I’m a 78 year old woman that loves your channel. I have a granddaughter around your age, I think it helps me connect with her on a wonderful level. Thank you. You are a very remarkable young woman.
I am a 70 year old who also enjoys your channel! You have handled all this very respectfully to yourself and your ex. It’s good to see you moving on but remember it’s ok to have tough times, too.
Awww...Linda...this is the sweetest comment & totally agree. I am 71 and love Michel too. I don't have any grandkids...but think she gives awesome advice. You & I didn't have social media when we were young...I know it can be bad. However, people like Michel make is so fun & helpful.
I'm also in my mid 70's and was born with Celiac! They actually knew what it was even back when. GF foods were nearly non existent. I found you on a search for Celiac. As a bonus to finding your channel you have your degree in nutrition. You are a delight. My granddaughters are close in age to you! Your topics, style, and genuine instilled values appeal to a wide range of ages!
I hope this doesn’t come out wrong because I mean it in the best way…I have noticed since your divorce you seem lighter, freer, more open, more genuine and like you’re finally being yourself. I can’t put my finger on it exactly but it’s awesome to see.
That's what happens when you free yourself from the wrong person :) You begin to become your true and complete self. This is the reason why it is important to be careful about who you choose to be with
I feel like I don’t have enough girlfriends so I’m loving these girl chat videos! So nice to have these important discussions with such a good community of people. Thank you Michel, love from Canada 💕
I’m glad I’m not alone on this. After I got married, I drifted apart from my girl friends. Michel feels like a friend now that I watch all her videos 🥺
same here!! anti social/awkward girl crew here haha 🙋🏼♀️ i feel like this channel brings a community of women together. it’s hard to find healthy friendships these days and this channel seems like such a safe place to share ideas, learn frm and support each other 💖
To the person with the cheated on question - If he'll do it with her, he'll do it to her. Move on and focus on something else, you can't change him and you can't help her. Focus on your own happiness.
I agree. I quickly got to the point where I was very grateful that he chose her over me and got out of my life. I was unable, or perhaps unwilling, to see the real him and, to my detriment, I would have stayed if it had been my choice. So they did me a favor.
Cheating really reflects on the cheater, not the faithful partner. If he cheats on you, he will cheat on anyone. He does not understand the strength of loyalty or the value of saving himself for his partner. He doesn't understand how his intense betrayal cuts worse than a knife. It sounds too simplistic, but he really doesn't deserve you. He did you a favor by showing his true self. Remind yourself that you deserve to be loved and cherished Beyond All Else (BAE) and don't settle for less.
Michel you have such a gentle soul absolutely blown away how you handle day to day situations and then do a well done Q&A. YOU HAVE SUCH AN UNBELIEVABLE STRENGTH SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!
For anyone reading this, in response to voicing concerns about a friend’s partner, let me share my advice as someone who was in an abusive marriage (and had no red flag warnings from anyone before the marriage): I wish someone would have said something to me if they had suspicions or concerning observations about my spouse. Since I was being gaslit about my experiences, if someone outside the relationship had said something to me, it likely would have helped me regain some much needed perspective and felt less alone. So while I know the fear of offending a friend is a real one, you also might just be giving them a bit of hope and support that you didn’t even know they truly needed. Best wishes to all. ❤️🙏🏻
Hello Beautiful Michel! I’m seeing all of the comments from older women and it warms my heart! I’m 68 and have just fallen in love with you. I have a daughter in her 40s and a daughter in her 30s and you remind me so much of them. You are just precious. I know your parents are proud of the you. As someone who has been stuck in a not so pleasant marriage for 50 years, I appreciate that you’ve given hope to many young women and even men that you can’t always stay in a situation. You’ve been an amazing example of starting over and it can be done. You show so much grace and dignity. I appreciate your “older” followers!! They’ve given me the courage to comment. I’ve wanted to comment before but I thought, “what does a 68 year old woman have to offer a beautiful young lady like Michel”. From now on I’ll be willing to just offer support and a great big thank you for your videos!! Be blessed my Dear!!
Going thru a breakup and every time I’m starting to have a meltdown being home alone, I put on one of your videos. You feel like a friend who understands me. Thank you!
I turned your Channel onto my 28 yr old daughter who is currently going through a tough breakup with her boyfriend of 5yrs. Moving her into a new place, etc. You have been a Godsend. Thank you so much for your content, personality and you!
As for the cold feet, advice that really helped me navigate friendships is "who benefits from your benefit of the doubt? Others do. By doubting yourself you are choosing others over your intuition." This has helped me see things as face value and not make excuses for others' behaviors.
Unrelated but I like that you post videos more closely to when they were filmed now. I totally respect how organized you are and how much you plan ahead (sometimes out of necessity for brands), but it’s nice seeing stuff that’s still pretty up-to-date 😊
Here is something that me and my husband came up with that maybe it might help with the would you do that relationship over again question.....we figured out that what we went through with those people in those relationships helped prepare us for the right relationship. Now is ours perfect, oh heck no. There are things about one another that drives the other crazy and with my health issues, it has added a lot of stress to our marriage. But, he is a good man and I know he loves us (me and our daughter) and there are not so nice people out there. So just remember, as rough as it might have been with your ex, that has prepared you for your future mate and how to handle that relationship differently. Much love
My mother told me when I was a teenager that waiting to have sex until I'm married is not realistic at this time in germany where I live but sex has an impact on you and power so to be careful with it and not give it lightly and I really like that advice😊 love this honest q&a Michel!
I’m so dang proud of you Michel! If I had a daughter, I’d want her to grow up to be just like you🥰 And don’t ever forget, infidelity is a reflection of the unfaithful one, not you! More than likely, history will repeat itself. I always look forward to your time with us! Super thankful for you🙏🏻💞
Something I really am interested in seeing in your content is money talk! I miss when you did those. I’d love to know the actual numbers of divorce and what Austin bills are like. How much do you budget now that you’re single? What’s a good budget for a single person? I’m so curious!! 😫
Also, the diva cup (or any cup in general) is life changing. I literally forget I’m on my period. I just empty it once a day in the shower! So much cleaner/more sanitary than tampon strings or pads in my opinion. Definitely recommend trying.
I loved this! I'm quite a bit older than you (49) but really enjoy your videos. Most of your topics in this one were about things far behind me now but you're so engaging that I stuck around anyway, lol. Reminds me of the girl chats I used to have with my gf's. You're a strong, smart and beautiful young woman and I truly believe that your best life started the day you made that trip back to Texas. Btw.... just got my order of Seed in the mail today because of your recommendations. Have been looking for a good probiotic and an excited to get started with it.
I agree, follow your gut! The best thing I did was call off my first engagement, it was also the hardest thing I ever did. Just know you don't have to explain your feelings to anyone! I also agree with saying "my ex" That is still how I refer to my ex-fiance, for very similar reasons.
I think you hinted at being cheated on by your ex and I just wanted to say that I LOVE you and that you do not deserve that. Getting “over” something like that takes time. You are grieving as well as feeling betrayed. Girly, you’re doing what you can. You’re doing your best. And we all support you. One day, God will bless you with the most perfect partner to satisfy every need and wish and desire you’ve had and fill every hole that your last relationships have left. In the meantime, I am so proud of you for finding fulfillment in yourself. You’ve got this!
I, speaking for self, found it more helpful to healing from a broken relationship to make a clean break from people that are related or friends with my ex….. it hurts to have to lose friends in the process but for me it just kept reopening the old “chapter “ every time I would see them.
I'm a diva cup user and would recommend them forever! Its a steep learning curve and you have to get familiar with your body but I find my period is a lot more manageable, less crampy. Also trim the stem on a diva cup! They make them long so they fit the most people, but they don't fit everyone and its 100% okay to trim the stem.
Hey. I just found your channel from your video talking about your divorce (I'm a recently-divorced Christian) and this is my second video of yours I'm watching. I subscribed right away and wish we could be "physical" friends as well as "virtual" friends because I love your demeanor 😊 God bless you, sister! All the best to both of us in our healing journey
You don’t talk to much! I love watching all of your videos :) I’m newly married and in a different life stage compared to you, but I love just watching you heal and grow and be true!
I loved my diva cup (currently pregnant so haven’t touched mine in months) When you’re comfortable, definitely try it and please let us know your thoughts! It saves so much money and unnecessary waste for our planet! Love your channel!
Love menstrual cups! They are a lot more comfortable than tampons, but are a bit messier so it's good for home use as you get started. They hold a lot more so you don't need to change as often! Also great for light days because you can just keep it in for 12 hours. I have used the Diva and June cup and prefer the June cup shape.
How does this work for young teens that have started their cycle? Any advice for someone who has never used a cup before? I had a full hysterectomy a few years ago and prior to that just used tampons but it seems like there are so many other options available now! I’m trying to help out my 12 yo daughter that been having her cycles a few months ago.
@@aliciamartens125 It just takes practice! You can put it in even without having your period (it could be a bit more challenging because it might be drier down there) so you're ready to go when it comes. And in my opinion, after a few months it gets to be a lot more natural.
The question was from someone else. She’s never came out and said it specifically that I have heard, but she has kinda talked around it to where you can put it together. I know she’s avoided coming out and just telling the story trying to be respectful to every one it involves and herself. But , it is part of the reason, I believe, she is trying to avoid some social media.
For menstrual cup, 10/10 recommend them! I absolutely love mine. It is very hands on and there is a trial and error associated with it with the size and brand etc. But it’s awesome just using it and not having to worry about it until shower time. Definitely look into it.
Reusable pads are actually super comfy! I totally recommend. Yeah, you gotta ring them out with water after but it’s comfier than a normal pad and then you just throw them in the wash. I just got mine on Amazon.
I have been using a cup for years and really enjoy it! I have a Diva Cup and the June cup both are great, and I like the June cup better. The first couple of months are a learning curve as you get used to inserting and taking it out. It's so easy. I would definitely recommend having two for when you're out in public and have to change the cup. You can wear it for hours and not worry about leaks if you have a good seal. Always break the seal before taking out the cup. If you don't, it's harder.
New subscriber from Mexico! Just found you yesterday and been binged watching your videos. Really enjoyed them. Not trying to be disrespectful but you seem much more happier and light and free in your videos after your divorce.
The Diva Cup is AMAZING! I am NEVER going back to pads or tampons. It was a hard adjustment (maybe just me), on how to insert/take out but once you get it down, its so worth it. It doesnt smell and I typically take out/put in every shower! I shower everyday and I know this might be different depending on your flow. I cant STOP raving about a mensural cup! To clean, I boil in hot water every month :) I hope this helps SOMEONE!!
I don’t comment much but I’ve been following since you lived in the studio apartment and posted videos about wedding planning (which really helped me so thank you). But I appreciate your ability to be transparent about your experiences and emotions and being able to voice them so eloquently!! Also I have been using menstrual cups for years now and precious star vlogs was so helpful! She has multiple reviews on different brands of menstrual cups. I will usually keep it in for up to 12 hours since it is made on silicone and will not cause toxic shock syndrome. Just needs to be boiled in hot water to be disinfected. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!!
I have loved watching your videos for a while now but I am loving watching you in this new season of your life. I can see such a change in you and really feel that you are blooming and seem much more comfortable in your skin ❤ thank uou for putting so much hard work into your channel and sharing so much fab content with us x
I have been LOVING these chatty videos. You have seemed to really change for the better these past few, difficult months and as a random stranger on the internet I just want to say how proud I am of you, and that you should be EXTREMELY proud of yourself. I love that you’ve felt empowered doing everything you’ve been doing alone. And I love your chattiness, I’m the same way so I totally vibe with your answers to these and when you start rapid fire I’m like noooo tell me more 😂😂. You’re such an inspiration.
I love how you talk about pads and tampons. And I agree with you about the marriage stuff and moving in with a partner. It’s important to have the tough conversations early on.
For a future video: are there any specific questions you wished you asked in engagement with your ex? I feel like I'm on cloud nine with how well we fit together in values and faith, but I don't want to be foolish in assuming every day is going to be easy. We both want to set ourselves up for a solid newlywed life.
I love these chatty girl vlogs! Gives me a sense of girl time I don't really get being a texas country girl living in an Itty bitty town. Thanks for the time you spend with us! As soon as a video pops up I get excited and it's like getting a video message from a friend I've known personally. Thanks for being so real and being a friend 🤗
I cannot recommend the Flex Disc enough !!! It’s so amazing and comfortable. Look into how it’s different from the menstrual cups too. I’ve learned so much about my body from it, it’s really cool. Lol I sound like an ad, but I seriously cannot recommend it enough.
I’ve been using my diva cup for the last six months and I love it never going back to pads or tampons. It literally for me feels like I’m not even on my period. Game changer…
I love these videos. Thank you! For period products, I have been loving my Thinx underwear! I started using them about 8 months ago and can't imagine going back!
I’ve always wondered this about period underwear so hopefully this isn’t too TMI to answer: do you have to do laundry everyday when you’re on your period then? I would love to try to period underwear but worried it could get kinda gross unless I wash it right away?
@@2cwn2 I try to wash mine soonish but they can go a few days before washing (they’re really absorbent and sort of dry out once you take them off). I think rinsing them out after wearing is a good middle ground between having to do laundry every day.
I love my diva cup and just started venturing to menstrual disks! It’s a learning curve but I love it! I don’t have to think about my period like all day!
@@Iris-gy2mi it’s amazing, if tried it only 2x, as I had 2 disposable ones that came with my saalt cup! They have reusable ones too that I’m going to buy. Harder to put in and tell if it’s in correct, but empties itself when you pee, so you can wear it all day!
You are seriously the cutest person I’ve ever seen! So sweet and thoughtful, I’m sorry you’ve gone through what you have, but you’re very strong and I can see that God is taking your mess and turning it into a message.
The first two weeks of my marriage were wonderful. Long walks, holding hands, Berry picking...wild black berries. Cuddles and love. Then it all came to a screeching hault. Imagine being told to sit in a kitchen chair, not allowed to get up or speak...while he rants and raves, on and on about everything under the sun. From 4pm often until 4am...yelling, shouting calling you every dirty name he can think of. Mind you I grew up in the Christian faith, both parents loving christians, my first real relationship with a man, giving my heart to God at the tender age of 9...and spending my life growing in the Lord. Yup met him in church. Becoming sick after 3 months...with the worst case of herpies they ( the doctors ever saw). Having him leave me in the hospital...yes on returning home he would not let me in. It was awful...heartbreaking and oh so painful. I had to stuff my mouth with a hand towel to muffle the screams, when using the bathroom. Yes he gave it to me on purpose..so no other man would ever want me. Gals 2 years is not enough to know the man your going to marry. He hid so much...that if I had known I would never in a million years, have married him. And that is just the tip of the iceburg. When in doubt don't do it! I should have paid attention to my doubts. Oh the windows were also covered at all times...not allowed to look out as I might lust after some other man...back at home recuperating. I stood at the window, watching it rain. Tears flowing because it was so good to see outside. Sigh!
I switched to menstrual cups years ago, and will never ever ever go back! I’m always recommending them. I’ve tried the diva cup and the dot cup. I liked both, but I prefer the dot cup - slightly less rigid, black in color, so it doesn’t stain, a solid stem (easier to clean), the *cutest* bag, and the company donates cups to women in need. Cups are just the best - better for the environment, better for your wallet, more comfortable, no smell, and you don’t need to change them nearly as often as disposable products. I change mine morning and night.
Those pads are LIFE. I started my period probably a decade ago while traveling, ran into a drug store and grabbed them- and haven't looked back since. Now they offer chlorine-free, pure cotton ones. I supplement with period panties and reusable overnight pads, but those are still definitely my go-to when on the road.
Thanks for the video! You mentioned knowing that you'll have to deal with not feeling loved, or "touched," or respected in a future relationship, but I hope you have the opposite experience, and have a happy relationship that doesn't force you to compromise your self-esteem and self worth. No one should have to do that. You're doing a great job keeping your chin up! :) Good luck! 🍀
I agree with sitting down and discussing pet peeves. Before we got engaged my husband and I sat down and had a list of things that typically cause break ups and discussed all of them. Things like money, pets, kids, housing, etc. Got all of it out in the open before things got too serious. Also, I love my menstrual cups! It took a bit to find one I like, but once I found it I was in love. I don't even mind getting my period as much anymore. Diva, Cora, and Flex cups are easy to find at Target and it definitely saves me money every month.
Love you and how real and authentic you are with your chats. I think you do an amazing job and I usually feel like I learned about something new, be it about a product or a life lesson. Keep rockin it girl!
I'm a huge fan of menstrual cups! The best one for my body shape is one of the ogs, the diva cup. The more rigid material is easier for me to manage. Definitely a learning curve though so I'd be prepared for leaks when first starting!
I've had a diva cup for four years now, and could never see me going back to traditional pads/tampons. I will say, the first two months I wore back up protection as it is a learning curve to get the right angle & fit. (You also have to be pretty comfortable with your body). No major leaks, but some minor ones. However, since the learning period (haha punny) it is so convenient and I honestly don't even know it's there. It is not messy, as you would think. I don't have to worry if I don't have additional feminine products when I'm going to be out for a long day,. The fact that it can stay in for up to 12 hours is a game changer. Clean it in the morning clean it at night. Plus the amount I've saved on pads and tampons, not to mention how clean my purse is also nice.
This video was so helpful! I wish I was able to ask a question before this came out. My favorite nipple covers: Skims Nippies Favorite reusable period products: SALT menstrual cup + THINX reusable underwear The menstrual cup has a learning curve, but having the reusable underwear catches any leaks for peace of mind. I feel good not having to use any disposable period products. And the menstrual cup can last up to 12 hours, so I only need to change it once in the morning and once before bed. Truly LIFE CHANGING! I highly recommend! I can never go back to tampons and pads.
I think this is been one of my favorite vlogs. I love your genuinity and your authenticity and the fact that you feel comfortable enough to be vulnerable with us. Love you girl!
I just want to say you’re glowing in this video. I’ve been following your channel for awhile and have always enjoyed your vlogs. You give such loving and supportive advice and have such a patient and grounded energy that has always gravitated me towards your videos. Please keep making content because I(and probably other people in the community) look up to you like a big sister:)
Thank you for sharing your experiences and your story, especially as a young Christian woman, because you absolutely are helping others. You help people feel not alone and that is so important! You 👏🏼 go 👏🏼 girl! On another note, not a fan of reusable pads, menstrual cups are pretty great, but I’ve enjoyed Thinx period pantries the most!
I love these types of videos! I do a lot of driving for work so it's really nice to listen to. Also, I love mighty patches! They work really well for me!
About the period product question, I have tried both the diva cup and the flex disc. I love the flex discs so much because they last up to 12 hrs. & I personally find it more comfortable than a cup. Also you have to wash the diva cup where as the discs are not reusable. As a person who gets lazy cleaning the cup every month I learned it’s easier for me to use a disc and keep myself healthy!
Thank you for talking about these topics. I loved the lighting, felt like sitting next to a best friend 🥰 thank you reminding me of the value to follow my own gut. I love my menstrual cup, used it for over ten years. It takes a few cycles to get used to but it was completely worth it. Don’t apologize for talking a lot, I’m talking right back at you but you can’t hear me 😍🌺 I appreciate you very very much ♥️
You should try reusable menstrual products if you are curious! Once you do, you probably won’t go back to disposables. The menstrual cup has a small learning curve but is a total period game changer!! I switched to reusables 10 years ago and I will never go back!
These chats are my favorite! Love openness like this 🤗🥰 never would’ve known it was a rainy day, you always do such a good job with your lighting Michel! Girllllll such a good tip on not boxing yourself into a style type. Haha and totally agree on the pet peeve suggestion - however, know that new pet peeves may develop over time as we grow and get more comfy with whomever we live with 😂 these can end up being quite different than pet peeves with family members or friends lol communication is key for sure! Love your outlook on cosmetic surgeries/enhancements, couldn’t agree more! At this rate I don’t think you’ll ever need Botox lol your skin is flawless (and wrinkleless lol) 🥰 Could you please share more skincare tips in upcoming vlogs?! 😫🙏 25 hit and my fine lines are setting in 😭🤣
I love my menstrual cup, it's so great to not have to worry about changing a pad or tampon every few hours. They do come with a slight learning curve and it took me 4 different ones to find one that fit me. The salt cup is by far my favorite.
I love my Diva Cup!! I try to convince all my girl friends to change to it. It does take a bit of getting used to just with things being a little more “hands on” but it truly is life changing once you get used to it! I will never go back to pads and tampons! Also I have some medical conditions that cause a pretty heavy flow and I’ve never had a leak. Truly the diva cup is AMAZING!
I am so thankful for you! I hope you know how much you really mean to your UA-cam family. I know we’ve never met but I always feel like you are just sitting talking to your best friend.
I just love your vlogs. I turn them on and get ready for the day. They bring me joy. Thank you... you are truely amazing . I would love to hear more about struggles in your past and what has helped you over come them.
I tried a Saalt menstrual cup a few years ago and got absolutely hooked. Before then I was an only tampons girl but since I got my Saalt I haven’t gone back. You can wear it for up to 12 hours and for me it minimizes my cramps a lot. There is a bit of a learning curve with it but it is so worth it plus they can last up to 10 years if properly cared for.
Hey all, just a note that Midol is literally only extra strength Tylenol and a mild diuretic to make you pee so you don’t bloat. Midol can be expensive, but you can literally just use a generic Tylenol!
I have used a pixie cup, reusable menstrual cup, for the past two years. It is my favorite product for this time. Tampons make my cramps a bit worse, cup does not. I also only need to change it every 12 hours so I can go all day at work without having to interface with it, I find that so so worth it!
Hands down, Soft Cup is the most comfortable menstrual cup I’ve tried (and I’ve tried several). You should also check out Lululemon’s underwear selection! 💕
I’m a 78 year old woman that loves your channel. I have a granddaughter around your age, I think it helps me connect with her on a wonderful level. Thank you. You are a very remarkable young woman.
This warms my heart 🤍 so thankful for you!
why is this so sweet? 💙 i'm literally melting right now 💙
I am a 70 year old who also enjoys your channel! You have handled all this very respectfully to yourself and your ex. It’s good to see you moving on but remember it’s ok to have tough times, too.
Awww...Linda...this is the sweetest comment & totally agree. I am 71 and love Michel too. I don't have any grandkids...but think she gives awesome advice. You & I didn't have social media when we were young...I know it can be bad. However, people like Michel make is so fun & helpful.
I'm also in my mid 70's and was born with Celiac! They actually knew what it was even back when. GF foods were nearly non existent. I found you on a search for Celiac. As a bonus to finding your channel you have your degree in nutrition. You are a delight. My granddaughters are close in age to you! Your topics, style, and genuine instilled values appeal to a wide range of ages!
Wanted to let you know that all this work you’re putting into UA-cam isn’t being unnoticed. We’re loving it!
Well said! 😀
This means SO MUCH🥺🥺🥺
#truth
Yessss!
Yess! Absolutely this!
I hope this doesn’t come out wrong because I mean it in the best way…I have noticed since your divorce you seem lighter, freer, more open, more genuine and like you’re finally being yourself. I can’t put my finger on it exactly but it’s awesome to see.
That's what happens when you free yourself from the wrong person :) You begin to become your true and complete self. This is the reason why it is important to be careful about who you choose to be with
Totally agree, she seems more real and I love the person she is becoming
I agree! She really seems like she's thriving!
I feel like I don’t have enough girlfriends so I’m loving these girl chat videos! So nice to have these important discussions with such a good community of people. Thank you Michel, love from Canada 💕
Same here!!!
I’m so glad we get to be virtual girlfriends 🥺🥰
I’m glad I’m not alone on this. After I got married, I drifted apart from my girl friends. Michel feels like a friend now that I watch all her videos 🥺
I feel the exact same!!
same here!! anti social/awkward girl crew here haha 🙋🏼♀️ i feel like this channel brings a community of women together. it’s hard to find healthy friendships these days and this channel seems like such a safe place to share ideas, learn frm and support each other 💖
To the person with the cheated on question - If he'll do it with her, he'll do it to her. Move on and focus on something else, you can't change him and you can't help her. Focus on your own happiness.
#Facts
I agree. I quickly got to the point where I was very grateful that he chose her over me and got out of my life. I was unable, or perhaps unwilling, to see the real him and, to my detriment, I would have stayed if it had been my choice. So they did me a favor.
This is super helpful to keep in mind 🤍
Cheating really reflects on the cheater, not the faithful partner. If he cheats on you, he will cheat on anyone. He does not understand the strength of loyalty or the value of saving himself for his partner. He doesn't understand how his intense betrayal cuts worse than a knife. It sounds too simplistic, but he really doesn't deserve you. He did you a favor by showing his true self. Remind yourself that you deserve to be loved and cherished Beyond All Else (BAE) and don't settle for less.
Michel you have such a gentle soul absolutely blown away how you handle day to day situations and then do a well done Q&A. YOU HAVE SUCH AN UNBELIEVABLE STRENGTH SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!
AWE LESLIE! Thank you sweet friend 🥰
For anyone reading this, in response to voicing concerns about a friend’s partner, let me share my advice as someone who was in an abusive marriage (and had no red flag warnings from anyone before the marriage): I wish someone would have said something to me if they had suspicions or concerning observations about my spouse. Since I was being gaslit about my experiences, if someone outside the relationship had said something to me, it likely would have helped me regain some much needed perspective and felt less alone. So while I know the fear of offending a friend is a real one, you also might just be giving them a bit of hope and support that you didn’t even know they truly needed. Best wishes to all. ❤️🙏🏻
I can see you getting more brave and open every video. Thank you for trusting us ❤️
Thank you for allowing me to be open🥰
Hello Beautiful Michel! I’m seeing all of the comments from older women and it warms my heart! I’m 68 and have just fallen in love with you. I have a daughter in her 40s and a daughter in her 30s and you remind me so much of them. You are just precious. I know your parents are proud of the you.
As someone who has been stuck in a not so pleasant marriage for 50 years, I appreciate that you’ve given hope to many young women and even men that you can’t always stay in a situation. You’ve been an amazing example of starting over and it can be done. You show so much grace and dignity.
I appreciate your “older” followers!! They’ve given me the courage to comment. I’ve wanted to comment before but I thought, “what does a 68 year old woman have to offer a beautiful young lady like Michel”. From now on I’ll be willing to just offer support and a great big thank you for your videos!!
Be blessed my Dear!!
For the life of me I cannot see how anyone would let you go.... just sayin. You are so mature, honest and totally precious
Agreed!
I have a lot of room to grow, but this means a lot 🥰
Been saying this since she announced the split. I just don't get it- she's such a genuine sweetheart.
Going thru a breakup and every time I’m starting to have a meltdown being home alone, I put on one of your videos. You feel like a friend who understands me. Thank you!
It will all be okay you are beautiful and strong ❤️💜
I turned your Channel onto my 28 yr old daughter who is currently going through a tough breakup with her boyfriend of 5yrs. Moving her into a new place, etc. You have been a Godsend. Thank you so much for your content, personality and you!
As for the cold feet, advice that really helped me navigate friendships is "who benefits from your benefit of the doubt? Others do. By doubting yourself you are choosing others over your intuition." This has helped me see things as face value and not make excuses for others' behaviors.
Love this, Daisy! So true. Going to use this advice if you don’t mind;)
@@YentlLega please do! Hopefully it helps you just as much as it is helping me (:
@@daisyzara Thank You 🙏❤️
Oh, NICE. I'm saving this quote.
OH THIS IS SO WISE. I love this
Unrelated but I like that you post videos more closely to when they were filmed now. I totally respect how organized you are and how much you plan ahead (sometimes out of necessity for brands), but it’s nice seeing stuff that’s still pretty up-to-date 😊
You DO NOT talk "too much". You are lovely, and you DESERVE to be heard.
Wow you are so articulate and wise for someone in their early 20s. Love your videos.
Here is something that me and my husband came up with that maybe it might help with the would you do that relationship over again question.....we figured out that what we went through with those people in those relationships helped prepare us for the right relationship. Now is ours perfect, oh heck no. There are things about one another that drives the other crazy and with my health issues, it has added a lot of stress to our marriage. But, he is a good man and I know he loves us (me and our daughter) and there are not so nice people out there. So just remember, as rough as it might have been with your ex, that has prepared you for your future mate and how to handle that relationship differently. Much love
My mother told me when I was a teenager that waiting to have sex until I'm married is not realistic at this time in germany where I live but sex has an impact on you and power so to be careful with it and not give it lightly and I really like that advice😊 love this honest q&a Michel!
Please wait, you are worthy!
this is really great advice. do what's right for you!!! ps. Having sex or waiting to have sex has nothing to do with your "worthiness" lol 😆
WAIT the midol commercial!!! that is so awesome 😂🤍
My peak 😂😂😂
I’m so dang proud of you Michel! If I had a daughter, I’d want her to grow up to be just like you🥰 And don’t ever forget, infidelity is a reflection of the unfaithful one, not you! More than likely, history will repeat itself. I always look forward to your time with us! Super thankful for you🙏🏻💞
Something I really am interested in seeing in your content is money talk! I miss when you did those. I’d love to know the actual numbers of divorce and what Austin bills are like. How much do you budget now that you’re single? What’s a good budget for a single person? I’m so curious!! 😫
I just want to say I really appreciate how open you’re being during this process - it’s beautiful, brave, and encouraging
Also, the diva cup (or any cup in general) is life changing. I literally forget I’m on my period. I just empty it once a day in the shower! So much cleaner/more sanitary than tampon strings or pads in my opinion. Definitely recommend trying.
I loved this! I'm quite a bit older than you (49) but really enjoy your videos. Most of your topics in this one were about things far behind me now but you're so engaging that I stuck around anyway, lol. Reminds me of the girl chats I used to have with my gf's. You're a strong, smart and beautiful young woman and I truly believe that your best life started the day you made that trip back to Texas. Btw.... just got my order of Seed in the mail today because of your recommendations. Have been looking for a good probiotic and an excited to get started with it.
You don’t talk too much! This was over with too quickly! Thank you for being so open and authentic. It is refreshing and so needed! 💗
I agree, follow your gut! The best thing I did was call off my first engagement, it was also the hardest thing I ever did. Just know you don't have to explain your feelings to anyone! I also agree with saying "my ex" That is still how I refer to my ex-fiance, for very similar reasons.
You are so strong, and I admire that 🤍
I think you hinted at being cheated on by your ex and I just wanted to say that I LOVE you and that you do not deserve that. Getting “over” something like that takes time. You are grieving as well as feeling betrayed. Girly, you’re doing what you can. You’re doing your best. And we all support you. One day, God will bless you with the most perfect partner to satisfy every need and wish and desire you’ve had and fill every hole that your last relationships have left. In the meantime, I am so proud of you for finding fulfillment in yourself. You’ve got this!
I, speaking for self, found it more helpful to healing from a broken relationship to make a clean break from people that are related or friends with my ex….. it hurts to have to lose friends in the process but for me it just kept reopening the old “chapter “ every time I would see them.
I'm a diva cup user and would recommend them forever! Its a steep learning curve and you have to get familiar with your body but I find my period is a lot more manageable, less crampy. Also trim the stem on a diva cup! They make them long so they fit the most people, but they don't fit everyone and its 100% okay to trim the stem.
You are such a kind person. Many blessings sent your way and never underestimate the beautiful person you are.
Hey. I just found your channel from your video talking about your divorce (I'm a recently-divorced Christian) and this is my second video of yours I'm watching. I subscribed right away and wish we could be "physical" friends as well as "virtual" friends because I love your demeanor 😊 God bless you, sister! All the best to both of us in our healing journey
You don’t talk to much! I love watching all of your videos :) I’m newly married and in a different life stage compared to you, but I love just watching you heal and grow and be true!
I loved my diva cup (currently pregnant so haven’t touched mine in months) When you’re comfortable, definitely try it and please let us know your thoughts! It saves so much money and unnecessary waste for our planet! Love your channel!
Love menstrual cups! They are a lot more comfortable than tampons, but are a bit messier so it's good for home use as you get started. They hold a lot more so you don't need to change as often! Also great for light days because you can just keep it in for 12 hours. I have used the Diva and June cup and prefer the June cup shape.
So many good reviews!!!! I think I really need to try!
@@MichelJanse I've used cups for the last 6 years, while being natural and comfortable is nice, it has drastically lessened my cramps each month!
Loved the menstrual cup but I had to stop using it. It suctioned my iud out!! My obgyn said not to use it anymore.
How does this work for young teens that have started their cycle? Any advice for someone who has never used a cup before?
I had a full hysterectomy a few years ago and prior to that just used tampons but it seems like there are so many other options available now! I’m trying to help out my 12 yo daughter that been having her cycles a few months ago.
@@aliciamartens125 It just takes practice! You can put it in even without having your period (it could be a bit more challenging because it might be drier down there) so you're ready to go when it comes. And in my opinion, after a few months it gets to be a lot more natural.
Love sit down chats! Like my bestie is spilling all the ☕️ haha!
Agree!
I reallyyyyy love to film them, it feels so nice to just chat from the heart!
I had no idea that your ex is with someone else, I felt immediately sick physically to hear that! I am so sorry for that pain you have gone through!
Did she say that, or was that a question from someone else?
The question was from someone else. She’s never came out and said it specifically that I have heard, but she has kinda talked around it to where
you can put it together. I know she’s avoided coming out and just telling the story trying to be respectful to every one it involves and herself. But , it is part of the reason, I believe, she is trying to avoid some social media.
Hmmm maybe I misunderstood? Thanks
@@kennaharrison603 No, you didn't. He definitely is with someone else 😅
For menstrual cup, 10/10 recommend them! I absolutely love mine. It is very hands on and there is a trial and error associated with it with the size and brand etc. But it’s awesome just using it and not having to worry about it until shower time. Definitely look into it.
Reusable pads are actually super comfy! I totally recommend. Yeah, you gotta ring them out with water after but it’s comfier than a normal pad and then you just throw them in the wash. I just got mine on Amazon.
You should do a video of your decorating methods and tips. I appreciate your decor in all your content so much.
I have been using a cup for years and really enjoy it! I have a Diva Cup and the June cup both are great, and I like the June cup better. The first couple of months are a learning curve as you get used to inserting and taking it out. It's so easy. I would definitely recommend having two for when you're out in public and have to change the cup. You can wear it for hours and not worry about leaks if you have a good seal. Always break the seal before taking out the cup. If you don't, it's harder.
New subscriber from Mexico! Just found you yesterday and been binged watching your videos. Really enjoyed them. Not trying to be disrespectful but you seem much more happier and light and free in your videos after your divorce.
The Diva Cup is AMAZING! I am NEVER going back to pads or tampons. It was a hard adjustment (maybe just me), on how to insert/take out but once you get it down, its so worth it.
It doesnt smell and I typically take out/put in every shower! I shower everyday and I know this might be different depending on your flow. I cant STOP raving about a mensural cup! To clean, I boil in hot water every month :) I hope this helps SOMEONE!!
Thank you Michel for supporting others so selflessly while at the same time being an example for self care. You are so strong.
I don’t comment much but I’ve been following since you lived in the studio apartment and posted videos about wedding planning (which really helped me so thank you). But I appreciate your ability to be transparent about your experiences and emotions and being able to voice them so eloquently!!
Also I have been using menstrual cups for years now and precious star vlogs was so helpful! She has multiple reviews on different brands of menstrual cups. I will usually keep it in for up to 12 hours since it is made on silicone and will not cause toxic shock syndrome. Just needs to be boiled in hot water to be disinfected. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!!
I have loved watching your videos for a while now but I am loving watching you in this new season of your life. I can see such a change in you and really feel that you are blooming and seem much more comfortable in your skin ❤ thank uou for putting so much hard work into your channel and sharing so much fab content with us x
I have been LOVING these chatty videos. You have seemed to really change for the better these past few, difficult months and as a random stranger on the internet I just want to say how proud I am of you, and that you should be EXTREMELY proud of yourself. I love that you’ve felt empowered doing everything you’ve been doing alone. And I love your chattiness, I’m the same way so I totally vibe with your answers to these and when you start rapid fire I’m like noooo tell me more 😂😂. You’re such an inspiration.
I love how you talk about pads and tampons. And I agree with you about the marriage stuff and moving in with a partner. It’s important to have the tough conversations early on.
Ive seen such a difference in you in these videos post divorce! I can see you growing so much 💕
For a future video: are there any specific questions you wished you asked in engagement with your ex? I feel like I'm on cloud nine with how well we fit together in values and faith, but I don't want to be foolish in assuming every day is going to be easy. We both want to set ourselves up for a solid newlywed life.
That sounds like a very helpful video topic!
I love these chatty girl vlogs! Gives me a sense of girl time I don't really get being a texas country girl living in an Itty bitty town. Thanks for the time you spend with us! As soon as a video pops up I get excited and it's like getting a video message from a friend I've known personally. Thanks for being so real and being a friend 🤗
This video could have been an hour long and I still would want more. Your voice is soothing and you are truly an inspiration. Sending much love
liking before even watching, I just trust and love Michel's content that much 💜
The book “How to Not Fall In Love With a Jerk”. Absolute must read. It can help all of us understand what are and aren’t red flags.
I will need to check this out for my 21 year old daughter!
I cannot recommend the Flex Disc enough !!! It’s so amazing and comfortable. Look into how it’s different from the menstrual cups too. I’ve learned so much about my body from it, it’s really cool. Lol I sound like an ad, but I seriously cannot recommend it enough.
I’ve been using my diva cup for the last six months and I love it never going back to pads or tampons. It literally for me feels like I’m not even on my period. Game changer…
Stopping birth control pill was the best thing I ever did for my hormones. I am so much more in tune with my body now.
I agree!
Sometimes I wonder how physicians allow birth control 🤔
@@saramartinez103 💸💸💸💸
I love these videos. Thank you! For period products, I have been loving my Thinx underwear! I started using them about 8 months ago and can't imagine going back!
I’ve always wondered this about period underwear so hopefully this isn’t too TMI to answer: do you have to do laundry everyday when you’re on your period then? I would love to try to period underwear but worried it could get kinda gross unless I wash it right away?
@@2cwn2 I try to wash mine soonish but they can go a few days before washing (they’re really absorbent and sort of dry out once you take them off). I think rinsing them out after wearing is a good middle ground between having to do laundry every day.
@@margiehislop7812 very helpful, thank you!!
@@2cwn2 I typically rinse mine in the sink and then throw in the washer for whenever I run it next. I tend to do laundry every 2ish days normally.
@@sammerg22 thank you! I’m going to try Thinx!
I love my diva cup and just started venturing to menstrual disks! It’s a learning curve but I love it! I don’t have to think about my period like all day!
Tell me about menstrual disks! I love my diva cup but I have to empty it frequently the first couple days cause I have a heavy flow.
@@Iris-gy2mi it’s amazing, if tried it only 2x, as I had 2 disposable ones that came with my saalt cup! They have reusable ones too that I’m going to buy. Harder to put in and tell if it’s in correct, but empties itself when you pee, so you can wear it all day!
@@Iris-gy2mi actually think the brand was cora, not saalt 😊
You are seriously the cutest person I’ve ever seen! So sweet and thoughtful, I’m sorry you’ve gone through what you have, but you’re very strong and I can see that God is taking your mess and turning it into a message.
The first two weeks of my marriage were wonderful. Long walks, holding hands, Berry picking...wild black berries. Cuddles and love. Then it all came to a screeching hault. Imagine being told to sit in a kitchen chair, not allowed to get up or speak...while he rants and raves, on and on about everything under the sun. From 4pm often until 4am...yelling, shouting calling you every dirty name he can think of. Mind you I grew up in the Christian faith, both parents loving christians, my first real relationship with a man, giving my heart to God at the tender age of 9...and spending my life growing in the Lord. Yup met him in church. Becoming sick after 3 months...with the worst case of herpies they ( the doctors ever saw). Having him leave me in the hospital...yes on returning home he would not let me in. It was awful...heartbreaking and oh so painful. I had to stuff my mouth with a hand towel to muffle the screams, when using the bathroom. Yes he gave it to me on purpose..so no other man would ever want me. Gals 2 years is not enough to know the man your going to marry. He hid so much...that if I had known I would never in a million years, have married him. And that is just the tip of the iceburg. When in doubt don't do it! I should have paid attention to my doubts. Oh the windows were also covered at all times...not allowed to look out as I might lust after some other man...back at home recuperating. I stood at the window, watching it rain. Tears flowing because it was so good to see outside. Sigh!
Hope you are now in a better spot in life!And that you have love in your life..Wow..
I switched to menstrual cups years ago, and will never ever ever go back! I’m always recommending them. I’ve tried the diva cup and the dot cup. I liked both, but I prefer the dot cup - slightly less rigid, black in color, so it doesn’t stain, a solid stem (easier to clean), the *cutest* bag, and the company donates cups to women in need.
Cups are just the best - better for the environment, better for your wallet, more comfortable, no smell, and you don’t need to change them nearly as often as disposable products. I change mine morning and night.
Those pads are LIFE. I started my period probably a decade ago while traveling, ran into a drug store and grabbed them- and haven't looked back since. Now they offer chlorine-free, pure cotton ones. I supplement with period panties and reusable overnight pads, but those are still definitely my go-to when on the road.
Girl I love your honesty. Your hair has grown so much btw!!!
Thanks for the video! You mentioned knowing that you'll have to deal with not feeling loved, or "touched," or respected in a future relationship, but I hope you have the opposite experience, and have a happy relationship that doesn't force you to compromise your self-esteem and self worth. No one should have to do that. You're doing a great job keeping your chin up! :) Good luck! 🍀
Michel the glow in your eyes seems to lighten up more each day 💙 just hang in there for a few more weeks 💙
I love these girl chats!
I never think you talk to much! I could listen to you more
I agree with sitting down and discussing pet peeves. Before we got engaged my husband and I sat down and had a list of things that typically cause break ups and discussed all of them. Things like money, pets, kids, housing, etc. Got all of it out in the open before things got too serious.
Also, I love my menstrual cups! It took a bit to find one I like, but once I found it I was in love. I don't even mind getting my period as much anymore. Diva, Cora, and Flex cups are easy to find at Target and it definitely saves me money every month.
Love you and how real and authentic you are with your chats. I think you do an amazing job and I usually feel like I learned about something new, be it about a product or a life lesson. Keep rockin it girl!
The best sticky bra I’ve ever used is a boob tape roll from Target! The brand is Fashion Forms, lasts all day, and is water/sweatproof.
I'm a huge fan of menstrual cups! The best one for my body shape is one of the ogs, the diva cup. The more rigid material is easier for me to manage. Definitely a learning curve though so I'd be prepared for leaks when first starting!
I've had a diva cup for four years now, and could never see me going back to traditional pads/tampons. I will say, the first two months I wore back up protection as it is a learning curve to get the right angle & fit. (You also have to be pretty comfortable with your body). No major leaks, but some minor ones. However, since the learning period (haha punny) it is so convenient and I honestly don't even know it's there. It is not messy, as you would think. I don't have to worry if I don't have additional feminine products when I'm going to be out for a long day,. The fact that it can stay in for up to 12 hours is a game changer. Clean it in the morning clean it at night. Plus the amount I've saved on pads and tampons, not to mention how clean my purse is also nice.
I loved this video!! Your genuine personality really shines through in this format ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I really like the Flex discs and their reusable menstrual cup. I just purchased my first round of Seed. So looking forward to getting then started.
Busy busy Mom of two boys this was such a nice girl talk vlog!!! Thank you so much for sharing all your time with us! 😘
This video was so helpful! I wish I was able to ask a question before this came out.
My favorite nipple covers: Skims Nippies
Favorite reusable period products: SALT menstrual cup + THINX reusable underwear
The menstrual cup has a learning curve, but having the reusable underwear catches any leaks for peace of mind. I feel good not having to use any disposable period products. And the menstrual cup can last up to 12 hours, so I only need to change it once in the morning and once before bed. Truly LIFE CHANGING! I highly recommend! I can never go back to tampons and pads.
I think this is been one of my favorite vlogs. I love your genuinity and your authenticity and the fact that you feel comfortable enough to be vulnerable with us. Love you girl!
I just want to say you’re glowing in this video. I’ve been following your channel for awhile and have always enjoyed your vlogs. You give such loving and supportive advice and have such a patient and grounded energy that has always gravitated me towards your videos. Please keep making content because I(and probably other people in the community) look up to you like a big sister:)
Thank you for sharing your experiences and your story, especially as a young Christian woman, because you absolutely are helping others. You help people feel not alone and that is so important! You 👏🏼 go 👏🏼 girl!
On another note, not a fan of reusable pads, menstrual cups are pretty great, but I’ve enjoyed Thinx period pantries the most!
You could never talk too much
Just keep talking it makes a difference in my life
And you have become my favourite UA-camr
I love these types of videos! I do a lot of driving for work so it's really nice to listen to. Also, I love mighty patches! They work really well for me!
About the period product question, I have tried both the diva cup and the flex disc. I love the flex discs so much because they last up to 12 hrs. & I personally find it more comfortable than a cup. Also you have to wash the diva cup where as the discs are not reusable. As a person who gets lazy cleaning the cup every month I learned it’s easier for me to use a disc and keep myself healthy!
Thank you for talking about these topics. I loved the lighting, felt like sitting next to a best friend 🥰 thank you reminding me of the value to follow my own gut. I love my menstrual cup, used it for over ten years. It takes a few cycles to get used to but it was completely worth it. Don’t apologize for talking a lot, I’m talking right back at you but you can’t hear me 😍🌺 I appreciate you very very much ♥️
Your segment on physical touch rang way too true. Love you.
You should try reusable menstrual products if you are curious! Once you do, you probably won’t go back to disposables. The menstrual cup has a small learning curve but is a total period game changer!! I switched to reusables 10 years ago and I will never go back!
These chats are my favorite! Love openness like this 🤗🥰 never would’ve known it was a rainy day, you always do such a good job with your lighting Michel! Girllllll such a good tip on not boxing yourself into a style type. Haha and totally agree on the pet peeve suggestion - however, know that new pet peeves may develop over time as we grow and get more comfy with whomever we live with 😂 these can end up being quite different than pet peeves with family members or friends lol communication is key for sure! Love your outlook on cosmetic surgeries/enhancements, couldn’t agree more! At this rate I don’t think you’ll ever need Botox lol your skin is flawless (and wrinkleless lol) 🥰 Could you please share more skincare tips in upcoming vlogs?! 😫🙏 25 hit and my fine lines are setting in 😭🤣
I love my menstrual cup, it's so great to not have to worry about changing a pad or tampon every few hours. They do come with a slight learning curve and it took me 4 different ones to find one that fit me. The salt cup is by far my favorite.
I just lol’d when u talked about Seeds. I just ordered them. U r a joy to watch. It’s like hanging out with a friend. 💕
I honestly love your channel so much more now. You have seriously moved to next level with your content. 😊🥰
I love my Diva Cup!! I try to convince all my girl friends to change to it. It does take a bit of getting used to just with things being a little more “hands on” but it truly is life changing once you get used to it! I will never go back to pads and tampons! Also I have some medical conditions that cause a pretty heavy flow and I’ve never had a leak. Truly the diva cup is AMAZING!
LOVE these sit down videos!! They definitely make me feel less lonely when I listen to them 😊
I feel the same I am older too and somehow I find the content so relatable. Thank you Michel, I agree with Linda, you are remarkable.
I am so thankful for you! I hope you know how much you really mean to your UA-cam family. I know we’ve never met but I always feel like you are just sitting talking to your best friend.
Your videos are literally the only thing getting me through my divorce. THANK YOU
I just love your vlogs. I turn them on and get ready for the day. They bring me joy. Thank you... you are truely amazing . I would love to hear more about struggles in your past and what has helped you over come them.
I tried a Saalt menstrual cup a few years ago and got absolutely hooked. Before then I was an only tampons girl but since I got my Saalt I haven’t gone back. You can wear it for up to 12 hours and for me it minimizes my cramps a lot. There is a bit of a learning curve with it but it is so worth it plus they can last up to 10 years if properly cared for.
Hey all, just a note that Midol is literally only extra strength Tylenol and a mild diuretic to make you pee so you don’t bloat. Midol can be expensive, but you can literally just use a generic Tylenol!
I have also found that naproxen (Aleve) can be really helpful for cramping rather than midol! But just my personal experience.
I have used a pixie cup, reusable menstrual cup, for the past two years. It is my favorite product for this time. Tampons make my cramps a bit worse, cup does not. I also only need to change it every 12 hours so I can go all day at work without having to interface with it, I find that so so worth it!
Hands down, Soft Cup is the most comfortable menstrual cup I’ve tried (and I’ve tried several). You should also check out Lululemon’s underwear selection! 💕
I get so happy when I see that you posted another video! It was hard to wait till I got home to watch! 🥰💞