Women Want A Man Who Can Keep It Real
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Totally true. I told to my crush I liked her and after an initial rejection, I got kissed. No games, no strategies, just truth and confidence. Let's live simply, dudes 👍
It really is that simple. Guys who don't have a lot of female attention usually can't walk away. There are exceptions though.
i'M GUNNA BECOME A REAL MOTHERFUCKER!!
Superb bro
Similar situation here
Same
LFA is every hard mode king’s dating coach 😂
So the point is keep it real. Just tell her as is. No sugar coat.
man i see nerd cops
This is I'm losing interest in lfa and coach eo
@@daredodorm2227 Why?
Be yourself. That’s it. Don’t TRY just BE.
Is The key. Don’t hold back. Speak Truth
Your Energy Speaks Volume. Raw & Real.
You should be yourself if you are a high value masculine man
No bullshit mentality love it. Don't play games guys, just WALK AWAY.
Good advice. If you tell her you like her and she doesn’t reciprocate, move on. But, don’t tell her you love her, at least not until she’s earned it. Guys that fall in love easily are to women what thots are to men - low value.
I really like your content. You express confidence and you have a heart. Many of our brothers are mind-centered, act out their trauma and leave burned land behind. They play hard but they are shallow. Deep down they seek revenge for the pain they had to experience. They cannot really love the world, the women and accept the nature of them simultaneously. They cannot set boundaries therefore they build walls to not be vulnerable.
No strategies, be authentic, express and embrace pain and joy equally.
Damn right brother, this applies to friendships as well
Lately I've noticed few of my so called friends were just full of bullshit and as you said, they were shallow
Always nice to encounter fellow people who are just honest and genuine
Breadcrumb for the algorithm.
Oklahoma got dat dry heat and cold.
Learning and applying game (both for pickup and dating) for me was a 'rite of passage' from being submissive to becoming more dominant and assertive. Starting out as a submissive beta (authentic, and not a simp) with little to no success, transitioning through the inauthentic game beta stages of dating (fake alpha) to then becoming authentic again; having an alpha mindset, being genuine and not playing games (but now able to recognize games being played on me) and having a more outcome independent and overall healthy approach to women.
BTW! I started out with doing NoFap to get laid, got laid, and I'm doing NoFap for higher reasons now..
Drug dealers .... What I can say .... So dark .... It's a evil world full of devils
For real man, no need to be involved in the slightest with those people
Out here selling fake red pills and got young incels overdosing on them
It she's into you and you are compatible with her any interaction you have with her feels normal, natural and easy. I always say it's like the game "Tetris". Only certain shapes pieces can fill that spot and win you the game, other pieces might work short term but they don't fit the spot 100%!!!
Damn nice example
@@SonOfYHVH thanks!
100% correct my friend well said
Yes keep it all real ! Go straight up ! Girls love it bro !
Hi LFA,
As a man and not being able to drive at all makes me sad and insecure sometimes.
When I was 14 years old. I lost my vision in my left eye due to retina detachment. I went to many eye doctors to find out if I can drive with one eye. But all of them said the same thing "no" because I don't have good wide field vision in my right eye. That is not the worst part. I also have really bad night blindness which means I don't go out at night by myself cuz I can't see shit lol. But during the daytime, I am perfectly fine. Whenever someone comes up to me and asks if I drive. My confidence goes down real quick. Especially when I meet a girl and ask if I have a car or if I drive. I try to be the best version of myself. I watch and read a lot of self-improvements contents out there. I am now 22 years old and currently studying accounting and next year I will graduate in May 2023. I also go to the gym 3-4 times a week and have a decent physique. I guess my question is how can I still be considered a high-value man if something simple as driving is not an option for me? I live in California btw.
American city planning and zoning regulations make driving necessary. Go to Europe or Japan or such.
I know im not LFA but i think i got a good 1 for you, from now on, the reason you dont drive is because "You dont want to drive, your a god, and gods dont drive, they let people drive them while they do business in the back seat, business calls, lap top stuff, do your youtube videos idk, you dont drive' because your a bad mutha fucka an people drive you around, end of story
Does Jay Z drive himself around, fuck no.. someone drives him around because he's a bad mutha fucka... so thats why you dont drive, because you a bad mutha fucka.... unless you not a bad mutha fucka? you tell me, is you a bad mutha fucka mutha fucka? If you a bad mutha fucka get on your alpha so you can back that story up.
Hey homie you not being able to drive has absolutely nothing with you being a high value man. Keep doing your thing and don't worry about it. I know dudes who have girlfriends and no drivers license and these guys don't have an excuse like you. Don't let that get you down man I promise it doesn't matter.
In USA this can seem a problem. I live in Berlin and have no license out of free choice. Driving can be stressful and Berlin has a very good public transport. Even at night.
But I can feel you. The thing is. When you would not care about what others think, would that be important for you? Would you just be a driver to please others or have some chances?
I deal with real girls and only ! Communication skills is more important
That's simple as focusing on what you want and getting what you want, never settle for less or other than that, and you'll be living well off
Even tho I still don't quite understand your retention vids, I completely agree with you on this one
I've always hated the little chat games, the famous push and pull away bullshit, I don't care about that and girls who also do that are a huge turn off for me
I'm looking for a good healthy relationship, I don't want to just play games and for the most part people will tell you they respect your honesty, friends family and chicks too
Always be honest, nowadays many people lack that
Stop looking , you are not in a state of abundance. The more you look for a good relationship the more you will attract to opposite. And with the semen retention part woman are looking for a man that can give them a baby ( its there motherinstinct ) and with semen retention you attract a woman subconsciously because you have strong and full semen by not wasting it. The more semen you have in your body the more likely you can procreate and woman just know they just know when a men has not wasted but has full semen. Thats when you will find the right woman.
@@YannickLuk literally what I said bro lmao
And don't tell me what state I'm in that's my business, jeez some of you guys really take it too personally
@@mrlennon4869 well I just came across his content half a year ago so idk
Still, I was always a hater for game and stuff, never sat right with me how disingenuous you have to be to just get a girl
@Sohelanthropus what made you think I said something against you , just giving you some information. No need to get annoyed. If the information did not help its okay but just say it and not get al annoyed and saying i take things personal haha
@@YannickLuk i've been single since 2013, should i bottle it up for someone that could do me dirty?
Lol bro at 8:35 your not kidding. These guys are having full blown temper tantrums about being called creepy or getting rejected by woman. Me and my friends have never been down this bad in high school or college. I may had a simpish mindset from 15- 19 but not like that level.
The point : Be a Man
Explained in 3 words
Time is of the essence
Honesty and being 100% like u are is the way to go , I was surrounded by so many girls in college by doing this ...
Unfortunatly this generation of women cant offer anything but games,hard to get me, lots of hook ups and eventually STDs,unless nothing happens and they start to appreciate men like 20-30 years ago...
I don’t share that experience.
Pretty much the position I'm in. Ignores my texts after giving me one word answer. But always calling out HIYA when sees me. Always seeking my attention. (Workplace, only see her once every week or more the way my shifts work etc) i don't play this shit. Bye👋
LFA us the shit
4:42 also DHV (Demonstrating higher value).
This guy is my internet pastor.
I go co-working spaces where aren't co-working spaces ....
Capability trumps attraction. It's as simple as that. But dating coaches claim "opposites attract" overlooking the fact that it is only true when it comes to attraction, not sustainability. Once the differences are amplified in a relationship, usually during conflict, thats when most relationships fall apart. Only an evil person wants someone that is so different from them anyways. If I'm a good person, real, good values and morals, I will not want someone so different from me. Thats why most of these dating coaches are lame and get women that are just like themselves because they're running game on women that are also running game on them so they cancel each other out. They just don't like it when their energy is matched.
Game is deception. You cannot ask for peace then engage in deception. Yet you'll see dating coaches (like FNF) doing that just to get females to feel sorry for them and change their minds. Men who use game to get peace are like women who use their s*xual nature to get to empowerment. They're both degenerates trying to achieve goodness.
maybe i'm wrong again, but we argued over this shit a year ago. i always cut them loose when they play games, running game on women is no use because that same woman might not give a shit about you when your sick and can't get out of bed. be yourself and let the female choose you.
@@nekotfarmer the divorce rate is so high because of "GAME", loonitics out there pretending to be something they are not, after the children the wife is comparing the lier to the man down the street
a further example of this is the man who killed himself in England after a football manager stole his wife & daughter. the football manager joined a famous football club and his wife of 18 months was gone. he couldn't handle it and killed himself, the media don't report this kind of stuff because it doesn't suit the narrative being pushed onto society
The hero we don't deserve, but desperately need! 💪
Ive made this mistake of trying to run game and then realised eveeything goes wrong when you make the internal state dependent on the external. Common saying but this is also why sr is so effective aswell. The more you need externally the less value ane power you have abundance vs scarcity
We live in a world where people just want to be who they are without judgment or rejection. People are to co dependable on fulfillment in comparison to every being on planet earth 🌍 social media. Everyone is living their best life. 🐻
Every morning I dressed up and go somewhere where have no people like you , it's sad
Bro,what?
Speaking the truth as always! I like that shirt as well! Nice 21 Questions reference too 👍
That OUTRO ahhahahahahahhahaha has me rolling, good one
This guy is mother fucking good!
it’s better to tell a women upfront. it’s not cool to lead anyone on.
yes it is true! ive doing it myself like years! when you do retention youre just have to ask for the number it doesnt matter what the conversation is about it is every time sexual. When you not doing it it is much harder you have activelly approach them otherwise their looking eight truw you like you are a ghost . And then you might dont get the numbeer because their was no sexuall spark in the conversation. Every young guy needs to hear this this will safe you so much time and frustration. Best to you all guys!
This guy is really, bloody good!
Just relearned this recently it always comes full circle. The more you beat around the bush the lower Chance of success. That’s why SR is so amazing because u go after WHAT U WANT. If u want to do dance this way you tell her. There’s no Compromise. It’s I want to do this. They can agree or not
SR ????
Lol that damn bug fucking up the outro .. priceless.
Thought provoking video 👍
Right on brother
As we all know (hopefully) - It's always better to let her say she wants the relationship, even if you do. It's not that I love running game all the time - it just makes things easier.
I'm gonna try your method bro, I'm on semen retention too #day 45. Games is for beta not SR gods
Cool shirt man
77 days for me, can´t wait for next techno party ( 6 august) on the 6. its 89 days. Magic things are going to happen when I enter the festival area, imagine ...the possibility is very high, that I am the only one who resisted this long. Ladys will feel that when I get out of my car 🤝
Outstanding advice and video, as always. Ty LFA
Subscribe because of your take on this. This "game" they are saying I really don't like this stuff, I prefer improving yourself and be attractive as you can be but also being honest and not showing that "alpha" persona.
this material is awesome, i'm learning english for this videos killing two birds with one stone, LET's GO Alpha Brothers!
My baby momma runs game on me. Hits me up talking about lets work on things i want a relationship. Has me hit it a couple nights then leaves. 😂 I mean i laugh now but that shit wrecked me for years. She still does this from time to time. She knows i wont just sleep with her.
Oh I was only 24 hours from Tulsa
Ah only one day away from your arms...
Thank you for this Information. Im subscribed.
This is my last video on woman nice man ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I got it
Great stuff. Not sure I’ve heard anyone explain all that like that before. Really helpful.
Like these videos. Not gonna lie was getting tired of those retention videos. Didn’t even watch them. But keep making your content the way u want
Guys just do your thing and she will come. If she hasn’t already, you are probably ignoring them
I cannot express this enough boys. But the ONLY game you need to know in order to find a girl worth a damn, is Not Giving A Fuck.
Not giving a fuck to play her games
Not giving a fuck about her shit tests
Not giving a fuck about what her friends whisper
And after a little while she will realize you're the one and all that shit will stop. And then there she is, in love with you. And there you are, still not giving a fuck.
But here's the trick boys, it's not enough to ACT like you don't give af. You have to ACTUALLY not give a fuck. And please don't confuse what I'm saying. I'm not saying to treat her like shit. I'm not saying to not care for her as a human being or potential mate. You just have to show her that she will be incapable of affecting you in a negative way, no matter how hard she tries.
thats it bro thats the truth
This is true and SR makes it easier to have this mindset. The way is to put God first and foremost in your mind and keep him center and above all else. When you do this, she becomes secondary to the Most High and will then be in a position to submit to you. However, if you fail to put God first, you will instead be looking up at HER and how could she possibly submit if she's looking down at you? How can she trust you if you are not a friend of the Holy Spirit?
Crystal clear thigs are only covered by lfa..tnx brother
Much respect 🫡
Listening
You Re aging well dude. The more time goes, the more insightful you are
Great video man, got my sub
the alphas/the man mood stays the same he's never angry or sad hes respectful to men and women cause respect is always earnt he's hard on himself but patient and loving to yous he's unstoppable fearless meaning life not fighting🤜🤛
10:55 got me dead bro 😂
Brothers
And I subscribed
Don't even waste your breath. Just say "No thanks, bye"!
You got firefighters, cops, and gangsters wrong mate. I get what your trying to say tho. 😂 I've met enough ticket maids when time was critical. Firefighters maybe 🤔. But gangsters are pussies 😂 prove me otherwise but I've had enough death encounters with them. If they are alpha then I'm god 😂 🤣🙏
Hey brother!
So fkn right
🙏🙏🙏🙏
💯💯💯💯
Collaboration around the fire?
You call it being real. I just always thought of this as very direct. Brutally and bluntly honest. Hey i like you. Be my gf. I have done this and the girl was my gf for many years
Holy shit I just did this with a girl to a T.. Lmfao. Honestly don't know if I or anything could really reach her tho.. She has simps at her disposal & she seems to prefer it that way.. Young attractive girl with daddy issues so it is what it is & I'm not the one
Hey brother LFA! Big fan! Just had a question where do you get your sunglasses 🕶?
Thank you i Will express myself a real motherfucker keeping real. I keep grinding
Rachida i am not a player
I am real
50 cent 🤣
She wants to give me that bro ! 💘
That bug that hit you is beta lol
World is full of guys be a man 💪🔥🤘
Of course if she's texting you she wants to communicate but you don't use texting for communication you should actually use texting as little as possible if you want to have a conversation do it in person or over a phone call Lola has time to be sitting around texting these females long-ass text all day they'll get used to that and then get bored of you and a lot of times they will subconsciously put you in the friend zone if I'm at work and my girlfriend text me I might decide not to text til I get home I don't allow myself to be pressured into anything and if she doesn't like it she knows she can leave whenever she want I really don't f****** care.
Had my 1st 3 some guys. Congratulate me. We are all worthy of 1. Get yours. Thanks to LFA
Yo lfa , im thinking of hopping on a trt cycle ,u think that could cause lower sperm count for sure?
Consult a dr. Research shows it’s possible.
No, you will have more sperm than you will know what to do with IF you are running it with HCG(Simulates LH and Leydig Cell Production)
Hey LFA have u heard of these 21 year old girls telling guys right off the bat what do U want something casual a relationship a quick f@@k. Idk what that is but girls are treating real like like a dating app. 2nd as a guy should we do the same or if we value them and they seem like a good women just let the relationship bloom naturally don’t force it? Thoughts?
It's funny how normal looking dudes like me and the majority of people who watch your videos we need to get money,keep masculine frame, learn game,learn seduction and buy Alpha Male Strategies books only to get with a woman who would leave us in a second if a better looking guy shows up in her life. You can have the best game in the World, but if a Man who looks like Sean O Pry or Michael Morrone wants your girl,then he will have your girl. Improve for yourself not for women and you be more happy.
If you’re average, you’ll do fine. If you’re way below average, you’ll struggle
@@LFA Women have crazy standards in 2022. They want all Men to look like a Calvin Klein model and thats ridiculous. You re a Chad thats why you don't understand that, but i still respect you because i think you re a good person.
Women have no standards in 2022
@@LFA yes they do, but obviously Money Is the equalizer.
@@elnoviodetumamaytufuturopa7150 women don't care about looks. Go outside you will see a women that's a 8 with a sloppy looking dude
But how should i teenage guy in high school who dont want long relationship, but only to hook up and have some night stands behave?? Should he also behave like this or how?
What do you think about "The Rational Male"?
It’s an excellent book for men who are celebrities dealing with women who are gold diggers.
Great message. Respect from Poland
2:03
Game is to increase your chance more nothing wrong with it
Lmao
@@LFA lmaoooo
When will you get married? Then you can tell us how to deal with women in marriage!
The thing you always seem to forget is WHY do male / female sexes exist ? Because of DEATH. Organisms are born to die, and the only way to overcome the entropy of time and biochemistry is via reproduction of newer (also dying) life forms... If you are a real man with the courage to face your own mortality, you are keenly aware of your own eventual, and inescapable demise. Likewise for every other human you meet. So, the gift of your love and attraction is, ideally, shared by your female counterpart, so you may Love one another and make new, modified recombinations of each other.
Mazel Tov ! may you both enjoy many happy children... have a dozen ! Life is short, and Eternity is Long.
Literally no one has ever forgotten that man…
@@LFA Well then, Great ! To all fine gentlemen, Get thee a goodly wife, and have many happy children ! :-)
Bottom line if real recognize real and u trying to play games yall not gonna work cause you on some immature stuff
Is this alpha and beta still a thing ? Mind boggling.
Always has Ben, always will be.
hello there i'm 19 years old i have ed by watching adult sites get any tips to recover
Get with real women. Chill with them and let it build up.
be men of God and look for a believing woman
What God
what does LFA mean?
Fantastic content as always brother
I know a 46 year old, just a couple years older than me, who I went to school with grade school through HS, that I haven't seen in 25+ years, who is not "big" in stature, but is built today for his 5'10"+ height. This dude could excel at EVERYthing growing up, I mean EVERYthing. His dad is a multimillionaire (now, not then - their home was $50K growing up I remember not no different than my poor-as5 family), employs nothing but women (and his son, I see, now) in 3 different countries (rich European countries and the US). The son, who I COMPETED with (or rivaled with), who wasn't my "friend" because of that competition in Looks mainly as he was the Far better athlete, straight-As, Musically gifted in virtually Every instrument and singing. So today, all these years later, he looks virtually The Same, so boyish still with no degradation in the face/body from "stress" or drugs, drinking etc etc. The guy has a Young-looking haircut (which I could Not pull off, so Cool-looking like a man-bun but thinner and different than others just in the back). He'd be considered a "dandy" I suppose, but much more, Extremely well-dressed suit/tie/shoes of extreme high cost and probably bought IN Europe.
Anyway, I believe the dude to be ALWAYS having swam in pvssy, elite pvssy, and Never married (I guess ala Leonardo Di Caprio). He is Far more talented in all areas than Leonardo however, Not famous, and low key.
I wouldn't trust him Or his dad with helping me with anything even saving myself on the side of the road from a car accident or whatever, slipping on the ice, whatever. They Both only care about pvssy/straight sex though he could be "seen" as g@y I suppose by jealous onlookers. They are in the medical field.
Because I grew up with the dude, I couldn't help being influenced by his way of life or eliteness; therefore, I am unique-appearing to most women, so young-looking even though I'm older. It may be even considered satanic, that I am not thrashed and scattered by the waves of life's magnificent struggles. I'm certainly not as "intact" or preserved as him as I am not white collar like he's always been. I was in a private school system to BE white collar but I gave all that up and didn't want it and didn't have the family connections he did to be able to live it though I got my finance degree just like he did. I had connections to government but threw all that way too, I just wanted to move far away and to just get away and not rely on family and friends. It was the harder route, but I've been on this pathway for over 18 years now.
The dude is still gettin pvssy, overseas, on ships, in a private jet, at the $millions+ mansion, access to drugs, still in great health, life-long pvssy feed with new professional women being hired year in and year out.
It is so much harder for Poor people like me. While I'm not "Poor" per se, I'm pining and striving for peanuts or chump change, the hurdles that he's jumped Long ago leaving me in the dust. I'm still frettin over 1000s while this dude I grew up with isn't frettin over anything set for life with ridiculous millions. But he's higher IQ or more applied-IQ so I guess it's fair and all my fault for wasting time through the years. Que sera sera.
Bro, what's the point of you writing all this? No one cares lol. No one knows or cares about your random assed friend, his dad or you for that matter. Youre literally writing fucking BOOKS glorifying a literal nobody - pathetic. If you're not happy with YOUR life, get off YOUR ass, stop tickling your acquaintances balls and earn a life that'll attract women as well. Stop caring about what some other guy has and grab that shit for yourself.
Facts! The girls these dating coaches pursue and make 30 minute videos for a whole year, just had her insides rearranged by a rich a$4 h0le like me raw. After she done it and walks funny, these PUA's go approach her and try "game" inn social circles. I just laugh and watch. She is swimming in my baby juice and here comes a "game" guru teaching incels on how to land a 9 or 10. Mof)s, she is my pet bunny and its my enjoyment to parade her in clubs, bars and see l0sers hit on her and we both laugh at them.