WHY THE NARCISSIST ISN’T DOING BETTER
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- Опубліковано 10 гру 2021
- WHY THE NARCISSIST ISN’T DOING BETTER WITHOUT YOU. The narcissist is always looking for a way to manipulate people. They are searching for a new shiny object or person to make them feel validated. This is a person who doesn’t exist. The narcissist can’t be satisfied ever with people.. they believe they are superior to everyone. The narcissist wears the mask to manipulate and destroy people and relationships. The narcissist can’t enjoy what they have.. they need to blow up relationships. For contact information on speaking engagements or inquiries please email me here …narcdailyvideos@gmail.com. #newsupplynarcissist #narcissistnewsupply #empowerment #growth #narcissism #narcissist #healing #health #education #eggshells #traumabond #silenttreatment #stonewalling #selfworth #newsupply #gaslighting
Hi Andrew! I've never cared about the narcissist once I left them alone. I didn't care if they fared well or were in hell! Nothing about them will ever interest me again. I've paid my dues. Anyway, of course my narcissist will NEVER have another like me because we were bound by DNA, and no one can really love us like our families can (or should). Andrew, I hope you have loved yourself back together as I have because you are a sweet person. Plus, when my narc found the Lord, I was so relieved that God would care for her. I was elated...until I started seeing her church "friends" changing her into the monster she is today. I warned her over and over, and since I was still under the fog, I did not know that she was okay with it. Once that monster started relating with me, I was done! From evil all my life, to learning God, to using God's Spirit for evil, I would deal with it no more! So her "so-called" discard of me was to prevent me from doing it first. Classic her. Anyway, thank you for your videos. I know they comfort a lot of people because there is nothing like knowing that someone else knows what you went through with the narcissist.
Welcome..😌💜🙏
I have noticed that they actually do worse for every relationship...as they get older...it becomes harder and harder to keep up appearance and looks...and also they get more moody as life becomes increasingly harder and they become even more desperate to get new supply. What a poor life to have.
Thank you for sharing this.. The Aging Narcissist.. 😯😳😉
Thank you for the insight
Mines is homeless and jobless…. I dodged a bullet
Ty I keep and myself I need to fix this problem we just cut dependency I understand that plus also and make you feel that you got to do more when you can do cuz they don't do nothing thank you Andrew for validation once again
Exactly. Very well said!
The narcissist typically has new supply before they discard you. My ex treats his new supply far worse than he treated me. She tolerates everything he throws her way. I’m so happy to be free. It’s like being released from prison for a crime you didn’t commit
Thank you for sharing this 💯🙏🙌
Truly a prison in hell
@@stephaniehall6309 it is but you can get out. It’s really hard but t it can be done
Indifference yes thats where my headspace is at. Namaste 🙏⚘
Yep..same story here. We are not going through it alone..so many..so sad..thankfully we are free. Let the joy flow. 😊
Indifference is the key. When you don't care about the narc and they are no longer taking up space in your thoughts you are free. I wish you all the peace and love that you deserve....
I agree completely Craig.. 💯💯💪
Yeeeesss! Amazing the brain space freed up and fog lifted once the narcissist is OUT of our thoughts 😄😃
It’s a process. You just don’t stop loving someone
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Craig & The Kellers, y'all are so right!! I'm so grateful for Andrew & his channel! 🙌🙌🙌🙏
He could never duplicate me he can look for me in another person but you’ll never find me
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I was just thinking the same thing. He will never find another ME! I REALLY LOVED HIM....
I just still can’t believe that I was actually selected to be broken. I’ve told her a few times “I think you’re trying to break my spirit”. She remained silent each time. 🤦🏾♂️
Different statements... Same reaction.
Mine’s laughed
The silence is deafening...serious red flag
Now you know, stop saying things like this to your narc. Even though she may remain quiet, don't mistake this for shame or sorrow. It's not. The day u stop this type of talk, then you'll be mire free, you will wound them because, then, they will no longer be hurting you. No oxygen, no more.
Typical of self centered people
If WE empaths had enough self LOVE to begin with, we would not have allowed ourselves the abuse for so long ...
Hence ... we learn through trauma
Because we are still human with human faults
I'm done beating myself up.
We grow they spoil. The difference they'll die usless
So true, Eric
Not necessarily... The narc is simply the wrong person to be with. We all need love, as much as we want to give .
Satan was the first narcissist.
Yes, the narcissist is a black hole and the empath is a bright light! They are a bottomless pit, and the empath is the stream of life giving love!
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The narc I was in a relationship with always thought he was better than me. Unfortunately for him his low-class mentality always showed. He doesn't realize what class is.
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They don't think they are using people~it's normal for them to take
Completely agree 💯💯
My narcissist once said "what do you think, that I get up every morning thinking how I can piss you off today?" Yes. Yes, that's what they do, try to figure out how to punish you for any little perceived insult or lack of compliance, or how to manipulate you to get what they want. Every single day.
Thank you for sharing this insight Nancy 💯🙌☀️
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thank you for your video today....made me feel grateful this morning!
And the truth will flare up a rage.
The narcissist gives consequences while taking no responsibility, silent treatment , guilt tripping , blaming , running away, I don’t even know how to get over this at this moment.
@Nancy Riley, you are so right. They punish you for every small thing you do unintentionally. I always told my Ex that he is not God and has no right to punish me.
Andrew it was as if you were speaking directly to me.
He has all the money he stashed away so I wouldn’t be able to get my share. But he doesn’t have what I provided.
He became good at what he practiced, lying, cheating, manipulating, stealing, not caring about me,and being indifferent throughout the relationship.
I on the other hand, I became great at, being honest,thoughtful, genuine, giving, providing, open, loving and authentic.
It’s incredible how much better I feel about myself and how I have grown and live my life.
I like who I am.
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Sucks to be them 🤣. They all had it good with us but they blew it,and for what? Who knows?
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Im still coming to terms of understanding how they can be so deceitful ...Good luck to him getting another empath...I gived my heart to him by treating him with love validation... whatever he needed to make his life easy...Thanks to you Andrew I knew it was all a facade he never loved me...but Im going to be okay ...your videos are amazing💕God Bless you Andrew...Namaste🙏
I contend these narcissistic people eventually are smacked in the face with self loathing. ( its been in them all along)
They will get their due. They hate themselves. Eventually , they won't be able to distract that realization from emerging full on.
Its like the aliens planted in the ground in war of the worlds...just waiting....
Hi Gail you are a beautiful person as all us empaths are. Keep strong and keep moving forward 👍😊
Don't not push yourself. Aha moments of piecing things together come to light. To drive the whole thing home. Situations that made no sense. A young gearhead in my area mentioned a few months ago out of the blue when I saw him...."Damn your ex husband drove around here speeding all the time. From a 28yr old commenting on a 50yr old. Did not know this....at all. My ex totaled out 7 cars in 15 yrs of marriage.
Gail Ramlal Ill second your comment.
Dont worry he get him you might not see it but it coming there is a God.
Proverbs 22:24
“Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go:” prov 22:24
Beautiful thank you for sharing 💯🙌☀️🙏
Yes!!
Great video Andrew. If a narc is lucky enough to have an empath in their life, they only get one. When they screw that up, they've messed up, their one and only opportunity, to have a chance, of a normal life.
Beautiful comment thank you Katrina 🙌☀️🙏💯
YES! F@@@ them
Yes!
Exactly 💯! After you it only gets worse and worse and they'll think about you for the rest of their miserable life
Absolutely Katrina 💯
Thank you Andrew!💜💜💜
Nope...when they lost the Empath, they lost EVERYTHING! And they KNOW it!
Fly beautiful Earth Angels!💜💜💜
Yes Linda 💯🙌☀️
Facts !!
Truth !!
They live in a perpetual black hole that they try to suck their victims into….my former ex-narc’s life is in perpetual decline and rightfully so. He has done so much damage in people’s lives that God’s justice and the laws of karma are always upon him.
Thank you for sharing Diana..🙌☀️💯
You take care- my ex narc hurt me so mentally, emotionally, and psychologically. I know the feeling.
This is very healing, and true. Empaths are not ten a penny, we are rare and precious. We deserve better than to be cast aside like old shoes. Thank you for this video xx
Welcome 🙏
I’m enjoying the peace and freedom.
Thank You, Lord Jesus for setting me free 🙌🏃♀️
Beautiful progress 💯🙌☀️
No need to thank invisble sky daddy's. Be real. Be free. Say no to narcissism.
Amen❤
I was dedicated to him. I'm d school with values and did what I thought was right. If he was wieking I'd still get up at the crack of dawn to do him breakfast. I'd make sure his tea was on the table. I'd cook and clean etc, and rarely denied him sex. I put a lot of myself and my appointments and my family to one side for him, then one day AGAIN he waited till I was doing something for my Son to tell me I was this or that. He caused a situation to get me to say I'd had enough, and I told him we were done. I then changed my number. Even having someone who was 'Grade A Supply' like me wasn't enough for him. Nothing and no one will ever be enough for them. But WE are enough for us. 🍒
Thank you for sharing this 🙏🙌🙏
When I start feeling like I'm missing him and wondering what In the world did I do leaving the relationship ... I listen to your videos and I remember, oh yea! That's why I left . I was tired of being tired, stressed , lonely and exhausted! I have to keep looking forward to a newer goal and a happy life! Divorce papers are In The works and he's already adding women friends to his FB . I know I shouldn't look ! But it still hurts and amazes me that he can start doing those things so quickly ...
Anita I understand.. continue to become educated and empowered.. you are amazing 🙌💯☀️
Please don't feel so bad... My now ex husband of 25 years went to Tinder not even a week after I left. Hurt like hell, but just know that YOU ARE NOW FREE...
Please, for the sake of your sanity and self worth, BLOCK them on ALL social media platforms! DO NOT peek into the life they are posting for public viewing, just like your experience with the Narc, it’s all an ILLUSION!! Each of us in this group have learned that the reality behind closed doors is NOT happy. Don’t put yourself into a position that causes you more grief, stress, anxiety, anger, etc. - PLEASE!!! It’s sooo much more difficult to HEAL when you keep looking backwards and wondering “What IF?” In the life of the Narc, the names and faces may change but their games will always remain the same! Don’t let yourself be jealous of the New Supply as they are nothing more than “the Newest Victim To Be.” 💔
@@debieaves4788 Thanks Debi, I needed to read this.
@@houmadi2012 I wish you all the best! It’s been a little over 2 months since I gave my ex-fiancé/Narc the boot. I still think about him every single day. It’s no longer the ruminating type of thoughts tho, thank goodness! I’ve learned A LOT about narcissism and will continue to educate myself on the topic. I’m also still doing the inner work on myself so I can build appropriate boundaries. I don’t want to harden my heart to the point that I’m never again open to a relationship, but I need to learn how to stop throwing myself “all in” when a man shows interest in me. I’ve got to learn how to make him EARN my trust and affection, instead of handing it to him on a silver platter without having fully “vetted” him. 😉✌️🤗
Absolutely love this ; spent 18 years with a narracist and I'm not being full of myself but I'm a educated very attractive woman and he tried to chop down year after year ...they know what we are and how special we are especially as a empath that's why they have to try do hard to push us and cut us down.
Hi Elea, I was 20 years in and will be 1 year out on 21.12. Like you educated, successful, attractive, financially comfortable. Now realise was just fresh meat for this person. I gave everything to. As Andrew has said before we can regain most of the material things but will never get the time back, but we can make the most of out time from NOW. All the best to you
Thank you for sharing Elea.. I appreciate your honesty and insight..💯🙌☀️💯
I was with a narc for 18 miserable years, also. So happy to be moving on. I really want to enjoy my life again.
@@theteal123 Best wishes for a nice life---you deserve it!
@@asprospitti very very expensive lesson. Glad you finally learned. I am so thankful this information is finally out there be it ever so late for me
🕊I've Hurt So Bad Behind My Ordeal....I'm Falling In Love With The Me I Had No Idea Exists....He's A Kool Dude....Baking Again And Just Smiling More..."LOVE THIS,GUY'S "!!!🕊↗️↗️↗️🌐🌍🌐🦍
Yes sir. Creativity slowly rises back to our surface. I enjoyed and relate to your comment.
I’m dusting off my guitars.
Beautiful message Derrick.. 💯💯🙌🙌
Because Karma doesn’t miss an address. I’m a 6”2 INFJ Heyoka empath. Good luck replacing me lol 😂
Thank you for sharing Matt 💪☀️🙏💯
Clever Matt! LOL
😁 I have developed a similar outlook recently. Thank you for such a truthful humorous comment. I am however not that tall..
In one years time my ex narc lost our marriage of 29 yrs, (almost 30), lost the supply that was the straw that broke the camel's back in our relationship, lost the next supply he found right before the divorce was final( where he announced on social media and to others he had found "the one!" , and then found another supply announcing the same exact thing(this is the one!) Then poof she was gone too. Like my adult kids say, "it's a revolving door". Nobody cares anymore what he does, says, or thinks. He has shown his true colors not only to me, but to others. It's amazing when you finally see clearly how ridiculous, the narc is constantly performing in a 3 ring circus, juggling all the time. The older he gets the harder it is to perform...in more ways than one most likely! LOL😉 Time is not the narcs best friend.
Thank you for sharing this insight 🙏💯🙌☀️
Good luck to you!
She had a problem with every aspect of my life, tv, food, phone, sex, parking, me just relaxing..
Exactly their are not many people falling for their games as their once was.
💯💯💯 Pink Diamond
Very true.
I needed this today. I’m a beautiful spirit who will find a great partner one day. Thank you!
Welcome 🙏.. you are amazing.. you will find what you are looking for 💯💯💯☀️🙏
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you
AMEN 🙏 👐 YESSSSSS WE WILL ❤🙏
“in their tiny little brain”🤣🤣🤣
I can see that you are a very decent, kind man and I think what kind of fool would take you for granted. I hope once my nightmare is over, I can find someone like you. Thank you for sharing your experience with us as it makes me feel like I am not all alone in this world struggling against a sociopathic narcissist. Your insights have been so helpful.
Sylvia you are not alone.. I appreciate your kindness and sharing this beautiful message 💯🙌☀️🙏
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone You are very welcome and thank you .
The narcissist spent 8 months trying to make me feel less attractive than his ex's and in turn make me see him as a catch that was way out of my league....now that the fog has cleared and I have regained perspective I see that I'm an attractive 36 year old, I'm in my prime and I'm living my dream as a romance novelist. I also see that he was a 46 year old with a laundry list of physical issues that prevented him from working, a chip on his shoulder about his height (I was taller than him in barefoot) and BIG ISSUES about losing his looks due to the hard living he'd done- he hated his drooping eyelids and losing his 6 pack abs.
He figured that making me feel bad and less than confident would make him feel better. Well now I wear my 4 inch heels and no longer have to worry about towering over him, I don't have to cover up my body when I go out for fear of him punching someone for looking at me.
If any other woman encounters him- he's the short, angry guy, spouting the ridiculously long words and racist politics, with the terrible dragon tattoo that looks like roadkill with scales (armadillo)
Thank you for sharing this 🙏🙌💯
He tried to pull one on a novelist? Hah. I can't think of a person, more aware of
different personalities, the nuances of a plot, etc. Glad you got rid of the angry armadillo.
That's so mean to make fun of his height and his looks lolll
Okay group! I've had no contact since the beginning of May. We had a priest that passed away in the church we both used to go. She emailed me letting me know that if I didn't know, she was letting me know he passed. I don't go to that church anymore, at least for now. I've not answered, but oh Lord do I want to rip her! Votes of confidence to not answer. What a crappy day now!
Hang on Stephen, don’t respond in any way. You will be safer and will feel better in a while. It’s really HARD. I know. Best wishes.
Continue on the path Stephen.. maintain your boundaries 💯🙌💪💪🙏
Oh wow this brought back memories of the NPD BF I left way back when I knew nothing about NPD (and stupidly 🤪🤷♀️went on to marry another one, now that one joyfully my ex after 24 years🙄) That old BF constantly used ANY death as his in-road motivation to contact me-spanning from John Lennon being shot to 9/11😳🙄. If I didn’t respond the message would be I was a rotten person who didn’t care about this tragic death. Guess what? I’m a rotten person who in 2001 (21 years after I’d dumped him) responded only thus: ‘I wish NO contact from you. If you persist in contacting me using any means whatsoever I will consider that intentional harassment and I will take any and all legal actions against you.’ Of course, he emailed back that he didn’t intend to harass me. I called the cops and got an officer to call him to explain he needed to stop. I’m sure he was pissing himself to be confronted by an authority taking MY side. I never heard from him again
One word KARMA
Yes 🙌
I don't believe they think like this. They truly have a horrific disorder so in their mind when we began to wake up...they did everything to devalue you make you the awful one in their head. Very sad way to live only to manipulate hurt and deceive . One year NC and honestly he just keeps moving. That's how they roll. No feelings. No remorse JUST merely empty souless beings
I appreciate your honesty and insight.. thank you 🙏💯🙌☀️
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone yeah....they truly cannot self reflect. At ALL. Never would consider any wrong doing in their mind. They have zero emotional connection - zero empathy so it's not possible for them to do anything you said on here. They move on even when you are " with them" having multiple partners lying daily. They truly do not feel a thing. Only thing they might think is THEY the NPD no longer can control you and the victim ( us) are the abusers to them in their mind's telling LIES about you that they believe... and how "we are crazy" and the ones who are " narrcistic"...not them.
Keep it real when it comes to these demons. It's evil and scary to ever encounter this ❤ blessings to all in their healing from pure evil
A narcissist would rather self destruct than improve at all. They are zombies. We are polar opposite. We are blessed without chaos, lively growing people who change for the better. 🌳🌟
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Hard, him being just 5 minutes away from where I am. 10 days and counting down to my 1 year discard date. 21.12 21. Liberation Day for me , Phoenix Day for me. I was Grade A + Supply , and now am Grade A + for me.
Thank you for your daily vids each one just what I need to hear. Thank you Andrew God Bless
Thank you for sharing this 💯🙌☀️
It’s only been a month for me but I totally feel this. She lives 5 minutes away from me and I see her drive by from time to time and I do nothing but laugh at how weak and feeble minded she is. I was her grade A+ supply and she can’t find anything but drunken one night bar hookups. I am so happy to only be a father and focus on myself. Strength to you!
Hi Andrew. A narcissist will never be happy with their new supply! THEY DON'T HAVE YOU!
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The "love of my life".... the one I trusted and made a promise to.... That was more than 20 years ago.
Last I heard she was about to get out of jail.
Again.
Sound familiar ----when my ex narc discarded me and left states, 4 days later the County came to my door looking to serve him papers.
I LIFTED HIM UP TO MUCH.I'M GONNA SHINE MORE THAN EVER.THIS HAS MADE MEEE STRONGER AMEN🍊🍊🍊💛
I appreciate when you said that people on this planet are starting to become more aware so the narcissist will have to work harder to fool people. Narcissism is becoming a normal part of conversations on social media. People recognize the red flags faster and run, hence the string of further broken relationships.
Yes 🙌 🙌☀️
It was love-hate, now it's simply one, big, flat indifference. Hope he's moved to another prey, not me!
Hi Andrew, I can see the sincere man you are in your eyes! I am sorry that this person hurt you! You didn't deserve it. You are helping save lives on your channel . I was used, abused, cheated, manipulated and his family knew he was. I was so humiliated and I am home with my dogs! But love is needed in this world. I truly believe they are evil demons because no one with an ounce of love in their soul would not hurt people like they do! I am at the level of not giving none of my time or love to that demonic entity. Stay blessed Andrew! Namaste
I appreciate your honesty and kindness thank you Connie 💯🙌☀️🙏
I stopped helping them out. Slowly and surely. And he didn't know what to think. I started being needy even though I didn't need anything. I flipped the script and watched their reactions. Then I blocked all contact. It was the most beautiful thing to watch the flip. So thankful that i was not married to them. And I am very educated on these monsters. Narcissist are really sick individuals. Thank God in Jesus Mighty Name for getting out of that relationship. Thanks Andrew for educating all of us. I am so free.
There are children of lucifer and there are children of the most high God jehovah!
They are envious of our brilliant light within and they want to snuff it out. Don’t allow them to. Get out. Once we know, we cannot un-know.
Exactly Enlightened One.. thank you for sharing 💯🙌☀️🙏😊
My 67 year old Ex keeps chasing younger and younger females. I love it because he has met his match in these younger women. They keep multiple old men on the hook using them for support. They know how to give just enough to stroke these old geezers' egos.
My ex narc (38 year old female) left me for a much older man! I’m sorry for what you went through.
@@Green89_ Thank You. Im sorry for your issues as well.
I know it's wrong, but I can only hope he wakes up everyday feeling alone, rejected and invisible.
EXACTLY, It took many times ,I took his actions and shoved them back into his face..to get him to leave me alone ,It isn't meant for us to be together. It's not a WE it's what can I do for him! Always always, Run Run
Thank you for sharing this insight Dianna..💯🙌☀️🙏
I used to say to myself. “If I stayed up all night and came up with a horrible way to retaliate against this person, I would never be able to make him more miserable than what he does to himself every day”. So I wish him well and have forgiven him. I have much compassion for him. He’s in my life and always will be because he’s family. I have released the past and continue to have peace about this relationship. Namaste.
Beautiful insight thank you C C..🙏☀️💯🙌
On one hoover with him wanting a second chance, I said yes, but we would be swapping phones as and when I felt like it without warning... Then I said so you might as well tell me who all your "friends " are... When he refused, I said goodbye and went no contact. I already knew one "friend" was married, the other was the new supply widow who he managed to destroy in a few months.. Do not take these people seriously, they are pathological liars.
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Don't ever give anyone what u have worked for.. what God..has blessed u with ..money, House , Apt...or your mind or body.. until, you get married to that.man or woman that will love you, adore you, respect you as you are..and want to uplift, not take you down,want to share all he has to offer you,..then you can and rightfully reseprociate in the same way..you won't be malipulated in doing it..lied to in order to do it,or used either, you will be doing it then for all.the..right...reasons..
Beautiful reply thank you Boss Lady.. 🙌☀️🙏💯
I knew how he treated his ex wife and others in his family. His son wrote a book and it was like being a fly on the wall in his house. I thought I was going to be different. I never thought I was going to be treated like she was and I was wrong. He started treating me the same and I didn’t want to see it. 38 days NC.. but had a moment of weakness last night. Fantasized about emailing him..
Stay strong! I’ve been where you are and still occasionally think of driving by his house. Then I tell myself..what’s the point?!! It’s natural curiosity but serves no useful purpose. Not worth the time and thought energy.
No stay strong!!!
It takes time to heal from Narcissistic abuse, you need no further manipulative and abusive behavior around you. Soon, you will let it fall away from you, you will see it before any of them can make an attack. Breathe, and know you are Loved.
We will always love the narc for the beautyfull person they are, and we got in love with. Sadly they never couldnt see them in themselves, THATS THE TRAP. Sent them good thoughts and thank them for the good they could possible gave you, and MOVE ON!! We CANT CHANGE THEM, CHANGE YOURSELF AND START BRIGHTING A LOT SHINNER WITH YOUR LIGHT !
Thank you for sharing this Meha..💯🙌☀️🙏
You've just described my 17 year long marriage to the narcissist. He's fuming now and freaking out because I left him, after having a light bulb moment. I almost feel sorry for him, but I can't afford to go down that path. Thank goodness I've gone zero contact!
Continue to become educated and empowered Izzy.. you are on the path 🙌💯🙏💪☀️
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thanks Andrew
Thank you for the daily encouragement, Andrew ☮️💜
Thanks, Andrew. 👍🏼 100% True! 👍🏼 As time passes, I see that they slide lower in all ways. All of their systems are negatively affected; their body, their mind, and their soul. Then, they slip into eternity with an empty love-tank.
Thank you for sharing Karen..☀️🙌☀️💯
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone You are welcome. 👍🏼 🙏
I don’t believe they will feel that way. My narc is still out to get me after over a decade of being divorced. He still thinks I’m watching what he’s doing and tries to send our adult kids as flying monkeys. Cut them all off for good. He only wishes!! 😜
Stay in your path.. you are amazing 💯🙌🙏☀️
Nailed it! I took my kindness, empathy and warm kick ass energy and LEFT. Have fun finding someone to replace all I contributed. Ain’t gonna happen. I move on 😊
Beautiful Spenny..🙌🙌💯🙏
Enjoy Saturday morning. Pray for eachother and do not turn back even if you have to crawl through the Grand Canyon by yourself like me. 💚🙌🏼
Thank you Newlife22 🙌🙌💯💯
I feel more free , clear and at peace after the break up . Interesting that while you in it you don't think that anything is wrong
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I dont think it's about whether they are doing better with or without you cause there was never any real attachment to you in the first time. It's all about supply and they are ready to exploit it from anyone willing to give them the time of day. Once a supply level diminishes they just hop onto the next one and the next one and the next one. It never stops.
Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌😉
Empaths are definitely not easy to find...I am more aware now and trying to surround myself with empaths, they are the best humans! Luckily my both children are, even though I am not so sure it is a good thing to feel all pain of this world.
Thank you for sharing this ❤️🙏😊💯
I have reached indifference!! Three yrs ago while with the creep, his 2nd oldest of 5 kids died from OD (he was estranged from him at the sons choosing…not shocked). I stood by him through initial grief and tolerated his roller coaster of verbal abuse. I chalked the behavior up to his tragic loss. A couple weeks ago, 9 months after leaving him and cutting off all contact, he reached out to my sister to let me know his middle child died. When I heard that I felt NOTHING. 🎉 It’s a sad situation that such a young life was cut short but I felt no empathy for the narc. All his kids, in one way or another, are a reflection of the damage he inflicted on them. So sad.
Thank you for sharing this insight Kathy..💯🙌☀️🙏
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When our son passed after a long illness he never grieved. They don’t really even grieve like normal people. Our son passed away at the hospital Thanksgiving night after we took him off of life support. We went home and his first thought was to sit down and eat his thanksgiving dinner. We divorced after that. He has no soul.
I feel like I start becoming indifferent and then lose my control again.... It comes in waves too but lately those waves have stayed longer so I am sure soon it will be complete indifference. I can't wait.
It still baffles me to this day to wonder why they should want to destroy something so special and good by pushing you to the brink where you just can't take it anymore and have to leave ! Narcs' seem to have a definite lack of ability to appreciate and value what you had , over time they go blind to anything positive you have given , and BOY did you give ALOT ! Maybe it's simply that you lost your new shine and they got bored , and that why they spoil for confrontation ! However a SHOW is never a show without an AUDIENCE ! When you walked away you took away the one thing they crave , attention !! Their fake facade was only real when YOU believed and entertained it ! When you leave the game is up , they are exposed and alone , and it was all THEIR own fault ! They had distorted your reality and made you doubt yourself , so that they could be superior , and they could be in control ! They had abused your trust and your good nature , and even though they may have liked your supply , they NEVER respected you as an equal in any shape or form ! The truth is they do not control reality , you or ANYTHING ! They always needed you FAR more than you ever really needed them 😎😎🙏
Beautiful comment thank you for sharing this 🙌💯💯💯☀️💪
So on point Andrew! Awesome channel 👏Thanks for educating us about these evil people. Enlightenment is key!
Welcome Paula 🙌💯🙏
you're right I had to go through narc abuse to lose my naivety & wise up to narc people's true natures & insidious agendas, now I am happy joyous & free, also it's important to lose any bitterness & resentments Andrew, because that's how narcs win by making us bitter
I appreciate you sharing this voyeur..🙌💯☀️
Andrew you are such an incredible role model for me, thank you. It’s empowering to know that you’re in my corner. Your strength and confidence are helping to build mine. Thanks also to my fellow subscribers and their comments. I’m proud to be in this community of kind, strong empaths. 💜💪🏼
Thank you for sharing this beautiful comment Teshla 🙌💯☀️🙏
Agree Teshla, I’m very pleased to have discovered Andrew’s channel. Enjoy the community aspect too, knowing there are other people out there feeling the same way as me.
Well said I think you speak for a lot of us 👍☺️
I'm also proud and happy to he here ☺️
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I cannot fault anything you say here Andrew being on the healing path myself.
This is a wonderful post with wonderful messaging. Truly.
The narcissist is a 'formidable' opponent, for sure. But empaths have way greater powers than the narc. - we can regenerate, rejuvenate, love, authentically be ourselves, admit vulnerability, be introspective, empathize, forgive, be truthful, be constructive, better ourselves, grow, inject emotional maturity, be fair, and all of the rest and many more things besides ...
Thankyou Andrew.
The narc. is very welcome to the future and everything this brings them (Ha!).
I'm becoming indifferent now more everyday. Lessons have been learned.
"I met her in Bahrain, never again, I no longer have skin in that game"
Forwards we tread on different paths now.
Regards
Thank you for sharing this message 🙏💯🙌💪💯
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone My pleasure, because we are our support and triumphant we become.
They’re fooling their new supply
Completely true 💯😯💯
💯 I listen to this video and I feel just a 💯 peace. I feel so indifferent at this point that I barely think about any of it anymore and could really care less on how they are doing. Instead I focus on my goal of moving forward to just keep on growing in my self through education, self reflection, deepening of my faith and appreciation for all I have been blessed with. I took my second chance the day I had him leave and I strive each day to soar higher and higher because I have come to learn I deserve nothing less. Andrew you truly are a one of kind with your continued dedication to this community. The narscistist may not being doing better without you but thank God every single life that you have touched as a result are doing so much better. You strive every day to remind this community that none of us are alone. Never stop what your doing the 🌎 needs you to continue to bring this horrible abuse to the forefront so that it doesn't have to keep happening and ruining lives. Your messages are always well received you truly have a gift. God Bless and may light continue to shine down on you and guide you always on your path. 🕊️ 🕊️ 🕊️
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Thank you for sharing this beautiful insight Christine.. I appreciate your kindness and honesty 💯🙌☀️🙏
From pain and suffering...he becomes the wounded healer. Yes...Andrew's a blessing.
If a narcissist tells you the time,check your watch as they will even lie about that.
This Guy is Amazing!!!! Everything he says is On Point!!!
Binge watching for my own healing....
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I am hoping the new supply catches on real quick. He will never find another like me. I am glad I did the discarding.
AS ALWAYS, MANY, MANY, MANY, THANKS, ANDREW!!! GOD BLESS YOU!
There are many ways/levels to Provoke DRAMA. That is the Only Hobby they have and are good at.
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Oh. My god, what a beautiful video, like a warming ray of sunshine. 😊 I broke up with the narcissist in my life three-months ago and the smile is returning to my face, I'm taking a long holiday in myself, basking in the calm, pursuing my goals, enjoying life.
Beautiful progress thank you for sharing this Ulrike..🙏💯🙌☀️😊
My narcissist has a new supply, he moved onto her the same month I ended things with him. She reached out when she found out I existed and I told her she had unfortunately gotten mixed up with a narcissist, and that she needs to take care of herself because relationships with him are harmful. I sent her hugs and moved on. I KNOW he will never be truly happy, he's not capable.
Thank you for sharing this Sandy.. 💯🙌🙏☀️
What I learned so far is ...narcs want to be rich and popular really badly but they don't want to work for it. They will try to be friends with popular or well off people to try to benefit off of them...use their fame or house like it's there's. The narc female I know have no shame or respect for her friends. She'll go visit almost every day. She will walk in like she own their houses until they set boundaries and told her no. The audacity...also that female narc and a male narc I know before claim of wanting to join the army so they'll have a higher status and income. You'd think they will really do it? Nope it's a lie. After a year or few months of running into them again they have a change of plan or something came up. So do not believe when a narc say they are going to do this and that. It's fake future planning. They just latch onto people like leeches and suck the supply or status out of those people. Better set up those boundaries bc narcs don't like no for an answer. But if you are firm about it, they'll leave you alone. And don't tell people where you live or work..bc if it turns out to be a narc they will invade without you consent as if they own you.
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Thank you Andrew for your constant and steady support of empaths leaving these types of relationships and trying to recognize and avoid them in the future. I love your positive and encouraging attitude. You are helping many people to see their own worth and value after being pulverized in these kinds of relationships (sometimes from birth for those of us who had a parent with NPD or a parent who is highly narcissistic). I meet empaths and survivors of narcissistic abuse all the time now. I share your teachings with them. I try to help them see their own “bright, shining light”. They have been so disrespected, devalued, and diminished by the narcissists in their lives (parent/s, sibling/s, teacher/s, manager/s, partner/s), that they can have a very poor view of their own value and worth. They are beautiful souls who have been convinced otherwise by psychological manipulations of narcissists. They are like bright, shining lanterns which have had mud thrown all over them. As they stay away from narcissists, the mud dries up and starts to fall off their bright shining light. They are beautiful human beings who are wonderful to hang out with. Carry on. Keep doing what you are doing, Andrew. We have to help each other wake up the The phenomenon of narcissism.
Welcome 🙏🙌☀️
Plug into a wall when you want to use it. Unplug it when you don’t. They are like that with everyone even their own children. Smh.
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they really do have the capability to ruin lives.
i know this because when my ex narc was moaning and whining about he "regretted" screwing over someone from his early 20s ... (before I knew that this is his M.O., it gets him attention without him actually having to do the work in relationships - because he conveniently "regrets" things AFTER it is OVER) .... when he was boo hooing about this, i encouraged him to look her up and communicate and heal the wounds.
and we found her.
and she had gone from being a vibrant, loving person at the beginning of college and life .... to being on disability, being in very poor health, obese as well as other health concerns, depression issues, etc.
he literally. ruined the trajectory of her life.
I was old enough to be able to defend myself when I encountered him.
she was so young. and got pregnant. and he told her to "get rid of IT". And walked away.
and she is, as are most of the women I've met who were his exes... a PHENOMENAL woman. She is spiritual. Metaphysical. Gifted. Beautiful. Still loving. But literally BROKEN.
and I blame HIM.
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God sent you my way to help me heal! Thank you so much.
Welcome 🙏🙌☀️
Wish I knew all this 20 yrs ago. Your amazing
Welcome Barbara 💯🙌☀️
This may sound cruel, but to a narcissist, others, are food. Thank you for your gift!
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That's why the devil has a "pitch" fork...nae 66
Just heard that my ex is discarding his adult children. They saw who he really is and are heartbroken. He blames them and their moms for triggering him so he can’t have them in his life. All because the new supply is a jealous woman and is always upset with him. They never CHANGE!
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Also: my kids (adults) have stopped receiving their dad as the version I filtered for them and his rages, lies, abuse, & neglect shine as the real truth now even as he continues to blame me as his scapegoat (just as he blamed his mom’s death to cancer on his rages for breaking things and physically abusing our dogs, he blamed his boss when he got fired, he blamed one kid behind the back of the other) I tried leaving when kids were small & he threatened I’d ‘never take his kids’ I stayed, did what I could to protect them, waited until they were adults who could either stay or take themselves. (I found the loophole he didn’t think we’d find)
Thank you for sharing this insight 💯🙌🙏☀️
You are so right ! I am productive for others and the world----my ex narc, is just a mask wearer.
Thank you Mary..🙌💯🙏☀️
My wish is to age gracefully with fulfilment , … a narc just ages
Why? Cause narc traits are irresponsibility, inmaturity, pride, indiscipline, insecurity, fear. God help them, cause they are enough for themselves , some times, i cant nor i will God, that is your task. Be well everybody.
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Yes, that’s completely right ! The narcissists are not doing better without us …Even at 7000 km away from me now , my ex narc tried to let me know how much he missed me , loved me and how much his heart hurts … I know I’m on my way to heal because this message( that I didn’t answer) didn’t affect me at all.. I know it’s still manipulation..
So the way he’s feeling now is not my business anymore ..
I’m focusing on me , my son .. and we do things that makes us happy .( today we’re going on a Christmas fair 🎅🎄)
We don’t live in the beautiful Costa Rica but we enjoy our place , in the South East of France ( French Riviera ) on The Mediterranean Sea 🌊 ☀️😁
Greetings from Marseille Andrew 👋😄
Wish you a beautiful Sunday !
Namaste 🙏
Beautiful reply Laetitia.. simply beautiful message.. you are amazing and moving forward 🙌💯☀️.. have a great day 🇫🇷🇨🇷
Andrew, finding out about this pattern of behavior from this relationship has opened the flood gates of family members who also suffer from it. I have lived my life in a depressed state for years off and on never knowing why. I now know that I was raised by two narcs. I'm on the road to healing but going no contact from my main verbal abuser, my mother is difficult.
This was another insightful video.
10:28 words to live by.
Continue to become educated and empowered 💯🙌💪💪☀️
It's just a matter of time before somebody nail them.
The narc Andrew, will never find another you ever , your unique and you shine ✨
I love your channel! I was with the narc on and off for 18 years. I married him 5 months, lol! and my Mother begged me not to marry him. She said that he would ruin my life. He ruined 18 years of my life. Now I am done and moving on to a happy place.
Thank you Sherryp.. I appreciate your honesty and sharing 💯🙌🙏☀️.. thank you for being here 🙌😊
Your videos have helped me so much man. Thank you for your content. I was crushed but it’s good to know that I’m not the only man who has been used by horrible narcissist. Cheers
Welcome Dashiel..🙏💯🙌
I don’t know how I would’ve done as well as I have without you. Your insight has made all the difference
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They are Evil. Run
We need this during the holidays. When I was a pimpled up teen my mother pointed out that marketing at the holidays promotes the perfect family, and that you should be with someone. This is reinforced by TV commercials. She noted the clink of champagne wine glasses shown, as a reinforcement of this idea. She also added it actually adds to depression. Namaste -
Wow 🤩.. interesting and insightful., thank you for sharing this 😉😉💯💯
Your mother sounds like an amazing woman
I just subscribed, this guy is awesome. Keep telling the truth.
Thank you R J.. 🙌💯🙏☀️