily flood me with physicals but why not you my mannnnnn
now, the thing is, i do have feelings for him, and see him as my potential couple. but hey hes straight, AND HAVE A GIRLFRIEND so lets just head back to the closet and rot in there shall we?
Focus on yourself first. I know it's tough, but he has a girlfriend... :/
You need to tell them
@@thatboy3221 lmao, are you together yet?
How you get him is how you will have to keep him. This person I think like some men who experience with other men are simply horny. I don’t think a lot of gay men understand that some men may have same sex experiences as it can be more convenient than a traditional relationship, but they really have no intent of developing any true relationship with you.
I was planning on writing a whole story but I could stop myself in time.
He confessed his feelings for me, literally, but it didn't go smoothly and it just... blurted out due to a small, stupid, ridiculous event. The days after were kinda awkward, but we remained close friends. Although what had happened kept on hanging in the air. I needed some time, days, to let it sink in and think about my feelings for him. The thing is; whenever I meet a guy, I don't ever expect it to turn into something more than friends. I accepted the fact no one could fall in love with me, so when someone who has literally called you their best friend suddenly says he's never felt this way about anyone before... I was shocked and completely dumbfounded, like, pretty similar to that one emoji with the big round eyes. After that he said that no matter what would happen between us we would always remain friends and later that we should just see what would happen. And now due quarantine, I won't see him until idk when and he's not a texter so his messages are always short, but he answers basically within a minute most of the time since he's always on his phone. And he's always ready to help me even if I say I don't need it and I think his feelings will be gone by the time I see him again and I don't want that to happen because yeah let's say I've turned soft or something :(
Why not try to video chat to maintain that connection. :/
True Medallion I will try, but saying “hey can you turn on your camera this time because I miss you” is sappy...
Sorry, thank you for the reply. Your videos do help me out! I’m outta here before I comment anything else I might regret sharing
MissTerry Creay THIS IS SO RELATABLE
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Oh my gosh. What is quarantine doing to people? Exactly the same scenario. A guy, we actually knew each other before but we weren't that close, confessed just days before the quarantine started and since then we were talking on the phone rather than in person. I'm not quite sure if he's sincere or not since we did not have that much time to talk personally. Though he said that after quarantine we would hang out and he would treat me. Still got this wall and still hasn't let my guard down. I would expect that after quarantine he would take back his feelings. Though he's a decent guy, just got this mindset that people would not love me enough and no one would ever lol harsh but it is better than expecting that people likes you and loves you.
I don't even know why I'm here...
Haha it's okay. I don't know either. :)
Congrats on 112 k subs , this type of content will never die to me ^^
Thank you, Caesar!
@@TrueMedallion I'm watching your channel from a long time , my name is not Caesar my name is Mel , idk if u remember me , I just did a "cosplay" on a UA-cam channel with this name and acc which I can admit it makes me feel less insecure also the character comes from JJBA , the channel evolved pretty much since I last came here, still funny
:0 got it. Just referring back to your channel name. :)
@@TrueMedallion I missed this channel a lot , didn't opened yt in a while , I'm kind of shocked how your channel evolved that much
im officially more confused than the guy im talking to
XD I feel you.
Same, my friend, same
Eh I am dealing with this situation right now...but it hard not to care and tell to yourself: be with someone who is sure about being with you. But to be honest I have never met a guy in my life like him when everything clicks and we are kind like soul mates 😍 so it is so hard to let it go🤦♂️
True!
i feel you..
I feel you ❤
That's why I still got this wall. He's just not consistent enough and knowing I'm not the kind of person who seeks time and attention 24/7.
Awww
Same condition rn
This dude and i have been good friends for a while. Around his bros and in public he doesn’t talk to me, but then we’ll text for hours, then when i see him again, he acts like it never happened. People tease us and whatnot but i don’t know. High school boys suck.
-Lily- lol i can relate, my crush does this too
same but she’s a girl. luckily for me she stopped after I confronted her about it and now she’s my gf
Jmz_Here that gives me hope lol
I feel you Lily. It sucks, but to him about it and see....
@@the_7eremiah please, don't give me hope
wow this video is so different than others!!! I really prefer the old videos
XD I know it's totally different. I'm getting different reactions. Some people like the new style and some people like the old ones. XD
Great video man and nice joke at #3
Always watching your videos within 24 hours and during quarantine
Haha Thank you so much!
One of my male friends told me they like me, it's super awkward since I don't feel the same. Sometimes I feel like he's flirting, whilst other times he treats me like a close friend. When we hang out at school it's mainly just with our friends and he barely talks to me around them (in fact he hardly talks that much around his friends) we sometimes hang out just us together and we talk a lot and he sometimes even flirts. He told me he likes me, but never said why or what he was looking for. Either he is confused of how he feels, scared of ruining our friendship, or he is just to scared to tell his friends or show them that he likes me. (I seriously don't know anymore)
If he's younger than he probably doesn't know what to do with you. That takes experience and trial and error. He doesn't know how to show it or is wondering if you will be OK with it or if it will ruin everything.
U should do us a video how to get out of friend zone
Haha I did one right here :) ua-cam.com/video/I1L-NaaL2MQ/v-deo.html
@@TrueMedallion good job
Thanks! :D
don't put yourself there in the first place lmao
@@kc270352 lol I tried to avoid it 🤣
What i struggle with is one moment he's very loving and you know makes me feel like he really wants me around and in the next minute it's like almost like he doesn't even want me to touch him. I just feel like he keeps jerking around my emotions.
If only my crush could see this...
I would say low-key send it to her. haha
wtfff all of the criteria fits him so well like literally
;)
Sammmee
I love the advice u give and love your UA-cam channel
Thanks! :D
Thank you for what you said at the end of this video I needed to hear that!
:)
So ALL OF THIS TIME, i was with the confused guy. I got 8/10 of the signs :) , THANK YOU SOOO MUCH for help. I will definitely leave him ✌✨
XD
3:03 the ultimate singing 😂😂😂
Haha it's bad. I know. XD
Yas my shy crush i told u about he claims he don't like me in a way i would like BUT he ACTUALLY does
Like you call Me bae which stands for before anyone else which meaning you claim ME even tho we not together he is giving me mix signals i think he is low-key secretly in love with ME he is a Christian and he is protecting himself cuz he is a sweetie and very help ful and I thinks he is scared of being used i think its TIME for Me to make my move ..😑
awww you'll have to see what'll work.
Man: I'm not interested.
Girl: OMG HE LOVES ME
@@DavidUtau lmao
Me entering the video : let's see if he's confused huh?
My at the end : uhhhh maybe I'm not in his mind at all....?
about that last point does it mean he is just using you and is done afterwards ? because that seems like he doesnt give a shit abt you and has bad intentions overall
Literally needed this today.
Yay! :D
This is random yo, but thanks for the amazing and interesting content! I hope to support you not only for “if he likes you” vid ~ you have so much potential as a UA-camr who’d give good advice so all the best c:
Thanks for the feedback and support! :D
This was excellent, thank you for this content
No problem. :)
Yeah, he fits this description a lot. Especially the hot and cold
awww
1. Well no, but he will leave any emails that get to serious, but I believe he remembers things I know he does.
2. Oof.... Depends what topic it is, he usually is there for me but it's sometime there sometimes not
3. Some days the day is dreamy and perfect, other times he's awkward and shy... But on emails he's open and sweet
4. No, his friends just ship us, does that count? They don't bring it up, just tease him and me oof
5. Well yes lot but also no, he bearly compliments unless I'm doubting how he feels, then he spills out feelings and questions
6. Not unless it's on an email, he loves to leave email when it's to serious
7. Only treated like a friend if our friends are alone, I don't blame him tho..
8. Omg.... Yes he is! He's very much like that when I ask questions about how he feels he ditches
9. Well idk but I did tell him of a boy that confessed to me and his replies went emotionless
10. No, he doesn't reach out usually, but I know he likes being around me...
Oof I'm screwed cause I think I love him, I'm just afraid of love and don't know what to do, I've been getting closer, he's opened up to me, and he actually will comfort me, but I just don't know if he's really shy, confused or just doesn't feel ready, giving it time cause I won't rush him at all, cause we can wait but what I know so far. He remembers the little details, he doesn't like me doubting his feelings for me, and he's possibly shy around me. Any advice? Or tips or things signs you can pick up that I cant?
Continue talking, hanging out, and show that you're interested. That's the way to go about it. :)
OH GOD I'M IN THE NEIGHBOR ZONE
XD haha
I’m sooo glad to be in the neighbor zone! I am not interested in this guy and. It just because he lives with his girlfriend. So, when he told me he’d go crazy, if he saw me kissing another some guy, I was like, “WTH? Ewww!”😝
I needed this video earlier.. But eventually figured out..
Oof
Wow! Thank you
Totally my guy
:)
My crush says he like me then says he doesn't like me and he keeps going back and forth. He is nice and tells me "good night sweet dreams". I am so confused. We don't really have long conversations more like "hey how's it going" kinda thing. He has told me I am beautiful multiple times.
Start having a conversation and see where it goes. ;)
@@TrueMedallion I am a very shy person and I am not good at starting conversations.
This is the best advice ever which truly describes people without feelings👀🙄🙄🙄
No need confused.....no need contacts....no need shares.....no need any thing else....
:(
So beautiful video
Thanks!
I have this problem with my friend/coworker. He has said that he likes someone else, but that was the middle of last year.
Clear signs:
-He likes to tease me (A LOT)
-He calls me for no real reason (I mean, it typically starts off work related, but it's stuff he could ask anybody else, then goes on to talk about random stuff)
-He's willing to help me with literally anything, work or not
-He tends to get jealous of another coworker and always asks what me and the other coworker talk about or do
-We are both comfortable opening up to each other, can tell each other personal stuff... etc.
-He wanted us to work together for a production, even though my supervisor already said we couldn't. My coworker actually went and told our boss why we should be working together. In doing so, the boss secured my original spot away from my coworker :/
-another coworker has said he could see us on cute little dates
Not so clear signs:
-yes, he texts me for no reason, but it's like, he could text me every single day for a week, then I don't hear from him until we work together again. I find he does this when him and I will not be working for awhile, and he knows I'll be with another guy.
-We will be talking to each other, then all of a sudden he will walk away. No warning! Just gets up and walks away.
-Sometimes he flirts, sometimes he doesn't
-He doesn't always remember things about me
-He makes remarks about how other women are beautiful
-I've complimented him about his appearance (it was a holiday, and I said it in a friendly way) and he didn't even look at me or say anything back.
-He doesn't mind giving me advice about other guys
-No serious physical touching, except for hair twirling (but only a couple of times). He will occasionally hit my arm, but that's to get my attention.
Him and I have a really good relationship where we can say or ask each other anything. We have had arguments/disagreements before, but we always talk and work it out. I just don't know how to bring this up or if I even should.
Find out what you truly want and communicate that across. What you may want is answers from him. Once you know, you'll be able to sort it out.
@@TrueMedallion Thanks! Honestly, I would be down to go out with him and see what happens, but maybe after the summer? I am not sure I want to date anyone right now, but he's really sweet and I used to have a crush on him, so I'd definitely take a chance with him and see where things lead us :)
Very true. Thanks 💚
No problem.
My crush and I are pretty good friends. In class we talk a lot and get along great, but I dont really know if he likes me. People tease us about being together. He isnt a texter so when dont really text. Help!
Hang out more and you’ll find out. :)
just ask the guy out already
@@TrueMedallion I have the same problem... But it's quarantine so we can't hang out
I know! And we even have inside jokes and everything. I just dont want to ruin our "friendship".
My crush I so confusing, this helped and he does most of these things so….do I tell him I like him or not
What if he is hesitating because of age difference or social status, I am older, and my family is well off, so could it be that he is scared of comfessing?
UA-cam sending me a sign
Haha
please make a video on why your ex would go with your best friend...
Yup. This describes the dude that says he loves me😶
awww
but is there any chance I can change his behavior and maby convince him?
Your best bet is talking and hashing things out so the message is clear. :/
If he says he doesn’t like me and shows the opposite with his actions then? Wtf does that mean?…
10/10 He does all of this. What should I do? I like him and I want to tell him but I'm afraid our friendship will be ruined..He's my close friend- seem like best friend but there is always something awkward between us :/
:/
Advice from a man here: tell him if it feels awkward it is because he is probably nervous and doesnt have the courage to make the move
Sup, im finally early with the subcribe button and liking it and then turning the notofocations huh you should do it to!
Thanks!! You the MVP!
Hmm I’m experiencing the weirdest thing ever!
Umm....
3 people are crushing on me all the same time🤭
;) Nahhh that's good. :)
Same 😶
*Alarm clock sounds*
LOVE FROM INDIA I LIKE ALL YOUR ADVICE
PLEASE MAKE OUT A VIDEO ON HOW TO CONFESS TO A GIRL.
Thanks! I've made a few general ones on my channel. Check them out in the video section if you like. :)
I've watched so many of these videos I feel like an expert in the Field, but I think my self esteem is so low, I still don't know how he feels about me.
It’s all about getting yourself out there. If he doesn’t like you, then it’s okay. The more you put yourself out there and talk to people, you’ll start to get better at it and your self esteem will improve. But never never store those rejection personally. Take them as learning experience and gaining experience point in life. Life is just a game. :)
@@TrueMedallion it's easy to not take rejection personally when u just assume no one is into u unless they say otherwise.
My boyfriend cheated on me months ago. Found out around Christmas. January and this month he tells me he is confused and doesn't see a future with me...what do I do?
Dump him he cheated
Arghhh now im gonna start to make Fake Toughts that make me Upset Again
XD
yap my crush is confused about what he feels about me but even with that problem his going to marry other person... why life's cruel?
awww I'm sorry to hear that. Hopefully it'll be better. :/
I noticed at camp I liked one guy but he always was talking to me then when not a lot of people are around he talks to me also and sits near me with a lot off people and when not much are arou d and he hanged out with me at a party and made me laugh does he like me or being nice ? He's also an introvert and when he's around me he plays with his fingers near me but he's quite near me when other talkative around others
What does it mean if a guys tells that if i need someone to talk too i just message him? But behind of it we are both in a relationship but we still communicate?
This was video like half advice half quietly roasting the confused guys
“Until you try to lean on him, and you just fall flat on the ground. Why? Oh yeah, because he’s not there...”
Haha I was one myself...shhhh
It’s amazing how much all of these ten situations describe my crush. Our situation is pretty much complicated… we both come from the same country, but live in a foreign one. He says (sometimes may I add) that I’m his only friend here. I have developed feelings for him long ago, but have never done anything about it (including keep on with the topic of the conversation whenever he shows a little bit of affection). He acts exactly like you’ve mentioned here and I simply don’t know what should I do next. I’m afraid to open up to him because I don’t want to loose our friendship…
MAKE OUT A VIDEO ON
IS SHE TRYING TO MAKE ME JEALOUSY? 50 SIGNS
50 signs 😂
@@Beau24 I don't have any clue bro I reqd. an entire theory in regards to this topic
I can wipe out many book for this behavior.
The one about him having another love interest.... what if he does that but does everything else too?
You would need to hangout more and talk more
We were just talking fine then suddenly he messaged me that we should kill off out chat and we dont have connection. Why?
Man speaking: he probebly doesnt want to chase you and doesnt know how you feel about him.( he might have oneitis look it up)
Goodmorning
There this guy that caught my attention. In 9th grade, he is curious about me like "can I see what your feet look like (I know creepy😂)"; "what does your mother look like"; "What do you look like when you cry" and so on. He stares at me deeply and pinch my cheeks suddenly. Sometimes he drags me somewhere suddenly and demands for me to follow. But then at the end of the year he became distant towards me he ignores me and can be seen with another girls ( he never dated them). I don't know I think its because he saw me with my crush(that time 😂 i know...) taking picture in an event.
In 10th grade, when the school starts he always sticks with me like if there is a homework, he goes to me. When he has nothing to do he goes to me. He just go near me to tease me. When the time we seated close(not that we are seatmates, just close) he stares at me when I am busy with something and when I caught him he still stares at me i said stop what the and he'll be like: "whats the problem of staring?". He is curious with my crush like when we play game kinda truth or dare he asked who is my crush. And asked me again if that same topic was mentioned. He teases me with the guy who confessed to me like often. And he always sneaked out my cellphone(idk how he got the password) and goes to my messenger and asked who is this dude? My friend caught his friend teasing him because me. When my friend teases me because of him and he notices it he'll just ignores it but continue teasing me after that .And being attention seeker for me, also some guys tell me we are a thing (even though we are not). Then again in the end of the year he is still close to me but he's like super caring /supportive and then very rude. Also there is a girl that has a crush on him and they started texting each other(idk, if they still)
This guy is driving me nuts like does he has a feelings for me or idk just a jerk?
WoW thanks for the help 😊
Guía la my case. I have a crush on my ex's best friend and he was like flirting with me all the time in a school trip (my ex wasn't there). But now he's normal with me I guess 😔
awww
Does this also goes the other way? I mean, do these signs also go for girls being confused about girls?
I mean girls being confused about boys, haha
Yeah, but I'm mainly talking about guys here. haha
I really want to ask out the person I like but I still can’t gain the confidence I need. I still can’t tell if she feels the same or not and it keeps making me think. What makes it even worse is that I never know what to say to her, I never know how to start a conversation and it’s always awkward when we’re not talking around friends. Basically, I have no game. I might just give up
Practice. You got this! Start talking to everyone until you're comfortable.
He always says good morning and texts me every single day, we talk almost all day, sending random memes and discussing stuff we found through the internet, had deep conversations, went on several "dates", yet he won't admit that we are not just friends 🙂
awwww one day maybe...
@@TrueMedallion i hope so, it's been 2 years already 🙂😂
If it’s been 2 years. Just leave! That’s way too long to be strung along. He’s unsure and you don’t want someone that is unsure about you!
you know that is kinda my situation! I know what your are talking about! It's not exactly the same but my guy is just not that consistent but I know exactly your talking about. Although we are more than friends though so:/
Haley Wright same for me. We are more than friends but like not together. And our communication is so inconsistent. I don’t talk to him for 4 days then all of a sudden he asks to see me. So complicated!
Can you do opposite?
Yes. :)
Made me laugh. 😂🤣 The part you were asking question/s then I'll be answering in my mind. Then define accuracy!! 😅
XD
Thank u beast addvise ever
Thanks! :D
Then what when he is confused then r we fools to feel ....😑
😂 🤣He dissappears faster than a magic trick 🤣😂
:)
please make a video on *signs that a girl's love is one sided....🤔
I'll note that idea down for future videos. :)
Okay can you help me I have a situation. Me and this guy I met at school started talking on text because we are both shy in person even though we see each other everyday. We talked every day and would smile at each other and laugh. But then one day he just stopped talking to me and I don’t know why. He was kinda avoiding me at first but kept glancing at me. Now he doesn’t avoid me but he still glances at me all the time and I want to ask him if I did anything wrong but I’m too nervous. Why do you think he did this?
Talk more in person.
1. He treats me like nothing
2. He rejected me
3. He said he likes me to my friends("i still have feelings for her " ) but he got a girlfriend
4. He is jealous of ALL MY GUY FRIENDS
5. He leaves me always
6. He replies late
7. He always send me ew u don't wanna know-
8. He blocked me on all social media accounts now
9. He did apologised but he seem like he never meant it and i didn't accept it he just blocked me on all social media
So yeah tell me what u think I think he played me
Edit; pls tell me what u think he is just to confusing
That's a no go for him... :/
@@TrueMedallion oof 🤧
I think he is no confuse but you.. by all you said above . It’s hurt but there is no go, no more waste your time and energy for him ...
I have a small crush on my guy best friend and I think he has feelings for me but not committed it yet. And he also kinda invites me to be with him but on the other hand he has a small crush on another girl.. I don’t know what should I do because six months ago I confessed my feelings for him and he said he don’t want to ruin our friendship.. I NEED HELP PLEASE ❤️ btw, I’m sorry for my badddd English..!
Aww sometimes it’s not meant to be and it’s okay to understand that. Continue being friends and see. Perhaps you’ll find someone else.
We were video-chatting with some of our friends today and we were doing some math exercises. I wasn't paying attention to anything because I was looking at him and just day dreaming lol, but then he says my name and I say "uh? what did you say? I wasn't listening" while smiling. He then had a huge smile on his face and then shook his head while still smiling. He was also red lol. But man he gives me soooooo many mixed signals. What do you think about this?
Talk to him. :) and see ;)
Why is this so my relationship with my boyfriend??? He's so confusing does he like me doesn't he he's so distant lately
:/
Ohh god now I know he really confused about me 😐
He treats me like a bro in private and into me in public. Now, that is confusing!
Oof
U got a confident one on your hands lol
Who says man is not complicated ?
Haha
because text stuff out of guilt not serious just say stuff to be nice still Don t trust you
OKAY SIGN 4, TALKING WITH ONE OF HIS FRIENDS. Okay please help me here. I do sometimes talk to one of his "friends" but I think it is him (this is on insta). Bc one time this "friend" sent me a voice recording and it sounded like him but he was trying to make his voice deeper (if that makes any sense.) ALSO, they talk SO SIMILAR. Same emojis, same.. Language. Kinda hard to describe.
But this boi keeps denying its him. What could this mean?
Also... I see him (not The friend) online but he won't respond to my dms for like days... Sometimes. So idk. Sometimes he says "I care" and then sometimes he says "I don't care." PLEASE HELP WHAT COULD DIS MEAN BRUH! IM SO HURT AND CONFUSEDDDDDD. ~ Thank you if someone helps me out.
Talk to him in person and get some answers that way. If it's getting too confusing, you need to tell yourself if it's even worth it. :/
I can't talk to him in Person. I can only Video call him, but he apparently doesn't know how to answer his DM's. *dramatic eye roll*
I'm a very disappointing Person. I don't know when to let go of things, because someone can hurt me 1000 times and I'd still stay. So. HEH.
Stay away from him/ them for your own sanity
If started dating don't open ur leg's because man's are complicated if ever he's confused about his feelings u not gonna be lost it's because u didn't open ur legs
I think he’s confused/ just not ready or in the mind space for a relationship... we were talking frequently (he sucks at texting anyone) he hung out and it felt more like a date..then we open up about being attracted to one another and we both feel really comfortable with talking about secrets or personal life stories. We kissed and had heated moments. He says he appreciates me and wants me in his life. Then all of a sudden he tells me he wants to just be friends... we still text everyday and he’s even openly admitted to still being attracted to me and appreciating me ☹️ he even asked me to go to lunch with him and coworker and at work I feel like we still gravitate towards each other... but I think I’m just going to keep him at a arms length. I feel the hot and cold feeling but everything else just doesn’t fit with him so I’m still trying to figure it out
I feel stupid he is the one who chat me first with “hello” after I replies he just seen it 😅
Hi true medallion it's me that kid named ramiel Jy I'm with a new account now do you still remember me ramiel Jy
Ayeee It's Ramiel. :)
Okay @truemedalion I am here because I need to talk to someone and I think its time I finally clear my mind of this nigga and let my soul be free. You know all the red flags listed above here is everything that this nigga shows me, he's 24 and I am 26 and here's my story. I and this dude been working together at the same office for the past 4 months and everything was just normal , to me he was just a normal colleague at work but there's something strange about him is that, the very first time I met him, he looks so familiar like someone I have seen before but have no idea. I even remember there was a time that I confronted him and asked him if he attended the same high school as i but he said no and the funniest thing was that he wasn't even from the same state or sister as I and the first time I will be meeting him in this life was at my work place. But at work he was the person I was most unconsciously closet to but with no feelings of attachment and when it was time for the holiday and we had a work break and everyone at my work place all traveled back to their home town and after the holiday was over it took me time to return back to my work place because I had to ho write my last semester exam in the university and after 6 months when I returned back to my place of work, something strange happened to me one particular afternoon after my one week of returning back to work, I started having butterflies in my stomach because of this same dude and the feelings so intense that I started having headache and feeling very uneasy in my stomach and me and this dude actually sits very next to each other at work place, I remember before I experienced the butterfly in my stomach thing, whenever I and this dude's skin mistakenly touches each other it generates this intense electric painful shock and it has happened like that on so many occasions that he even jokingly said to me that I am in love with him which I never even had such thought or feelings towards him. It a week or days later that I started feeling the intense butterflies in my stomach and started having so much feelings for him which I feel isn't normal and I don't even understand why I started developing such feelings for him when I am not supposed to, physically and mentally and even age wise I am more exposed that him, he's just the same age with my younger brother and it feels awkward to me, but the more I am trying to resist the feelings the more intense it started growing and I then felt maybe the energy I was receiving wasn't mine, maybe he was actually the one feeling this way towards me and because I was an empath I was then the one suffering for it. So on one occasion while we were on lunch break at work I then asked him to let's speak privately with each other, I then told him about all that I am feeling and told him that I do not understand where or why I am feeling that way and asked to know if it's his energy if actually he was feeling anything for me or maybe he was in love with me, he then told me know and I persuaded him to tell me the truth and not lie to him but he looked me in the eye and said he doesn't have such feelings for me, that he just liked me as just an ordinary friend and nothing more than that. So I gave up asking him and then closed the matter but still that feelings kept growing intense and I started finding my self drawing emotional closer to him and I was acting all more than just a friend to him, but he was still treating me like a friend but he's usually all around me too. And when he was promoted and then left our office to another of our office branch which is still in the same city where I am too, he then sent me a text and told me that he had feelings for me but he couldn't show it because we were working in the same office and didn't want to cause any distraction or awareness in the office and before you knew it we were already having a secrecy affair and which I asked him to keep it secret untill we are truly sure that we are really into something very serious. Sometimes he blows my mind with all this sweet romantic words and even sings me songs on video call, but I am constantly having this off feelings from him, his actions says different from what he tells me, since he left the office we only saw each other once at a bar which I was the one who forced the meeting and since then we haven't had any date meeting except when he showed up for my birthday and for my boss birthday but he never asks for us to meet and sit out , sometimes he goes days and don't text and when he text he text are becoming dry and not so intimate but he keeps on sending me ring emojis and whenever sometimes he facetime me, he wil be telling me if he buys me and engagement ring and ask my hand in marriage will I refuse him??? He's just so confusing and it's stressing my heart if I should let go or keep holding on. There was even a time when I tried him to see his reaction when I told him that I am scared and confused of this relationship that I want us to cut it off and ended it but his reaction was like that of someone that was going to commit suicide,that I had to quickly let him know that it was all a joke. Please someone should talk to me and advice me on this dude 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I ain’t reading that 😭
I haven't even watched half the video & he's already describing me
:D
Honestly I identified my self all the way to the end of this video 🙄
XD
Is he really a guy I have been confused before that girl is really pretty ahh wait that is a guy....well she wears that better then me
XD
Boys in our room always fist bump with me always. That doesnt mean that they like me all, right?
Maybe being friendly... :)
Thank you for the tips.Now I see, Why my ex broke up to me.I swear im not going back to my jerk Ex Boyfriend.
Stay strong!
Yeup he is 😪
XD it's okay
or sometimes the guy just isnt over his ex. explains the hesitations dont you think? ;)
Yes that can be true too. :)