3 steps to breaking your limiting beliefs

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 274

  • @kypjak42
    @kypjak42 8 місяців тому +581

    Dear Anna,
    I usually shy away from commenting on youtube videos with the limiting belief nobody will ever read this or god forbid reply. However I want to tell you that I'm 24 now and I started following your content when I was maybe 15-16. Honestly the last decade was a really rough one in my short 24 years of existence and your videos really did help in many different ways. Back then when I was suicidal, I was really grateful for your openness about your sister and how it impacted you. And as the years went by, I did follow lots of different content on self help and psychology and Jung etc.,
    In the worst of times I couldn't read or listen to anything very in-depth or long, but I could always watch one of your videos and try and implement what you talked about. They're never too long, they're always clear, never too heavy, and your consistency really feels almost like someone checking up on you if you're alright. Anyways I'm doing much much better now and just want to say thanks.

    • @AnnaAkana
      @AnnaAkana  8 місяців тому +208

      This means a lot to me. Thank you so much, and I'm glad you're no longer suicidal

    • @crocodileeatslemur
      @crocodileeatslemur 8 місяців тому +3

    • @rinaantler4790
      @rinaantler4790 8 місяців тому +12

      Thank you for proving how effective Anna's videos can be in such a short amount of time 😊.

    • @Thefitty
      @Thefitty 8 місяців тому +11

      So much hugs and love to you. You DESERVE GOOD THINGS.

    • @farahamin9670
      @farahamin9670 8 місяців тому +16

      well I don't comment a lot either but I do read comments A LOT and I also wanna say it's really inspiring to see someone that was in a bad place be in a better place, just inspires me to feel like I also can do that and anyone can too sooo Thank you

  • @vir9857
    @vir9857 8 місяців тому +298

    1. Changing the narratives in the head
    2. Envisioning the good, better things and applying them to self
    3. Acting in accordance to belief and making moooovveeessss

    • @vir9857
      @vir9857 8 місяців тому +8

      Thank you Anna 😭

  • @HealingInsideMyMind
    @HealingInsideMyMind 8 місяців тому +101

    Each time you said “I deserve good things” I repeated it in my head! Look at you filling in for my therapist! I ❤️ you!! 😆🥰❤️

  • @IgorDimitrov
    @IgorDimitrov 8 місяців тому +33

    all things aside Anna you are an amazing actress. The contrast between the characters really made me think I was watching two different people

  • @terrancekayton007
    @terrancekayton007 5 місяців тому +4

    The “desire good things,” mantra took me to a whole new level. Thank you Anna Akana. 🙏🏿

  • @pyrohoshi
    @pyrohoshi 8 місяців тому +8

    😁😆🤣🤣🤣 "Becca" at the end. Anna's so funny! she cracks me up. This re-framing exercise sounds excellent. eep!

  • @fortune_roses
    @fortune_roses 8 місяців тому +21

    The hardest thing to do, to see outside of one's own bubble of perception... humans are wired to dislike change :/ *not impossible* but really hard for some people

  • @auroracrepuscolo
    @auroracrepuscolo 8 місяців тому +16

    thank you so much for free therapy anna you don't know how much good you've brought to my mindset!! forever grateful

  • @brpers1l151
    @brpers1l151 8 місяців тому +8

    I've been away from this channel for a while. A couple of years ago your videos really sent me on the right mental pathway and I started following a dream career. I saw this pop up and thought I'd have a watch and wow, what a jump in quality. This is a fantastic sketch and brilliant way to present these ideas. Love your characters and energy, keep this channel going!

  • @CammieVee08
    @CammieVee08 8 місяців тому +6

    Thank you so much. I needed a refresher course on what I needed to do with my limited beliefs.

  • @Bia-starlight
    @Bia-starlight 8 місяців тому +1

    Losing my father felt like a part of me died too. Whenever I get a job interview, I always end up feeling like I am not good enough. Thanks for this, Anna. I'll incorporate this is in my life.

  • @LilyEvansP
    @LilyEvansP 8 місяців тому +19

    I’m well aware of my limiting beliefs and the way they ruin my life but I can’t seem to get past the fear of failure and rejection 😢

    • @lindaresearches
      @lindaresearches 8 місяців тому +5

      Thats exactly why we all need a bestie like Anna in our life, who hugs and reminds us of our own worth. I wish for you to find this person in your life, you truely deserve it, believe in yourself 🤗 I sure do believe in you sis

    • @LilyEvansP
      @LilyEvansP 8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much for taking the time to write this sweet message :) @@lindaresearches

    • @MMEarlene
      @MMEarlene 6 місяців тому

      Train ur self to endure rejection, just remember if u dont try u will not get it, if u try u actually might get it.

  • @pedrogoncalvesneto2451
    @pedrogoncalvesneto2451 4 місяці тому

    At first when "Becca" showed up, i though it was the representantion of the "villain era" that is coming with the change in mentallity

  • @branatons
    @branatons 8 місяців тому +3

    Oh no! The Clamp LMAO

  • @desireer6915
    @desireer6915 8 місяців тому +2

    PERFECT TIMING as always!! ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @alittlerainbowstay
    @alittlerainbowstay 5 місяців тому

    Off topic but her voice is so soothing!

  • @nishabhadauriya788
    @nishabhadauriya788 2 місяці тому

    I need an Anna in my life

  • @duffgirl216
    @duffgirl216 8 місяців тому +1

    Anna you are amazing! I hear a lot of what you say in what my therapist says and hearing you say it just really solidifies the importance to me.
    Thank you for these bite size doses of therapy!! ❤

  • @3nertia
    @3nertia 6 місяців тому +2

    You are the best therapist I never had to pay for :D

  • @nightappple
    @nightappple 3 місяці тому

    Thank you. I have hope now

  • @MrReese
    @MrReese 8 місяців тому

    This has been one of my new year's resolutions. It's very difficult to get rid of these restricting thoughts that have been there for so long to say the least.
    Becca is the persona I *really* wanna know more about 😄

  • @autumnequinox21
    @autumnequinox21 8 місяців тому

    This makes things clearer when it comes to dealing with limiting beliefs.

  • @koals6783
    @koals6783 8 місяців тому +1

    This is generally very helpful, I don't feel the example though. If I went too deep into believing "I deserve good things", I would just get lazy and stop working for my goals, assuming that I'm already good enough at everything. For me it's important to remind myself that I do need to work on things to actually get good things sometimes - so I'm somewhere in between. But maybe that just means that I don't struggle with that particular limiting belief

    • @ringinn7880
      @ringinn7880 8 місяців тому

      I agree with the flaws of I deserve good things.

  • @Indigo_outlaw
    @Indigo_outlaw 7 місяців тому

    Omg this is fantastic 😂 I honestly usually watch and listen to "super serious" informational stuff on UA-cam.. This was so refreshing, funny af, and well put together 💙😅

  • @naveerakhan9622
    @naveerakhan9622 8 місяців тому

    This is the exact slap in the face I needed 😅 Seriously though, the practicality element is the most valuable take-away for me. Lovebyour videos!

  • @larissaxo513
    @larissaxo513 8 місяців тому

    You are an amazing human being Ana! You made me laugh with tears in my eyes and I am grateful for having access to your wonderful videos ❤

  • @wilgarcia1
    @wilgarcia1 8 місяців тому +1

    Happy Thursday =)

  • @sujinmcho
    @sujinmcho 8 місяців тому

    What perfect timing for the wolf moon

  • @imviviaan
    @imviviaan 8 місяців тому +1

    I love these skits so much😂

  • @memydreamy
    @memydreamy 8 місяців тому

    I don't know how it supposed to work, when I try to imagine my future with those ambitions believes all I can see is being lonely, cause I didn't settle for someone who would settle for me. My carrier didn't develop at all cause I threw away what little progress I already had for big dreams that never become reality. I feel "I deserve good things" will only ruin my life.

  • @pj806
    @pj806 8 місяців тому

    Ok the msg and breakdown is amazing but damn your acting is next level slay

  • @theonlyTireFire
    @theonlyTireFire 8 місяців тому

    thanks for helping me improve my life in the last many years^^

  • @VLicious8704
    @VLicious8704 7 місяців тому

    This is actually super helpful, what the heck
    Saved to my therapy related collection 🎉

  • @enak0e
    @enak0e 8 місяців тому

    I need to know more about Becca in this universe 🤪
    Okay but really... I think I needed this today. Yet again lol. I think there is so much more work I need to do in rewiring myself to feel this 100%

  • @BlackIcePiece
    @BlackIcePiece 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for the reminder to work on my belief system :)

  • @phoenixluk
    @phoenixluk 8 місяців тому

    Love bestie! And Congress sleeping is sooo cute!

  • @tamaraj8214
    @tamaraj8214 7 місяців тому

    I love watching your videos because of the ideas you create and mental health. I usually don't laugh at your videos but this one made me cackle 😂😂😂. Thank you for sharing this, this limiting belief is also my problem. I'll try to use your advice for breaking my limiting beliefs 😊

  • @ahippogryph
    @ahippogryph 8 місяців тому

    BRILLIANT, definitely deserve all the best! ❤❤❤

  • @akapeeks
    @akapeeks 8 місяців тому

    I really needed this. Thank you.

  • @Sonnen_Licht
    @Sonnen_Licht 8 місяців тому

    Thanks for the tips. I hope it’s useful to others. I just don’t have the energy to follow through the steps, or so my limiting beliefs are telling me 😂

  • @GladizCass
    @GladizCass 8 місяців тому

    Thank you, I needed this

  • @georgekataoka605
    @georgekataoka605 8 місяців тому +1

    Anna, I am also Japanese

  • @kennypham3856
    @kennypham3856 8 місяців тому

    The Paris Hilton voice the pinked shirt Anna does is hilarious!

  • @kristie8413
    @kristie8413 8 місяців тому

    Thank you very much for this.

  • @sophiag4368
    @sophiag4368 8 місяців тому

    How is this so relevant to me rn:’( I’m gathering the courage to job search so o can finally leave this soul-sucking job I’ve overstayed at😭

  • @lookaroundbae
    @lookaroundbae 8 місяців тому

    ur the absolute best, love your content

  • @intrinsicload
    @intrinsicload 8 місяців тому

    Step 1) Identify the limiting belief and create a new, empowering one.
    Step 2) Imagine the futures of each respective belief to see what serves you and what doesn't.
    Step 3) Take action from the new empowered belief until you have the evidence to support it and your brain is rewired.

  • @vintonreid3015
    @vintonreid3015 8 місяців тому

    Anna, you have earned my like.

  • @highflyersinternational8860
    @highflyersinternational8860 8 місяців тому

    I love you!!! 💛💛💛💛 Thanks!!!

  • @shemarlosscott2656
    @shemarlosscott2656 8 місяців тому +2

    I've Been Healthy for Years and im always have camera around my House

  • @_PEZZYHL_
    @_PEZZYHL_ 8 місяців тому

    -THE ALARM.😹😹😹🙌🏾🙏🏾-

  • @MillyIncorporation
    @MillyIncorporation 8 місяців тому

    "I'm Becca Akana" 😭

  • @usaintltrade
    @usaintltrade 8 місяців тому +4

    💍

  • @tingyi5482
    @tingyi5482 8 місяців тому +4

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @itsdeonlol
    @itsdeonlol 8 місяців тому

    Anna with the W advice!!!

  • @Maegnas99
    @Maegnas99 8 місяців тому

    *saitama taking notes furiously* "breaking....limiting...belief.."

  • @168mooncakes
    @168mooncakes 8 місяців тому

    "Adios Bitchacho"!!! 😂😅

  • @lina5699
    @lina5699 8 місяців тому

    This is amazing. ❤❤❤

  • @pyeitme508
    @pyeitme508 8 місяців тому +1

    RAD!

  • @Xero1of1
    @Xero1of1 8 місяців тому

    1:36 Okay... the voice is killing me right now, lmao... It's like Jennifer Coolidge meets Anime girl meets valley girl... I will try to get through the rest of this without laughing my a$$ off... XD

  • @kimmurphy1683
    @kimmurphy1683 3 місяці тому

    Well, you're the success and we're not. Can we all be as talented, smart and beautiful as you? Clearly not. So what is an average person in every way supposed to do? Feeling good about ourselves is one thing. Being able to perform at your level seems to me something else. It's quantifiable and genetic, immutable. Not just feelings, imo. Best.

  • @xirasolis
    @xirasolis Місяць тому

    I should tell my inner voice to sound like this 😂

  • @ConanDuke
    @ConanDuke Місяць тому

    Legit jealous of M. Perry RN.

  • @XMissCupCakejeee
    @XMissCupCakejeee 8 місяців тому

    5:08 Anna keeps going back to read the script squarespace gave her🤣

  • @melissalai8173
    @melissalai8173 8 місяців тому

    😭🤣🤣 the thought exercise got me ahhh

  • @clarak4052
    @clarak4052 8 місяців тому

    Hey i love your videos! Kisses from Brazil

  • @MarieTMa
    @MarieTMa 8 місяців тому +1

    Sassy Anna is giving advice hahaha

  • @bricklay
    @bricklay 8 місяців тому

    Hey Anna. I wonder if you have cross referenced this CBT work with Presence process by Michael brown or Trauma work with Gabor mate. This only scratches the surface.

  • @beyondtherhetoric
    @beyondtherhetoric 8 місяців тому

    Her: What does your life look like if you truly believe "I deserve good things" five years from now? Ten years from now?
    Me: Like I'm really disappointed I didn't get the things I thought I deserved?
    Her: No, not like that.

  • @EleNichols
    @EleNichols 8 місяців тому

    Becca is just every goth I'm friends with. We could chill.

  • @HunterRed
    @HunterRed 8 місяців тому

    “I deserve good things!”
    “I don’t know what those good things are.”
    “Imagine what those good things are.”
    “I have no remote idea outside of comparing myself to others.”
    “Ick.”

    • @ringinn7880
      @ringinn7880 8 місяців тому

      Try one of these see if they work.
      • I can make positive changes in the world
      • I create good things
      • I am worthy of love
      • Who ever holds this hammer shall wield the power of Thor
      • I am the hero of my own story
      • What I do is worthwhile.

  • @veganjotaro
    @veganjotaro 8 місяців тому

    "¡Adiós bichacho!" LMAO

  • @Alexcutspie
    @Alexcutspie 8 місяців тому

    The thumbnail vibe feels different but I can’t put my finger on it

  • @zeruszephuros5419
    @zeruszephuros5419 8 місяців тому

    Still not even sure what I want / final short term goals....

  • @walkingexistentialdread8520
    @walkingexistentialdread8520 4 місяці тому

    Slayyy ✨✨✨

  • @noefc
    @noefc 8 місяців тому

    Can I ask or ask again whenever you show up on the only Internet I know?

  • @StelaMaximel
    @StelaMaximel 6 місяців тому

    Awesome😂🙌

  • @nademoooo
    @nademoooo 8 місяців тому

    للناطقين بالعربية اللي مرّوا من هنا
    أولاً إحنا نعالج المرض نفسه. يمكن نطبطب على الأعراض ونضع لها كمّادات، لكن ندري ان الحل في معالجة المرض.
    فإنت ماتعالج مانتج عن معتقداتك، بل تعالج المعتقد نفسه.

  • @bkbland1626
    @bkbland1626 8 місяців тому

    I like to say that I ignore "beliefs". I want data. Ymmv

  • @riku7243
    @riku7243 8 місяців тому

    I dunno, Becca seems like a pretty cool friend to me

  • @hernrypalacios2219
    @hernrypalacios2219 8 місяців тому

    Becca is a terrible person... I'm just kidding. That performance deserved an Oscar, Anna 👨‍⚖️

  • @josephgirard9209
    @josephgirard9209 8 місяців тому

    What's up with the cat?

  • @shameysedai898
    @shameysedai898 8 місяців тому

    Why do I kind of love Becca though 😈

  • @marinaalmeida6693
    @marinaalmeida6693 8 місяців тому

  • @wisdomandy9361
    @wisdomandy9361 8 місяців тому +3

    Be careful with this. Thinking you deserve something you don't will only pave the path of bitterness and resentment. Reminds me of feminist propaganda and "manifesting". Self awareness is incredibly important but easy to ignore when you outsource your validation or happiness to and from others.

  • @karagaw-yy9no
    @karagaw-yy9no 7 місяців тому

    Okay, for some reason I just want to know more about Becca.

  • @Quartermistress
    @Quartermistress 8 місяців тому

    Is it bad I want Becca to be my bestie now.

  • @RosalynCharles-g1v
    @RosalynCharles-g1v 7 місяців тому

    Helpful and funny 🥲🥰 thank you! Helping me with my stressy and depressy moments right now.

  • @hallohellokonnichiwa2384
    @hallohellokonnichiwa2384 8 місяців тому +354

    The accent is everything, I couldn't imagine that I could feel so empowered and knowledgeable from hearing things said like that 😂

    • @theghettogentleman
      @theghettogentleman 6 місяців тому

      I’m so torn. I’m here really taking in the information yet also want to throw things 🤣🤣🤣

  • @sunny.jasmin
    @sunny.jasmin 8 місяців тому +43

    Anna is a bestie everyone needs ♥ This is a good reminder for us to DREAM BIG. If your dreams don't make you feel uncomfortable, dream BIGGER! You got this. You are strong. You are worthy. You deserve good things ♥

  • @Rachel-ro8vo
    @Rachel-ro8vo 8 місяців тому +22

    Follow you since the beginning Anna! Being a teenager and now young adult youre big positive influence!
    Thank you ❤🎉

  • @willilucker5335
    @willilucker5335 8 місяців тому +17

    NGL, no matter how self explanatory stuff like this seems, my cynical brain is always humbled by how it helps to hear these things out loud at the right time (like getting shafted by employer rejections funnily enough)
    Thanks Anna

  • @dinahashem5141
    @dinahashem5141 8 місяців тому +12

    What could be an empowering belief to "I'm not intelligent enough"

    • @sunny.jasmin
      @sunny.jasmin 8 місяців тому +12

      Once you identify your limiting belief, it's also important to understand why you have this limiting belief in the first place. I would imagine you were fed information at a young age that you need to be intelligent to be worthy; worthy of speaking your mind, worthy of helping others, worthy of being loved, etc. I think it would be helpful to create new empowering beliefs like, "I am wise enough to learn from my mistakes. I'm always growing and that is all that matters. I don't need to prove my worthiness with my intelligence. I am worthy just as I am." Reprogramming your subconscious mind is a rocky journey but as long as you keep going, you will find the light within you and become the person you were always meant to be. You got this.

    • @samarakaye2573
      @samarakaye2573 8 місяців тому +6

      It could be, "I am skilled at learning whatever is more interesting to me." Or it could be anything that is more personal to you.

    • @augustkat9875
      @augustkat9875 5 місяців тому +2

      I am a good learner or I can learn anything I set my mind too

  • @Dragonmoon8526
    @Dragonmoon8526 8 місяців тому +18

    Highlight of me week. Learning about mental health is so much fun on this channel.

  • @sindieltaylor2147
    @sindieltaylor2147 8 місяців тому +20

    Okay, but what if I don't *want* to break my limitations, Anna? What if I'm perfectly comfortable with my limitations just the way they are? God, you're not my mother. 🙄

    • @sindieltaylor2147
      @sindieltaylor2147 8 місяців тому +6

      And before someone hits me with Scorpion's fatality: yes, this is a joke.

    • @-KORAL_ZERO
      @-KORAL_ZERO 8 місяців тому +3

      @@sindieltaylor2147yknow someone is still gonna ignore the reply right 😂

  • @Celine_says
    @Celine_says 8 місяців тому +7

    a free therapy session. thanks! ♥️

  • @davidcrowther9504
    @davidcrowther9504 8 місяців тому +30

    I have to admit that I wish that I had all of Anna's advice when I was growing up. They should honestly teach Anna in school. The world would be so much better with Anna in their lives.

  • @Laurenaissance22
    @Laurenaissance22 8 місяців тому +3

    How can I get like pink sweater bestie❤

  • @artistlovepeace
    @artistlovepeace 8 місяців тому +4

    You are a genius. Thank you for producing and sharing.

  • @AdvancedBeing
    @AdvancedBeing 8 місяців тому +2

    Your future horrible vision of yourself is my current reality