The Guy You Never Want To Be
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My ex put me in that alpha category. And over time i degraded myself into a beta. She gave me hundreds of chances. Now she's gone, and I'm a full beta to her now. Zero respect. So as men we all have to stay on our purpose. Being alpha is like a muscle. Needs constant attention in order to grow and stay that way
Same shit happened to me. She was a narcissist though and I never had a chance because I was completely blind to what was happening.
@@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT how’d u find out she was narcissistic?
@@leemofchrist she made a passing comment about her being called a narcissist by someone but she decided herself that she wasn’t. I starting looking into it and low and behold she fit the disorder to a T. I still am blown away that I didn’t pick up on it before but I just never had exposure to anyone quite like her before.
Same here
Same. Trynna flip it. Living my life but still trynna flip it back
This is the most honest video I ever seen on this topic.
As someone who's experienced both categories, I can definitely confirm that "Beta bucks" pity sex is the absolute worst... Sex is really only enjoyable if the woman is super into it. If she's just gonna lay on her back like a starfish and do nothing, then it's honestly better to just hop off to the bathroom and rub one out.. Do not waste your sexual energy on a woman who's not really feeling you.
Its like u talking exactly about my last situation. She could tell I had no experience with other women in the past so she gave it to me out of pity🤦🏾♂️
I agree, it's either a "Hell yes!" or not at all.
A lot of coochies smell anyway
Yep, best to live on your purpose and allow things to shape up. Nothing can replace grinding until you have a solid foundation and allowing oneself to enjoy the fruit of our labor...
The problem is, some broads are just bad at sex. They can’t move right and are lazy. And I experienced this with women who were super into me. So it’s not just the ones who are moderately interested giving a mediocre performance.
Well put advice LFA. Too many guys invested in the wrong type of women without her even earning it. 💯
This is true.
true and this happens because of her beauty and attraction so the victim tries hard wooing without knowing the consequences
@@AshTheDuke Exactly 💯
@@higherthinking4143 Appreciate it.
@Ricky Gilbert 👍
Never spend a dime on a woman unless she's already giving you mouth hugs on a regular basis...bare minimum
i agree
Your world is smaller than most! Seriously have a look at this
Oh God the flashbacks. You're on point, LFA.
Man i had a couple of breakups this year and ive watched all your vids and only now do i understand it all.
Thanks for everything , respect brother🤜🏻
LFA spoke from his heart and this video is Gold!
Boy, do I need your videos right now cause I just got broken up with by my ex girlfriend and made to feel like I did everything wrong and did nothing right
They all do that
Your the reason the sky isnt baby blue, the grass isnt greener, and inflation is happening, having ass type people smdh(I feel you bro). But it's like Zig Ziglar said, when they point fingers at us, they have just as much(if not more)pointing back at them. Try it! Point right now....what are the other three fingers doing? Precisely
First time huh? News flash, all women do this when they break up with you.
The best thing you can do now is to cut her off FOREVER. Stop all communication with her FOREVER. Forget she ever existed and start a new relationship doing none of the beta things you’ve done in previous relationships. Don’t even respond if she contacts you first. We as guys should never take girls that left us serious again.
Learn and grow.
It is always an incredible day when you upload. Helps to keep me on the right track. Thanks bro.
LFA really speaks well and clear
LFA haha I was just commenting on your Powerhouse channel when you dropped this. Speaking of men being used I saw a video by Better Bachelor earlier today about how men are paying women for the chance to have a date, even before the date. And they’re also charging men a d-bag tax for bad dates. That’s Insane! What have we become
insane!!!!!!!!!!!
Yup…
I would almost just screw with people and send them a penny with a caption "attached get a job"
Truly awful
Yea but it’s always been like this. We cannot change this. We as men should be able to treat a woman with comfort and abundance. It’s our masculine role. Of course, the trick is to play your masculine role only with feminine woman that are actually trying to make you feel like you are her man. If she doesn’t make you feel manly, and charming handsome etc., then you’re not dating the right woman. But a man should not behave like a woman on a date and expect her to pay the check and expect her to call the shots. That’s a man’s job. Just need to pick the right women.
The difference between a alpha male and a beta male is one thing and one thing only .... an alpha male Vets a woman to see if she’s worthy, a beta male doesn’t, he’s just happy to hopefully get some
There’s a bigger picture behind that Tye. The Alpha is coming from a place of choice and the Beta coming from a place of scarcity. That means he has some degree of desperation in him and women can smell desperation , even a hint of it a mile away . Desperation is the biggest turn off for women there is
Bro , your the best content creator on UA-cam , this message is everything , and it's a hard truth , that said it's true. Thanks for the tough love to all the men out there 👊 🔥
True, lots of touching, hugging, arm hugging etc shows they like you, but that's also what some women do when they're playing you; make it look like they're interested
Holy shite, just binge watching ur channel! I can feel the relevance strongly but my minds freaking out of questions.
Grown man knowledge right here. Excellent content bro.
I don’t care how big of a stud you think you are, she will eventually put you in the beta zone once she knows she’s got you.
9:08 Most women under 30 in this day and age do NOT want a relationship at all in my experience. "Girls just wanna have fun" counts very hard for that group.
They say they don’t but when they find a guy they want all to themselves they do.
This! Even though most modern day women are pretty awful and useless. I will say agree with LFA on this. Chicks will put on a good front in the beginning, but if you check off enough of boxes she will compete to claim you and do whatever it takes to win you over.
I will say, most guys don't measure up to an average chicks standards. Let alone a pretty one. This is where I could see most men thinking chicks are just ran through these days.
@@LFA they all date with a purpose. Woman always have a plan. Even if it’s for casual sex, they still will pick a guy that would potentially be a boyfriend. It doesn’t mean that they want a boyfriend but, as opposed to men, they wouldn’t have sex with someone they wouldn’t have a relationship with. Men would have sex with sluts and hookers, but woman wouldn’t do that. Women get turned on by men who they see superior to the regular average Joe.
@@LFA Good point brother
Great video I only tricker treat on Halloween 🎃👻🎃
Never ever deal with any disrespectful girls , no man . Never ! Very very very solid and stoic Turkish mafia street style here ! Germany Italy and Bosnian language ! I love you I love fun girls ! Just think about it goes positive ! Which type guy I want to be 🤝 😂😂😂
I’ve had a few single moms pursuing lately. I automatically think they view me as beta and I don’t entertain them. Alpha seed, beta need.
Keep away from the worthless single mom. The absolute dregs of the dating world
Typical LFA W
This is LFA videos I miss. It all comes down to wether she has genuine sexual desire for you or not. This can be achieved in a few ways. Look handsome, smell good, hold masculine frame during sh*t tests, build an athletic/muscular body, be a leader of men, remain stoic when everyone else is panicking etc... I didn't mention money, because it rarely ever garners genuine sexual attraction. It mainly gets you Gold digger or chicks willing have transactional sex with you and nothing more than that.
Yup
Just remember, sexual desire in a woman can fade so quickly if you don’t hold your ground. That’s why you should earn it by being a king and not a beggar.
What is a "shit test?"
To the men whose lady won't even let him touch her when she's pregnant or uses her time of the month as an excuse to be a monster: I've got bad news for you.
Basically you're saying she's not into him? Or are you referring to something else?
Now that I'm sober off weed I have no interest in sex. Suddenly wasting time, energy and money on the opposite sex lost its appeal🤣
What's the bad news? She's not interested or is losing interest?
She's not interested/she's not a good person, and she's going to give you hell.
@@stepbacklame6176 the true appeal of a woman is her ability to bear and raise your children in your likeness and with your values. If you don't want a family, there's not much of point in having a woman.
I wish I would’ve had these vids when I was in my teens and early 20s
LFA - The realest youtuber there ever was!
I think that as a man you should always work of yourself and have a sense of pride, confidence that is what makes things with women easier. You should always know where to categorize some women, show your interest but don't let em use you and give you false hope. Everything comes with experience and as a man pain is unaivodable.
Dude you Rock keep spreading the good word
This makes the room spin around. I'm alpha f*cked. Flashbacks from every date I've ever been on are coming back to me. I should have just married the chick who had a crush on me in high school and just been done with it.
100 percent totally agree with all what you said.
important one🔥 would suggest to add these beats through out the video on low & fire up in the outro, would be dope✌🏻
LFA,
Thanks for the cold hard truth. Its good to know. Good thing i dont do dates.
This is a good segment Brother!! 🍻💫
I have to do a review of this video on my channel. Good work
My big brother LFA
I have to leave when I sense weird vibes , just leave
*the bigger brother I NEVER had*
great video
Thanks for sharing wisdom
What an eye opener
Keep up the good work bro 👏👏
Thank you brother.
Semen retention broo !!! What we want to hear!!
I already covered that topic back in June--July
hello today there's another writing, I'm a Brazilian adept of the blair many men to follow their own path!
You give good helpful advice.
Used to watch your videos back in the day, just stumbled across them again. Great fucking video
Feels good to not get used. I have no issues dealing with them.
Awesome Video as always man
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Yes Amazing videos and you look Amazing I love the outfit !!! 🤗🩷😘😘 @LFA
hi big bro . really love content basically this content help me in my business in term of dating psychology .
Bro this is how daughters be properly rised up , cheers 🍵
Strong father figure properly vet his daughter
Fatherless houses are devils playground. I seen it and it can't be unseen
My friend sends money over to real women on the Philippines and plans to visit there in a few months. He already visited once to see a girl he met on there, and she just turned him off. So basically wasted a trip and he came back to America. Now he’s been sending another woman money and she’s been chatting with him for 8 months. He thinks she’s genuine… And he’s tempted to also go see her. What’s the chance he’s being scammed? They are verified through live video. But the women seem to be single mothers and they keep sending him photos of themselves trying to entice him. This week she came on strong and to him and keeps calling him when he doesn’t answer. Anyone have any insights or experiences on this?
Bro , communication skills lol , that's no joke 🤣
you are the best. well said!
Protect my contained energy bro , protect my royal seeds as a grow man
They do not love you. By age 25 they are broken and used up. I keep things sweet and simple. No one over 25. And remember, a 304 is a 304. She ain't your girl!!!
That's pretty accurate. Of course you have exceptions, but that doesn't make it the rule. This is pretty much why I checked out the dating market. As a good looking dude, with a weak career. Is mainly single mothers and chicks looking to cheat for a cheap thrill. What's the point? I had my fun, and I can't see myself finding anyone worth investing in at this point in my life.
Nope she's the town bicycle.
Ive been on a rollercoaster ride bouncing from alpha beta and back in forth depending on whats going on.
Bro I don't allow any disrespectful girls get even closer with me
Great video 👍
I like you also empathize with good women being used too. This fucked up dating game is hurting lots of people.who do want a relationship and nuat just soft prostitution.
Very very deep voice tone and I got it
Thanks bro
Bro a high standard man never allow any disrespect from low standard women , never 🤝
That was a point blank witch in front of me bro !
Interesting I’m stuck on one right now, n I’ve took her gifts 🎁 light stuff..I wanted her # n to take her out but she got at me on ig n we communicate there..also she goes to school with me, I’m grown but I’m a music major, went back..so anyway I feel a strong pull n connection but she hasn’t made herself available to me..I ask her what’s up n she says she so focused n busy, which is true cuz I am too but every time we interact, we have a strong vibe ..she wanna give me a hug or act shy or nervous..so anyway, I don’t took her off the gram before n let her go, she sees me n is like hey stranger ..then she wanted to chill n smoke but canceled n anyway I blocked her ass..I’ve been upset about it n heart broke but realize that’s best thing, so I’m a see how she acts when she sees me..my point is I feel so alpha n she knows but being sweet on her all I can think of is who is fuckin her..lot of details but I know she respect my walk away game, she light weight chase me when I leave her ass alone but a lot of this is spending time to myself to work on things n gettin out of rythym, You gotta be fuckin quick as you can or else you just goin out like a sucka
Bro you did absolutely right
@SilverEaselArtist yes I feel you, it’s tough..I know I have game, in a charmer but I had a mean ass mama who put a lot of bad ideas in my mind..always out, on my b day, even on the blade..n this is somethin that gets me down a lot..I feel there are so many women I missed out on because of these limiting beliefs but gotta keep workin on it..I know how it feels though n that has gave me compassion n wisdom
Properly vetted girls are right girls for me bro !
That's why they all in clubs , and that's why I don't waste any money in clubs , I get in get out as a wind
What about long distance relationship? We used to talk a lot and she would run home fast so she could talk with me. But now she makes excuses like she busy and talking less and less. First during week too busy so only on weekends. Later even stopped on weekends and end up not talking for weeks. Pretty much semi ghosted? She used to be so upset then I wouldn't give attention for one day and so on... Now I don't get even two minutes. So was I viewed as alpha and now as beta by your logic?
Someone more alpha plugging her already
I been there before. So I got good news, and some bad news for you. The good news? Yes, she viewed as an Alpha male who she was really into. Bad news? Her feelings changed and longer feels the same. There certainly could be another dude, but it can be something little you said that spooked her.
When it comes to women, they're very unpredictable and rarely follow a pattern. My advice? Move on. She may come back at some point, don't entertain her. Things will never be the same between you 2 again.
They think who I am ? The son of gods ! I avoid certain people as plagues
This is good stuff!
I am currently meeting a chick and she is constantly checking in to ensure I am not out there.
Good place to be
give her the only mouth and back treatment
That is fantastic" I've heard of Beta-Need Alpha-Seed.....................but not Alpha - Fucks Beta - Bucks !! BRILLIANT !!! Peace n love from UK!
Strong physic talks bro
What you will bring to my very clean fresh and organized apartment , don't bring any cleaner energies to my house
I feel very strong resistance towards lazy girls . I don't take them seriously bro I take myself seriously
I keep you real to sign you somewhere ✒️📝🔏🔒🏚️
I will do it don't worry
I get in get out very quick and I am happy
Love your channel Brother. You are balanced and hit things in a fair and cool way. I gotta say, and this isn't a strong disagree or anything like that, but, absolutely a woman can pay for some dates, and it's perfectly appropriate. A cool woman will enjoy grabbing the tab at times.
Based on my looks based on my physic based on my finance based on my everything ! Get away from me !
I have to vet girls properly since the day one
I used to be extremely jealous of those boys who are the only boy in the group of girls his in the brothers zone lol don’t be that guy…
" tougher than the rest " by Bruce Springsteen
I don't buck nobody , I buck myself
I seen it and it can't be unseen , lots of girls are just below my attitude
I don't want to be you, for sure 😆
Over half of all marriages end in divorce
Let these girls take their low class families advantages , haha
I am a very strong solid connected individual who above other men so you have to be happy to please me girls
Ride you for 5 minutes? Shiiit, lucky if you get a minute(unless time just flew by that for me lol. Idk)
Based on my everything especially zero money
' good for me " by Bob seger
More walk more better looking energy I got
" put another log on the fire " by Tom Paul glacier
Im 45 single no kids, and learning a lot with lfa
That’s so fuckin crazy 😂 what have you been playing with legos for 45 years?
@@nictibbetts bitc_es throw me ocasional bullyng, but when i leave here, i'll do wtf i want hahaha
Transaction 💰🏢🤝
I still don't get why I should consider what woman goes over for a date. She still gets what she wants from a date anyway.
Not always. Half the time men get what they want and the woman doesn’t.
Пять минуты секс , это не шучу , не шучу бро 🤣🤣🤣
Good valid points love your vids bro. I have a question what if a man doesn't mind spending money on a woman for some consistent sex even if they know it's not her best but he happy with that and also he doesn't care if she wants to be with him genuinely or respects him? Is that healthy for a man to do that til he finds a woman that will respect him and be with him?
yes. if she's fucking you, that's all you need to know. its ok if she's fucking you.
If you have to ask my boy...
I am at neutral category
She convinced to get the cash up ,and my mistake was a give money I took her dates even took her shopping at tj max ,good thing she’s a Bronx hoodbooger and didn’t have expensive taste ,it was Applebees ,henesy and weed for her
I don't spend a dime on any poisons for example wine
What do the letters LFA stand for?