Shayna Hubers (Ryan Poston Murder) | Mental Health & Personality
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I'm beginning to think excessive texting or emailing is a red flag for a toxic relationship...
I don't know a single person who has time for that. I swear to God that's a huge reason I've been single for so long. To have to text a person more than a few times a day feels like an absolute chore to me. 😜
@@caseyw.6550 agree
Or maybe it's a green flag...for a toxic relationship
ya think?
@@caseyw.6550 What do you mean with "Doesn't has time for that", it literally only takes 5 to 10 seconds to text someone
Also, just because someone is educated, doesn't automatically make them smart.
I've been trying to put that into words for years. So true.
Defence shot on face.
Another take on that is, just because someone is smart, doesn’t make them intelligent.
Preach.
I mentioned that in my vid posted in reference to a dr who was abused by her drs and his so called staff. There are a lot of educated dummies out there.
I was friends with Ryan and I had met Shayna. She wore a lot of makeup but other than that seemed normal to me. Admittedly I barely knew her and Ryan only spoke a little about her to me other than she was "exhausting." I can't begin to describe how shocking his murder was to all of us. She also joked about killing Ryan on Facebook before she killed him.
Interesting to hear from someone who actually knew them. Thanks for sharing!
I’m so sorry for your loss, my condolences.
Wow, so sorry for the loss of your friend. It's really got to be shocking. Its a small world. One of my best high school friends was a victim of Gary Ridgway. When you find out, and then never hear from that friend again, it never ceases to be a shock. I understand what you're saying. Hug's 🤗💔🙏
@@dirtysanchez941Thank you. I'm sorry to hear about your friend. It's really crazy when you get pulled in to something like this. It made me very angry but at least some of my text messages with Ryan were used by the prosecution to obtain a conviction. That's a small comfort. I follow Dr. Grande's channel and I was stunned when I saw this one in my notifications.
Wow
When I was in school an alarming number of psych majors were unstable. I always wondered if they were trying to figure out what was wrong with them.
I agree w this statement. I think so, too. They have this curiosity because they themselves are mentally ill. I’ve met a few psychiatrists who terrified me. Have you seen the Johnny Depp trial? Shit! Fuckers are crazy
For people with a lot of issues - they often think they dealt with them and gained the wisdom to help others, when in actual fact they didn’t but were just drawn to the idea being a person who rose above themselves to be in a position where they can bestow graces upon other for being so fantastic themselves.
If you essentially feel weak and vulnerable and confused, wouldn’t it just be a step up from that if you were then one to help people who feel weak and vulnerable and confused?
This is not a particularly social aspiration mind you, it’s pretty self-absorbed and deluded. And those who succed in manoeuvring themselves into such a position one way or another - when they find that working with peoples serious issues is hard work doesn’t mean everyones thanks you all day for being so wonderful, affirming how it was only because you’re so fantastic and clever and wise they ever got better - they usually quit the job pretty soon, because they sense that in having to deal with all the actual conflict material and critical self evaluation associated with doing such work they will likely wind up having to face the fact that they did in fact NOT or at least only partially vanquish their own demons after all, and this was all just one huge dissociation manoeuvre.
People like this do not really help others in the long term, they rely on others to be weak so they can feel or appear strong by comparison, and feel good about it because “helpers are good people”. They feed off the weakness and the people in their care somehow never walk away truly strengthened from the transaction or if they temporarily seem to do so - it’s usually because there is some co-morbid transaction happening where both parties dissociate from their true core issues and spiral down some toxic track of idealisation and devaluation acting out from their respective positions that usually involves some odd elements of dominance, submission and passive aggressiveness.
Rant over but I’ve seen a fair amount of shit like that in my professional life. Especially where words and talking are at the core of whatever the proposed therapy or pedagogic approach. Lots of fairly intelligent people spend a lot of time converting their issues into complex verbalised structures which are somehow easier to deal with and toss around in conversation and manipulate than just getting in there with the dirty work. Words can offer the benefit of feeling like you are really doing the work and adressing your issues while you’re really just distancing yourself from action with more words. Talk is clever. Pain is raw. Fear is raw. Despair, grief, shame none of it is really much like an intelligent conversation. Not saying cognition is not important - but there is a fine line between going somewhere with yourself and just playing with yourself while sucking up a lot of attention and resources from others and having them validate your secondary dramas.
@@whynottalklikeapiratExactly.
You will find that people become trained in the areas they are lacking. For example, unwell people will become healers, people who are mentally unwell will become psychologists etc... people who have lost in love will become a relationship adviser... people who have been targeted by a narcissist will become advisers to other targets.
@@binathere2574 The trouble is that you need:
A. to have TRULY worked through the experience to a point where you control it and not the other way around. If you haven’t you’ll be as likely to hurt people in a vulnerable situation when you then find out under pressure, that really you were still trying to just save yourself or a loved one and you’re not as strong as you fancied yourself to be, being the helper and not the victim.
B. To have more than just your personal experience but also a wider professional level knowledge of the phenomenon as well as how to apply that knowledge to specific situations, fields, demographics or issues.
C. To understand how to work with the implications of other people likely being in a different life situations, having different resources and coping capacities than you - in other words you need to know what a professional knows about working with a wide variety of other people and not simply expect to be able to generalise from personal experience.
In short:
- Breaking a leg and going through recovery makes you neither a doctor, a psychologist nor for that matter a recovery life coach.
Her interrogation was insane. She was blissful and so excited that she murdered him
I enjoyed her singing 😂
I have to see this
@@catchtwenty22 Sounds like a case for the "Jim Can't Swim" true crime documentary channel. :D
Adderall’s a hell of a drug
@@MateDrinker33 This one and the Dan Markel case!
Einstein would have known to keep his mouth shut.
Einstein wouldn't shoot someone in the face to begin with. He was more into bombs.
@@DonPeyote420 *atoms.... not bombs. The knowledge was just used to makes nukes. That's more on Oppenheimer
No kidding 👌 good one 😆😂
Einstein plagiarized his theories.
Epstein would have blackmailed the judge... oh Einstein... he would have brought bagels
To me, the strangest thing about this case is Hubers being interrogated without the police asking her any questions.
Obviously she wouldn’t shut up and they didn’t have to ask questions.
Hey, if the interaction isn't broke, don't fix it. :D
I really think they just let her act a damn fool completely telling on herself.
That wasn’t an interrogation. It was a monologue.
she actually requested legal counsel, so no interrogation took place. the woman police officer in the room with her while she monologues is literally just an officer waiting with her for legal counsel. all that talking and confessing was while hubers was apparently waiting for her lawyer. bet that lawyer had a field day
I suggested this! I didn’t think you would see it!
Good suggestion 😉
He’s very good at keeping up with comments, I have a lot of respect for UA-camrs who take the time!
Nice, and also, others could have suggested it...
I did too, he told me he would do it
Great suggestion!
“She had a degree in psychology .” Imagine having her as your child’s shrink or yours? She can’t even control her own anger, jealousy tantrums and psychopathy.
80% or so of psychology students, get into it cuz they try to solve their own problems.... i know, cuz thats what it said in my psychology book.... lolol...... also, the pills they give, cause mass shootings/school shootings.... most of the shooters, if not all, were on psyche drugs, from what i remember, usually wellbutrin...
so stop and think about that, if u ever go into a psyche place..... the person ur talking to, most likely has problems, gives drugs taht will make u act crazy, and they overcharge to be ur "Friend" sooooooo.......
jordan peterson is the perfect example, if the doctor himself can't even control his addiction, if u can't live a day without being pumped full of pills, so much so it takes u out for a year or more, and nearly kills u......... u have to think, is this right? is this healthy? lol
@@JoseRamirez-dv5uo what are you on about, medication can backfire yes but it’s necessary for many people to function
@@JoseRamirez-dv5uo if you’re diabetic and you’re reliant on insulin how is that different
Tacit vs explicit knowledge.
@@Lidia_AF I think he mentioned she was attending grad school to become a school counselor so if this hadn’t happened I think it’s more than likely she would’ve been treating someone eventually.
"Aristotle, Plato, Socrates? Morons!"--Vicini.
"I'm smarter than Einstein."--Lady speaking for three hours without a lawyer to police.
on the internet, everyone has a 160 IQ
Inconceivable
Who is vincini, Leonardo davincini🤔?
@@maniacalmadness5419 A character from the film The Princess Bride...well worth a watch...
@@maniacalmadness5419 I spelled it wrong. It's Vizzini, from The Princess Bride, one of my favorite movies.
Many cases analyzed by Dr. Grande have made me feel very grateful that I am many years out of the dating scene and am no longer seeking an intimate partner.
Ditto!
Yeah, but it's not like most these people were hard to spot!
You and me both bro.
Same 🙏🏼
I agree! I got married before the digital age and I still am..to my only one husband! 🥰
So, this nugget; "Perhaps the couple was looking for a marriage with less prison involved." Thanks Dr. Grande.
One of his many greats!👍
Many gems! Thank you Doctor.
Shady af 😂🤣😂🤣😂
I live in NKY and followed this case! When I saw her in the interrogation room, very bazaar behavior!!
There's always at least one nugget each video :)
"Stop texting me, I don't have the patience to deal with you, I'm turning off my phone and locking the door." I'd say that's more than a "speed bump in the relationship!"
You obviously have never been in a relationship with someone with BPD^^
@@derstoffausdemderjoghurtis4346 And never will thank god
@@joeytilbury3400 hahaha
But I'll open it when i feel like having a release and i have a load of laundry that i don't want to deal with.
Yeah...it could've been one of those kinda relationships.
Wow, the similarities between her and Jodi arias are insane. Same motive, delusional, singing and doing weird physical stuff in the interrogation room, both had compared their IQ to Einstein.
This type of person literally feels like their life is a movie, and they alone have the starring role. It’s fairyland.
Hubers and Arias are legends in their own minds.
I think she is very different from Jodi.
Jodi is more street-smart and cunning. She doesn't mind highlighting that the man he murdered was a pedophile in front of the Jury after stopping pretending to be a bimbo.
Shayna's problem is that she thinks she is much smarter than she actually is. She might have a much better chance if she stopped talking in the room (there is still no guarantee since Ryan Poston was a rising star lawyer himself) but she constantly said things that even the least experienced officers and prosecutors can use against her.
Except he wasn't a pedophile, she just lied about that to make him look bad and try to sway the jury
@@MentokTheMindTaker She didn't really directly call Alexander a pedophile and I don't think Alexander was either. I just think it is a very dirty trick after she ruined someone's family once and then wanted to stab them again.
When she emptied the gun I’m pretty sure the “mercy killing defense” was out the window..
In for a dime, in for a dollar...
She had so much mercy that I guess she just wanted to be certain......
@The Ol’ Babaganoush He did not, "Daniel Jackson."
At least she did not reload, that would have been damming.
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A moment of silence for the schools who missed out on their future school counselor; the new-age Einstein.
tahahaha better send time travel us a clone so we can cope
I had a terrifying experience with someone with borderline PD. I missed a phone call and got tens of messages accusing me of cheating, which quickly escalated to more phone calls and threatening voicemail. I ended up moving to a different apartment and changing my number. Dr. Grande’s I thank you for shedding a much needed light on personality disorders and increasing our awareness.
It's scarier when a murderer is a psychology student or work in the mental health field.
Not at all. Most start on that field to understand themselfes. To self diagnose if you wil.
Funny enough, my older cousin told me to avoid all psych majors in college 😂
@@wiluqx Good advice.
People who are often drawn to that field are trying to find out what tf their issues are.
BPD is no excuse. I’ve had it my whole life and two different types of it at different stages. I also have complex PTSD, even as a narcissist teenager, I’ve never been violent or hurt anyone. Even when being assaulted I did not kill anyone. This is not an excuse!
All I can say is SAME
Borderlines are way more violent than Narcissists and kill more often.
1. I don't think understanding why something happened is the same as excusing it.
2. Just because something didn't affect you a certain way, doesn't mean it won't affect someone else that way.
I wish the press and courts would stop throwing around this sort of information. BPD does not explain murder ffs. This is so stigmatizing!
Lots of people smoke and don’t get cancer, lots of people don’t smoke and get cancer. Your point is irrelevant.
Do not mix up excuse and explanation.
"not a message you would see on Valentines candy hearts", LMAO!!! Doc., you're all over the board, love it and thanks for sharing. 👍
This is my new favorite UA-cam channel, its everything good about the internet, educational informative and very entertaining due to Dr Grande great sense of humor.
Thank you Dr Grande ❤️
Dr. Grande is becoming a legend 👍😎. I look forward to these.
Note to self: never play poker with Dr. Grande
Good one!
He would not diagnose the hand, only speculate on what might be happening during like a hand like it.
Yes! Dr. Grande would make the ultimate poker player.
@@star_blazer (Un)fortunately, none of this stuff works in poker. Tells are overrated. That's why all the pros play ranges.
@@The20thHijacker That’s interesting. Thanks for mentioning it.
If she was worried about his looks, maybe she shouldn't have shot him in the face!
Well she said in her interrogation that she have him " the nose job that he always wanted" and laughed. They should throw her in jail and throw away the keys too. She is evil and deserves her sentence.
Actually in the 911 phone call, she says, "He would have preferred to die than be disfigured."
@@mariemoncada6980 I never heard the whole 911 call wow!!! She also claims she shot him once he was down bc he was making weird noises and she couldn’t handle it. So she admits he was still alive when she decided to shoot him several more times. 🤔
But he wanted a nose job so bad.
@@broGabiza q
If a person keeps breaking boundaries then its a good idea to end a relationship even if they are attractive. Man, I could have used that advice with my ex wife.
Simp.
Folks having sexual intercourse with people that they don’t know. And then once they discover who these maniacs are it’s too late for them.
A lesson learned..
Is a PhD earned. 😅😄😅
He told her straight up he wasn't into her
...and this woman wasn't attractive 🤷🏻♀️ He was muuuuuch better looking and could've done better.
Wow... as a clinically licensed therapist, I have a real appreciation for Dr. Grande's knowledge and expertise. I literally binge watched his videos when they were suggested to me on UA-cam. I re-watch certain ones. Whether you are in the field or not, there's a lot to be learned here.
SH was a Psychology Major. She must've missed the class where students learn about how to identify certain personality traits (HER OWN!) through the Acronym, O.C.E.A.N. ... 😒
She went to school to try to get better.
@@henkbarnard1553 she went to school to learn how to manipulate people (very common)
lol to be fair most of those disorders have the symptom of not being able to understand their behavior is odd
@@henkbarnard1553 so many people in psychology programs do go to learn about themselves, many drop out when they discover that its clinical work thats somewhat dry at the entry level.
Every girl I know that majored in psychology did it Bc it was easy. They have no insight.
This vid should have been titled "Hubers Hubris."
It does sound like the good Dr is saying Hubris.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@erichoberg3502 Not to me,now that I know.🤣
"Perhaps the couple was looking for a marriage with less...prison involved." 😆
Your brilliant humor is only rivaled by your mental health knowledge and analysis! Love it!
Dr. Grande is the master. 😅
Well said! Couldn't have been explained better
The plants are moving... Perhaps on their own? :o Top notch content again Dr.Grande! ^^
This comment is a result of elf on the shelf trauma 😆
@@LaceyAnn Haha, i concur! :)
I know of someone that Poston purportedly dated. From my perspective, he was attracted to girls who were category 5. Maybe initially attracted to the excitement but he didn't want long term, serious relationships with them. Sounds like she overcompensated for his attention/affection by doing stuff for him even though he was rejecting her. The girl I know has a history of not accepting rejection too and doing similar things like showing up at a guy's house or where she found out he was on vacation. She, from what I understand, tells people she was dating Poston were dating at the time.
Guys and girls, I think he may have unwittingly strung this crazy one along too long. Probably bc she was willing to do anything for his affection. If you don't want someone, tell them immediately and break it completely off. Don't let it get to Fatal Attraction. And for Christ sake, get your locks changed and a security camera.
I don't think it was because "she was willing to do anything for his affection."
For starters Ryan was a very, very good looking young guy, was on track for success and was kind too. The guy probably had an arena full of women drooling (I'd be in there) and ready and willing to do anything for him. He didn't need this nutcase for that.
He was going on a date with a beauty queen right before he was murdered...she testified in the trial. She was an upgrade... beautiful and looked sane.
That said, he told her straight up he wasn't into her, but she kept forcing herself on him, stalking him and breaking into his place with a copy of his key (which he didn't know she had.)
Him talking to her on occasion was him just trying to be nice and letting her down gently hoping she'd get it. She was pathetic and he felt bad for her. I can understand him as I've, regretfully, done the same in past relationships...being romantic relationships or friendships.
Lastly, the woman you know that claims dated Ryan ...pics or it didn't happen. You say she's"off" too so it's not far fetched that she makes stuff up like this murderer does too.
I've met plenty of women irl that say so and so was her boyfriend when in reality, they just went on one date or had a one night stand. So, it's not ludicrous to hear of crazy women out there claiming a hot guy in a high profile murder case was into them at one point.
I'm quite impressed by the amount of content you put out and still work as a counselour!
“Not exactly messages you would see on a Valentines candy heart”- okay it is NOT too soon for Dr. Grande to make “unstable candy hearts” with those exact messages on them and for all of us to purchase them
I’d buy that
He lost his life so I don't think she should ever get out. Thanks Doc!👍
"She gave him the nose job he wanted" that statement sort of tells me the relationship was really "unstable ". Thanks Dr Grande that was interesting topic . Thank you Dr Grande you are the best!
Yeah, was she in shock dang, probably better not to say that out loud . What was he 9 years older, she was 19. Played the wrong the girl
@@runningthunder6923 l couldn't agree more with you.
Did she shoot him in the face?
@@runningthunder6923 you hit the nail on the head. That’s one of those “really really dark” sarcastic quips that popped up in her head in the interrogation room and instead of maybe smirking at that thought she needed to say it.
12:35 - “Perhaps altruism was not his strong suit.” OMG 😂👍
Dating these days in bigger cities is horrific, with the social media all of these people think they can get someone better and backslide because its easy to reach out with cell phones for a late night snuggle. Its a dangerous game that people play.
It's really disgusting how she is eligible for parole. I bet if she was a scary looking dude, she would get life without parole.
Parole doesn't mean shit if they just keep denying it. There's scarier people than her up for parole and scarier people than her who have already been released from prison.
I wonder if jurys have to be gender balanced.
She died in prison.
@@jennyjen7000 when?
@@jennyjen7000 Not according to the Kentucky D.O.C. website.
The scenario I can’t get over is Ryan not being able to get her to leave, so he just goes to bed (exhausted and utterly frustrated) hoping she’ll just give up and go home, and then he wakes up to find that, not only is she still there, but she’s invited her mother over. He had to have wanted to bang his head against the wall. And then she spends all day looking up heart medication and texting him about her health. Why this man didn’t change his locks, block her number, and call the police every time he saw her, I just do not understand.
Dr. Grande, serious question, why didn’t you go into the forensic psychology field? Maybe a good question for a q&a
Just curious as you seem to be very good at it.
We also what to know about your gun knowledge, Dr. G.
I had a neighbor like this that was obsessed with me. Thankfully I didn't find her attractive and sleep with her but we did exchange numbers at one point. The texts started out normally but in just a few days I would get dozens for every 1 that I sent. If I didn't reply back to her within a few minutes, she'd get angry and send me a string of hatefully messages and go silent for a couple of hours. Then she'd restart with another set of texts like nothing happened. After some time I told her to stop texting me all together cuz no sane person would entertain having even an acquaintance like this. I sent her my last text to leave me alone yet she still sent141 of hers over the next 4 months to which I ignored.
She finally did move out of my building and 6 months later sent a text asking if there were any mail that had still been delivered to her old address. Like a sucker I took the bait and a flurry of messages from her began again. I couldn't stay quite away and told her off in the most stern way I could without setting her off into some kind of rage. Finally that was the last time I heard from her. I still have all the texts saved to my phone in case they find my dead body somewhere.
Hey it's me
@@trentbrownstone1481😮 lol
I love your "lessons learned" conclusions! Always on point and often tongue in cheek funny!
Good to see Private Hudson back on his lower pot stand shelf!...I’m concentrating on the wrong thing again, aren’t I?🤦🏻♀️
Definitely not the only one 😃
Lol
Yes, I was worried yesterday!
I also looked for Private Hudson 😂
Private Hudson from Aliens?
I was looking for a channel that analyses people and cases like these, didn't expect such good sense of humour to be involved. THANKS DR. GRANDE FOR MAKING MY DAY
Oh Dr.G!!!!........ "Perhaps the couple was looking for a marriage with less prison involved." "Sounds like the happy couple may have hit a speed bump." You think??? "Maybe just a bit of narcissism there?'" Just a bit..... I'm choking here on my coffee....You are so priceless. Absolutely priceless.
Thanks Dr. Grande. I was looking forward the analysis of this case, from you.
Dr. Grande,
Once again you, hit it out of the ballpark. Explaining your analysis. I hadn't heard of this case..
Thank You!
In an uncertain world you have to go move the cacti around again, Dr. G. You is playing with us.
I saw a tiktok vid on this story 3 hours ago. I checked to see if Dr. G did a video on it. Nothing. A short time later...there it is. That was weird.
What was the tiktok video?
That IS crazy!!!
Liking and leaving a comment before watching the video. Thanks Dr. Grande!
I just press like when it pops up - because I know I'm going to.
Last time I was this early, Dr. Grande was Dr. Tall
good1
Hilarious 😂
I don't get it . I always get everything. Because I'm smart , I'm so smart like former President Donald J. Trump.
@@maniacalmadness5419 Lol why do people randomly mention Trump so much?
@@worsethanjoerogan8061 idk, why do people randomly mention einstein so much? studies show that sometimes Its Not That Deep
Been waiting for this one!! I've researched this case a lit and I did not know about her relationship with the new love interest. Thanks Doc, great video! 💕
That was a very interesting point when you mentioned why they may have passed over the ptsd diagnosis in favor of the bpd diagnosis and how personality disorders can be viewed in the courts. You've given me something to think about, thanks!
I've dated someone with Borderline personality disorder and she reminded me of Jodi Aries everyday. Lucky I've made out of that relationship alive.
My college roommate had BPD, she was not a murderer but horrible regardless...
Borderline PD doesn’t mean someone is a horrible person. It’s one of the only PD’s where the person has full guilt for their actions and don’t want to be this way. As long as they’re seeing a psychologist and keep up with their therapy, there’s no reason to assume someone with BPD is evil. However, if left untreated they can be abusive just like anyone else with any mental disorder.
@@McSnezzly did I say they were horrible persons? No. I was just pointing out how hard it was to be in a relationship with a person who has BPD. Its rough.
@@melissam597 it can be scary once they are raging about something.
I don’t know your ex, but just because someone has BPD doesn’t mean they are capable of murder. There are many functioning, intelligent people with good hearts and morals that feel a lot of stigma and guilt over their BPD, and this is often buffered with substance use. It’s a hell of a disorder that’s for sure.
Dr. Grande is always so eloquent in the way he explains how someone is "coo coo for coco puffs".
Sad, how delusional she still was in prison, misinterpreting "soul mate" from "cell mate".
Didn't finish watching yet but here to say i noticed the daily upload and i love it so much thank you
When two narcissists meet... Too bad this fun couple couldn't make it work.
Exactly
I agree with you. He did not treat her with respect, but he did not deserve to be killed
beautiful isnt it
@@nowirehangers2815 No, I just do not agree with the overwhelming sentiment. This society is, "if you don't agree then you are wrong".
As I was listening to your analysis and understood that those with BPD feel that they would cease to exist if a relationship were to be lost and that their fighting to keep a relationship is a fight for their life, I had a better understanding of her motive. Although it doesn't excuse or justify her actions, it does explain why she acted in an impulsive manner and commited this heinous crime shortly after learning Ryan was pursuing a relationship with someone else and that their relationship had come to an end. Another tragic and senseless crime. As always, thank you for another analysis that was not only educational but a cautionary tale!
Congrats on your million subscribers Dr. Grande❗I've been here since one thousand. You are our virtual sofa!
Dr. Grande, have you looked at Jeremy DeWitte? He is a long time police impersonator who occasionally dips into stolen valor. He's completely sincere and insists he's been unfairly treated every time he is arrested. His wife goes along with the whole thing.
I would love to see that!
Sounds boring, just a Wannabe claiming to be something theyre not. Has zero place here.
Jeremy dewitte is certainly not boring. I highly reccomend going down the dewitte rabbit hole it is very interesting
Your lessons at the end are why I'm here doc
As always I found your analyzes interesting, thank you for posting it!
Keep em coming, Doc!
Man, teach your kids to be good judges of character. That's all I have to say. So many young people begin relationships with unstable / dangerous partners.
Or teach them don't use people or play games. Most people come wrapped in a neat package, you don't find out till later on....
This wasn't a relationship. She was a sex object to him. Millions of women fall for the modern scam: "keep having sex with me, and eventually I will fall in love with you."
These aren't relationships.
@@secretlifeofa1926 that is semantics. The relationship you described IS a relationship, a dysfunctional one.
I wonder how many people *think* they're having a relationship with a person, but the other person thinks they're not. Probably a lot.
Jodi Arias also creates relationships in prison just to get rid of them when it's most convenient for her. Both sound like skilled manipulators, I wouldn't want to be stuck in a room with one of them
Jodie would be ok without weapons
@@dougrogan379 Wait until TheBrillyx looks up the Sante Kimes case! :D
@@MateDrinker33 who is the Brillyx??
I really admired your advice on this. Men (& women at times) too often are physically attracted to a narcissist but then realize how dangerous they are often too late. Sex is a small part of a truly healthy relationship & young people don't realize that. Thanks always Dr G💌
Can’t believe I haven’t said this before now but LOVE your fancy new set up Dr Grande! 😊
Definitely thinking about becoming one of your patrons, not many you tubers like you out there armed with peer review evidence and actual facts (and yes, once again am going to mention that I’m not ashamed of bursting out laughing at The Sass in public, at work, or visiting my parents....)
On the topic of this one though - god, Hubers is just all sorts of melodrama. Too bad she thrown in prison before she could realise her talent for Pantomime.
Fascinating. Thank you for all this information. I have just found this channel...and I love your clear, concise observations and sharing of your expertise (and humour).
From what I have read/watched about this case/trial is her mother's absolute refusal to believe her daughter commited this crime or that any of her subsequent behaviour was anything other than concerning/questionable. Her daughter's behaviour in court is there for all to see. Other than the fact she's on trial for murder, anyone else exhibiting this behaviour+her beliefs would elect deep concern, it's deeply troubling and actually painful to watch, how has she formed this opinion of herself?
Do you believe that the relationship with her mother may have led to the development of some of her personality disorders.
The mother indulging her behaviour, the mother idolising and idealising her daughter, the mother enabling the daughter to behave in the past without repercussion or consequence.
Be really interested in your thoughts on this please.
Best advice ever!
Dang Dr Todd you really know your guns! That always impresses me n meant to say so b4. Thanks for your work.😊😊
Wow. He knew she was nuts, but hey it's nice to have somewhere around to do he laundry, I guess. This couple was a real mess.
Thank you Dr. Grande. Your knowledge is incredible.
Your humor is pure platinum, it's beyond gold at this point. Extra points for never having to disrespect or disregard anyone's feelings just to accomplish it
Bam! You hit on a giant problem I think we need more education on. Physical attraction but otherwise not a lot of liking or compatibility. I wish junior/senior high schools would have health classes on this. Physical attraction is so powerful, but can lead to so much pain, if other factors are absent. Loved your smart thoughts on weapons and volatile relationships. Great point. 🙏
Just choke laughed on my cereal at the candy hearts imagery. I would definitely buy those.
I absolutely love your analogies Dr. Grande.
Yessssss! I've been waiting for this one for a while! 👍👍👍
Hey doc, I like the new setup!
I remember watching the Dateline episode of this case! Totally insane!
Supergreat that the intro was removed. It was so loud. This is perfect.
The LIGHTING, Dr. Grande! Fabuloso. I knew you and your team would adjust it until we could savor your salty expressions. Bravo! Love ya, mean it!
Please take good care of yourself Dr. Grande. We need your service and insight for many years to come 😍
Really love these videos.
Thanks for reviewing this case. I didn't realize she was tried again. Good update and analysis as always.
I was literally just watching a true crime video on this case a few weeks ago and found myself wondering. . . what would Dr Grande say about this case??😂Crazy! Get out of my head! Lol. Thank you for your astute and hilarious analysis!❤
"If somebody is continuously violating boundaries in a relationship, one seriously needs to consider ending the relationship"
Or, as it is colloquially known, "Don't stick it in crazy".
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Good morning Dr Grande. Great analysis. If you don't mind,green definitely suits you. Thank you Dr Grande have a great day!
Thank You for always clarifying so we'll!
The informative insight and dry humour make your videos addictive Dr. Grande! I would love to see a video about Dr. death (Christopher Duntsch)
I was just thinking about that freak man. Guys scary as all fuk
That is a bad ass shirt your sporting today Doc.!!
40 years in prison. How 'bout that, Einstein.
Dr. Grande , dropping in those jokes! Love it!
Digging the new "set" design! Level up!
I've no idea how you do research and formulate your dialog and still release a video almost everyday. Unbelievable productivity. Do you still work in a clinic with clients? Love your channel BTW.
Those plants would look amazing in ceramic pots!
Hi Dr Grande! I don't know if you will ever see this but I think a comprensive overview of Chris Cornell would be fascinating. Thanks for the great content!
The connection bt their lives ending!’
Thank you for this video another great job Dr. Grande.
Excellent analysis!Thank you Dr.Grande ♡
Must be awful to be physically attractive... It's funny how the auto-generated closed-captions keep saying "hubris" when Dr. Grande says "Hubers" - which is delicious in its irony.
I also feel bad that I fancy the pants off Jody Arias. That's just wrong!
I don't play the closed captioning, but that it so interesting to know. After watching a video of this case a couple days ago, I was thinking her name should be Shayna Hubris. :-))
Listening to Dr. Grande makes me smarter. (Or at least helps me preserve the brain cells I have since I spend all my workdays in a place devoid of intelligence).
Hi Dr. Grande!! 👍🏻🥰 just about to watch.
Thank you for your videos. They are very informative.
BPD is discussed a lot. Could you talk about people maturing out of a lot of the criteria?