Vietnamese brides: How marrying foreign men impacts the women's families back home
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- Опубліковано 6 чер 2018
- Vietnam is known for its export of brides. Channel NewsAsia's Tung Ngo went to a village where many of its daughters have married foreign men to find out why.
Unless you experienced total poverty, no one has the right to judge people for their reasons and actions.
God is the only one that can judge us.
So it's okay to be a gold digger?
What a bollocks..western have experienced 2 world wars like my grannies and they were never selling themselves..never do like these gold-diggers in 00s marrying grandpas and even divorcing or ghosting nice men for any mean reason
My parents and many others I know grew up in poverty and didnt have to resort to marrying a rando
@@jacklan4103 yes the same way you are a beauty digger
When the wife is poor and the man is rich it's often ends up in a disrespect, life is not a korean drama
Only if the rich man is an idiot.
When the wife is beautiful, filial can cook, educated, respectful but have to marry outsiders because Vietnamese men are terrible
No it doesn’t it has always been like this
Agreed
As a Vietnamese man, I apologize to the Vietnamese women who had to do this in order to survive. They’ve been through so much hardship. Throughout the course of our history, our women served our nation well.
As a Korean man I hope these brides are treated with all the dignity of a human being in Korea. S.Korea has a lot to apologize for for the crimes during the Vietnam war and even though we overthrew our guilty military dictators, the people still have that guilt towards Vietnam on our conscience which can only be fixed by constant apologies and pleading for forgiveness, lets reach the future together! As for the brides I hope they are indeed living a better life that can support the family, and their kids go to good schools to pursue great careers!
I as an American have seen vietnamese men cheat on their women. My wife has said too, they be men, they have needs, I do not want that life.
If they marry with a foreigner through love it is good for her. However, if marrying for money, it is so shame for our country!
I read about Vietnam women soldiers in school how they resisted invasion. And now I see this. Vietnamese women are so strong and brave. I will never imagine doing this. They continue to serve their family and country. Vietnamese men, love your women, protect them appreciate them be thankful to them.
As a Canadian, I admire the people of Vietnam
My own aunt is from vietnam XD I don't know if they love each other, but they treat each other right and she goes back to vietnam regularly with her children to visit her family :)
Giving birth to daughters are better investment than son lol.
Both willing parties, I see no harm as long as everyone is happy.
She's Talking about sacrificing herself uidiot.
@@lidiagizaw3828 She is willing to sacrifice herself uidiot.
I’m Vietnamese girl and live in the states, I want to pray for all the girls❤️🙏🏻
Yep,u Vietnamese girls are pretty nice and charming,pray for u from China
Catherine Nguyen better pray for the American men that meet these Vietnamese women and get swindled by these women.
@@JohnDavis-yz9nq The men are more likely to cheat the women than get swindled by them. Seen that with my own eyes
I’m marrying a girl next summer that I met over a year ago from Vietnam. She’s wonderful. Never met a more loyal loving person in my life. Her family is great too. No regrets at all. 😬
@@airportbumdad They're ALL "wonderful" in the beginning until real life settles in.
My friend knew a viet girl for 8yrs. Supported her family, send her sis to school every month. Bought hse. motorcycles etc. 1 day incidentally saw her Facebook. Got a shock! Photos of her hugging a man taken at several period spanning 8 yrs. 3 yrs ago she married the man without my friend knowing & still took $ from my friend.
Canis majoris, yeah a lot of scam out there especially all over the Asia but lots of Asian people are very nice, kind & loyal too. It's depending who you know & your luck.
your friend is stupid
@@quin2840 "Hypergamy"
@@amandakwong2647 lots of scammers everywhere, not only in Asia.
marry your own kind
I am chinese, when I travelled in south east asian countries and saw some young girls accompanied with old white guys, I felt uncomfortable. I think it is very necessary that all asian countries develop their own industries and education system, supplying sufficient and varied jobs to women and training them, that is the best way to change the fate of them. Some foreign losers just take advantage of the sucesses of their countries instead of their own's.
Yea this is sick man. I hate this too
I'm a Vietnamese and I hate this too. It doesn't happen in my country only. But I try not to judge, because I may mistake a real couple who really love each other for two persons who come together with petty purpose 😅 I made that mistake once or twice, thinking it was poor girl with foreigner again. But then I found out it was a rich girl with stable job who just love the guy 😂
Same thing in the Philippines. Especially in my area.
I stay in Vietnam 6 month every year......give me a Vietnamese woman any day....they are the best there is!
Most Vietnamese bride are not faithful. Not all. Some married and work in ktv. Some have lovers behind your back.
I think you're talking about Thai women.
@@benj1236 you seem to have personal issues with Thais, what the person described above could be found in any nationalities including yours. stop spreading personal hatred.
Do you have any proof of this?
@@billsmith6884 Of course I have. I got a hse there. Dont try it yourself. Or maybe you want so experience? Wish you luck. Just a piece of advice. Check FB activities and photos uploads of your friend and their friends. You may find surprises.
@Sammuel Bower Ha ha ha, sometimes it is their ongxa that they deceived. It is both way. They married very young. You will be surprised to learn they have 2 kids when the are in early 20 s. Looking for Vietnamese man? You said. They are looking for better prospects . Can they feed their children with $200? Sometimes men dont work, play cock fighting. ( not all though ) How much man salary? $300. Minimum expenses about $800 for use, marketing, electrical Bill's, wifi. Children education.
What is the name of this village?
My Vietnamese gf has been with me for two years and I'm not even rich. It depends on the individual.
Do you have video or photos?
@@fuanasantuary1277 lol obviously I do
@@saffaadventures365 Can I see?
@@fuanasantuary1277what a creep 😂
Funny thing is koreans are actually moving in and taking over Vietnam. But culturally is very similar, lunar new year, harvest festival, even baby birthday picking if items etc.
shame....i'm vietnamese girl and i live in VN and i hate to see this,people keep giving their future to a men that they know nothing about,i mean,they said that they will have better future like why don't you make money yourself girl?,my parent always talk about some girls in my neighbor have a forgein husband,and they are jealous with that,wtf,i feel shame for those girl,i keep telling my parent that are'nt right but they said that i was know nothing and being immature,mannn,i don't know what to do with this country.
Marry me.Me love you long time.I want Vietnam women.
@@charlesdr1981 married yourself.
@Miss tea i think there is no right or wrong , when there is demand there is supply . VN girls are very caring about their family , they always hope to give their family the best they can.
@@misstea8893 hahaha... Good job girl 👏😆
lol, easy way.
I have some Vietnamese-Korean friends who married Koreans and live in my city. I have wondered why they sacrifice themselves in their marriage and come to Korea. But I know have an answer why from this news clip. I admire them so much and I hope their sacrifice shines not only their family back home but also themselves.
They are such a good Korean citizen now and play a pivotal role for Korea. They share many similarities in Korean cultures and well assimilated to Korea.
I don’t think anyone wrong, if they get marriage with a local they might have bad marriage too. I’m Vietnamese , my husband is American and I protect Vietnamese girls they are smart and strong they know they can marriage the man who they love and true love . Nothing wrong . Don’t be racist .
Can't judge what they do but I hope they leverage their overseas money to improve their current situation. For example, start a business or do something more than just building large houses to show off their wealth. At least for the sake of future generations so that they don't expect the next generation to do the same to survive. For example, we helped our relatives in rural china and they used the money to start a small business. Now, after 10 years, they have become very successful for their kids and grandkids. They are not super wealthy but built something that they can help themselves without getting help from abroad.
They are all smiles. Hope their government can work something for them.
They are likely high/middle school dropouts and want quick bucks. Can't help them much. Good, hardworking, respectable ones are in the Vietnamese metro cities. If their husbands and husbands' family disrespect them, realizing they were being used as these women's piggy banks, it is to be expected
Life will be better in Vietnam soon
c0pium
A not so popular korean guys or foreign dudes seeking wives from the poorest of the poor .fair enough
for their happy life ~~~~~~~~
Wow her mom looks very young!!
This is total tragedy. Young viet girls marry the ugliest,oldest and unwanted men in sk. A lot of the time the men are abusive, the wife lives in total isolation and the mixed child are the easiest target for bullying in school.
Great analysis... 👍
Though I want to agree with this.. I can't, because you only described the bad side of it. It's like lotto, you described the ones you lost the lotto, not the winners, and I happen to know a few winner cases irl, and other cases through different sources. So it's safe to say you only mention the negative side that can't be taken as the whole truth.
Still, it's sad to treat marriage like lottery, but if they married a Vietnamese husband, it's kinda like lottery too😂 ppl change, good and bad people are mixed togther you can't tell who is who.
If people are happy and living better thats what matters but I bet they miss their parents relatives ...
2019?
Selling love for money is not different than selling body for money
I need marry a vietnam girl. Help me
As an asian woman, I think Vietnamese women are really pretty. Especially Vietnamese Americans. My guess is their mixed ethnicity.
meerespflanzen Vietnamese are all mixed so some look more Chinese/Korean and some look more Thai/Cambodian depending on what we are mixed with.
Cumulus Humilis Which country has all pretty people? There are ugly, pretty and average people from all ethnicities. Since Vietnamese are very mixed, there is a variation in looks.
meerespflanzen I am Vietnamese American so you are indirectly complimenting me. Thanks!🤗
Many of those pretty Vietnamese American are actually of Chinese descent or partially ethnic Chinese.
Danny Kwan Lmao no. They’re Vietnamese. Stop making everything about China. It’s obnoxious, ignorant and arrogant.
From my experience seeing Vietnamese Americans it seems like a large majority of Vietnamese women are dating and married to Vietnamese men. Alot of these videos are misleading just like statistics are misleading such as average height. Wikipedia says that all Asians are short. But the tallest large groups of people that I have seen visiting the USA came from China, mainly from their northern provinces. Seemed like half of the men are 185 cm or taller and half of the women looked 170 cm or taller. While the senior citizen aged Vietnamese are mostly short in height their young adult Asian men look mostly between 172 cm to 177 cm and the young adult women look mostly between 160 cm to 165 cm. The young adult Vietnamese Americans actually seem taller than some European Americans. These Italian Americans seem like half of their male population is 170 cm or shorter and their women seem mostly under 160 cm. I am a white American man that is 170 cm and to me it seemed like the tallest Asian ethnicities are taller than the tallest European ethnicities and the shortest European ethnicities are shorter than the shortest Asian ethnicities in the USA. This wiki data seems false or outdated if it was true. Alot of stuff about Asians are false especially with this Asian women with white men. That is a very small percentage of reality but the internet will tell you that this is a majority. Asians are a large majority of the time with Asians and the Vietnamese are a large majority of the time with Vietnamese like the Koreans are a large majority of the times with Koreans and other Asians are a large majority of the time with the same Asian ethnicity.
What is going to happen to the Vietnamese man in that town once all the girls move to different country?
They may have to find wives from South Korea or even North Korea
@@tengfsthey can’t afford the women in Korea lol
Do vietnamese women marry filipinos?
No, they might as well marry their own viet guy instead of pinoy.
No one wants to address the Vietnamese men and their problem? "300,000 of these Vietnamese brides [marrying non-Vietnamese] between 2008 and 2010"
I am Vietnamese. The problem is communist Vietnam, they ruin the country, stupid system, massive corruption, dictatorship and media censorship. That's why Vietnam is poor and no voice for the people or whatever.
Vietnamese woman ranks first in South Korea. Surpass China two years ago.
Korean Peninsula is there a reason why?
China's economy is improving by the day.
only for the old man. No korean under 35 meets vietnamese. They prefor Japanese for sure.
@@rudywinono8522 Japan is the first rank for 10 years
Are you kidding, normal Chinese girls who marry with Korean? Most Chinese don't like Korean.. China is not others countries like your country
Of coarse there are difference in culture. When a woman marrys a man, she joins his culture. Not the other way around. Must make sure the woman is willing to live under the culture she is marrying to.
Old country bachelors in Korea can't get brides, so they pay for young women in Vietnam. Koreans also think it is very bad.Few young men prefer Vietnamese women.Therefore, I hope you don't marry Korean dramas. Human rights for immigrant women in Vietnam are not good. The woman's Korean husbands did not receive a proper education.
But standard of living is so much better in VN
Pffft trust me, language barrier sounds nice right about now; I can’t even get empathy from someone who’s first language was English...
Women and their adoration of Gold
Men and their adoration of beauty...
idiot she's talking about sacrificing herself for her family .come back when u get a basic understanding
*Marriage (Prostitution) - The oldest profession in the world.*
your mom married to your dad, so your mom is... (according to your logic)
Ben J found the incel
NGUYEN Huong Thi, married an American 80 year old black simple minded black man for his money. And is now receiving a social security check each month, just after being in US for one year. It's sad to watch her family waiting for him to pass--to get property and anything else that's available for them.
My greatest gratitude goes out to #Drkanayo Peterson, I’m glad my husband was able to
get rid of the hepatitis B and HIV Aids virus with your 14 days negative.
So poverty mean death
I think that a person has a better chance of a marriage working out if they marry someone the same age as themselves. A 65 year old man getting married to a 35 year old woman is asking for problems. Even marring a woman of the same age presents problems with culture differences. A man I know married a good looking woman from Peru the same age as he is. This woman will go take a crap and not wash her hands and will start cooking. Her family came for a visit and they absolutely tore up his very nice house. The first day they were there they broke the toilet and pulled the towel bar out of the wall. Next to go was the toilet paper holder. It got pulled out the wall. Then they broke the single handle kitchen faucet. Not realizing it had plastic components they pulled down on it too hard and got it leaking severely. The wife brought in metal chairs to the dining room without protection covers on the legs and ruined his vinyl floor covering with gouges and scratches. And when you hear his wife talk about how educated her family is. My friend is a very easy going man and he didn’t say anything but he tells me about it. He has a hard time eating with them because they dig in the serving dishes with their forks and will not use the serving fork. I will not eat at his house because his wife will not wash her hands before she cooks. Her one son has had hepatitis. I asked him if he could do it over would he marry her again and he said no. The culture difference would be too much for me to handle. Her family left him a going away present. They infested his house with cockroaches that was in their suitcases.
Only and idiot will marry a woman old enough to be his daughter. Asking for trouble.
Tim Ngim I guess they get stars in their eyes. Yes I agree. That is not going to work. I’ve heard men don’t like american women because they are to independent but as I described getting married to women from a different culture presents its own set of problems. The only way getting married to a woman young enough to be his daughter or granddaughter will work is if he is a drug lord.
IT's not South China Sea, it's a fishing village near central Vietnam coast. Stop using wrong, and misinform terminology
Channel NewsAsia
is Chinese propaganda
😒 u really don't know ur geographic
Panda 2007 you really don't know what the Chinese are doing to the Vietnamese and Philippines to take ownership of the sea which ISNT THEIRS
Internationally, that area is considered as South China Sea, either you like it or not.
TheMiddleKingdom honestly, i think you need to go back to school and study maritime laws, plz comment with logic
I am Vietnamese, I am very ashamed and humiliated about this.
Vietnam is poor because of the devastating war and embargo.
Countries that used to wage war with Vietnam such as the US, France, China, South Korea ... are responsible for this
The main problem for all of this is the communist Vietnam ;((
@@truongbe9083 Why the countries that waged war and did economic sanctions walk free without any consequences? We didn't wage war to them
Whyte Europeans are colonizers
Don’t even compare them with other Asian countries
!!!!
@@truongbe9083the Main problem is whyte colonisers and they have bombed Vietnamese children too and done the worst stuff
And any relationship is different? This is just more upfront of needs and wants..
Most relationships are sadly hidden by the unspoken expectations
Men want sex. Women want safety security and provisioning.
Let’s not kid ourselves. Every relationship you’ve ever seen is because people are meeting the others needs and wants and wishes. If they didn’t get anything from it, there wouldn’t be a point to the relationship would there be?
Every woman wants to be with a wealthier man. Higher status. Every man wants as young and beautiful as he can bargain with. To think “oh no they are just in love” is a child’s game to play.
Bet the woman would be happy of your friend if he smokes pot and played video games all day right? That’s love. Allowing someone to do as they wish. Nope. She expects him to get up and go to work to provide for her!
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Be very very careful marrying such women. They can be EXPERT actresses and use the sex card, amongst other tactics.
It's all about Number 1,guys....and most of the time it isn't you that's number 1.
You're a ticket.
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Don't feel sorry for those Vietnamese women. The same thing happened for Korean women in 1960s & 1970s. They were 'sold' to older American men although in smaller numbers..
how is it better that two nationnalities of women were abused Idiot
Need more research on korean women who marry richer korean men or white men
benblexbenblex In many cases, white are considered as low class in South Korea. Google it!
korean women also prefer richer and less male chauvinism mainland Chinese also
Những vị tổng thống ở nông thôn của Hàn Quốc đã không thể tìm thấy vợ nên đã mua và trả tiền cho các cô gái nhỏ tuổi ở Việt Nam. Người Hàn Quốc cũng nghĩ điều này là không tốt.Trong số các thanh niên trẻ hầu như không có ai thích phụ nữ Việt Nam.Vì vậy, tôi mong rằng cậu ấy sẽ xem bộ phim Hàn Quốc và không lấy chồng về Hàn Quốc. Nhân quyền đối với những phụ nữ di dân Việt Nam là điều không tốt. Vì những người đàn ông Hàn Quốc không được đào tạo đúng cách.
Phim ảnh Hàn Quốc quá tốt nên đã làm cho những ã phụ nữ nghèo VN ảo tưởng về hàn quốc
Malachi 2:11-12 King James Version (KJV)
11 Judah hath dealt treacherously, and an abomination is committed in Israel and in Jerusalem; for Judah hath profaned the holiness of the Lord which he loved, and hath married the daughter of a strange god.
12 The Lord will cut off the man that doeth this, the master and the scholar, out of the tabernacles of Jacob, and him that offereth an offering unto the Lord of hosts.
2 Corinthians 6:14 King James Version (KJV)
14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
SHAME
U will never going to hear poor black women marrying rich peoples
You would hear black women have multiple baby daddies to live off of their child support and welfare
I'll go get one
NHŲC QUÁ GÁI VIETNAM DÂN TRÍ QUÁ THÂP KO BIÊT ĐÀNG ÔNG NAM HÀN RÂT LÀ BĄO TÀN ĐÁNH ĐÀN BÀ NHŪ TÙ BINH.
???? Ở đâu ra cái thông tin quơ đũa cả nắm này vậy, có người vầy người kia ạ????
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