If you have Abandonment Issues, this is THE CURE
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- Abandonment Issues! The core wound of abandonment or core fear of abandonment is an issue that affects many people all around the world.
We're born into a world where we feel vulnerable and isolated. We're dependent upon our caregivers for survival AND we interpret early experiences through the sort of warped viewpoint of an egocentric and often afraid child.
When all of these things are put together, it's very common to end up with a deep-rooted fear of abandonment - usually linked to feelings of unworthiness. In this video we discuss where this fear comes from, and what we can do about it!
My issue with abandonment issues as a man is that men are the only ones loved conditionally. If we cant provide and protect, we’re not worthy to be loved. And if we’re not worthy to be loved, then we’re abandoned.
wow i really needed this, my girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago after 1 year of relationship and my greatest fear was being abandoned by her, now i honestly just wanna start being independent and end this cycle of being emotionally attached to people. It’s hard especially being depressed and anxious, but eventually i know this is the event that i needed to realise how much my life is controlled by my attachment style… im seriously tired and exhausted, i need a change.
Having gone through almost that exact experience, I can say that I'm now incredibly grateful for my own crushing breakup, despite all the pain I went through.
It's definitely challenging, but I think that you'll end up in a much better place once you work your way through things!
@@andrewvanhoff thank you so much for your reply 💜🙏🏻 im sure im going to be the best version of myself after this breakup… im starting to heal now that its been almost a month.
This is pretty much how my life has been for years. Thanks Andrew