Letting go is EASY when you do this (Make detaching EASY)
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- 90% of raising your vibration is letting go because letting go leads to freedom.. Letting go is easy when you make detachment easy like this.
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Letting go is actually an easy process but it only is perceived to be difficult because there is some type of identity attachment that you have with the belief or person you're holding on to. Not only that, but most of the times you might not want to let go because you have some type of "pay off" or benefit from holding on- whether it's external validation, being "right" about something or anything else that you tell yourself is a benefit.
Detachment from a person, outcome or belief is the key to letting go and makes the process of letting go really easy. You see, letting go is supposed to be easy but we subconsciously make the choice to believe that it's hard and find reasons why we shouldn't. It's a paradox, but holding on to something really hard actually creates resistance and energetic distance. That means that letting go is what actually helps you attract more and live more in alignment and flow.
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hey everyone! here is the playlist I mentioned in the video on letting go!➡ua-cam.com/play/PLmD49HKQ8KUGcE3MjDK-yNRFkbR5OTP3F.html
Thankyou I need this right now! Much love 💗 Happy NewYear 💋😘🙏
Happy new years bro....
I like the term dangerously authentic and free to be yourself. Sounds like an excellent way to exist.
@@saywhatnah5328 isn’t it odd how that is something that has to be learned? Or taught at a spiritual school. How to undo the years of dogma and control.
Thank you for being a great spiritual teacher.... I’m here in Sedona sucking up all of the great energy!!!
“Detachment is an art of enjoying something while always being open to the possibility of losing it someday.”
Wow I never really thought of it that way. Sometimes I get confused trying to understand how I can enjoy something for what it is but be equally fulfilled when it goes and that there’s something else different in its place with different things to enjoy. I guess that’s what unconditional love is
I always told my mother to put her camera down while on vacation. She had a TERRIBLE habit of taking waaaaay too many photos. She and my sister told me I'd be very sorry some day that I didn't have pictures to look back at and enjoy the memories. I've always had an "elephant brain". LOL I NEVER forget anything important to me. I have many memories of vacations, my older relatives teaching me how to do their old dances, older cousins braiding my hair and teaching me how to swim or tie my shoes, etc. I didn't need pictures for any of that. 🥰 My point is...I enjoyed all of it while it was occurring, it can never happen again because they're all deceased, and I have no family left. I'm extremely sad about that, but they visit me in many ways. I'm lucky enough to be an empath and intuitive psychic medium! There is detachment there, but I get reminders when THEY'RE ready. I'm sure everyone else does as well. A smell, a song, a voice...something will remind a person of the past. Things, or people, that leave us, weren't meant to be there at that moment. Some are meant to teach us a lesson, some are meant to hold a place in our life for a brief moment until someone else comes along and some are meant to be with us for eternity. Knowing that somehow helps to let go. 🙏💗
I love that.
Great quote!
Bro...
May everyone that sees this let go to what they remain attached to.
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my UA-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪
please let me let go
AMEN!
Don't take this video as Absolute!
It's just another self help video
Some things work to a degree for some, but there is no absolutes!
Done ✅
"It's the choice to let go that is hard", this message is timely for me right now
Same here
How did it work out ?
The choice and the decision that we feel like it brings more pleasure to have that person around than to let him go which may not true
Same for me. I. feel happier after letting go.
My girlfriend broke up with me a year ago. I was devastated and hurt for 9 months. I saw this video 3 months ago and I really worked on letting go, loving myself and focusing on myself. I’m the happiest I’ve ever felt in my life now and guess what? My ex just sent me a message yesterday, apologizing for booting me out of her life. Now I’m deciding whether to give it another go with her or not but letting go is so so powerful.
My gf broke up with me 1 month ago and i was hurt like hell. Finally today I decided to let go.
What did you do?
Don't entertain such people again in your life
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Don’t do it! You’re worth more!
"Attachments bring pleasure but they do not bring happiness" gold ⚡️
It’s better to play the game as best as you can than to play the game to win. Because when you are attached to playing the game as best as you can you’re finding joy in the process. But if you play the game to win then you get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely you’ll win if you’re attached to playing as best as you can instead of attached to the win
Attachment is a normal part of forming a bond with a loved one. This guy confuses it with unhealthy attachment
So that means he stays with his currently gf in a relationship without feeling attached ... but anyway feels the need to have someone by his side otherwise he wouldn't feel the happiness??? .. that sounds kind of paradoxical to me isn it? .. like people want to feel detached but anyway want to be in a relationship becausw otherwise they wouldn t experience happiness as it fullest
@@katystrawberry2513 people who are detached are avoidant. And yeah, it makes no sense.
@@SallyM-hi1mhnot with unconditional love
"We believe that if we let go - we won't actually get it" - this is one of the best things I've heard on the "letting go" topic!!
Overwhelmed with appreciation I needed this!
yes this makes sense
This is honestly what I’m afraid of.
@@donovan847 Right, I suggest you build higher trust in the Universe/yourself. The lesson here is to surrender. Start letting go of the small things. Aligning energetically with what you want (asking Source to deliver), asking friends for help etc.! You won't be able to trust if you continue to hold on to. Otherwise now you're aligned with fear and control and this is what you get.
It’s better to play the game as best as you can than to play the game to win. Because when you are attached to playing the game as best as you can you’re finding joy in the process. But if you play the game to win then you get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely you’ll win if you’re attached to playing as best as you can instead of attached to the win
Thank you, Aaron. My partner broke up our 6 year relationship 3 weeks ago... unexpectedly and suddenly. And it devastated me... the grief was ENORMOUS!
But listening to your videos, I am finally in a position to completely let her go. As I realise that the Universe has something even better, in store for my journey.
And now, I wish her all the best. ... 😇
Bro 3.5 years but me too
5 years here. I tried to get her back home for the last three months. I thought I was “fighting” for her , in all reality I was losing myself and just pushing her
@@zadki1660 ... good on you for realising it though, mate. ... 😉
How are you now ?
@@sangohanuchiha ... thank you for asking, mate.
It's been an absolute roller-coaster since I wrote the original message... in brief, she lead me on for another 2 months making me believe we still had a chance... (she'd say, "I still love you!" ... "i need time for myself" ... "no im not with anyone else! Who would want me?", etc) ... I fell for it hook, line and sinker...
Anyway, I eventually discovered that she'd been sleeping with her boss the whole time! ... and by that, I mean months before we'd actually broken up.
This wrecked me beyond belief ... BUT, it was at that point when I stopped chasing her, talking to her... I stopped ALL communication completely, from that point on.
And I'll never speak with her again. Even if she ends up on the streets (where she belongs) ... from here on in, she is dead to me.
And I've moved on.
I now realise that her cheating was inevitable. And if it didn't happen when it did, it eventually would've happened some other time... because it is in her weak nature to do so.
Now, I wish myself all the best, and couldn't care less where she is, or what she's doing. She is trash. And I've learnt a harsh lesson.
I needed to see this badly. I’ve been miserable after the end of a relationship and this gave me the clarity I needed to let go of the pain. Thank you so much
Update a year later… how do you feel now?
@@daver1161 I had a period maybe a couple months after that where I got back together with the person I was talking about. It was good for a few months until she decided to make the same decision again. I was blindsided and felt dumb for setting myself up to be hurt again but ultimately it was much easier to deal with that time because I’d already been through the mourning process. I’m in a new relationship of 5 months and things are going very well and I’m really happy now. She’s almost the total opposite of my ex and things feel a lot more equal rather than everything falling on me to take care of someone. If you’re going through it just focus on yourself and see what happens for now. Don’t look for someone for a while, but also be open to possibilities if they present themselves to you. You never know when you’ll meet your next love, it could happen anywhere at anytime.
Facts
LETTING GO = GETTING OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY!
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my UA-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪
“90% of raising your vibration is letting go.” I love that.
Yeah, and I have no choice but to let go because being attached is not going to bring anyone back, and I don't need her. Sure, I desire the woman she was at some point, but that's gone, but more than that, I desire to the best person I can be.
@@Bazza5000 its hard because a man broke up with me feeling I am not who he thought. but I am (I think its an excuse. he is the one breaking it off. I love forever and would have never left him) so me trying to prove to him that I am still that same person isnt working. he is not having it. I can admit I still love him. and would want to be with him forever, I didnt fall out of love. he says he did. so i am confused .
So true!!
I'm finally letting go. The guilt that comes with divorcing a narcissist and all of their antics is has been so exhausting and mentally draining. I know I have to do this, but it's even harder with a child involved =(
I have finally started standing up for myself and standing firm on this choice... thankfully with the support of my therapist, close family and friends, and a Divorce support group. I'll get through this.
Aaron I stumbled upon this video just when I needed to hear it and you spoke words that were so influential and powerful. Thank you for that. You rock!
♥️
I think that in order to fully make your feelings believe the statement "I'm going to be okay no matter what", you need to stop seeking external validation or to let external things or outcomes decide whether you feel okay/safe or not
Don‘t know if someone is reading this, but if you are : You are amazing and beautiful! I believe in you! Enjoy your journey and keep your head up, from a small UA-camr who also love creat as possible you may never find again 🙏 🌟 ❤️
I started to cry at the 1,000 flowers analogy. When you focus on watering 1 flower, the rest of the garden dies. Also, if you pick 1 flower and hold on to it, it will eventually die instead leave them planted and water all of them.
Omg
This truly is a profound comment, thank u
Beautiful ❤️
bah.....I just want to walk away from that garden and let them ALL die.....guess I still havent let go yet.....lol.......
"Don't be a slave to your own desires"
I was so anxious before this video. I feel so much peace now.
Yes!!! Last march I broke up with my ex because I wasn’t getting what I wanted, I would invest a lot and he the minimum. So I ended things and set boundaries but deep down I still had hope he will come back, I applied the no contact rule expecting him to reach out at some point. He never did so I did, we got in touch again. We agreed to be friends but i was expecting to go back with him slowly but he did the same thing he did when we were dating, he even took my friendship for granted. 2 weeks ago he replied to my messages 8 days later and told me “he didn’t realized he never replied”. That’s was it for me, I was awesome and he didn’t appreciate me at all, I was being taken for granted again, when I deserve so much more so I finally decided to let him go. I talked to him, said what I need to tell him and said my goodbye. I finally feel free!!! I didn’t feel like this the last time since I wasn’t entirely ready to let go, but now I am. And on the plus side, I learned so much of myself. He never deserved me now I see it and it feels great to let go of attachments 😊
You are what you attract. Not only your ex needs to work on himself but so do you, respectfully.
The biggest thing I had to learn to let go of was placing others on a pedestal and giving them the power to influence my inner state...times have changed😁✌🏻
Fr fr brudda. No ones bouta knock us out of alignment anymore✌🏽😆
Yes 🙌
Exactly 👌🏾
makes sense...a lot of people have that.. I lost it early enough after being disappointed too many times. It always comes down to developing in the art of presence as our internal dialogue is a record of our past and we keep recreating the past rather than allowing a greater present-future
Same here ✋👏
"you wanting people to change is manipulating them....they can FEEL that." brilliant
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my UA-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪🕺🏻😝🔥😈
My ex came back just to see if I "changed" and came in testing me and told me I had things to prove. Which I realized he is a manipulator.
Eish..... That's me on my previous relationship, i felt like i am manipulating her until i decided to let her go.
LoL, but he in this video is ALSO wanting you to CHANGE. If no one changed, this world would be pathetic. There is nothing wrong with them FEELING that, because sometimes YOU need to be the one to plant that seed for them to feel so they can IMPROVE.
Facts it was a powerful statement
I've been seeing a therapist for insecurity and fear of abandonment and rejection for a little while. This video really set a light off in my brain. You said everything I needed to hear so clearly. I am going to save this video anytime I need to remind myself to let go of my attachments. Thank you so much for making this. I want to send this to my therapist too to see what he thinks about it.
Maybe you can quit the therapist!
@@Rigoletta53 Haha no, therapy is good for more than core fears and issues. My therapist has been a great outlet to vent and gain second opinions on events in my life I migh tbe struggling with. I honestly think everyone should have a therapist. Even if they don't really think they need one
Hello and good for you on your healing journey. What type of therapist would you recommend for healing and trauma? I’m trying to find one, but I don’t want to take any meds and that’s what I’ve been coming across. They’re trying to prescribe depression medication.
@@Rigoletta53yeah they don't help UA-cam is best
@@Galatea_GanymedeIf you’re always going to depend on a theraphist you’re never going to commit your own mistakes and have to take accountability for your actions. Now you’re just replicating the theraphist’s opinions and experience and learning nothing going forward.
I'm only halfway through this video and when I tell you this spoke to my SOUL, it really did. Thank you, Aaron. This randomly showed up on my timeline and I am so grateful that it did.
Russell Brand said something really profound. He said " I have over calculated my significance to that person." Once you truly understand this, the easier it becomes to detach.
Thanks for sharing- so good!
Ooh I needed to see this! Thank you, Nikki! 😊
Thanks Nikki. That is something I need to be mindful of.
Where did he say this?
I really needed that today
"Attatch to nothing, connect to everything."
Love the video
My clinginess energy is what pushed my twin flame away from me. Didn't even need to be vocal about it, it was just how I felt in my mind. Over the past few months I neutralized the energy, focused on myself and learned to be present, meditated consistently. I learned to let go of attachments and expectations (was difficult at first but i was able to do it eventually)... and it attracted my twin back. Now she just wants to interact with me whenever she can
Edit: She ran away again after I got caught in old thinking patterns 😂 Been 7 months now. But anyways... separation is an illusion
I just pushed away my twin too in the same way. I feel deep down that we're supposed to be together. I'm also doing the same as you did and I hope she comes back as she did for you..Thanks for sharing!
@@robinaberg3947 any luck?
@@robinaberg3947 make sure that you’re doing it for yourself,
@@r0b0bert unfortunately no… I chose myself instead.
I think I may have pushed my twin flame away. I was not clingy but I did feel the bond much more strongly. I have gone zero contact for 3 weeks now and will continue for as long as necessary 🙏. If I meet someone else in the meantime that can’t be helped. At least I gave it a fair chance.
crazy how this video actually appeared out of the blue when i actually needed to hear it the most
"The more you let go, the higher you will rise"
Attachment=suffering + temporary pleasure=scarcity mindset=pain=needy.
Choose to let go=not to control=trust universe=abundance.
Nicely summarised👍
@Jaime Ares By saying you can't do it, you are holding yourself back. You can.
@Swathi thank you! ❤ this!
There is pain in letting go because it feels like one is abandoning oneself and others which feels lonely and sad because one knows one will soon abandon the present self too. One can only dull and forget this pain with happy social interactions on a daily basis.
truth, i have learnt in Buddhist teaching
Sometimes, you find the perfect video in the right moment of your life. Thanks Aaron 😊
I’m an empath. My husband is toxic. Even though he was literally affecting my physical and emotional state, it was hard letting go. It took everything I had in me to do so. I am 62 yrs old. It took a lot of determination, decision, strength, and courage to leave. I had to drive 2500 miles to come back home where my family lives. He moved us away from my family. I’ve learned so much from these videos and getting support from the comments I read. I’m not alone. No one is alone. We can do this and get our life back on track.
youre amazing ❤
You are brave!Just want you to know!
I met a guy online when I was in a very vulnerable state of mind. I didn't feel happy or complete. And guess what, he was a reflection of me. Exactly the same. The same issues with life and even worse sometimes. It's so true what you said, we attract the same people we are like in our lives. Incomplete and not whole, unhappy. Happiness is a state of mind, if we can be happy and whole in ourselves, only then can we attract someone who's also happy and whole. What a shift of perspective!
Anyone reading this: you'll get through this sooner than you realize. You're not alone. We're all in this together. We're all experiencing a pain but trust me, one day, it'll get better. Let go of the outcomes and enjoy where you are in life. Do what you have to do right now. Everything else will fall in It's right place at the right time!!!❤
Omg! Im crying as Im reading your comment! I needed to hear this, but its so painful!
I needed this today…going exactly though this and your comment brought me to tears and gave me a sense of relief. Thank you 🙏
Hope, thank you for the encouraging words. And things will get better for you too you hang in there and be strong and be positive. Thanks will work out for the best for both of us
This is nonsense! No we do not attract the same people into our lives, new age garbage! So abusers attract abusers into their lives and abuse victims are an oddity? Ridiculous
I knew someone for 14 years, we were technically together for 12ish. She was my best friend, my everything. I've been through heartbreak before, but this is the worst I've felt. I definitely owned up to everything I did or didn't do, apologized profusely. I had to move away. I exercised religiously, I journaled. I prayed. I did everything I could to deal with the immense pain. Considering I already deal with depression/anxiety/deep thoughts/fears all of my life, mostly having to do with mortality and the concept of time--facing it head on is/was scary. I surprisingly got a job back in the same city we lived in. I didn't move back there for her, it was for cost of living, being able to live on my own with a regular job to start out with, no state taxes, etc. But I have to admit, being back here, in my empty apartment, its all rushing back to me--big time. I'm letting it release when I feel the need to. I just feel alone. My depression and anxiety is flowing back. I'm thinking about her. Missing her. It's only been 4 months. So I have to give myself time. I have to do my best to use positive affirmations. One moment at a time. One day at a time. I'm just a very emotional human being and it flows deeply and strongly, it gets legitimately scary. Thank you for allowing myself to get this out. All the best.
Attachment is the cause of a lot of suffering🙏
U r great sir
All suffering.
It’s better to play the game as best as you can than to play the game to win. Because when you are attached to playing the game as best as you can you’re finding joy in the process. But if you play the game to win then you get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely you’ll win if you’re attached to playing as best as you can instead of attached to the win
All suffering
true
Never hold on to people or situations that no longer serve you,life is too short
This message helps me to know that once I detached from that relationship that serves me no purpose I will open healthier relationships and opportunities that awaits me for being patient in the process. Walking away is so hard but in order to get out of hard situations. I must go through it. That’s the only way I can see myself flourish is if I am able to do something uncomfortable.
I got super emotional when he said to stop living in the future. I feel like I've been doing this for so long without even realizing it. Life has blown past me it seems
Or the past... can't change the outcome either way!
Craning your neck to see behind you, or too far in front of you causes pain. Live in the now.
The Past is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today’s a gift, that’s why it’s called the Present 💝
Peace Love & Divine Light
@lolWillieP thank you! Me too! ❤ it and the past, as Most of us sadly do! 😥
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Your not actually letting go your just giving it to the universe and not the ego 🤔❤️👁 (makes it a little easier)🤣
that is a good take. I think letting go of the need to let go is part of letting go actually IMHO
Thank you, that does make it easier 🙂
Certainly does, thank you Dante!
It’s better to play the game as best as you can than to play the game to win. Because when you are attached to playing the game as best as you can you’re finding joy in the process. But if you play the game to win then you get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely you’ll win if you’re attached to playing as best as you can instead of attached to the win
Dante- you are way ahead of your time- fantastic thought my friend!!
Wow! I needed this message so much. I've been attached to a person and it has been causing me a lot of anxiousness. I am going to let go. I am saving this video to keep watching as a reminder! Thank you!
Me too didnt realize it
Update?
It has been working and they are starting to reciprocate more@@rrancani444
I hope you're living in the moment now. ❤
I cried with this video, thank you so much. I feel so much better because I found letting go so difficult. Thank you so much, Aaron. Blessings your way.
The secret to efforless manifestation is finding the perfect blend of intention and surrender🙌🏽💚
Well said man
Has that worked for you? I've been manifesting since childhood ( 8 yrs old, toured Europe at 10, etc), before LOA was a thing. I'm very interested in what works for other people.
It's clearly not the same for everyone, I'd love to know what works for other individuals.
I just ask & trust. Nothing else has an affect. Emotion is there in the asking, but I've manifested my soulmate & 2 businesses with severe PTSD, anxiety & depression. HOWEVER, on another level I was a vibrating love, which must trump the depression. I also have a Angelic team & I was born knowing things. Now there is so much info on it, but no one ever explains what they manifested & how. I just know it's a individual thing, what blocks one person may or may not block another. And some people are just born manifestors, I know many, although there is a basic formula some are just tapped into it.
Jim Carrey spoke on it " I ask the Universe, it appears" ( he was poor, new bike) much love♥️♥️🌎🌎⚡⚡♾♾
Dude!!! Sing it!
@@gymnast2890 I'm also a "natural" LOA like you, started realising it at around 11/12 years old, the whole LOA culture didn't exist back then.
I'm a very stubborn person and also always loved acting so, as a child,I created and played stories and "moments" in my mind about what I wanted.
Nowadays I use music and objects. I manifested a house even though I had zero money, based on the object thing. It was basically a very beautiful straw basket that reminded me of those elegant, tidy and cozy "Instagram" homes.
I really loved that object and every time I reorganized and cleaned my old ugly hental apartment I would just concentrate on the qualities of that object, abstracting the rest of the place.
This way I vibrated in the "perfect house" momentum and forgot about the bad situation at that given time.
I found my soulmate through music, 7 years of marrisge and when I was with severe depression too.
Music and objects are my favorite strategies. Try this: select from what you have or buy something that represents your perfect life Idea. It's gonna be your "magical" object. Use it, everyday. Look at it and abstract the rest, the objects that represent stuff you don't like. Touch and see the object, enjoy using it and think about how that piece is real , exists and belongs to a whole reality yyou are about to acess. Think about this object as a "clue". Imagine It is a sign that the parts of your ideal world are manifesting ,falling in your lap.
@@sandramarques6866 Fascinating! I never came across anyone who manifested before LOA online, weirdly, I know people/kids who have.
I totally didn't realize it until my 20's in retrospect, when I found a book on it, but still no LOA existed, it wasn't called that. I just realized my relationship with the Universe & how things aligned that I wanted, especially when bad things happened around 11/12 I would imagine something & things would magically align & produce a miracle.
I use music for sure, I will definitely be trying your object
technique...always looking for new techniques & ESPECIALLY as I'm older & working on my imagination, healing & spirituality. Thank you so much for sharing! Much love♥️♥️🌎🌎
If you're reading this, know that you are loved, appreciated and never alone. This life thing isn't easy but it's totally worth it. The lessons we learn and the growth that our soul experiences is priceless. Hold onto your faith and be a giver of kindness whenever possible. Sending you peace, balance, and gratitude... It is always darkest before the dawn. Know that better days aren't too far away.
Much love and light your way 🙌
I totally agree! Thank you for your beautiful and uplifting words....🙏🏽
@@AaronDoughty44
Thanks Aaron! You da man! :D
@@rayannchi-masteryourreality You're welcome! Namaste :)
Thank you 😊 🙏🏻
Belief in the universe. No power. Believe in God. Source of all power.
I NEEDED this more than anyone could know.
I’ve been too attached to the outcome. And I’m ready to let go and be happy with or without. And I’m so so thankful for all of the good things in my life!
Thank you for this video ❤️
When you try to attach too much, force, control, push ……you’re actually telling the universe that you don’t deserve that outcome that you’re looking for. You have to trust the process what God and the universe is trying to teach you. 💕
Yes! God! 🕊️
🤜🏻✝️🤛🏽
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How do I trust God?
what God has for you no man can stop it (good or bad)
What if you don’t believe in god though?
@@JH-id4te it s not about believing in “god”. It s about being faith! Faith that things will happen.
Your attachment to the outcome is the very reason you’re not manifesting the outcome.
Well said! 🤗
I know but HOW
"He who let's go of the desired outcome is he who is most likely to realize it."
Then why girls i let go a long tine ago didnt manifest never....?
@@tommydawson7147 I don’t understand your question?
So true! You have everything you need within you, allow yourself to feel that vibration and watch things soar towards you x
Detachment is not easy because when we finally let go we have no more distractions. No distractions means it is time to sit with many emotions we have suppressed for so long. But know that no emotion last forever. Go with the flow. Let go, release, meditate. It will all be okay.
When the student is ready the teacher arrives. Thank you Aaron for this. I am over 50 and learning the most important lesson of my life. Much, much gratitude!!
True to the core❤️
2 late...
I’m with you on this one, but better late than never I’m grateful 😊
Also 50 and trying to figure out how to let go of a 17 year relationship that seems to have been wrong from the start....
@@RanOvaT I guess you know how long someone will live ...do you?
“You’re good either way because you’re not attach to the outcome” I like that
I'm happiest when I'm God conscious...and exploring His awesome universe! (Salam...peace)
This is so timely for me. My boyfriend just ghosted me just left after 14 years. I was devastated but I’m tired of being hurt and I’m tired of him constantly just leaving whenever he wants so I’m ready to detach.
"I was attached to being right" ... It was like getting shot in the head with this awareness. Mind blowing, thank you man.
I have the exact same problem, for some reason I just always have to be right
Wow.. I needed this. Never ever thought about it
Very true. I thought I was too smart to be played and I was going to easily get detached. Boy did I learn a lesson
Man, it's like finally seeing the code of the matrix
I finally decided to let go of something I’d held so close for a while this morning and within an hour it came back to me, letting go really is the key to having everything you’ve ever desired, TRUST 💖
That is amazing. so easy in theory so hard in practice but I love it that the universe gave you a gift. I find the more I parctice presence and let go of the internal dialogue the less I attach and the more I can let go with ease and grace
@@TheMediumChannel thank you so much that’s lovely of you!! Yes you’re so right, quieting that inner dialogue and just being is such a peaceful way to be and allows us to flow with ease ☺️🙏🏼✨
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my UA-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪🕺🏻
@@ollieewin4757 Yes I love that, I'm definitely going to use that thanks for sharing! :) I'll check it out!
Just made 444 . Much love
I found your page literally 2 days ago when I was just searching for some answers and every video hits with big truths I didn’t think of and small truths that were with me all along that I didn’t accept! Thank you for delivering your message :-)
Hey man, just want to let you know I’m so grateful for this. I’ve been struggling for over a year now, but you helped me identify what really was wrong: me. I was able to properly reflect for once after seeking so many answers everywhere. This is the bit of information that made me realize I’ve been holding on, resisting, and expecting outcomes to go my way which in turn only creates attachment, neediness and a desire for control of things I can’t tame. Again, thank you! You helped me understand it’s okay to let go, not have to be in control, and to value myself.
"you wanna be right, at the expense of your happiness"... that's killer
Should be a compromise one side can't give everything the other asks with no return sacrifice
You’re enthusiastic and easy to pay attention to
thank you Ashley!
Sounds like what my friend has been telling me. It makes sense. Let stuff go, don’t be attached. Don’t be attached. Quite a lot to learn.
Trips, houses. There’s a lot of good stuff for everybody here but I see this channel is for people that are already privilege and live in that bubble. Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you so much for this! Attachment has been causing me so much unnecessary pain over the past 2-3 months. I've decided to let go and leave it to the universe. This is such a blessing. ❤️
Was it a relationship? Did they return?
Leave it to our LIVING GOD NOT UNIVERSE. BECAUSE GOD CREATED THE UNIVERSE
I got past that loss and pain just after 3 days
Just getting out if a similar situation. I feel sad but also a great relief now..
@@danielbrown8602 i dont think they returned....they re gone for good...not all us can comprehend that...
Whenever I want to let go I always think of Aaron
haha thank you
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Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my UA-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪
This video is changing my life and I keep sharing a lot of this concept of letting go the way that I've learned from you with my own coaching clients. Thank you Aaron! I'm learning from you and bring parts of this message to others as I see it work in my life! Self-compassion has been a huge one.
I came across your videos on tiktok , i guess I needed to listen to you .
Felt asleep listening to you and woke up woth the need to listen to your teachings again !
I claim that someone like urself crosses my path ! 😌
You're a wonderful being . Stay in bleassed ❤
It’s scary to let go of him. The pain is the only thing I have left of him 😭😭😭. Worse thing is I know he’s doing okay and thriving. I’m the only one suffering
I'm stuck there too
This video should help you to let go it definitely is one of the most important videos I have ever seen I just let go of the outcome. I’m so free me Attaching to the Outcome is what’s causing me pain. I just totally let him go. This video makes me realize and small subtle ways I was trying to control him I’m not doing this with a guarantee that he will come back I am doing this from my own peace of mind
@@LonjeMarie7 Ill try..
i feel ya, i know my ex is talking to other girls he’s always been like that plus this is the second time he’s dumped me so i can’t ever let him back
@@mizzcrazygal for sure dont! thats messed up these boys are not it. I only wanted my ex back because I made mistakes too but he doesn't trust me so oh well.
Flow state go state:
- attachment = resistance
- letting go is a choice
- letting go of external control = internal happiness
- pleasure does not = happiness
- we move how we think
- inner pressure = subconscious wall
- 1,000 flowers = so many options!!!
- ABUNDANCE OF ABUNDANCE BABAY
- shedding = freedom
- let go of control.
- when u don’t care what ppl think, ur being your most authentic self.
- let go, let in 💚
- let go = free
You almost made me cry realizing someone and some things I need to let go of. Thank you for your advice, my brother. Keep doing what you do please.
Thank you! When I asked why I wanted this person back, I couldn’t answer it logically. It made me realize it was just me being hurt and having a bruised ego from being dumped.
That is why after letting go of my past toxic relationship with my ex now 2 years later I feel soooo much happier and it's so peaceful and freeing.
Love to see it!!! 🙏🏽💕
I've been "letting go" for a couple of weeks now and now being aware of all the things that no longer serve me. I'm feeling much better mentally and physically. What a wonderful feeling! You explain it well, thank you 😊❤
ya.....get past it a bit and its a great feeling of strength that returns to your soul.....am almost addicted to that feeling now.........maybe its just my testosterone producing workout......who knows
I just felt the feeling you were talking about and it’s liberating ! Thank you for articulating this !
Your all over thinkers
@@jacksmith1086 head case
@@Brascobadboy jealous ?
This popped up as a suggestion on my UA-cam feed last night. You have no idea how much this helped me when my world crumbled on me today.
I just discovered you today man and I trust you you speak beautifully man it's good to know there's people like you alive and real out there.
This also plays a big part in being authentic too!! Here's a quote I hope it reaches someone who needs it! "Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we are" -Brené Brown
thanks for sharing! 🙏
Thanks so much dear
Yeah for me It’s better to play the game as best I can than to play the game to win. Because when I am attached to playing the game as best as I can I’m finding joy in the process. But if I play the game to win then I get attached to the outcome. The funny thing is, it’s more likely I’ll win if I’m attached to playing the game as best as I can instead of being attached to winning. Also I’m posting lots of comedy skits on my UA-cam Channel right now but all these types of thing that you might enjoy 💪🕺🏻
Vernon Howard said the same, he was an incredible teacher in 50s - he is big on being Authentic & True to oneself & strip all the false identities we obtain, want to be or attachments. So we must practice letting go not only daily, but at every moment - "be vigilant" said Jesus.
Personally, I always envision a cord going from my head to the object of attachment. I cut this with scissors, and imagine the object floating away(like a balloon) and the other side of the cord being pulled back in to my head. This side of the cord represents my freedom, and so I sit and feel gratitude for the fact that I've got it back. I managed to let go of the things that I was most attached to in life by doing this. Instantly upon doing this, something inside of me exhaled, released a whole bunch of tension, and said "finally, I can rest". It was an incredible experience!
Amazing
Thank you for your sharing your ‘ letting go ‘ experiences and understanding of how the process works.
I’m learning more and more each day how to love and accept myself for who I am …
Embrace the humanness with all the experiences and thoughts both good and evil.
The universe is supporting our wholeness. We need to trust and stop controlling the outcome.
Love you Aaron
I’ve been watching your videos for awhile during a bad breakup/divorce. And this video made me a subscriber. I plan to watch it everyday until I can let go fully. Thank you for making this video!
"It hasn't ever actually served you to be really attached to the outcome of anything" - story of my life
“You let go to let in. That’s just the way this reality works!” I love that! 💕💕
Thank you Aaron! You just helped me figure out how to end literally decades of pain! May every beautiful thing continue to find its way to you. Much love and light!❤️🔥
This is slowly helping me realize the block in my creativity is focused on the ends rather than the means. Thank you for the reminder that was already in me Aaron.
I listen to this everyday. It's been the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Letting go of control feels good. I'm enough and blessed to just be.
Bella how you finding the results you have achieved?
@@tonyjlorns1727 I'm not quite sure what your question is, yet if you're asking how I let go of control and let things just flow? I stopped caring about everything. Everything does not matter and pertain to me. I allow the people around me to live their lives without judgement, as I want for mine.
Your videos helped me through my first break up in high school. 3 years later you’re helping me through my second one. I truly appreciate your videos ❤
The difference between pleasure and happiness. They aren't the same things at all! Thank you for your advice on letting go. It goes with a sign I saw outside a church that said "Let go and Let go" It's making sense to me now 🕊 🍃
"Happiness is a state of consciousness. You're present in the moment. You're not attached to the outcome."
Letting go is a ultimate sign of abundance... I think I have to let go of me chasing my ex... It's hard painful
Everyone goes through that. Enjoy your own life instead! She probably is!
Hi I’m 76 granny and today just split with my 14 year long partner in another area , it won’t hurt so much this time as I realise now , if they don’t want to be with you,you certainly don’t want to waste your time on them , when the spark has gone on one or both sides it’s time to end it , I haven’t cried yet , come near to it driving home , but nothing , just numb , but it will pass , when you are indifferent to your ex you will know your truly over them , the best revenge ( if needed) is to be happy ,this really annoys them when they want you to pine over them ,don’t give them that satisfaction a moment longer ,xx
i'm in the exact same position... thats how i ended up here, this opened my eyes so much... i litereally sent a message to her and she didn't respond until now... i hadn't realizaded that THIS is causing me pain... loving her so much that i can't let go, and all that does is hurt me... i let go of her... i wil not feel any pain by that.
@@mauriciocardoso1345 don't let someone else steal your happiness... Pain is temporary. Someone more beautiful and understanding will enter your life soon. Good things will come to good people. 👍
@@abhinayramanan7907 thank you so much, its some real hard times im going through, i wish the same to you, hope you’re having a great day
letting go is a process,, not easy....but glad you are getting a lot of youtube hits for peddling fantasy, you have a lot to learn young man
You have to be right, I understand what you mean exactly. Be ok with the reality of it. You don't have to like it, just accept it and move on.
Force creates resistance, faith moves mountains😤💪🏽
What if your faith has been altered due to long term abuse, manipulation and trauma? If this core element has been distorted and impacted by the abuser, then how would someone encourage victims to release the disturbing, chaotic, life altering changes that they’ve experienced from their abuser? These effects can last for a lifetime and they will never be the same again. The residual hangover is nothing to take lightly. Though many people often assume that letting go of a false illusion is something easy to do or that it doesn’t take a continuous effort to acknowledge, swallow and reluctantly accept their inhuman actions and/or behavior!!! That’s what keeps some victims and survivors from letting go. Take it or leave it. But it’s the truth, coming from someone who has experienced it first hand. OhhhhLAWD lol
@@amazingrace81 narcissism is definitely the toughest to overcome. But realize you attracted one because of your light, and they’ve tried to dim it or steal it for themselves. Reclaim that light, and eminate it. Kill them with kindness. Allow all their attempts of negativity and verbal abuse to bounce off you. Be the mirror, so that they can see their ugly reflection.
Endlesssoul how do I reclaim my light? By killing them with kindness. How do I allow their attempts to nitpick to bounce off of me? Everyone always says what to do but I don’t know the how. 😔 Thanks for replying
@@amazingrace81 it’s a choice to absorb negativity, a choice to react in anger or frustration, a choice to walk on eggshells. That’s the key, choose to say no I won’t engage in this. Give yourself permission to live your life to the fullest, to say that’s THEIR problem. Because it is. The problem they have with you doesn’t exist outside of THEIR own head. Narcissists are full of insecurity and as soon as you show that they’re attempts to belittle you no longer hold weight, they will cower. Along with being an empath usually comes people pleasing and these narcs subconsciously know that. They assume you will forever be manipulatable. Show them you know who they are and you’re done with the BS. It would freak you out to know how much I resonate with your situation. Took me years to overcome. And you’re right, so much easier said than done. The people you see who seem impenetrable simply chose to be. You owe no one anything Gracie, live for you.
Endlesssoul I stopped engaging in his negativity years ago. The hard part is living my life afterwards. We share a child. Plus, the residual effects still linger. I’ve come a long way but my healing journey isn’t over. Thanks for your support. I’m glad you overcame it. That’s a blessing 💜
Brotha you is PREACHING!!!!!😭🙌🏾👏🏾 thank you for this!
This video awakened me! I have been attaching myself to every outcome in my life due to fear and PTSD. Thank you for this informative video! I feel free now and it all makes sense! I always worried about what others thought of me due to fear!
Thank you. I've had to learn this lesson once again to my niece...my teeth...my cantoring and choir... I'm happy just being me !!!! Praise God. It's okay... It's alright. I am free to just be me !!!! ❤️
This video came in divine timing for me. This is exactly what I needed to hear at this exact time. Thank you Aaron!
happy to hear that 🙌
I uploaded a video 2 days ago referring to my breakup and how I moved on. Watch until the end I genuinely think it's worth it. I've had a great response on Instagram, and I'm new to UA-cam
You don’t want to let go because you want to be “right”
Thank you brother.
Letting go of the pain is the perspective I needed. Thank you.
Thank you for the message. It comes timely. “I am good already” I have a breakup and am still stuck in a miserable feeling. I declare I let it go today. I am no longer detached. I trust the universe and allow things to come to me
how are you now? im sure youre in a much better place now. im happy for you
I think letting go of an attachment isn't easy if u love someone. If ur not emotionally invested then letting go of anything can become easy. However if ur an empath then these terms aren't too easy bc ur always giving and nurturing. If ur a taker then once u feel u have no need 4the other person then walking away is easy. So it depends what type of role u play in the relationship what makes it easy to let go.
Exactly!!
I agree
letting go doesnt mean you stop loving them,.... it means you surrender to whats not in your control. And not allow it or them to be what makes you happy. Letting go doesnt mean you stop loving them. :) All you can really do is trust that what is yours will come back. Its not easy, but healing means growth. And if they want to come back theyll see that as something positive to come back to. Rather than coming back to the same thing.
I'm in this exact problem, I guess what helps is either finding someone who is better or treating yourself like the person who you love the most.
I think one thing that may help is the belief that it isn't easy.. That you are the one giving and nurturing in the relationship.. that creates a sense of "need" or importance which could be allowing your ego the "reason" why it's harder for you and why letting go isn't the same for you as other people(any time there is separation is a good signal that its on the ego realm). As you begin to see what you are getting from ideas and beliefs then you allow yourself the choice to replace it with something that is more beneficial to you and that will take you closer to peace. Hope that makes sense!
This couldn’t come in a better timing
This message was EXACTLY what I’ve been praying for🙏🏽THANK YOU!!!
@Celina I don’t believe in forcing anything. What and who is for me will come as the universe sees best. Thank you though.
I just found your videos today and you have a new subscriber! I love everything your saying because it’s true and I have a problem with attachment and abandonment issues for the wrong reasons and I’m workn on healing myself because I am happier when I’m free . When you try so hard to hold on as you stated it pushes them further away the more I’m honest with myself and just trusting the universe like you said everything falls in my lap.
"When you let go, you let in."
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This video literally changed my life. Just got the words “Let Go” tattooed onto my wrist tonight. Thank you. ❤️
Wow... Thats super cool....
Hopefully you don't get attached to "Let Go".
@@reald3d23 🤣🤣
So wait....you just literally permanently tattooed the motto of a mantra that is all about impermanence and detaching. Learning to let go....LOL...I thi k you completely missed the point Hun
@@mr.fettesq.7705 you seem fun at parties
I really appreciate the new perspective. What you said about "pleasure vs happiness" was exactly what I needed to hear. Appreciate you and all you do, Aaron ❤
“It’s not letting go that is hard, but the choice to let go” SO TRUE! when a friendship ended badly, I completely let the person go, but when my other friendship naturally ended, I found it difficult to let go ‘cause there was “no reason as such” to (like fights etc… we simply didn’t align any longer). The other things here are also extremely relatable. When I was secure and not looking for anyone, I started liking this guy and altho he didn’t feel the same romantically, he was a very nice friend and made the process easier for me in some way. But when I got insecure in myself due to other things, I projected those insecurities onto the guy and… done! He visibly started talking lesser to me. I missed not even him, but the pure detached feeling I had back then. He started talking lesser to me and even if would have, he could not give it to me anyway. So this is a great reminder and guide in general!! I was having trouble with this recently, so Thank you so much for sharing :)