Why break ups are actually tougher on men
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As a straight man, I can confirm I'm an unhealthy part of that 71%. We guys have got to start having more emotional connection with one another so we can better support each-other without leaning too much on our romantic partners for the help. Definitely can lead to some serious emotional turmoil, even while in a relationship. A lack of supportive friends with which to DO THINGS WITH, alone, has led me to a severely depressed state where I struggle to do basic things like eat real food and shave my face daily, despite supportive ladies in my life. We just have to do better.
Yeah, it's even unhealthy when the relationship is going alright for the most part, but you just put all your emotional support needs on a single person. What if she's also going through something tough? You either bottle it up or overwhelm her.
Blame therapist
Sociaty wants straight men to feel bad and women to feel strong
@@smartass0124 dude you can literally make friends and open up to them about emotional problems
@@liliana.6053 why social media actually saves lives and mental health unlike therapist . Linsed from vary systemic structures that caused issues in first place
As a straight guy, I can relate to most of what you said, especially the feeling suicidal. But I can’t relate to the glowing up part. When a girl I really liked dumped me out of nowhere, I used that as motivation fuel to go to the gym and get hot and glow up. I did this basically just to spite her. A lot of other guys I know did the same.
Prob depends on if you were dumper or dumpee too
I don't even think about my exes at all. My default state is focusing on self improvement and healthy habits. I made my own skincare routine, workout routine, cook my own healthy food, quit bad habits because it's important to me
“Changing your opinion when you get new information - SLAY”
I feel like Annas hidden talent is knowing exactly what I need to hear any time she posts. Sending you lots of love and i love your videos ❤
Agreed sis
War in Ukraine is key the success of the Barbie movie. The speech telling the people who have it easiest what they want to hear
Hahaha yeah. Literally.
Literally this
As someone who broke up with a woman who had been conning me since the very beginning of our relationship, I can safely say that this vid hits home for me. So, kudos to you, Anna.
Glad you got out of that situation. I’ve been down that road before. Hope you have friends and family who can support you and remind you of what you deserve.
Sorry that happened.
Keep up with your skin routine.
I dont understand, she was saying it is harder for men after a breakup? With your situation, it sounds like a massive W that you left her. Meaning it was easy/good for you, bad for her.
Why does this vid hit home for you, when your situation is the opposite?
@@64bitUnity Because I didn't know I was being conned until one of her friends told me straight up.
They're all cons
people don’t recognize emotional stability as a strength and too much as bare minimum when not enough are versed in it
I felt this. May not even have anything to do with actually breaking up. Just the absence of a potential partner is enough to drive depression and falling into the comfort of old/bad habits. I try way harder when I'm interested in someone or have someone around than the periods of time when there isn't anyone.
Exactly! Ive noticed this when i got in my first relationship a few years back, when i got a girlfriend for the first time i broke frim bad habits and addiction to porn when i got in a relationship. I was striving for more in my life from a career to physical fitness and therapy. But when we broke up all the bad habits started rushing back i had no dive or passion for anything.
That’s a lot of pressure to put on somebody else.
@@b.p.5129 Unless he is telling the person he's with about this shift it kinda sounds like the pressure is only really on himself
@@b.p.5129 It's not pressure I put on anyone. It's quite the opposite actually. I just make more of an effort to take care of myself when I'm with someone because I don't want to burden them or drive them away. The stakes are higher, and I take better care of myself because my health doesn't affect just me anymore.
For example, say I lose 20 pounds and get in great shape if I'm in a relationship. If I go through a breakup and put on those 20 pounds back on, that's my not my ex's fault. It's mine, and I just defaulted back into my previous state. No one should feel guilty for that.
@@ajregalia1334 no, he needs to view it as putting pressure on somebody else as well. Your ability to be a fully functioning and secure human being relies entirely on romantic validation? That is so unbalanced and unhealthy, it also has to be considered if whether or not that plays a role in the relationship ending as well. You have to see your own value and live for yourself even when in a relationship, because it’s not realistic and is designed to fail if you believe that somebody can fully maintain your sense of self for you.
I'm a straight man and I have never been in a relationship. I'm trying to do my best right now to be the best version of myself (eat healthy, exercise, socialize, therapy, etc.).
I find it very unfair that women get much more burdened by being in a relationship. I hope that went I do get into a relationship I'll do better for my partner.
Protip they don't actually. That's all junk science.
@@kingdan7458it’s not junk science, bozo
good on you for wanting to be a healthy partner
They don't. They're just less grateful
I actually did see these studies (or forms of them some time ago), and as a man who grew up with mostly women and was raised by them up until I was 12, I didn’t really understand as a child why the attitude towards support systems were different.
I understood as I grew older, but I still try my best to go the healthy route after an unfortunate separation.
i was raised by mostly women too, and i felt the same. Also, you may agree we kinda learn to be more suportive and take cara of us and other ppl in a different way that other guys who don't grew up in the same kind of enviroment.
It's only harder for the one who got dumped. Irrespective of the gender. 😬
My ex broke up and found a girl and is getting married in less than a year while I'm still taking therapy. 😅
Latest Update : his marriage broke off. 😬
Same thing happened to me. He made me suicidal then found a girl super quick. I'm in therapy and he's obese. You'd think that would make me happy. But I hate that he stopped taking care of himself, yet makes it seem like he's doing great.
Same. I'm here not willing to date anyone and he's out there licking women's profiles on Instagram and also about to get engaged, though I do think he was lying just to get the reaction out of me, which he didn't get.
Anna's acting always has me deadass on the ground laughing..
But on another note, it's crazy how well Anna understands psychology. I'm indebted for her presentations of complex topics in a nutshell.
Going through a break up......... I hope he's okay but gosh I'm crying,can't eat or sleep properly 😢.....I can't wait to get better so i can see this comment years from now and see my growth....I really hope I'm good in the future ❤
it takes time, but if you set goals, you'll realize you reach them soooo much faster than you could have with your ex dragging you down. Stay strong, it'll get easier, lean on your support system and your own mettle
You got this hun ❤❤ its hard but feel your feelings. It helps process. And surround yourself with your favorite things and friends. Therapists are so helpful to talk through things with too. You will be okay ❤❤
Stay strong ❤
Hey girl, just wanted to say I am going through the same thing and know exactly how you feel. I have been crying non-stop for the past 3 days since my ex and I ended a 1.5 year relationship. He still lives with me but has moved his stuff to the second bedroom. It pains me to think what he may be going through but I guess I will never find out. Please feel free to reach out if you need, I am here for you.
Get over it, what are you 12?
I've been saying this for the past 10 years. Didn't realise there were actual studies backing up my experience.
turbo based Anna, lots of us guys really appreciate you bringing this sort of thing to light
Been watching your videos for years and loved them. This one came up at moment I’m experiencing what it feels like going through a breakup. Thank you for all the entertaining and insightful work you do.
The fact I got healthier and exponential piece of mind after going through the sad and anger phase was a blessing in disguise
This was hilarious and extremely informative. Can't beat this combo! Slay!
Sociaty media lensed therapist wants men to feel bad women to feel good. That's why can't stand social media.
@@smartass0124 your level of cope is unreal lol
@@mollusckscramp4124 he liked his own post too lmao
I'd like the fact that Anna know this factors about men and I'm thankful that I subscribed into your channel since I was in before 20's. I know most of your post is about women and their rights. But whenever comes you post about things happened about men.
Then girl, you will always be my standard as a woman. So you slay girl. ❤
But to be honest.. I'm in the middle of post depression due to separation of my partner as well.
What's hard about it, is that we have a child. Idk what to do.. hope I can overcome this.
Thanks Anna for always being a big sister to us here in youtube community.
I've been wanting to talk to my boyfriend about the unequal division of chores for a long time but I've always been post-poning it... can't believe anna is here telling me to do it
GirI please do it. Youdeserve to have Iess stress and more me-time. If he is a good BF he will understand and make a real effort to take off some of that stress
Do it!! Have you checked out the Fair Play method? My partner and I are long-distance, but we've been discussing it and reading the book in preparation for moving in together
Girl I completely understand about being afraid to bring it up but please for your sake do it. I was in a relationship for five years and he never did anything to contribute. He lived with me for free and I would constantly be doing his laundry and cleaning up after him. Multiple times I tried to bring it up and he would either get upset and shut down or he would wash dishes for one day and then go back into the old habits. And it made me build up a lot of animosity and anger towards him because I felt like I couldn’t communicate with him without him being upset. So I ended up getting a really bad attitude and honestly it became a cycle of me just being angry and probably taking a lot of unwarranted anger out on him. You deserve to have someone that is going to treat you like a partner or an equal. It shouldn’t just be you taking on all that stress. You might accidentally let it build up and explode one day and say some things you might regret.
We made sure straight away that all chores are equal in my relationship. We have been together for 15 years and it's still equal. If he cares about you he will help out, same with our baby. I don't think I have extra house work, if anything I have less as he is helping me.
I proactively try to do the chores (mostly cat stuff, trash stuff, cooking, kitchen, sometimes laundry) ...home improvement projects though, I'm a bit lazy. I think it's due to the mental capacity it takes to measure things perfectly cause of some OCD. Also, I make sure to massage her feet every night.
This was amazing! So creative and entertaining AND informative!! SLAY BESTIE!
As a women my life became a lot better after getting in a (healthy) relationship.
I never been so happy.
We share cooking duty, clean together. Only reason I do laundry or dishes more is because I mostly work from home.
Love that for u queen, may your life and relationship be always healthy and prosperous 🤍
@@getgot3461 thank you, I hope you have a happy life as well.
The other side is that I became better off financially and physically after break ups. Had a lot more time for things, and less stress.
@@iyasugames I hear you on that. It’s not like one can pick them out easily. Sometimes it is just as good or better to be single.
Your presentation and delivery of this great information is so funny to me. You have a great talent for being informative and entertaining. Keep it up!
The glow up is a real thing!❤ I got so tired picking after my ex's slack...I got tired mothering him, taking care of him, cooking, cleaning...He took everything for granted. I was at my lowest with him, feeling neglected. I put on weight, i was depressed...it was terrible. The moment I realised I deserved better, I left and the weight was magically lifted!I feel great now😊 Men need to learn to depend less on their romantic partners. Also your partner is not your mom! You drain women mentally and physically, they leave you and then you dwell in sorrow😢 Also please learn to appreciate emotional support, it's a huge deal having that in your life. Working and making money is not everything😢
Not to be that guy but how are you finding men like this lol. I'm a guy, and legit can't get girls at all. And all the girls who rejected me will not take care of me at all. I have to cook, clean, be fit and have money. Basically be super independent to even have a shot. It blows my mind to hear stories like this because it's reverse where I'm from
@@mario125ww Legit question! Well it's like this: Most of the guys pretend to be really nice at the beginning, sadly, but then they change. My ex was being very thoughtful and giving for the first 6-7 months, so I fell for him. He cooked for me, he surprised me with cute little notes and treats, he seemed to care etc. I did the same for him of course! I was in for the long run. The moment I moved in with him, he changed :/ He started taking my effort for granted and stopped doing things for me. I started feeling like a housemaid. I addressed the issue subtly hoping that he would understand but he somehow gaslighted me. He got too comfy with me cooking and taking care of the house (even though I worked as well). Something happens in guys' heads when they move in together with their partner! They start treating the girl like a maid. We had other problems as well but that's a long story. He got moody, absent and unreliable. Little by little I realized he ain't gonna change, so eventually I managed to find a place and move out. For half a year he tried to win me back, obviously having regrets but that didn't happen....
@@mario125wwIt's really good you're independent :) I'm sorry you haven't found someone loving and caring so far :( Are you the kind of person to take care of others? Because these things go both ways.
@@LydDee yeah I am a giver so people have taken advantage of me in the past. I have learn to be ok with being single. With women, I have always been the shoulder to cry on and it has never led to a woman finding me attractive. Not saying im doing it for ulterior motives but im surprised to hear women say guys lack emotional intelligence. It's interesting hearing from the other side because I feel like we have the same complaint but never find each other
@@mario125ww Yeah I'm also a giver, I know how it feels to be taken advantage of :/ I'm teaching myself to be more assertive and have boundaries nowadays. Also, giving your all too early in a relationship is risky. If I ever date again, I'll be more guarded and I will try not to go the extra mile, even if they seem to be amazing. Although, I doubt I wanna date ever again🥲. It's mentally draining. I agree, nice people dont seem to be able to find each other anymore 😅 There's always this "giver- taker" kind of dynamic...
Follow you since the beginning! Love you Anna
LOVES YOU ANNA.LOVES YOUR VIDS LIKES THESE.NOT ONLY THEY INFOR&TEACHES.BUT THEY'RE FUNNY.
Sending this to my divorced sister, with 4 kids. Thank you, you TOTALLY SLEIGH, 😘
Seeing videos like these make me feel seen.. makes me almost want to cry...... maybe I should cry.
Thank you.
Its because "the bros" basically don't offer emotional support, all they do is be competitive and call the man who went through a breakup a c..u..c..k.
This is one of the most classic devices for reproducing toxic masculinity. As a transwomen, after i got out, i break up with my ex-cis-het male friends, because they are toxic and they made me fell disgusting and without self steem. After this i really solved a lot of mental problems in my life. Without a bunch of "bros" pressuring me to adopt certain obnoxious behaviors and to act in a way that was totally different from who I really was, I was basically able to have self-esteem...
...The problem is that these guys continue to suffer the damage that I stopped suffering, because they continue to be immersed in this logic.
Sociaty doesn't. Alimony child support. If the man leaves he's a deadbeat Abandoning his family for fragile male ego if the woman leaves or kicks him out still draining him he's was ajerk in sensitive didn't support her. Accountability is always on male. Feminist cry that get blamed for everything the minute a thought of accountability on women is thought of .
Never showing men feeling Free are divorce. And therapist never take accountability for suicides . Social media actually saves lives
Hopefully they grow up someday and learn how to be real friends to each other. GIad things are better foryou
Im happy you got out of that toxic environment! I hope you're doing better now. ❤ And I hope men in general learn to be more emotionally supportive towards each other. ❤
I don't know if by bros you mean a certain type of men and not just men's buddies. If so you would be massively overgeneralizing.
Really? Thought these guys were only in movies! Maybe i've just been lucky. Or maybe you were unlucky?
I feel very comforted knowing that my exes are likely doing not as well as me😂
so grateful for you! science and humor, slay!
Thanks. I needed to hear this.
I feel the breeze when i watch your videos this is what i need more often
gentle reminder that we need therapy gents. Also basic skin and hair routines are better for your self esteem. If you like the way you look, she will too
Therapy is reason for most these statistics of male depression and loneliness and suicide also opoid epidemic genital multion believing their the wrong gender and school shooters.
All accountability is on man
Media society wants men to feel bad and women to feel good.
If the man leaves he's a deadbeat Abandoning his family for his fragile male ego if the woman leaves or kicks him out forcing him into homeless and mentally messes up kid .he should have made her feel appreciated.
. It's completed 😡😡 how social media with actually saves lives is under scrutiny for what mainstream media and linced therapist been causing for decades
Currently going through a breakup because of this exact reason. I am much better when I'm single, and until i can find someone who makes my life better instead of harder, I'm gonna stay a single dog mom😂
Yikes
I'm sorry? Being self-sufficient and independent is "yikes"?
YES thats amazing. I totally agree girl. Person you are with should be comolimentary to your joy not added stress~ otherwise whats the point. Keep it up hon❤
being asexual avoids millions of problems😬
aroace im assuming... bc romance alone also yields all those problems in my experience
@@annboba yeaaaah
@@annboba do you like demons?
Sure keep telling that to yourself and seek support from random on the internet
@@cassie8844 🤷😌
Recently a woman commented on how soft my hair was, I total her I'd started putting lotion on my face after showers, and I just ran any extra lotion on had on my hands through my hair. She said it was disgusting how easy it was for men, and I agree.
Men, put even the bare minimum into your skin and hair, and you'll be in the top ten percent of men. Thanks to all you fellas out there keeping the bar so low, probably due to some bizarre fear, like that putting lotion on your face means you're not manly anymore or something.
🤯
I saw a man put on sun screen and he told me he regularly used chap stick because he wanted soft lips. Immediately more attractive.
Why is it any different for women?
I think it's more laziness than feeling like you're not manly haha
@@Vivi_9 If I understand the question correctly, I believe it's different for women, because more women use moisturizer and hair conditioner than men, meaning if a woman does it, it doesn't give her the same advantage it would give a man because more other women are also doing it. Technically speaking, the more men who moisturize and use hair conditioner, the less doing so will give a man an advantage. If 50% or more of men did it, then doing it wouldn't make you above average anymore, then it becomes more a case of not doing it making you below average. ...Maybe I should stop telling other men it's a good idea to do it... Actually, don't use lotion, you don't want to be a slave to the matriarchy! Stop bathing, wear food stained clothing, be a man! Men don't want all these shallow women. Don't worry, I'll spend time with them so the rest of the guys don't have to deal with all their demands. Does this make me a hero? Yeah, I guess it really does. jk, jk.
... you have a talent for uploading what i need in the moment
SLAY!!!! absolutely love this
As a guy, I agree with this 100%. After a breakup with my first real girlfriend at 22, I fell into a negative cycle of self destructive habits. I went from eating less healthy, to becoming more reclusive, to alcohol abuse, and then to full on suicidal tendencies by the time I was 28 due to the complete lack support from family and friends. On top of that, my dad died at 29 and I had lost my entire support structure.
I’m only just now coming out of the depression of not having someone to lean on emotionally after ten years. I didn’t realize how much I’d needed the support if someone who would actually listen to me without feeling judged or ridiculed.
Loved this!! Thank you :)
Thank you for talking about this 🙏
Ok this just put me in THE BEST mood post breakup. SLAY
Strange times. Dating after pandemic made me feel like I was a v-e-r-y cheap therapist not an actual "date."....I had 1 guy tell me, he had not a single friend or relative in his life. (I had 2 cups of coffee with the guy & he spilled his guts hardcore & ghosted me.) But, I have to tell you, it really shows when a guy has no skills in having/keeping friendships. Please foster friendships & your (healthy) relationships with family. It's all important for your health & happiness.
I'm convinced every mental health issue that men experience more frequently than women is caused by a lack of emotional support network.
Society teaches men they're not allowed to have feelings, that it's shameful for men to cry, etc., which results in them feeling like they can't confide in anyone.
Worse mental health in divorced men? Caused by lack of emotional support network.
Higher suicide rates with men in general? Caused by lack of emotion support network.
Men being more likely to develop unhealthy habits post-breakup? Caused by lack of emotional support network.
More importantly, society does not objectively support men as much on many fronts.
Hence what people mean when they say the patriarchy is bad for everyone (in different ways) but yes everyone is negatively impacted by these harsh gendered roles
@@Raddiebaddie "Patriarchy" is a way to blame men for everything. Which is, ironically, very patriarchal in itself.
@@brianmoren3780 I think you need to google the word if that’s what you think
Akana be Killin me
Needed to hear this ❤
Love your content!
the validation i need
My husband is my only friend I wish i had a few close friends I could hang out with, emotionally connect with, to laugh and cry with and to support me but it's so hard to find when you work alone.
it's honestly necessary, unless you want to be codependent!
OMG i need this so much!!❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
This is neat. I appreciate it.
I love you Anna!!
Perfect timing ❤
I have seen the toll breakups can take on men. I have made a guy friend in group therapy right before his wife broke things off and he recently broke up with his new girlfriend. When things went well with either he was glowing and helping me get out of my mental rut. I wanna be there for him and give him emotional support even though I am neither a very social, talkative, confident or emotionally stable person. To say that I'm doing my best would be a lie, I could do more... I'm tapping in the dark for what to do, and I often catch myself about to give stereotypical advise that I know is dumb and unhelpful like some sort of humanoid tape player.
Men's emotional support system. their mom. their wife. Yeah thats it.😂
Media like men sad after break up and women empowered. They hold different standards if the man leaves he's a deadbeat Abandoning his family for his fragile male ego. If she leaves well kicks the man out forcing him into homeless and still draining him it's because he didn't make her feel appreciated. And we should blame the billionaires for the worse homeless problem in the richest country in the world. Not the women force men into homeless. We talk about boys ger girls and their teachers pregnant. Not about the girls who get pregnant and all the power before doing and even before the pregnancy
Love it. Also, facts. Slay.
Anna...you're shredded (shoulder press game crazy)
Something that impacts this is who is often assigned the ‘blame’ of a breakup.
Purely anecdotally, I’ve experienced more people willing to support the woman rather than the man, for reasons like women generally having more friends, male ‘friends’ of the woman securing their place, and purely cause the man might be less fun to be around.
this really helped me
Actually, when my EW left me I was better off in every way! My depression left me when the cause of it left me, I ate better, exercised, was much happier and healthier in every way when the cause of my stress left me!
SLAY KING
I've always believed that men should have supportive people outside of their romantic relationships.
Its weird. This januari i went through a break up and i (male, 24) had a really though time. I wanted to listen to music to help with the emotions, so i listened to some uplifting and positive music. I also wanted to hear breakup songs but the thing is that almost every song about breakups and emotions after breaking up were made by women. In many cases the unnamed male in the song was the villain and it was about female empowerment. Even though i agreed with the message (in positive songs, not where the male was villified), i couldnt relate.
It appeared that there was no room for male emotions or male empowerment after a breakup in the songs. Both in content and in quantity of songs. Found that weird, just wanted to share.
Sam Smith maybe?
@@meowglab7702ew
insights!! thank you for pointing this out!
So you have never heard of the script?
The entire album one x by three days grace (if you like rock)
Anna hyping Anna is what I came here for!! Oh and daddy Squarespace of course 😁
this is one of the best sketches 💅slay💅
How men who hurt have take accountability for hurt them but not the other way around
After my divorce I got lucky and was surrounded by people who helped me with my physical and mental health. That said, my while I'm physically FAR superior to my former self, I am mentally far worse. Suicidal thoughts and worse that I battle on a constant basis.
Anna you are a genius.
i love your videos so much
they light up my mood
"Devo" Australian vernacular has made it's way to California and I'm here for it hahaha
Yeah, I googled "devo" and got "the transfer or delegation of power by a central government to a local or regional administration; devolution."
Honestly have never been in a relationship myself so I can’t really speak to that, but on the topic of emotional support among men, I find it’s not as prevalent as it is with women. Speaking as a man, a lot of close friends that I had before or even in certain cases where I talk to my dad, I don’t really go into it expecting to be consoled (or validated if I am in the wrong).
Hope this doesn’t get taken the wrong way, but overall I find that men (at least from my experience) tend to be more so a voice of reason when it comes to a lot of things whereas a lot of women are naturally better with emotional support. Even when I have friends who are able to confide in me, I will always hear them out but at the same time I always find myself suggesting solutions to problems they may be having or just flat out telling them what they NEED to hear instead of what they might want to hear, if that makes sense and vice versa for when I talk to others. That is all IF I actually open up to others though since I don’t really find myself having to all too often.
You slay sponsorship 🔥. Not even kidding. I usually just skip the sponsor stuff, but not in your case.
Oh, my God!! YEEEEESSSS!
As a matter of fact, Anna loves me together
“I’m feeling lonely”
“Damn”
Longest conversation about feelings with the boys.
This is hillarious
GLOWY SSSSKIN!? SLAY!!!
As a hypersimplification, perhaps the reason is that since guys are typically the ones that go after girls, when the person that they pick doesn't want them (or when the guy doesn't want her), it's worse.
Yeah we would need more studies to determine the reason why.
Women being a crap ton of work to have relationships with might be a reason
It could be that a lot of men have less emotional support. Although that is not my experience with my male friend groups as they are all super supportive.
Or the sexes just handle broken romances differently at a biological level.
We would need studies on gays and lesbians to help figure this out lol
thank you for calling me out while letting me healthily cry & laugh like the psycho i am :P hope everyone can heal their heart w/honest comedy :3
Hey Anna, thanks for talking about all this! I'm having trouble finding the U of Michigan study on single/partnered men and women's household chore hours; could you share the citation?
Anna is jackeeeeed. Serious gains 🎉
This is what my internal monologue sounds like
Yes, they are very happy about 💕😘😘 love
1:55 translation : one hour of housekeeping that a single man would have done himself is transferred to his wife, the other six hours are just compulsive unrequired cleaning of things that are already perfectly satisfactory.
I miss him, i hope he’s okay
Girl Science !!!
At least she didn't tell about getting therapy this time the reason for all the make depression and suicide
We love scienceee 😍
I love that this showed up as my 10 year marriage ended
This is FACTS 100% for most men
I already felt so bad breaking his heart yesterday 😢
With any luck, him having his heart broken will lead to a life changing journey into personal development. I know that's what happened for me this year, so in a way I'm thankful for the heartbreak.
@@joshliam1967 as much as i wish it was me that motivated him enough to improve his life… i can’t continue to sacrifice myself waiting for him…
I really hope he has a similar experience to you.
Not sure, every break up has literally made me more succesful and handsome. But for some reason is harder to get a good girl, irony
Yeah, when my girlfriend told me she is breaking up with me, cause i'm emotionaly inhibited , i legit though absolut jumping out the window, just cause i couldn't handle the devestating shock.
It legit came out of nowwhere for me, i mean knew we some trouble, but i honestly thought i was making progress...
We are not broken up now, but she moved out, so we can break the every da numbness, but i'm every much scared and the only person i can really talk to is my one close female friend.
Disclaimer: i was never actually going to jump, but even the mind going there is scary as hell.
Have you looked into therapy yet itll help you need someone objective to talk to who can help with those negative thoughts
@@Raddiebaddie Yeah i have actually waiting on responses for my request atm. Thx tho
@@TheIncredibleHieb best of luck 🙏
The biceps omg
"But bestie before you go..." She totally left.
Haha, the word usage!
One would think with those statistics men would cherish and care for their partners more but 9/10 times they take us for granted lmao their loss tho we be glowiiiiin'
This kind of just made me feel terrible
Another straight man here,... I can honestly say that after my first marriage ended I pretty much built a wall around my emotions for just over 5 years after. Also, my apartment became a cave as I never went out or socialized. I had a few close friends and family, but I rarely talked with them about how I was feeling. The only things that prevented me from going further downhill,.. my job at the time that I really enjoyed, and seeing my Son on weekends. I did lose weight during that time, however. Not eating can do that.
Well, the science behind circumstances like that speaks for itself.
In countries like India Afghanistan even before the Taliban forced out the invading imperialist. Even in Amish it was women suffering more after break ups even in. America before the 50s
@@smartass0124 hm...where are the receipts for that claim?
HAHAHA!!!!! So wrong it’s hilarious!