How To Be An Asshole To Women

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  • Опубліковано 20 гру 2024

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  • @copperpumpkin2648
    @copperpumpkin2648 9 місяців тому +16

    I'm so grateful I stopped giving the world a shit I stopped carrying a woman I stopped caring about Society I just stopped giving a rat's ass of a fucking everything it was the greatest thing that ever happened to me.

  • @MrOrmanley
    @MrOrmanley Рік тому +52

    As justice lord Batman would say: "If you want people to respect the big laws, you gotta enforce the small ones."
    Likewise, if you dont adress small disrespects, they will eventually snowball into big disrespects. If she gives you bad attitude, let her know immediately: "There's the door, you can leave anytime you want."
    Be ready to leave at any moment, and as cold and composed as possible. Don't let them see any weakness/vulnerability.
    If she oversteps your boundaries in a big way, or a small way but does not apologise, just matter-of-factly end it, send her stuff to her mom, change the keys, block her number and ghost her.
    Modern women are children, and children need to be taught responsibility and consequences to their actions. Remember, they have daddy issues, and you're not her father. Teach her her lesson, she needs it.

    • @random-content6969
      @random-content6969 10 місяців тому +8

      Bro I want to be friends with you. You know your shit

    • @NuortenHistoria
      @NuortenHistoria 7 місяців тому +3

      Thanks dude! I needed this!

  • @up-2date
    @up-2date Рік тому +68

    Indifference is key. Learnt that from Dad TL.

    • @sh-zaidi
      @sh-zaidi Рік тому +6

      Indifference is huge in sales too! It's a very perennial soft skill that influences multiple facets of your life of which dating and relationships are no exceptions ;)
      No wonder assholes thrive in both 😜

    • @captainiceberg8637
      @captainiceberg8637 Рік тому +6

      Wish my dad would have taught me some stuff

  • @paulcooper5748
    @paulcooper5748 Рік тому +31

    So true brother never be scared to walk away from a toxic situation good vid.

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539  Рік тому +3

      Paul, great to hear from you brother. Spot on. Sad it takes many of us as men to grow to this point. All part of the walk of life I suppose. Hope you are well out there in the world today my man.

    • @paulcooper5748
      @paulcooper5748 Рік тому +3

      @@aboutthat5539 Sad but true that it has to come to this with dealing with women.

    • @XxxX-wx3er
      @XxxX-wx3er 7 місяців тому

      Yeah but you can’t complain of a toxic situation if it’s you who’s the asshole. Sounds like you’re the problem and toxic to be around.

  • @Stumbo99
    @Stumbo99 Рік тому +38

    This sounds like a fusion of a few different concepts that the OG, Patrice O'Neal used to talk about:
    In your heart of hearts, what would you miss if she left aside from her body and sex? Nothing, most likely.
    Knowing you're better than her because of all the work you've put into your life to get where you are and what you have.
    And, once she knows you will righteously leve she will righteously stay.
    This was a great video, man. Thanks

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539  Рік тому +3

      Rob, thanks so much for tuning in and adding some valuable perspective. I appreciate your presence here my friend. Hope you are well out there in the world today. Mike

    • @TGP109
      @TGP109 5 місяців тому

      Nice way of saying you value nothing but sex-little wonder women are refusing to date or get married.

  • @BloodyHeck
    @BloodyHeck Рік тому +24

    If being an asshole is NOT treating her badly and that’s not what you mean, why is it I’ve seen unemployed alcoholics who beat and cheat on their wives seem to have their absolute devotion and they won’t leave him for anything?

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539  Рік тому +24

      Bitches be crazy

    • @Akrazzyy
      @Akrazzyy Рік тому +6

      Divorce matters for women a lot
      Cuz their Age matters
      Society matters
      They get more negative emotions
      Not saying they shouldn’t leave , they should leave for better.
      But once someone is trapped like that, they need external help to guide them through.

    • @devilsadvocacy
      @devilsadvocacy Рік тому +1

      It goes farther than that. Think about how hot they get for notorious criminals. The more heinous their crimes, the better. Hybristophilia is the name for it

    • @dond1ddly
      @dond1ddly Рік тому +5

      Attachment and fear of rejection.

    • @GalXZ42081
      @GalXZ42081 3 місяці тому +1

      That's not loyalty. It's a trauma bond.

  • @notmgtowyet8442
    @notmgtowyet8442 6 місяців тому +12

    Seek out mutualistic relationships. Reject parasitic relationships.

  • @MikeSmith-fe3ng
    @MikeSmith-fe3ng Рік тому +21

    The weak minded simps that don't value, respect, stand up for themself, and are afraid to say "NO" (when needed) are those that say, "Man, how does an asshole like that get all the girls? I could never treat a girl like that." A woman wants to look UP to a man, gain his approval and respect, not the other way around. If you're always putting someone up on a pedestal, how can they look up to you and respect you? They can only look down on you as you're only putting them up and above you. Loving, respecting and valuing yourself shouldn't be perceived as being an asshole as this is a misconception among the beta simps. It's how every confident man should be. Being mean, disrespectful, and putting them down isn't the way to go even though it works on a good %age of women, especially if they're damaged.

    • @reoferha3118
      @reoferha3118 Рік тому +2

      well put

    • @nelsonhibbert5267
      @nelsonhibbert5267 Рік тому +7

      Yeah. But a lot of the time they're going out with guys that are actual assholes.

    • @calvinlandry03
      @calvinlandry03 Рік тому +2

      ​@nelsonhibbert5267
      Exactly bro.....and they Love, Worship, and Adore those guys and love every minute of being treated like Dried Dogg $hit.

    • @Cousinbiddy1
      @Cousinbiddy1 6 місяців тому

      @@nelsonhibbert5267only minority of women do

    • @TGP109
      @TGP109 5 місяців тому

      NO ONE, male or female, likes a slavering dog looking for pats all day. Women don't want ''to look up to a man'' they want to be around people they respect-just as you do. A little more common sense and less RP memes.

  • @BlakesPipes
    @BlakesPipes 11 місяців тому +3

    Thank you, sent this to my ex wife

  • @drleo6409
    @drleo6409 7 місяців тому +6

    As Clark Gable said in “Gone with The Wind “ Frankly I don’t give a damm
    My wife gave me pure misery off and on for over a year. Then she threaten to divorce me. I said “ok” she had a complete turn around.

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539  7 місяців тому +2

      Ah yes, the gone with the wind line. Is this not one of the greatest moments in cinema ever made? More importantly this is a depiction of this concept. So accurate. Thanks for tuning in my friend.

  • @tonydiesel3444
    @tonydiesel3444 Рік тому +18

    They are sexually attracted to the dark Triad traits psychopathy machiavellianism neuroticism and one other I can't remember

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539  Рік тому +3

      Well said Tony, thanks for tuning in my friend. Hope you are well out there in the world today.

    • @devilsadvocacy
      @devilsadvocacy Рік тому +3

      Narcissism is the missing corner you’re looking for

  • @1pcmedic
    @1pcmedic 6 місяців тому +4

    If all she has in the cart is beauty, bail out ASAP. Nobody is doing you a favor except yourself.

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539  6 місяців тому +1

      I agree my friend. A woman's beauty can only take her so far, with a strong minded man that is. Many of us cave to the kryptonite for a long time. Lord knows I'm guilty. Thanks so much for commenting brother. I hope you're well out there in the world today.

  • @Teimo_Pielinen01
    @Teimo_Pielinen01 Рік тому +11

    1 step: You should be a man
    2 step: check the result

  • @joshuajones7754
    @joshuajones7754 Рік тому +4

    Good advice! Value yourself men 💪

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539  Рік тому +2

      Appreciate it! Thanks for checking in Joshua. Be good out there my man

  • @BloodyHeck
    @BloodyHeck 2 місяці тому

    You can reverse the numbers, the woman a 5 and the man a 9, and her attitude will still be the same because women overrate themselves and underrate men. Most women say their minimum for a man is 6’ and $100k. If she can get that guy she’ll then go for the 6’2” millionaire and still not be happy, wanting the 6’4” billionaire.
    And standing up to women and enforcing boundaries doesn’t make a woman respect a man, it usually just pisses her off and she’ll drop him for another guy. The only ones women chase after are the bad boys who truly do treat them like crap and most good men refuse to lower themselves to do that.

  • @imdiyu
    @imdiyu Рік тому +19

    Thanks for this video. I worked in Bhutan for two years. Bhutan is also known as the land of peaceful thunder dragon. Not just any dragon but thunder dragon. It aligns with the idea that men should be monsters and know how to control it. You are dangerous, but benevolent. Only then you gain respect.

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539  Рік тому +2

      Hey Imdiyu, thanks so much for your comment brother. I really like this analogy. I always love to hear from other men from other cultures and other parts of the world to learn new things. I really appreciate you. Your channel looks great btw! You have a real creative talent. Follow that my man. I'm certain it will take you to amazing places. Best regards.. Mike

    • @imdiyu
      @imdiyu Рік тому +2

      @@aboutthat5539 I shall follow my dreams. Thanks man

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539  Рік тому

      What part of the world are you living in? I'm so fascinated by your film making

    • @imdiyu
      @imdiyu Рік тому +1

      @@aboutthat5539 India

    • @calvinlandry03
      @calvinlandry03 Рік тому +2

      Jordan Peterson talks about that exact analogy. It is spot on.

  • @MrRayopt
    @MrRayopt Рік тому +1

    Proof: A different UA-cam called The Insulting Librarian

  • @gr33n83
    @gr33n83 3 місяці тому +1

    Me idiot landed and stayed in the friend zone and let me be treated like shit thats the worst bcs u get nothing cant even eff her..

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539  2 місяці тому +2

      Hang in there brother-surely we all learn from these sorts of situations and we add pieces to our lives that we can carry on and go forward with. Hard lessons though.

  • @denkverlag1
    @denkverlag1 4 місяці тому +4

    If you have a backbone… women run away to the next liar…

  • @herbertvonsauerkrautunterh2513
    @herbertvonsauerkrautunterh2513 Рік тому +12

    Tom leykis explains it really good 😛👍

  • @HateBear-real
    @HateBear-real 2 місяці тому +1

    Well, the fact that vvomen become abus!ve as soon as they think they "can," proves they are just not good people to begin with. I grew up in an abus!ve household, and the best advice I ever got from a fat Eurasian guy at school was "stick up for yourself." I realized he was right and changed my life over it. Definitely be the asshole.

  • @DavidWilliams-nl2lw
    @DavidWilliams-nl2lw 6 місяців тому +1

    Prat em . Fake rejection to increase desire. From the Days of Iceberg Slim.

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539  2 місяці тому +2

      Thanks for stopping by David. Hope you are well out there in the world today brother.

  • @mikegarrens5286
    @mikegarrens5286 6 місяців тому +1

    I don't care what anybody says when you meet a woman she will always first try to put you in friend zone!!!
    Dealing with her emotions taken her phone calls every minute of the day. being available too much. Fixing tires. Take care of this stage first before you move on to what this guy saying. And this guy makes sense.

  • @dond1ddly
    @dond1ddly Рік тому +4

    It goes the same way back to women too. If I’m able to just leave and go whenever I want, how much respect you think I’m gonna have for her? Zero. I treated my ex like shit and came and went all the time cause SHE allowed it. The core of relationships are boundaries which are your personal rules for how you wish to be treated. Set strong boundaries and you set a strong relationship.

  • @motormouthalmighty
    @motormouthalmighty Рік тому +2

    I ALREADY AM.IT JUST COMES NATURALLY!

  • @denkverlag1
    @denkverlag1 4 місяці тому +1

    as long as women have any power… you cannot win this stupid game…

    • @johnaustin209
      @johnaustin209 2 місяці тому

      Grow a pair!

    • @denkverlag1
      @denkverlag1 2 місяці тому

      @@johnaustin209 You mean… I need 4…?

  • @Alani-cv4li
    @Alani-cv4li Рік тому +1

    Hey, great job this sounds like it’s all based on Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire. And yes, that’s the material you need to have him resonating with erotic electricity at your will. Sounds like too much IK, but just for the basics it's worth go'ogling her ;)

  • @MH-zg5yw
    @MH-zg5yw Рік тому +2

    Acting mean? Hahaha

  • @douglasbriel6103
    @douglasbriel6103 Рік тому +1

    Teasing.

  • @Cousinbiddy1
    @Cousinbiddy1 6 місяців тому +1

    Step 1: Don’t be a jerk to women , just be nice and be a gentlemen to her

    • @SantaAnaGeorgeJ
      @SantaAnaGeorgeJ 6 місяців тому +12

      Sure, and get walked over constantly like a doormat.

    • @Cousinbiddy1
      @Cousinbiddy1 6 місяців тому +2

      @@SantaAnaGeorgeJ ok not that , u also have to stand up for urself as well