This was a brilliant video on people pleasing. I really paused and said "hmm," when you said "I have to control the external, because I cannot control the internal." There is so much potency and truth and relevance and power in that statement. Thank you for articulating an urge so many of us have so coherently.
@@andrewvanhoff I'm from Canada. What is your advice? Same here being bullied, mobbed, gaslighting, harassed at the hospital for over 14 years. I've happened to be the top worker for 38 years and have never been suspended. These bullies are jealous and miserable people. Union, manager, HR and the police are all totally useless. Bullies are lazy bums and stupid managers are scared of the bullies. They say about me I'm crazy, I drink, I'm a stalker all bs defamation of character. The biggest mistake since they removed disciplinary measures. 95% are very messed up people including managers, nurses and doctors too. They should arrest the bullies and fire the manager. Action speaks louder than nasty words. It destroyed my reputation. I will never quit to make these lazy bums ever win. If I decide to transfer to another hospital and may start bullying me once again, I don't know all the new managers etc. like in every department like now. So best to not change hospitals. I will never let bullies try to control me from quitting. Never let these low life lazy bums ever win.
This was a brilliant video on people pleasing. I really paused and said "hmm," when you said "I have to control the external, because I cannot control the internal." There is so much potency and truth and relevance and power in that statement. Thank you for articulating an urge so many of us have so coherently.
My pleasure! Glad to hear it resonated with you!
@@andrewvanhoff
I'm from Canada. What is your advice? Same here being bullied, mobbed, gaslighting, harassed at the hospital for over 14 years. I've happened to be the top worker for 38 years and have never been suspended. These bullies are jealous and miserable people. Union, manager, HR and the police are all totally useless. Bullies are lazy bums and stupid managers are scared of the bullies. They say about me I'm crazy, I drink, I'm a stalker all bs defamation of character. The biggest mistake since they removed disciplinary measures. 95% are very messed up people including managers, nurses and doctors too. They should arrest the bullies and fire the manager. Action speaks louder than nasty words. It destroyed my reputation. I will never quit to make these lazy bums ever win. If I decide to transfer to another hospital and may start bullying me once again, I don't know all the new managers etc. like in every department like now. So best to not change hospitals. I will never let bullies try to control me from quitting. Never let these low life lazy bums ever win.
Brother i have seen your vedio of letting go that help me a lot you are amazing keep it up❤❤
Thank you for sharing 🙏