WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY about DIVORCE and REMARRIAGE

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  • In this video, Daniel answers the question; What does the Bible say about divorce and remarriage. Is divorce a sin? and is remarriage adultery? Watch the full video to see what the Bible says about divorce and remarriage.
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  • @Cara96
    @Cara96 2 місяці тому +15

    Sometimes even if you have prayed and sought God’s will it can all go horribly wrong because it takes TWO people to be loving and faithful.

  • @kab799
    @kab799 2 роки тому +255

    Christians are spiritually married to Jesus forever, never ever divorce Him.

  • @sarahheld3761
    @sarahheld3761 2 роки тому +46

    Daniel I have to say thank you. You made me what to be closer to our Lord. I'm getting baptized at 40 next week!

  • @emporergrimes
    @emporergrimes Рік тому +25

    Forgiving someone who altered your life and destroyed it is like fighting an unconquerable enemy. Every day my horrible life is the result of divorce.

    • @minksm3032
      @minksm3032 6 місяців тому +1

      Why?😢

    • @blagoneraspadljivonanebesima
      @blagoneraspadljivonanebesima 4 місяці тому +1

      True words, I was searching the right words. Yet we must be the vessel to call them to repent then God can make us widowed, end the torture, if we serve. Nothing for us if we don't serve!

    • @kayoo99
      @kayoo99 2 місяці тому +1

      Take responsibility and less of entitlement how can divorce make your life horrible? If it was a bad marriage then the person did you a favour

    • @TheChuckfuc
      @TheChuckfuc 2 місяці тому

      I don't what it's like to be divorced, but I understand what it's like to hate someone with a passion. And I can tell you the only person feeling your wrath is you.
      Tupac wasn't a Christian but he said something that really stuck with me. When dealing with betrayal, "just because you lost me as a friend doesn't mean you gained me as an enemy. I still wanna see you eat. Just not at my table."

    • @susiejrgensen7041
      @susiejrgensen7041 Місяць тому

      Read Luck 16:18 and Math 6:15

  • @hismercyismore845
    @hismercyismore845 7 місяців тому +9

    Any pastor that tells you to stay with an abusive husband , shouldn’t be a pastor . This is against Gods word , he would never want you to be abused .

    • @grant2149
      @grant2149 7 місяців тому +1

      You can leave but there is NO remarriage after " divorce" ebery sexual act after that remains Adultery and is sin. There is consequences.

    • @hismercyismore845
      @hismercyismore845 7 місяців тому +6

      Abuse breaks the convenient of marriage . Ephesians 5 alone talks about how a husband is to love their wife . Chronic porn watching is adultery without repentance , 35 years in chronic . Like I said abuse alone breaks the covenant of marriage .
      1 Corinthians 7:15 is clear that God calls us to peace .
      Abandonment , Abuse and adultery are all reasons for divorce if the spouse will not repent .

    • @grant2149
      @grant2149 7 місяців тому

      @@hismercyismore845 False that ypur opinion. Abuse allows to leave NO WHERE IN SCRIPTURE DOES IT SAY BREAKS THE COVENENT CALLED TO PEACE DOES NOT MEAN YOU ALLOWED TO REMARRY 2 OPTIONS REMAIN SINGLE OR RECONCILE .
      JESUS SAID EXCEPT IT BE FORNICATION
      NOT EXCEPT IT BE ADULTERY,ABUSE,ABONDAMONT,NOT HAPPY, UGLE ETC. YOU ARE ADDING TO SCRIPTURE. PAUL SAYS IN ROMANS 7 VERS 1- 3 BOUND FOR LIFE. AND IN 1 CORITHIANS 7 VERS 39. HE WIL NOT BE CONTRIDICTING HIMSELF. IF THE UNBELIEVER DEPART YOU ARE NOT UNDER BONDAGE TO FORCE PERSON TO STAY YOU ARE STILL BOUND
      GO STUDY YOUR BIBLE.
      LISTEN TO DR JOSEPH WEBB,DR RICHARD COWELL, DAVID SPROUL,
      DAVID PAWSON,GINO JENNINGS DR MIKE GOTRIE, STEPHEN WILCOX, LOGIN FOWLER, AND MANY MANY MORE.
      DAVID R JENKINS. ( 48 PAGES ON WHY ONLY FORNICATION JEWS) ON INTERNET HE TAKES YOU BACK 1800 YEARS AGO ( HEBREWS,GREEK ETC.) UNTIL ERASMUS CHANGED WORDS IN 1500'S. ST AUGISTINE 1 OF GREATEST CHURCH FATHER OF ALL TIME NO DIVORCE AND REMARRIAGE YOU ARE BOUND TILL DEATH. REGARDLESS IF SOMEONE DEPARTS. FROM THE GUYS I MENTIONED HAS 50 PLUS YEARS OF DOCTERATES ON SCRIPTURE . FROM THEM DEAD ALREADY. YOU MIGHT LEARN SOMETHING. BELIEVE IT OT NOT. GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR OPINION.
      ONLY DEATH BREAKS A COVENENT.
      PS( READ HOSEA,EZRA,JEREMIAH,
      GOD DIVORCED ISRAEL YET HE SAYS RETURN ONTO ME FOR I AM YOUR HUSBAND.)YOUR BIGGEST MISTAKE IS CALLED TO PEACE DOES NOT MEAN COVENENT IS BROKEN. GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR OPINIONS. WAKE UP BEFORE IT IS TO LATE.

    • @robertemard9452
      @robertemard9452 5 місяців тому

      Biblically, divorce is the appropriate remedy for adultery only. Separation (stay single) is the remedy for abuse. Advising a woman to "tough it out" with their abusive husband is bad pastoral advice.

  • @jimmyhill9743
    @jimmyhill9743 2 роки тому +76

    Everyone should hear this. I don’t think I have been in a church an heard this kind of message. Divorce happens so much. But today marriage is not held so high. Bless you for today’s message

    • @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
      @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways 2 роки тому +11

      But the message wasn't completely biblical. There is no divorce AND remarriage that is not ongoing adultery if the first spouse is still alive. He read 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 but didn't teach it accurately, so read it for yourself along with Mark 10:1-12, Luke 16:14-18 and Romans 7:1-3. Only death ends the marriage, and John the Baptist was beheaded for telling the truth.

    • @tracybryan8661
      @tracybryan8661 2 роки тому

      @@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways so if death is the only thing that ends the divorce then his and my second marriage null n void in Gods eyes?

    • @Righteous_Cal101
      @Righteous_Cal101 2 роки тому

      @@tracybryan8661 that’s a good question coz remember all sin is the same we can’t just keep falling into the same sin without asking God to forgive us adultery isn’t the only sin that’s what people need to understand looking down on your brother is a sin and saying OMG God also says if we die in our sins because we believed that he is he we won’t die in our sins but those that believe not will die in their sins

    • @RyanREAX
      @RyanREAX 2 роки тому +1

      @@tracybryan8661 yes, it’s null

    • @godgavemeeyestosee
      @godgavemeeyestosee 2 роки тому +4

      @@tracybryan8661 according to the Bible, death is the only thing that ends a covenant marriage. Please read Romans 7:2-3 & 1 Corinthians 7:39.

  • @xtine416
    @xtine416 2 роки тому +35

    Sadly I just went through a divorce myself. It was finalized this past July. I honestly don't know how I could have saved it. I guess I married the wrong person. I'm not happy about it but I felt like it was the best decision for me and my sanity.

    • @xtine416
      @xtine416 2 роки тому +14

      @Ázráél Don't silence me I'm only upset that I had to be the one to initiate the divorce. No matter what I did or said nothing changed. But after leaving I felt like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. I don't feel revengeful, I'm actually closer to God more than I ever have been in my life.

    • @jsison394
      @jsison394 2 роки тому +13

      There are people who are very toxic and can really have a very damaging effect on us.What do you do if that person is your husband?The decision of a divorce is very hard but necessary sometimes.

    • @dh605x
      @dh605x 2 роки тому +10

      You will get no condemnation from me regarding your divorce. Nor will you from anyone who has any spiritual sense.

  • @Patriot842
    @Patriot842 2 роки тому +67

    Thank you Daniel, for this one. Many of us make rash decisions when we are hurting. I felt this way for a year and cried and prayed. God actually used the sickness of Covid, we both had at the same time, to bring us closer again. Never know how he will work.

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    • @ajlouviere202
      @ajlouviere202 Рік тому +2

      The divorce and remarriage for adultery doctrine is based solely on the supposed guilt of the wife in Matthew 5:32 and 19:9. However, the wife, in the above scriptures, is clearly not guilty of fornication because the Jews (that Jesus was speaking to) were still living under the law, and if fornication was discovered, there was a moral obligation to report the offender according to Deuteronomy 22:13-24. The wife, who would have been found guilty of fornication, was subsequently stoned to death, according to the law, which had still governed the Jews up until Christ's death on the cross. The same for a woman caught in adultery, according to Leviticus 20:10. How could a wife, guilty of fornication, or adultery, under the law of Moses, be given a writing of divorcement and be caused to commit adultery with whosoever marries her, that is divorced? Jesus is clear, in these examples, that the wife is not guilty of fornication, but is still caused to commit adultery if she marries another man now that she is divorced. This is the only way that Matthew 5:31-32, and Matthew 19:9 keep harmony with Romans 7:2-3, and 1 Corinthians 7:39.
      Unlike the synoptic gospels of Mark and Luke, which were written to evangelize the Gentiles, Matthew was written to the Jews, and has of 24 characteristics that identify it as intended for the house of Israel.
      The ancient Jews called the betrothed (engaged) "husband" and "wife" according to Deuteronomy 22:23-24, Matthew 1:18-25, and Luke 2:5-7.
      Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage) was never for fornication or adultery. Allowing those guilty of fornication and adultery to remain living and become a prospect for remarriage was against the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22:13-24 and Leviticus 20:10, which commanded that those who were found guilty of fornication and adultery be put away from Israel, and stoned to death.
      The law of Moses was not given to the world, only to the Jews. From the exodus, to Christ's death on the cross, the law of Moses governed the Jewish people. Christ's death on the cross caused the Jews to become dead to the law of Moses, so they could be joined to Christ under a New Covenant. This is what Jesus's fulfillment of the law of Moses, including Deuteronomy 24:1-4 (Moses's precept of divorce and remarriage), means. Paul gave several warnings to Christian believers against keeping the ordinances of law of Moses as justification, over following Christ and his commands under the New Covenant with Christ. Keeping the ordinances of the law is no longer possible, for Israel, and that is why Christ prophesied that the temple would be destroyed. These scriptures make it clear that if you choose the law over Christ, that you must keep the whole law: Romans 7:4, Galatians 3:1-9, Galatians 3:10-29, Galatians 4:1-7, Galatians 4:21-31, and Galatians 5:1-15.
      Being unequally yoked to unbelievers is not a cause for divorce, once two become one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, according to 1 Corinthians 7:12-14. Many one-flesh covenant marriages between unbelievers are recognized by God in the scriptures, most notably the marriage covenants between Herodias and King Herod's brother Philip, Potiphar and his wife, Ahab and Jezebel, and Ruth to her deceased husband Mahlon by Boaz when he took her to be his wife.
      Some are teaching that 1 Corinthians 7:15 implies that those who are abandoned, by an unbelieving spouse, are "no longer bound" in a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The reason this is in conflict is due to the way some translations word it, which gives it an entirely different meaning, and context. 1 Corinthians 7:15, says, "But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace." As you can see, the actual scripture says "not enslaved" which means that the husband or wife is not enslaved to sin with the unbelieving spouse, and is free to worship Christ in peace. Subsequent translations have changed the words to imply that they nullify the marriage covenant, which is not at all the case. The issue that this creates is with 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, which says, "10To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife." As you can see, those who claim 1 Corinthians 7:15 shows the Apostle Paul giving those who are abandoned permission to remarry, do not understand the command that Christ gives is to an abandoned husband, in 1 Corinthians 7:11, and that he "must not divorce" his wife, and his wife is commanded to "remain unmarried or else be reconciled" to her husband. The theory that 1 Corinthians 7:15 nullifies two as being one-flesh, due to one's unbelief, puts the Apostle Paul directly at odds with Christ, and himself, by implying that Paul has issued an opposing command to verses 10-14 in verse 15.
      Some also teach that 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 is referring to both divorced men and virgin women, and not exclusively to men and women (virgins) who have never been married. This has been falsely taught for some time in churches as referring to anyone who is not currently in a marriage, which, for them, also includes those who are divorced. This is a very false assumption, and puts these verses in a different context, that is at odds with both the teachings of Christ and the apostle Paul. We see Paul refer to virgins, which signifies the unmarried who have never before been wed, which is the proper context here. We see Paul saying clearly that it is good for virgins, which is also speaking to never before wed men here, "that it is good for a man so to be." He goes on to say, "Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife." Who is he referring to here? Men who, like himself, have never married. The word "bound", in these verses, is a clear reference to betrothal (engagement) and not to a one-flesh covenant of marriage. The ancient Jews were considered bound as husband and wife during the betrothal (espousal/engagement) before becoming one-flesh in a covenant of marriage, through consummation. This is affirmed by the context of the term "bound" seen in Numbers 30:14-16.
      The Jewish couples in ancient Israel, who were betrothed (engaged) were also bound together until death, either by execution for fornication, or by other causes. Then Paul says, "But and if thou marry, thou has not sinned", which is who? The men who had never married in the congregation at Corinth. So he begins with verses 25-26 speaking exclusively to men that have never married. Paul then says, "and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned", which is speaking directly in regard to virgin women who have never been married, within the congregation, not divorced women. Notice that verse 34 says, "There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband." Paul speaks plainly when he says "there is a difference between a wife and a virgin." Paul goes on to say, "But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry." This is speaking of a virgin who has become of age to bear children when it says, "let them marry." This is a clear command, to a single man, who has taken a virgin to be his wife. Paul then says, "Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well." This is referring again to the single man who decides it is better not to marry, but to stay betrothed (engaged), under the present distress, by saying that he "hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin." Paul then says, "So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better", which again means single men, in the congregation, who have betrothed a wife, do well if they marry, and those who choose not to marry their virgin brides do better, under the current climate. For more proper context of the word "bound", let's look further down in this chapter to verse 39, which says, "39The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord" (1 Corinthians 7:39). For so long, these scriptures, between verses 25-38, have been twisted and used to enable divorce and remarriage, by wayward churches and teachers, and have caused many to stumble and to be trapped in unscriptural unions.
      The use of the woman at the well, in regard to marriage, falsely implies that Christ was endorsing remarriage after a divorce. This teaching is in defiance of Matthew 22:23-28, which shows a woman who had been widowed seven times, and entered into each subsequent marriage without any scriptural conflicts with God's law of marriage (one-flesh covenant) seen in Genesis 2:23-24.
      Mark 10:1-12 and Matthew 19:1-12 both record Christ's teaching that day beyond the Jordan. There is no mention of the words "fornication", "writing of divorcement", or "divorced" in Mark's Gospel because Mark was not written to the Jews (as Matthew's Gospel was), but to evangelize the Romans, and likewise Luke to evangelize the Greeks, who had no knowledge of the law of Moses in Deuteronomy 22 or Deuteronomy 24. All of these facts draw a clear understanding that remarriage after a divorce, under the New Covenant with Christ, is a scripturally false and baseless teaching. Please use wisdom when living in any situation against what the scriptures command.

    • @billybladezz9370
      @billybladezz9370 Місяць тому

      ​@@ajlouviere202wow thank you for taking the time to write all of that. Very thoughtfully put together and I too was struggling with these scriptures and current teachings of leaders and churches didnt seem to add up to what i was seeing in scripture.
      The adultery clause? Seems like a man can divorce and remarry if wife is adulter but the wife is not allowed to leave an adulterous husband and if she does to remain unmarried or be reconciled?
      Thanks

  • @mywatcheswithben
    @mywatcheswithben 2 роки тому +42

    Thanks Daniel. I am 39 and my parents divorced 25 years ago. I forgave them long ago but It still hurts. I don't think my mom (rest her soul) realized how badly her choice to cheat and leave permanently harmed her 5 children.

    • @Coffeehouse_Latte
      @Coffeehouse_Latte 2 роки тому +6

      My family is currently going through the same thing.
      But it's with my father.
      And I live in a country where divorce isn't a thing.
      It's almost as if he doesn't acknowledge the damage he's done.
      I am yet to fully forgive him, but I have trust in God that it would turn out okay.
      From a stranger to another, please pray for me.

    • @jsison394
      @jsison394 2 роки тому +3

      @@Coffeehouse_Latte praying for you.We have gine thru that kind of suffering as a family too.When I let Christ lead my life, I discovered that forgiveness and humility is the only way we can have peace in our hearts.Learn how to be kind to everyone and be their strength,draw that strength to the Lord Jesus Christ.I promise you will be fine.Have a blessed day.🙏

    • @BennettJonWayne-xw9vi
      @BennettJonWayne-xw9vi 8 місяців тому +3

      Matthew 19:9 also chapter five verse 32 offer an exception to divorce because of "porneia." Porneia is the Greek word for immorality and unlawful sex in these verses. The word was translated "fornication" by the translators employed by King James. If your spouse is immoral and breaks the vows of the covenant, you are the "innocent party," and the innocent party can remarry. Not so for the guilty party.

    • @suzannegendron9504
      @suzannegendron9504 8 місяців тому +1

      Forgive her. She was blinded.

    • @elinaburgmane223
      @elinaburgmane223 3 місяці тому +1

      No You cant remmary, book of Mathew was written for Jews, they had "bethrothal" period before marriage same as Mary and Joseph had, in that period it was allowed to divorce, thats why Angel came to Joseph and said, dont leave Mary Your wife. Fornication is not possible in marriage, only adultery. Mathew 5:28, Luke 16:17-18

  • @SeraBale
    @SeraBale 2 роки тому +7

    My husband divorced me in 2014..now I'm rest to hear the word of GOD from you..GOD bless you always.

  • @Larry84J
    @Larry84J 2 роки тому +17

    .....This is so beautiful. I feel before marriage all couples should read this and pray. Thank God for this brother.

  • @matheusformanskimiguel3822
    @matheusformanskimiguel3822 2 роки тому +41

    brother I'm 21 year old virgin I'm looking forward to it pray for me It has been difficult

    • @amyhatfield7181
      @amyhatfield7181 2 роки тому +2

      @@mynameis......23 well said ! God bless you all

    • @sauravcyrus1935
      @sauravcyrus1935 2 роки тому +1

      @@mynameis......23 yes bro sahi baat hai

    • @ashishyesudas9720
      @ashishyesudas9720 2 роки тому +8

      Dnt worry dude just keep praying God will help you. M 29 still v.

    • @feliciajohnson4540
      @feliciajohnson4540 2 роки тому +10

      I pray God will give you a good wife in Jesus name.

    • @Dartheious
      @Dartheious 2 роки тому +16

      But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and His righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. Matthew 6:33

  • @m.samueljohn2394
    @m.samueljohn2394 2 роки тому +8

    Forgive me Lord I give my life into your Hands Lord Jesus..

  • @youthrevivalprogram4471
    @youthrevivalprogram4471 2 роки тому +4

    Today's message is really very good and important. Thank You for posting this video.

  • @Deltafour4
    @Deltafour4 2 роки тому +2

    This channel on UA-cam changed my life Daniel... thank you so much for give us your knowledge here. God bless you.🌟✨🙌🏾

  • @user-zn8mh3hz8h
    @user-zn8mh3hz8h 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much Daniel for helping me understand even with scripture our God is good and loving may you be a blessing to others out their who is hurting this very moment😊

  • @vanessaramirez6808
    @vanessaramirez6808 2 роки тому +71

    Many people feel stuck in abusive marriages and are like “well I gotta deal with it”. First and foremost, majority of all abusers are cheaters especially those who have NPD. There is a way out! Of course, there’s always room for change in marriage counseling or if the partner acknowledges “yea I got an anger problem”.
    To avoid such relationships, educate yourself on red flags. Detecting Abusive people is not as obvious, you gotta look at the small things, such as excessive flattery, twisting scripture if they are a “believer”, their ways of thinking….

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    • @RACHELORI
      @RACHELORI 2 роки тому +15

      Good advice, thank you. I was young & naive and never saw the red flags although my friends & family did. I made a mistake & suffered for many years because of it.

    • @GailOwens
      @GailOwens 2 роки тому +2

      My mother was a narcissist

    • @shirlspark_stardust
      @shirlspark_stardust 10 місяців тому +6

      I realize the guy I married to be a narcissist very evil I filed my divorce papers

    • @dorino9057
      @dorino9057 9 місяців тому

      @@shirlspark_stardust being a narcissist is not grounds for divorce

  • @vanessaramirez6808
    @vanessaramirez6808 2 роки тому +19

    I don’t believe when people say “yea we just grew apart or we didn’t understand each other”…. No.
    Someone had pride, the other person didn’t. I’m sure both of y’all spoke the same language so there’s nothing misunderstood. Let go of your pride.

  • @billylambert8791
    @billylambert8791 2 роки тому

    Brother you are AWESOME SPEAKING FOR THE LORD!!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR LEADING MYSELF & ALL THE OTHER PPL WHO HAVE A NOT SO EASY UNDERSTANDING OF THE BIBLE!!!

  • @brentcanterbury4148
    @brentcanterbury4148 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much for teaching this sermon. I really need this.

  • @nesheilf2352
    @nesheilf2352 2 роки тому +12

    Thanks pastor Daniel for this messages.
    I really need it lit.
    Please pray for me and my marriage. 🙏😢

    • @nesheilf2352
      @nesheilf2352 2 роки тому

      Thanks for the prayers 🙏❤️

  • @laughoften4101
    @laughoften4101 2 роки тому +4

    Lucky to hear about this!
    It is wonderful message!
    Love it!
    Feel closed to the God!
    And thank you so much. Daniel

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    • @kenyadavis89
      @kenyadavis89 11 місяців тому

      You are BLESSED to hear this!

  • @deannasage5491
    @deannasage5491 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for this is video Daniel God bless you I've been waiting to hear something like this although I've read it in the Bible you have put this together to make it so better understood thank you and God bless you

  • @Hope9944.
    @Hope9944. 2 роки тому +2

    Thank u pastor for a great message from the word of living God. Thank u so much, most of us not aware of unity or one flesh, divorce and remarriage...and forgiveness.
    Thank u and God bless u.

  • @12Messenger
    @12Messenger 2 роки тому +70

    I feel anyone looking for any reasons to divorce besides physical abuse verbal abuse adultery and manipulation didn't really love their partner in the 1st place. My parents are still together 24 years later so i really know what love is...and that's mutually CHOOSING to stay and fight until death together

    • @sachinbedi4135
      @sachinbedi4135 2 роки тому +3

      Absolutely 🙏 Amen 🙏❤️✝️

    • @GangsterofloveSpacecowboy
      @GangsterofloveSpacecowboy 2 роки тому +6

      No physical or verbal just adultery!

    • @teeb2681
      @teeb2681 2 роки тому +4

      @@GangsterofloveSpacecowboy the bible speaks of the hardening of Moses heart. This why he allowed divorce for adultery but also the hardening of heart. Normally, people with hardening hearts not only abuse but commit adultery emotionally and physically

    • @GangsterofloveSpacecowboy
      @GangsterofloveSpacecowboy 2 роки тому +3

      @@teeb2681 I agree with you but, I don’t want people to be thinking that because you’re physically or verbally abused you can divorce because that’s not what the Bible says. That sounds like New Age thinking.

    • @GangsterofloveSpacecowboy
      @GangsterofloveSpacecowboy 2 роки тому +4

      You can separate from your spouse if those things are happening but that’s just to be reconciled and work things out later on.

  • @aaronbrock8055
    @aaronbrock8055 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you Daniel for this. My best friend got married yesterday!

  • @glennbarrett7234
    @glennbarrett7234 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for your sermons. Bless you for bringing the of God. Your the best preacher on you-tube.

  • @panthraper
    @panthraper 2 роки тому +1

    Been really looking out for a video like this. ..thank you brother for sharing... All glory to Jesus!

  • @pasha158
    @pasha158 2 роки тому +12

    Really appreciated you breaking down that forgiveness & trust are different and that it is possible to forgive without having to stay married to the person who committed adultery.

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 2 роки тому +1

      it is not adultery.....the term is fornication...

    • @pasha158
      @pasha158 2 роки тому

      @@philipbuckley759 ...if the people having sex with each other are both unmarried then yes, you're right

  • @lingstonyaki3688
    @lingstonyaki3688 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you so much...it's helpful information for me....
    I recently gave my life to Christ Jesus and I also am following your UA-cam channel...
    My wife has been giving me a hard time to make her agree with me on family matters...
    She is somewhat rebellious and ignorant of reality situations in our family... She accuses me of alot of things that are not true and twist words...
    I need your 🙏 prayers as I am torn to pieces when I think of our baby boy who is innocent and will get affected....as she is asking for devorce...
    I am putting my trust in Lord Jesus to make a way for us...let His will be done...

  • @thanmaybharadwaj2896
    @thanmaybharadwaj2896 2 роки тому +4

    Daniel thanks a lot 😌☺️ for this video. Highly expected and I got it. Also amazing message. May god bless you too 🙏🙏😁. Love from India🇮🇳

  • @jennifervanderberg8664
    @jennifervanderberg8664 2 роки тому

    Baie dankie Daniel vir die video, mag God jou en jou gesin seen.

  • @feliciajohnson4540
    @feliciajohnson4540 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you brother for sharing. God bless you so much.

  • @mercykay689
    @mercykay689 2 роки тому +4

    God Bless you so much for this,for sticking to the truth,many people change God's word for their own desires and benefits,or they choose to understand it the way they want to,I pray in a church in Uganda, among the few churches that preach the Gospel as it is,in its realness,truth and wholeness,this has made me happy that there people out there that truly understand and follow God's Word💚☺

    • @godgavemeeyestosee
      @godgavemeeyestosee 2 роки тому

      God does not allow anyone to divorce and remarry while their covenant spouse is still alive (Mark 10:11-12 and Luke 16:18). Only death (not adultery or abandonment or divorce or anything else) frees a person from the marriage covenant allowing him or her to get married again. Please read Romans 7:2-3 and 1 Corinthians 7:39. I hope this helps your understanding.

  • @NikkiLachelle
    @NikkiLachelle 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you!! You are really helping me on my spiritual journey.

  • @CoffeeScribe
    @CoffeeScribe 2 роки тому +2

    I love you in Jesus Christ brother. How incredibly kind and brotherly of you to care for people in sharing and clarifying God's Word on this subject. You are helping so many people with your videos and channel. How beautiful and good! God bless you brother.

  • @connorhyatt3583
    @connorhyatt3583 2 роки тому +6

    :16 I'm having a tough time wrapping my head around this in my personal life. I've prayed desperately for God's wisdom and guidance and I know this video was sent by God. I'm continuing to watch it and let God's word speak to me in my desperate time

    • @gorthygara8399
      @gorthygara8399 2 роки тому +1

      Yes l understand but the more we get full of His written word we come to understand how we must live for our Living God Jesus Christ
      Living for the audience of One takes endurance and discipline through humility all things work together when we are walking in His commands.
      Not as the world gives but only through Christ who live in us who are known by Him Amen

    • @gorthygara8399
      @gorthygara8399 2 роки тому

      Yes l understand but the more we get full of His written word we come to understand how we must live for our Living God Jesus Christ
      Living for the audience of One takes endurance and discipline through humility all things work together when we are walking in His commands.
      Not as the world gives but only through Christ who live in us who are known by Him Amen

  • @makenzieadams9006
    @makenzieadams9006 2 роки тому +3

    This channel is amazing! Praise The Good LORD JESUS!

  • @KiRetteCouture
    @KiRetteCouture 2 роки тому +9

    One of the healthiest teachings I have heard on this topic. Thank you.

  • @markmervinpalmer1801
    @markmervinpalmer1801 2 роки тому

    Very fruitful and blessed message May God bless you Amen and Amen 🙏🙏🙏

  • @RACHELORI
    @RACHELORI 2 роки тому +31

    Great video. I was in a very abusive relationship for 11 years. I was sick with depression of how badly my spouse abused me physically & verbally even in front of others. His own family told him not to treat me that way. When you marry the wrong person, as you said, can be a horrible experience. I honestly felt God was punishing me & I moved away from God. Since my divorce, i felt so much peace & I came back to God. Being in an abusive & unloving relationship is not God's will for us.

    • @grantmoon624
      @grantmoon624 10 місяців тому +4

      But the Bible doesn’t allow divorce for just abuse… move out of the house sure, but not divorce.

    • @pegc9889
      @pegc9889 10 місяців тому +4

      Many ministers teach that there are 3 Biblical grounds for divorce (and even remarriage): adultery, abandonment, and chronic verbal or physical abuse. When there's abuse, the couple must separate for protection. If after therapy, and if the Holy Spirit permits, they can divorce. The Lord has even sent new spouses into the lives of many divorced Christians; many well known evangelists/preachers have been happily remarried for decades and God has blessed them. Apparently, they do NOT live in PERPETUAL adultery.

    • @Jericho-xs3ju
      @Jericho-xs3ju 10 місяців тому

      If you believe this false teaching you can not get divorced for abuse.
      But If you read what the Bible actually sais. Divorce is permissible
      If you look at the orriginal text which anyone can. The Pharisees asked Jesus about sending away or essentially kicking them out without divorcing. Of course. That would Cause adultery if someone remarried because with our a certificate of divorce they were still considered married. Paul uses the same term as well. Sending away. If you send away without a certificate of divorce you are still married. But the certificate of divorce was given so the woman was still free to re marry and be under the protection of her husband.
      The way d l m and unfortunately many others read it and unfortunately divorce and sending away were interchanged in modern translations but they have separate meanings. If you believe like d l m. That teaching contradicts Gods law. And Paul would contradict Jesus.
      Unfortunately I used to believe like this. But many contradictory teachings made me research and you will see that many people like this man have many false and oppressive teachings.
      Don’t listen to any man or women. Read the Bible for your self. And if something does not sound right investigate

    • @Jericho-xs3ju
      @Jericho-xs3ju 10 місяців тому

      If those ministers believe like this man then they contradict themselves and the Bible according to what they believe making them selves like God.
      But if you read the original texts divorce and remarriage is allowed if given a certificate of divorce

    • @jocosobe
      @jocosobe 10 місяців тому

      ​​​@@pegc9889you are decieving people. Jesus says according to Matthew 19:9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, >commits adulterycommits adultery.

  • @noeliapagan2661
    @noeliapagan2661 2 роки тому +4

    I got a divorce before I became a Christian I didn’t know about any of this I repented for this sin that I committed I know GOD has forgiven me

  • @andreadickinson3076
    @andreadickinson3076 Місяць тому

    Thank you for explaining this topic that I had questions all the times

  • @lemontree46
    @lemontree46 2 роки тому +2

    Yes, when we asked God for his interference in your helpless marriage, he kept his promises. Thanks for your video!

  • @onyeomachinyeremaka6809
    @onyeomachinyeremaka6809 2 роки тому +9

    *JESUS*
    *Best gift.Ever*
    *The only gift you really ever needed.*
    *GOD bless us abundantly*

  • @davefreeman9347
    @davefreeman9347 Рік тому +7

    Hi Daniel, I found great comfort in this video, my ex wife committed adultry, and although I forgave her the marriage was never the same and she left me anyway and we later divorced it was that time I came to Christ, I am now re-married and this is my current wife’s first marriage and we are incredibly happy. God bless you brother.

    • @suzannegendron9504
      @suzannegendron9504 8 місяців тому

      You are still married to your first wife....till the day she dies. 1 cor.7.39

    • @suzannegendron9504
      @suzannegendron9504 8 місяців тому

      Luke 16.18. Please read it.

    • @davefreeman9347
      @davefreeman9347 8 місяців тому +3

      @@suzannegendron9504 thank you sister but my ex wife committed adultery divorce is permitted in scripture for that reason and that reason alone Jesus brought my second wife to me God Bless 🙏

    • @sfs1167
      @sfs1167 6 місяців тому

      @@suzannegendron9504 She committed adultery. The marriage bond has been dissolved and he isn't married to her anymore. Matthew 19:9. Please read it.

  • @rameshpyrdha327
    @rameshpyrdha327 2 роки тому

    The Best thing about you Brother, You show Your Speech in the Bible.

  • @benjamincandelaria2357
    @benjamincandelaria2357 2 роки тому +5

    I'm a Christian man and I believe in the Lord and what the Bible says so I got divorced because she cheated God have mercy on her and now I am praying for that special one because God knows I am faithful. amen

    • @shadowmist1246
      @shadowmist1246 2 роки тому +1

      I'm a Christian man too and I believe in the Lord and what the Bible says and I was forced into a divorce against my will and neither cheated. I keep my ring on and will stay single until if or when she joins with someone else.

    • @blagoneraspadljivonanebesima
      @blagoneraspadljivonanebesima 4 місяці тому +1

      I think a woman can't remarry if he cheats, Paul says she is bound till he lives, by the law, me. Lucky you... But Christ shall set me free.

  • @neliafrancis9120
    @neliafrancis9120 2 роки тому +4

    God bless you for enlightening us.

  • @chuckjohnson4048
    @chuckjohnson4048 2 роки тому +11

    The giving of the gift. I was married for 13 years before my divorce. I felt ashamed and that I had let God down. I even cried myself to sleep for months after the divorce. I asked for forgiveness time after time after time, then God spoke to me, He told me I was forgiven and I needed to forgive myself. What a relief when I did forgive myself.
    Gifts, can a divorced person receive God's gifts of Faith, Miracles, Healing, Tongues, Interpretation of tongues, Prophecy. Determination of spirits? Yes, been there got that. Confirmed gifts, yes BTDT.

    • @singsing8876
      @singsing8876 2 роки тому +2

      my husband been cheating with multiple women's and it's like I'm living in hell
      also I had 2 abortion I know God had forgive me but still I can't forgive myself

    • @philipbuckley759
      @philipbuckley759 2 роки тому

      what does it mean to....forgive oneself.....

    • @chuckjohnson4048
      @chuckjohnson4048 2 роки тому +3

      I divorced my wife in '86, I knew my God hates divorce. I spent weeks crying myself to sleep, not knowing how to have averted a divorce. I finally prayed asking over over again. God spoke to me, He told me I was forgiven and I needed to forgive myself. A few years before I was at my father in law's house, his wife was in the kitchen crying her eyes out. She revealed that she had been forced into an abortion. She also had asked for forgiveness for this murder. I told her that when she dies she will be approached by her child with open arms and forgiveness in their heart. I told her she needed to forgive herself. I don't think that when Jesus told us to love our neighbor and forgive them 7x70 times he intended for us to not forgive ourselves.

    • @chuckjohnson4048
      @chuckjohnson4048 2 роки тому +1

      Unforgiveness puts us in a category of being above God Himself. Someome else tried putting themselves above God, he was cast out of Heaven.

    • @chuckjohnson4048
      @chuckjohnson4048 2 роки тому +1

      When we ask for forgiveness, the key word is 'ask'. My God responds when we ask, if it is in His will to do so. What might not be in His will to do? Coming to mind would be thinking He will ignore some types of sin like theft, pornography addiction, habitual lying, rape even if it involves imagining it, that is lust.
      If a person sins, and All of us sin, then we have bought into the lie that it is OK to do so because everyone is doing it. Everyone is doing it, isn't that the theme song in Hell?
      Any sin, without repentance and God's forgiveness guarantees us a place in Hell. Our problem is that we forget what the Bible says: 'all things are possible through Christ Jssus'. When we think we have commited sins that are not forgiveable, that is when doubt of God's ability comes in to play. That is when the Devil convinces us our good deeds can outweigh our bad deeds of we just do enough good deeds then there is no need for God's forgiveness. Wrong. So, does this mean we should not help those in need, of course not, but the good deeds we do will not get us into Heaven.
      Repent, ask for forgiveness, believe you have received forgiveness and as Jesus said "Go and sin no more". Have faith that God did forgive so act like it, if in doubt realize that God wants you to rest assured and have peace of mind that He is in control and He does things His way, not our way.

  • @lets_go_see_
    @lets_go_see_ 2 роки тому

    Thank You for pointing out this valuable topic !!

  • @ngonigriffith1491
    @ngonigriffith1491 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this. There are so many people following the wrong path when it comes to divorce and remarriage.

  • @mc45892
    @mc45892 2 роки тому +4

    I was reading Matthew 19 and was fascinated by this topic then I realised or God spoke to me that this is why we should wait for our future partners then you will become one

  • @keithjohnson9790
    @keithjohnson9790 2 роки тому +9

    I love this guy & his teaching. The are so pure!!

  • @music4u157
    @music4u157 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks Daniel, lt's now clear to me. God bless you.

  • @georginasfakianakis6716
    @georginasfakianakis6716 2 роки тому

    Thanks daniel..I look at my bible when you quote the bible ..and the verses coincide! I'm happy gina s.

  • @orsikun
    @orsikun 2 роки тому +6

    Jesus said that we are allowed to divorce but if we decide so we should live like a widow. I made a big mistake, I had divorced then I remarried again. I divorced later on from my second partner, I truly repented what I did and finally I understood what Jesus said, living as a widow, applies for me too. And I tell you brothers and sisters, I am happy being a single and I am happy to live like a widow. I feel peace and I don' long after having realitionship. If you decide to follow the right path, God gives you peace and He forgives too.
    God bless you all!

    • @calibeau
      @calibeau 5 місяців тому +1

      I have married and divorced a few times, and realize being married to Jesus is the #1 Priority forever. God has healed me of my past and restored me, I have his Peace, and Forgiveness...😊❤

    • @joestephaniedemott1542
      @joestephaniedemott1542 Місяць тому

      He does not say we are allowed to Divorce. Understand the rest of your story and you are right to remain single or be reconciled at 1 Cor 7-11 says. Bless you!

  • @shuckle7713
    @shuckle7713 2 роки тому +7

    God is so kind

  • @atifkabeerkabeer6591
    @atifkabeerkabeer6591 2 роки тому +1

    GOD BLESS YOU DANIEL MY BROTHER FOR ENLIGHTEN US .MAY THIS CHRITMAS SEASON BRING MORE PEACE AND JOY IN OUR LIFE .AND JESUS CHRIST GIVE US THE HOLY SPRIT THAT WE READ AND UNDERSTAND HIS HOLY LIVE BIBLE .AND ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT IS THERE IS PAIN OR STRUGGLE IN YOUR LIFE THER IS THE PROVIDER THE KING OF THE KINGS THE LORD OUR LOVE OF LIFE JESUS . WISHING TO ALL A BLESSED CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR 🌲🌲🌲🌲🌲

  • @flowerbomb188
    @flowerbomb188 2 роки тому +2

    Great word straight from scriptures.

  • @tracybryan8661
    @tracybryan8661 2 роки тому +34

    My first husband and myself had two children in our marriage. We both cheated on each other. I left him and we both remarried. My second husband died and him and his second wife have been separated and not seen or talked to each other for years. Him and myself got back together. I want to do right in Gods eyes. It feels like Gods hand is in this especially how the circumstances seem to have been orchestrated. This video came to my phone instantly out of nowhere and I was the first to give it thumbs up 👍. This is the second confirmation from the Lord.

    • @neliafrancis9120
      @neliafrancis9120 2 роки тому +5

      Amen, but your message isn’t clear the second part..

    • @arlene1169
      @arlene1169 2 роки тому +1

      @@neliafrancis9120 What you did not understand? She explained it very well.

    • @redeemablesoul
      @redeemablesoul 2 роки тому +4

      Please consider talk to God more

    • @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
      @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways 2 роки тому +15

      Tracy, Are you saying you are trying to reconcile with your true husband, the first marriage for both of y'all? Adultery didn't end your first marriage, neither did divorce papers, to the Lord you are still married. I helped a woman who had divorced and remarried three times get reconciled to her husband (first one) after 21 years of being divorced. It happens when the Holy Spirit is involved, and I have a playlist on Marriages Restored After Divorce testimony videos. God bless you.

    • @tracybryan8661
      @tracybryan8661 2 роки тому

      @@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways thank you

  • @JustARandomUser22
    @JustARandomUser22 2 роки тому +6

    Another upload to save another person's life. Thank you DLM Team!

  • @reggiBB
    @reggiBB 2 роки тому

    This video was a very pleasant surprise. I expected you to back up divorce and have a non-Biblical perspective... But you were spot on Biblically. I went to subscribe and then saw that I already was 👍

  • @Short_memes777
    @Short_memes777 2 роки тому

    Thanks dear brother for making this video...

  • @waytttlife6218
    @waytttlife6218 2 роки тому +4

    ⚖ - True; pure; noble; 'well weighted, 'simply put' and Authentic - 🔥 - AMEN 💙

  • @sperrystbernard1523
    @sperrystbernard1523 Рік тому +4

    But he never say remarried

  • @gambonmgaya1286
    @gambonmgaya1286 2 роки тому

    Thank you for teachings .

  • @sanctificationtruth8028
    @sanctificationtruth8028 2 роки тому +1

    Beautiful sermon bro God bless you bro.

  • @rickroy2726
    @rickroy2726 2 роки тому +5

    AMEN❤🙏DLM NEVER DISAPPOINT US WITH HIS VIDEOS

  • @carolynbradburn9786
    @carolynbradburn9786 2 роки тому +6

    Please pray for me, I need God’s Forgiveness. I have already asked for my ex and I forgive him.

  • @denisethorbjornsen7493
    @denisethorbjornsen7493 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for your message God's message

  • @user-lc4nl5kg7m
    @user-lc4nl5kg7m Місяць тому

    The channel is amazing ! Praise the good lord jesus Amen !

  • @heyitzay5958
    @heyitzay5958 2 роки тому +3

    What happens if it's a physically abusive marriage?

  • @expressoevangelism80
    @expressoevangelism80 2 роки тому +8

    Such a difficult one. I have studied, read and reread Jesus’ teaching on divorce. As with all of his teaching, context is everything.
    It is good for a man to have a helpmeet to keep him focused on God’s purpose in their lives, and although Paul recommends that we should keep our sights on God, however if that is too difficult, we should submit to our strong desire and keep it right, though marriage.
    With regard to marrying a divorced partner, I believe He lead me to realise, that if we are instrumental in causing someone to divorce their spouse, then that is obviously wrong, and should be avoided.
    Once we are divorced then that is another ball game. God’s grace will never contradict his teaching, but it will allow for new beginnings each day in righteousness as we pass our sins and failings to Jesus for FULL forgiveness.

    • @maunder01
      @maunder01 Рік тому +1

      So you believe one can remarry?

    • @suzannegendron9504
      @suzannegendron9504 8 місяців тому

      ​@@maunder01luke 16.18

    • @maunder01
      @maunder01 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@suzannegendron9504right. Don't divorce a woman to marry another, and a woman is not to divorce her husband to marry another!

  • @ladymichaellajacchaide626
    @ladymichaellajacchaide626 2 роки тому

    Wow this is the one i want to ask you pastor Daniel on you.I got it right thoughts about what is the best LAW that GOD created in his will.That his LAW most powerful than the law of people who created in this temporary world.This is the good answer that i need to know the truth with this video.THANKS GOD upon your life Pastor Daniel for sharing this know..

  • @paulmichael2320
    @paulmichael2320 2 роки тому

    God bless you more Daniel f9r the more light thrown.

  • @sachinbedi4135
    @sachinbedi4135 2 роки тому +7

    AMAZING VIDEO DANIEL! Sometimes people don't UNDERSTAND & think MARRIAGE is a JOKE! I really PRAY for a LOT of Gentiles to WATCH & UNDERSTAND this video 🙏 God is Great 🙏 Amen 🙏❤️✝️

  • @charlesgilbert5682
    @charlesgilbert5682 2 роки тому +19

    Remarriage only upon the death of a spouse. Infidelity does not trigger permission.

    • @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
      @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways 2 роки тому +2

      AMEN Charles. Daniel got it wrong unfortunately. Hoping he will read the comments.

    • @brotherheavens2635
      @brotherheavens2635 2 роки тому +2

      Yeah... there's no remarriage unless after the death of a spouse, not infidelity.

    • @maunder01
      @maunder01 2 роки тому +1

      @@brotherheavens2635 God divorced Israel for ADULTERY.

    • @bayodeoluleye7789
      @bayodeoluleye7789 2 роки тому +1

      Read your Bible and look what Jesus says let’s not go off what we think

    • @grant2149
      @grant2149 Рік тому

      EXCATLY💯💯

  • @johnnycash6162
    @johnnycash6162 2 роки тому +2

    Praise to the LORD JESUS CHRIST 🙏 AMEN

  • @mememalase9018
    @mememalase9018 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much brother dlm 🙏🏻💕🙏🏻💕

  • @dudenotsoperfect9366
    @dudenotsoperfect9366 2 роки тому +4

    I am divorced. The choice we made wasnt Gods choice. I know that. But i also know that i will never be in another relationship again. Those are the consequences. God forgave me a long time ago for this, but i also have to deal with the choice we made.

    • @pegc9889
      @pegc9889 10 місяців тому

      please dont be so hard on yourself

  • @tanyoivanov-personal
    @tanyoivanov-personal 2 роки тому +10

    The think for the forgiveness is true. I didn't forgave for almost 7 years on my ex cheating me and I was pushing away from me the other people. I think for the last two years I forgave her and my soul feels much lighter.

    • @tanyoivanov-personal
      @tanyoivanov-personal 2 роки тому

      @Ázráél Don't silence me Long story, but basically found her with my neighbour and she got pregnant from him behind the scenes while I was preparing to propose her. I got a car crash when I understood. Luckily no one got hurt, they married. However, the time heals. Now is better.

  • @susansookdeo1465
    @susansookdeo1465 2 роки тому

    Brampton Canada 🇨🇦 ♥ ❤ hello Daniel u are beautiful and your wife. My husband and I wanted to get divorce many many times ⏲ but God kept us. 🙏 praise the Lord. Thanks for all your prayers 🙏 and teaching 🙏 Brampton Canada 🇨🇦 ♥ ❤

  • @keithcarter5468
    @keithcarter5468 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so very much for this !!!!

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust 2 роки тому +4

    Divorce is justified if the partner commits adultery steps outside the marriage or dies then love you in the Lord brother Daniel 🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾.

    • @RyanREAX
      @RyanREAX 2 роки тому +2

      But remarriage isn’t permissible until death of covenant spouse

    • @maunder01
      @maunder01 2 роки тому +3

      @@RyanREAX please read 1 Corinthians 7 in context taking note of the words. God bless.

  • @godgavemeeyestosee
    @godgavemeeyestosee 2 роки тому +16

    Dear Brother Daniel, I too used to believe that an "innocent" person could divorce and remarry if his or her spouse committed adultery until I studied the scriptures. I found that Mark 10:11-12 & Luke 16:18 did not have the "except for fornication" clause while Matthew 19:9 did. I know that scripture does not contradict scripture, so I kept praying and searching to find out why Matthew had that exception clause. I found out that the book of Matthew was written to a Jewish audience while Mark and Luke are written to a Gentile audience. The Jews had a marriage custom that included betrothal (which is similar to an engagement to be married) while the Gentiles did not. In order for the betrothal to be broken, the Jewish couple had to get a divorce. This means that the Jews had two kinds of divorce; one from a betrothal and one from a marriage. Matthew 19:9 is referring to a divorce from a betrothal and not a divorce from a marriage. That is why it includes the clause, "except for fornication" and not "except for adultery". Unmarried people commit fornication. In the translation you quoted it said "except for marital unfaithfulness" which is a faulty translation. Matthew 19:9 will agree with Mark 10:11-12 & Luke 16:18 when you know that the divorce allowed in Matthew 19:9 is the divorce of betrothed couples only. Also, read about how Joseph was thinking about divorcing Mary when he found out that she was pregnant with Jesus (Matthew 1:18-25). They were only betrothed, yet Joseph was thinking about divorcing her and they were considered as husband and wife. The Bible teaches that only death of the spouse frees a married person to be able to remarry; not adultery, divorce or anything else. Read Romans 7:2-3 and 1 Corinthians 7:39. Anyone who divorces his or her covenant spouse and marries someone else while that spouse is still alive is committing adultery. Those are the words of Jesus. I hope this helps your understanding.

    • @melissailene7361
      @melissailene7361 2 роки тому +8

      Yes. And there’s also Romans 7 where a wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. Death and God are the only thing that can break the marriage bond.

    • @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
      @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways 2 роки тому +7

      This is totally true, and I pray Daniel here will read this comment and the others who are teaching the Bible accurately.

    • @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
      @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways 2 роки тому +4

      @@melissailene7361 That's right. God only ends a marriage by death. To repent of divorce and remarriage adultery, a person must leave the adultery.

    • @FirefighterAliveJC
      @FirefighterAliveJC 2 роки тому +1

      How then would it be adultery to marry someone else when you were only engaged and never actually married?

    • @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
      @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways 2 роки тому +5

      @@FirefighterAliveJC It's the difference between an ancient Jewish marriage that begins at the betrothal and today's Gentile proposals and engagement. Long ago the bride's Dad had to be paid a price to get betrothed, and she had to agree to the arranged marriage. Then she was his wife, but they didn't actually sleep together maybe even for years. Some Dads even arranged their children's marriages when they were babies. Joseph was betrothed to his wife Mary, mother of Jesus, so he had to divorce her except the angel told him to take her as his wife.
      A Gentile marriage with vows, witnesses and physical union is until death, so Jesus said, "Let no man separate what God has joined together." Blessings.

  • @nbhbadboy2026
    @nbhbadboy2026 2 роки тому

    Thank you for making this video I’m glad I found your page my wife left me after saying she no longer loved me

    • @suzannegendron9504
      @suzannegendron9504 8 місяців тому

      Ok. It does not give u permission to remarry. Luke 16.18 marrying someone else would be called adultery

  • @codyfeatherstone3901
    @codyfeatherstone3901 2 роки тому

    This is very very important to understand.

  • @auh2o148
    @auh2o148 2 роки тому +8

    "...except for fornication, commits adultery" means during the engagement, if a wife 'cheated' and it was discovered on the wedding night that she wasn't a virgin, she could be "divorced," because breaking a woman's hymen is a blood covenant. This is more of an annulment to our modern understanding. But as you can see, divorce as we know it is NOT permitted under ANY circumstances! That is why Saul (Paul) said if you're having problems you can separate to keep peace, BUT to remain pure because you do not know how or when YHWH will reconcile you. If your spouse leaves/abandons you, you are not responsible for their actions (which releases you from that bondage) and they are no longer justified by you, BUT you will still remain married. This is why the Disciples said, "If such is the case with a man and woman, it is better not to marry," because they understood it was no getting out of it. Listen brethren, if divorce is allowed, then Messiah died in vain! That was the other meaning of His death - we were His Bride, we committed adultery (that's why The Word speaks so much on that sin), instead of us being condemned to death, He (as our Husband) took our place, paying the debt that is only dissolved by death. That's why your marriage vows say "till death do you part." This time, we are only engaged until He returns for only a pure and spotless Bride. When Messiah said, "what YHWH has joined together, let no man break asunder," that means how can someone break what He has brought together? The idea of a man leaving his father & mother to be joined to his wife is as a branch that is pruned from its tree to be entwined and grow with another - so HOW can you separate that? The status of many "Believer's" marriage/divorce alone is why even most "believers" won't see the Kingdom of YHWH, because His own people are destroyed for a lack of knowledge, counsel, vision, and faith.

    • @forwardpressers
      @forwardpressers 2 роки тому +1

      Preach it brother. You are correct! When we examine Luke 16:18 "Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery." There are NO exceptions! Most people don't read it from here.

    • @auh2o148
      @auh2o148 2 роки тому +1

      @@forwardpressers thank you, I knew I was forgetting a scripture!

    • @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
      @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways 2 роки тому +1

      AMEN!!!! My channel has been warning people about divorce and remarriage adultery for a long time. In America the second highest divorce and remarriage adultery rate is among pastors. Blessings.

    • @auh2o148
      @auh2o148 2 роки тому

      @@WalkingbytheSpiritAlways i agree. My dad's a pastor and he's been 'married' 5 times. I'm pretty sure their justification is "let's hurry and get married so we don't fornicate." But they wind up committing adultery instead!

    • @josiahpizzo5844
      @josiahpizzo5844 2 роки тому +2

      For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
      3So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man....romans 7
      Thanks for standing your ground!

  • @Tropicalharpist72
    @Tropicalharpist72 2 роки тому +5

    DANIEL, The original hebrew and greek manuscripts used the term “porneia”, which, in the KJV bible (the authentic english translation) translated it as “fornication” which happens before marriage. Jesus did not say moicheia which is greek for adultery. Corrupted bible translations have edited it to say sexual immorality instead.
    “Except for fornication” clause in Matthew refers to the Jewish betrothal and marriage custom of the bride being discovered by the groom as being non-virgin on their wedding night, or became pregnant by someone else before the actual wedding. Fornication is sex before marriage. Matthew was written for the Jews; Luke and Mark for the gentiles.
    There is no permission to remarry anywhere in the bible while previous covenant spouse is living.

    • @willy9901
      @willy9901 2 роки тому +1

      100%, this is a false teaching and he should repent and take this video off his channel.

    • @RyanREAX
      @RyanREAX 2 роки тому +1

      Yep, I knew his channel was fake

    • @FirefighterAliveJC
      @FirefighterAliveJC 2 роки тому +1

      Then why did God divorce Israel in Jeremiah 3?

    • @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
      @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways 2 роки тому +1

      @tropicalharpist72 You have it correct! God has blessed you to know the truth. I hope Daniel will see the Bereans he has in the comments and correct his teaching. Divorce and remarriage adultery is rampant within the church, and judgment is coming soon. Maranatha .

    • @maunder01
      @maunder01 2 роки тому +1

      @@FirefighterAliveJC exactly! They ignore this one. And the fact that all through 1 Corinthians 7 there are different scenarios and instructions.

  • @glynratcliffe6014
    @glynratcliffe6014 2 роки тому

    Sound, scriptural, and sensible.

  • @carzyfn9985
    @carzyfn9985 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Lord for giving us ( people ) a spirt.

  • @sofiemedinag6474
    @sofiemedinag6474 2 роки тому +4

    I love that you're using ''The Chosen'' footage, I love that series

  • @robb5023
    @robb5023 2 роки тому +6

    What would you say to my situation. My ex ran away with our daughter on a lie no less. I waited and tried for another year plus. I finally filed the papers and she got served. I did this due to her withholding my daughter from me. I never cheated on her nor drugs or gambling or abuse.

    • @levernis5753
      @levernis5753 2 роки тому

      Oh what a horrible woman.

    • @shadowmist1246
      @shadowmist1246 2 роки тому +2

      Lots of information missing to properly address in a UA-cam comment. 1 Corinthians 6:1-11 comes to mind though.

    • @MrLoui74
      @MrLoui74 2 роки тому +2

      I think that your ex wife is not a believer, and she doesn’t have faith in God. And if she is not a believer and she left you, you are not bound to her.

    • @levernis5753
      @levernis5753 2 роки тому

      Atleast when your daughter grows up she will see you as a father with respect because you did nothing wrong. And try to look at this from a different way be very glad that you got rid of ur ex she doesn't deserve a gentleman like you.

    • @shadowmist1246
      @shadowmist1246 2 роки тому +1

      ​@@MrLoui74 There are 2 interpretations of 1 Cor 7:15. 1) divorce/remarriage allowed and 2) separate and stay single. I for one believe in the later because....
      1. Paul was not talking about divorce and it is likely that he would have as he did in other places
      2. Paul was talking about keeping the peace which separation solves
      3. Separation allows the believer to re-unite with a repenting partner which would not be possible if the believer remarries
      4. Paul would not be contradicting Jesus in Mat19:9
      5. It takes a greater leap of interpretation to go to divorce as an interpretation
      6. Paul would not be redefining marriage as defined by God ie Mat 19:5-6
      Practically however, the non-believer will usually remarry (or sleep around) which would then allow the believer to divorce and remarry.

  • @mariatheresasuarez4406
    @mariatheresasuarez4406 7 місяців тому

    This is a very informative Discussion ❤❤❤

  • @togetherchristiansmedia3437
    @togetherchristiansmedia3437 2 роки тому

    Looks like this video isn't for me because I am single but thank you for making this video. It's May help me to know what to do in the future and others too. God bless you Daniel keep up brother

  • @XxLismixX
    @XxLismixX 2 роки тому +3

    Could someone or the creator of this video please answer my question: my husband is emotionally and mentally abusive. I’m praying and fasting for a change. The more I read the Bible the more I feel inclined to go back as even like the video says, if we suffer and are innocent, we are blessed. However I’m absolutely petrified, not only for my mental health but I really don’t my baby to see bad things and think it’s love. However he is asking for me back, ‘ I want you to come back so come back if you want’
    Ofcourse the Bible says if an unbeliever doesn’t want to be with you then don’t leave. What do I do? I’m so so so scared to go back, I would feel like an empty shell, I don’t feel loved by him. Except for when he needs something, I can’t trust him cuz I don’t know what will be used against me in the future and I don’t know how or when he lies because at the moment it’s second nature to him. How can we justify all those people who are harmed and yet feel so blessed? Just to give you an example Kayla Mueller- there’s a video on UA-cam about how she was a Christian, all she was doing was helping the poor and needy and yet she got kidnapped and tortured but her faith grew immensely. Don’t get me wrong I’m not saying someone should just put themselves in harms way but in this particular situation, God allowed it to happen. 1 Peter 2:19 It is commendable if someone bears up under the pain of unjust suffering because they are conscious of God. But how is it to your credit if you receive a beating for doing wrong and endure it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God.
    I read this the other day and was blown away and almost scared to be honest with you.
    I know God is able to change Him but am I doing the wrong thing by being away? As I’m currently at my parents with our baby as I couldn’t stay there.

    • @godgavemeeyestosee
      @godgavemeeyestosee 2 роки тому +6

      Dear Sister, you are allowed to leave an abusive marriage, but you cannot remarry unless your covenant spouse dies. When the Bible says to be reconciled, it means that both the husband and the wife have conditions that are being met in order for the reconciliation to take place. If those conditions are not met, then there is no reconciliation. Pray and ask the Lord what you should do. You have yourself and your child to protect. The Lord will lead you if you trust Him. Also, be sure to study your Bible and pray and develop and strengthen your relationship with the Lord. This will help you to be able to recognize when He is speaking to you. The Lord will never tell you to do something that is contrary to the Bible. I hope this helps. May the Lord bless, lead and guide you as you seek His will for your life.

    • @hlalelemohale7296
      @hlalelemohale7296 2 роки тому +1

      Just stay away until God has changed him

    • @deborah5531
      @deborah5531 2 роки тому

      @@godgavemeeyestosee very good advice!

  • @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways
    @WalkingbytheSpiritAlways 2 роки тому +6

    Simple truth: If divorced you aren't enslaved to give your body to your spouse anymore, but you are still married in God's eyes until death, so pray for forgiveness and reconciliation. Some people are able to pray their spouse gets born again and then reconcile which is what 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 says. Do not divorce and remarry or you are in ongoing adultery. Revelation 2 says that those in adultery will be going into the Tribulation, so repent and live holy now! Don't be left behind.

    • @alexisjamesbornagain726
      @alexisjamesbornagain726 2 роки тому

      AMEN! Millions need to repent and leave remarriage adultery. Jesus is coming to take the true Christians in the rapture, and those who are teaching error on divorce and remarriage will be left behind!

    • @sfs1167
      @sfs1167 2 роки тому

      If you've looked at a man with lust, YOU'VE committed adultery and you won't be going either. If you have lied, you aren't going. If you've stolen anything, you aren't going.
      Why did Jesus not tell the woman at the well to go home, divorce every man she'd been married to and remain single? Why did Paul not tell new Christians. "Oh, by the way, guys, If you are married to someone who has been divorced before or if YOU have divorced before, you need to divorce the person you're married to. You aren't forgiven. I don't want you to make any mistake here. It's pretty important! Go take care of it and then get back here and report to me on it." There are ways that a marriage bond is broken. Adulterous activity and abandonment. Yes, the ideal is marriage is for life as pointed out in Romans 2 and 1 Cor 7:39 but there are reasons for adultery. That is why it says "a woman who has a husband." A properly divorced woman doesn't have a husband.

  • @poonamtambe6605
    @poonamtambe6605 2 роки тому

    Very nice video it was good advise 🙂

  • @inpursuitofholiness416
    @inpursuitofholiness416 2 роки тому

    So informative.