GIRL CHAT Q+A - Intimacy, Birth Control, Dating, Cheating, Therapy, Plastic Surgery, Period Products
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- Опубліковано 6 лют 2022
- PHEW, y'all brought some hard hitting questions. Happy to have my gals to do life with, though. Love y'all so much.
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I’m a 78 year old woman that loves your channel. I have a granddaughter around your age, I think it helps me connect with her on a wonderful level. Thank you. You are a very remarkable young woman.
This warms my heart 🤍 so thankful for you!
why is this so sweet? 💙 i'm literally melting right now 💙
I am a 70 year old who also enjoys your channel! You have handled all this very respectfully to yourself and your ex. It’s good to see you moving on but remember it’s ok to have tough times, too.
Awww...Linda...this is the sweetest comment & totally agree. I am 71 and love Michel too. I don't have any grandkids...but think she gives awesome advice. You & I didn't have social media when we were young...I know it can be bad. However, people like Michel make is so fun & helpful.
I'm also in my mid 70's and was born with Celiac! They actually knew what it was even back when. GF foods were nearly non existent. I found you on a search for Celiac. As a bonus to finding your channel you have your degree in nutrition. You are a delight. My granddaughters are close in age to you! Your topics, style, and genuine instilled values appeal to a wide range of ages!
Wanted to let you know that all this work you’re putting into UA-cam isn’t being unnoticed. We’re loving it!
Well said! 😀
This means SO MUCH🥺🥺🥺
#truth
Yessss!
Yess! Absolutely this!
I hope this doesn’t come out wrong because I mean it in the best way…I have noticed since your divorce you seem lighter, freer, more open, more genuine and like you’re finally being yourself. I can’t put my finger on it exactly but it’s awesome to see.
That's what happens when you free yourself from the wrong person :) You begin to become your true and complete self. This is the reason why it is important to be careful about who you choose to be with
Totally agree, she seems more real and I love the person she is becoming
I agree! She really seems like she's thriving!
To the person with the cheated on question - If he'll do it with her, he'll do it to her. Move on and focus on something else, you can't change him and you can't help her. Focus on your own happiness.
#Facts
I agree. I quickly got to the point where I was very grateful that he chose her over me and got out of my life. I was unable, or perhaps unwilling, to see the real him and, to my detriment, I would have stayed if it had been my choice. So they did me a favor.
This is super helpful to keep in mind 🤍
Cheating really reflects on the cheater, not the faithful partner. If he cheats on you, he will cheat on anyone. He does not understand the strength of loyalty or the value of saving himself for his partner. He doesn't understand how his intense betrayal cuts worse than a knife. It sounds too simplistic, but he really doesn't deserve you. He did you a favor by showing his true self. Remind yourself that you deserve to be loved and cherished Beyond All Else (BAE) and don't settle for less.
Michel you have such a gentle soul absolutely blown away how you handle day to day situations and then do a well done Q&A. YOU HAVE SUCH AN UNBELIEVABLE STRENGTH SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!
AWE LESLIE! Thank you sweet friend 🥰
I feel like I don’t have enough girlfriends so I’m loving these girl chat videos! So nice to have these important discussions with such a good community of people. Thank you Michel, love from Canada 💕
Same here!!!
I’m so glad we get to be virtual girlfriends 🥺🥰
I’m glad I’m not alone on this. After I got married, I drifted apart from my girl friends. Michel feels like a friend now that I watch all her videos 🥺
I feel the exact same!!
same here!! anti social/awkward girl crew here haha 🙋🏼♀️ i feel like this channel brings a community of women together. it’s hard to find healthy friendships these days and this channel seems like such a safe place to share ideas, learn frm and support each other 💖
Hello Beautiful Michel! I’m seeing all of the comments from older women and it warms my heart! I’m 68 and have just fallen in love with you. I have a daughter in her 40s and a daughter in her 30s and you remind me so much of them. You are just precious. I know your parents are proud of the you.
As someone who has been stuck in a not so pleasant marriage for 50 years, I appreciate that you’ve given hope to many young women and even men that you can’t always stay in a situation. You’ve been an amazing example of starting over and it can be done. You show so much grace and dignity.
I appreciate your “older” followers!! They’ve given me the courage to comment. I’ve wanted to comment before but I thought, “what does a 68 year old woman have to offer a beautiful young lady like Michel”. From now on I’ll be willing to just offer support and a great big thank you for your videos!!
Be blessed my Dear!!
I turned your Channel onto my 28 yr old daughter who is currently going through a tough breakup with her boyfriend of 5yrs. Moving her into a new place, etc. You have been a Godsend. Thank you so much for your content, personality and you!
I can see you getting more brave and open every video. Thank you for trusting us ❤️
Thank you for allowing me to be open🥰
Going thru a breakup and every time I’m starting to have a meltdown being home alone, I put on one of your videos. You feel like a friend who understands me. Thank you!
It will all be okay you are beautiful and strong ❤️💜
For anyone reading this, in response to voicing concerns about a friend’s partner, let me share my advice as someone who was in an abusive marriage (and had no red flag warnings from anyone before the marriage): I wish someone would have said something to me if they had suspicions or concerning observations about my spouse. Since I was being gaslit about my experiences, if someone outside the relationship had said something to me, it likely would have helped me regain some much needed perspective and felt less alone. So while I know the fear of offending a friend is a real one, you also might just be giving them a bit of hope and support that you didn’t even know they truly needed. Best wishes to all. ❤️🙏🏻
WAIT the midol commercial!!! that is so awesome 😂🤍
My peak 😂😂😂
For the life of me I cannot see how anyone would let you go.... just sayin. You are so mature, honest and totally precious
Agreed!
I have a lot of room to grow, but this means a lot 🥰
Been saying this since she announced the split. I just don't get it- she's such a genuine sweetheart.
I completely agree, your gut tells you things your heart doesn't want to hear 💖
Absolutely, our guts are preeeetty smart
My mom always told me to follow my 'Little voice'. Every time I don't I regret!
I have loved watching your videos for a while now but I am loving watching you in this new season of your life. I can see such a change in you and really feel that you are blooming and seem much more comfortable in your skin ❤ thank uou for putting so much hard work into your channel and sharing so much fab content with us x
I loved this video!! Your genuine personality really shines through in this format ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I have been LOVING these chatty videos. You have seemed to really change for the better these past few, difficult months and as a random stranger on the internet I just want to say how proud I am of you, and that you should be EXTREMELY proud of yourself. I love that you’ve felt empowered doing everything you’ve been doing alone. And I love your chattiness, I’m the same way so I totally vibe with your answers to these and when you start rapid fire I’m like noooo tell me more 😂😂. You’re such an inspiration.
I love these chatty girl vlogs! Gives me a sense of girl time I don't really get being a texas country girl living in an Itty bitty town. Thanks for the time you spend with us! As soon as a video pops up I get excited and it's like getting a video message from a friend I've known personally. Thanks for being so real and being a friend 🤗
I just want to say you’re glowing in this video. I’ve been following your channel for awhile and have always enjoyed your vlogs. You give such loving and supportive advice and have such a patient and grounded energy that has always gravitated me towards your videos. Please keep making content because I(and probably other people in the community) look up to you like a big sister:)
Love you and how real and authentic you are with your chats. I think you do an amazing job and I usually feel like I learned about something new, be it about a product or a life lesson. Keep rockin it girl!
I just want to say I really appreciate how open you’re being during this process - it’s beautiful, brave, and encouraging
You don’t talk too much! This was over with too quickly! Thank you for being so open and authentic. It is refreshing and so needed! 💗
Thank you Michel for supporting others so selflessly while at the same time being an example for self care. You are so strong.
liking before even watching, I just trust and love Michel's content that much 💜
Girl I love your honesty. Your hair has grown so much btw!!!
Unrelated but I like that you post videos more closely to when they were filmed now. I totally respect how organized you are and how much you plan ahead (sometimes out of necessity for brands), but it’s nice seeing stuff that’s still pretty up-to-date 😊
LOVE these sit down videos!! They definitely make me feel less lonely when I listen to them 😊
I just love your vlogs. I turn them on and get ready for the day. They bring me joy. Thank you... you are truely amazing . I would love to hear more about struggles in your past and what has helped you over come them.
I love these types of videos! I do a lot of driving for work so it's really nice to listen to. Also, I love mighty patches! They work really well for me!
I honestly love your channel so much more now. You have seriously moved to next level with your content. 😊🥰
Wow you are so articulate and wise for someone in their early 20s. Love your videos.
I look so forward to your videos, Michel! I have always loved them, but you have taken them to a whole new level and it's amazing. Also, it's super helpful for me - I work from home and have zero social life currently, so I need this. haha! love you!
You are such a kind person. Many blessings sent your way and never underestimate the beautiful person you are.
You DO NOT talk "too much". You are lovely, and you DESERVE to be heard.
The book “How to Not Fall In Love With a Jerk”. Absolute must read. It can help all of us understand what are and aren’t red flags.
I will need to check this out for my 21 year old daughter!
I love these type of videos. You are honest and sharing yourself is helping others. Thank you. ❤️
Your videos are truly so amazing, thank you for being so real and authentic! ❤️
You are seriously the cutest person I’ve ever seen! So sweet and thoughtful, I’m sorry you’ve gone through what you have, but you’re very strong and I can see that God is taking your mess and turning it into a message.
I get so happy when I see that you posted another video! It was hard to wait till I got home to watch! 🥰💞
As for the cold feet, advice that really helped me navigate friendships is "who benefits from your benefit of the doubt? Others do. By doubting yourself you are choosing others over your intuition." This has helped me see things as face value and not make excuses for others' behaviors.
Love this, Daisy! So true. Going to use this advice if you don’t mind;)
@@YentlLega please do! Hopefully it helps you just as much as it is helping me (:
@@daisyzara Thank You 🙏❤️
Oh, NICE. I'm saving this quote.
OH THIS IS SO WISE. I love this
I’m so dang proud of you Michel! If I had a daughter, I’d want her to grow up to be just like you🥰 And don’t ever forget, infidelity is a reflection of the unfaithful one, not you! More than likely, history will repeat itself. I always look forward to your time with us! Super thankful for you🙏🏻💞
I loved this! I'm quite a bit older than you (49) but really enjoy your videos. Most of your topics in this one were about things far behind me now but you're so engaging that I stuck around anyway, lol. Reminds me of the girl chats I used to have with my gf's. You're a strong, smart and beautiful young woman and I truly believe that your best life started the day you made that trip back to Texas. Btw.... just got my order of Seed in the mail today because of your recommendations. Have been looking for a good probiotic and an excited to get started with it.
I agree, follow your gut! The best thing I did was call off my first engagement, it was also the hardest thing I ever did. Just know you don't have to explain your feelings to anyone! I also agree with saying "my ex" That is still how I refer to my ex-fiance, for very similar reasons.
You are so strong, and I admire that 🤍
I think this is been one of my favorite vlogs. I love your genuinity and your authenticity and the fact that you feel comfortable enough to be vulnerable with us. Love you girl!
My mother told me when I was a teenager that waiting to have sex until I'm married is not realistic at this time in germany where I live but sex has an impact on you and power so to be careful with it and not give it lightly and I really like that advice😊 love this honest q&a Michel!
Please wait, you are worthy!
this is really great advice. do what's right for you!!! ps. Having sex or waiting to have sex has nothing to do with your "worthiness" lol 😆
Thanks for the video! You mentioned knowing that you'll have to deal with not feeling loved, or "touched," or respected in a future relationship, but I hope you have the opposite experience, and have a happy relationship that doesn't force you to compromise your self-esteem and self worth. No one should have to do that. You're doing a great job keeping your chin up! :) Good luck! 🍀
you are doing such a fantasic job!! LOVING this content!!
I love how you talk about pads and tampons. And I agree with you about the marriage stuff and moving in with a partner. It’s important to have the tough conversations early on.
Also, the diva cup (or any cup in general) is life changing. I literally forget I’m on my period. I just empty it once a day in the shower! So much cleaner/more sanitary than tampon strings or pads in my opinion. Definitely recommend trying.
Your Q&A’s are the BEST!
I love these girl chats!
Ive seen such a difference in you in these videos post divorce! I can see you growing so much 💕
I love these videos! It's so nice to sit and chat with a friend 😊 💖
Busy busy Mom of two boys this was such a nice girl talk vlog!!! Thank you so much for sharing all your time with us! 😘
I loved my diva cup (currently pregnant so haven’t touched mine in months) When you’re comfortable, definitely try it and please let us know your thoughts! It saves so much money and unnecessary waste for our planet! Love your channel!
This video could have been an hour long and I still would want more. Your voice is soothing and you are truly an inspiration. Sending much love
I love how raw this video is💛
Your sit down videos are always my favorite. I click right away!!
Listening to you is like listening to my little sister and I always find myself wondering how you’re doing and how Max is doing. You’re just such a doll darlin. Sending hugs from the East Coast.
You don’t talk to much! I love watching all of your videos :) I’m newly married and in a different life stage compared to you, but I love just watching you heal and grow and be true!
I'm a diva cup user and would recommend them forever! Its a steep learning curve and you have to get familiar with your body but I find my period is a lot more manageable, less crampy. Also trim the stem on a diva cup! They make them long so they fit the most people, but they don't fit everyone and its 100% okay to trim the stem.
Love these kinds of videos 💗 Sending love your way girl
I, speaking for self, found it more helpful to healing from a broken relationship to make a clean break from people that are related or friends with my ex….. it hurts to have to lose friends in the process but for me it just kept reopening the old “chapter “ every time I would see them.
Michel, just wanted to let you know that you’re amazing🥺❤️🥺❤️love all of your videos🥰
Thank you for sharing your experiences and your story, especially as a young Christian woman, because you absolutely are helping others. You help people feel not alone and that is so important! You 👏🏼 go 👏🏼 girl!
On another note, not a fan of reusable pads, menstrual cups are pretty great, but I’ve enjoyed Thinx period pantries the most!
Something I really am interested in seeing in your content is money talk! I miss when you did those. I’d love to know the actual numbers of divorce and what Austin bills are like. How much do you budget now that you’re single? What’s a good budget for a single person? I’m so curious!! 😫
Ooooo thanks for sharing about the heating pad. I was stuck in bed for a few hours and I had so many things I needed to get done. That would have been such a good thing to have on that day. Thanks again!
Love the content you’ve been putting out lately!!
Love sit down chats! Like my bestie is spilling all the ☕️ haha!
Agree!
I reallyyyyy love to film them, it feels so nice to just chat from the heart!
You are a joy to listen to you have come a long way and it was a very difficult situation for you but I think you are handling things so well, and I can see a great future ahead for you
I have been using a cup for years and really enjoy it! I have a Diva Cup and the June cup both are great, and I like the June cup better. The first couple of months are a learning curve as you get used to inserting and taking it out. It's so easy. I would definitely recommend having two for when you're out in public and have to change the cup. You can wear it for hours and not worry about leaks if you have a good seal. Always break the seal before taking out the cup. If you don't, it's harder.
I just lol’d when u talked about Seeds. I just ordered them. U r a joy to watch. It’s like hanging out with a friend. 💕
Thank you for being honest and sharing this stage of life with us.
For menstrual cup, 10/10 recommend them! I absolutely love mine. It is very hands on and there is a trial and error associated with it with the size and brand etc. But it’s awesome just using it and not having to worry about it until shower time. Definitely look into it.
New subscriber from Mexico! Just found you yesterday and been binged watching your videos. Really enjoyed them. Not trying to be disrespectful but you seem much more happier and light and free in your videos after your divorce.
Michel the glow in your eyes seems to lighten up more each day 💙 just hang in there for a few more weeks 💙
Your segment on physical touch rang way too true. Love you.
Thank you for talking about these topics. I loved the lighting, felt like sitting next to a best friend 🥰 thank you reminding me of the value to follow my own gut. I love my menstrual cup, used it for over ten years. It takes a few cycles to get used to but it was completely worth it. Don’t apologize for talking a lot, I’m talking right back at you but you can’t hear me 😍🌺 I appreciate you very very much ♥️
As someone who has always been single, I've personally never been comfortable giving advice on relationships. But on the other side, it makes me a great listener, because I'm only there to listen, not to judge!
You’re such a sweet soul 🤍🤍🤍
Always waiting for you videos☀️💛they’re like a ray of sunshine in my day🤩💛☀️💛☀️💛☀️
My favorite kind of videos! You are so strong and brave dear!🥰
Hi Sweetheart! I love your videos so much. They really do help me to not feel alone. I remember having these feelings and so forth. I really thought, that I was the only one that could have these feelings. Also- your commercial was sooo cute!! You are a great actress. Stay at it love. “Big Hugs”
I love my Diva Cup!! I try to convince all my girl friends to change to it. It does take a bit of getting used to just with things being a little more “hands on” but it truly is life changing once you get used to it! I will never go back to pads and tampons! Also I have some medical conditions that cause a pretty heavy flow and I’ve never had a leak. Truly the diva cup is AMAZING!
The first two weeks of my marriage were wonderful. Long walks, holding hands, Berry picking...wild black berries. Cuddles and love. Then it all came to a screeching hault. Imagine being told to sit in a kitchen chair, not allowed to get up or speak...while he rants and raves, on and on about everything under the sun. From 4pm often until 4am...yelling, shouting calling you every dirty name he can think of. Mind you I grew up in the Christian faith, both parents loving christians, my first real relationship with a man, giving my heart to God at the tender age of 9...and spending my life growing in the Lord. Yup met him in church. Becoming sick after 3 months...with the worst case of herpies they ( the doctors ever saw). Having him leave me in the hospital...yes on returning home he would not let me in. It was awful...heartbreaking and oh so painful. I had to stuff my mouth with a hand towel to muffle the screams, when using the bathroom. Yes he gave it to me on purpose..so no other man would ever want me. Gals 2 years is not enough to know the man your going to marry. He hid so much...that if I had known I would never in a million years, have married him. And that is just the tip of the iceburg. When in doubt don't do it! I should have paid attention to my doubts. Oh the windows were also covered at all times...not allowed to look out as I might lust after some other man...back at home recuperating. I stood at the window, watching it rain. Tears flowing because it was so good to see outside. Sigh!
Hope you are now in a better spot in life!And that you have love in your life..Wow..
I honestly really enjoyed this video
Thanks for sharing your life and being so honest 💕
That little clip of you in the Midol ad is so cute 😊
Reusable pads are actually super comfy! I totally recommend. Yeah, you gotta ring them out with water after but it’s comfier than a normal pad and then you just throw them in the wash. I just got mine on Amazon.
I don’t comment much but I’ve been following since you lived in the studio apartment and posted videos about wedding planning (which really helped me so thank you). But I appreciate your ability to be transparent about your experiences and emotions and being able to voice them so eloquently!!
Also I have been using menstrual cups for years now and precious star vlogs was so helpful! She has multiple reviews on different brands of menstrual cups. I will usually keep it in for up to 12 hours since it is made on silicone and will not cause toxic shock syndrome. Just needs to be boiled in hot water to be disinfected. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!!
I think you hinted at being cheated on by your ex and I just wanted to say that I LOVE you and that you do not deserve that. Getting “over” something like that takes time. You are grieving as well as feeling betrayed. Girly, you’re doing what you can. You’re doing your best. And we all support you. One day, God will bless you with the most perfect partner to satisfy every need and wish and desire you’ve had and fill every hole that your last relationships have left. In the meantime, I am so proud of you for finding fulfillment in yourself. You’ve got this!
Love your videos!!! I recommend Nixit! I found it so much easier to insert than the diva cup and it self-empties!
I love my menstrual cup, it's so great to not have to worry about changing a pad or tampon every few hours. They do come with a slight learning curve and it took me 4 different ones to find one that fit me. The salt cup is by far my favorite.
I appreciate your honesty so much! Love the chatty talks. My daughter swears by the menstrual cup.
the nixit cup is my absolute favourite !!
I cannot recommend the Flex Disc enough !!! It’s so amazing and comfortable. Look into how it’s different from the menstrual cups too. I’ve learned so much about my body from it, it’s really cool. Lol I sound like an ad, but I seriously cannot recommend it enough.
I really like the Flex discs and their reusable menstrual cup. I just purchased my first round of Seed. So looking forward to getting then started.
You should do a video of your decorating methods and tips. I appreciate your decor in all your content so much.
Here is something that me and my husband came up with that maybe it might help with the would you do that relationship over again question.....we figured out that what we went through with those people in those relationships helped prepare us for the right relationship. Now is ours perfect, oh heck no. There are things about one another that drives the other crazy and with my health issues, it has added a lot of stress to our marriage. But, he is a good man and I know he loves us (me and our daughter) and there are not so nice people out there. So just remember, as rough as it might have been with your ex, that has prepared you for your future mate and how to handle that relationship differently. Much love
Love the diva cup, change it during your nightly shower super easy and mess free that way
I feel the same I am older too and somehow I find the content so relatable. Thank you Michel, I agree with Linda, you are remarkable.
So very proud of you!!!