BTT # 21 - The Beta Male Risks w/Rollo Tomassi
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- Опубліковано 26 тра 2019
- The risks associated with beta male tendencies, and why you must end the beta in yourself as a man if you are going to find happiness and fulfillment in life. Beta males do not have success with women in long term relationships or marriage and it's important to understand the dynamic as a man in today's world.
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What band(s) did Rollo play in?
I find it so ironic that UA-cam demonetizes this podcast when people LITERALLY are calling in telling Rich/Rollo how this info saved their lives lol
What do you expect when the company is led by a feminist?
@cbr9292you Before you start commenting anything about topics like that or any topic in general, I suggest you go back to school and learn proper English language punctuation.
Reading your comment just gave me migraine, nausea and cancer!!
YT is part of the propaganda machine. They thread softly but firmly. If another video platform emerges from outside of USA, CIA will suppress it. Trump will ban it due to it not restricting free speech.
It appears ironic. It's not. These corporations are bought up if they've proved to have influence. They're only extensions of the media, which is an extension of the government, which has an agenda.
@@maxxdroid buddy you're completely right.
Every guy must have a circle of friends who they get quality advice. This statement is underrated.
Its excellent advice but unfortunately its not possible for everyone. My circle of friends are all married which of course means they aren't really my friends. Acquaintances. For some its not possible. Im fine with it of course. Im not getting sucked into that. No way no how
@@2kTeacher gotta keep evolving man, find some new bros
@@andypagakis i know. The area im in like I said. Its tough. I'll probably try to hit up message boards and stuff. Nothing will stop me from chasing excellence tho. Got a good job and gonna start the process
@@2kTeacher Feel u. Keep it up
@@2kTeacher did you find a good circle of guys?
This shit is slowly changing my life. Thank you Rollo and Rich for providing this content, this is literally the most important information I have ever found in my life.
At least Rich has actually felt the pain of being zeroed out. Rollo has been with a hot woman since he hit puberty.
lovely, sure is mate
I could listen to Rollo and Rich talk all day, really hope you guys collab more often.
Richard should be back to the Red Man Group 😉
Rollo, rich and Donavan are the heart soul and spirit of the rmg don’t you fucking forget it
@@nicholasmohamed3293 meh - Donovan I could do without
Rollo just oozes so much wisdom. I always love when Rollo and Rich collaborate. A Dynamic Duo.
I get the sense Rollo really respect Rich, despite any Manosphere infighting. They work well.
Add Rian for the trifecta
It's amazing- the power given to women. The ability to literally destroy a man's life, without laying a hand on him, poisoning him, or committing/contracting any other physical violence. The power of mind.
Every one encouraged my wife and the mother of my children to leave me and I was left broken yet the narrative towards me was... "Get over it". I'm constantly shamed for wanted to be around my kids as much as possible. Everyone acts like it's perfectly normal for kids to be taken from their father. Like they don't need me, even my parents act like I shouldn't care about not being with them. And of course, women that do this can't raise children for shit.
But!!!! But they will take your money by force so you can slowly die and they can be strong and independent superwomen who need no man, only they do need the money she is able to extort from all of the male victims.
I’ve seen it happen they just treat you like a wallet that’s it ....
You are so right
My mom did a really nice job conditioning me and my brother to be subservient and weak. Started real early so that we wouldn't even know what was done to us. At the same time we told how smart handsome and special we were.
Can you say "cognitive dissonance."
Well my did too. At least until i learned how a cpu worked. Then i saw that my Brother (younger) was baisically waiting for the next command. I was like, wtf i'm i like this too? Just waiting like a robot for a command.
Well i was and am no longer.
Mine as well. As well as the media and our education system. It’s a recipe for disaster.
I love it when Rich gets angry on mistakes of callers and on the shit their women did to them.
Rejection is always better than regret
It's hard to find a circle of male friends to give you quality advice when they are blue pill conditioned and unhappy themselves. Usually they push you get into a ltr and keep questionning why you don't date.
Luckily we have life savers like Rich and Rollo to be the fathers, brothers and friends to give us advice we really needed... we all have a circle of friends here
Thank you so much Richard Cooper for introducing me to Rollo's books. You and Rollo saved my life man.
God bless you guys.
I was thinking "Zeroed out" thoughts. Bad ones. But I got it together thanks to Richards and Rollo's content. It happened with 3 different girls. But I survived. Thanks guys. I'm focusing on myself and I'm even happier and improving.
I've spent most of my life as a BP Beta and as a result suffered from anxiety, and bouts of suicidal depression.
The last half of 2018 was the beginning of my transformation and then one day, about 3 weeks ago I happened upon your groups content and it was like I found the final missing piece of the puzzle.
It's crazy to think that I'm just now awakening to what you guys have known for a long time....
It's a little scary to realize that in this stage of my life everything I've been doing has been wrong or detrimental in some way to my mental health.
My age group of men are destroying themselves in un-precedented numbers, and now I understand why.
It won't be an easy road, and I've got a LONG journey ahead of me
If I live that long, of course.
Just know that you guys are making a huge impact in my life
And saving the lives of countless other men who feel alone and lost.
Thank you
“Half of good game is irrational self confidence” this is too true!
I have been RED PILLED, and women (beautiful and feminist) friggin' hate this because it exposes their agenda and how they think! Women don't want men to really understand how they think, they don't want to be figured out and it's really simple once you get it. I have stopped looking at things through rose-colored glasses and just experimented and looked at all the times in my life at friends, family and my own personal relationships. All I can say is holy cow! There was so many things that were right in front of my nose and that I couldn't quite put my thumb on it! Every man in Western society needs to be red pilled! We have been raised to be BETA thinking it's normal, we are products of our environment! This should be a required class in high school for every boy. Men need to be raised masculine and alpha if they really want to be happy in life. I pray to God that these videos never ever get taken down! Back these videos up! We do get little clues in movies, media and watching and learning about others relationships in society how men treat women and how they should be treated! Example i.e. Will Smith's character in Bad Boys 2 where he bangs his therapist and Martin Lawrence's character is giving him crap about it. Smith's character replies with the line "Don't hate the player, hate the game!" I was like OMG it's so true! It all makes sense now!
@@henryf254 That is just an example when you go back to watching certain movies and TV shows with the Red Pill glasses on. You start to see why the alpha males and bad boys roles get all the chicks!Partially, there are plenty other movies and TV shows that demonstrate this exact affect. For example Hank Moody's character in Californication. Matt Damon's character in Euro Trip. Sterling Archer's character in Archer. Even though some of that is exaggerated, it brings home the point on how women want to be treated by the alphas (the masculine men), not by the betas (momma's boys)!
Ian Zedwick welcome to red pill brother. This is what I could have written myself. Funny enough, I watch things now I watched as a bluedpill and it makes sense. Being redpilled makes life easier, you now understand why most women play hard to get and you also understand their agendas. Red Pill is freedom
@@FxFSolidSnake you must've been comatose. sometimes one becomes black pilled because knowing the game doesn't get you laid. sometimes you might hate yourself because you're still not invited to the Alpha party of Chad & Tyrone even with all of your knowledge.
12:00 Thank you for going into detail about your brother in law. You've mentioned him in the past, but I never got the full story. High school diploma, no time to go to college having "manned up" to do the right thing and raise a family, busting his ass trying to keep her happy with Hawaiian vacations, etc, and nothing was ever good enough. I had two uncles who worked themselves into early graves and their son hanging himself trying to please their wives/mothers. Your brother in laws experiences mirror the women in my family's hypergamous/solipsistic nature to a T.
My uncle's brother shot himself,in a crawl space.she "wondered for days" where he was.She was cheating.
Rick Arlen - It's a truly disturbing story.
@@wiseonwords of course guys have to wise up.but that doesn't mean a woman,can't handle things differently.truly disturbing,Open Hypergamy is Vicious.
@@jasonrench5876 She was playing the part of the grieving housewife, complete with crocodile tears
Iff she's anything like my family. She was glad he's now out of the way and and her and her new BF are living it up on the assets he built.
My stepmother was out f-cking while my father laid dying on the couch. She was out on a "business trip" when my family told me he was dying. He didn't even bother calling her before he finally kicked....the neighbors called the cops due to the stench from his rotting corpse stinking up the neighborhood.
My father was a clueless beta who finally, in his last days, realized my stepmother never loved him. He was an ATM machine and nothing more.
I'm thankful the women in my family red pilled me more than any ex GF I've had (and I've dated the Bipolar cluster B types as well)
I sought out the red pill after a nasty breakup, but in retrospect? My female
relatives were ten times nastier and sociopathic than any GF I've ever had.
@@wiseonwords Very true. But after hearing Rollos experience, and talking to other men, plus numerous examples in my own family, I think its a lot more common than what appears. Families will sweep it under the rug and do damage control to portray their family as some kind of phoney Norman Rockwell painting rather than address that "real men" = a willingness to be disposable.
1:19:18
It`s one thing to forgive sins, it`s another thing to forget them.
i’m aware of female nature but everytime rollo speaks it just blows my mind his examples really make you go “ wow that makes sense “ . this man is a genius and is changing so many lives
Holy shit
Intuition; reason then emotions.
(If you look closely, you can take the above virtues, convert them into skills and use the above in any Multiple Choice Question (MCQ) exam)
Every time i watch something related to the Red Pill, I learn something.
ESPECIALLY, when it's one of the Godfather, Rollo, it's even more potent.
Yesterday my single mom of 2 girlfriend told me that I was wrong when I told her she was lucky to have me and I thought this specific podcast reminding me of this.
How dare you.your insubordanet!
Thank you Rollo for your dark studio background because when I listen to you on your channel and other channels, I save a lot of battery time on my smart phone. I watch a two hour video and still have 80% battery. (With dark background less pixels light up).
"Women are never embarrassed, but always offended." I think this is one of Rich's gems...
I’ve been listening to these podcasts every day for two weeks... my gosh this has all totally upgraded my entire belief system...but my head is wrecked lol.
This is revolutionary work!!!
Thank you all so much for work and input
This has made really excited for Rollo's 4th book. Great episode gentlemen.
UA-cam does not like me watching your videos. This is by far the best information I've come across. Thank you.
You killed it Rollo with that Jesus' example!
yes.... not much argument left on the soulmate issue against Jesus logic :D
Little preview of the book to come. Highly anticipated!
Such a powerful show and rollo’s wisdom is pure gold
So much knowledge dropped on here!! Appreciate you two
Rollo , Rich and Pat. Great guys , well established and credible . I can listen all day!
You guys are really helping me out to see things with more clarity. I'm in the early stages of my new red pill thinking, but it's opening up a whole new life perspective for me.
Has to wear a body cam when meeting his child because a female falsely accused him..
Guys seriously stay away from women..
I myself have lost contact with my 3 daughters because their mum used them as a weapon. Became homeless at 43 after owning 3 homes, lost everything, tools, cars, houses, everything to her through the courts.. She even wanted my Military pension earned from injuries in a war zone, I had to fight for it to keep it.
I know how you feel, once you lose so much and combine that with all the false allegations, it makes you adamant that it ain't never gonna happen again !!
This was excellent content. Classic steel sharpens steel dialog.
So much valuable knowledge in this one. Thanks guys!
the soulmate thing is absolute nonsense....i am sorry to sayit but no couple is in love after 5--10 plus the way they were first 6 months..it is not human nature to be monagamous for life...marriage is just the church and the states way to control the behavior of two people..
Yes love can be really tricky after one year we don’t feel the same but once that person is removed from our lives that’s when you realize how much you have grown with her, and that’s love, in a different form but still love.
Not really we are biologically made to mate select and guard. Just not for one girl lol
When Richard speaks it's gold. When Rollo speaks it's gold but he drones on a bit too long when making his point. Rich goes straight to it. I like Rich's style better.
This podcast is AMAZING!!! Such a deep thinking!!! Good work guys!
i Love hearing Romo talk. Amazing story telling
Great introduction Rollo and so very true about how men are conditioned in today’s feminine-centered institutionalized world.
Im in my early 20's. Im so glad i found those knowledge at such a young age. Youre videous are greate, I feel less confused about what is going on with woman in my life. Just thank you for sharing your knowledge with the masses
In a world where fathers are MIA, thank goodness there is people like Rollo and Richard.
Excellent red pill dosage. Thanks to you both, Richard and Rollo
yeah. I was hitting one women at Whole Foods and the beach this weekend and this will keep me away from that mindset for a few week.
Good to see you back Coops!
Super thankful for the content gentleman,
my ex did that in 95 told me she was on the pill 9 mouth later mike my son was born that cost my 600.00 a mouth be care full what you do
Thank just being onnist you no
@Chaitan Reddy why would you finance a car that's dumb lol
Honestly 600 bucks a month isn't that much, no alimony?
Lot cred to Rollo for relating an experience so close to home. Does not matter what sort of drama is going on, Rollo provides too many real examples to ignore.
Thanks for what you do for us all Rich.
Seeing commercials in this video really threw me off lol. Keep up the great work guys.
I know from experience, co parenting with a Narc is possible. You just have to remember it's all about your kid(s). Only talk when it involves the kids, if it strays from the kids kill the conversation. If she raises her voice at any point, end the conversation. It's not easy, it will take time, but you can train them that they have zero control over you and your emotions, get bored and find another beta to control.
Hey Rich after watching this one maybe you should do another playlist called after the train wreck
And have dudes call in too, That's one way to let us see how crazy shit can get
No man should attempt romantic interaction (maybe any interaction???) with women without Red Pill awareness.
Love your shirt Richard👍
I love that T Shirt Richard 😉👍🏽
Wow! This is gold! 👍👍
Btw...
Love your t-shirt Rich! 😂
Awesome show 👌. I wish fathers will teach this to their sons.
Keep it up brother. 👍🏽
Rollo! This an excellent video podcast. Again “Mode One + The Rationale Male = Atomic Bomb against blue pill conditioning”
My goodness what an incredibly brutal story with regards to Rollos brother. I think personally I would find it near impossible to reason with the behaviour of the girlfriend / wife.
The best way to learn Red Pill is to deconstruct case studies of women entering and commenting in the Red Pill arena. Their comments on Red Pill are exactly what is needed to understand women. It's kind of an irony really, but it is a good source to assist understanding.
This content is so valuable
Love the channel brother. 👍
Btw VT has decided to do a hit piece on you concerning dating single mothers. The hilarity of the fb comments is something to behold LOL
Old news
It's bad that Chateau Heartiste's blog has been suspended.
This video should have 150,000,000 views at least
First caller: DUDE get somespeaking lessons Jesus Christ such a short question took over a minute just to ask lol. Have your question ready
This makes so much sense. I have known a few guys who got suicidal over girls dumping them and I always just attributed it to depression caused by a simple "chemical imbalance." Now I'm wondering whether this supposed chemical imbalance would exist if they didn't have the beta mindset.
I Think Tim Minchin said it best in his song for his wife "If it was'nt you someone else would do"
You bring up alpha and beta.. In my head whos alpha and whos beta has "realy" changed ... Shocking who the ladies think are really alpha or beta men.. Great work..
Amazing episode
Hey! Love your content and appreciate the consultant posts...looking for everyday glasses and I like yours...name and make? Thank you!
Listening to Rollo Tomassi is like going a few rounds with Mike Tyson 🥊. Rollo gives me the knockout punch when I realize that everything I have been trained to believe since grade school is WRONG!
Great video I wish i could have seen this 15 years ago
People interchange the terms soul mate and life partner pretty freely. I have to agree with that caller mike about that. I’m a spiritual person and I have many soul mates. It’s where your soul aligns with their’s which doesn’t mean your tied to that person forever. Right place and the right time type of deal. I agree that there is no such thing as the “soul mate” ie life partner as you guys put it. Shouldn’t be tied down to any one person or situation
I freakin love your channel Rich, really enjoy your content!!!
Why do they play so deeply on alpha/beta like an in/out group? That's disturbing about the context here. I think alpha is a mindset of preparedness and experience and beta is more inexperienced and less prepared in a given circumstance. All men and even people can have these mindsets at different times in their lives, all depending on the circumstance and even just perception.
A good idea is getting out of the house. Meeting people in your area
@@atrainay I'm not sure what you mean? I'm referring to how "alpha" vs "beta" is used like a binary line in the sand, where you are either alpha all the time or beta all the time. Doesn't have anything to do with getting out of the house.
Damon Savvy yeah I struggle a bit with it too. Us vs them is blah. Just more identity politics and tribalism. BUT it's a concept that makes it easier to discuss red pill philosophy.
I'd say you're off the mark on this one. I also try to avoid in/out groups and I don't think this is an example of one.
You don't seem to fundamentally understand what they mean by alpha/beta, I would recommend reading the Rational Male or watching a video where they explain it. At the absolute simplest it means making yourself your mental point of origin and not bending to outside pressures.
There is no line in the sand, these guys are trying their absolute best to help as many people as possible.
The argument you’re trying to bring is irrelevant to the point being made.
Hey Rollo,
I like your new sound studio. Looks professional, very cool.
Big improvement over the wallpaper. Lol
@ approx 45:00-47:00 my ex-wife had 2 abortions unknown to me at the time they occurred while we were married, it was horribly traumatic for me to discover this back then, luckily I got over it.
Very interesting at 50:10, excellent point on Soulmates
This is so fucking powerful.
Yeah this shit stings real bad. Men will sacrifice everything for a women and his children and women don't even care.
Thanks for this
Thanks for sharing
Wow great topics you guys. I got so much out of this. I recently dated a cam girl and have gone through so much in a short time with her. Eventually she pulled the old I forgot to take my birth control pill now I'm pregnant on me. I'm willing to support that child as it's half my fault but I'm not interested in pandering to her like her beta male followers. Their there now...online talking about how messed up I am. Anyway thanks for the great content you guys!👍
Awesome video..Mathew 22:30 wow!
the guy who called about ''soulmates'' really just called to give his notch count and wanted his ego massaged.
God that story about the brother in law is tragic
Rollo got a real background! Yaay
When that dude said she has another baby at 01:12:16 I burst out laughing. Men complicate their own lives. 😂😂
You guys are the best the red pill saved me thank you brothers
That dude from The Sims finally got out of the swimming pool I built for him!😁😁
Great conversation today - always awesome with Rollo in attendance. Richard has a great knack for choosing great co-hosts (Dr. Shawn , Rollo, Dr. Robert Glover, etc)!
Breaking blue pill beta conditioning is absolutely VITAL to being a balanced, successful and healthy (both physical and more importantly mental) man today, especially in our western gynocentric-dominated society.
I abhor the term 'Toxic Masculinity', but when a man kills himself, his family, or others over perceived 'lost love' or 'oneitis' - that is the very definition of being a toxic male. It happens far too often - my heart sinks when I hear tragic news about someone murdering his ex or their child as 'payback'. How sick has our society become for a man to feel that is the natural course of action?
We need more channels like Rich's, Rollo's, Shawn's, et al) to help educate people to break this indoctrinated attitude - it saves lives! We shouldn't be draft-horses pulling an emotional plow for female contentment and validation. We need to get men back to being the best version of themselves FOR themselves. Only then can we break this truly horrible cycle of toxicity.
Stay strong my brothers!
33:10 he's got an Irish-sized channel 😂🤣🤣
100 soul mates 😂👍🏻
I would like to see Matt Cross from the 33secrets youtube channel and Victor Pride from the Bold & Determined Podcast & UA-cam channel as guests on your show, RIch! These guys have a lot of similar views regarding women and starting your own blog, podcast, books, being an entrepreneur, etc. Patrice O'Neil (R.I.P.) was a great about being red pilled before the term was even around he will be missed. Any material that you can find on this guy will open your eyes and mind. Listen to anything and everything the genius put out. These guys have opened my eyes and mind in very many similar ways that your guys have!
M, the guy that rips off Rollo and I? No thx
@@EntrepreneursInCars Wow, didn't know that, Rich. What about Victor Pride?I have read and listened to him and he pretty much has the same attitude regarding Western women and the way the Western Society is burning like Rome because of feminists and sexual degenerates. Check him out and please let me know what you think.
Matt is just a copycat of Rollo's book.
@@endthefed1448 Yup he's a douche
In the end it may cost way more to "play it safe"
Rollo thanks for the 16 Commandments of Poon. Brilliant!
I like Rollos studio. It went from tropical, to fishing shack. Now, it looks like he's sitting in a giant waffle iron. Pretty cool.
Well hes upping his studio, those waffle irons are sound mutes that consume echos
I had a BPD ex get me in such a state that I was starting to think like she did. Not so much wanting to die, just not wanting to exist anymore. Does that make any sense? I do miss the crazy pornstar sex. I hope she stays the hell away😵
Rollo was ready for that religious question.
You have to make an own show together.