I always thought when a man was in love with you he sent flowers, sent candy, bought you expensive gifts and took you on exotic vacations. I have been married for 54 years (I was 19 and he was 21). My husband did none of these. What he did do was respect me, took care of me during two bouts of breast cancer and bladder cancer, does laundry, pays bills, when we brought our newborn home from the hospital, he let me sleep and got up with the baby every night and fed and rocked him. He had a full time job but did all this because he loved me and our baby. He is my Rock. I thank God everyday for him. Three years ago he had Quadruple bypass surgery. He also suffered two mini strokes but by the grace of God, he survived both and is doing very well. I am so very blessed.
Your kind words give others hope and faith that good human (specially Man) exists in this world. And I’m glad that you have one of them. May Almighty bless you both with good health and prosperity.
I still watch it even though I know he absolutely loves me. So many men told me they love me but only he proves me his love every single day. So I watch it and remind myself he's very special
I like what you said. I am someone who will be alone forever .... not loved by anyone. My family physically disabled me in childhood and now I'm crippled forever. I will never experience being loved by a man and will never experience being married to a man. I can't have children either because of the damage to my spine. So, if you have a good loving man be grateful that you have him.
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
1. He devotes time to you & invests effort into the relationship often. Priorities 2. He protects you, would give his life for you 3. Not manipulative, will listen to your feelings. Accepts you the way you are 4. He tells you he loves you
You just described my dog. LOL 1) when I'm upset he takes me to my favourite place. 2) Chases away mad dogs and pulls me up to walk on the pavement. 3) He listens to my whining without interrupting. 4) He looks at me like I'm the only one.
I lived in a town house with my ex-boyfriend and one day out of the blue someone kicked in our front door. My boyfriend jumped behind me and literally used me as a human shield. In that moment I knew that he was not the one.
I wish I cn find a guy like my dad. He really loved my mom. On his sick bed before taking his last breath, he once again reminded my sister and I to take care of our mom when he is gone.
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
@@brianhardwick4673 umm I don’t think doing that is right...if you really love her then you would trust her. I know it must feel horrible thinking that she would do something but I mean still
One thing I always hold on to, that my mom taught me. "A man who loves you will say I LOVE YOU with so much conviction, that it would be like its the first time you hear him say those words to you. Even after 20 years of marriage"
jane chungu Most likely communication, respect, honesty, compromise and loving each other how they truly are. Relationships have problems and take work but both people need to make that happen. Unfortunately a lot of relationships out here are one-sided with too many selfish people in them. People say they fall out of love but I wonder if it was really the person that they love or did they love what the person does for them. In my opinion real love never dies and this woman and her husband are proof of that. Congratulations to her and her husband☺
I remember while dating my now husband, how we figured out we loved each other beyond like or infatuation. We told each other everything after we became close. The worst regrets, the family hurts, why we struggle with certain things… we shared it all. We agreed that if we even do wrong in a big way someday the love won’t change. We won’t keep mistakes secret; and we’ll encourage each other to grow to become better TOGETHER ☀️ If honesty and the safe space to talk about everything with that person doesn’t exist in the relationship. Move on!! If they can’t accept your worst, your past, the journey to become who you presently are… then they do not deserve you.
At least how many months in a relationship... I. Confused really, in my current situation it's been 6months but says he feels like he hasn't achieved much in his life thus he hasn't invited me to his place
This is the moment i have realized i have never been loved by someone. (Update: Now, I am in relationship for 2 years. All these signs are true and he is doing all of these. Love will come and find you. If you love yourself, discover yourself, love will come to you naturally. Just believe in yourself and life flow❤ )
I found someone who passed all of these signs! He is even coming to see me after my surgery and offered to be there to take of me!!! Its real just believe! It can happen!
@LOVE♏️♌️ I TOTALLY DISAGREE I HAVE A VERY LOVING PARTNER I JUST HAD EYE SURGERY YESTERDAY AND MY HUSBAND IS VERY NURTURING TAKING CARE OF MY EVERY NEED CLEANING MY EYE 👁 AND PUTTING THE MEDICINE IN.. HES MADE SURE IM TAKEN CARE OF BEFORE WORK IN THE MIDDLE OF WORK AND THEN HE TAKES OVER NEVER LEAVING ME ALONE... HES VERY SUPPORTIVE DEVOTED AND DEDICATED TO BEING MY PARTNER💍🔐 I LOVE YOU MARTIN I APPRECIATE EVERYTHING THAT YOU DO FOR ME MY LOVE🐻🐸🐣🐒💫🌈
I always have said that actions speak louder than words. My ex gave me all the words I wanted to hear but the actions loudly said hate, disrespect, manipulation. And I am showing by my actions that he is history.
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
My ex narcissist did all of these signs in the love bomb stage. By the time the devalue and discard came around, I was paralyzed by cognitive dissonance. I really thought he loved me and that I was the only one. My point is, be careful, always.
I grew up in a dysfunctional and broken home and never believed that a man could/would put me before himself. I was so blessed to find the man that would gladly put me first over 6 years ago. I know he loves me for me, regardless of how I look or act at times. He's been proud of me when I looked like a fat troll carrying our two children, when I dealt with postpartum psychosis, and all the times I couldn't see my own worth. Two kids, multiple family deaths, a lost job, illness, and 6 years later we are more in love than ever. There is someone out there for everyone, and that initial wave of love won't decrease over time or during challenging times, but instead it will become stronger.
You guys truly are blessed! Never in my 21 years of living have I even seen my parents even hold hands. Sometimes I wonder why they even are still married. :/
My hubby does all of this. When our daughter was born,hole in lung, in NICU,after emergency Csection, after I got home,was in bed with him,he was so upset our newborn daughter was alone at the hospital, he asked me if I minded that he got up and went to the hospital to visit her. (parents could visit anytime). He went to be with her. Melts my heart thinking about it even though it was 18 years ago now.
I was married to my husband for 18 whole years and he always pit me and our 4 children first in everything he did. Totally spoilt me. He died 6 months ago and our lives turned upside down. For the first time in almost 2 decades, I am suddenly talking to the plumber, the carpenter, the mechanic and other repair men. He did everything for us and more.
The same mine! My husband died this New Years day! Very sorrow and painful!😢 he was the best husband and father! He was a great God fearing man..We had a healthy and happy family! He spoiled me also..😢
I have been with my husband for 52 years and he just passed away and he was the love of my life and he lived me the same we were "TWO HEARTS BEATING AS ONE"
I am a man and I do have to admit what he's saying is 100% true. We don't act to protect our lady but it strikes in our head immediately when she's in danger as a mother does to her baby. And the last point is 200% correct. Our body wants to shut down.
Brian. The only thing I wanna say here is that you're love. The way you say all things, and gently teach and the energy you put in and that one handsome smile. Too refreshing to see honestly
I'm so glad that my boyfriend is really like that 😭❤️ and I love him so much. Even with my panic attacks he goes straight to the bed and hold me and tells me how much he loves me until I felt better. We are so connected since we met. Now in distance we are more in love every day. ❤️ I'm so happy with him.
My husband is was extremely nervous of me when I use to work for a hotel at night. He would always remind me to take my gun with me to work. Thankfully, nothing ever happened...other than some rude ass customers. And when men staying there hit on me, I always stayed professional so they never got too friendly. Had a few that asked to take me out to dinner but I was quick to tell them I'm married and showed them my ring finger. I'm lucky to have my husband. Always texting me to make sure I'm ok. If he gets worried whenever I don't text back, he calls.❤😘
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
@@samanthacatcher7838 well I think feeling insecure is just human nature...I need to be showered with love on a daily else I’ll think the connection is no longer there ,but at least I’m more at ease knowing her location always and getting to see her conversations on social media. All thanks to 7hackman on Instagram
Happy to say my husband does all of the four actions discussed and more to let me know how much I am loved. My husband does not just show/tell me once in a while, he makes sure to let me know every day throughout the day. I am truly blessed.
Nope! It's because men like that don't attract women nowadays, some women goes further saying "he's too nice". Well it's the world we live in today. Good things are less valuable while bad things are more valuable
@@fabkings7612 I don't see that at all especially here in Colorado guys just want sex and if you don't give it up then the guy will find the next female that will.....then get this When that female gives them AIDS or HIV then they say all women are hoes or all women are bad. It's really messed up. Good women like me are overlooked just because we are not hoes or wanting to have sex with random guys.
I am blessed. I've been Married for the second time to a Man who worships the ground I walk on. We've been Married since January of 1989. We both Love God and He is in the middle of our relationship which makes both of us stonger and if the emotions are slipping I know I can ask of God and He always pours more love for him into my soul and into His.
My boyfriend is that man...and I think the reason people fail to find that man is because they spend too much time looking for superficial things like good looks and money...but I am so happy that I was able to get over this and finally found a real man. At 25 years I had my first boyfriend and I am so proud of him
My ex used to read me a book until i fell asleep. He sang songs to me and wrote songs for me. We always said i love you at least 2 a day. He would hug me super tight and kiss my forehead when i would cry. He was amazing until he slowly stopped doing all of that. He left me 2 days before vday. I miss the way we used to be.
You are pretty...search for the only true love for all eternity....JESUS CHRIST .... if you know him you'll know what true love is.. and HE never leaves us
Your video made me cry tears of joy! I'm gonna text my husband at work right now and just say thank you and I appreciate him very much, and I can't help but tell him I love him so very much! You just described my husband!
Mines to, when I was really sick he saw me at my worst, made me hot water bottles, cooked for me, cleaned up my vomit, played my favorite music, massaged me, told me I was beautiful. He said he would wait for me if I die and we can be together again in paradise. I'm selfish I fully expect him to keep his promise, I don't want to live without him, he is my forever soul mate. Thank you to my God for my greatest blessing and your Son Christ Jesus for making it all possible, to love my husband forever. I can't wait to live the real life in paradise and have more babies that look exactly like him.
@@happyhiker965 oh please. Comments like yours bother me. I watched my mother wither away to half a person when the love of her life - my father - passed away. Be strong in yourself as one day you too could be heartbroken.
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
Sometimes adoration can be lethal. Always be wary of patterns of behavior. Narcissists do the very worst they can possibly do to a person, and sometimes, it simply is Not safe to forgive that individual face to face. Personal safety must always be kept in mind. Narcissists don't find twin flames or soul mates - they simply move onto the next individual whose energy they want to devour. Belittling a another person's experience doesn't shine the light on you at all ... for those of us who have experienced that atrocity in our lives, negative comments by others prove as a warning sign. Brian Nox, you do provide some great information, and what you have said is treasured. Thank you - it reminds us there are still very good people out there - we simply need to pay closer attention :)
I am female and I don't wish to be 'adored' by anyone. Simple compatibility and friendship are more important. But we live in a throw-away world where a replacement is a click away on Tinder. Everyone has too many options which makes people more discontent than they realize.
That's why I took myself off of Facebook and other forms of social media. I only want a guy I can meet in real life and have a genuine connection with.
I was married to my love partner for just shy of 34 years. I NEVER doubted that he loved me. This video had totally illuminated that. I will never settle for less if someone else can bless my life with that kind of unselfish love. Thank you for reaffirming my joyful marriage. I miss that security of knowing he always had my back.
yeah you're right!!! find a man who loves you...just what i did... I don't waste time with people I like most but for me, I focus on people who loves me most...
Hey, what u r saying is actually a contradiction because if you are with someone who loves you, and you may not be in that much love with him, what about him then? Is he not with someone he loves but who actually does not like him the way he does? Is this not being selfish? In the same way, you can be with someone you love, but who may not feel that much love for you....relationships are complicated.
Fontbuena Fleurdeliz I learnt that after 3 heartbreaks and I'm glad I learnt it . Even princess Diana taught her kids to never let go if someone truly loves you . Hold on to that person.
Thank you so much for all the valuable content and information. Your channel is very inspiring and helpful. Relationships now can be a bit of a pickle it’s amazing to have people out here giving out tips to help us young women
Great video, as usual. I own a few of your books too. Awesome advice. I'm dating a man who does these. #2 example. We were holding hands, walking to the parking lot of a large mall. We stepped from the sidewalk, and he squeezed and pulled my hand toward him as a protective gesture. It was subtle. I told him I appreciated this gesture. He didn't even realize he'd done it. One thing he said is he really likes that I tell him I appreciate what he does for me.
Chad Massey not necessarily. It depends. Sometimes you quit seeing each other or not. If there is still some value to it like you get along together very well (which woild be kinda strange if you got divorced) then yes. If not then not. I have ppl whom i dont wanna see anymore. Its hard to do it at first but it is always better if you know that in the long term you dont want to have to do anything with that person anymore. Though in my case those were school friends and such. You live and you learn and i like my new surroundings a lot better ;)
I found my soul mate thank the Lord!!! HE loves me protected me several times he does the best he can to be with me and he does everything for me he listens to me when I need help or if I'm happy I love him so much Thank you Lord so much for him
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
I have been blessed as to finding two men in my life time. I lost my first one a, service man, to cancer. I have been blessed to find another gentleman, again a former service man. This one is all the above mentioned. We are like a mirror to each other. It is such a glorious feeling. We are both loved so deeply and pasionately. I can not wait to see what the future holds for us. I LOVE YOU DARRIN S. E.
I always thought that way, too, until I met an old man that still glowed every single time she came in the room after 65 years of wedded bliss. Or he would shut the TV off immediately whenever she was trying to talk to him. He totally adored her. After several bad relationships in my life, I now compare every man to him. If they don't measure up to him, I say bye bye.
Many cases yes but there are guys out there that keeps this! Been married 5 years soon 6 and he does all of these E V E R Y day! I get to choose tv programs because it really doesn't matter much to him as long as he gets to see me happy. He cares for me and protects me first and foremost above every single thing in our lives and we have 100 animals depending on us and our responsibility. I come first, always. When I tell a problem he knows I can probably solve it on my own but he does lay out input that I can use if I wish to. Lastly, we have never spent a night apart and have never argued and that's because we respect each others space and when we communicate we lay out ideas and perspective and find common ground and go for that plan. In disagreements we agree to disagree and drop it because no issue is heavy enough to be worth losing a day's happiness of loving eachother and enjoying each others company. They say love is blind and it's quite true. We both have flaws of course but because of love they don't bother us, they are so small that they don't count and some quirks even feels kinda adorable. :) He strives to keep me safe and happy, I strive to keep the household together when he is away and it just works!
I always thought when a man was in love with you he sent flowers, sent candy, bought you expensive gifts and took you on exotic vacations. I have been married for 54 years (I was 19 and he was 21). My husband did none of these. What he did do was respect me, took care of me during two bouts of breast cancer and bladder cancer, does laundry, pays bills, when we brought our newborn home from the hospital, he let me sleep and got up with the baby every night and fed and rocked him. He had a full time job but did all this because he loved me and our baby. He is my Rock. I thank God everyday for him. Three years ago he had Quadruple bypass surgery. He also suffered two mini strokes but by the grace of God, he survived both and is doing very well. I am so very blessed.
You are very fortunate to have known and still know a love such as this in your lifetime !
Your kind words give others hope and faith that good human (specially Man) exists in this world. And I’m glad that you have one of them. May Almighty bless you both with good health and prosperity.
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That’s a testimony right there!!! ❤️👑 I thank God you got your soulmate!
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I'm a boy. I'm watching to make sure I won't do anything wrong when I meet the right girl for me!
That’s sweet 🙂
cuteeeeeeeeeeeee
That is wisdom and insight. 💗
Save this man at all costs😂
@@gooodgoodnotbad much thanks and appreciation for the advice
My husband did most of these things, he wasn’t perfect but loved me and took care of me. He died 11 years ago, oh I miss him so much.
Melody Myers :( rip
Rip😢
Sorry for your loss but I hope you don't lose hope in love
Aw ❤️
I’m so sorry :( ❤️
When a man loves you.... you won’t question “if he loves me.” You will know.
😂😂😂♥️indeed
Well then I guess no man has ever loved me lmao
Perhaps... but after a few serious disappointments you might be doubting what your guts are telling you.
I still watch it even though I know he absolutely loves me. So many men told me they love me but only he proves me his love every single day. So I watch it and remind myself he's very special
Hmmm okay but im not my girl🖤💀
Watching these while single is the best tbh. It's like studying
So we will recognize it when we see it 😉
lmao being prepared :)
Observing and researching
Indeeeed 😂🤣
Watching this for some learning about love lmao 😂
Don't ever marry a man who lies to you. It does not get better after you are married. Run, don't walk away.
true, yes
Totally agree!!!
Amen
Exact truth!!!!!
I'm scared.
_"If you have to wonder about his priorities, then that is a red flag."_
THIS.
Right! If you are not an natural priority to HIM...
Let him get a dog to sleep with.
That one hit me too.
Always
To all you special women that are blessed enough to be loved by a man, cherish it, because not everyone is as fortunate as you are.🙏
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
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I like what you said. I am someone who will be alone forever .... not loved by anyone. My family physically disabled me in childhood and now I'm crippled forever. I will never experience being loved by a man and will never experience being married to a man. I can't have children either because of the damage to my spine. So, if you have a good loving man be grateful that you have him.
I am very blessed he fell in Love with me on line I lost my soulmate in 1992 was not looking but boom in Love again
Amen.
I finally found this kind of man. We're crazy about each other. It only took me 40 years to find him. It's so worth the wait.
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
My God ! What a long wait 😫
No matter
Me to ,but he was worth it ❤️
Thanks. I will wait
1. He devotes time to you & invests effort into the relationship often. Priorities
2. He protects you, would give his life for you
3. Not manipulative, will listen to your feelings. Accepts you the way you are
4. He tells you he loves you
Ash thank you
Sounds like a myth to me. Thanks for sharing.
THANK YOU
@fat guy Mgtow Love is real, and Ash is correct
@fat guy Mgtow 😂😂
His mama raised a man💯
Undoubtly!!!
Absolutely!!!
It's not his mama.
It's his mother.
@@jameshan9430 shut up james
Yeeah
You just described my dog. LOL 1) when I'm upset he takes me to my favourite place. 2) Chases away mad dogs and pulls me up to walk on the pavement. 3) He listens to my whining without interrupting. 4) He looks at me like I'm the only one.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hhhhahh
😂😂😂
Yes.. I agree.. hahaha.. My dog looks at me like that too.. With sparkly eyes and full of love.. Awh.. 🥰
I lived in a town house with my ex-boyfriend and one day out of the blue someone kicked in our front door. My boyfriend jumped behind me and literally used me as a human shield. In that moment I knew that he was not the one.
Wow
Amazing
Fucking coward
Ah hell nah!
What????
I wish I cn find a guy like my dad. He really loved my mom. On his sick bed before taking his last breath, he once again reminded my sister and I to take care of our mom when he is gone.
RIP 😢❤️
😭😭😭
My dad adores my mom too. Still hoping n praying to meet someone who will love me
@@gracegracegraceee 0. K
Me tooo 😭
Believe me after being in bad relationships you will know when the one comes along I'm going through this now and it's lovely to feel loved and adored
Ummm I guess I was a very lucky woman when my husband was alive. He told me about twenty times a day he loved me. God I miss him so much.
Frieda, we're in the same boat, here! Understand totally. Mine passed in 2011 a week after " Patriots Day."
Hope hear this😢with my future husband
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
@@brianhardwick4673 umm I don’t think doing that is right...if you really love her then you would trust her. I know it must feel horrible thinking that she would do something but I mean still
@@ailey9293 you are a good person. Brian isn't. He is just another bot.
One thing I always hold on to, that my mom taught me. "A man who loves you will say I LOVE YOU with so much conviction, that it would be like its the first time you hear him say those words to you. Even after 20 years of marriage"
Wise mom.
I want that too
I hope I get someone like him. ❤️😭
So very true. I have heard this from my man several times, with such feeling and conviction.
@@saranghaeyo8992 same here... hope u finally got it
I have been loved by the same man for 41 years ( married for 37). I love him too.
Lisa Baltzer hey that's what it's all about congrats.. man how'd you do that?
Lisa Baltzer That's beautiful..
..those kinds of relationships give hope to others. Thanks for sharing that
Lisa Baltzer how have you managed?.
jane chungu Most likely communication, respect, honesty, compromise and loving each other how they truly are. Relationships have problems and take work but both people need to make that happen. Unfortunately a lot of relationships out here are one-sided with too many selfish people in them. People say they fall out of love but I wonder if it was really the person that they love or did they love what the person does for them. In my opinion real love never dies and this woman and her husband are proof of that. Congratulations to her and her husband☺
TLovly77 YES, I believe that true love never dies, it just grows stronger.
I remember while dating my now husband, how we figured out we loved each other beyond like or infatuation. We told each other everything after we became close. The worst regrets, the family hurts, why we struggle with certain things… we shared it all. We agreed that if we even do wrong in a big way someday the love won’t change. We won’t keep mistakes secret; and we’ll encourage each other to grow to become better TOGETHER ☀️ If honesty and the safe space to talk about everything with that person doesn’t exist in the relationship. Move on!! If they can’t accept your worst, your past, the journey to become who you presently are… then they do not deserve you.
And he introduces you to key people in his life.
At least how many months in a relationship... I. Confused really, in my current situation it's been 6months but says he feels like he hasn't achieved much in his life thus he hasn't invited me to his place
I invest in my dog, I walk on the road side of the pavement & I tell him I love him frequently. I love my dog.
Lol, same here
😂😂😂
Love this comment.
Huh? Me too..😳
It's me n my bunnies thought 🙄
This is the moment i have realized i have never been loved by someone. (Update: Now, I am in relationship for 2 years. All these signs are true and he is doing all of these. Love will come and find you. If you love yourself, discover yourself, love will come to you naturally. Just believe in yourself and life flow❤ )
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You'r not alone realizing this...!
Same 👍🏻
Same here
Aaw, too
I found someone who passed all of these signs! He is even coming to see me after my surgery and offered to be there to take of me!!! Its real just believe! It can happen!
You must be some gal, for him to think you are worth it.
Get well soon, God bless.
Finding loving partner is like finding a treasure chest in a deep blue sea.
Couldn't be more true
True
@LOVE♏️♌️
I TOTALLY DISAGREE I HAVE A VERY LOVING PARTNER I JUST HAD EYE SURGERY YESTERDAY AND MY HUSBAND IS VERY NURTURING TAKING CARE OF MY EVERY NEED CLEANING MY EYE 👁 AND PUTTING THE MEDICINE IN.. HES MADE SURE IM TAKEN CARE OF BEFORE WORK IN THE MIDDLE OF WORK AND THEN HE TAKES OVER NEVER LEAVING ME ALONE... HES VERY SUPPORTIVE DEVOTED AND DEDICATED TO BEING MY PARTNER💍🔐 I LOVE YOU MARTIN I APPRECIATE EVERYTHING THAT YOU DO FOR ME MY LOVE🐻🐸🐣🐒💫🌈
When he said he tells his girlfriend bedtime stories I melted.... I want that
I thought he would say wife.
my bf sings to me
Me too!!!
Nahh I don't want that, that's a bit much.
Aww yes ☘️💕💕
All of these signs are true, but as a woman obviously you can feel it when that man really loves you through their actions and not only his words.
I always have said that actions speak louder than words. My ex gave me all the words I wanted to hear but the actions loudly said hate, disrespect, manipulation. And I am showing by my actions that he is history.
True.
Truth.
the biggest gift a woman could get from a man is: HIS HEART and everything else will fall into place.
I believe this💯 and he her heart.
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
YES I AGREE 💯💯💯 HIS HEART IS EVERYTHING INDEED💜💚♾💍🔐
@@Freespiritedqueen who's heart does he have
@@martinemaryhernandez729 I love his heart. Who has it? 🥺
I don't look for signs to show love for me, I observe and see how he acts, actions speak louder than words
For me it goes hand in hand. I'm not convinced if all actions no talk vice versa coz he can be doing just to be nice.
Finding a man like this is like finding a needle in a haystack.
virtue McCrary dont reject guys who say they like you before you have made up your mind on how you feel about him
@@ryanvtec3885 a guy has never told me he likes me. I'm the idiot who likes them. They play me like dice.
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to be honest, most of what the guy is describing is infatuation
@@adlofheltirchiefadvisortot40 So you wouldn't protect the ones you love with your life?
My husband and I was married 33 yrs, He's dead now but he most difinitely knew how too love me.
Blessed are those women who find such loving man
Finding a man like this was like finding lysol during this corona pandemic.
Haha!!
😂 hahaha. God help us find good men. They're usually not always eye candy those are the player types.
Or toilet paper
Hahaha i loved what you said! An btw your absolutely right
Toda la razón 😃👍👍👍😃
My ex narcissist did all of these signs in the love bomb stage. By the time the devalue and discard came around, I was paralyzed by cognitive dissonance. I really thought he loved me and that I was the only one. My point is, be careful, always.
I grew up in a dysfunctional and broken home and never believed that a man could/would put me before himself. I was so blessed to find the man that would gladly put me first over 6 years ago. I know he loves me for me, regardless of how I look or act at times. He's been proud of me when I looked like a fat troll carrying our two children, when I dealt with postpartum psychosis, and all the times I couldn't see my own worth. Two kids, multiple family deaths, a lost job, illness, and 6 years later we are more in love than ever. There is someone out there for everyone, and that initial wave of love won't decrease over time or during challenging times, but instead it will become stronger.
Ashley Wells So lucky
May God truly bless you xxxx
Thank you for sharing, beautiful love story..inspiring! :0)
You are blessed
Wow! ❤❤❤
This is so my mom and dad. I love their relationship, beautiful 💖
Alina, your blessed to have a living example of this kind of love. Some of us have lost all hope in fairy tale love stories. They dont exist. 😔
Me2 40 years later they are still bffs thanks u2 raskl parents of mine I love u
You guys truly are blessed!
Never in my 21 years of living have I even seen my parents even hold hands. Sometimes I wonder why they even are still married. :/
could you add to your mom and dad relationship? and then call it a home?
My hubby does all of this. When our daughter was born,hole in lung, in NICU,after emergency Csection, after I got home,was in bed with him,he was so upset our newborn daughter was alone at the hospital, he asked me if I minded that he got up and went to the hospital to visit her. (parents could visit anytime). He went to be with her. Melts my heart thinking about it even though it was 18 years ago now.
I think that's the bare minimum
I was married to my husband for 18 whole years and he always pit me and our 4 children first in everything he did. Totally spoilt me. He died 6 months ago and our lives turned upside down. For the first time in almost 2 decades, I am suddenly talking to the plumber, the carpenter, the mechanic and other repair men. He did everything for us and more.
The same mine! My husband died this New Years day! Very sorrow and painful!😢 he was the best husband and father! He was a great God fearing man..We had a healthy and happy family! He spoiled me also..😢
I have been with my husband for 52 years and he just passed away and he was the love of my life and he lived me the same we were "TWO HEARTS BEATING AS ONE"
I am a man and I do have to admit what he's saying is 100% true. We don't act to protect our lady but it strikes in our head immediately when she's in danger as a mother does to her baby. And the last point is 200% correct. Our body wants to shut down.
I am so hurt watching this.
When a man truly loves you, you will know it .
😑me too
Me too. *hugs*
So sorry love! I pray you and I both will experience this kind of love someday soon.❤️
Shout to all the single people.
Yo!
And or those who know thier self worth enough to not need a man.
NOPE. My ex NEVER loved me ! But I love myself to make him my ex !!!
Joy Watson some of us nice guys care too much but watch out for the alpha sometimes he cant care about anyone but himself
Alpha's are just desperate, they think every woman will just bow down to them lol
What was his name?
You are so right
You Go Ms Lady..
Brian. The only thing I wanna say here is that you're love. The way you say all things, and gently teach and the energy you put in and that one handsome smile. Too refreshing to see honestly
I'm so glad that my boyfriend is really like that 😭❤️ and I love him so much. Even with my panic attacks he goes straight to the bed and hold me and tells me how much he loves me until I felt better. We are so connected since we met. Now in distance we are more in love every day. ❤️ I'm so happy with him.
When u realize ur gonna be alone all your life
Liah Janae lol. You read my thoughts well.
Yeah...Ikr. We're all in the same boat.
Liah Janae @ dude... i feel you 😳
Me.
Hahahaha lol when you realize you have been deluded all your life
I love the fact that men want to protect us. 😍
Not all men sometimes the closest hurt you the most
Not all.
That is so wrong. We only want to protect that ONE girl we love.
My dad just hurts me, my brothers used to be the same. Normal men want to protect us tho. I wouldn't doubt it
And yet women don't want to cook for the men
Lol seems like in these times women are the ones protecting men in the dark alley...
Well, I’ll agree with you on that point; damn millennials
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Fucking millennials 😂🤣
lol sad but true.
My husband is was extremely nervous of me when I use to work for a hotel at night. He would always remind me to take my gun with me to work. Thankfully, nothing ever happened...other than some rude ass customers. And when men staying there hit on me, I always stayed professional so they never got too friendly. Had a few that asked to take me out to dinner but I was quick to tell them I'm married and showed them my ring finger. I'm lucky to have my husband. Always texting me to make sure I'm ok. If he gets worried whenever I don't text back, he calls.❤😘
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
@@brianhardwick4673 sure will, thank you! Also, good woman will always stay faithful to good men so don't be too insecure about her trust.
@@samanthacatcher7838 well I think feeling insecure is just human nature...I need to be showered with love on a daily else I’ll think the connection is no longer there ,but at least I’m more at ease knowing her location always and getting to see her conversations on social media. All thanks to 7hackman on Instagram
The same thing can be said if a woman loves you. She will invest in you, protect you, nurture you, accept you the way that you are.
Sachin Kumar no it's true.
Michele Smith then they walk all over you.
E. Lynette McCormick-Harris LMAO!!
Just what I do for my boy... Sadly I don't get it back tho
Michele Smith a
Happy to say my husband does all of the four actions discussed and more to let me know how much I am loved.
My husband does not just show/tell me once in a while, he makes sure to let me know every day throughout the day.
I am truly blessed.
Finding a man like this is like finding a cat in a darkroom.. and most times, there is no cat.
Lol. I love this!!!
@@pragyashah7120 Thanks😁
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Nope! It's because men like that don't attract women nowadays, some women goes further saying "he's too nice". Well it's the world we live in today. Good things are less valuable while bad things are more valuable
@@fabkings7612 I don't see that at all especially here in Colorado guys just want sex and if you don't give it up then the guy will find the next female that will.....then get this
When that female gives them AIDS or HIV then they say all women are hoes or all women are bad.
It's really messed up.
Good women like me are overlooked just because we are not hoes or wanting to have sex with random guys.
His voice is soo soft and calming
This guy? I was actually thinking of someone I know but he talks to EVERYONE like that
I am blessed. I've been Married for the second time to a Man who worships the ground I walk on. We've been Married since January of 1989. We both Love God and He is in the middle of our relationship which makes both of us stonger and if the emotions are slipping I know I can ask of God and He always pours more love for him into my soul and into His.
Teri Parenteau Happy for you 👌❤️
Wait, how does he worship the ground you walk on and God at the same time....?
🙏💯❤️
My uncle & cousins told me all of these things!
Always go by what a person does not says.
True, my late husband didn't say much lovey, dovey stuff but he treated me like a queen. Aww, how I miss him. 🤔😥
Every single time
@@snap2114I was lucky my husband expressed his love in words as well as actions
True Love Gives. True Love doesn't take away.
The question is, do I love myself enough, to endure somebody else's love...
My boyfriend is that man...and I think the reason people fail to find that man is because they spend too much time looking for superficial things like good looks and money...but I am so happy that I was able to get over this and finally found a real man. At 25 years I had my first boyfriend and I am so proud of him
I’m absolutely blessed. Have the most wonderful man in the world x
Cats like salt and vinegar crisps 👍❤️🙏
Lol, we walk side by side and try to protect the dog!!!
Lol
My ex used to read me a book until i fell asleep. He sang songs to me and wrote songs for me. We always said i love you at least 2 a day. He would hug me super tight and kiss my forehead when i would cry. He was amazing until he slowly stopped doing all of that. He left me 2 days before vday. I miss the way we used to be.
I'm so sorry. I have been there.
It put me in a state of grief, confusion, disbelief, and shame, too.
There is another dance, however. You will see.
After watched this video, I’m sure that I never met any man who ever really loves me, and it is so sad .. 😅😂😭
메이리
Same goes for me
You are pretty...search for the only true love for all eternity....JESUS CHRIST .... if you know him you'll know what true love is.. and HE never leaves us
Me too... 💔💔💔😞😞
Sameee😭😭😭😭
Your video made me cry tears of joy! I'm gonna text my husband at work right now and just say thank you and I appreciate him very much, and I can't help but tell him I love him so very much! You just described my husband!
I’ve never been loved and at 51, it’s hard to just even exist without being loved by someone.
😢
My man is a musician. He made me a song when I'm not able to sleep. (Long distance relationship)
My husband does all these things✨
Mines to, when I was really sick
he saw me at my worst, made me hot water bottles, cooked for me,
cleaned up my vomit, played my favorite music, massaged me, told me I was beautiful. He said he would wait for me if I die and we can be together again in paradise.
I'm selfish I fully expect him to keep his promise, I don't want to live without him, he is my forever soul mate. Thank you to my God
for my greatest blessing and your Son Christ Jesus for making it all possible, to love my husband forever. I can't wait to live the real life in paradise and have more babies that look exactly like him.
@@happyhiker965 oh please. Comments like yours bother me. I watched my mother wither away to half a person when the love of her life - my father - passed away. Be strong in yourself as one day you too could be heartbroken.
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
Sometimes adoration can be lethal. Always be wary of patterns of behavior. Narcissists do the very worst they can possibly do to a person, and sometimes, it simply is Not safe to forgive that individual face to face. Personal safety must always be kept in mind. Narcissists don't find twin flames or soul mates - they simply move onto the next individual whose energy they want to devour. Belittling a another person's experience doesn't shine the light on you at all ... for those of us who have experienced that atrocity in our lives, negative comments by others prove as a warning sign.
Brian Nox, you do provide some great information, and what you have said is treasured. Thank you - it reminds us there are still very good people out there - we simply need to pay closer attention :)
I am female and I don't wish to be 'adored' by anyone. Simple compatibility and friendship are more important. But we live in a throw-away world where a replacement is a click away on Tinder. Everyone has too many options which makes people more discontent than they realize.
Those " options" are illusions
That's why I took myself off of Facebook and other forms of social media. I only want a guy I can meet in real life and have a genuine connection with.
So true those four points! Thank you also for the words “Always behave like the high value woman you are”🙏🏻😍 Really needed to be reminded of that😌🥰
I was married to my love partner for just shy of 34 years. I NEVER doubted that he loved me. This video had totally illuminated that. I will never settle for less if someone else can bless my life with that kind of unselfish love. Thank you for reaffirming my joyful marriage. I miss that security of knowing he always had my back.
yeah you're right!!! find a man who loves you...just what i did... I don't waste time with people I like most but for me, I focus on people who loves me most...
well said and well done.
I totally agree
Hey, what u r saying is actually a contradiction because if you are with someone who loves you, and you may not be in that much love with him, what about him then? Is he not with someone he loves but who actually does not like him the way he does? Is this not being selfish? In the same way, you can be with someone you love, but who may not feel that much love for you....relationships are complicated.
Fontbuena Fleurdeliz I learnt that after 3 heartbreaks and I'm glad I learnt it . Even princess Diana taught her kids to never let go if someone truly loves you . Hold on to that person.
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Thank you so much for all the valuable content and information. Your channel is very inspiring and helpful. Relationships now can be a bit of a pickle it’s amazing to have people out here giving out tips to help us young women
Great video, as usual. I own a few of your books too. Awesome advice.
I'm dating a man who does these. #2 example. We were holding hands, walking to the parking lot of a large mall. We stepped from the sidewalk, and he squeezed and pulled my hand toward him as a protective gesture. It was subtle. I told him I appreciated this gesture. He didn't even realize he'd done it. One thing he said is he really likes that I tell him I appreciate what he does for me.
Sounds like my husband. I've been married for 14 years and he does all these things💕
Iesha Gooden lucky woman..did he have sigel bro?😀😀😀
Im happy for u😭❤❤
congratulations!! ♥️
It is not a husband it is host which must provide sex and customer services for family and paraditic parasitic women and y8u are racist
Na true
I LOVE my wife! Protection is the #1 key in a relationship with your significant other.
Chad Massey blah blah blah ;)
We are divorced and no longer together. But, I still unconditionally love Katherine as family and my best friend...blah blah blah
Chad Massey that was 3 weeks ago. Im sorry!
Jolly Jokress yah but once a partner is in your life you have to keep them as a best friend or friends with benefits. What do you think?
Chad Massey not necessarily. It depends. Sometimes you quit seeing each other or not. If there is still some value to it like you get along together very well (which woild be kinda strange if you got divorced) then yes. If not then not. I have ppl whom i dont wanna see anymore. Its hard to do it at first but it is always better if you know that in the long term you dont want to have to do anything with that person anymore. Though in my case those were school friends and such. You live and you learn and i like my new surroundings a lot better ;)
WOW! This sounds so wonderful....almost unbelievable! My heart is open but the men in my town love their utes more than their wives!!!
Go to another town then.
Thank you, Brian :) This is incredibly motivating and helpful. Best wishes to you and yours.
I've been protected by men that didn't love me.
And I've been protected by women who are strangers.
Protective is different than control and jealousy. We tend to confuse those. I'm guilty....
@@amandaree1842 Totally true
Police officer?
That's..deep
You tell her storys when she's sick! That is friggin adorable!
Try leaving her alone too
The last few seconds was especially assuring. Thank you for this vid. It means a lot to me right now
Your face lit up when you mentioned your girlfriend. That’s so sweet. 🥰
He does all of this. That's why I married him.😃😃
I had it and I miss it. Lost him due to my stupidity. This video made me cry and miss him.
You are so right. I am married 33 years and I have fallen in love with my husband over and over again.
I found my soul mate thank the Lord!!! HE loves me protected me several times he does the best he can to be with me and he does everything for me he listens to me when I need help or if I'm happy I love him so much Thank you Lord so much for him
i don't know any guys who wouldn't protect a woman in distress.....not helping a distressed woman is just a lack of character.....
Donna Perry .....are you living in the 21st century like the rest of us?? Lol
...hopefully not....lost here in my illusions
Donna Perry That would be the characteristic of a pussy!!😂
It’s 2018 men are afraid to help women for fear of going to jail for whatever crazy reason she can create.
Chris Nelson the pussy is the strong sex.
For me no body is perfect,,so if you love someone accept all the trials..Just to stay together
I have a man that does all this and so much more. Hes the most amazing man ive ever met.
Brian, Thank you for your divine masculine advice! It is truly inspiring 🦋❤️
u r helping me getting rid of my depression.. I was so depressed.. he never gives time and gives excuses about work..
Wow
Same here. Don't know if I should stay or should I go
mickey loves what I have learned is that if a guy loves you or really likes you he will make time for you no matter what...
Tischia Elius Women do the same with guys, as a guy myself
Pdrum2 I agree with ya....!😊
Protects you I want a powerful man where I know I'm safe and he would never let anyone hurt me
Facts
I started having insecurities after 2years of been married to my wife, but thanks to 7hackman on IG that helped me hacked into her phone and all my suspicions were wrong but I still gets to know where she is at all time...I recommend you give him a try he’s a professional.
I have been blessed as to finding two men in my life time. I lost my first one a, service man, to cancer. I have been blessed to find another gentleman, again a former service man. This one is all the above mentioned. We are like a mirror to each other. It is such a glorious feeling. We are both loved so deeply and pasionately. I can not wait to see what the future holds for us. I LOVE YOU DARRIN S. E.
This just makes me realize that I have the most amazing boyfriend. I didn't search this up, but i'm glad i found it..
The protection one is HUGE. Thank you for mentioning it!
that is not just something men do, I'm a woman and I have jumped between an aggressor and someone I love to protect them
LMAO 😂 when he said you'll be hearing footsteps
😆 😂
My love is all of these things. I’m blessed. ❤️❤️
My first boyfriend does all the things all the videos say you should keep.. He's so nice, loves me for who I am, and is grateful for my time
These signs Evey guys do at d very earlier stage in relationship but after some time Evry other bad signs comes and relationships destroyed...
I always thought that way, too, until I met an old man that still glowed every single time she came in the room after 65 years of wedded bliss. Or he would shut the TV off immediately whenever she was trying to talk to him. He totally adored her. After several bad relationships in my life, I now compare every man to him. If they don't measure up to him, I say bye bye.
Many cases yes but there are guys out there that keeps this! Been married 5 years soon 6 and he does all of these E V E R Y day! I get to choose tv programs because it really doesn't matter much to him as long as he gets to see me happy. He cares for me and protects me first and foremost above every single thing in our lives and we have 100 animals depending on us and our responsibility. I come first, always. When I tell a problem he knows I can probably solve it on my own but he does lay out input that I can use if I wish to. Lastly, we have never spent a night apart and have never argued and that's because we respect each others space and when we communicate we lay out ideas and perspective and find common ground and go for that plan. In disagreements we agree to disagree and drop it because no issue is heavy enough to be worth losing a day's happiness of loving eachother and enjoying each others company. They say love is blind and it's quite true. We both have flaws of course but because of love they don't bother us, they are so small that they don't count and some quirks even feels kinda adorable. :) He strives to keep me safe and happy, I strive to keep the household together when he is away and it just works!
Tashi Sangmo This reply is barely legible. Sorry, but how on earth does it cop all those likes?
Tashi Sangmo y
It's been 12 years 2 kids, 3 surgerys, cancer, arrest, job loss, financial trouble. We are together and it is all there. When it's love it's love.
Thank you for reminding me what an amazing husband I have - married 4 years this year and all 4 points very consistent.
OMG!!! Thank you so much for this video. I am very loved. I am so blessed.