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So Tell Me, What Are You Looking For? -Dating Question-
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Push Those Fear Boundaries In Life
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Are We Dating The Same Guy? -Facebook-
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A Woman's Perceptive Range and You
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Fear and Guilt Holding You Back
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Always Make A Tomorrow List
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Stop Taking Dating So Personally
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How To Motivate People
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Partner Selection In Life
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Cold Approach Openers
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Where Does Confidence Come From
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Opening Your Mouth in Cold Approach is a Win
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You Don't Always Need To Date The Girls From Dating Apps
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The Alcohol Anxiety Loop
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She Was Ridiculously Rude To Me Online!
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Having Faith In Your Dating Life
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What Are Your Dead Leaves You Can Get Rid Of?
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Predatory Behaviors Around Women
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Breaking Her Masculinity
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How Fat People Drive You
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Watch Out For These Types of Youtubers
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You Need Friends Like These
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How To Call Your Own Shots In Life
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Treat These Women Differently
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Barraging People With Your Presence
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  • @anastasiosdimtsis1
    @anastasiosdimtsis1 8 днів тому

    Great advice!!

  • @rogerdodger6025
    @rogerdodger6025 17 днів тому

    Reminds of a book I read years ago by F.J. Shark "How to be The Jerk Women Love".

  • @perrywebb5833
    @perrywebb5833 24 дні тому

    1. Have options in women 2. Stick up for yourself and her. Don't be a push over. 3. Possess the ability to walk away and not be bothered. It's not about being an a-hole. It's about value of self worth

  • @MrKlangb
    @MrKlangb Місяць тому

    Å ta av lås på bod som ikke står i ditt navn heter INNBRUDD! Bedre å avtale når du kan komme inn, ikke sant om det er det du ønsker. Så kan noen møte deg uten for. Men det er jo umulige å få kontakt med deg ;-) Det er bare å ringe..........

  • @myblueheaven86
    @myblueheaven86 Місяць тому

    It's not "kinda like stalker behavior" - it IS stalker behavior. a woman is posting in multiple groups trying to get any information about what their ex is up to. ua-cam.com/video/uMJe6oCvRg0/v-deo.html The issue is that stalkers try not to get caught. This is happening even IF there is not dating, sometimes it can be just a woman you met and didn't date. How exactly would a guy know if he was posted? women post addresses, and don't just spread small lies, they spread horrible horrible stuff about guys

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 Місяць тому

      I agree with your assessment. Sick, messed up, immoral. The list goes on and on doesn't it? So sad

  • @BloodyHeck
    @BloodyHeck 3 місяці тому

    You can reverse the numbers, the woman a 5 and the man a 9, and her attitude will still be the same because women overrate themselves and underrate men. Most women say their minimum for a man is 6’ and $100k. If she can get that guy she’ll then go for the 6’2” millionaire and still not be happy, wanting the 6’4” billionaire. And standing up to women and enforcing boundaries doesn’t make a woman respect a man, it usually just pisses her off and she’ll drop him for another guy. The only ones women chase after are the bad boys who truly do treat them like crap and most good men refuse to lower themselves to do that.

  • @HateBear-real
    @HateBear-real 4 місяці тому

    Well, the fact that vvomen become abus!ve as soon as they think they "can," proves they are just not good people to begin with. I grew up in an abus!ve household, and the best advice I ever got from a fat Eurasian guy at school was "stick up for yourself." I realized he was right and changed my life over it. Definitely be the asshole.

  • @RobertSteiner-tl2wz
    @RobertSteiner-tl2wz 4 місяці тому

    Hmm, let me see, she treats you like shit and you leave her so you're an asshole?

  • @sterlingarcher1945
    @sterlingarcher1945 4 місяці тому

    Nope! 90% of men are already invisible to women!! But I'll bet you're ass she'll spot a chad from a mile away!! 😂😂😂

  • @Billy_B_Goat
    @Billy_B_Goat 4 місяці тому

    What... you're taking time for self-reflection.... you don't hear that a lot these days. Good on ya. IMO that's the best way to build the positive energy to which you speak. Peace and Love, B Goat

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 4 місяці тому

      Thanks a ton Billy. Really appreciate your comment. Hope you are well out there in the world today brother. Take good care. ✊🏽✌🏽

  • @sanritt
    @sanritt 4 місяці тому

    Hey man, Thanks to your vid I've listed 3 doable experiences that I can do in my day to day life. I've also written down the fear that come with each experience. That will be my focus for the next week. As always love the podcast and I hope you're doing great!

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 4 місяці тому

      Hey Sanritt-great to hear from you brother. If nobody else ever tells you this, I'm proud of you. Keep doing these simple things everyday if you can. I am happy to know that I have had some small impact on your life. I hope you are doing amazing too!

  • @gr33n83
    @gr33n83 4 місяці тому

    Me idiot landed and stayed in the friend zone and let me be treated like shit thats the worst bcs u get nothing cant even eff her..

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 4 місяці тому

      Hang in there brother-surely we all learn from these sorts of situations and we add pieces to our lives that we can carry on and go forward with. Hard lessons though.

  • @youcanthandlethetruth5433
    @youcanthandlethetruth5433 5 місяців тому

    Great video bro. Subscribed. Think you'd get alot more subs with ur face on. The messages are good

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 4 місяці тому

      Thanks so much for the comment! I have definitely thought about it...maybe someday I will change to that format. For now I just wanted the channel to be only about the messages. That was my thought currently...Hope you are well out there in the world today brother. I appreciate you.

  • @shadow-wolfgaming1737
    @shadow-wolfgaming1737 5 місяців тому

    Being bastard aka a hole, they use it to put the man down and derogatory because you won't get walked on with their heels if you are because the nice guy phenomenon you get what you want its like an aphrodisiac them. 😅

  • @denkverlag1
    @denkverlag1 6 місяців тому

    as long as women have any power… you cannot win this stupid game…

  • @denkverlag1
    @denkverlag1 6 місяців тому

    If you have a backbone… women run away to the next liar…

  • @Francis_UD
    @Francis_UD 6 місяців тому

    Women are never happy man 😂😂😂

  • @CaseyFahey
    @CaseyFahey 7 місяців тому

    Good luck with the channel 🎉

  • @mikegarrens5286
    @mikegarrens5286 7 місяців тому

    I don't care what anybody says when you meet a woman she will always first try to put you in friend zone!!! Dealing with her emotions taken her phone calls every minute of the day. being available too much. Fixing tires. Take care of this stage first before you move on to what this guy saying. And this guy makes sense.

  • @notmgtowyet8442
    @notmgtowyet8442 7 місяців тому

    Seek out mutualistic relationships. Reject parasitic relationships.

  • @DavidWilliams-nl2lw
    @DavidWilliams-nl2lw 7 місяців тому

    Prat em . Fake rejection to increase desire. From the Days of Iceberg Slim.

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 4 місяці тому

      Thanks for stopping by David. Hope you are well out there in the world today brother.

  • @Cousinbiddy1
    @Cousinbiddy1 7 місяців тому

    Step 1: Don’t be a jerk to women , just be nice and be a gentlemen to her

    • @SantaAnaGeorgeJ
      @SantaAnaGeorgeJ 7 місяців тому

      Sure, and get walked over constantly like a doormat.

    • @Cousinbiddy1
      @Cousinbiddy1 7 місяців тому

      @@SantaAnaGeorgeJ ok not that , u also have to stand up for urself as well

    • @rogerdodger6025
      @rogerdodger6025 17 днів тому

      Good luck with that one!

  • @polishpimp4233
    @polishpimp4233 8 місяців тому

    I argue it's ok to have female friends as long as you set boundaries. First boundary is you do things that you are interested in. She texts hey let's go surfing or social dancing you say score what time? When she's like hey me and my girlfriends are going to have lunch you say nah I am good. Do things you want to do dont be her emotional tampon when she bitches about the asshole that wont commit to her. You her friend not a girlfriend. Let her lady friends deal with that sort of stuff.

  • @rockerneck
    @rockerneck 8 місяців тому

    I think this is pretty bad advice. Encouraging men to have more friends who are women is how men become feminized. This is just me, but I also believe encouraging drinking alcohol only leads to poor choices and outcomes.

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 8 місяців тому

      I appreciate your perspective brother. You may have a point where by weak minded men could become more feminine in the midst of such groups? On the other hand, you'll understand the female psychology on a whole other level if you actually take some time to befriend a few of them. As with everything I offer up here, my way is not the only way.. Hope you're well out there. Thanks for adding to the discussion.

  • @jamestipton7872
    @jamestipton7872 8 місяців тому

    date? how the heck do you even get them to respond lol

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 8 місяців тому

      Hey James, I feel for you brother. I know at times it sure can feel like an uphill and impossible battle. Can I ask you this, can you identify 3 areas of your life where you could seek improvements? As with most things in life one thing rings true, if you build it they will come.. Build yourself into the best version of a man that you possibly can. I guarantee you that results will follow. Hang in there, let me know if I can offer up any further perspective to help you.

    • @jamestipton7872
      @jamestipton7872 8 місяців тому

      @@aboutthat5539 damn. That was a thoughtful and well thought out reply. Honestly, I’m not good in text. In person I’m fine. Handsome, personable, nice splash of charm. On the apps I can’t seem to make any of that come off correct. It’s just kinda weird

  • @DHW256
    @DHW256 8 місяців тому

    Common sense? Wow! Who'da thunk? LOL! No, I can't relate with folks who use dating apps, as I got married just before the internet became common in daily life. Yes, I'm on the high side of middle-age now, still very married, but I have a very active social life that includes my wife, my kids, and sometimes just myself; and I still encounter women of all ages who make it clear they are available -- and none of this occurs online! If this old codger can provoke the attraction of all sorts of women so easily, surely you younger guys can develop the game to do the same. As he says, get out there and get a life!

  • @1pcmedic
    @1pcmedic 8 місяців тому

    If all she has in the cart is beauty, bail out ASAP. Nobody is doing you a favor except yourself.

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 8 місяців тому

      I agree my friend. A woman's beauty can only take her so far, with a strong minded man that is. Many of us cave to the kryptonite for a long time. Lord knows I'm guilty. Thanks so much for commenting brother. I hope you're well out there in the world today.

  • @hypergraphic
    @hypergraphic 8 місяців тому

    Thats a good point!

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 8 місяців тому

      Thanks so much for adding a comment brother. I sincerely appreciate you being here. Hope you are well out there in the world today.

  • @HeelPower200
    @HeelPower200 8 місяців тому

    Alcohol has a unique, specifically vile strand of anxiety I noticed. It can truly wreck your body , especially if you're drinking alone and ruminating while drinking. That substance specifically can be very exhausting. Its strange that its the one drug that became socially acceptable globally. Its extremely potent.

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 8 місяців тому

      Hello there, thank you so much for adding perspective here my friend. You are spot on in my eyes. I hope you are doing amazing out there in the world today.

    • @HeelPower200
      @HeelPower200 8 місяців тому

      ​@@aboutthat5539Sort of in and out with substance use. I appreciate your video as it seems straight from the heart.. I think its ulimtately about understanding your inner self and having better relationships with people and the world. Peace and good luck to you.

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 8 місяців тому

      That means so much to me... Peace be with you as well

  • @Denturehempcleanser
    @Denturehempcleanser 8 місяців тому

    Eventually, the loop gets pretty tight and the chain around the neck only lets you go so far away from the booze cooler. Can’t go out for the day in a non booze activity. That’s too long. An hour or two is tops away from the drinking spot. That’s when it’s all over. Too bad people think they can control the loop, but, they can’t really. It’s total complete abstinence or it’s all in. 24-7

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 8 місяців тому

      Hey Carole, thanks so much for adding your perspective here. Even if it's in a small way, words like these might really help someone out there reading this. I appreciate you for this...

  • @Lightningrodmac
    @Lightningrodmac 8 місяців тому

    The anxiety for me comes from the stupid stuff you do and say when your drunk

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 8 місяців тому

      I've definitely been there before

  • @jayhutt1
    @jayhutt1 8 місяців тому

    So true! Thank You!

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 8 місяців тому

      Thanks for tuning in Jay. Hope you are having an amazing day my friend.

  • @drleo6409
    @drleo6409 8 місяців тому

    As Clark Gable said in “Gone with The Wind “ Frankly I don’t give a damm My wife gave me pure misery off and on for over a year. Then she threaten to divorce me. I said “ok” she had a complete turn around.

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 8 місяців тому

      Ah yes, the gone with the wind line. Is this not one of the greatest moments in cinema ever made? More importantly this is a depiction of this concept. So accurate. Thanks for tuning in my friend.

  • @cnilecnile6748
    @cnilecnile6748 8 місяців тому

    They aren't worth the effort any longer, you are just a walking ATM to them now. Everything is about power and control, and cleaning you out. It's exactly the same as having a pet that attacks you every time you feed it. Sooner or later, you have to call animal control to take it to the pound.

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 8 місяців тому

      Yes, seems to be the experience of many men who've walked the Earth. It's hard to keep your head on straight out there sometimes isn't it? Hang in there my friend. Remember, your walk on this Earth is about so much more than this and even experiences like these shape your soul. Take good care...

  • @user-kg2ez1eg2y
    @user-kg2ez1eg2y 8 місяців тому

    Hatred and contempt for a man are the essence of modern relationships.

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 8 місяців тому

      Sure feels that way sometimes, doesn't it. Keep sight of hope. There are a few good ones out there.

    • @user-kg2ez1eg2y
      @user-kg2ez1eg2y 8 місяців тому

      ​@@aboutthat5539Relationships like in Blade Runner 2049 will soon become a reality

  • @JackTownsend-FrumHell
    @JackTownsend-FrumHell 9 місяців тому

    It’s hard to feel bad for women these days. I have absolutely no problem being an asshole to someone being a bitch.

  • @tonydiesel3444
    @tonydiesel3444 9 місяців тому

    Lo9ks n height

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 8 місяців тому

      That's a piece, maybe, but don't ever lose sight of your true power inside of you. Take good care Tony. Thanks for checking in my friend.

  • @awakenow7147
    @awakenow7147 9 місяців тому

    Interesting story. I think there is indeed truth to what shes saying; her deep desire for a vulnerable man that she can have a genuine connection with. A lot of guys are going to deny this. He will talk about that one time he decided to be "vulnerable" with his GF, and how she thought he was weak as a result. What these guys almost never go into detail about, is the "how". How did he express his vulnerability? Did he express it with pettiness? Vitriol? A way to get "even" with her? Was he matching her childish energy with his own? Does he have a habit of trauma-dumping onto her, and exploding with emotion? Of course, you'll get hood girls, women who grew up in ultra conservative families, or a woman who simply isn't cut out to hold space for a man...who don't tolerate vulnerability. But there may be an equal number of women who desire vulnerability; a kind that is expressed with some degree of emotional intelligence. A vulnerability that can be connected to, and worked with.

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 8 місяців тому

      Thanks so much for your thoughtful reply and for adding something constructive for us all to consume and digest. Hope you are well out there in the world my friend. Take good care...

    • @awakenow7147
      @awakenow7147 8 місяців тому

      @@aboutthat5539 No problem man. Your videos are very thoughtful and emotionally intelligent in and of themselves!

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 8 місяців тому

      Thanks so much. That means a lot to me.

  • @tuomio5043
    @tuomio5043 9 місяців тому

    You are about to have a lot of views I think

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 9 місяців тому

      Thanks brother. I'm still not getting the traction I'd like but every bit of support helps and I appreciate your kind words.

    • @tuomio5043
      @tuomio5043 9 місяців тому

      @aboutthat5539 well, your point rings very true. I've found that women are a lot more switched on and aware than men think. If you imply something and she doesn't respond as if she caught on she is probably playing dumb. She got it. Same with these kinds of body language things

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 9 місяців тому

      100%!! Most women are such good "detectors" of everything in their orbit. A sharp contrast to most of us as men, droning on dead focused on our days mission. Thanks for your perspective brother!

  • @RapperGeek
    @RapperGeek 10 місяців тому

    She had to tell you that because she can't tell you what would really break her out of her masculinity.

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 10 місяців тому

      It's a good thought. What do you think would break her of it?

  • @emmanueltaiwo4624
    @emmanueltaiwo4624 10 місяців тому

    I’ve been listening to a lot of your videos for the most of today. You have significantly better content than most of UA-cam. Digestible, short, sweet, and honest. I appreciate you and your content man. Thank you

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 9 місяців тому

      Thanks Emmanuel. I really appreciate your presence here too my man. Is there anything you would like to see discussed? I love making content for individuals that come on here to share a piece of their lives with me and the rest of the world for that matter.

  • @copperpumpkin2648
    @copperpumpkin2648 10 місяців тому

    I'm so grateful I stopped giving the world a shit I stopped carrying a woman I stopped caring about Society I just stopped giving a rat's ass of a fucking everything it was the greatest thing that ever happened to me.

  • @sanritt
    @sanritt 11 місяців тому

    I hope that you also have a wonderful day. Thanks for the podcast!

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 11 місяців тому

      Great to hear from you Tristan! Hope you are doing amazing out there in the world my friend 🙏🏽 thank you for the comment

  • @grim-w5l
    @grim-w5l Рік тому

    Your time is valued by the energy you put in because you can't take your actions back. Your quote 'swagger' is the output of your decisions based upon your values and choices to make with said time. High value choices and Outlook could be perceived as simple as when you personally only care about your financial and mental health of your personal world whether it be your local community and not caring about anything beyond it. Because the chaos of the world is too vast for you to take hold of to make any difference so focus on what you can influence.

  • @BlakesPipes
    @BlakesPipes Рік тому

    Thank you, sent this to my ex wife

  • @FamilyHistoriandude
    @FamilyHistoriandude Рік тому

    Asking her out: lets [insert date idea here]. Inviting her: would you like to [insert invitation idea here]?

  • @Teedo_Don
    @Teedo_Don Рік тому

    Really enjoying your content. Glad to have discovered your channel. I speak and write about similar and many of the same type of thoughts. Your presentation is genuine and Real, in a world full of UA-cam hype. Very welcome and refreshing Bro. And the info you actually deliver is Spot on 🏆

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 Рік тому

      Hey Teedo, so happy to have you here my man. I appreciate your presence. Thanks for checking in!

  • @sanritt
    @sanritt Рік тому

    This is so revelant and insightful to me right now. Thank you

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 Рік тому

      Hey Sanritt, hope you are well out there in the world today my man!

  • @doggpound9319
    @doggpound9319 Рік тому

    Just discovered this channel yesterday from the "How to be an A**hole to women" video and i've been on a binge since, loving the content bro and gave the thumbs up and subscribe already.

    • @aboutthat5539
      @aboutthat5539 Рік тому

      Hey brother, so happy to have you here my man, thanks for checking in! I hope you are kicking ass and taking names out there in the world today.

  • @MrOrmanley
    @MrOrmanley Рік тому

    As justice lord Batman would say: "If you want people to respect the big laws, you gotta enforce the small ones." Likewise, if you dont adress small disrespects, they will eventually snowball into big disrespects. If she gives you bad attitude, let her know immediately: "There's the door, you can leave anytime you want." Be ready to leave at any moment, and as cold and composed as possible. Don't let them see any weakness/vulnerability. If she oversteps your boundaries in a big way, or a small way but does not apologise, just matter-of-factly end it, send her stuff to her mom, change the keys, block her number and ghost her. Modern women are children, and children need to be taught responsibility and consequences to their actions. Remember, they have daddy issues, and you're not her father. Teach her her lesson, she needs it.