Our Biblical Role as a Wife in Marriage

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  • @callielinn9115
    @callielinn9115 Рік тому +1332

    When my husband and I decided I'd stay at home 9 years ago to homeschool our children, my husband's business grew in such a way we didn't need a second income. God is so faithful!

    • @sunguarmagan9535
      @sunguarmagan9535 Рік тому +13

      Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Hallelujah! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @cutesnubable
      @cutesnubable Рік тому +12

      God is leading me to take this step 🙏🏾

    • @andyf8001
      @andyf8001 Рік тому +6

      You and your husband pastor Vlad are a very good inspiration. May God triple all blessings in your lives

    • @NannasSpring
      @NannasSpring Рік тому +2

      Wait till he start spending money on younger and prettier woman and lies to you saying he needs to stay away because of business. men cannot be trusted

    • @sallylara1102
      @sallylara1102 Рік тому

      Amen 🙏🏽

  • @tracir3072
    @tracir3072 Рік тому +822

    You don't honor your husband because he's honorable, you honor him because you're Honorable 🤯 loved that!!!❤

    • @elvinaryanto_
      @elvinaryanto_ Рік тому +27

      The same goes to me. I honor my father & mother not because they’re honorable. But because I AM HONORABLE

    • @kickinthegob
      @kickinthegob Рік тому +39

      You honour your husband because Christ is honourable. The man fulfils the representation of Christ, the wife represents the church.

    • @tkleo2006
      @tkleo2006 Рік тому

      Dang

    • @yeboscrebo4451
      @yeboscrebo4451 Рік тому +4

      @@kickinthegob exactly

    • @DedicatedSpartan
      @DedicatedSpartan Рік тому +10

      To an extent. Your Husband should be honorable as a husband. For example, in Titus after Paul explained how a woman is to love her husband he wrote " and ye men likewise". That said a Godly woman should not marry a dishonorable man and Godly men likewise. This is where a good mother and father come in. A Godly man and woman are going to raise Godly sons and daughters.

  • @davidpetersonharvey
    @davidpetersonharvey Рік тому +173

    When I read biblical accounts of a wife, I"m happy to say it always reminds me of my wife. 34 years married and love her more than ever.

    • @imaamericangirl1406
      @imaamericangirl1406 5 місяців тому

      You are truly blessed as is she I am sure. May God continue to bless your life and marriage together.

  • @wilmamccoul
    @wilmamccoul Рік тому +345

    When my husband and I agreed to live a Biblical marriage, he submits to Christ, I submit to him, our marriage improved tenfold and I never felt so free. I submit to my husband out of obedience to God and God blesses him! If I act without my husband’s blessing, it NEVER goes well for me. As I remain obedient to God and pray for my husband, He has my back. He shows me over and over, even when I argue with Him. Lol. I’m grateful for women like you! Thank you.

    • @uchman2640
      @uchman2640 Рік тому +11

      May God continue to grace and protect your family

    • @Heguayile
      @Heguayile Рік тому +11

      A woman like you is so rare in this world 😢😥

    • @matildamaher1505
      @matildamaher1505 Рік тому +3

      God bless you and your marriage

    • @Klyvar.x
      @Klyvar.x Рік тому +2

      I want this so much

    • @gmg03
      @gmg03 11 місяців тому +5

      Same for me. Almost had a fatal accident because I decided something without consulting my husband first, but thank GOD that he saved me unharmed and I was able to see my mistake.

  • @heatherlaurenRN
    @heatherlaurenRN Рік тому +174

    I remember when my mom became a stay at home mom when I was a kid and feeling so much happier after that point on. I was less anxious too. That’s how I know, personally, how valuable stay at home mothers are to their family

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 10 місяців тому

      @heatherfar8245
      Isn't a woman's place in the home ? How about preaching Titus 2:4 again and again to just blow up our demonic feminist culture once for good ?
      No need to make conferences and talk for hours. Just point to what is WRITTEN and nothing else.
      The problem is today's women are too proud and rebellious to acknowledge that everything written about women , in good or bad is absolute truth.

  • @keenapowell8715
    @keenapowell8715 Рік тому +370

    Beautifully done! I had to make a conscious decision to get out of the drivers seat of my marriage (I was there because he wasn’t!) but the minute I told him we were all following His lead, it made him more aware, and he stepped up! (I actually told him not to lead us to hell!😳) It takes time, but a slow, steady rise in leadership is better than a steady DECLINE of your family. Stay prayerful and persistent!

    • @rickzumi7052
      @rickzumi7052 Рік тому

      Keena you did the right move, this all thing about the libaration of women in the early 70's, that was finance by the Rokerfeller, you see where im going! the plan to destroy the familly and biblical teaching. We "Man" let free range to woman as we were told by woman im "independent" as Lana says it does not work and the leader is the man, also it does not mean that woman can not build a great carear and so on. Im glad i foun d Lana as we need to go back to the scriptures, the Bible is the book of life, and we moved away from it, we see whats happening in the world today, the transgender and mutilation of kids, have a great day Keena

    • @owusuafriyiedennis4386
      @owusuafriyiedennis4386 Рік тому +13

      Awesome. At least you advised him not to lead the family to hell.

    • @ineztanda4447
      @ineztanda4447 Рік тому +4

      Thank you so much for this video ❤. We pray that God gives us strength to be good wives.

    • @asksskdkdkdk2993
      @asksskdkdkdk2993 Рік тому +1

      😊😅

    • @forward_ever_ever2595
      @forward_ever_ever2595 Рік тому +7

      You're a good wife.

  • @staceystitches
    @staceystitches Рік тому +67

    I’m still single at 47 due to sexual trauma when I was young causing a fear of men. I’m finally at a point, with the help of Jesus through Celebrate Recovery, ready to trust God to bring a godly husband to me. My intention is to be the best godly wife I can be, and possibly a godly stepmother and step grandmother. So this video is very timely for me. Thank you so much for making this video Lana. You and your husband are so sweet and I’m so excited that you are finally blessed with a baby!

    • @carlmorgan8452
      @carlmorgan8452 11 місяців тому +4

      Celebrate recovery was awesome gift for me.

    • @rickfowler5342
      @rickfowler5342 7 місяців тому

      I highly suggest Karyn Seitz "The Happy Wife School" as well as this site. The Biblical Wisdom taught from both of these pages will give an amazing amount of protection and preparation from temptation from many of the devil's lies that are rampant in today's culture.

    • @nunyacincuaskt4410
      @nunyacincuaskt4410 6 місяців тому +1

      Lifting you in prayer sister

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 5 місяців тому +2

      Celebrate Recovery helped me too. I had alcoholism, depression and fear of men from sexual molestation & rape. Jesus freed me.

    • @meganhardy6983
      @meganhardy6983 3 місяці тому +4

      I completely understand your choice in this. I've been where you are too. I was 13 years old when it happened. I'm 35 now and God has sent me a loving, faithful and God loving man. May God bless you my friend! Praying for you today and I'll add you to my prayer list.

  • @The_Man_Who_Warns
    @The_Man_Who_Warns Рік тому +169

    When you honor and respect your husband, something's gonna start changing, something is going to start happening in his heart towards you. When you speak and feed that primary need in your husband, things are going to shift in your marriage.
    Absolutely. Beautifully said Lana

    • @gobigandgohomeschool4882
      @gobigandgohomeschool4882 Рік тому +8

      Unless he is an abusive and narcissistic person. Then he will likely take those words of honor to further self-inflate and cause destruction and pain at every turn. It is NOT HONORING to God to enable and support the evil and destructive behaviors of another person.

    • @YAHWEH-SAVES777
      @YAHWEH-SAVES777 Рік тому +5

      ​@@gobigandgohomeschool4882 why would you marry someone like that. And are you limiting God on what he can do to a man's heart.

    • @dorotadamiecka5233
      @dorotadamiecka5233 11 місяців тому

      Same problem

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 11 місяців тому +8

      @gobigandgohomeschool4882, I find that when women accuse their man of being a narcissist, it's usually because he doesn't bow to her every demand and he fails to read her mind or meet all of her arbitrary, emotionally subjective, and ever-changing expectations of him that she failed to communicate. And when the man finally stands up for himself because he's sick of her psychological tactics and mental abuse, he is labeled the abuser. So if you're actually in a relationship with an actually abusive man, then why did you marry him in the first place? You could have avoided the entire situation. But you didn't.

    • @julsmathteacher415
      @julsmathteacher415 10 місяців тому +2

      @@smokingcrab2290 Wow! Have you walked in those shoes?

  • @holistichabits
    @holistichabits Рік тому +299

    Thank you Lana! Perfect timing as a I prepare to be the best wife I can 💗

    • @pwmsensitive
      @pwmsensitive Рік тому +2

      "Homemakers" by Bryson Gray

    • @nicolletorres2875
      @nicolletorres2875 Рік тому +3

      Same🙏🏼💕

    • @paulschannel3046
      @paulschannel3046 Рік тому +10

      Whoever and wherever you are... For being humble and wanting to be the best wife you can God will bless you and your upcoming marriage.

    • @EmilyGrobler
      @EmilyGrobler Рік тому +5

      Whaaaa you're getting married?! What have I missed... I love your channel

    • @jesse75
      @jesse75 Рік тому +1

      Nice to hear there are some around. Rare.

  • @Ro19303
    @Ro19303 Рік тому +68

    Since my husband and I became Christians, the Lord has really worked so much in our home and specially in my heart! I changed my heart and my actions as a wife, and truly that was the best thing. I have never been happier ❤ our marriage is at its best stage. Great content ❤

  • @Cindyperaltablog
    @Cindyperaltablog Рік тому +57

    I loved the part about being my husband’s crown! I cried at the stay at home mom part. It is good to be reminded that it is the will of God to do this. Thank you! Please film more content like this. God bless you & your family!

    • @skippy675
      @skippy675 Рік тому

      Just spread your legs and keep those meals coming. That's what God designed women for.

    • @stevemacinnis5000
      @stevemacinnis5000 Рік тому +1

      Wow, there's another one! I'm a 25-year-old Christian man looking for a Biblical wife like you and Lana. Where can I find them? 😍🙏

    • @ncp5957
      @ncp5957 11 місяців тому

      ​@@stevemacinnis5000Trust God at all times, pray for the wife He has for you. Follow God. He can cause you to meet your future wife in any place. Joseph met his in Egypt according to tradition. She had had a major conversion experience prior. Even in a very pagan society God gave Joseph a believing wife. Joseph lived faithful to God too. There are places where you can go (church etc) to meet others but: '...a prudent wife is from the LORD'. Prov 19:14. Listen to God, if you are serious in wanting His way He'll let you know if you are (or not) to be with someone you're getting to know. Keep your spiritual ears open.
      God provided for His saints and often miraculously, even in negative circumstances (Joseph & his wife; Isaac & Rebekah; Boaz & Ruth) He can do the same for you!

  • @lifewithlarsandsusie8315
    @lifewithlarsandsusie8315 Рік тому +14

    I agree with you! I really like having my husband be in charge of all the big things and my favorite place to be in the world is when I can lay my head on his heart and hear it beating. I always feel safe and loved.

  • @ieshastewart810
    @ieshastewart810 Рік тому +74

    What stood out for me Lana was when you mentioned that society today is trying to pull women out of their natural role in the home, getting us into this career driven mindset which is helping to destroy the divinely intended family structure. The plans of the enemy are so deeply and cunningly woven into our daily lives, thank you for making that point

    • @78musiksphere
      @78musiksphere 9 місяців тому

      The natural role of a woman is to lead the world. She was created first (chromosome XX) and the male came out of her XY. Educate yourself.

    • @suzettecooper382
      @suzettecooper382 4 місяці тому +1

      So archaic and ridiculous

  • @EvelynBright777
    @EvelynBright777 Рік тому +89

    I had plans on being at home to raise my new baby that’s coming soon. My husband abandoned me and now i am becoming homeless. I have such anxiety about letting anyone stay with my baby. I’m so broken. I have been praying that my husband would be free from the demonic bondage that is causing him to make irrational decisions based on the confusion and attacks of the enemy through other people and his mind being distorted from the truth. Please I ask that warrior prayerful people join in with me on praying for my husband to be delivered from those spirits and pray for me and my baby (our family).

    • @leatitiavaughan7694
      @leatitiavaughan7694 Рік тому +16

      The Lord will make a way for you. Sometimes it doesn't come in the way we want, but He will make a way. ❤

    • @lanahungrygen
      @lanahungrygen  Рік тому +12

      🙏🏼

    • @boitumelomthembu1706
      @boitumelomthembu1706 Рік тому +6

      Hello ,Maybe you should try the water fast or Daniel fast just to pray for him .

    • @goitsemodimokelebogile3313
      @goitsemodimokelebogile3313 Рік тому +1

      God hav mercy on you

    • @da-eu
      @da-eu Рік тому +6

      May God save your marriage. Bless you. Keep us updated sis🥺

  • @lizette87ful
    @lizette87ful Рік тому +47

    Being a stay at home mom at the beginning was very challenging as I had always worked prior to having kids. It was something I had to give to the Lord and knew it was the best for my children. Now I homeschool our children and have added one more child and love the fruit that has come from it.
    We constantly get many compliments not only on how well mannered our children are but they know the word of God and they help maintain the home.
    The Lord has shown me that my children are my ministry and ever since it’s been changed for me.

  • @victorkurkov
    @victorkurkov Рік тому +21

    I love that you shared your message in this video, Lana. My favorite part that you highlighted was how you shared that the wife’s submission to her husband does not mean or make her less valuable! This is powerful!

  • @Chichi-mo2pc
    @Chichi-mo2pc Рік тому +11

    I loved this, I did tear up when she said that someone else is raising their children bc I have cried about this many times and wish that I could stay home with my kids. I’m a single mom sadly but maybe one day. The Lord has however blessed us greatly by covering all our needs(emotional, physical, financial, etc) and making me a nurse. So many blessings He has given..I can afford to take some days off sometimes to be with them and I really appreciate that. I thank her for her prayers.

    • @kelleym7623
      @kelleym7623 9 місяців тому

      I wonder if there is a remote job you would be able to do so you could be home. I mean you would still be working so not fully available but at least at home. Like our insurance and doctors office have hotlines to call and speak with a nurse. Idk just trying to help. What I do know know is seeking God daily in everything helps He knows our desires and what is good for us if it's His will He will provide a way for you.

  • @IJustWatchYouTubeAllDay
    @IJustWatchYouTubeAllDay Рік тому +20

    I can make this promise to every family out there. If you do what the Lord commands and the man goes out and works and the woman stays home to take care of the kids the Lord will provide. If you are obeying the Lord, He will open the way for you to do what He's commanded.

  • @vladhungrygen
    @vladhungrygen Рік тому +36

    ❤😊

  • @AliciaReborn101
    @AliciaReborn101 Рік тому +18

    I wish I knew this over 30 years ago, but now kids are grown, our marriage almost ended several times, but now I’m saved and understand my role better. We were so broke, but we did both agree that I stay at home till the kids started school. Praying for my husband’s salvation and appreciate your video.

  • @joshuacrai
    @joshuacrai Рік тому +25

    I came here because my sister’s name is also Lana. She died in 2021 at 38 years. I started diving into more about heaven and now see more in the spirit than I ever have.

    • @ronniebattle1310
      @ronniebattle1310 Рік тому

      Encounter Ministries UA-cam channel. Mark Hemans)\\

  • @irishbiancabarayuga9285
    @irishbiancabarayuga9285 Рік тому +27

    Thank you for praying for single morhers. I really needed it. I am now building my career where I can work at home so I can still raise my child and be present w/ him. 🙏 Praise God

    • @ThankfulDad
      @ThankfulDad Рік тому +1

      I pray God blesses your career and your most important role as a mother.

    • @irishbiancabarayuga9285
      @irishbiancabarayuga9285 11 місяців тому +1

      @@ThankfulDad thank you. God bless you too!

  • @LisaGray1000
    @LisaGray1000 Рік тому +27

    We need this taught more. Would greatly reduce marriage break ups, so many people get too busy and their relationship deteriorates.

    • @jesse75
      @jesse75 Рік тому

      Women make us men responsible for their happiness. An impossible feat.
      That's the problem.

    • @STak-ju7gx
      @STak-ju7gx Рік тому +1

      ​@@jesse75well women are taught to make men happy and make her children happy. Also make every other family member happy. So who makes the woman happy?
      I don't like that kind of reasoning but I also understand that there are just some impossible people.
      But it's time to stop that silly trope of women being chaos and can't be understood. It's fine when it's a joke, but it's like taking it as a joke too long and people literally think it's the truth.
      If you ask me, men are the ones more complicated. A woman only wants to be loved and be secure in her place unless you went looking for some lunatic. Tell your wife you love her, every so often, plan time to spend with and communicate, recognize her on some special days, if your the gifting type, well get her gifts once in a while, if not write a note , or make something silly. Most women will be completely sold on those few things. It's really not that hard. Relationships should give each participant mutual care.

    • @jesse75
      @jesse75 Рік тому

      @@STak-ju7gx golden rule is the answer.

  • @pinksugaar
    @pinksugaar Рік тому +66

    You are beautiful! Thank you for this. I’m working on becoming a Godly woman and submissive wife. Too much culture and mainstream life has infiltrated my mind and marriage. Becoming a biblical wife has changed our home life ❤️

    • @pwmsensitive
      @pwmsensitive Рік тому +3

      "Lies Women Believe" is a helpful book!

  • @abbyalanis00
    @abbyalanis00 Рік тому +33

    Thank you Lana for teaching us about how to be a Godly wife. I hope one day I’ll be a blessing to my future husband. Being single for a while and I am learning little by little

    • @stevemacinnis5000
      @stevemacinnis5000 Рік тому

      Wow, you're so cute, honey! You will definitely be a Godly wife! I'm looking for a Godly wife, can you help me? 😏😘 If you're interested, I'll send you my email, and I can get your number from there, sound good? God bless you honey, and I hope to hear from you soon. ❤❤❤🙏

    • @paulrussell6495
      @paulrussell6495 Рік тому +4

      I hope you find a God fearing man, God fearing people are hard to find, but worth waiting for

  • @seancpcp
    @seancpcp Рік тому +16

    This is a fantastic breakdown of what a biblical wife looks like. Wonderfully said.

  • @rosadeleon7202
    @rosadeleon7202 Рік тому +21

    Congratulations so excited to hear what the Lord blesses you with to teach us. Nice to see a woman of God in teaching.

  • @joannhurt
    @joannhurt Рік тому +74

    My daughter has stage 3 ovarian cancer she is 43 she has 2 kids a girl and a boy 10 and 4. The cancer is spreading and the chemo treatments are not working and has caused damage to her body. I know God can heal her we need a miracle. Please pray for her and her kids and ask everyone to pray for her too. Please it has been over 2 years now 🙏
    Pray

    • @lanahungrygen
      @lanahungrygen  Рік тому +3

      🙏🏼

    • @joannhurt
      @joannhurt Рік тому +2

      Thank you for praying for her God bless you 🙏

    • @GloryToTheHighest
      @GloryToTheHighest Рік тому +8

      Praying ❤ Have you broken generational curses? You need to do it. Also make sure she is not holding on to unforgiveness. These could be hinderances in healing. Cancel the diagnosis. Bind spirit of death and infirmity and cast it out in Jesus name!

    • @JC-li8kk
      @JC-li8kk Рік тому +5

      @@joannhurt Father please touch and heal your precious daughter. Have mercy and compassion on her. Pour out your spirit on her & make her whole again. Reverse all damage. Remove every sickness & disease. Thank you for giving us new hope every day. My sister is in good hands. You will not fail her. The joy of the Lord is our strength. We rejoice always, give thanks in all circumstances, knowing you provide every need. Thank you in the name of Jesus.

    • @KennyFisher-wo5mf
      @KennyFisher-wo5mf Рік тому +2

      Almighty God, Jehovah-Rapha(Ex 15:26) send your Word and heal this mother,(Psalm 107:20) in Jesus' name- do what medicine and doctors cannot! We join faith and ask this in Jesus' name- the name above all other names! Amen!

  • @carolinagonzalez6074
    @carolinagonzalez6074 Рік тому +72

    I think even if you dont have kids its good to stay home. We can cook healthy meals for our husband and keep the house clean. Not compete with our husbands. We must protect our feminine soft energy that the workplace definitely changes.

    • @STak-ju7gx
      @STak-ju7gx Рік тому +11

      If you want to stay home, do so. Who told you having a job is competing with your husband?
      Sorry, but to have a mindset that because a lady has a job, it's some kind of competition, is something from a sick mind and anyone interested in making young people healthy, should also address that.

    • @ugrastan
      @ugrastan 11 місяців тому +8

      ​@@STak-ju7gx she is expressing her mind you don't have to so rude about it

    • @STak-ju7gx
      @STak-ju7gx 11 місяців тому +8

      @ugrastan she is expressing her mind on a public forum, and so it'll get responded to.
      Expressions of bad ideas left unchallenged end up hurting people because there are a good number of people who will think it's legitimate.
      Imagine the nonsense claiming a job is competing with a husband. I guess my mom should have let us all die of hunger because she should have stayed jobless? What about the sahms I know looking for jobs now because they need to assist their families? Are they also competing with their husbands?
      And yes! It's a sick concept that having a job is competing with your husband. And I just have to start drawing out implications.

    • @SamaraYoung-r1r
      @SamaraYoung-r1r 10 місяців тому +10

      lol read proverbs 31. That woman is an entrepreneur, ceo of her home , and is far from lazy !

    • @andrewmarshall7569
      @andrewmarshall7569 9 місяців тому +1

      @@STak-ju7gx It can definitely happen in relationships, but shouldn't in a healthy one.

  • @CK-xj3so
    @CK-xj3so Рік тому +17

    Lana, God really corrected me through the part about manipulation. I didn’t realize how when I say things to my husband with the goal of getting him think differently I am using manipulation. It’s not my role to try and shape his thoughts or even alter them.

  • @LegendaryHER
    @LegendaryHER Рік тому +8

    I totally agree 10000% with this and the belief of trusting Gods order and Word. He knows best and chose how He sees best fit, with pure intention. I will do as He commands. Every day I learn more and this was a very excellent encouragement. Lets go stay at home mamas, raising the babies.

  • @timisalmela6720
    @timisalmela6720 Рік тому +7

    ThankYou - Aamen 🙏
    Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. (Eph 5:21, KJV)
    That ye may with one mind and one mouth glorify God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. (Rom 15:6, KJV)

  • @juliaberende9910
    @juliaberende9910 Рік тому +54

    I am not a wife, but I love the biblical teaching you are teaching us about a Godly wife. My mother is a single mom, and she is amazing, but I do not have that wife figure to look up to. I pray that the Lord continues to strengthen you with His Holy Spirit and guide you in this new ministry. God bless you and your family

  • @syger2440
    @syger2440 Рік тому +7

    Well, I’ve never heard better teaching about this topic. Thank you, I will spread this video, many people needs to hear it ❤

  • @beccaO0906
    @beccaO0906 Рік тому +76

    I loved the mention of woman, Eve, being created from the rib to be beside Adam. Right near the heart to be loved ❤

    • @Run4Ever77
      @Run4Ever77 Рік тому +2

      AND, what she didn't say is that ribs serve a role of PROTECTING the heart!
      A good wife will protect the heart of her husband.
      Also noteworthy, is that when God removed one of Adam's ribs to create Eve, Adam's physical heart would have been slightly more vulnerable/less protected due to the gap created between the remaining ribs.

    • @andrewmarshall7569
      @andrewmarshall7569 9 місяців тому +1

      I'm imagining being like Adam and waking up from that sleep and both Adam thinking..."God, you created her (a helpmate) for me!?!?!?" That must have been amazing to wake up to.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 9 місяців тому +2

      @@andrewmarshall7569
      Indeed. Nothing is more male-centric than the Bible.
      It's God's way and it's perfect.

    • @andrewmarshall7569
      @andrewmarshall7569 9 місяців тому +1

      @@framboise595Amen! One thing I realized years ago, after rebelling against God, was that not following His ways is a terrible idea, and I suffered consequences for that. We serve a merciful and perfect God.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 9 місяців тому +1

      @@andrewmarshall7569
      Indeed but the Western church has become awfully gynocentric .
      Modern teachings on marriage are dreadful.

  • @michellearchuleta7881
    @michellearchuleta7881 Рік тому +10

    Amen, this was beautiful, and you are a gentle and Godly role model whose words are powerful. I am grateful I found this tonight, it really blessed me.

  • @MrsNeri-mt8sc
    @MrsNeri-mt8sc Рік тому +42

    Proud to be a #tradwife. I praise God for giving me a godly husband...all glory to my Savior Jesus Christ!🙏💖💖💖

  • @tempesthobson8690
    @tempesthobson8690 Рік тому +5

    I was literally scrolling through my UA-cam feed and felt an unction to watch this video. After listening I can see why. I have been in thought over the past week about some dissatisfaction I am experiencing within my marriage and God has literally spoke EVERY POINT you mentioned to me at one time or another. I know this was a reminder from Him to go back to applying the action steps of what He has told me in regards to my part as the wife despite my husband's actions.
    Wow! I am just in awe at how on point you were speaking from the Word of God in regards to this topic. I KNOW the Lord led me to watch this video. He truly cares about our marriages! Thank you for your obedience in sharing the truth about our roles as wives in a confused culture 🙌🏾

  • @meisielediha2157
    @meisielediha2157 Рік тому +35

    A wife is her husband's crown👑not the neck💥
    Yes, we love this content❤Please keep them coming💃 Thank you Pastor Lana❤

    • @jesse75
      @jesse75 Рік тому +1

      Not the pain in the neck.

  • @brentonkelly3780
    @brentonkelly3780 Рік тому +3

    This is GOLD. thanks for sharing your wisdom, and that contained with the Word of God

  • @RaftSwampRebel
    @RaftSwampRebel Рік тому +5

    These wise words from this wise woman are needed now more than ever. Thank you for this wonderful message of truth and light.

  • @akushika6143
    @akushika6143 Рік тому +23

    This teaching will never get old because Pastor Lana is here to keep us in constant reminder of the importance of applying biblical principles to guard your marriage, home and family .
    God bless you and your channel 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @mikejames1882
      @mikejames1882 Рік тому +5

      "Pastor Lana" is as unbiblical as it gets. Women are expressly forbidden from being pastors by God.

    • @DeutscherGospel
      @DeutscherGospel Рік тому +1

      ​​@@mikejames1882 7:37 She should have mentioned not only the order in the family, but also the church.

  • @Tyrantt__
    @Tyrantt__ Рік тому +19

    Praying for the wife I haven’t met yet.

    • @stevemacinnis5000
      @stevemacinnis5000 Рік тому +3

      Lana's the perfect Christian wife, eh? I wish we could just clone her over and over again because this world needs more women like her!

    • @anastasiaogomaka3717
      @anastasiaogomaka3717 11 місяців тому +1

      You will find one that you truly desire.
      Amen

    • @sydney.g.sloangammagee8181
      @sydney.g.sloangammagee8181 7 місяців тому +1

      Well, I think we all desire what she describes, but it truly takes both in proper harmony with God to succeed.
      I didn't consider my husband & I to be unequally yoked when we married . . . I truly thought I could learn from him about scripture & grow in my faith & I have, but I didn't realize that he was running away from God.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 5 місяців тому +1

      ​There's plenty of respectful, virtuous, beautiful sisters out there. I pray you find her!!

  • @owusuafriyiedennis4386
    @owusuafriyiedennis4386 Рік тому +42

    It's sad for some women to think that being a stay home mom is oppression. To think that raising your own kids is less of a success than chasing the bag is appalling. Life is precious, and raising the future generations well is more than money. Money is good but your children's upbringing is way more than that.
    Keep up the good work. We need more wives and husbands talking on the subject of marriage than single people.

    • @kennethfok
      @kennethfok 9 місяців тому +1

      It is very stressful for many modern women to stay at home due to the ever rising cost of living. But I don’t deny that being a stay at home mum is a very noble job. For as long as one can afford it, or rather if the husband thinks he’s financially ok in supporting the family alone, I don’t see why the wife should not stay at home. To conceive a child is already very laborious, especially during the birth process so why should women add on more stress from work to their life?

    • @blahblah4129
      @blahblah4129 9 місяців тому

      My thoughts exactly. A lot of people get married for the wrong reasons. Once a couple has a child/children, priorities SHOULD evolve.
      With the right/God-fearing man, everything is easy.
      With the polar opposite, everything is hard.

    • @karrey2706
      @karrey2706 8 місяців тому +1

      Good ONLY when the husband is Godly and foesnt opress her snd makebthe vhildren suffer. Most of wanting to work came from bad men and bad leadership from men who satan had attacked prior to be mostly selfish and oppressive instead of protective and providing.

  • @susanbishop5814
    @susanbishop5814 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for your awsome teeching! Enjoyed it sooo nuch!

  • @AmandaB03
    @AmandaB03 Рік тому +9

    Love this, Pastor Lana. I’ve been really embracing these truths about my role in being my husbands helper🙏🏻 It’s a beautiful thing💗

  • @SileshiErena
    @SileshiErena Місяць тому +1

    Good and ultimate truth teaching God bless you more again ❤❤❤❤

  • @lekestacion2574
    @lekestacion2574 Рік тому +21

    I cried when you mentioned about being a Stay at Home Mom 🥹 Thank You Lord for this validation. I love serving my family and the ministry. 🙏🏼

  • @AndreaAkinpelu
    @AndreaAkinpelu 6 місяців тому +1

    This is so good!!! Every wife both newly wed and married for 50 years should hear this and share it!

    • @samuelkuntz9734
      @samuelkuntz9734 6 місяців тому

      Yes. They will NOT hear it though because of the cultural influence over women over the past 70 years.

  • @jesusisalwayshome5658
    @jesusisalwayshome5658 11 місяців тому +3

    Thank you I have been married 36yr and I have been a stay at home Mom and when my kids left I fell apart for 6to7 yr. GOD HAS AWAKED ME NOW AND I AM TRING TO DO BETTER MY HUSBAND IS STILL WITH ME I GIVE GOD THE GLORY FOR THIS ALWAYS I NEEDED TO HERE THIS SO MUCH I WANT THIS FOR MY HUSBAND HE IS A GREAT MAN HE HAS BEEN A HELP WITH MY WHOLE FAMILY ALL THIS TIME HE WAS A FOREST FIREFIGHTER AND HELPED PEOPLE IN BIG STORMS HE HELPS PEOPLE ALL THE TIME I WANT TO BE BETTER FOR HIM I PRAY FOR THIS. AMEN AMEN AMEN

  • @kalinajordanova7631
    @kalinajordanova7631 Рік тому +2

    I love how you spoke about stay-at-home moms. This is something I'm dreaming of. It is such a blessing raising your children and having this time with them. I love how honest you are about it.

  • @stephanieroy79
    @stephanieroy79 Рік тому +36

    I love that you are stating that women can be CEOs and run big companies but when it comes to marriage women are to submit to their husband. I have been both a SAHM & a working mom in different times in our lives. I am homeschooling our child but I also am going to school online to finish my degree. I think it’s okay to do both if you want to. I think it’s just important that my family still comes first.

    • @staceystitches
      @staceystitches Рік тому +2

      I think it also has to do with what a woman is called to do. My sister was called to the ministry as a teenager. She was able to be a stay at home mom when her kids were small. When they were older elementary she started interning at the church and going to school. She was a working mom but was also close to her kids because our church is across the street from their school. She has served in children’s ministry for over 15 years now and has just started a preteens ministry at church 2 years ago and it’s been extremely successful and impactful in the lives of these kids. So I think it can depend on where The Lord calls you.

    • @tangle70
      @tangle70 Рік тому +1

      @@staceystitches As QuietlyContemplating posted the verse above:
      "That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, , good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. " (Titus 2:4-5)
      Your sister has already been called to do something. It is not to have someone else teach and and raise their children.

    • @STak-ju7gx
      @STak-ju7gx Рік тому

      ​@@QuietlyContemplatingwhat you just quoted said nothing about a woman working a job, studying for a degree, or schooling online.

    • @STak-ju7gx
      @STak-ju7gx Рік тому

      @QuietlyContemplating first, we are going to act like a more detailed description of an honorable wife in Proverbs 31, doesn't exist in the Bible. We are also going to pretend, that we literally read each verse in the Bible separately, without other instances and verses for context. Is that what you're suggesting?
      By the way, do you apply the same standard to everything in the Bible? The short verse didn't say to do A but because it says do B, then you can only ever do B because somehow doing A has to be wrong or some sin. So are you suggesting that every single action we may do is precisely described in the Bible and if it's not expressly spelled out to do so, then we may not do so? So, the Bible does say we should waste time in gossip and unending reasoning, but here we are on UA-cam and you're engaged in what is a worthless discussion. How is that action covered in the Bible?
      Now, using you example of employer and employee. So, since I've worked before, I literally know what it takes to be an employee, and just because your job title and description highlights some tasks, no reasonable employer expects you literally think you can only act exactly per described duties. Also, employees go home and their lives include all sorts of interests and activities. So, the example makes no sense...we are not robot machines automated for a single task.
      There are things highlighted as honorable to do, that doesn't mean do that only and only alone.

    • @tangle70
      @tangle70 Рік тому +3

      ​@@STak-ju7gx The Bible is clear that a wife should stay at home and manage it (Proverbs 31, Titus 2:5,1 Timothy 5:14). Nit pick all you want. On the arguing thing, this is not arguing, this is rebuke false teachings. That is what we are commanded to do.

  • @nancywilkes298
    @nancywilkes298 Рік тому +4

    Beautifully stated, Lana! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @smlover22
    @smlover22 Рік тому +9

    I have been fighting my husband so much lately because I resent him for letting me become a stay at home mom.
    I was a single mom of one when we got together. I worked 2 jobs and barely had enough time to spend with my son. I had more money in my bank account but my bond with my son wasn’t as strong.
    When I got remarried and Covid hit i started working from home and then became pregnant with my second son. I become a stay at home mom and had my third son soon after. We don’t have much money, my husband works so much and he tells me to stay home and enjoy our boys. We homeschool them so it gets overwhelming.
    Honestly society just makes me feel so bad for staying home, my friends and family make me feel unaccomplished and unfulfilled but in reality I know I’m not. I’ve just been ungrateful.
    Im so glad I stumbled on this video. I see now this is what’s best for my family and I should follow my husband who does truly follow God. I want to be a good biblical wife. My family deserves that. ❤️🙏

    • @nancysampson5080
      @nancysampson5080 Місяць тому

      If other women criticise you, they are probably jealous.

    • @samuelberges8745
      @samuelberges8745 День тому

      Good on you for realizing it and desiring to change

  • @josephneratko2896
    @josephneratko2896 11 місяців тому +1

    I appreciate you being so calm and peaceful as you discuss these topics

  • @skyehawkins8725
    @skyehawkins8725 Рік тому +14

    I needed to hear this today❤ Thank you Lord🙌

  • @mohaveneffx
    @mohaveneffx Рік тому +1

    Your message was so refreshing to my heart and soul! Thank you for sharing!

  • @Enjoidalo
    @Enjoidalo Рік тому +4

    watching me as a young man, this is fruit for the soul just hearing a women of God that truly knows the word speak with true wisdom, i can’t wait to be married sometime to honor my wife as she honors me. God is truly amazing 🥲

  • @AliciaReborn101
    @AliciaReborn101 Рік тому +1

    And congratulations on your little one! God is SO good!

  • @lisaturner4011
    @lisaturner4011 Рік тому +9

    It's so nice to see Pastor Vlads wife doing a video. God Bless you and your Ministry,School, and marriage in Jesus name. Thank-you sister Lana for this biblical teaching video. You did so well explaining the role God made for us as man and woman in a marriage. 🙏✝️🩷

  • @MargieHunter-ok7ed
    @MargieHunter-ok7ed 7 місяців тому

    Thank you Mrs. Lana For explaining the role Of the wife, You Are Right On!. I will look Forward to watching you again. Thank You again!.

  • @tracyanncoe4586
    @tracyanncoe4586 Рік тому +4

    ❤Yes This Content IS SO SO Refreshing,Thank YOU for Sharing this Important Message from God for Us Wives!!!!!!!!!!😊

  • @SRFarrington
    @SRFarrington Рік тому +1

    Beautifully outlined and excellent in hitting every point in detail. No notes👍🏾

  • @yulanLau
    @yulanLau Рік тому +6

    Congratulations

  • @slavkopetrov1164
    @slavkopetrov1164 3 місяці тому

    True biblical teaching .Pravo biblijsko poučavanje.

  • @juliennekoci3669
    @juliennekoci3669 Рік тому +4

    I am so glad to have been able to stay home and make sure my child got the word of God a lot through church and me and my husband rather than being at some job and leaving my child in the hands of who knows what. You did good Lana and it was a blessing to me and I know many women out there that need to hear they are equal and not as the world sees women as less than. God bless you and your husband and child that will be coming into a lovely Godly home praise the Lord.

  • @PatiCosta358
    @PatiCosta358 4 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful said!

  • @justdeepscars6414
    @justdeepscars6414 Рік тому +6

    This was a beautiful teaching Lana! ♡

  • @jasminethompson1211
    @jasminethompson1211 8 місяців тому +1

    I'm so very grateful and blessed that I get to stay home and watch my children. We lived by the penny for so long but it's worth it. God always provides our needs. I'm so grateful to live out my calling. All glory to God!

  • @missblockchain
    @missblockchain Рік тому +3

    hi lana from houston texas can’t wait to meet you at called to conquer

  • @Mamatrina
    @Mamatrina 8 місяців тому

    God bless you . I’m glad I found your page. Thank you for this beautiful message

  • @elenisophiaa
    @elenisophiaa Рік тому +117

    Spot on Pastor Lana, I am a stay at home wife and mother. I can attest that everything you’ve said is true. My family is happy and well rounded. I teach them a lot about God and the bible and it’s because I have time. They love my meals my special treats I bake regularly and the extra time we get to go to the park or cuddle! If you can make it work please search your heart and stay home for your family. There is so much joy and gratification in serving your family. Do not listen to what the world calls good or evil because the devil is a liar. You can stand in the gap for your family when you are in your lane as Pastor Lana said. Amen great advice and great video ❤

    • @FaithfulDreamy
      @FaithfulDreamy Рік тому +6

      I absolutely love this ! You’re so right in everything you said. I hope to be a wonderful wife/mother as much as you someday ! May God Bless You 🤍

    • @elenisophiaa
      @elenisophiaa Рік тому +1

      @@FaithfulDreamy you will be! Be blessed sister ♥️

    • @7Logik
      @7Logik Рік тому +18

      How can someone teach you how to live by the Bible but call themselves a pastor. That's directly against the teachings of scripture itself. Now to be fair I don't know if she calls herself that but I noticed your comment and this is a very big problem in culture today ....it's direct disobedience for any woman to claim office of pastor or asurp authority over man, the Bible is very clear ....

    • @daughterk1305
      @daughterk1305 Рік тому +1

      @@elenisophiaa you are a great and a blessed woman,may God enable us women to enjoy serving our families & living for Jesus wholeheartedly.

    • @sfortuin9710
      @sfortuin9710 Рік тому +3

      Yes everyone would love to stay at home but unfortunately it’s not possible in today time .

  • @ZellyE
    @ZellyE Рік тому +1

    Really needed to hear this, thankyou so much. Love from New Zealand.

  • @StaceLopez22
    @StaceLopez22 Рік тому +82

    🙏🙌🏽💪🏽🥰 I loved the stay-at-home mom part and being able to dedicate our homes and children to Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ 🕊💝

  • @Patrick-d6z
    @Patrick-d6z 5 місяців тому

    This is a good and well-balanced teaching on a difficult subject.

  • @krupa23
    @krupa23 Рік тому +6

    Thank you Dear Pastor Lana for enlightening us with the role of women in marriage from the scriptures.
    It encouraged me and helped me to correct where necessary.
    Happy that a female oriented biblical channel from the Hungrygen platform is created.
    Thanks for your efforts and support 🙏.
    God bless you and Pastor Vlad 🙏.

  • @joyceromanticorcrimvlog
    @joyceromanticorcrimvlog Рік тому +1

    Hi Pastor Lana, I love how pleasing your voice is. Thank you sharing the word of God. God bless you

  • @samaronov4405
    @samaronov4405 Рік тому +8

    We need more women like her preaching this to the world

    • @stevemacinnis5000
      @stevemacinnis5000 Рік тому

      We just need more women like her!

    • @bible1st
      @bible1st Рік тому

      Its one of the biggest travesties in the world that woman are not teaching other woman these principles.

  • @BelovedbyHim
    @BelovedbyHim 6 місяців тому

    This is such a good teaching! Thank you so much!!!!

  • @sandraalmonte4929
    @sandraalmonte4929 Рік тому +3

    The way you described submission put it in a different light for me. It's not as bad as I thought cause I had the wrong view. Thanks!

  • @rosaortiz7842
    @rosaortiz7842 Рік тому +1

    I love this humble, honest, biblical commentary. Thank you.

  • @noelia7117
    @noelia7117 Рік тому +15

    I have been a wife, mother and step mother for 16+ years and I must say that you picked the perfect 5 topics to touch on. What a wonderful video Lana, I look forward to what you will present in the future! ❤

  • @CharlotteNisa-r7g
    @CharlotteNisa-r7g 10 місяців тому

    Thank you Lana
    I am truly blessed to found you and your husband’s page on social media. It was what I needed to hear and love your testimony. Can relate.

  • @norasaenz4273
    @norasaenz4273 Рік тому +9

    I'm excited to hear Pastor Lana. You're blessing ! ❤

  • @RealHannahKrogman
    @RealHannahKrogman 4 місяці тому +1

    Just found you. Thank you for this strong and pure perspective of biblical wifehood 🩵 Literally you said stay in your lane and that was confirmation for me lol Love your confidence and beauty. Will be watching more!

  • @katrinabennett2759
    @katrinabennett2759 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for this beautiful message Lana 💕

  • @lanahungrygen
    @lanahungrygen  Рік тому +48

    What do you think is the Biblical role of wife in the marriage?

    • @jenniferwhiten1884
      @jenniferwhiten1884 Рік тому +9

      To be a suitable helper to your husband , supporting him in his endeavors.
      Being able to submit when necessary - but also partners . To encourage him and pray for him . :)
      - I think !!!!!!

    • @alinajacob2484
      @alinajacob2484 Рік тому +3

      By Being partners in every decisions, supporting him, and realising we are two body but one soul. Proverbs 12:4 - “An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who shames him is as rottenness in his bones.”

    • @vk33771
      @vk33771 Рік тому +8

      You gave a very thorough overview. I've been married a long time and have always struggled with honoring my husband when he doesn't seem to deserve it. You struck a chord by saying that wives should honor husbands not because they deserve it, but because wives should be honorable and behave as God expects a wife to behave. It will help me to see myself as his crown, as you pointed out from Proverbs.

    • @patriciasepulveda2513
      @patriciasepulveda2513 Рік тому

      Lana, I need to watch the replay.

    • @marylinelai8073
      @marylinelai8073 Рік тому +2

      Thank you Pastor Lana, this channel is spirit led ! I think a wife should encourage her husband love the Lord more and be a better version of himself .. Love your precious videos 😋

  • @brendamonrreal7887
    @brendamonrreal7887 Рік тому +3

    I have taken many bible studies for marrie and being a Christian wife but it was years ago. I knew everything is in thia video, but as wives we get tired. After listening to her, i feel like of the Holly Spirit re-strengh me. I NEED THIS ! THANKS

  • @krishnantampi5665
    @krishnantampi5665 Рік тому +2

    Well balanced Analysis of husbands and wives role in the family

  • @timeisup6844
    @timeisup6844 Рік тому +2

    You are such a wise woman in Christ..God bless you and your ministries!!☺️👍🙏

  • @davidsmith5334
    @davidsmith5334 Рік тому

    Thanks!

  • @karinakaplun6025
    @karinakaplun6025 Рік тому +4

    Thank you Lana! I learned something you said, a family is like an Army and the head of the family is the husband thank you 🙏

  • @punkin73315
    @punkin73315 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this, sister. We need more women of God to speak the Word of God into us women and help us grow.

  • @SunnysBibleASMR
    @SunnysBibleASMR Рік тому +7

    Congrats 🎊 ❤woman of God 🎉 May Gods Grace be upon you and this channel - so souls will be saved and demons destroyed - in Jesus mighty name- ❤amen 🙏

    • @SunnysBibleASMR
      @SunnysBibleASMR Рік тому

      When your ready to interview a PK let me know- 😂

  • @simplesuburbanlife
    @simplesuburbanlife 11 місяців тому

    New subscriber here! I love how you shared what the scripture says about women as wives and motherhood. Please upload more videos like this. You approached it in a very calming and reassuring way, one that makes my heart at ease and calms down the voices of the worldly beliefs I grew up in. THANK YOU and I look forward to more contents like this. ❤❤❤

  • @agueda0423
    @agueda0423 Рік тому +7

    Super excited ❤. Jesus is Lord

    • @crispinswainstonharrison9042
      @crispinswainstonharrison9042 Рік тому +1

      Well we don’t know that factually. Factually there’s a lot of evidence that Jesus existed, but almost none that he is God.

  • @jebishalewald6461
    @jebishalewald6461 Рік тому +1

    Delivered the message graciously. God bless you.

  • @joanneculver3449
    @joanneculver3449 Рік тому +8

    Hi Lana, I’m a new subscriber and I am a Catholic wife and mother. The best way I have found to explain submission is to fully understand the meaning- so ‘sub’ = under, so ‘under’ the mission of your husband. The husband’s mission? To get his wife and children to heaven, to protect and care for his wife, to be willing to die for her as Christ died for His Church. I’m guessing all wives want that! ❤

    • @bryant475
      @bryant475 Рік тому +3

      Please learn about how Catholicism and how it is contrary to Biblical Christianity, in order to be saved, you must be born again! God bless!

    • @sharondoan1447
      @sharondoan1447 Рік тому

      No human can get anyone else to Heaven . But, I think what you are meaning is that the father should see to it that God is central to earthly life. A father sets the example of being faithful and raising his children to do the same.

  • @taysssthenameee
    @taysssthenameee 7 місяців тому +1

    loved this ! I'm 21 newly married and it helps tremendously. I loved your point how we shouldn't just respect our husbands-but men in general so including his dad, my brothers, etc. Thank you!!

  • @4runner4ever83
    @4runner4ever83 Рік тому +8

    I am Catholic and me and my wife both work unfortunately. We have 2 teenage kids and raising them in a public school system is very challenging, they get easily swayed even though we teach them Godly things. All I know now, raising them with my wife makes it more doable. I don't know how it will be like if I raised them just myself or just my wife. With the cost of living these days, one income may not be enough. God Bless!

    • @bryant475
      @bryant475 Рік тому

      Please learn about how Catholicism and how it is contrary to Biblical Christianity, in order to be saved, you must be born again! God bless!

    • @CitySlickerBallKicker
      @CitySlickerBallKicker Рік тому +3

      ​@bryant475 I hope you know Protestantism stems from the Catholic Church. Christ founded the Catholic Church... denominations were only "born again" barely just 500 years ago. I was a former Prot for over 20 years, there is soooo sooo many errors in the ways the different Prot branches teach