What is a WIFE'S ROLE in MARRIAGE | CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE ADVICE

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  • In this video, we look at the wife's role in marriage. There are 5 important things that you need to have in order to be a great wife and have a healthy marriage that will last.
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    In this video, I answer the following question:
    What is the wife's role in marriage?
    If you are looking for Christian marriage advice or counseling then you need to watch the full video where we look at what the bible says about marriage. The woman's role in marriage is very important and you need to understand it in light of the bible. There are too many divorces today because most men and women do not know their roles in the marriage. Marriage is not easy and it will take some work to be one of the best experiences in your life.
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  • @k.rebeccaouldlebziouia5193
    @k.rebeccaouldlebziouia5193 3 роки тому +134

    I am a reborn Christian and my ex boyfriend left me because I have chosen to live in a holy way and leave behind me all my old sins and my old self. Please pray for me that the Lord will send me a Godly husband who loves Jesus more than anyone else. 🙏thank you

    • @Idkjustyet
      @Idkjustyet Рік тому +11

      I’ll pray that u draw closer to God instead ❤

    • @elianasamuel6050
      @elianasamuel6050 Рік тому +6

      God Is good! You made a good decision

    • @k.rebeccaouldlebziouia5193
      @k.rebeccaouldlebziouia5193 Рік тому +13

      @@Idkjustyet I had forgotten about this comment. Thank you for your prayers ❤. The Lord has drawn me closer to Himself.
      And He has blessed me with a Godly, mature Christian husband. ❤️

    • @k.rebeccaouldlebziouia5193
      @k.rebeccaouldlebziouia5193 Рік тому +7

      @@elianasamuel6050 Thank you for your prayers ❤. The Lord has drawn me closer to Himself.
      And He has blessed me with a Godly, mature Christian husband. ❤️

    • @katannahypercorechristian3786
      @katannahypercorechristian3786 Рік тому

      Well, no matter if you do or dont get a new Husband. It's all part to God's purpose, trust God your Father, and he will give you the things you need, and the things of your Heart as long as you remain Faithful and Pure to the LORD. Jesus loves you, and he's with you to help you overcome and become stronger in Him. 💗❤️

  • @miaostigny453
    @miaostigny453 4 роки тому +965

    I’m only 14 but better too early than too late right

  • @malkiaroberts1571
    @malkiaroberts1571 3 роки тому +138

    I'm praying to meet my husband. A born again Christian, who'll bring out nothing but the best in me, and who I'll be happy to be his wife and the mother to his kids. It's been a long wait. Pray for me 🙏🏽

    • @bethrosa9047
      @bethrosa9047 2 роки тому +1

      Hi Malkia, God will paved the way for your husband.

  • @toytle3983
    @toytle3983 4 роки тому +484

    I'm not even married but i just want to know before i even really get into the dating field, Ya know?

    • @Javed_William28
      @Javed_William28 4 роки тому +2

      Hi Emilee
      How are you doing

    • @Javed_William28
      @Javed_William28 4 роки тому +1

      @Jeaneane P hi

    • @aandz6194
      @aandz6194 4 роки тому +8

      Bro I think you should not get into dating field rather you should discuss the GOSPEL and ETERNAL LIFE with your friends or with any one else as much as possible......
      And finally you will know who is going to be your wife......
      We will choose wife not by ourselves but our FATHER JESUS CHRIST will do that for us......
      JESUS created Eve for Adam.....the same way our eve already created but the right time GOD will introduce her.....
      .................
      We can't say.......ok I am in the age of getting marriage, now I wanna find myself and dating with her to get married.......
      Rather we discuss more about ETERNAL LIFE with any girl as much as possible......
      Because devil is clever and danger. If we trust our minds for a second than devil will work out that way and the dating will convert to premerital sex.....
      So we should be so smart enough to maintain our holiness though JESUS CHRIST and THE HOLY SPIRIT.
      .....................
      I appreciated your thought.
      JESUS LOVES you.
      I love you.

    • @kiethmergard
      @kiethmergard 4 роки тому +8

      @@aandz6194 You are approaching this with a good heart, but Christians can and should date. It is possible to date someone without premarital sex entering the equation.
      I have been a Christian for a while and have realized the temptation that comes for having sex while dating.
      The way I avoid this temptation is by NEVER being in a situation where I'm totally alone with a woman. Temptation comes during perceived secrecy for me. That means No female is allowed in my home except family and I will never walk into an unmarried womans home alone.
      I do not allow myself as a Christian man to be alone with a woman where secrecy could be perceived.
      This is also why males having female roommates is a very spiritually dangerous thing for both the man and woman.

    • @lauratempestini5719
      @lauratempestini5719 4 роки тому +1

      Look op Betrothal guys on you tube!!! So much better way then dating

  • @judyberends4586
    @judyberends4586 4 роки тому +154

    I was blessed to marry a wonderful man .We married at 19 out of High School .We grew up together & learned EVERYTHING together.We had one daughter almost 4 yrs.later.We were married 41 yrs. thru ups & down's ..illnesses .We loved each other so much. We were blessed with two grandson's .We helped raise them .They are Christain and we are blessed everyday. My husband passed 14 yrs.ago but he is in my heart still.He had two kidney diseases ,& passed at 60 .Thank you for sharing your beautiful messages from the word of God 🙏😇❤

    • @enlightenmental_
      @enlightenmental_ 3 роки тому +6

      Thank you for sharing your story. 🤗 bless you.

    • @feliciajohnson4540
      @feliciajohnson4540 2 роки тому

      God bless you ma.

    • @mihlegcayiyajesuschristdie5818
      @mihlegcayiyajesuschristdie5818 2 роки тому

      God be with you, your story is inspiring, may God bless as you

    • @gordanazakula5669
      @gordanazakula5669 2 роки тому +1

      You're dynamic!!! You use your charismatic gift of preaching, to God's glory. Very appealing to young people!!! Many are going to be saved!!!

    • @coharde1
      @coharde1 Рік тому

      What a beautiful story! I love hearing this! God bless!

  • @riyariniriyarini5226
    @riyariniriyarini5226 4 роки тому +304

    My husband is a non believer but I trust God I face every day problems please pray for us

    • @suzyhelmy718
      @suzyhelmy718 4 роки тому +19

      May God our mighty Lord help you and save your souls in Jesus name

    • @gobindar2928
      @gobindar2928 4 роки тому +3

      Same

    • @melaniereimer8571
      @melaniereimer8571 4 роки тому +2

      Could you please send your first name so I can't pray for you? 😊

    • @matthewt.8785
      @matthewt.8785 4 роки тому +4

      @@melaniereimer8571 *can, right?

    • @melaniereimer8571
      @melaniereimer8571 4 роки тому +2

      @@matthewt.8785 Oh that's what I meant! Thank you for the correction 😊

  • @paintedleah
    @paintedleah 4 роки тому +506

    I have made so many mistakes in my path with God.
    I almost gave up on my marriage years ago.
    My husband and I split up .
    We were screaming and yelling at one another and I hated him .
    He and I had a huge fight and as he walked away he screamed I been pushing you away because I have CANCER .
    I followed him outside and I said come home .
    He said I can not do this to you.
    But, he came home and 10 years he is Cancer Free.
    We turned and focused on Gods word .
    I still make mistakes.
    I do try though.
    And , I make sure I talk to God .
    I have let myself Go but thankfully he loves me .
    I do dress up and I do not look as I used to for sure .
    But, I love him as he is and he loves me too .

    • @blindmouse7796
      @blindmouse7796 4 роки тому +16

      Honest Abe you don’t need to dress up for him to stick around. Just be emotionally there and he will be too.

    • @dr.dermixgirlmd7479
      @dr.dermixgirlmd7479 4 роки тому +9

      Amen, God can open doors that no man can shut!

    • @blindmouse7796
      @blindmouse7796 4 роки тому

      Dr Dermix Girl like?

    • @HeidiGolff
      @HeidiGolff 4 роки тому +8

      Good for you, dressing up for your husband. Keep on keeping on!

    • @AbiNomac
      @AbiNomac 4 роки тому +5

      What a story! So glad it worked in the end.

  • @stevethibodeaux1311
    @stevethibodeaux1311 4 роки тому +32

    I married an unbeliever because of my impatience “sin”. Now I am spiritually single and constantly exposed to the sinful lure. It’s so much warfare. Don’t make my mistake pray and be patient it’s very lonely when you walk outside of Gods will.

    • @markmarku8169
      @markmarku8169 3 роки тому

      So you are still married to an unbelieving wife?

    • @stevethibodeaux1311
      @stevethibodeaux1311 3 роки тому

      I am not anymore

    • @BansheeKing22
      @BansheeKing22 2 роки тому

      I'm not waiting forever for something that will never happen. I'm 30 and since it never happened I gave up on the idea of ever getting married. Besides I'm no virgin so I have no business getting married.

    • @kristenrenken4931
      @kristenrenken4931 Місяць тому

      And painful 😢. I try to focus on praying for the unbeliever …although I deserve utter misery from my choices…the Lord continues to use it for good .

  • @The_Joyful_Homemaker
    @The_Joyful_Homemaker 2 роки тому +24

    Thank you so much for making this☺️ I am a 20 year old woman, my wedding day is 18 days away. In todays society no one talks about what it means to be a wife anymore, I was looking for guidance and am so glad I found this. Thank you

  • @bathshebabagalkot8015
    @bathshebabagalkot8015 4 роки тому +452

    1) respect your husband
    2) do not over criticise
    3) discreet = careful in words and in action
    4) pure = no relationships outside the marriage, dress properly and decently
    5) support your husband in everything
    6) submit yourselves to your husband. ..even though both of you are equal in the eyes of the lord.
    7) focus on inner beauty = gentleness , quiet spirit , self control ...
    8) make effort to look good to yourself and your husband alone ; because there is temptation everywhere which can take your away husband from you .
    9) it is your marital duty to fulfil his husband's sexual desire (it's both yours and your husband's duty )
    Most of the divorce cases are because of ' cheating' ...so..you know...
    10) maintain peace at home so that you and your family lives in peace ...

    • @DrAryaSuresh
      @DrAryaSuresh 4 роки тому +14

      Thank you so much

    • @carolinekeli1088
      @carolinekeli1088 4 роки тому +9

      I have noted something here, thanks..

    • @CircleWedge
      @CircleWedge 4 роки тому +68

      10) Put God first in your marriage so you may have peace.

    • @abameztv359
      @abameztv359 4 роки тому +5

      you are perfectly right, i spoke about what u just commented recently on my channel. abamez tv please like and subscribe, if you found the video truthful

    • @gracereece2097
      @gracereece2097 4 роки тому +76

      I somewhat disagree with #9, and here's why... While sex is an important part of the marriage relationship, and certainly it is both the wife and the husbands responsibility to "please each other" (for lack of a better term), it is NOT the wife's responsibility to keep the husband faithful, nor vice-versa. It is each person's responsibility to be faithful to each other "for better or for worse". I know several couples where one of them is physically unable to have sex often or even at all, and they are faithful to each other because that is exactly what they signed up for.

  • @samuelsegovia897
    @samuelsegovia897 4 роки тому +277

    I don't speak English, but I'm learning with you( and I'm Christian 😀)

    • @DLMChristianLifestyle
      @DLMChristianLifestyle  4 роки тому +44

      That is great to hear Samuel!

    • @keh-dalia809
      @keh-dalia809 4 роки тому +3

      😊😊😁👍

    • @kataikapriscillar9040
      @kataikapriscillar9040 4 роки тому +4

      Hello brother thanks for your message i agree with you everything about marriage accept make up,is ungodly

    • @mindavalle9893
      @mindavalle9893 4 роки тому +2

      Thank u for the word of wisdom.Do you have also for a husband.

    • @rev.h.s.rapthap5555
      @rev.h.s.rapthap5555 4 роки тому +1

      Did u know that God still loves u? Some people today says " why is God letting us suffer from this corona virus?". We should not think that God leaves us to suffer from this corona virus, he still loves u.

  • @TT67X
    @TT67X 4 роки тому +31

    My husband is not a born again Christian, I pray for his salvation and protection always 🙏🏻 I cling to this bible verse and try to obey - Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behaviour of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. Thanks for your videos Daniel 🙏🏻

  • @trenarobitaille5795
    @trenarobitaille5795 Рік тому +13

    It's very very hard being married to an unbeliever and I truly feel I married the wrong person. I've wanted to leave so many times and still do. But God has spoken to me "stay and work on it" I just don't know how. I've been praying for help and guidence in my marriage and I'm still waiting. I pray a breakthrough will happen soon. Please pray for me and my Marriage! Thank you

    • @plootobaby
      @plootobaby 7 місяців тому

      any updates ??

    • @ZAmerica
      @ZAmerica 6 місяців тому +2

      I feel the same way. Pray about it without ceasing. Pray for God to reveal to you how. Many around me think I’m with the wrong person because he is younger than me, he lost his job, he has a past, and they think he’s not the one for me. I know his heart. He has God in his heart but needs guidance. Is it right for me to leave the poor (in spirit) and go after someone who already is walking in God’s way and is saved? And I pray about this because I hear a voice in my heart that says, would I go after the 99 and leave the one or do I go after the one who’s lost and leave the 99? I feel this way. That He’d want me to minister to him and him being willing, we can achieve it. It’s so easy to desperately want better and seek self (my peace, my desires)…but Jesus is selfless and sacrificial and did everything in love. So how do we lead? By being an example or try our best to renew our minds daily and try to be as Christ reflective with our walk, talk so they see we are different, and want to know more of our God who makes is whole. Encourage prayer, grace, praise, and bible reading together. I understand how you feel because I feel the enemy is attacking us so I leave him but I know God is saying, don’t. Stick it through and lead him to me. He who denies himself will see the kingdom of God. He who lends to the poor (this is not necessarily material…poor in spirit too). With a calm spirit (who’s God) lead. He will transform. Don’t lose faith and PRAY PRAY PRAY already thanking God for working in his heart. Thank Him that it’s already done. He is God’s and believe it. Peter tried to influence Jesus to seek self and run away but had He done that, we would not have been saved by the sacrifice of His pure blood. And Jesus said “behind me Satan” because He discerned it want Peter speaking but the devil with a hidden plan to destroy purpose. So be vigilant. People that mean well could be lead by Satan without knowing his plan to destroy your purpose. Maybe he will minister others by his testimony. Your testimony together may encourage many others into Christ. Pray and believe. Pray and ask God for divine wisdom. He who gives abundantly.

    • @trenarobitaille5795
      @trenarobitaille5795 6 місяців тому +1

      @@ZAmerica thank you for your words and encouragement. Reading what you wrote gave me a different way to look at things and you may be right, I may be the one needed to bring him to christ. God bless you and Thank you again!!

    • @faithsinternationaldelicio2774
      @faithsinternationaldelicio2774 5 місяців тому

      Have you tried fasting??

    • @trenarobitaille5795
      @trenarobitaille5795 5 місяців тому

      @@faithsinternationaldelicio2774 no I haven't actually, not sure how to do it safely being diabetic..

  • @xochitlgarcia6641
    @xochitlgarcia6641 3 роки тому +66

    I feel so convicted because I struggle so much on respecting my husband and i know these verses but it's hard for me to practice it but I love this! Such a great reminder on what I'm not suppose to be doing! Thank you! I pray that God can change my heart and change this about me!

    • @prasenjeetupadhyaya6762
      @prasenjeetupadhyaya6762 2 роки тому +1

      You are so sweet plz reply me

    • @mihlegcayiyajesuschristdie5818
      @mihlegcayiyajesuschristdie5818 2 роки тому +4

      Pray for God to help you with those struggle,if you believe in him your prayers are already answered

    • @gildagudusvanwyk737
      @gildagudusvanwyk737 2 роки тому +4

      How are you doing now? I pray you are guys are well

    • @adammw1646
      @adammw1646 2 роки тому +2

      Im happy u acknowledged your weakness and God will help be strong and perform as your heartt desire

    • @xochitlgarcia6641
      @xochitlgarcia6641 2 роки тому +2

      @@gildagudusvanwyk737 we are good :) thank God and thanks everyone for taking the time to reply

  • @Iworkwithnitwits
    @Iworkwithnitwits 4 роки тому +64

    My late mother was the perfect Proverbs 31 wife. She was amazing.

    • @kerenstar13
      @kerenstar13 3 роки тому +1

      What was your mother like?

    • @Iworkwithnitwits
      @Iworkwithnitwits 3 роки тому +2

      @@kerenstar13 She was the most wonderful human being. She put everyone ahead of herself. You just made me cry.

    • @kerenstar13
      @kerenstar13 3 роки тому +3

      @@Iworkwithnitwits Your mother truly was the perfect Proverbs 31 wife, and mother. I imagine how lovely your family is because of her kind and giving heart. She is always with you ❤️

    • @Iworkwithnitwits
      @Iworkwithnitwits 3 роки тому +3

      @@kerenstar13 I was so blessed to have her.

    • @kerenstar13
      @kerenstar13 3 роки тому +2

      @@Iworkwithnitwits Yes, you are truly blessed to have had a mother like her 🌻

  • @thirsty_dog_4_god484
    @thirsty_dog_4_god484 4 роки тому +12

    Men are tough but also sensitive. When I support my husband and focus on the positive, he is happy and feels good about him self. He shines more which means I will shine more. My marriage prospers because we both put God first, but, also we know we do better when we serve each other. Marriage cannot be about the self, it is self sacrificing that brings joy and peace. My husband serves me and I serve my husband. This has strengthen our marriage in so many ways. We don't have issues or fights.

  • @elfiemaetv8282
    @elfiemaetv8282 4 роки тому +71

    I like this I'm not married yet and I learned now the role of a wife ❤️

    • @mj7335
      @mj7335 3 роки тому

      Read: Laura Doyle
      First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors and then put it into
      practice.

  • @InvictumLupus
    @InvictumLupus 4 роки тому +86

    I had it so wrong. I fought hard to not respect marriage. I almost went down a wrong path (feminism). I treated my first husband horribly when I realized we were not equally yoked. I left him because he wanted me to stop chasing after God. I'm now in my forties and now find myself giving advice to younger women who complain about their marriage. I teach them from a Biblical perspective how they should act towards their husband. I feel the need to correct my wrongs by helping others.

    • @mr.random4292
      @mr.random4292 4 роки тому +17

      Feminism is believing that men and women are equal. Its not a wrong path

    • @isabellev3148
      @isabellev3148 4 роки тому +2

      @@mr.random4292 Exactly, feminism is not the wrong path at all. Maybe it was something else that was the problem instead.

    • @paulunatx
      @paulunatx 4 роки тому +13

      Men and women are equal in the eyes of God but have different roles. God loves each and every one of us but he gives us instruction on how to live so we can be happy and have peace until we are able to meet our creator in Heaven. If I’m correct I think she meant the form of third wave feminism that we see today that can cross a line of being toxic and wanting to be superior to men and or emasculating men. God created men and women and all his creation is perfect. In the Bible it says wives honor (respect) your husband and husbands love their wives. God says that because men and women have different needs that fulfill them. If you ask a woman what they want from their husbands a big part of it is for him to love on her with actions, communication, care for her, a bouquet of roses. If you ask a man what they want most from their wives is that they want a wife who respects them, let’s them lead his home even if he fails but allowing him to learn from his mistakes, a man cannot learn from his mistakes if his wife wants to take control of the home in everything. He wants words of affirmation, to respect him in private and in public. Hope this helps. God bless you all.

  • @ShaiShy_
    @ShaiShy_ 3 роки тому +6

    I'm turning 25, never had a boyfriend. I pray to God for a Godly man , I believe everything will just follow when the man is Godly. At this season of my life I'm learning a lot of things, Can't b more grateful enough for this chance . God really knows the desire of my heart, I don't thnk I'll be ready yet if God gave me the guy I've been praying for at this stage..Willing to wait.

  • @dolcesinclair8455
    @dolcesinclair8455 4 роки тому +23

    Working on me until the time comes🙏...

  • @humblednature9593
    @humblednature9593 3 роки тому +8

    Absolutely agree. If we see that a man has his best intentions for us it’s easier to submit to him. Similarly it’s easier for the church to submit to God when we fully understand His love and pure intentions for is

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      @bko5489 3 роки тому

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  • @TheVoice201
    @TheVoice201 3 роки тому +9

    My husband believes in so many things, he knows there’s a higher power an I do my best as a daughter of God to talk to him. I’m dealing with so many spiritual battles an so many battles within my marriage. Would you please keep me in prayer? 🙏🏻

  • @graceyyj
    @graceyyj 3 роки тому +6

    I was once lost and in doubt but my boyfriend guided me to know more about God. I thank God that He gave me my boyfriend (soon to be husband by God's grace) who did not give up on me and I believe that is God's grace, all His . Pray for our marriage journey. Thanks and God bless us everyone. God is with us!

  • @Laliswe77
    @Laliswe77 4 роки тому +42

    Hi I just started reading the Bible, and I really like the fact that you’re talking about God, Jesus Christ and showing us the word of God in the Bible as well, I am new to your chanel and I truly like it a lot may God Almighty bless you and yours🤗thank you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Carolbaby007
    @Carolbaby007 4 роки тому +110

    WOW! It's absolutely filling my heart with hope to see a young man in today's world that is Fully mature and so wise. Thank you for sharing God's word in such a big way . I pray God will continue to bless you and your wife and your ministry in Jesus's Name!.i needed this message to encourage me to behave better towards my wonderful, kind husband not to allow my mood or hormones to cause yelling and complaining . I'm sure I'm not the only one 🤔😁

    • @caroltinashe9940
      @caroltinashe9940 3 роки тому +1

      Lol you are not the only one😂 I laughed so hard reading your comment because what you wrote was exactly on my mind too

    • @Carolbaby007
      @Carolbaby007 3 роки тому

      @@caroltinashe9940 😂

  • @itsmevee2724
    @itsmevee2724 2 роки тому +4

    I'm still a teenager tho it's still good to watch this, cause if I want a Godly man I also need to be a Godly woman first. I'll trust God cause he knows what's the best for each and everyone of us🙏🏼❤

  • @hammiessandwich7447
    @hammiessandwich7447 2 роки тому +4

    I have been with my best friend 18 years.
    I didn't have confidence as a young girl.
    But the lord has blessed me with a good man and I do think it is so important to be loyal and faithful to him because the lord has given him to me for a husband and best friend.
    So to obey my husband lovingly to me is to thank God and obey God first by being his wife.
    That's lovley ten years
    I am blessed with three young boys always on my toes 🤣
    Honestly we have had hard times we are not perfect but happy together we met young and didn't start that way but we have grown together.
    My husband got saved last year too.
    God is so good.

  • @angiesmixy2349
    @angiesmixy2349 3 роки тому +3

    I've been married for 13 years ..I needed to hear this,forgive me Lord for complancey.
    My Husband is a wonderful Christian man,
    I am blessed.

  • @kinilikini2265
    @kinilikini2265 4 роки тому +14

    I am not a married and i am waiting for a good husband on God's will

  • @feliciasherbert989
    @feliciasherbert989 3 роки тому +17

    After five years of marriage i found out the one thing that makes marriage difficult is financial struggle, its not like my husband and i aren’t making money it’s just we barely have time for each other and there’s no amusement or new event it’s just work and the kids and that was fine but i wanted more..then i heard of a financial advisor on the radio who basically makes money for me and right now i have close to 100grand with her in my portfolio. now we pay for our vacation without breaking a sweat or losing sleep

    • @katelynrenesse4798
      @katelynrenesse4798 3 роки тому

      i was literally just worried about the exact same thing. may i know your FA please it’s urgent?

    • @morindavis7756
      @morindavis7756 3 роки тому

      thanks for this miss, you literally just saved my marriage !

    • @feliciasherbert989
      @feliciasherbert989 3 роки тому

      @@katelynrenesse4798 sure i get it hun. her name is Lucy Maria Koss, i googled her and reached out to her from her website. Goodluck with your wedding hun!

  • @margaretvaughan1381
    @margaretvaughan1381 3 роки тому +5

    Very good video with thanks. This of course is the perfect marriage of two minds! When men are cruel and hard towards their wives they are prone to suffer negative emotions. If fathers are not loving to their daughters, they're not raised in the art of a healthy relationship with their future husbands. Many broken-hearted women and men come into the Church untrusting of marriage. It takes time to heal and mature in Christ. We should always be understanding of that as faithful brothers and sisters. I am only saying this hoping to strengthen the Church's understanding of the broken-hearted.

  • @erbanyllasynnah103
    @erbanyllasynnah103 4 роки тому +50

    Amen.👍.We have been married for 10 years now.yes my husband is a man of God.Thank you Jesus.

  • @christysmith7558
    @christysmith7558 4 роки тому +7

    I agree 100%. You should love and respect eachother at all times, zero games. I, also, hate arguing and complaining. Your spouse should be your best friend and on your mind at all times. How is he/she feeling, what are their thoughts/feelings, needs, etc.

  • @latrecelockett4930
    @latrecelockett4930 3 роки тому +5

    I just married I am excited

  • @BluegrassRoze
    @BluegrassRoze 4 роки тому +50

    How refreshing the truth of "roles" is, in this day...

    • @user-qo4gy7br8l
      @user-qo4gy7br8l 3 роки тому

      ህመም የስሜቱ ክፍል ብቻ ነው ፡፡ በሁኔታው ተጨባጭ ሁኔታ የማይጸና የስነ-ልቦና ሽብር ፍፃሜው የማይቀር ነው ፡፡ ሥቃይና ጭንቀት በቅርቡ የማይታገሱ ይሆናሉ። በድርጊትዎ ምክንያት ቤተሰቦችዎ ደም ይፈስሳሉ። ለድርጊቶችዎ የዘላለም ሥቃይ ይሰማቸዋል

    • @jeanpaulgartier3404
      @jeanpaulgartier3404 3 роки тому

      @@user-qo4gy7br8l amazing

  • @tijojoseph3315
    @tijojoseph3315 4 роки тому +56

    As a Catholic, I wasn’t sure how you’d interpret the role of a wife in a Christian marriage, but I must say that I’m pleasantly surprised at how beautifully you’ve articulated this topic. May God bless you and your wife abundantly.

    • @tijojoseph3315
      @tijojoseph3315 4 роки тому +4

      Loved the Afrikaans bit as well. Haha ✌🏼

    • @DLMChristianLifestyle
      @DLMChristianLifestyle  4 роки тому +7

      Haha, thank you Tijo 🙂

    • @donna5370
      @donna5370 4 роки тому +41

      Catholic is not a true Christian. Roman Catholicism is full of idolatry and putting your trust in man made tradition rather than God and His Word. Read the Bible and you will find you have been deceived by the Catholic church. I tell you this because real love cares enough to tell the Truth to them even if that means they are rejected and hated for it. Don't believe everything you have been taught please test ALL things with the whole Word of God. Remember to call no one Holy Father than your Father in heaven. Remember God hates Idolatry but the Catholic church is full of idols and they use rosemary beads which are not even mentioned in God's Word. Faith in Christ alone saves us from the wrath of God to come. Not Mary, not rosemary beads, not the pope, not hail Mary prayers, not the saints, not tradition, not baby baptism, not prayer for the dead. The Bible tells us Christ alone is the mediator between man and God. Christ alone died for your sins. What can wash away my sin? Nothing but the blood of Jesus.

    • @alexvalencia3758
      @alexvalencia3758 4 роки тому +9

      @@donna5370 well said sister🙏. I love you and God bless you.❤

    • @donna5370
      @donna5370 4 роки тому +10

      @@alexvalencia3758 thankyou Alex I needed that reply. God bless you too my brother. Yes May the Lord help us to love and encourage one another as we warn the lost sinners that satan has trapped in multitude of sins slowly destroying their lives and lead them to the Truth in God's Word which can set them free. May God grant all His children the boldness to speak up in true love for our neighbours as ourselves and even to those who hate us may we love and bless them and never curse.

  • @nyna1911
    @nyna1911 4 роки тому +3

    Daniel, what should a wife do after realizing her husband had been cheating?
    I think you should make a video on that.
    Also, I'll love to know what to do to bring a husband closer to God.
    I do pray for him everyday, but I want him to always go put God and His words first.

  • @labellezaskitchen
    @labellezaskitchen 4 роки тому +8

    As I'm in my season of waiting, I have been praying and asking God to prepare me to be a wife🙏🌈 🌼💚💙💛❤

    • @kushemeraalice3655
      @kushemeraalice3655 4 роки тому

      Me too honey. May God prepare us well and give us wonderful husbands

  • @tendymlondobozi5985
    @tendymlondobozi5985 2 роки тому

    This video is even more perfect for ladies who are not wives yet.

  • @keh-dalia809
    @keh-dalia809 4 роки тому +17

    I feel like crying. I have worked very hard to be all these things, but most men nowadays, even so called Christian men I've met, don't value these things in a woman anymore and would rather have "free sex", which apparently is everywhere. These dark times hurt so much and I feel like giving up, even tho it's what I always dreamed of. I even can't find a real friend in a man or woman. I know I'd be a great partner and I'm a true friend, which I know is rare these days, but people only end up not valuing a good friend in horrible ways. BUT GOD, I'M GRATEFUL, SO GRATEFUL THAT I HAVE LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP FROM OUR WONDERFUL GOD AND JESUS AND THEIR HOLY SPIRIT! GREAT GREAT VIDEO TOO!!! 😊💜😭 THANKS!!!! KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK AND ENCOURAGEMENT IN THE LORD! GOD BLESS YOU! Love you brother in Christ❤️ and I'll keep praying for my husband🙏🙏🙏

    • @indigosky9578
      @indigosky9578 4 роки тому +3

      Natalie Rollins feeling your pain and despair. I’m struggling with similar experiences to you. Trust fully in God...He won’t ever let us down.

    • @rebornjk7896
      @rebornjk7896 4 роки тому +4

      Endurance and calling for the Grace of God to sustain u always . For He who started agood work will accomplish it dear. Be strong in the Lord and in His power

    • @user-mh5qv9kt4h
      @user-mh5qv9kt4h 4 роки тому +2

      Pray to God to give in your life godly people, people that love him and will love you❤

    • @BansheeKing22
      @BansheeKing22 2 роки тому

      Live in reality not in dreams. I had that same dream once to get married, I turned 30 and it didn't happen even though I knew from age 6 it would never happen I still stupidly held out hope. Once I hit 30 I closed that door, trashed that pointless dream and decided it wasn't worth it to spend my entire life wanting something that will never happen.

  • @kyisakyefaith7293
    @kyisakyefaith7293 3 роки тому +3

    Am happy for you dear brother in Christ i pray that God will bless me too with a Godly marriage in Jesus Name

  • @KJ-hu9cf
    @KJ-hu9cf 2 роки тому +2

    I was in search of answers to the question, what is a wife's role in marriage. I kept hearing about the proverbs woman.
    I am so very thankful to have come across your channel. You hit every single nail on the nose with this video. I feel brand-new. I desire to be that good wife and mother.
    First I have to stay away from anything that brainwashes me into believing that I don't need a husband and that submitting and being respectful to my husband is bad.
    You did an awesome job with this video.
    Thanks again!

  • @shalinikaushal9752
    @shalinikaushal9752 4 роки тому +2

    I m not married but this is very use full for me God is preparing me for someone special Amen

  • @louise5941
    @louise5941 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you this was lovely.
    I am getting married soon to my darling fiancé. I am so glad to be able to share my life with him and I pray I can be a good loving wife, a suitable helper, and we can have a Godly marriage... and that’s lots of beautiful fruit will grow.
    I love what you said about the main source of beauty coming from inside.
    And I am grateful to God for my upcoming marriage as I was praying for many years for this and I never thought I would meet a kind, Godly man like him
    🙌🙏🙌
    Xxx

  • @abovetheclouds-vlogs5879
    @abovetheclouds-vlogs5879 3 роки тому +4

    This is so true me and my husband has 9 children but wanting a few more and our key what we we do in keeping our marriage Godly is always keeping Christ first as our everything, we pray and worship together every night before we go to bed.

    • @kennethfok
      @kennethfok 3 роки тому +1

      How do you even have 9 children and still want a few more when others out there are swearing not to have anymore after having 1 or 2? And I assume you and your husband are quite intimate which is why you both have so many children? Sadly, although God created sex for us to enjoy with our spouse, there are many women who simply refuse to give their husband enough sex. Which is quite a shame that we are not enjoying the best gift that God has given to us in a marriage. I feel that when a woman gets married, she’s simply saying she loves her husband and is willingly giving all of herself for him, including the most intimate parts of her body. And she will do all it takes to satisfy his sexual desires. Any inputs on what I’ve said? I would love to know more.

  • @stevenfenster1798
    @stevenfenster1798 4 роки тому +6

    I think in modern times that each individual should do a lot of self-examination before getting married. Are you able and willing to give to the other, and to the partnership. Tragically, there are many who are not, and then jumping into a marriage remain self-focused and bring much suffering with them.

  • @sheem.2450
    @sheem.2450 4 роки тому +5

    That roar scared me!!! I was falling asleep to these words! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @madonnahamilton8291
    @madonnahamilton8291 4 роки тому +22

    I love this teaching I am young in my marriage

  • @Jetsetjessica
    @Jetsetjessica 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much for these words of wisdom. I am a single woman preparing for marriage and this has given insight on what my role is.

  • @breatheeasily4013
    @breatheeasily4013 3 роки тому

    I'm a young man developing myself, ladies you will have to wait until I'm 29, but hopefully, I will find a good wife.

  • @maureenkam9212
    @maureenkam9212 4 роки тому +54

    My marriage is the regret of my life. There is no honour and respect in this marriage. I have not known the "F" word only through him. My daughter has also picked it up. Instead of mourishing me, he crushed my spirit by being abusive to us physically and verbally. The only thing I'm thankful for is I went back to church after marriage. Yet, the irony is I stayed away from church because he didn't like me serving in church. After 22 years, I have decided I have enough and I am ready to move on.

    • @Plethorality
      @Plethorality 4 роки тому +10

      He might need deliverance. Maybe even you, and I am in no way putting you down or blaming you, in saying this... We can have demons who are hell bent on destroying our marriages. They can be inherited through generational curses, as well as sent directly to destroy us and our marriages. I wish I had known this years ago... Being in an abusive marriage is terrible, and I am not saying to stay in a dangerous situation.
      But divorce does not have to be the aim or the result of a separation. Peace, healing and joy can be the result, instead, after being delivered from demons and the healing that comes from God.
      I hope that makes sense.

    • @deysyzapata213
      @deysyzapata213 4 роки тому +1

      Maureen Kam remember is not the people on any church is us who’s looking for god at any circumstances on our life read the parable about the Seeds ,sometimes this seeds ends with out any fruits but others are very fruitful,so At the and is us is you who decide your destiny,it happens exactly same to me in my church but I learn that mooore they don’t want me MOORE I stay more they rejected me more I persevere Remember in the scripture said only those who persevere and be brave can reach the kingdom of heaven ,in this circumstances I Lear the no one are responsible for my salvation only the decision that I make god bless you and I will pray for you and god will bring an angel who’s going to guide you to him. Just be sure open your eyes and your heart for you can see it 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @AI-dc3zo
      @AI-dc3zo 4 роки тому +1

      Narcissism may be the problem. Research Narcissist Personality Disorder.

    • @maureenkam9212
      @maureenkam9212 4 роки тому +3

      @@Plethorality You are absolutely correct. II have gone through healing and deliverance but he is uncooperative. He even refused to go to the marriage workshop and said that he is better than the pastors. There is no more trust between us as he has done too many things behind my back. I have enough after 22 years of persecution from him.

    • @maureenkam9212
      @maureenkam9212 4 роки тому +2

      @@deysyzapata213 I can hear God since the age of 10. The only regret is I did not seek Him before the marriage as I was grieving for the sudden loss of my father to heart attack and was overwhelmed by my mother's hysterical behaviour because of my father's death. We were all in a state of confusion and extreme grief. It is a marriage not ordained by God. I have regretted my decision just like Kathryn Kulman.

  • @NexttMusik
    @NexttMusik 4 роки тому +13

    Another great one Daniel! Have a great week man!!

  • @susanhamilton8288
    @susanhamilton8288 2 роки тому +1

    Jesus is my husband...he will never change and leave me..or divorce me...and since he can see my heart ..i don't have to worry about what is thinks about me...he knows me well from birth till now.
    It is so peaceful having is love..and powerful knowing he has my back in every situation...i love him dearly.
    The sweetest part is he loved me first...making it easy for me.

  • @merylneadgal9127
    @merylneadgal9127 3 роки тому +1

    Hi Daniel
    Am so happy that god has blessed me a husband, whos is doctor and such osm human and loving and caring .
    I really prayed God before my marriage to give a Good person as his will and choice ,god has really gave me the best than what i asked .

  • @elaine03812
    @elaine03812 4 роки тому +10

    Praying now God will give me a Godly husband soon🙏

  • @vjlahaylahay9753
    @vjlahaylahay9753 4 роки тому +12

    I love how you read the Bible and base all your points there. Thank you for making this content. May God bless you and your marriage even more. 😊💕

  • @chswathi
    @chswathi 4 роки тому +2

    Praise the lord. It is very useful for newly married persons.. god really spoke to me with this message .now am gng to be married woman. Thank you lord.
    From India.

  • @hobomachinao6275
    @hobomachinao6275 4 роки тому +2

    " Wife, respect your husband and serve him, Husband, love your wife as you love yourself " great video, worth watching, Thank you!!

    • @kennethfok
      @kennethfok 3 роки тому +1

      Does no sex means not serving him? Since it’s God’s gift for us to have sex and enjoy it with our spouse?

  • @joyekuase2752
    @joyekuase2752 4 роки тому +6

    Thank you lord for this message

  • @laveenaimmanuel1800
    @laveenaimmanuel1800 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you for the good words. May God help you keep doing what you are doing.
    Love from India

  • @taichivillaruel9114
    @taichivillaruel9114 9 місяців тому

    I love Proverbs 31:12. Honestly, this makes me dreamy because, "Doing you good all the days of her life"? That means I'll feel loved with my future wife every moment of this life, if I found a wonderful woman.

  • @rhodamaru7293
    @rhodamaru7293 3 роки тому +1

    I am a married woman, I was a Christian when I got married. Years has go by I have become so rebellious in my marriage.Due to distrust. Though I did nothing wrong. I felt like getting divorced but because of my three children I'm hanging in there. Thankyou very much for all your beautiful and powerful encouraging messages. I am a good fan to this programme.

  • @tiffanyprince6948
    @tiffanyprince6948 4 роки тому +3

    Wen i watched his vid .....I always admiring, smiling, blushing or hiding me face ...he is soo handsome n wat make it better HE'S A CHRISTIAN 👏👏👏

  • @johnnysewardjr3319
    @johnnysewardjr3319 4 роки тому +6

    Absolutely wonderful. You are amazing at teaching this subject. Thank you brother. God bless

  • @njbpaul
    @njbpaul 3 роки тому +2

    This video shows that following godly principles is the key to a healthy marriage.

  • @pendoswaty4761
    @pendoswaty4761 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for teaching me, I will be a godly wife to my future husband

  • @darlateegarden7595
    @darlateegarden7595 3 роки тому +3

    God led me here this morning, thank you

  • @gratefullygrace9896
    @gratefullygrace9896 4 роки тому +7

    Thanks so much for this. I've learnt a lot from this video. Sometimes, I forget most of these points.
    God bless you so much.

  • @theresarose5242
    @theresarose5242 4 роки тому +2

    Blessings to you and your family ✝️🌷❤️. I love being a daughter of my Father God! We are made to be this way. My husband grandma told me under the table that The neck can turn the head if needed. I really wish the women could be as proud of being a daughter of God, He Blessed us with children ✝️🌹❤️

  • @Jewelliet
    @Jewelliet 2 роки тому

    When we love God the most, we love everyone else in our lives better... for certain.

  • @sherylkirksey2719
    @sherylkirksey2719 4 роки тому +6

    Thank you Daniel ... pray for us we need it ! So thankful for you and your beautiful wife in Christ I say that...

  • @GiGi-gc2mm
    @GiGi-gc2mm 4 роки тому +6

    Beautifully said. My heart is content. Thank you🙏🏽 Sending Love to everyone.💌💞

  • @HealThyLivingQueen
    @HealThyLivingQueen 4 роки тому

    Thank you! I’m on the right path 🤗 God bless you and your wife!

  • @elizabethsnyder9678
    @elizabethsnyder9678 3 місяці тому

    I believe God working on me but also working on the man to be my future husband.

  • @AishuuN
    @AishuuN 4 роки тому +8

    Wow...i just read all these in the morning.. N here's the video of it 😍may God bless❤wish u come India Mr. Daniel

  • @priscillachavez6466
    @priscillachavez6466 4 роки тому +5

    This was really helpful I really appreciate you sharing with us. Thank you and God bless you

  • @tinevimbobhiri2739
    @tinevimbobhiri2739 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video ♥️
    As a youth growing in such a horrible time where the world is lost

  • @isabelaelenachitan3948
    @isabelaelenachitan3948 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you! Be blessed! 💜

  • @lovelopez4868
    @lovelopez4868 4 роки тому +7

    😭😭😭😭😭 so touching thank you, GLORY be to GOD alone 😍😍😍😘

  • @kofgrep
    @kofgrep 3 місяці тому

    In Ireland where I live, they have an adage: "If a wife is happy, the whole home is happy".

  • @denissedbeauty5247
    @denissedbeauty5247 4 роки тому +46

    Everything was beautifully said..
    God bless you and your wife.❤️
    Loving your uploads, can’t wait to see what’s next..

  • @arushakatz2976
    @arushakatz2976 4 роки тому +1

    Great I receive this on behalf of my daughter in law bless her to be this amen

  • @bethmuthoni9908
    @bethmuthoni9908 4 роки тому +2

    I love the wisdom you've shared. Thanks alot.

  • @jesusislord2589
    @jesusislord2589 4 роки тому +6

    Thank you for this video🙏 i m not married, but i know one day i will be🙏 this video is helping me alot. God bless you.

  • @jesuscheri5482
    @jesuscheri5482 4 роки тому +6

    Can you talk about celebrating birthdays, thanksgiving, and so; please.

  • @mrsmaealtema5562
    @mrsmaealtema5562 4 роки тому +1

    Amenn and amenn

  • @ryanbrissett9169
    @ryanbrissett9169 Рік тому +1

    God bless you and your wife

  • @Lisa777Thereisabetterway
    @Lisa777Thereisabetterway 4 роки тому +24

    Awe, This is a beautiful share! I am new to your channel and am enjoying your videos. Keep on shining, my beautiful Brother. God Bless & Big Hugs 🤗

  • @ickypop9255
    @ickypop9255 2 роки тому +4

    Must be nice to have a wife. I’ve been single for 45 years. Been praying for a good Christian girl to come into my life since I was a teen and it never happened

  • @beatriceogolla8908
    @beatriceogolla8908 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for this. It's so timely.

  • @nadineewilson
    @nadineewilson 4 роки тому +1

    thank you so much for these Scriptures. It's always great to see a young person such as yourself preaching the word of God. May God continue to bless you and your wife and family
    abundantly

  • @higetrop945
    @higetrop945 4 роки тому +3

    God bless you for all the teaching you putting out here. may the holy spirit inspire you more in Jesus name🙏

  • @iliketostudy1548
    @iliketostudy1548 4 роки тому +4

    Downloading to watch 10,000 times😂

  • @ethiopianandamericanfamily1726
    @ethiopianandamericanfamily1726 4 роки тому

    What a wonderful message!! God bless you.

  • @goodmorningfamily7051
    @goodmorningfamily7051 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you Family 🙏🏿.

  • @lordthesaviour7381
    @lordthesaviour7381 4 роки тому +9

    Thank u bro for giving us the best ever message for all married nd unmarried people....god bless u and your wife....thank u jesus for loving us...we love u...Amen...🙏🙏

  • @gemmaroselambac63
    @gemmaroselambac63 4 роки тому +9

    Amen..im still waiting a Godly husband❤

    • @Plethorality
      @Plethorality 4 роки тому +1

      Same here. In the meantime, we are learning to become godly women. The right woman for the right man.

    • @star3006
      @star3006 4 роки тому

      Amen 🙏🏿

    • @rubysangboo372
      @rubysangboo372 4 роки тому

      Marriage are made by “GOD”
      I’m praying to GOD to find me a Good Husband...at the right time...
      I’m waiting...God Bless all of you...

    • @BansheeKing22
      @BansheeKing22 2 роки тому

      The very definition of insanity. Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. You'd be waiting forever for something that will never happen. Better off just giving up. I know when I did at age 30 i no longer felt anything anymore and it was freeing. Better to just drop the false hope for something that doesn't exist and walk away.

  • @pattycausey379
    @pattycausey379 4 роки тому

    That was beautiful an exactly how it should be between a husband an wife 💑🧡😊

  • @ginettemelody1035
    @ginettemelody1035 4 роки тому

    Thank you. Beautifully said. Much love and blessings

  • @krazihorce44
    @krazihorce44 4 роки тому +3

    I pray to love my husband without regret. To be able to be obedient to a wise loving husband.