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  • @aprildedert9510
    @aprildedert9510 Місяць тому +454

    “Some religions may call it rape but it isn’t” what in the actual f*ck???? Last time I checked it doesn’t matter what religion you are, sexual assault is against the law.

    • @LoLuvLo
      @LoLuvLo Місяць тому

      Some sick perv in the community came up with it and they all followed suit and called it religion

  • @whatsamatteryou791
    @whatsamatteryou791 Місяць тому +393

    If someone tried to do that to my daughter, I would be in jail and they would be six under. That culture needs to evolve in so many ways.

    • @sarahofficer8112
      @sarahofficer8112 Місяць тому +6

      If I were to be taking attention, seriously, grabbing me, it’s not an option😮

    • @user-ro2vb8by7u
      @user-ro2vb8by7u Місяць тому +16

      They are not well educated.

    • @maryleung1425
      @maryleung1425 27 днів тому +14

      It's groping ...its not fun ...its not appropriate behavior...in some places the guys would be charged ...

    • @Littlepocketrocket81
      @Littlepocketrocket81 13 днів тому +2

      Well said mate

    • @beckacason
      @beckacason 11 днів тому +1

      It if that’s all they know? It’s normal for these. But I agree

  • @marcialivingston-nq8xk
    @marcialivingston-nq8xk Місяць тому +348

    Poor young girls. They are so undervalued in their culture. I can't even......

  • @Jylart
    @Jylart Місяць тому +287

    That grabbing is horrendous. Awful, awful, awful!!

  • @jacqui9176
    @jacqui9176 Місяць тому +145

    That term grabbing to be changed to abusing! It's disgusting and degrading, the parents of these young girls should be ashamed of themselves!

  • @GothDragonFly29
    @GothDragonFly29 Місяць тому +239

    “You have to punch IT” it wow

    • @user-qy9rt9cy2b
      @user-qy9rt9cy2b Місяць тому +24

      You have too punch it hese a charmer isn’t he 🙃

    • @isabella6075
      @isabella6075 Місяць тому +22

      They are abusers

    • @Littlepocketrocket81
      @Littlepocketrocket81 13 днів тому

      Bell ends with no education, if they try doing that to a Scottish or English lady they're be dumped in a canal or in jail.

    • @Littlepocketrocket81
      @Littlepocketrocket81 13 днів тому

      ​@@user-qy9rt9cy2bjust got so much anger here but I will get kicked of woke UA-cam if I said anything out of lines....

    • @mariec3527
      @mariec3527 13 днів тому +3

      Right

  • @mascara1777
    @mascara1777 Місяць тому +149

    I love the young lady at 2:00 she had so much respect for the mother she was speaking to

    • @SpeakSpirited
      @SpeakSpirited Місяць тому +16

      You could feel how much she cared and respected her aunt 🥹

    • @mariec3527
      @mariec3527 13 днів тому +5

      Right so nice of her to explain how well that lady did for herself as a single mom

  • @luckygurl70
    @luckygurl70 Місяць тому +111

    This is actually so disturbing to watch. It is crazy how “grabbing” is ok in the modern era. 😕

  • @MaryLopez-hc7rc
    @MaryLopez-hc7rc Місяць тому +180

    Who was responsible for the ill-fitting bodice on the bride’s dress? Otherwise it was lovely. I don’t agree with the grabbing.

    • @Gina-up4nk
      @Gina-up4nk Місяць тому +23

      It made the dress look bad. Terrible fit in the bust for sure.

    • @Lita-bj5ir
      @Lita-bj5ir Місяць тому

      I hate grabbing. I don't like to be grabbed or touched ! It is more sexual assault then any think else...

    • @blufox808
      @blufox808 Місяць тому +7

      😂my EXACT same reaction but u sait it WAY better 😂

    • @MsKatana1973
      @MsKatana1973 Місяць тому +9

      I'm glad others noticed this, I thought oh god she is gonna fall out of the bodice .

  • @DawnShipley1977
    @DawnShipley1977 Місяць тому +176

    Grabbing is abuse.

  • @wally2786
    @wally2786 Місяць тому +85

    The difference between their morals and their clothes don’t match!! I don’t understand their behavior.

    • @carolesigrist3780
      @carolesigrist3780 28 днів тому +5

      I’ve always thought that

    • @AnnaBellaChannel
      @AnnaBellaChannel 11 днів тому +6

      The morals come from the elders within the community like their grandparents. It is worth pointing out that all travellers have shorter lifespans than the settled population. Morals to them are also their cultural code. They also don't watch much popular culture like TV shows and films as well as only have basic primary education. The young marriage age is how they keep their money within families still. The girls dress like that to stick out among the other girls. They have to get the boys attention by how they look in the hope he will come over to them and 'garb' them. They don't have sex before marriage in traveller culture. So they have to find ways of self-advertising themselves to other young travellers in the marriage market. Hence why the boys have their tops off and the girls have bright colourful clothes.

    • @samanthamorris2207
      @samanthamorris2207 3 дні тому

      I’m confused too it’s like you can be a tease but can’t put out or won’t be married or respected

  • @lunawolfNZ
    @lunawolfNZ Місяць тому +71

    here in new zealand thats classed as sexual assault which leads to jail time

  • @raimeyewens7518
    @raimeyewens7518 Місяць тому +33

    The way the girls dress is a mix between old time bar saloon and 80’s music video.

  • @nostalgicblondie
    @nostalgicblondie Місяць тому +51

    I cant even watch this without having to pause it multiple times, cause these poor women are screaming for help and these idiots just laugh it off.

    • @LoriSanborn-rp4ul
      @LoriSanborn-rp4ul 15 днів тому +1

      I did the same, kept pausing. Absolutely horrifying

  • @alejandram2843
    @alejandram2843 Місяць тому +29

    The way the top fits her in that dress is horrific 🤣🤣

  • @cynthiajarvis9269
    @cynthiajarvis9269 Місяць тому +38

    A real man is not abusive! If they are abusive , they are WEAK !

  • @charlenesearlesrod5
    @charlenesearlesrod5 Місяць тому +74

    Idk if im the only 1 that finds this cringe

  • @janettehaggar3232
    @janettehaggar3232 Місяць тому +70

    A culture of misogyny

  • @ashleyknoller2675
    @ashleyknoller2675 10 днів тому +20

    I'd be in jail if I even saw this happening to a female let alone if this happened to me or my own daughter.....smfh

  • @marialaurel6440
    @marialaurel6440 Місяць тому +45

    I agree with the comment the dressmaker made. Raising children right is a big commitment and responsibility.

    • @user-gc4zy2sr2g
      @user-gc4zy2sr2g Місяць тому +2

      True. And if we all lived in campers we could afford to stay home with our kids too! 😂

    • @singlewhitefemale1707
      @singlewhitefemale1707 Місяць тому +8

      I didn't live in a camper. I bought a Mobile Home. I raised two children (boy and girl) by myself working a factory job. Both of my children went on to do great things. My Daughter is a Cardiac RN, my Son started his own business and is now raising his 11 year old daughter by himself . So proud of both of them!!

  • @jamestrishiley3440
    @jamestrishiley3440 Місяць тому +92

    Omg. The grabbing. Unacceptable.

    • @Roblox-e3g
      @Roblox-e3g Місяць тому +2

      That’s just the culture
      And tradition if it was muslim or any other religion it would not be respectful to talk really bad about the traditions .

    • @jacquelinerobinson7844
      @jacquelinerobinson7844 Місяць тому +6

      @@Roblox-e3g I get what you're saying know it's their tradition, I personally think it's disrespectful towards women to treat them like a piece of meat, and looking for the best cut of fillets. Yes I would say the same as I've mentioned before Gypsy, Muslims, Christians, Africans traditions and others you don't treat young women like this it's disgusting behaviour. Also sad that some women think it's normal for men to act this way just because it's tradition.

    • @chanelleali6119
      @chanelleali6119 Місяць тому

      And people wonder why they are so dumb and stupid

  • @noneofusrok.9407
    @noneofusrok.9407 Місяць тому +27

    "... the tradition known as grabbing" i think there is a different word for it.

  • @didshereallysaythat
    @didshereallysaythat Місяць тому +27

    I bet she paid a fortune for that dress and the bodice is way too big and ill fitting 😢

  • @paixamourchanel9084
    @paixamourchanel9084 Місяць тому +132

    This channel reposts this video of clear assault on women every few months under a different title. No matter how you frame it, it’s disgusting and unacceptable behavior. You can’t polish a turd. Not with all the bling crystals in the world.

  • @jacquelinerobinson7844
    @jacquelinerobinson7844 Місяць тому +26

    I live in England UK 🇬🇧 and there used to be a programme called My Gypsy Wedding, it was crazy to watch as there tradition was crazy some girls had never been to school they were been taught by a British woman who made the wedding dresses. These girls we're 15 year's old and she'd teach them basic English and Maths. They couldn't even read I found it so upsetting to watch they we're literally struggling to read books what my daughters could read at the age of 4 year's old. They were basically taught to just cook and clean make sure you're husband is happy, some of bride's were as young as 16 year's old. If they marry a non Gypsy man and go to live in a house, they are disowned by the whole Gypsy community and are not welcome back. 😢

    • @kole0429
      @kole0429 25 днів тому +2

      yeah we watched in the states too .. on the TLC channel

    • @jacquelinerobinson7844
      @jacquelinerobinson7844 25 днів тому +1

      @@kole0429 yeah it's really good to see other people's culture, beliefs and the way they live. They've also got one on Bear knuckle Gypsy Fighter's, wow now that one was an eye opener for me. The boy's and men are brutal and pull no punches, tougher than tough it's crazy watch. 🏡😊🙎🏽‍♀️

  • @marieneu264
    @marieneu264 Місяць тому +62

    This is so disturbing.

  • @lss74
    @lss74 Місяць тому +45

    Horrifying !!!!! (the 'Grabbing'....ughhh TERRIBLE !!!!!!!!!)

    • @sarar3385
      @sarar3385 Місяць тому +1

      What are your traditions? Where are they from? Don’t be so quick to judge!
      These people have brought traditions over from Romania.
      I am not a traveler or know much about them, but they deserve ti practice things however they want within the law.

    • @Sugarfang315
      @Sugarfang315 Місяць тому +1

      You make it sound like Romania is a country to be impressed by. The country is impoverished and it’s not hard to see why considering the people of that land have traditions like these.

  • @user-bg1og4wg7g
    @user-bg1og4wg7g Місяць тому +52

    I love how they act like they have such high morals but look how they dress for men lmao

    • @stephaniesawake5799
      @stephaniesawake5799 Місяць тому +3

      Bet any money they all had layers and shorts under there clothes can't say that for British girls on a Saturday night ....

  • @marcialivingston-nq8xk
    @marcialivingston-nq8xk Місяць тому +20

    My daughter, my granddaughter.....hell no.

  • @Melissa-nd8ry
    @Melissa-nd8ry Місяць тому +25

    Looks like the jersey shore

  • @sharontaylor4389
    @sharontaylor4389 Місяць тому +16

    The young girls become slaves for the rest of there lives.Thats sad😢

  • @Jessica.8669
    @Jessica.8669 Місяць тому +17

    Her dress top is way too big.

  • @victorialawhon2251
    @victorialawhon2251 Місяць тому +22

    Gross.

  • @bluecatjay5229
    @bluecatjay5229 Місяць тому +11

    I never understood why just because it’s a tradition or religious belief it makes it ok? As a human race we should constantly learning better ways !
    As adults able to influence a change

  • @Raven-nx8dr
    @Raven-nx8dr 28 днів тому +9

    These are Irish travellers not Romany Gypsies

  • @singlewhitefemale1707
    @singlewhitefemale1707 Місяць тому +15

    So you have to be half dressed to get a husband??

    • @Roblox-e3g
      @Roblox-e3g Місяць тому

      No we have respect fool

  • @redpender401
    @redpender401 Місяць тому +5

    My mom's dad was a Romy gypsy and that's what he said that they basically do...I wasn't raised like that my aunties got married when they were 12 years old and my other aunt got married when she was 15 years old...
    They basically dropped out of school at a certain age so they can start taking care of there husbands and children

  • @kathyfrable1088
    @kathyfrable1088 26 днів тому +5

    This is sexual assault and why do you send ur daughters on the street showing themselves so that they could find a husband. Strange.

  • @vampire6186
    @vampire6186 19 днів тому +5

    The grabbing tradition is atrocious and I worry about what happens to these women behind closed doors.

  • @Marsase
    @Marsase Місяць тому +8

    Some old practices have their own way of working out. Still this is crazy. In my country in the past the girl had to signal first to the boy by giving him a flower that she was wearing in her hair until a minute ago. IF she gives him the flower! If not he can try to steal it from her and it might be successful or it might not be successful. In either way it doesn't mean anything if she didn't give it willingly.

  • @ukmary1968
    @ukmary1968 Місяць тому +12

    This is absolutely ridiculous

  • @ozwomanid57
    @ozwomanid57 12 днів тому +4

    No no no NOT this is sexual abuse. Considering alot of the men are NOT faithful this is just nasty

  • @tigerlily6070
    @tigerlily6070 Місяць тому +3

    That's lovely what she said about her auntie

  • @lamoskgr
    @lamoskgr 2 дні тому

    I'm so proud of Bridgette, she's such a tough woman who has done an amazing job raisi her children ❤

  • @happycook6737
    @happycook6737 Місяць тому +15

    The castle cake was beautiful!

  • @tbrowntown
    @tbrowntown Місяць тому +10

    What the actual hell

  • @user-jo7kf2bj9s
    @user-jo7kf2bj9s 4 дні тому +1

    " No" is "No" VERBALLY, PHYSICALLY, and through ACTIONS. Don't grab without permission unless you plan to explain the heel in your a$$ and hand up your nose. It's hard to surgically remove those. If this is what these boys are taught, no wonder none of them seem to have any remorse, or self control.

  • @buckwheatusfeatus4825
    @buckwheatusfeatus4825 Місяць тому +27

    Although the grabbing wasn't part of it, 50 years ago women got married and were housewives and mothers.

    • @alisonfraser8231
      @alisonfraser8231 Місяць тому

      And many of those marriages started off with a date rape. That’s basically what this is.

    • @whatsamatteryou791
      @whatsamatteryou791 Місяць тому +5

      Yes and died younger than today! Plus men were actual men they didn’t run off or screw around. If they did they were rejected by everyone. Women should have skills to fend for themselves if needed. Husbands leave, become disabled, or die.

    • @jayaloades3840
      @jayaloades3840 Місяць тому

      Grabbing is literally sexual assault

  • @user-lo9ee4rq6d
    @user-lo9ee4rq6d 11 днів тому +2

    Tinkers leave a complete mess where ever they go.

  • @pollyannaprinciple5860
    @pollyannaprinciple5860 6 днів тому +2

    "Their whole aim in life is to get married." Maybe their aim in life needs to be renegotiated.

  • @dy9278
    @dy9278 Місяць тому +5

    This clip was rrposted just a couple of weeks ago

  • @tonyascarlett2413
    @tonyascarlett2413 22 дні тому +1

    Good for you, Auntie. 😊

  • @woozy607
    @woozy607 19 днів тому +2

    I don’t think I could marry that accent

  • @samanthamorris2207
    @samanthamorris2207 3 дні тому

    The cakes with the dolls

  • @andafterallthistime
    @andafterallthistime Місяць тому +24

    Disturbing

  • @tonyascarlett2413
    @tonyascarlett2413 22 дні тому +3

    Nope. Everything they do is a solid NOPE.

  • @Witchfoot.Incorporated
    @Witchfoot.Incorporated Місяць тому +2

    The girls end up choosing who they want to kiss, no matter the grab. There’s no sex involved.

  • @beckscald3855
    @beckscald3855 Місяць тому +3

    I get that its a different way of living but come on. Nobody should be assaulted and grabbed like that.

  • @kluseannamitchell
    @kluseannamitchell Місяць тому +3

    How can they afford these huge weddings?…..

  • @MA-lx8op
    @MA-lx8op Місяць тому +2

    I would never go to any event if I was in this culture. This is extremely sad.

  • @FrankieWilde2021
    @FrankieWilde2021 Місяць тому

    2:37 sounded like she was rapping

  • @1Kaileegirl
    @1Kaileegirl Місяць тому +2

    I am so disturbed after watching this

  • @daffodilfleur
    @daffodilfleur 3 дні тому

    They should have a much bigger population than they do considering how young they marry and how many children they have.

  • @jusme8525
    @jusme8525 Місяць тому +4

    Yuk Mr sticky fingers

  • @kristinwolf1165
    @kristinwolf1165 Місяць тому +1

    This some crazy shit. Lol

  • @vociferonheraldofthewinter2284
    @vociferonheraldofthewinter2284 Місяць тому +4

    The messed up thing? I was such a social misfit as a girl that I'd have been shattered NOT to be grabbed had I been in that situation - although my self esteem would've been expecting a total rejection walking in.
    And then horribly confused if a guy did grab me. "ME?! Really? Wait. What's wrong with you? Why would you pick ME? Weirdo."
    I actually panicked and bit the first boy who dared to steal a kiss. Broke another guy's finger. Now that I think about it, I don't know how the hell I managed to get married. My husband had to get through a lot of barriers.

  • @LuckyLogics01
    @LuckyLogics01 4 дні тому

    id b dead in this culture under 24 hours

  • @darieanjay4807
    @darieanjay4807 3 дні тому

    How is this filmed in the 21st century 😳

  • @catezaida8081
    @catezaida8081 Місяць тому +1

    Culture and what you grow up learning...I just want to take this moment and thank God that He allowed me to be born OUT of this particular culture. Because I would have ended up with life in prison as a young woman for murdering someone who manhandled me in such a manner.

  • @denisehall4818
    @denisehall4818 Місяць тому +2

    What is the percentage of Gypsy divorces?

    • @fmcm7715
      @fmcm7715 Місяць тому

      Zero divorces as they’re all ‘devout’ Catholics.

    • @denisehall4818
      @denisehall4818 Місяць тому

      @@fmcm7715 I don't believe it.

  • @anateixeira7972
    @anateixeira7972 Місяць тому +3

    This is the most ridiculous thing in the world , it’s a joke

  • @LaylaHeight
    @LaylaHeight Місяць тому

    "It's not a good way to start a relationship"... No sexual assault never was

  • @kaylove2327
    @kaylove2327 Місяць тому +1

    The grabbing is absolutely insane to me.

  • @samanthamorris2207
    @samanthamorris2207 3 дні тому

    The women dress like they’re going to the club and it’s day time

  • @jeangyure5433
    @jeangyure5433 Місяць тому

    The grabbing ritual reminds me of a dog in heat

  • @lav3333
    @lav3333 3 дні тому

    this is some brain rot worse than skibidi toilet

  • @cricketbeem9178
    @cricketbeem9178 9 днів тому

    That's barbaric and assault

  • @shelbygarcia2038
    @shelbygarcia2038 9 днів тому

    21 & 22 on the shelf??? Haha what a joke. What year was this filmed in, their clothes looks bad

  • @AlphonsodeBarbo
    @AlphonsodeBarbo 26 днів тому

    So 1950's!

  • @mcooper593
    @mcooper593 15 днів тому

    I just don’t get how the girls are expected to have high morals but dress so scantily 😞

  • @user-ei8eo6qz8o
    @user-ei8eo6qz8o Місяць тому +4

    What religion are they.

    • @pegknife
      @pegknife Місяць тому +1

      Catholic,you know,like the pope

    • @user-ei8eo6qz8o
      @user-ei8eo6qz8o Місяць тому +2

      Catholics don't grab lol😅😅😅

    • @pegknife
      @pegknife Місяць тому +1

      @@user-ei8eo6qz8o Well what do you think these paddywhacks are ? muslim ??

    • @user-ei8eo6qz8o
      @user-ei8eo6qz8o Місяць тому

      Muslims don't grab I don't know what religion they are if any.

    • @katherinewilliams5047
      @katherinewilliams5047 28 днів тому

      I’m catholic lol no gypsy. I know all gypsy culture.

  • @disscustinglybeautiful1652
    @disscustinglybeautiful1652 7 днів тому

    Wedding for a teen.

  • @elainemoulson2578
    @elainemoulson2578 20 днів тому

    The dress wasn't made correctly the top was too big

  • @reganwolf4405
    @reganwolf4405 19 днів тому +1

    Wait they want a virgn wife but jet you are grabbing and try to kiss the girl that is not your wife jet?? 😅

  • @roseodonnell7765
    @roseodonnell7765 14 днів тому +1

    absoloutley disgusting behaviour!!!!!!

  • @hollyyoung856
    @hollyyoung856 Місяць тому +2

    Ummmm, I’m up for grabs ❤

  • @wolfgirl3081
    @wolfgirl3081 Місяць тому +17

    Different culture 🤷‍♀️

  • @StamperWendy
    @StamperWendy Місяць тому

    By dressing like the 1980's?

  • @mariabonifacio8017
    @mariabonifacio8017 25 днів тому

    WTF😢 This is too much! UNACCEPTABLE!!!
    Some of those girls were not consenting and even the guys were forceful.

  • @adamson786bi3
    @adamson786bi3 14 днів тому

    REAL QUESTION..... What if that happened to their daughter? In my opinion if they are all just doing it for fun and jest..... Then that's okay, as long as the women/ girls enjoy the moment..... But NO MEANS NO..... ALLSO!!!

  • @opinionsdontmatter1978
    @opinionsdontmatter1978 27 днів тому

    I think the young men don’t really care too much for the grabbing, especially when he said it’s good enough, as in doing the bare minimum because he’s aware the young ladies don’t really like it… ❤

  • @rianellaloizou490
    @rianellaloizou490 7 днів тому

    these men are allowed to vote.

  • @carolwilder2289
    @carolwilder2289 5 днів тому

    Poor girl her dress doesn't even fit properly at her bust. They need to dress more appropriate

  • @EvetteHeim1
    @EvetteHeim1 Місяць тому

    I'm sorry but none of these people know what love or marriage really is....they are not grown enough

  • @sailboatrn7372
    @sailboatrn7372 7 днів тому

    So glad I wasn’t raised in this type of culture.

  • @gumdrop465
    @gumdrop465 Місяць тому +2

    Distrubing. Do these people go to school?

    • @tnt01
      @tnt01 25 днів тому +2

      NO

    • @gumdrop465
      @gumdrop465 24 дні тому +2

      @@tnt01 wow 😦

    • @isabella6075
      @isabella6075 13 днів тому

      @@gumdrop465Most are illiterate

    • @gumdrop465
      @gumdrop465 13 днів тому +2

      @@isabella6075 that's really bad

    • @isabella6075
      @isabella6075 11 днів тому +1

      @@gumdrop465Yh especially the girls very sad

  • @rapunzelrabbit9491
    @rapunzelrabbit9491 5 днів тому

    Wait.....its actually called grabbing???

  • @GREEKGODDESSFLA
    @GREEKGODDESSFLA Місяць тому

    Sad

  • @shaunamarie1053
    @shaunamarie1053 Місяць тому +1

    I miss Ireland!

  • @MaryLopez-hc7rc
    @MaryLopez-hc7rc Місяць тому +4

    Who was responsible for the ill-fitting bodice on the bride’s dress? Otherwise it was lovely.