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Great Video Rich, as always. But allow me to correct you in one stat that you used. "women are in their fertile peak around 22 or 23". Simply NOT true! This might very well be the age most men pick women....sure.....but it is NOT their peak fertility. I'm a biology teacher and I can promise you that the most fertile, most viable, (healthiest) eggs a female will ever produce in her lifetime are the eggs she produces for the first 5 to 6 years following her initial period (menstruation cycle). By the time a woman hits her mid 20's, her eggs are already well on the decline (at least compared to her teenage eggs). That's just a simple fact!
Great summary. Now I challange you to make video on greed and how much influence the whole society. You are great thinker and talker so you should easily deal with the subject.
Point 2 is not entirely correct. If go back far enough to the times of regular food scarcity more chubby women and men were the beauty standard, you can still see it in the paintings of Rubens for instance. Because in those times being chubby was seen as a sign of being wealthy and/or succesfull. Today however with plenty food available, having a slim figure is seen as a sign of self discipline whereas a chubby figure is seen as a sign of either a lack of self discipline or a sign of making poor nourishing choices (or both). If we get to a time of food scarcity again, this may revert to the old beauty standard.
10 LIES WOMEN ARE TOLD: 1. You can have it all. 2. You are beautiful at any size / weight. 3. You can do anything you want and be as promiscuous as you want. 4. "Mr. Right" is out there and if you wait long enough he will eventually show up. 5. It's okay to be a challenge / disagreeable / a real "Boss Babe" to your man. 6. You will peak in your 30's or even your 40's. 7. If a guy rejects you it's because of him, not you. Just get a new guy. 8. Your career should be your priority. 9. You can "manifest" success, happiness, or anything else you want if you just "believe" enough. 10. You can have kids at any age. Thanks Rich!! 🤜🤛
This exactly. Says it all, doesn't it? And when that would happen, women would scorn him! The first they'd do is bitch about all those single mothers who 'have it much harder than him' or some bs. They'd also guilt-shame him, saying something like 'you should have pleased your woman more, she'd still be with you!' or claptrap like that. Funny how the same women would never say that to a single mother.
In fairness, there aren't a ton of truly single fathers. Most single Dad's still split custody with the mother. There are a lot more truly single moms who have no help from the father
Narcissist women are delusional. Many have this princess entitlement that they deserve everything and do not have to give anything back. Enter at your own risk.
Grandma said it best - "Son keep them as your gf and she'll always give you her best A+ effort b/c she's lying to get the 💍. When she's married you will receive the real her the revenge her for all the faking she had to do before."
2. There is no unattractive women. In Russia we have a saying: "There is no unattractive women only not enough vodka". And as consumption of alcohol in Russia is decreasing so is a birthrate. So maybe there is some truth in this...
Breeding while alcoholic is bad for genome. You Russians are getting better and better the lowest birth rate gets. Quality over quantity. Greetings from Romania! 🇷🇺💯Stay strong! Victory will be yours! We love you, people! ❤
"Karate as a way to gentleness"- C.W. Nicol uses this expression in his book as he was studying both karate and judo in Japan at the same time! He was advised to pick!
@@samr.england613you lack nuance. His root was tai chi with his dad. Much later he spent 3+ years with Ip Man. Then he started branching out. You need a solid root, one thing at a time. Bruce was the Elon Musk of mixed martial arts. I’ve read his books, I spent over ten years with his Hong Kong classmate moved to San Francisco Chris Chan. So I have personal stories about Bruce from in school private experiences. One must focus and make the behavior unconsciously competent at bare minimum. The height of skill is unconscious and consciously competent. Bruce would not move on till he achieved this at combat level competence. So Confucius is correct.
My marriage failed. It was a combination of problems that all happened at once. But my wife got in with a group of man-hating feminists. That was the last straw.
Women all want the top1% men therefore it is their primal instinct to convince their competition of things which will make sure the competition is disqualified by those top guys. Women know each other and hate each other , but manipulation is their weapon. That is why men with experience know not even believe what a woman ask.
@@StabilisingGlobalTemperature FEMINISM US GROWING IN epidemic PROPORTIONS! 90% of family court judges are FEMALE AND FEMINAZI !!!! I know I was subjected to their injustice. They use their feelings to preside!! Not facts!!
Women control access to all sexual activity. Women have a legal superiority in any marriage. Women also, by law, control all reproduction. Even if you're married, you will have children only if your wife wants them. You may have One child, OR as many as she wants. Western Civilization is being demographically eviscerated, at the discretion of women. They have been handed the keys to the kingdom. The Feminist Agenda is their strongest influence.
Modern women prefer to listen to their boss, then work their way up until they ARE the boss. Or to work for themselves and be their OWN boss. And they prefer to find love with a husband who is NOT their boss. If they must work for one boss or another, they would rather work for a boss they don’t have to LIVE WITH 24/7!
That is definitely s matter of perspective. Women can work for SS just fine. On some jobs they will be significantly better than on other jobs. Protecting some old guy with your body is an example of the latter.
Absolutely. Never ceases to amaze me, even with very intelligent women I have known in my life, stating that their style of comfort, technology, law and order, buildings, science, medicine, education and so much more that both us men and women now take for granted is 'due' to about 7000 years of progress where there was no such thing as feminism. I accept population growth is a factor of worldwide decline, but we no longer have the 'traditional' roles that men and women once kept to. Too much to state here but two very obvious examples that I witnessed so well when working as a teacher and as an IT Trainer travelling to many companies around Europe. Without any doubt, I can say that disruptive, troublemakers and violent young teenage boys 'always' came from a family with no father. I did very well with my classroom control, primarily due to being in the military, industry and applying at times very strict but caring discipline. Quite a few times, after effective battles with young lads, was told they wished they had a father like me. The other example was witnessing more and more women taking managerial jobs and being very bias against men as oppose women who they managed. Towards my time when retiring, I notice a far more resentfulness and unhappiness with the men would be teaching and observing in meetings. Natural order - I wonder if it will ever come back again because the wester world, unlike the Asian world that I have also lived and worked in, is doing far better than we are in regard to social cohesion.
Yep. My current Gf had a plan. Establish her career then build family and have kids. Her career took longer than expected. She became very successful in her career. She needed a life or death surgery that took away her ability to have kids. She now says she’d give it all up to be a mum.
@@bourbonslurpee Sorry to hear that. Most men know that they can’t have it all in life when they are young adults, but have to make priorities and sacrifices in life. Most women find out that you can’t have it all when they are middle aged.
This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 5 year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here.
The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.
I started to realize the lies shortly after i graduated college with a liberal arts degree in 1990 and was only qualified to be a receptionist. Then i realized what i really wanted to do was be married and have kids. But i was told to play hard to get. Bad idea. Was so lucky to let go of the feminist BS and settle down and be a stay at home wife and mom. Can’t imagine my life if i hadn’t.
My dipshit EX Fiance, when I told her that I didn't like her wearing excessive make-up said: "Men who don't like their woman wearing make-up are just insecure about other men finding her attractive because of it." That's ONE reason, among a few others, as to why she's my EX Fiance! (She didn't like camping, even cozy camping, either.) Fuck her! :)
The logic is they got thought men and women are equal. Equal in their mind is "same". Therefore if genders are same then men must feel / act / think the same way , therefore comes the ridiculous notion of being intimidated. Never ever heard about a men being intimidated by a woman. Disgusted / repulsed / stunned sure...
@@badam2235 Oh there are definitely men (and I use the term loosely) who are cowed by boss babes but they aren't the alpha that today's strong independent woman believes she deserves. The mousey men are generally invisible until she has to settle or she decides she likes having a little minion.
@@badam2235 No real person, in the real world, believes that men and women are the same. (Only sheltered, mostly female, public school teachers, as well as female higher education academics, and emasculated male public school teachers and higher education professors, accept such nonsense!)
Whilst also slashing salaries in half. There's your inflation. Real wage growth stopped in the seventies when women entered the workforce en masse thanks to feminism. Congratulations gals, now you're wage slaves too and still can't afford anything. How's your feminism working out for you?
Nah. Go work hard and get a degree because it's hard to rely on anyone. It's worse to believe a guy at his word to helpless when living with him without an income. If I am selfish... I will be selfish on my own dime and not on my relationship. Also it benefits my relationship if I am paying into the mortgage and financially reliable. I experienced the worst part of depending on a guy. I was a loser working at Walmart and living with my mom and clueless on the bills involved in living solo. He adored me and gave me anything when mentioning it like a book or planning a ski trip when dating. In marriage... dates are a selfish waste of money. I stopped having friends, seeing family, and I gave him my pay in full because I was to obey him without argument. He had quit his job into our 3rd year married and he never helped with chores so it was all on me to work and more work at home. Luckily he dumped me after 8 years and 3 kids for someone who adored him when I only tolerated him. I followed with divorce when he changed his mind. I went back to my moms with clear goals to have my own phone, car, mortgage, family vacations, concerts, investments...etc. it's easier because I don't have to stress out about being a stupid, selfish idiot. I am finally able to make my own choices of what I want. I succeeded in having everything I set out to do within 5 years 😁. My kids are the greatest people ever. It's awful that I treated them as a burden when married but I was overwhelmed without escape. Now I have a comfortable safe home for all of us.
I know your comment is in jest but - My ex-wife had our son at that age (45). He turned out autistic and low - functioning. Well we love him anyway and he is grown now, 21 years old. Luckily I'm already retired and spend several hours a day as his caregiver / attendant because he aged out of his special school last month. We will find a group day program for him soon because he needs somewhere to go for like 5 hours a day.
My shi* started right after we kissed in front of the Priest at the wedding! After the kiss, she leans over and whispers in my eat in a really angry voice "NOW YOU ARE FINALLY MINE!" I knew I was f'ed at that point and after 13 years of marriage, she filed for divorce. The last 7 years were pure hell. She was always angry and nothing would ever make her happy.
My ex was always angry at everybody and everything. As she got older, she became more unstable. Finally, I had to divorce her but the last ten years felt like hell. I kept the house and, boy, the neighbors were really happy that she left.
Been there, I realized I was making a mistake that same wedding night. Packed all her stuff wrap them in a blanket and sent her back home to her mothers
"It's easier to fool someone than to convince them that they have been fooled" and "It is difficult to free fools from the chains they revere". Feminism explained in a nutshell.
I have experience with this where you are. I also have experience in the northern part of the lower Michigan... the females around there as a whole were referred to as 'snow pigs'. These chicks also thought they were 8-10s. Denial isn't just a river in Egypt.
When exasperated men say, "I just don't know what women want." I tell them: "I can tell you exactly what women want." "What?" The man will say. And I say: "They want everything. Everything you are and everything you've got - they want." 😁
Being reliable, kind/ safe, and enjoyable. Also the sevens rule helps A LOT to maintain bonds. Every 7 days do something small together like a grocery trip or eating out. Every 7 weeks so something fun together for 2+ hours like bowling, dancing, skating, hiking, comedy show...etc. Every 7 months have an overnight trip like camping or a vacation to a town/ city both are interested in visiting. Any normal woman would know that sort of man is never worth the risk of losing.
I was a single father. She traded her family for scumbags.Never got a dime of help. Never cried all over. Never had a "support group". Women are big babies. Boy oh boy do I have the best wife now though. Nothing better than to have a wonderful wife
I’ve worked in healthcare for over 20 years. This is on point. A common thing I’ve personally dealt with and commonly hear it from young nurses up to around 40 is they are mean to their boyfriends and husbands. They openly talk about how much they hate it when their spouse tries to touch them. They constantly bash their husbands and bf’s to each other. Very rarely do I ever hear anything good. They feed off each other on these topics and program themselves to hate to be intimate with their spouses and not respect them at all. Then they start flirting with new residents. It’s a tough world out there guys. Protect yourself with legal documents. If she refuses, let her go.
Entertainment and culture has encouraged this as well as promiscuity since at least 1980. Now it's 24 -7!!! Demeaning and belittling men has been going on a very long time... The consequences have not only fallen on modern women but on traditional women and good men as well. A tragic Socially Engineered Nightmare for society as a whole....
Imagine a bunch of men sitting around telling each other on tic toc "you can have it all" and encouraging each other to make idiotic emotionally charged irrational decisions in pursuit of said fantasy and then blaming everything and everyone but themselves when it doesn't work out. Wow, This would make a great pilot show for some sitcom I think
My daughter has this absolutely beautiful friend she graduated college with. While my daughter is headed to a career and hopefully find a successful man in his mid twenties, the beautiful friend is going to spend the next four years on another degree for job that pays less than what my daughter is currently making. The friend had a boyfriend. She dumped him before going to the next school. She owns a cat. The first of many, I wager.
She needs to 'find herself' during college years. That includes finding as many sausages she can land on just before finding Mr Handsome Rich Kid, Trust Fund, 6'5, Blue Eyes and thinking if he even exists he'd surely settle for her.
@@brianmcdonald7017 They very well could end up in the same place. My daughter has a four year head start on finding a man over her friend. Women only have until 40 under perfect circumstances to set themselves up for success.
40?! At age 25, the risk of a Downs Syndrome child is 1 in 1250. At age 40, it is 1 in 100. And that is far from being the only problem associated with geriatric pregnancies.
Women that rejected me back in the day have been messaging me on Facebook trying to hook up, and man they look BAD now. I feel like Neo dodging bullets..
THey don't want decent. They don't even SEE decent men. They're hunting for renaissance men; the one in a million guys. Only they're competing with 50 million other women, and they actually believe that they will get him. Then when they don't, they blame men. They never consider their own, rotten personality; they just keep trying to change the way they look. No matter how good you look, if you're a rotten person, people won't want you.
When they meet a great guy outside their pre-determined life schedule, they actually get kind of mad at him for showing up too early. Then they try to befriend him, roster him, sabotage his other romantic pursuits...This is why you always say no when she says "let's just be friends".
A woman kinda did that to me last year. Agreed to go out with me but then screwed me out of that date when she learned my age. Like it's my fault I look too handsome for my age. Like it's my fault she wasn't born yet when I was her age. 😎
A Woman was out golfing one day when she hit the ball into the woods. She went into the woods to look for it and found a frog in a trap. The frog said to her, 'If you release me from this trap, I will grant you three wishes.' The woman freed the frog, and the frog said, 'Thank you, but I failed to mention that there was a condition to your wishes. Whatever you wish for, your husband will get times ten!' The woman said, 'That's okay.' For her first wish, she wanted to be the most beautiful woman in the world. The frog warned her, 'You do realize that this wish will also make your husband the most handsome man in the world, an Adonis whom women will flock to'. The woman replied, 'That's okay, because I will be the most beautiful Woman and he will have eyes only for me.' So, KAZAM-she's the most beautiful Woman in the world! For her second wish, she wanted to be the richest woman in the world. The frog said, 'That will make your husband the richest man in the world. And he will be ten times richer than you.' The woman said, 'That's okay, because what's mine is his and what's his is mine.' So, KAZAM-she's the richest woman in the world! The frog then inquired about her third wish, and she answered, 'I'd like a mild heart attack.'
Your point about feminism telling women never to do anything to make a man happy, but going to be a slave to serve the board of directors in a corporation is perfectly fine and encouraged is so true.
Two of women's great weaknesses are that most are easily manipulated by using their emotions, and their emotions don't consider the long term consequences of their actions.
Theres zero excuse for a woman to husbandless and childless at 35. All a woman has to do is not sleep around, look decent, be loyal, and not be combative. The more in line a woman is to those things the higher her value....the higher her chances of snagging a high value man. But too many women sleep around devaluing their worth. Its sad.
I think there was a time when women were as you describe but it was long long ago, probably before the 60’s removed all the shackles and personal morality became whatever the individual deemed it to be. Women now have too many choices.
I hired a recent FEMALE graduate of UCLA Medical School to work at one of the County medical clinics I managed. She worked for a few years, got pregnant and retired from medical practice after less than 5 years on graduation!! She has a huge student loan debt and had no way of paying it back because she has no income!!!!’
All planned, but she'll spend years reminding everyone, especially her husband of the "amazing career she gave up" for a family 😂😂😂 they have no intention of slogging it out for 40 years in work
She only went to medic school to land a handsome high-paid future doctor, surgeon etc. This happens all the time and no one talks about it because females can do no wrong.
I'll correct Rich in one stat that he used. "women are in their fertile peak around 22 or 23". Simply NOT true! This might very well be the age most men pick women....sure.....but it is NOT their peak fertility. I'm a biology teacher and I can promise you that the most fertile, most viable, (healthiest) eggs a female will ever produce in her lifetime are the eggs she produces for the first 5 to 6 years following her initial period (menstruation cycle). By the time a woman hits her mid 20's, her eggs are already well on the decline (at least compared to her teenage eggs). That's just a simple fact!
It’s not just @ “having” babies = it’s @ raising them as well. Motherhood is HARD She NEEDS youthful hormones to foster the environment which is best for children to thrive.
Nobody talks about how hard it is to keep women happy though. You can be a fit guy, successful provider, great father and they’ll still find reasons to complain about you. It’s ironic that they expect a man to be a super provider, a mechanic, a carpenter, etc but oftentimes they’ll have zero skills or hobbies to bring to the table.
True. Cause women are selfish creatures. That’s why never wanna feel accountable for anything. They better make comfortable shame men explanations to feel better about themselves. Example: if he didn’t pick me, it’s he’s loss, not mine!
women also believe that 1) they are the prize not the man 2) they are free to critizise and judge and put him down often multiple times a day but he is not in any way allowed to judge her 3) he is living in her world not the other way around. its awful
From an 1881 novel by French writer Paul Bourget: "Contrary to the aphorism of the moralist, it is not an uncommon thing for a woman to have one lover in her life. It *is* a very uncommon thing if she has had two lovers for her not to have had many more." "These mysterious walls were the theater of a very commonplace drama, which is played every night in hundreds of marriage beds in which wives, having a love hidden away in their hearts, submit from a sense of duty to husbands whom they often hate with mortal hatred. Generally the interest that drives them to this surrender is so strong in them that it drowns their hate, disgust and even sadness. It is a question of making the husband accept the paternity of another man's child, of soothing his jealous suspicions or simply settling a very heavy dressmaker's bill."
Ngl bro I’m probably not your typical viewer - every video makes me grateful for the wife and family I have, that said, it’s very useful to see the nonsense women are taught these days and what I need to do to be the best father to my daughter Thanks for all the videos man
Gona take a guess: 1)past doesn’t matter 2) you should have children in your 30s or 40s 3)men want a strong woman 4)men want an independent woman 5)men prefer their women to come to them with sexual experience 6)you deserve xyz 7)men are intimidated by you(you’re too good) 8)you look great 9)you don’t look fat 10)I didn’t fart
Raising children is a young adults game. Barely having 2 nickels to rub together doesn't matter as long as you are getting by. If the kids are fed, clothed, have a home and are loved that's all they need. From the parents point of view; you can't realistically think you're going to set up your life style with all the best things then introduce a toddler. Spilled drinks, spit up, etc., sleepless nights, sick kids its a lot of work. Have your kids when you are young and have nothing but the necessities that way when you are in your late forties you are free to travel, buy nice things and live the good life with your kids out the door.
My kids will be 22 and 19 when I turn 50 and I hope to spend at least a month away in the winter while they study and watch my house….. I know ppl at 40 with newborns and can’t imagine having an elementary school child at 50 😫
That’s great advice, IF you meet the right gal early in life. I was a bachelor until I was 37. Had three kids between the age of 40-47. Great kids, but it’s tough doing certain “dad stuff” at my age. Now, the oldest just graduated college. The two younger ones are in 12th and 10th grade. I’m counting the days until the youngest goes off to college and I can downsize the house and start traveling. But on tough days, I look back at my single days and smile. I had plenty of money, a great job that took me around the World about nine times. Been on five continents and made love to women on four of those continents!🙀
And older than 35 is called "high risk", well my wife was and had our daughter at 42 and she's fine, both of them are good. I shouldn't have impregnanted her again but i'm 7 years younger than her and had a lot of testosterone! She had our son at about 46 and he is autistic and lower functioning. Well that will pretty much mess up your family life because he is special needs and a lot goes with that. And it has a way of dividing a guy from his wife, our boy could not speak, and was very messy you can't really potty train him it takes many more years to get him out of diapers. He's 21 now and somewhat better, I recently retired and have become his caregiver. Also I divorced his mom only 3 years ago but we were separated off and on for at least 10 years. Guys, don't play with fire.
@@metalmike570 she had a healthy baby at 42. At 46, you were 39. Higher risk of autism is associated with the man's sperm after 35. So it doesn't sound like she was the issue.
@@rf-uj5sc And plus having a male baby, 3 out of 4 autistic are males / boys. I didn't think it was me but it's shocking to think it. I didn't blame her but my first reaction when she said she was pregnant was I don't think we should go forward.
@@rf-uj5sc I heard that from a two best medical experts ,and have a example that my neighborough has a retrd girl ,his ex wife was 23 when she was gave birth and he was 40.After divorce she remarried and have a healzhx 2 other children
The silliness of his argument is that guys want kids in their 20s or 30s a lot of men don't want kids early because they cost so much money and take so much time.
1) It isn't just can you have a kid in your 40s, we did. But why would you want to. When I was a kid, I loved carrying the younger kids on my shoulders. When I had my first kid 25 years ago, I was 39, and I had already been in one bad accident so I could barely walk. When the second kid came along, I had a heart attack when she was 10. Look up the figures on the average onset of all those aging diseases, and their prevalence. You will have major responsibilities, when you are retiring, or dying. Like paying for university. And what about grandkids. I think it was a major disadvantage in my life that both of my grandparents died long before I was born. 2) Rate your performance at school, athletics, etc... We all read stories about teenagers who invent a new battery, or get 100% in all their courses, or go to the Olympics. Those are the kinds of people who can have it all, to some greater extent. If you are/were a C student, and drifting a little, your chance of having it all is pretty near zero. You can have a great life, but not if you drink the off color KoolAid. If you have time to comment in the comment section, or read it, your chance of having it all is zero.
Not to mention the timeline on making marriage and children a reality once you decide you're ready. A lot of these women are in their mid to late 30s talking about being ready for marriage and children. But you still have to find a man, date him for a while, decide to get married, get married....most people don't try to have a kid the instant they get married. You're going to be in your 40s by the time you're ready to have kids.
@@michaelsantangelo7997 this is the whole ideal of "Leftover Women" a woman should be married ideally bwtween 20-23. The closer to 20 to better.......25 at the very latest,but even 25 is questionable. At 27-28 she is basically leftovers but might still have a little hope. At 30 she is expired............35+ thats just a joke. Cat Lady or Dog Mom
The one that really gets me is the "It's not you, It's him" lie. How is it possible to convince yourself that you are flawless simply because you're female? Regardless of all the media and social reinforcement of such an idea you're common sense should tell you otherwise.
When they’re a 50 single mom of 3 that can’t get past a year with a guy but they still think that some guy will come along that matches 100% of their unrealistic expectations…. That couldn’t happen or could it. Hmm
I know the type. They expect men to figure them out and chase them down and solve all their problems and bend a knee. They get really frustrated and begin cruelty lashing out about all men when it’s not happening
The kids grow up and then she gets a cat or a second one. If a child / young adult moves out then she just gets another cat. And the cycle continues...
Although many women do give birth to healthy babies well into their mid to late 30's...we had our seventh child two weeks before my 40th birthday...and she is perfectly healthy!
Ironically, my wife won me over because she wasn't a challenge. Women did this weird off and on fickle communications until my wife came along and she was certain as soon as we met.
So very true. All of it. Ladies, for all you egg freezers, I suggest you review the stats on how few are actually viable. Its a lie. Yes, someone wins the lottery every month but odds are, its not going to be you. Its about the same with frozen eggs. Women, to be wanted, you have to deserve it. That doesn't mean playing a character to land the man, it means BECOMING the character. If you don't or can't understand the difference, you are the problem. Men can be happy alone or with other men. Women just have cats...and cat litter stinks with loneliness and despair.
They think because they can make their fake faces appropriating that of a 16yr old and can get fake b00bs they are therefore "young". They also are able to lie to themselves but mother nature does not lie.
This is a problem that started after WWII (actually before it - see Edward Bernays for more on the subject) when it became a matter of 'sell production at all costs' to keep business production growing and moving. The entertainment industry increasingly pushed the sexes apart. All girls were to be looked at as 'princesses' by Disney programming and concepts like Barbie pushed the 'gotta have everything' mentality by Barbie driving a Corvette, having a Malibu beach house, a tan, blond eunuch for a boyfriend named Ken, etc. Additionally, pressure was put on men with the comics superheroes all being impossibly-built, natural musclemen. For decades we have been brainwashed to mistake fantasy for reality and now we are suffering the consequences all round. It had to happen at some point. As I said above, look up Edward Bernays (Sigmund Freud's nephew) and understand the s**tstorm he started with his new marketing techniques starting in the '30s with the 'You've come a long way, baby!' sales strategy targeting women for increased cigarette sales.
OMG, Rich, when you got to the Frozen Peas part of #10, I almost blew a mouthful of protein shake all over the counter. You are too funny. You are also a beacon of wisdom for men, and women too, if they will listen. Thank you. --Old Guy
Women are born at the top of the mountain and men are born in the valley. He is judged by how high he climbs (achieves) and she is judged by how far she falls.
Actually, the real age that men prefer is closer to 18, and the reason the data says around 22 is because surveys only ask what age men prefer from women aged 18 and up (adult aged)... but I guarantee you if there was no age restriction a VERY high percentage of men would choose women in the 16-17 age range, not saying this is right or wrong, it's just WHAT IS. This has nothing to do with age, it has to do with fertility.
Keep in mind in America for the first 250 years, it was normal for them to get married at 14 years of age and have kids. 18 years later, they can start their lives over again as a happy couple at age 32.
@@davidgold5961 I think the Amish still get married in their teens...I used to think they were strange people, but I guarantee they have a better overall life happiness than the average American when it's all said and done, especially compared to the sh$tshow we have today
Women are goofy. Young women are goofier! You need a woman who is a good lover. Bad idea to marry some 17-20 year old gal who may or may not know anything about pleasing a man or cares to learn. You also can’t go around “busting” a bunch of young girls until you find a good lover!
Don’t flatter yourselves too much. Many women might feel that a man is in his physical prime from the age of 18-25 as well. That doesn’t mean that people can’t fall in love at different ages. Also, there have been some studies that certain diseases in children have to do with the sperm quality of the man as well. Be careful how you talk about people. God made us all in his image. We should fall in love with the heart and character of the person. Of course, we should be attracted to the person as well, but no one stays 18 forever. And many people fall in love with the character and the personality of the person as well. Plus, there are some women out there now who can have children in their 50s! 🙏
One of the biggest lies and I blame man for this is: "You're too beautiful too... fill in the blank." Or "A woman like you, shouldn't... fill in the blank."
Great video. I will probably show this video to a female friend. I think she needs this info. She can benefit from this. Keep up the good work Rich. Much appreciated. You have changed many lives.
I don’t really have anything new to add BUT I would emphasize this point. Me and My wife did have a child in our 40s. (Oops Baby) We are both very healthy and fit. We have 2 healthy kids (Almost grown at the time then). All the parts work, all healthy, all the healthcare, no financial stress, solid long term marriage etc etc. Wife had good pregnancy. After delivering our youngest son she had some very serious complications. It did turn out okay in the end but it was life threatening and very scary. Take that what you will. Secondly, My wife is professionally educated (CPA) and well spoken. She doesn’t regret not having a career. She enters and leaves the workforce as she wishes. Family is much more valuable to her. I am halfway to my 2nd pension and she is content on me working. I wouldn’t discourage women’s higher education but don’t in your happiness on your career. There maybe small exceptions to this rule but Men and Women vary greatly here. I am prideful of my profession. Wife puts very little stock in anything she has done professionally and personally she has done quite well when she enters the workforce.
A lot of issues in my first marriage, but a signature turning point was when she told me I wasn't really family because I wasn't "blood". I was all in, putting her first above all others including my mother, and then I find out she doesn't consider her husband to be her family.
Hey Mr.Cooper. speaking of eggs freezing. Each year passes the probability drops by 15 %. So even with freezing they don't come along. Salam from the country of Sultan Ismail (the bloodthirsty) :)
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Fun Fact: 99% of men are NOT and never have been promiscuous.
Great Video Rich, as always. But allow me to correct you in one stat that you used. "women are in their fertile peak around 22 or 23". Simply NOT true! This might very well be the age most men pick women....sure.....but it is NOT their peak fertility.
I'm a biology teacher and I can promise you that the most fertile, most viable, (healthiest) eggs a female will ever produce in her lifetime are the eggs she produces for the first 5 to 6 years following her initial period (menstruation cycle). By the time a woman hits her mid 20's, her eggs are already well on the decline (at least compared to her teenage eggs). That's just a simple fact!
Great summary. Now I challange you to make video on greed and how much influence the whole society.
You are great thinker and talker so you should easily deal with the subject.
What’s the song at the end ?
Point 2 is not entirely correct. If go back far enough to the times of regular food scarcity more chubby women and men were the beauty standard, you can still see it in the paintings of Rubens for instance. Because in those times being chubby was seen as a sign of being wealthy and/or succesfull. Today however with plenty food available, having a slim figure is seen as a sign of self discipline whereas a chubby figure is seen as a sign of either a lack of self discipline or a sign of making poor nourishing choices (or both).
If we get to a time of food scarcity again, this may revert to the old beauty standard.
10 LIES WOMEN ARE TOLD:
1. You can have it all.
2. You are beautiful at any size / weight.
3. You can do anything you want and be as promiscuous as you want.
4. "Mr. Right" is out there and if you wait long enough he will eventually show up.
5. It's okay to be a challenge / disagreeable / a real "Boss Babe" to your man.
6. You will peak in your 30's or even your 40's.
7. If a guy rejects you it's because of him, not you. Just get a new guy.
8. Your career should be your priority.
9. You can "manifest" success, happiness, or anything else you want if you just "believe" enough.
10. You can have kids at any age.
Thanks Rich!! 🤜🤛
That's why most women nowadays are just a bad joke
Men peak roughly 45-55 at the height of their success/money.
@@thehammer9599 some few men*
"Most people are as happy as they make up their mind to be"- Abraham Lincoln. 0:18
Thank you!
I have NEVER seen a single father make a video crying about how hard it is to be a single father.
Your right , I’m a single father who raised his daughter and I never pissed n moaned, just got on with it.
It's true, never thought about it before
@@StuartKarlson-qn8pjYou’re
This exactly. Says it all, doesn't it? And when that would happen, women would scorn him! The first they'd do is bitch about all those single mothers who 'have it much harder than him' or some bs. They'd also guilt-shame him, saying something like 'you should have pleased your woman more, she'd still be with you!' or claptrap like that. Funny how the same women would never say that to a single mother.
In fairness, there aren't a ton of truly single fathers. Most single Dad's still split custody with the mother. There are a lot more truly single moms who have no help from the father
The worst women really belive they deserve the best men.
And the worst advice they will get will be from other wомеn …
It's completely overused but I'm gonna say it: It's pure narcissm.
they land whales make me laugh.
Narcissist women are delusional. Many have this princess entitlement that they deserve everything and do not have to give anything back. Enter at your own risk.
Nobody cares what they think. Dude. Focus on your life. Screw them.
Grandma said it best - "Son keep them as your gf and she'll always give you her best A+ effort b/c she's lying to get the 💍. When she's married you will receive the real her the revenge her for all the faking she had to do before."
Absolute facts. A woman's scorn for you when you give in to her (marry her) is absolutely palpable.
Wrong........dont even make her your girlfriend. DO NOT EVER COMMIT TO HER.
Damn!!! 😳
Grandma! 😂
My own grandma was always slick, she warned me and I did get married only to lose half of my assets. What a wasted time. Never again.
Ive never understood how women who do not believe any tenet of religion want a full church wedding.
Because they actually do believe
They just want the beautiful picture photoshoot...
The illusion of social status is attractive. The church is a social gathering place, not a holy place for practicing faith. For many.
@@brianmcdonald7017in themselves or their gfs BS...
This is really a mystery to you?
2. There is no unattractive women.
In Russia we have a saying: "There is no unattractive women only not enough vodka".
And as consumption of alcohol in Russia is decreasing so is a birthrate. So maybe there is some truth in this...
Breeding while alcoholic is bad for genome.
You Russians are getting better and better the lowest birth rate gets. Quality over quantity. Greetings from Romania! 🇷🇺💯Stay strong! Victory will be yours! We love you, people! ❤
@@The_Unplugged_SoulBe better, not more! Make America greater than ever, get along with our Russian brothers and sisters! F____ the System!
@@vladcraioveanu233 thank you, brother!
That's hilarious.
Да ладно, славянки все красивые в основном. Вот мужики много пьют и гуляют это влияет на тестостерон и рождаемость.
1. Have it all.
Confucius: If you try to chase two rabbits you end up with none.
"Karate as a way to gentleness"- C.W. Nicol uses this expression in his book as he was studying both karate and judo in Japan at the same time! He was advised to pick!
@@williamweb9782 Bruce Lee chose to employ both, and more, including Western as well as Chinese boxing. Lee: the father of Multiple Martial Arts.
@@samr.england613
Yeah I have heard of him. He was an interesting and innovative martial artist. He unfortunately died at 33 years old.
@@williamweb9782 You're being sarcastic, right? Lee is well-known, and the founder of now wildly popular Multiple Martial Arts.
@@samr.england613you lack nuance.
His root was tai chi with his dad. Much later he spent 3+ years with Ip Man.
Then he started branching out.
You need a solid root, one thing at a time.
Bruce was the Elon Musk of mixed martial arts.
I’ve read his books, I spent over ten years with his Hong Kong classmate moved to San Francisco Chris Chan.
So I have personal stories about Bruce from in school private experiences.
One must focus and make the behavior unconsciously competent at bare minimum.
The height of skill is unconscious and consciously competent.
Bruce would not move on till he achieved this at combat level competence.
So Confucius is correct.
Women used to play hard to get, but now they are hard to want.
good one, I can see this becoming a regular quote on video comments 😆🤣
My marriage failed. It was a combination of problems that all happened at once. But my wife got in with a group of man-hating feminists. That was the last straw.
Is she a lesbian now?😂
No wonder. That is definitely fatal.
Women all want the top1% men therefore it is their primal instinct to convince their competition of things which will make sure the competition is disqualified by those top guys. Women know each other and hate each other , but manipulation is their weapon. That is why men with experience know not even believe what a woman ask.
@@StabilisingGlobalTemperature FEMINISM US GROWING IN epidemic PROPORTIONS! 90% of family court judges are FEMALE AND FEMINAZI !!!! I know I was subjected to their injustice. They use their feelings to preside!! Not facts!!
A Mate of mine had that happen to him, he called them the 'Body Snatchers'...😍
When you influence what women think, you determine where society goes.
Absolutely. If you want to know the "current thing" of a society in a given time, ask a women of that society
Women control access to all sexual activity. Women have a legal superiority in any marriage.
Women also, by law, control all reproduction. Even if you're married, you will have children only if your wife wants them.
You may have One child, OR as many as she wants. Western Civilization is being demographically eviscerated, at the
discretion of women. They have been handed the keys to the kingdom. The Feminist Agenda is their strongest influence.
Media and pop-culture can be used to destroy a viable civilization in this way. Women are key.
Men walk away when it gets too crazy
Influencing the weaker sex into evil has been a thing since day 1 in the garden of Eden.
It's not that society lies to women.
It's that they would rather believe a soothing lie instead of an uncomfortable truth.
well with the women they want to hear the lie then to face the truth.
same thing
Exactly. Saying "society lies to them" is once again not holding them responsible for THEIR CHOICES.
What’s that song with the lyrics: 🎶 Tell me lies, tell me sweet little lies … 🎶 ?
@@penguinvic9892Little Lies by Fleetwood Mac. Classic.
Modern women prefer to listen to their boss ( who doesn't love them) instead of her husband.
Obviously.......modern Ameriacan women wqnt to be bossed around,dominated.....not loved.
Fax 📠
Modern women prefer to listen to their boss, then work their way up until they ARE the boss. Or to work for themselves and be their OWN boss.
And they prefer to find love with a husband who is NOT their boss.
If they must work for one boss or another, they would rather work for a boss they don’t have to LIVE WITH 24/7!
@@terry9238 the boss is a substitute for a child, that´s why businessmen invented feminism
Profound!
Women have been lied to about being qualified to work for the secret service.
That is definitely s matter of perspective.
Women can work for SS just fine. On some jobs they will be significantly better than on other jobs.
Protecting some old guy with your body is an example of the latter.
police, firefighter, emt driver, military, army, etc
@@sneezyfidoWomen are good forblowjobs for the male boss în the team😂
😂
@@mickeymichaels1298 Yeah can do all kinds of jobs and blou jobs 😁
Radical feminism has made women bitter, lonely and depressed.
THey're not lonely! They have plenty of cats!
@@d.e.b.b5788 Exactly, exactly, exactly what I was thinking.
and dangerous cat ladies 🤣
Absolutely. Never ceases to amaze me, even with very intelligent women I have known in my life, stating that their style of comfort, technology, law and order, buildings, science, medicine, education and so much more that both us men and women now take for granted is 'due' to about 7000 years of progress where there was no such thing as feminism.
I accept population growth is a factor of worldwide decline, but we no longer have the 'traditional' roles that men and women once kept to. Too much to state here but two very obvious examples that I witnessed so well when working as a teacher and as an IT Trainer travelling to many companies around Europe.
Without any doubt, I can say that disruptive, troublemakers and violent young teenage boys 'always' came from a family with no father. I did very well with my classroom control, primarily due to being in the military, industry and applying at times very strict but caring discipline. Quite a few times, after effective battles with young lads, was told they wished they had a father like me.
The other example was witnessing more and more women taking managerial jobs and being very bias against men as oppose women who they managed. Towards my time when retiring, I notice a far more resentfulness and unhappiness with the men would be teaching and observing in meetings.
Natural order - I wonder if it will ever come back again because the wester world, unlike the Asian world that I have also lived and worked in, is doing far better than we are in regard to social cohesion.
Rich Cooper: The common denominator is you.
Taylor Swift: Let's make a new song, blaming every guy who I dated, but not me.
”You can have it all” is the biggest lie.
Yep. My current Gf had a plan. Establish her career then build family and have kids. Her career took longer than expected. She became very successful in her career. She needed a life or death surgery that took away her ability to have kids. She now says she’d give it all up to be a mum.
@@bourbonslurpee a person values the thing only when they can never have it again
@@bourbonslurpee
Sorry to hear that. Most men know that they can’t have it all in life when they are young adults, but have to make priorities and sacrifices in life. Most women find out that you can’t have it all when they are middle aged.
They're called trade-offs.
a.k.a 'avarice'.
"The manipulated man" and "The polygamous sex" by Esther Vilar. These books are priceless.
"The Rules" by Ellen Fein is another gem.
When I read manipulated man, I thought it was a joke. It cut right to the bone.
Thanks
The Black Phillip Show
"carefully dispensed praise and sex"...
This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 5 year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here.
The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.
Incredible! Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with her?
Suzanne Ann Walters is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for her ability to reunite you with your former partner.
I just looked her up now online thank you.
@@DianaJovita conartist.
I started to realize the lies shortly after i graduated college with a liberal arts degree in 1990 and was only qualified to be a receptionist.
Then i realized what i really wanted to do was be married and have kids. But i was told to play hard to get. Bad idea. Was so lucky to let go of the feminist BS and settle down and be a stay at home wife and mom. Can’t imagine my life if i hadn’t.
A hilarious point about women defending Lizzo and body positivity is if you tell them they look like Lizzo, they get triggered.
I fucking love this.
"I think Lizzo's hot! That's why I married you!"
"REEEEEEEE!"
True!
@@harrymills2770😂😂😂
Food for thought. 😮 ooh bad choice of words 😂
They’ll believe any lie as long as it contradicts the way their husband, boyfriend, or dad feels/believes.
Correct
Bingo. Debate brain.
My favorite lie is, "Men are intimidated by strong successful women." LOL Sure we are.
A nauseating notion. We just don’t want to be anywhere near them.
My dipshit EX Fiance, when I told her that I didn't like her wearing excessive make-up said: "Men who don't like their woman wearing make-up are just insecure about other men finding her attractive because of it." That's ONE reason, among a few others, as to why she's my EX Fiance! (She didn't like camping, even cozy camping, either.) Fuck her! :)
The logic is they got thought men and women are equal. Equal in their mind is "same". Therefore if genders are same then men must feel / act / think the same way , therefore comes the ridiculous notion of being intimidated. Never ever heard about a men being intimidated by a woman. Disgusted / repulsed / stunned sure...
@@badam2235 Oh there are definitely men (and I use the term loosely) who are cowed by boss babes but they aren't the alpha that today's strong independent woman believes she deserves. The mousey men are generally invisible until she has to settle or she decides she likes having a little minion.
@@badam2235 No real person, in the real world, believes that men and women are the same. (Only sheltered, mostly female, public school teachers, as well as female higher education academics, and emasculated male public school teachers and higher education professors, accept such nonsense!)
Yup our benevolent government wanted woman in the workforce, more people paying taxes.
I’ve always believed this and you’re the only other person I’ve seen say it!!!
And now there's a new normal where prices have skyrocketed and it is mandatory to have 2 incomes to support one household
Whilst also slashing salaries in half. There's your inflation. Real wage growth stopped in the seventies when women entered the workforce en masse thanks to feminism. Congratulations gals, now you're wage slaves too and still can't afford anything. How's your feminism working out for you?
@@Gumshoe88 Thanks, I looked this up and this movement started in 1890s.
@@ShinkuGouki Yup all planned out
Put your career first. Have kids at 45. The perfect guy is just sitting there waiting for you!
the problem is women just went on believing the lie without even thinking what consequences it gonna bring in future.
Slay it queens!
Nah. Go work hard and get a degree because it's hard to rely on anyone. It's worse to believe a guy at his word to helpless when living with him without an income. If I am selfish... I will be selfish on my own dime and not on my relationship. Also it benefits my relationship if I am paying into the mortgage and financially reliable.
I experienced the worst part of depending on a guy. I was a loser working at Walmart and living with my mom and clueless on the bills involved in living solo. He adored me and gave me anything when mentioning it like a book or planning a ski trip when dating. In marriage... dates are a selfish waste of money.
I stopped having friends, seeing family, and I gave him my pay in full because I was to obey him without argument. He had quit his job into our 3rd year married and he never helped with chores so it was all on me to work and more work at home.
Luckily he dumped me after 8 years and 3 kids for someone who adored him when I only tolerated him. I followed with divorce when he changed his mind.
I went back to my moms with clear goals to have my own phone, car, mortgage, family vacations, concerts, investments...etc. it's easier because I don't have to stress out about being a stupid, selfish idiot. I am finally able to make my own choices of what I want. I succeeded in having everything I set out to do within 5 years 😁. My kids are the greatest people ever. It's awful that I treated them as a burden when married but I was overwhelmed without escape. Now I have a comfortable safe home for all of us.
😂😂
I know your comment is in jest but -
My ex-wife had our son at that age (45). He turned out autistic and low - functioning.
Well we love him anyway and he is grown now, 21 years old. Luckily I'm already
retired and spend several hours a day as his caregiver / attendant because
he aged out of his special school last month. We will find a group day program
for him soon because he needs somewhere to go for like 5 hours a day.
My shi* started right after we kissed in front of the Priest at the wedding! After the kiss, she leans over and whispers in my eat in a really angry voice "NOW YOU ARE FINALLY MINE!" I knew I was f'ed at that point and after 13 years of marriage, she filed for divorce. The last 7 years were pure hell. She was always angry and nothing would ever make her happy.
Pure evil
My ex was always angry at everybody and everything. As she got older, she became more unstable. Finally, I had to divorce her but the last ten years felt like hell. I kept the house and, boy, the neighbors were really happy that she left.
Been there, I realized I was making a mistake that same wedding night. Packed all her stuff wrap them in a blanket and sent her back home to her mothers
…that’s brutal . Hope you come out of it intact ..I’ve been there …it takes time .
Boy that is incredible scary
"It's easier to fool someone than to convince them that they have been fooled" and "It is difficult to free fools from the chains they revere". Feminism explained in a nutshell.
I’m in Maine. The land where most women resemble tree stumps….😕. 6’s and up can and do demand a lot. It’s tough going.
Same in Wyoming...
In the Midwest, the gals are referred to as "corn-fed".
😄😄😄
I have experience with this where you are. I also have experience in the northern part of the lower Michigan... the females around there as a whole were referred to as 'snow pigs'. These chicks also thought they were 8-10s. Denial isn't just a river in Egypt.
I’m there also. Summer brings in the lookers
Does it beat central and western Massachusetts? Stumpy granola fraus in Birkenstocks.
10:00 Accountability for women is like
sloped roofs for the Secret Service.
😂😂😂😂😂
Epic
Accountability for women is like stonewalling a Congress committee that you had to be subpeonad to attend. Oh...
@@EE12CSVT She's already terminated, and almost by a terminator.
The first time you will meet the REAL woman you married will be in divorce court. Ask me how I know…
Don't need to. Found out for myself. Wish I could upvote you more than once.
The absolute truth , i also found out .
If you are a woman with money, it's exactly the same. In those scenarios there really is no gender difference.
@@hilarygibson3150 That situation is so rare hardly anyone knows the outcome.
My dad told me this. Glad I never got married.
When exasperated men say, "I just don't know what women want." I tell them:
"I can tell you exactly what women want."
"What?" The man will say. And I say:
"They want everything. Everything you are and everything you've got - they want." 😁
& once they finally get it, they'll want it from someone/somewhere else...
you forgot to mention even after that they won't be satisfied😁
They want whatever they don’t currently have and don’t want what they currently have
Being reliable, kind/ safe, and enjoyable.
Also the sevens rule helps A LOT to maintain bonds. Every 7 days do something small together like a grocery trip or eating out. Every 7 weeks so something fun together for 2+ hours like bowling, dancing, skating, hiking, comedy show...etc. Every 7 months have an overnight trip like camping or a vacation to a town/ city both are interested in visiting.
Any normal woman would know that sort of man is never worth the risk of losing.
me me me mine, take take take from others. sounds a bit narcissistic, doesnt it?
I was a single father. She traded her family for scumbags.Never got a dime of help. Never cried all over. Never had a "support group". Women are big babies. Boy oh boy do I have the best wife now though. Nothing better than to have a wonderful wife
Number 2 is one that bugs me to no end. Too many obese women have hijacked the term curvy.
and "thick" 😂
curvy used to mean Marylin Munroe now its clinically obese
Lumpy and Blobby is more fitting
Yes that's not what men meant when they said they like curves
@@conceptualclarity Sophia Vergara is what men define as curvy.
I’ve worked in healthcare for over 20 years. This is on point. A common thing I’ve personally dealt with and commonly hear it from young nurses up to around 40 is they are mean to their boyfriends and husbands. They openly talk about how much they hate it when their spouse tries to touch them. They constantly bash their husbands and bf’s to each other. Very rarely do I ever hear anything good. They feed off each other on these topics and program themselves to hate to be intimate with their spouses and not respect them at all. Then they start flirting with new residents. It’s a tough world out there guys. Protect yourself with legal documents. If she refuses, let her go.
Entertainment and culture has encouraged this as well as promiscuity since at least 1980. Now it's 24 -7!!! Demeaning and belittling men has been going on a very long time... The consequences have not only fallen on modern women but on traditional women and good men as well. A tragic Socially Engineered Nightmare for society as a whole....
Imagine a bunch of men sitting around telling each other on tic toc "you can have it all" and encouraging each other to make idiotic emotionally charged irrational decisions in pursuit of said fantasy and then blaming everything and everyone but themselves when it doesn't work out. Wow, This would make a great pilot show for some sitcom I think
My daughter has this absolutely beautiful friend she graduated college with. While my daughter is headed to a career and hopefully find a successful man in his mid twenties, the beautiful friend is going to spend the next four years on another degree for job that pays less than what my daughter is currently making.
The friend had a boyfriend. She dumped him before going to the next school. She owns a cat. The first of many, I wager.
She’ll find a millionaire
She needs to 'find herself' during college years. That includes finding as many sausages she can land on just before finding Mr Handsome Rich Kid, Trust Fund, 6'5, Blue Eyes and thinking if he even exists he'd surely settle for her.
Your daughter and her friend are literally the same.
@@brianmcdonald7017 They very well could end up in the same place. My daughter has a four year head start on finding a man over her friend. Women only have until 40 under perfect circumstances to set themselves up for success.
40?! At age 25, the risk of a Downs Syndrome child is 1 in 1250. At age 40, it is 1 in 100.
And that is far from being the only problem associated with geriatric pregnancies.
if a woman is 35 plus and hasn't found the right guy, you wonder how many decent guys she rejected along the way
Hundreds at bare minimum
Women that rejected me back in the day have been messaging me on Facebook trying to hook up, and man they look BAD now. I feel like Neo dodging bullets..
THey don't want decent. They don't even SEE decent men. They're hunting for renaissance men; the one in a million guys. Only they're competing with 50 million other women, and they actually believe that they will get him. Then when they don't, they blame men. They never consider their own, rotten personality; they just keep trying to change the way they look. No matter how good you look, if you're a rotten person, people won't want you.
Hahaa
And how many “bad boys” did she let “smash” in the last 17 years?😂
Sad to say but they are clearly very easily influenced.
Oh ya
Impressionable
Not good enough. Its THEIR CHOICE.
Most are "dumber'n a bag'a hammers."
Manifesting, tarot cards and astrology. The women's holy trinity to shield them from reality.
Because they're fantasists, like little girls
None of those things are my holy trinity and they never were...Why would you stereotype all women and make this assertion?
@@kentislandred Did he say all women or are you putting words in his mouth?
Doing my best to make sure my daughter doesn't come up like these modern women. 💪🏻
When they meet a great guy outside their pre-determined life schedule, they actually get kind of mad at him for showing up too early. Then they try to befriend him, roster him, sabotage his other romantic pursuits...This is why you always say no when she says "let's just be friends".
'What do you mean you want a relationship with me, mr Perfect? I'm not out of my hoe phase yet!"
A woman kinda did that to me last year. Agreed to go out with me but then screwed me out of that date when she learned my age. Like it's my fault I look too handsome for my age. Like it's my fault she wasn't born yet when I was her age. 😎
Lol, why are you overanalyzing that, she just didn’t want you. If she wanted you, you would know it, stop making excuses about schedule or whatever.
@@Discovering_world-jj1yj Yeah, it sounds like a weird flex.
If you want a friend, buy a dog.
My wife was the CTO of a large medical products company but what makes her most happy is being a grand ma!
Exactly!!!
A Woman was out golfing one day when she hit the ball into the woods.
She went into the woods to look for it and found a frog in a trap.
The frog said to her, 'If you release me from this trap, I will grant you three wishes.'
The woman freed the frog, and the frog said, 'Thank you, but I failed to mention that there was a condition to your wishes.
Whatever you wish for, your husband will get times ten!'
The woman said, 'That's okay.'
For her first wish, she wanted to be the most beautiful woman in the world.
The frog warned her, 'You do realize that this wish will also make your husband the most handsome man in the world, an Adonis whom women will flock to'.
The woman replied, 'That's okay, because I will be the most beautiful Woman and he will have eyes only for me.'
So, KAZAM-she's the most beautiful Woman in the world!
For her second wish, she wanted to be the richest woman in the world.
The frog said, 'That will make your husband the richest man in the world. And he will be ten times richer than you.'
The woman said, 'That's okay, because what's mine is his and what's his is mine.'
So, KAZAM-she's the richest woman in the world!
The frog then inquired about her third wish, and she answered, 'I'd like a mild heart attack.'
Man was THAT cold!!! hahaha
Can't change female nature
Hey that's the plot of Sex and the city!
🤣🤣🤣🤣
OmG!
Your point about feminism telling women never to do anything to make a man happy, but going to be a slave to serve the board of directors in a corporation is perfectly fine and encouraged is so true.
Two of women's great weaknesses are that most are easily manipulated by using their emotions, and their emotions don't consider the long term consequences of their actions.
Theres zero excuse for a woman to husbandless and childless at 35.
All a woman has to do is not sleep around, look decent, be loyal, and not be combative.
The more in line a woman is to those things the higher her value....the higher her chances of snagging a high value man. But too many women sleep around devaluing their worth. Its sad.
But.. that is what they are. It is a great big sham and some men never discover the truth.
I think there was a time when women were as you describe but it was long long ago, probably before the 60’s removed all the shackles and personal morality became whatever the individual deemed it to be. Women now have too many choices.
Only a tiny minority of extremely wealthy and conscientious women can “have it all” and even then it’s incredibly difficult and tiresome.
I hired a recent FEMALE graduate of UCLA Medical School to work at one of the County medical clinics I managed. She worked for a few years, got pregnant and retired from medical practice after less than 5 years on graduation!! She has a huge student loan debt and had no way of paying it back because she has no income!!!!’
What an appalling waste of intellect …
All planned, but she'll spend years reminding everyone, especially her husband of the "amazing career she gave up" for a family 😂😂😂 they have no intention of slogging it out for 40 years in work
She only went to medic school to land a handsome high-paid future doctor, surgeon etc. This happens all the time and no one talks about it because females can do no wrong.
Why do you hire ramen?
She's doing Onlyfans to work from home.
It's other women, not men, telling women these lies.
It's still men's fault
😅
I'll correct Rich in one stat that he used. "women are in their fertile peak around 22 or 23". Simply NOT true! This might very well be the age most men pick women....sure.....but it is NOT their peak fertility.
I'm a biology teacher and I can promise you that the most fertile, most viable, (healthiest) eggs a female will ever produce in her lifetime are the eggs she produces for the first 5 to 6 years following her initial period (menstruation cycle). By the time a woman hits her mid 20's, her eggs are already well on the decline (at least compared to her teenage eggs). That's just a simple fact!
Who wants to have kids that young????
Who cares.
@@emmiee12he didn't prescribe anything, he just stated a biological fact
@@emmiee12 In the past: Almost all women.
In the modern day: Almost no women.
I think he meant their peak social value.
Why are you explaining them this?
1) They won’t listen.
2) The ones that listen will use it for their chameleon games.
3) Refer to No.1
Brutal facts 👊
It’s not just @ “having” babies = it’s @ raising them as well.
Motherhood is HARD
She NEEDS youthful hormones to foster the environment which is best for children to thrive.
Nobody talks about how hard it is to keep women happy though. You can be a fit guy, successful provider, great father and they’ll still find reasons to complain about you. It’s ironic that they expect a man to be a super provider, a mechanic, a carpenter, etc but oftentimes they’ll have zero skills or hobbies to bring to the table.
Honey there is no table if the man is broke
Women will sacrifice their family for their lives
Men will sacrifice their lives for their families
Surprisingly true!
True. Cause women are selfish creatures. That’s why never wanna feel accountable for anything. They better make comfortable shame men explanations to feel better about themselves. Example: if he didn’t pick me, it’s he’s loss, not mine!
women also believe that 1) they are the prize not the man 2) they are free to critizise and judge and put him down often multiple times a day but he is not in any way allowed to judge her 3) he is living in her world not the other way around. its awful
Solipsism
From an 1881 novel by French writer Paul Bourget:
"Contrary to the aphorism of the moralist, it is not an uncommon thing for a woman to have one lover in her life. It *is* a very uncommon thing if she has had two lovers for her not to have had many more."
"These mysterious walls were the theater of a very commonplace drama, which is played every night in hundreds of marriage beds in which wives, having a love hidden away in their hearts, submit from a sense of duty to husbands whom they often hate with mortal hatred. Generally the interest that drives them to this surrender is so strong in them that it drowns their hate, disgust and even sadness. It is a question of making the husband accept the paternity of another man's child, of soothing his jealous suspicions or simply settling a very heavy dressmaker's bill."
"That they will always be desired." They get away with a poor attitude in their 20's, but not when they're older.
We all get lied to. The difference is men know enough to know when something isn't true. Women choose to believe everything if it benefits them.
"Women choose to believe everything if it benefits them."
Wow just only 4 body’s sleeping around she can’t pair bond. Nowadays you really need to know her past or else you’ll screwed!
These things follow a spectrum and probabilities. Humans aren't statistics. Regardless, humans are sensitive and get damaged easily
Wait does he say this in the video? I haven’t watched it all yet
@@Andrew-sj9tr just 4 bro check it out
Ngl bro I’m probably not your typical viewer - every video makes me grateful for the wife and family I have, that said, it’s very useful to see the nonsense women are taught these days and what I need to do to be the best father to my daughter
Thanks for all the videos man
biggest turnoff is a woman with high partner count and has no shame about it
Partner count 😂😂😂
No problem for me : i want a woman that loves sex.
Gona take a guess:
1)past doesn’t matter
2) you should have children in your 30s or 40s
3)men want a strong woman
4)men want an independent woman
5)men prefer their women to come to them with sexual experience
6)you deserve xyz
7)men are intimidated by you(you’re too good)
8)you look great
9)you don’t look fat
10)I didn’t fart
😂😂🙏
Soyciety.
LOL😂
Nope, its women who simply take no responsibility for THEIR CHOICES.
@@johncrow5552 That would be hoeciety.
Raising children is a young adults game. Barely having 2 nickels to rub together doesn't matter as long as you are getting by. If the kids are fed, clothed, have a home and are loved that's all they need. From the parents point of view; you can't realistically think you're going to set up your life style with all the best things then introduce a toddler. Spilled drinks, spit up, etc., sleepless nights, sick kids its a lot of work. Have your kids when you are young and have nothing but the necessities that way when you are in your late forties you are free to travel, buy nice things and live the good life with your kids out the door.
My kids will be 22 and 19 when I turn 50 and I hope to spend at least a month away in the winter while they study and watch my house….. I know ppl at 40 with newborns and can’t imagine having an elementary school child at 50 😫
That’s great advice, IF you meet the right gal early in life.
I was a bachelor until I was 37. Had three kids between the age of 40-47.
Great kids, but it’s tough doing certain “dad stuff” at my age.
Now, the oldest just graduated college. The two younger ones are in 12th and 10th grade.
I’m counting the days until the youngest goes off to college and I can downsize the house and start traveling.
But on tough days, I look back at my single days and smile. I had plenty of money, a great job that took me around the World about nine times. Been on five continents and made love to women on four of those continents!🙀
@@justsmy5677 At least you met the right person… for men, they do have longer to start a family
8:11 Even a woman with child at 35 is considered to have a "geriatric" pregnancy.
And older than 35 is called "high risk", well my wife was and had our daughter at 42
and she's fine, both of them are good.
I shouldn't have impregnanted her again but i'm 7 years younger than
her and had a lot of testosterone! She had our son at about 46 and he is autistic
and lower functioning. Well that will pretty much mess up your family life because
he is special needs and a lot goes with that. And it has a way of dividing a guy
from his wife, our boy could not speak, and was very messy you can't really
potty train him it takes many more years to get him out of diapers. He's 21 now
and somewhat better, I recently retired and have become his caregiver. Also
I divorced his mom only 3 years ago but we were separated off and on for at least 10 years.
Guys, don't play with fire.
@@metalmike570 she had a healthy baby at 42. At 46, you were 39. Higher risk of autism is associated with the man's sperm after 35. So it doesn't sound like she was the issue.
@@rf-uj5sc And plus having a male baby, 3 out of 4 autistic are males / boys.
I didn't think it was me but it's shocking to think it. I didn't blame her but my first reaction when she said she was pregnant was I don't think we should go forward.
@@rf-uj5sc I heard that from a two best medical experts ,and have a example that my neighborough has a retrd girl ,his ex wife was 23 when she was gave birth and he was 40.After divorce she remarried and have a healzhx 2 other children
The silliness of his argument is that guys want kids in their 20s or 30s a lot of men don't want kids early because they cost so much money and take so much time.
Most guys dont think about children as a financial burden, we just want to pass our seed aand will deal with things as they come
They confuse 'brave' w 'shameless'.
1) It isn't just can you have a kid in your 40s, we did. But why would you want to. When I was a kid, I loved carrying the younger kids on my shoulders. When I had my first kid 25 years ago, I was 39, and I had already been in one bad accident so I could barely walk. When the second kid came along, I had a heart attack when she was 10. Look up the figures on the average onset of all those aging diseases, and their prevalence. You will have major responsibilities, when you are retiring, or dying. Like paying for university. And what about grandkids. I think it was a major disadvantage in my life that both of my grandparents died long before I was born.
2) Rate your performance at school, athletics, etc... We all read stories about teenagers who invent a new battery, or get 100% in all their courses, or go to the Olympics. Those are the kinds of people who can have it all, to some greater extent. If you are/were a C student, and drifting a little, your chance of having it all is pretty near zero. You can have a great life, but not if you drink the off color KoolAid.
If you have time to comment in the comment section, or read it, your chance of having it all is zero.
And while your at it, mention the damage that happens to children without their father, because the mother thinks it's OK to do it by herself.
the Car videos are always the ones with the DEEP info and insights, its like a Strike to your mind.
He’s definitely talented and multi skilled.
If it were me it would be someone who sounded like President Joe, followed by car crash noises … 😮
The lambo is therapuetic!!
Even if you can still have kids at 37, what guy is going to want to start dating you at that age knowing the door is rapidly closing?
Or knowing everyone has been through her door..........
Not to mention the timeline on making marriage and children a reality once you decide you're ready. A lot of these women are in their mid to late 30s talking about being ready for marriage and children. But you still have to find a man, date him for a while, decide to get married, get married....most people don't try to have a kid the instant they get married. You're going to be in your 40s by the time you're ready to have kids.
@@michaelsantangelo7997 this is the whole ideal of "Leftover Women" a woman should be married ideally bwtween 20-23. The closer to 20 to better.......25 at the very latest,but even 25 is questionable. At 27-28 she is basically leftovers but might still have a little hope. At 30 she is expired............35+ thats just a joke. Cat Lady or Dog Mom
I’m 50’and single. Shocking how many single women in my general age group that have young kids. Pure craziness. Mine is 27.
The guy That is in love. Try rationalizing That ❤🎉
The one that really gets me is the "It's not you, It's him" lie.
How is it possible to convince yourself that you are flawless simply because you're female?
Regardless of all the media and social reinforcement of such an idea you're common sense should tell you otherwise.
When they’re a 50 single mom of 3 that can’t get past a year with a guy but they still think that some guy will come along that matches 100% of their unrealistic expectations…. That couldn’t happen or could it. Hmm
I know the type. They expect men to figure them out and chase them down and solve all their problems and bend a knee. They get really frustrated and begin cruelty lashing out about all men when it’s not happening
The kids grow up and then she gets a cat or a second one. If a child / young adult moves
out then she just gets another cat. And the cycle continues...
Any older than 33 is considered high risk pregnancy. My wife gave birth at 34 and we had to see the high risk doctor for pregnancy.
Although many women do give birth to healthy babies well into their mid to late 30's...we had our seventh child two weeks before my 40th birthday...and she is perfectly healthy!
@@Monica.S.2412 Wow seven, I remember an 80's show called Eight is Enough.
@@metalmike570 I also remember that show!
@@Monica.S.2412 God bless, take care of the family.
Ironically, my wife won me over because she wasn't a challenge. Women did this weird off and on fickle communications until my wife came along and she was certain as soon as we met.
"You Can Have it All", is indeed a lie. You can't be a safe driver and gesticulate with your hands at the same time.
The way Rich always says "Mommy" is freaking hilarious for some reason 🤣🤣🤣
Remember when you settle, that female THINKS. SHE IS THE BEST YOU CAN GET!!! Choose wisely!!!
So very true. All of it.
Ladies, for all you egg freezers, I suggest you review the stats on how few are actually viable. Its a lie. Yes, someone wins the lottery every month but odds are, its not going to be you. Its about the same with frozen eggs.
Women, to be wanted, you have to deserve it. That doesn't mean playing a character to land the man, it means BECOMING the character. If you don't or can't understand the difference, you are the problem.
Men can be happy alone or with other men. Women just have cats...and cat litter stinks with loneliness and despair.
The biggest lie women are hearing from birth and until "life hits them" is "You are a Princess!"
My wife had our last child at 30 and had a far worse time with it as opposed to our first 2 at 24 and 26
They think because they can make their fake faces appropriating that of a 16yr old and can get fake b00bs they are therefore "young". They also are able to lie to themselves but mother nature does not lie.
This is a problem that started after WWII (actually before it - see Edward Bernays for more on the subject) when it became a matter of 'sell production at all costs' to keep business production growing and moving. The entertainment industry increasingly pushed the sexes apart. All girls were to be looked at as 'princesses' by Disney programming and concepts like Barbie pushed the 'gotta have everything' mentality by Barbie driving a Corvette, having a Malibu beach house, a tan, blond eunuch for a boyfriend named Ken, etc. Additionally, pressure was put on men with the comics superheroes all being impossibly-built, natural musclemen. For decades we have been brainwashed to mistake fantasy for reality and now we are suffering the consequences all round. It had to happen at some point.
As I said above, look up Edward Bernays (Sigmund Freud's nephew) and understand the s**tstorm he started with his new marketing techniques starting in the '30s with the 'You've come a long way, baby!' sales strategy targeting women for increased cigarette sales.
i never heared any human say.. my better half challenged me today and gave me a headage..
What is a headage.
I won't google it.
I'm fortunate that I married a woman that hates drama and upheaval as much as I do.
This is all true, and sadly many women believe these lies.
OMG, Rich, when you got to the Frozen Peas part of #10, I almost blew a mouthful of protein shake all over the counter. You are too funny. You are also a beacon of wisdom for men, and women too, if they will listen. Thank you. --Old Guy
GREAT VIDEO! full of truth
Women are born at the top of the mountain and men are born in the valley. He is judged by how high he climbs (achieves) and she is judged by how far she falls.
Actually, the real age that men prefer is closer to 18, and the reason the data says around 22 is because surveys only ask what age men prefer from women aged 18 and up (adult aged)... but I guarantee you if there was no age restriction a VERY high percentage of men would choose women in the 16-17 age range, not saying this is right or wrong, it's just WHAT IS. This has nothing to do with age, it has to do with fertility.
Keep in mind in America for the first 250 years, it was normal for them to get married at 14 years of age and have kids. 18 years later, they can start their lives over again as a happy couple at age 32.
@@davidgold5961 I think the Amish still get married in their teens...I used to think they were strange people, but I guarantee they have a better overall life happiness than the average American when it's all said and done, especially compared to the sh$tshow we have today
It's legal in many countries. In Germany and Belgium the age of consent is 14. I guess lawmakers know what men really want😁
Women are goofy. Young women are goofier!
You need a woman who is a good lover. Bad idea to marry some 17-20 year old gal who may or may not know anything about pleasing a man or cares to learn.
You also can’t go around “busting” a bunch of young girls until you find a good lover!
Don’t flatter yourselves too much. Many women might feel that a man is in his physical prime from the age of 18-25 as well. That doesn’t mean that people can’t fall in love at different ages. Also, there have been some studies that certain diseases in children have to do with the sperm quality of the man as well. Be careful how you talk about people. God made us all in his image. We should fall in love with the heart and character of the person. Of course, we should be attracted to the person as well, but no one stays 18 forever. And many people fall in love with the character and the personality of the person as well. Plus, there are some women out there now who can have children in their 50s! 🙏
As if women pretended that men of any size were attractive.
One of the biggest lies and I blame man for this is: "You're too beautiful too... fill in the blank." Or "A woman like you, shouldn't... fill in the blank."
Accountability for women is like kryptonite to stuporman
Great video. I will probably show this video to a female friend. I think she needs this info. She can benefit from this. Keep up the good work Rich. Much appreciated. You have changed many lives.
Thanks for sharing!!
1:10 _That's Was Unexpected, Rick_ 😂😂😂
Women don’t have to look for husbands. “if it happens, it happens…”
With that if it happens that’s a no then👀
I don’t really have anything new to add BUT I would emphasize this point. Me and My wife did have a child in our 40s. (Oops Baby) We are both very healthy and fit. We have 2 healthy kids (Almost grown at the time then). All the parts work, all healthy, all the healthcare, no financial stress, solid long term marriage etc etc. Wife had good pregnancy. After delivering our youngest son she had some very serious complications. It did turn out okay in the end but it was life threatening and very scary. Take that what you will.
Secondly, My wife is professionally educated (CPA) and well spoken. She doesn’t regret not having a career. She enters and leaves the workforce as she wishes. Family is much more valuable to her. I am halfway to my 2nd pension and she is content on me working. I wouldn’t discourage women’s higher education but don’t in your happiness on your career. There maybe small exceptions to this rule but Men and Women vary greatly here. I am prideful of my profession. Wife puts very little stock in anything she has done professionally and personally she has done quite well when she enters the workforce.
Older women having kids have far higher birth problems. Apply that to a macro level and you have what you have.
@@doctordetroit4339 Agreed 1000%. We had EVERY VARIABLE in our favor and still had complications.
...promiscuity seriously limits the ability to pair bond.
A lot of issues in my first marriage, but a signature turning point was when she told me I wasn't really family because I wasn't "blood". I was all in, putting her first above all others including my mother, and then I find out she doesn't consider her husband to be her family.
Awesome Rich
Hey Mr.Cooper. speaking of eggs freezing. Each year passes the probability drops by 15 %. So even with freezing they don't come along. Salam from the country of Sultan Ismail (the bloodthirsty) :)