BTT Ep #5 - When She Throws Hissy Fits

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  • @davifurtado6534
    @davifurtado6534 5 років тому +20

    man, this is WAY BETTER than the RMG call in. You give the callers a chance to explain something. In the RMG the caller talks for 10 seconds and gets interrupted with the answer for all his life's problem.
    I'll try to follow this one more

    • @Out_my_cotton_picking_mind
      @Out_my_cotton_picking_mind 4 роки тому +1

      Davi Furtado I noticed how much these guys talked over the hosts. It defeats the purpose of asking for help

  • @trlspann
    @trlspann 5 років тому +66

    It takes so long for some of these callers to get to the point. Guys, spend 2 minutes preparing before you call please!

    • @TacticalStrudel
      @TacticalStrudel 5 років тому +3

      Theodor Spann they need to do a better job screening calls, a third person acting as operator offline or emailed questions. Get to the point guys.

  • @ryanleclaire3948
    @ryanleclaire3948 5 років тому +5

    These callers are ABSOLUTELY brutal. "Uhhh. Umm. Yeah. Uhhh. Uh huh. Ok".
    Please prepare for your call BEFORE you call.

  • @AmbuBadger
    @AmbuBadger 5 років тому +23

    Paramedic here, this is re: the last caller: From both my experience and what I was taught, men tend to have psych issues rear up in their 20’s while women develop them in their late 30’s to 40’s. If the girl you’re dating had issues in her youth that keeps her from dealing with things in a healthy manner, it’ll go south later in life if she has a mental breakdown or some disorder presents itself. Thoroughly vet a potential partner if you plan to marry, and make sure your life is squared away first before you bring someone into it.

    • @mrblondeheart9562
      @mrblondeheart9562 4 роки тому +2

      AmbuBadger - it hit my mom in her 30s. He had an existential crisis and destroyed my siblings and my childhood. Soley bec. She couldn’t handle her problems like an adult earlier on

  • @urbosasfurry2126
    @urbosasfurry2126 5 років тому +35

    All of those 20 year old guys should be focusing on their missions and not dating.

  • @molinamj2007
    @molinamj2007 5 років тому +10

    Love the look on Rich’s face as these guys explaining their situations lol 😂

  • @marcotheinterviewer
    @marcotheinterviewer 5 років тому +12

    Listening to some of these callers is weird...i get that guys can be nervous and maybe its their first time calling or dont know how well to articulate themselves but the easiest and quickest way to get the advice you want and need is to: 1) State your name and location 2) Give a brief description of who's involved rather than the whole scenario - unless asked 3) Identify what you think are the red flags/issues youre not sure about and need help on 4) Listen to advice given.
    Some of these dudes go on and on...i cant figure out why lol.
    Don't lie when asked a question either, you cant get a truthful or helpful response from Rich or Shawn if you do - no one cares if you sound beta or your answer to a question is shameful, we are all here to learn!

  • @floridasaltamerica4440
    @floridasaltamerica4440 3 роки тому +7

    As the old man in the group, I feel for these young guys. Wisdom and youth don’t mix but appreciate Rich to keep giving them the cold hard truth. Necessary for young men to quit thinking with your balls and redirecting that energy to finding their purpose.

  • @davideagen8653
    @davideagen8653 5 років тому +18

    19:48 "You are going to meet people that are sails and people that are going to be anchors. When the sails up and running and the wind is blowing into it you are really going somewhere, but if you have an anchor holding you back you are going to have a hard time making something of yourself, putting a dent in the universe and finding your purpose."

    • @alibertylover
      @alibertylover 5 років тому +2

      David Eagen / some people need to be " anchored" in the reality that they have another person to consider in a relationship. It's all relative to your phycological profile. The creator of this channel, I find, is very narcissistic, despite his "good" advice...

    • @davideagen8653
      @davideagen8653 5 років тому

      @@alibertylover/ you miss A LOT of what is being taught. Your own mental point of origin is PARAMOUNT.
      When you are on a plane and you have your child sitting next to you or your wife (whomever just someone you love more than pretty much anyone and anything) next to you and the plane goes down. The oxygen masks come down from the ceiling you put the mask on FIRST. Without thinking of yourself first then YOU DIE and SO DOES YOUR LOVED ONE!
      Your lack of masculinity (lack of narcissism) KILLS everyone and everything around you despite your "nice guy" intentions.
      No More Mr. Nice guy is a great book that you might want to consider.

    • @alibertylover
      @alibertylover 5 років тому

      David Eagen / Nah..... I didn't miss anything ; perhaps you did. On the plane ? Yeah, perhaps... good point .

    • @alibertylover
      @alibertylover 5 років тому +1

      David Eagen / l still think a Narcissist is a psychic vampire...

    • @davideagen8653
      @davideagen8653 5 років тому

      @@alibertylover / levels or degrees. ALL people have narcissism in them. Turned up to 12 is a disorder for men (the BPD version is different). MOST North American men are below 2 and many negative. A "healthy level is between 6-9/10. I think, COOP is just trying to raise other people's attention to decide on their own how to live their life. You won't be happy or stay with your choice of anchor if you are where the average is. Women won't put up with it and move on. So if you want to KEEP your anchor mental point of origin and narcissism is ESSENTIALLY and HEALTHY.
      (If you want an anchor I personally eventually want a sail and a woman that compliments my life and isn't the center of it or weighing me down. I will still think about her and consider her I am not a 12 level narcissist.)

  • @jgillan92
    @jgillan92 5 років тому +10

    Loved Rich going full on Canadian at 50:49 😂😂😂. But really great show here guys, thanks 👍

  • @walkerskii
    @walkerskii 5 років тому +9

    Rich after watching maybe 50 of your videos this is the first time I found myself cracking up laughing out loud, the Chinese parade of red flags hahaha!

  • @rafaelsmazzer
    @rafaelsmazzer 5 років тому +28

    About the weed smoker girlfriend, she is probably smoking much more than she's telling the guy or than he can see

    • @richardhertz9011
      @richardhertz9011 5 років тому +3

      +1 had personal experience with that. If she is using that much, it rarely goes anywhere good

    • @richardhertz9011
      @richardhertz9011 5 років тому +2

      @J Actually it proves nothing. You don't need to prove anything to me. You are successful with your endeavours. Something to be proud of. However you and your circle of colleagues are more of an exception than the rule.
      You are welcome to call me an 'idiot', no skin off my back, but I have experienced many times, people who regularly smoke pot get their panties in a bunch when someone questions their habit. They never seem to stop once and think about it or it's possible long term effects. I would say the same about any habit, be it alcohol, or some of the more 'serious' drug habits.
      Being in the world of theatre, I got a decent dose of that realm once. Dated a woman for 3 years from Cali who was in the theatre. It was an education being in and around that 'world' and seeing what their take on reality truly is, and why so many of them smoke it heavily. For many it is an escape, much like theatre itself, from reality. In moderate doses this can be a good thing, but if one needs a drug to deal with reality then there is a problem which can't be fixed with that band aid approach.

  • @npkrn6764
    @npkrn6764 5 років тому +11

    1st caller...”she’s totally chill and stable”. WTF?!? She’s “chill” because she goes through life stoned. And just stating that...Dude, that does NOT = her being “stable”.
    I believe it was Ted Nugent who said when it comes to women - if they’re drinking, or doing drugs....NEXT!!!!!

  • @TrueIndie88
    @TrueIndie88 5 років тому +21

    If a woman sleeps in late as possible, wakes up ready to complain and nag while dating, she will change alright... If you are foolish enough to marry her, guaranteed it will get worse as she gets older and uglier. You will be making breakfast for the kids in the morning 10 years later, and she will scream from the upstairs bedroom to be quiet! .As a reward she will work as little as possible, spending as much as she wants, and you won't be able to do crap, except divorce. And by then the fear of loosing the kids.. As a final reward she will probably file on you, with pennies of income destroying all your life's work up to that point and for 10 years after if children. Also, the judge will believe anything she makes up, so good there. Don't ask me how I know. Break up now, go find someone who is a helpmate and appreciates your manhood and is a complement to your vision, or go get an apron and a whip for yourself. You will need it.

    • @afrotraveller3768
      @afrotraveller3768 5 років тому +1

      Hahahaha. This lived experience relates to a lot of us. You are right on the money.

    • @john7148
      @john7148 4 місяці тому +1

      You will never know how much that was my past experience...pretty much word for word. 😳

  • @MrTrojanceez
    @MrTrojanceez 5 років тому +5

    I have had the experience of a helicopter girlfriend. It sucks because you go thru the thoughts that maybe "I" am the problem and need to fix myself in order to make her feel safe. But it all goes back to frame and keeping it strong.

  • @Ohenry0828
    @Ohenry0828 5 років тому +10

    Guys need to get straight to the point with the topic.

  • @boztos6025
    @boztos6025 3 роки тому +2

    The dog experiment story is absolutely infuriating

  • @cindybrown7527
    @cindybrown7527 Рік тому

    I love it when Rich started laughing when the guy said his girlfriend was “normal” in spite of the tats and nude modeling at age 31.

  • @JohnSmith-kb5ku
    @JohnSmith-kb5ku 2 роки тому +1

    My wife has tried the “hold my purse” trick. 😂
    She just got what I call “the look”.

  • @CLiNT642
    @CLiNT642 5 років тому +6

    Too many 20 somethings in LTRs, start spinning guys.

  • @tnicole902
    @tnicole902 5 років тому +1

    1:12:17 "She's completely normal!" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @LatimusChadimus
    @LatimusChadimus 2 роки тому

    A library is a social construct, masculinity is just natural

  • @horacevu
    @horacevu 5 років тому +2

    LOL XD contrary to popular beliefs, black guys struggles with women too, they aren't all players. Men must unite when it comes to dealing with women.

  • @flip1409
    @flip1409 4 роки тому +1

    Right, right, right, right, right, right..... right.

  • @mtchll_chndlr
    @mtchll_chndlr 5 років тому

    Yeehaw, Love this show Rich. Keep up the great work brother.

  • @ChaosKnuxxx
    @ChaosKnuxxx 4 роки тому +1

    That older guy is why I HATE talking to old people, they talk ALL DAY and say NOTHING...

  • @nano.joe.4851
    @nano.joe.4851 5 років тому +3

    wow, some of these callers needs to get to the damn point. They ramble on and on and on and on and on!

  • @DisabilityExams
    @DisabilityExams 5 років тому

    Where is the link to the APA war on masculinity video?

  • @nestordavid4672
    @nestordavid4672 4 роки тому

    I’m just now getting around to catching up on this one. Mark 1:05. About the holding of the purses: why do we have to “tell them” anything. I would NEVER say anything. I would (and have) walk out. Literally. Just walk out. Why do you care? If you’re spinning plates then let this one spin itself out of your life. It’s not even good for a FWB situation. Just let her go man.

  • @matthewhernandez8342
    @matthewhernandez8342 5 років тому +1

    Shit I feel this, I've been smoking everyday since I was 15. I'm 20 years old now and I feel like I'm stuck in a cloud haha :|

  • @Grimmes12
    @Grimmes12 4 роки тому

    Can someone please remind me how that Richard Cooper women like to create INDIGNATION as it happens quote goes? Thanks

  • @dannyjonze
    @dannyjonze 5 років тому

    brilliant show.. soo many familiar red flags and stories

  • @user-kj4od7ig3t
    @user-kj4od7ig3t 5 років тому +3

    has anybody else besides rich spoken on the gillette ad?

    • @AllKinaTing
      @AllKinaTing 5 років тому

      a few have, but i havent seen much

    • @user-kj4od7ig3t
      @user-kj4od7ig3t 5 років тому

      i mean people who are part of RMG... got links?

  • @larkydozer
    @larkydozer 5 років тому +1

    Men have "hissy fits" as well. I've seen both women and men do it. I get the sense that many men who subscribe and comment here view themselves as these stoic, Spock-like agents of reason and rationality. Be honest with yourself if you've succumbed to the perception of yourself as this "type".

  • @Lachiondo
    @Lachiondo 5 років тому

    There is 3 rational male books? You are refer to the first one when you speak of it right? I was thinking of picking it up Friday.

    • @Lachiondo
      @Lachiondo 5 років тому

      @@backlundbob4171 I've always been unsure about marriage anyways....i live in Olympia WA....hour and a half below Seattle....the most feminist state in the USA....if i ever got married i would have a prenup....unless i got married to a billionaire....then i would go for alimony after lol

    • @futuremasculine9898
      @futuremasculine9898 4 роки тому

      It’s a great book! Definitely pick it up. It should have gold edged paper like a bible.

  • @uchennaegbuna7208
    @uchennaegbuna7208 5 років тому

    Excellent once again

  • @ComingAtYouBro
    @ComingAtYouBro 5 років тому +1

    everyones always lost in these chats lol

  • @crispusf
    @crispusf 5 років тому +4

    Brotha -- microphone volume is great for everyone except you. Please either talk directly into mic or make adjustments to your mic sensitivity.

  • @Inquisitive-Minds126
    @Inquisitive-Minds126 5 років тому

    How do u confirm or know that you were her first?

  • @lukeism2
    @lukeism2 5 років тому +1

    That guy that calls in at 1 hour with the Australian girl is just awful to listen to. He won’t stop.

  • @Tony-et5ih
    @Tony-et5ih 2 роки тому

    Thank u

  • @brandonmcalpin9228
    @brandonmcalpin9228 Рік тому

    1 blunt that lasts all day is extremely mild. My brother smokes 2 ounces a week. Most people I know smoke at least 4 grams every 3 days. 1 blunt is nothing. Y’all are some boomers

  • @88Rickster88
    @88Rickster88 5 років тому

    Regarding the black dude dating the Russian (Shy (sp?)), Rich reiterated the fact that her parents didn’t even like him. Does it matter? He’s not getting into a relationship with her parents. Can someone provide more enlightenment to me?
    It’ll be tough, real tough, so I guess the question is whether the juice is worth the squeeze?

    • @thebrowithnoname1703
      @thebrowithnoname1703 5 років тому +2

      88Rickster88 I see what you’re saying about not dating the parents. However, I believe what Richard is getting at is that parents (or in-laws) can contribute a lot of friction in a relationship. If her parents do not like you, you’re in a world of hurt.

    • @davideagen8653
      @davideagen8653 5 років тому

      Russian families are also different and have more say in their kids lives typically

    • @88Rickster88
      @88Rickster88 5 років тому

      B I see what you’re saying and yes been there, done that. Sucks cause there is no logic to it.

    • @euland9159
      @euland9159 5 років тому

      88Rickster88 you’re right, you’re not dating the parents. But they are apart of the package. It’s something to consider as they will be an influence. You will have to deal with them.

    • @crystaloats8177
      @crystaloats8177 5 років тому

      If you’re “just dating” then no it doesn’t matter. But for long term relationships it absolutely is an issue. I would not want to subject my significant other to poor treatment and bigotry. Plus if there is a worst case scenario and the woman becomes pregnant then that would be a disaster. Plus we are all influenced somewhat by our upbringing. Even if we grow up to reject that upbringing.

  • @rtyrtyrtyus
    @rtyrtyrtyus 5 років тому +3

    Most of these phone in stories of "before the train wreck" seem to only be answerable by breaking up with her. The reason they are phoning in the first instance is because they subconsciously know what they need to, which is to break up with her, but are looking for an answer that doesn't exist to try and rest their conscience as to why they allow themselves to stay with her. Either that or they just need hear the words they already know be spoken back to them. Most of callers seem to feel disappointed in not finding their Disney solution to their circumstance. Most train wrecks happen because of beta blue pill ignorance, and those guys are not phoning in because they are not red pilled; those guys "did not see the train coming". All the phone callers are red pilled to some extent by default of being on the show in the first place; they can see the train coming. It would be interesting to hear from these callers down the line to see where their situation is at after phoning.

  • @mikkorytkonen2815
    @mikkorytkonen2815 5 років тому

    1:12:14 that was savage!

  • @Epsillion70
    @Epsillion70 5 років тому +2

    1:12:20 .... " She is completely normal!" Hahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa GTFO here !

  • @Eric31477
    @Eric31477 4 роки тому

    When your tired of listening to a chick prove her point, just play this to make her "think" she's right:
    1:03:12 to 1:03:16

  • @DD-mf7rv
    @DD-mf7rv 5 років тому +1

    I don't care, I'm NOT buying Nike or Gillette Ficik Off!

  • @jmh1101
    @jmh1101 5 років тому

    8 billion in lost revenue says they didn’t make a profit off of their anti male ad.

  • @cerebralmindgame9818
    @cerebralmindgame9818 5 років тому +1

    These dudes need to stop making women the focal point of their lives. Rather focus on making yourself the greatest version of yourself to the point of greatness and then establishing yourself to the point to where you get to weed out all the chicks (that are kicking and screaming to lock you down) that don't fit "YOUR frame". No sense of true purpose will lead you to becoming someone's bitch cause you have no path or direction.

    • @cerebralmindgame9818
      @cerebralmindgame9818 5 років тому

      Men have to realize that "NICE" doesn't equate to "COOPERATION". Most of us are blinded by this understood myth. It seems logical but women don't operate on logic. They operate on emotion. You have to convey that your frame is right and that it FEELS right to them (whether right, wrong, or indifferent). It doesn't matter. If women were led by logic, there wouldn't be so many baby momma's complaining about the jerk that knocked them up. They don't make a string of logical decisions at their most physically attractive prime. So stop listening to women and focus on becoming a great leader. "No" is actually more attractive to women than "yes"....🤯 (go figure). They're wired totally different (bass akwards). Thank you Richard Cooper for recommending that we read "The Rational Male" -by Rolo Tomassi. That book should strongly serve as a "must-read" for all young men before considering an ltr.

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 4 роки тому

      JaVaughn McGregor
      Yeah, they use emotion to make a decision and THEN use logic to justify making that decision. They’re fucked up.

  • @es-mmaandfitness8291
    @es-mmaandfitness8291 2 роки тому

    I know this is about guys and how they are always on the bad end of relationships. Most of the time I agree that women are the problem, but man, the one 20 year old from Canada with the Russian chick was all over the place. I couldn't believe half of what he was saying. Some of these dudes are defiantly lying.

  • @DIVISIONINCISION
    @DIVISIONINCISION 5 років тому

    I feel bad for these guys. Beta'd to the max without a clue as to how they're being manipulated by women. Women are just accessories. When you stop thinking about them in that way, you're in trouble.

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 4 роки тому

      Power of that damn pussy.

  • @LiftOffLife
    @LiftOffLife 5 років тому +1

    Scuba Diving is one of the manly persuits.
    I am an experienced solo, night, wreck, night, deep diver and even feminism has hit diving implying that women are as equal to men in the water.
    They dont even have the strength to climb a ladder back onto the boat fully donned with tanks and equipment ffs.
    I do not trust women scuba divers, period.

    • @albertomoreno9795
      @albertomoreno9795 5 років тому

      Toot toot! You're tooting your own horn bro. Lol

  • @TheHighborn
    @TheHighborn 5 років тому

    33:00 she's using you... kinda

  • @spurgeonwrightjr.3115
    @spurgeonwrightjr.3115 5 років тому

    "GO NIKE "

  • @JasonKale
    @JasonKale 3 роки тому

    OMG the bingo moment on the Eastern Euro women I was married to one never happy, always sad, totally controlling demanding nothing ever good enough...ultimately my Serbian was just a green card scammer but nothing ever made sense..Although the eastern Euro women are often hot and sophisticated my advice is stay away. You can never make them happy...

  • @TeunS133N
    @TeunS133N 5 років тому

    Sail not a anker, good idea

  • @daisyachiro6779
    @daisyachiro6779 5 років тому

    I disagree with you guys on women having tatoos. It does not always mean that they have gone through some traumatic event in their lives others just do it because they like tatoos and thats it

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 4 роки тому

      Either way, tattoos look fucking awful on women. Makes them look masculine.

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 4 роки тому

      P X-101
      I hear you, man! My thoughts too. Not interested in kids.

  • @thesaint5619
    @thesaint5619 3 роки тому

    All these guys sound miserable!

  • @JD-fx1np
    @JD-fx1np 5 років тому

    I feel if you look at something from a defensive mindset you're going to find more persecution than if you're less biased. With that said, the Gillette commercial can easily be viewed through a less defensive lens. As for me, I dont think it's that bad at all. It shows bullying and bullying being stopped by yes, a man. And it shows 2 kids fighting...but probably fighting over something stupid like over a toy or some shit, unclear in the ad and even at their age should probably learn to deal with differences or arguments without using their fists (or resorting to violence ALL the time). Is that so horrible? Is that an attack on masculinity? I don't think so. The ad does show men being tactfu, thoughtful and protective and also, coming to the rescue. How is that 'anti-men'?

  • @aaroncathey7623
    @aaroncathey7623 5 років тому

    One blunt isn't heavy wtf?

  • @mickeypolouskin
    @mickeypolouskin 5 років тому +1

    I stopped watching when I heard him say if you smoke weed you’re not growing as a person. Joe Rogan and a ton of other successful and influential people smoke weed. I personally don’t anymore but this statement alone is close minded. I originally subbed to this because I liked the idea but these guys are close minded to just their personal experiences

    • @mickeypolouskin
      @mickeypolouskin 5 років тому +1

      Nick not true. As I stated about. Plenty of people smoke weed and have grown well above you or me. Or these guys. There are no absolutes

    • @jakebrown3117
      @jakebrown3117 5 років тому +1

      He was talking about smoking every day. That's to much. I am pretty sure those successful people don't do that. In addition job types differ. Some work better for that lifestyle. However, even if they do doesn't make it smart. Guess what, I can close my eyes and cross the street. Maybe I don't get hit but the next 2 guys who do that do. Doesn't make it a good idea because I got away with it.

    • @parasite198
      @parasite198 3 роки тому

      I think he was speaking generally when he was talking about weed, of course there are productive stoners. The thing is that a lot of stoners are indeed stuck, I smoked weed for nearly 10 years and a lot of my stoner pals are still stuck in the same mentality with no dreams or goals.

  • @HawaiianBW
    @HawaiianBW 5 років тому

    You guys are both very sharp and attuned but you missed the boat on the Gillett ad. Which is surprising. It’s about oppression. Now - the ad implies who is to blame - I think it’s oversimplified , and misdirected, and inaccurate to blame men but as you can see from the torrent of reaction .... if thou dost protest too much, then you are wearing the proverbial shoe - as in if the shoe fits then wear it. If you overreact and get triggered then .... what are you hiding, why are you suspiciously defensive and therefore are you also complicit in the problem? You can’t complain about snowflakes and rabid feminism and then display the same behaviours that you find abhorrent and criticise in the other - if you do, then that diminishes your argument - that was the subtext and endgame I got from that advertisement... I don’t endorse it, that was just my observation.

  • @snakeplisskin8696
    @snakeplisskin8696 Рік тому

    What woman does NOT do this? They're ALL nuts.