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April 12th 2022 video..
WHEN THE EMPATH IS PUSHED TO FAR :
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Thank ❤ uso much .i am worth living ,I can cry I can be me, I could not cry for 50 years, I had no right to cry ,I had to shout up always my husband would tell me I was a Faker. U brought back thousands of pain to my Heart. I had no life, now I can see the light bulb switch,,,,! God bless u for reaching to all hurting people, Thank u for loving me with ur words of TRUTH from GOD!!
Welcome..😌😌💜
Andrew, you are so much wiser than your years. Took me 60 years and 10 more after the damage was done to find you, receive your healing words and love myself first above all the other narcissists that entered my life. Yes, I am an empath and I have realized from you to love myself.
Today I had myself a block party I blocked three narcissist in one day😅
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Just stumbled upon this, timing....I've been narc free since November 2022. Well, intimate, abusive partner narc free. The original sadistic covert as hell narcissist is my adoptive mother. She continues to torture me. Only more malicious lies, now she likes to call the cops out her by lying to them about me. My 23 yr old daughter is a, rn sober heroin addict- she believes my mom and so does the rest of my "family" an most of this hick tiny nothing town. 8 sheriff cars in your driveway does alot. My adoptive dad, he's amazing. He is and always has been my favorite person on the planet. He believed me, I don't have a violent idea or bone in my body. Sadly, my daddy is in end stage renal failure. My daughter decided to go radio silence again. Empathy might be a superpower but they haaaaate us for it. I've never tried to show off or be a brat or take attention from someone having a magical moment. Obviously, my mom told me I was dumb every 5 minutes among other things. But the people who've given me a hard time knew it an it only fueled them. Aint thar a B. Anyway here I am rambling again, I'm working on healing all day everyday, nowhere near the finish line yet. Peace, love, light and safety to us all.
Good job
Being an Empath, I appear to be a magnet for narcissistic toxic people, have all my life, father, husband , son. I'm now putting up boundaries, I'm important too at the age of 68, now when I look back at it all, it makes sense, I understand what was happening, but there's still some life left in me, enough is enough. Thankyou again Andrew ❤
You didn't know back then Lisa, you now know about narcissism, these people prayed on you because you are an empath, that's a beautiful thing. They needed what you had, your loving, caring, giving personality, so they tried to destroy the goodness in you as they were empty shells. Don't ever give up Lisa, keep trying, you say you know you have it within you, don't let evil win against your goodness. I can do it at 68, you can do it at 58, can I suggest you ask your therapist where you can get support for being homeless. It's difficult when the narcissists find a way in through grandchildren, I have experienced that myself, but be strong, put up boundaries, grey rock and say NO more often. I wish you all the luck in the world, sending love, god bless you xx
EXACTLY!!!! Me too!!! I now see them coming a mile away!! Thank Spirit!!
Amen 🙏🏻
@@mandypopple8437 thank you so much for the encouraging words. I will be strong
I’m 71 and still attract narcs but I catch on to them quicker.
I am an empath. Now preferring to stay completely to myself. Tired, worn out from being everything to everyone else. Taking care of me, setting myself up for the version of me required for the next stage of my life.
I have *never* known anyone else describe empathy as a “superpower.” I *love* it and *will* recycle. New sub. 🦋
Welcome to the community 😌🙌🙏💯😊💪
Oh yeah baby superpower. Understand it when you experience solitude, meditate, see experiences backward. Duality teaches you what you don’t want and do want. Really spawns a spiritual awakening. Congrats.
Warning signs: when you find yourself saying or thinking: “don’t mistake my kindness for stupidity.” That’s when you know your empathy exceeds your awareness of those around you who are already taken liberties with your kindness and empathy.
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Aerostar you got that right! 👍
Aerostar 🎯 yes, I've finally had enough (@ time too)! I was joking about it to a friend and said, "What is it, do I have 'Stupid' written on my forehead? 😁
That’s a powerful one. I think about all the times I have given people the benefit of the doubt and I held my composure to keep the peace and ultimately what was the payoff? Nothing I was just shrinking myself so they thought they were helping me.
Brilliant❤
As a mature male INFJ empath in my 50s, I wish I'd known all this forty years ago, would have saved me so much pain from attracting female covert Narcs. That gut feeling we empaths get is NEVER EVER WRONG . Knowledge is power, thanks Andrew . 🇬🇧
Welcome 😌🙌🙏
I'm INFJ also, life path number 9, I wonder is this a common denominator between us all 🤔
Listening to Andrew has taught me many things about myself. I’m an empath and co-dependent. I’m a people pleaser who puts others’ needs in front of mine. People take advantage of me.
I’m learning to say “no” and setting boundaries. It’s a must.
Male INFJ 35y here... They also played their game with me, or I did let them play their game... But in the end, it was all I needed to break free from my biggest fears in life. Once the experience is integrated in life, it gives you a boost, you would never have reached by walking an easier path. So I am very grateful for everything that happened in my life so far...
Don't be afraid of being outnumbered... Eagles fly alone, while pigeons flock together.
The fight for freedom is on!!
Good luck Lynn 🇬🇧 x
Thanks for teaching an older lady how strong I am. God has been there every minute. But leads me to people like you that gives me understanding.
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I can relate... empathy is when you not only understand how a person feels but you actually feel what they feel.
My narc gf tried that on me, saying she took my complaints about my day and my “negative energy” and put it into herself. From 1,500 miles away? I don’t think so. Now I believe that people can feel what other people feel. I’ve experienced it myself. But I know that people will also misuse that for their purposes, like my ex.
One reason I refrained from attending funerals decades ago.
@@reneehorton4004 Me too.
I agree. It is "your pain in my heart"
Exactly I tell ppl this for them to understand I say to them let's say we walking down street and we see someone get shot person I'm with be like dang that has to hurt I'm like yeah I know I can feel that bullet in me as if I'm the one who got shot. Some tell me yeah right I'm like seriouse man. I feel pain like no other.
40years old still learning the ropes but I will get there meaning fully understanding my gifts.
Your original empath video gave me closure after 20 years of heartache...on top of the 20 years of abusive marriage. Then the realization that my mother had been a narcist and abusive ,too. 70 years is not too late to begin a life well lived. Thankyou , my brother.
Daniel Siler, God bless you! 🙏 I just celebrated 12 years without that monster! Good luck to you always!❤
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I feel for you. It's heartbreaking to realize your parents are on this list... tho it IS the door to healing the narc magnet we carry inside us
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Daniel, exactly why I close my comments w/'freedom rocks, and better late than never".❣️
The difference between empathy and being an Empath to me is this. Empathy is relating to another persons issues, be it physical or emotional with kindness. The Empath in me doesn’t just relate on an emotional level, I feel the pain. Skin your knee, felt it, not on my knee but in my chest or stomach. My Empath super power is being able to read the room. Catch the subtle facial movements or body Language of another person. I still can be fooled only because I look for good in all.
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Great comment !
Empathy is just another word for intelligence. Comprehension! Love your message, and thank you!
Love your comment too . Intelligence, comprehension and I'd like to add compassion and polished mirror neurons.👍
@@jhavajoe3792 I'd say we all just have a whole lot more 💖 too.
"Polished mirror neurons" - that's ingenious
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Emotional maturity is something a narc will never have.
I realized I was an empath last year. After my covert narcissist ex wife literally tried to end me by intentionally giving me COVID. I dreamed she would turn on me a year before it had happened. And that is just the tip of the iceberg. I was a lifetime science guy. But now cannot deny the spirit side of things. It is like God literally woke me up.
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God made science.
A problem with narcs is that they don't know when enough is enough. In reality, narcs put themselves at risk to be harmed.
This is the first time I've seen one of your videos. I left "my" narcissist six years ago, and it was the hardest thing I've ever done, but it is also the best thing I've ever done. 16 years in hell, and I never knew there was a name for him and the things he said and did. I've been muddling through the years, trying to overcome all the damage done to me, and I've known for a while that I am an empath. I have experienced all the things you mentioned that happen when an empath is pushed too far, and am happy to say that I am well on my way to living my best life. I now have my own home, vehicle, income and I'm still on my own. I'm fortunate that I had people close to me who encouraged me in those early days when I first struck out on my own, people who care about me and love me and have my best interests at heart. Thank you for this video. I think I am on the right track these days. I don't consider myself "damaged goods" because of the narcissistic abuse I went through, rather I know I am a survivor... a warrior even... and look to the future, done with the past.
I am a psychotherapist, and I deal with so many relationships where one of the partners is so narcissistic, and the other one is just trying to catch his or her breath from being gaslit. Thank you for your program.❤
Welcome 😌💯🙌
It's says a lot , one thing I have learned so far in my journey is if a person wants to change they have to do that their self regardless of how much support empathy that is , I have also realized that I'm a empath with a whole lot of empathy,it can drain you of your energy too , everyone sure has their share of troubles but I'm not a door mat either I started watching these videos for quite some time and it's helpful, I believe not everything is narristic narrative all the time just the awareness is broad, it's like the saying in class nature or nurture , anyways I seen
your comment and I thought just send you this text , take care of your needs too , sometimes it can be draining or a bump in the road when we almost forget about our selves,
Empathy is not a thing of the past....We do agree that it has become rare to meet a real human, anymore. 🤠
I _do_ wonder how, with my parents both being narcissists, I turned out to be an empath 🤔🤔🤔
Me too! I can’t stand to offend or hurt anyone’s feelings to a fault. Unless my narc husband pushes me too far. Then I completely explode & then feel so ashamed of myself. I’m relieving my childhood on a daily basis. After I worked so hard to escape my childhood. It’s horrible
Jennifer, you have a heart of gold, that's why.
It’s spiritual more than biological (I feel). You breathe Light 💖
Its great that you became an empath despite both your parents being narcissists.
I was lucky. Both my dad and brother were narcissists but my Mom was an empath. I survived my childhood because of her. It could have been worse.
Well Jennifer, you did not turn out an empath, you were born this way. A beautiful empath my friend. Have a wonderful afternoon. ❤😊
I was always last in line. I wasted so much time and money trying to make everyone happy. I went broke literally because I stepped up to help…. and when I needed help, I got nothing. No more. I am now debt free and have my gardens. I can now recognize who I need to stay distant from. I am very happy now. 6 years no contact 😊.
I’m 43 years old man been empath all my life I got hurt so many time but will continue to be empath for the rest of my life cuz I believe that’s what a human being it should be, in another world that’s what’s separates us from animals and monsters , thank you so much for your videos brother
Dear Adam I agree. I'm 65 now and their behavior isn't understandable for me 😢 greetings from Germany ❤
Thank you, Adam. What you said is beautiful. It's being true to the person you are. The whole world will benefit because YOU make it one person better.
There are no "animals and monsters" in heaven.
Amen!
70s babies are organic. Pre 1984 babies rock 🎸🎸🎸
Doesn't mean you don't use wisdom and discernment. Empath doesn't equal wilfully ignorance.
The night I was pushed too far was about the 6th attempt to break up with the narc. It lead to the worst violence I'd experienced with him. So I called the police and the Narc was arrested. The worst night of my life but ultimately it lead to my freedom
Star, my discarding of the narc was also a violent outburst from me, which I was told "was very dangerous." I screamed in his face in his car, that I CAN'T STAND YOU ANYMORE, AND I WILL DO ANYTHING TO GET AWAY FROM YOU." I actually scared him! I had FIRE in my eyes. He froze with his mouth open. I never saw him again. That was 12 years ago. They are COWARDS! Good luck to you. Oh, I was told he could have hurt me bad!
Thank God you are recovering so well! ❤
SAME KARMA instantaneously Android GPS boot on his left leg or a total of 16 and a half months many many more problems on top of that 💯 not playing with you should have known who I AM😉
Thank God you got away
When my ex left, she looked at me with such hatred, and I had never seen that in the 29 yrs we were together. She hated that I refused to be abused anymore. I believe she took it as “ I “ was forcing her to find another victim, and she hated me for it.
My friend told me in 2022 that I was an empath. I had NEVER heard of such a thing and I looked it up. I was FLOORED. I came from a narcissistic Mother and Father. I had way too many poor relationships throughout my life, where I would give give give and they took took took. Draining for sure. Now decades later? I have a firm handle on boundaries. Mine. Don't Cross, or the stop sign flips up and I walk. I am stronger. God is my source of everything, but it is really valuable to understand my empath self. Nice Video and I wish you the best with your ventures.
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The Universe is always ready to teach YOU! As an empath you are more powerful than you know. I had a work assignment where I literally got into a verbal scuffle with the supervisor. In that heated exchange I was face to face with the supervisor AND suddenly I was looking out through his eyes at me I could also feel his fear that hit me like a ton of bricks. The universe is NEVER going to send you a fax, an e-mail or leave you a voice mail. The bible says Be still AND know that IAM. Trust that what YOU need will come to you if you stop resisting i.e. (stop pushing it away)
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Thank you for healing those of us who have been injured by narcissistic people in our lives!
Hi Andrew. It's not easy when you feel like you're "controlled" mentally by someone you love. Before I knew what a narcissist was, I thought he was just "set in his ways." I have empathy, but I figured not everyone is like me. I always wondered why he called me after taking me home? Oh, he just loves me and wants to talk to me. HAH! He was calling to see if I was home. He basically studied me from the get! Yeah, she's easy! My empathy was worn on my sleeve. It's been over 12 years and I won't forget what he's done. I don't hate him, but I no longer love him. To think that my Future husband is a narcissist. I was engaged to a narc which I escaped. I cried for 2 years after I discarded him. I was a bag of bones, but I made it! I did what I had to do to be here today. It's not easy, but it works. Don't look back, and NEVER TAKE BACK A NARCISSIST!!👍👍
Keep being strong.
Thank you for sharing this 🙏😌🙌💯
Maybe he called to see to make sure you were safe? or to verify you were not dating others?
Wow it's so good to hear from a fellow empath's point which I relate to being an empath myself. When I
called out my empath it was on public and I have been berating myself ever since although it felt empowering having done so in the moment I am a bag of nerves now and can't seem to live with myself for having done that. It's tough being an empath there is two sides to a coin. 😅
I get the bag of bones comment, I was Skeletor!
My son is an empath. I remember going shopping with him when he was a teenager, he would pick out tomatoes from a bin, and he took the banged up ones. I asked him why he did this, and he said: "Well, Mom, nobody else will take them!" It broke my heart then. But deep down I was the same, so I did not see the danger in that. A few years later he got snatched away by a narcissist and is still in her fangs, to this day (as far as I know, and I know nothing, being cut out of his life by the narcissist). 23 years later. She has sucked him dry to the point where his empathy has been buried so deep that he has become a cold, heartless individual. I wonder every day if the real person whom I know will resurface. On the day where the narcissist will push him too far...as she has done many, many times. I wonder what it will take for him to say: "Enough!" Thanks, Andrew, once again - brilliant. And we know that you are an empath, an awakened and aware empath, the best kind.
I totally get it. I never wanted to commit to a favorite color as a kid, I didn’t want the other colors to
Feel bad.
@Claire Elizabeth Robson Thank you so much, Claire! So comforting to hear a similar story with a hopeful outcome...The patience we need to get through years and years of not seeing your child (and in our case, grandchildren too...). And all we have left is praying and sending good thoughts. Well, late at night, I sometimes send him links to this channel, but there has not been a reaction. He knows about narcissism and borderline, but the trauma bond is still in place. The end is open...Your empathy followed me through the day. From a kindred soul who knows the same pain...Best wishes for you and your daughter.
@@DanniTheMagicJunkDrawer I could cry reading this. And to think that the adults around you did not have a clue what sensitive soul was among them.
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Thanks Andrew!!!
I’m dealing with this at my work, it’s very messy. Manipulating narcissistic people coupled with a micro-managing supervisor. My nerves are shot and are fraying. Very few options. They label me a problem co-worker because I have boundaries. It’s time to leave. Praying for the financial means to thrive after I walk. Thank you!!!
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I did the same thing as you are describing. I left that position and never regretted the release and ability to breathe again. Stay strong and remember your worth!! ❤
Marilyn, I quit my job last year without another one lined up. I knew in the area where I live it would probably be some time before I would be able to get another job but i did not care. Lived off doing Instacart grocery deliveries, dog sitting and credit card debt piled up during this time. I have been employed full-time for a couple weeks now at a job I love and am working on paying down the debt and building up my savings again. Bottom line you need to walk if you're feeling like you're gonna snap and do something that will land you in jail.
I'm 62 years old and for quite a few years I lived on the street. on occasion a person would approach me and offer me something a little money, mittens, offer me a cup of coffee ect. In the beginning I would be nasty to people like that. And it would be things that I really needed but I guess my pride my embarrassment that would be very rude to kind and caring people. Then I started to look at it differently, why would I discourage kindness. Why not just say thank you very much and appreciate it. We need more people like that. Now if somebody offers me something it brings tears to my eyes. That they actually care about my well being. 😊 Thank You
Prior to this education, when pushed too far, I had only anger, frustration, lashing out, self-destructive behavior. Now, I've learned so many more options are available, none of which were the former. I rate this video a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Java Joe, there came a time when I really lost my temper. After you're used so much, you can't take anymore. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!
@@jannlewandowski5540 Same here, followed by shame and humiliation. It can be used forever by the Narc to label you as unstable. Added, you start questioning your own self-regulation of emotion and only adds to self- doubt. Emotional Control made me a better human being.
Thank you 🙌😌🙏
I lashed out at my narcassist when I had had enough of his manipulation for money it became a battle field and I had to put up a strong wall and he ran for the hills when I called him out in front of his basketball mates. An empath can have a lot of wrath too. Sadly being an empath I hurt myself too and now have to live with my action. 😅
@@jhavajoe3792 so well put and good to know I am not alone with these exact emotions you stated.
I am a champion… I overcame the narcissistic relationship! I understand my value, I know who I AM
John Alexander, Good for you.👍
So great, John🙏
Hello! Thank you for this confirmation! I grew up with a malignant narcissist and never knew it. I married one as well and after 30 years of torture, I woke up. I bought books and listened to videos and so happy I just found this one! I have been alone over 12 years as I needed to sort things out and understand what happened and to make sure I was at a point where it never happened again. I finally cut off some family members, hard to do, and am starting over spiritually, mentally, and physically as I was sick for years and believe it all came from stress. My relationships were like sandpaper against the grain of my soul. I always knew in my heart who I was but didn't know how to live my heart, now I do. I feel so free and internally happy. Ready to start my life, lol, even at my age! After being in these relationships over 60 years, you have a LOT of healing to do as the PTSD is deep. I will continue to listen to your videos with gratitude.
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I am 67, and your experience sounds very similar to mine. It has taken me 10 years, since I left him, to really start to heal as life was very chaotic for most of the time. Looking forward to the future now and, for the first time in my life, I'm loving myself and seeing my true value. Bless you ❤
This keeps coming to mind, what someone said long ago....."There are 2 kinds of people in this world, Givers and Takers. The Takers are always looking for the Givers, so beware if you are a Giver! In addition, a Giver must couple with a Giver for true peace and happiness." 😊
I love this.." Entering my Third Phrase"! hallelujah.....Sounds like a blessing.cant wait to see people smile and smile myself again
Wonderful video. In looking back, I am now realizing I’ve been an empath my entire life. I’m a 65-year-young woman who has been trying to deal with a narcissistic DIL. It’s been a nightmare and my son and husband do not see it and are still being love bombed by her. The problem I’m having now, and actually all of my life, is that when I do try to set boundaries all hell breaks loose and you become the bad guy and villain. It’s been a real struggle. Thanks for your kind words and wisdom.
Welcome 😌💯🙏
I'm 64 years old, and just realized that I am a empath 😊
I've always put others before myself. I have spent the last 12 years caring for family, always helping others who are in need.
Helping where ever I can.
Until recent events, then I snapped 😭😭😭 cried for days at the hurt from my so called loved ones.
Then I lost it 😲😲😲, since then I have changed my mind set, I've blocked them out of my life and I feel positive and happy for the first time in, feels like forever.
Now my life is taking a different road and I'm so excited, even at my age ❤
Thank U from the bottem of my heart for me to learn more of myself in recovery & healing from narc x. Years ago I had called him out- only to have been physically brutally attacked. His dad was a cop and was also a narc. I was married once to a hornet nest of 'them'. Praise God to know Im not alone with what i endured plus His loving rightousness to give me the strength to overcome the wrongful displaced anger x put on me. You are a diamond Brother in this narc epidemic of this planet. Namaste.
I just realized I'm an empath. I also have recently encountered a Super Narcissist. I am a giver. Giver of cookies, cakes, friendship, money or whatever anyone needs. However, THIS narcissist would not accept anything I offered to her be it cake, cookies, tea, or help of any kind. Why, because she knew it all, but she was not a giver. She sucked the energy out of the air, turned every one of her mistakes on to me, and acted as if she was the boss of everyone. Sadly, her father IS the boss and only brought her into the office because she ASKED if she could. I've worked for her father over ten years yet she decided she could tell ME what to do and how to do it. She finally left, but I had to put up with her nearly three months.
To tell you the truth, being around her simply wrung me dry. I'm praying she gets the job of her dreams in the medical industry and never comes back to the office, ever again in my lifetime.
So, riddle me this: How to recover from a drive-by shooting from a bull-like narcissist?
Thank you for sharing this 😌🙌💯🙏
I have always been told that I was too sensitive, when it was empathy all along. Yes Andrew, boundaries boundaries boundaries these have been put in place and there’s been a huge shift. All I said is “ I don’t want to be with you anymore” he can figure that out if he’s even capable, not my issue anymore. I love people and my heart has always been in the right place …. I’m taking back my power to love those that are deserving of my beautiful empathic nature.
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Dianne, I learned the hard way, never to give my power up again. I was born an empath, and nobody can take that from me.
@@ESSIEMARIE1998 hey Martha, yes empathy is a gift not many are wired like us ❤️. I know I must have had EMPATH stamped on my forehead in neon 😂❤️
My sister told me too that I'm too sensitive after getting nervous break down when I lived with her for 6 months. I had nervous breakdown with my husband. I was on antidepressants so people thought that I was just crazy. Two narcks.
❤Oh how I love you Andrew! Everything you have said is exactly what I experienced. Amen I survived!! I had to leave everything I owned every possession to get away. But I got away with my Life!! I'm homeless and have lived in a safe shelter for people experiencing domestic abuse. I don't have a penny to my name but I am free from his daily criticism and abuse! I can hardly see to type this because of the tears in my eyes. Andrew you have helped me so incredibly much to identify what I was experiencing in a marriage with a Narcissist. Everything makes sense! He almost killed me once because I had so much anxiety that I could not eat at all. I lost 40 lbs in a very unhealthy way. I was starving to death. Fortunately I wound up in the hospital where the help I needed began. It's so hard to start completely over but I am FREE!!!!
❤❤❤❤ you did good ❤❤❤ You did real good getting free.😊
So proud of you! Stay strong!
I once told my X narcissist husband, “ I have done everything for you, but I will not die for you”. Get away and stay away. It does get better.
I felt tested to prove i was worthy of his love. This was a lifetime issue of being tested and failing with narcissist s from childhood. Of course I failed in every way. With this narcissist, a lover who found me at 74, I failed all the tests, discarded and replaced instantly with younger and prettier whom he displays in public. In our shared social group. I have been devastated as old and stupid and ugly. Family fears for mental health. No money in this but way too similar to scams of elderly. He is still gray rock and I am in therapy. I'm almost 77 now. Thank God for your videos
I always thought there was something wrong with me because I couldn't be as detached as everyone else. .. because I was so sensitive to the underlying beauty of emotion and love and humankind.... because it's so beautiful it makes me cry... I could never figure out why I couldn't just be like everyone else... I've tried hard to conform, I have...
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Me too!
@emilywilson7308 Its SO NICE to know I'm not only one!!!!
That's been me my Whole Life; narcissists don't want You to Connect to your True Self.
"Until he extends the circle of his compassion to all living things, man will not himself know peace." - Dr. Albert Schweitzer
💯 yes I’m an empath that’s shining brightly now always have been the relationship stole that for many years I gave up on humanity I could never wrap my head around how people can be so cruel ,I always say this about myself I’m a big squishy marshmallow I cry over watching movies even kid’s movies 😅 had a tear at the wedding I went to at the weekend, I embrace every emotion
Hi Martha 💕🌸🌺
I'm 63 yrs old , you spoke about my life 100 percent
Every narcicist I know has a strange look in their eyes now and I see the wheels spinning. Thank you for acknowledging the empath and the truth.
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The hardest lesson to ever learn is to project love, peace and calm to those who hurt us....a good way to stay in the higher vibrational hierarchy.
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Awesome!! Thank you 💕 Empathy is indeed our superpower - because it means we can love to a greater degree. Not just love others, but we can love ourselves much more than others can love themselves. We can love ourselves way better than they'll ever be able to love themselves as a result of our extreme empathy. We just need to practice focusing that light that we are into our own hearts 😇
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A double edged sword - cuts our selves too. Fx our "need" to help friends, that see it as interferance, so we push them away.. How can I watch people I like, or love, walk into grear danger, without warning them? I can't - but "at least" there's nobody left to helppush away by now... Got a book coming - time will tell, if "a life" can open some new doors to new aquaintences, and maybe even friends and love in the long run.. I wouldn't bet on it though - based on my previous luck in life and love...
Excellent overview. My mom, the Original Narcissist, trained my people pleasing to new heights. I fell into a relationship with a malignant narcissist- toxic, manipulative, terribly abusive. It felt ok because of a childhood of training that taught me this was normal. 10 years and 4 children later, we got out by our teeth before he murdered us. Later, I ended my relationship with my mother whose behavior and lack of support simply went too far. I developed a rare, chronic illness from the stress that I still must manage today with numerous doctors. Now, at 67, I've come full circle just as you have described. I've "accidentally" helped more people than I can count, enriching their lives by simply listening and acknowledging their pain. My children have become beautiful adults despite the odds and blessed me with 4 gorgeous grandchildren. Life is wonderful and I love who I've become. Oh, and I learned I was an empath just 2 years ago ❤ Thank you, Andrew!
Thank you so much for this video! Very encouraging. After my divorce from a narcissist, I have struggled for years, trying to escape that victim mindset, the learned helplessness, the false narratives, etc. I have felt broken for so long. I want to watch this video multiple times and really soak in the encouraging message.
Back and watch every video. In no particular order because every single one hits a high point straight up. Healing and thriving are ahead of you! 🙏 to you.
I thought I was so in love… while he blamed all of our relationship problems and his lack of respect for me on me… went no contact and a month later he reached out… It felt so good to text back “lol” and then block without a second thought. Byeeee. I love myself more.
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So they were banking on me 🤔 huh? Guess they went bankrupt then 😮
Not supplying that toxic world anymore.
THIS empath is loving 🥰 herself and each moment. Have a great evening Andrew and all - I pray those still in the fog are carried out by the love in these messages. You are loved.
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@@terrestrial_rocket_ride_69 hello ❤️ swans are beautiful 😍
Heeyy Chelsea, good to see you. All these beautiful empaths should stick together and run down the MONSTERS! HOW ARE YOU??❤
Omg…This gave me chills. I have always thought that I have a purpose in life. Even as a child I remember thinking this. This is such a beautiful thing. Thank you 🙏 for your words. ❤
The tough thing is that narcissists often will have empathy but there are massive gaps.
It’s not as simple as someone has empathy and someone doesn’t.
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I am, and I always say not everyone has the same heart. I constantly give because I’m kind but a lot of people take advantage of me, it makes sense now, thank you ❤
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Well Andrew I have always known I was an empath but nobody told me that it was perceived as a weakness and that people would take advantage of my kindness and love. It has been a long road to learn that lesson. But now I am glad I have figured it all out. Have a great evening. ❤😊
Marie France, you are safe now! Don't ever forget that. I'm so happy that we can all live and understand what we've been thru. We are all safe now. ❤
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@@jannlewandowski5540 Hi Jann, I like this word you used, safe. I have never thought of it this way but now thanks to you I will. It is so true we are safe because we now know how to protect ourselves from these toxic people. Thanks for the lightbulb moment I just had. It's so cool how much we can help each other in this community. Have a great afternoon and evening my friend. ❤😊
@@mariefrancebourget1749 You also my friend, and yes, we will always be here for each other. ❤️💙⚘️💗
“Shedding tears”… beautiful.
I definitely get angry especially when I feel like I'm being oppressed- thanks mom! I guess I would call myself an empath but it's not because it came to me naturally, it's because it was my survival strategy growing up, a survival strategy that didn't allow me to form much of a sense of self. And so now, I'm learning what it means to have a connection to self when in connection to others... Not having a self also means you don't have a way to protect the self when necessary, hence always taking the others perspective .. it's definitely not an easy path, but my therapist agrees with you and says it's better to feel other people's feelings than not .. but we have to remember that it does sometimes come at the cost of ones own connection to self.
Brilliant as usual. Andrew, I want you to know that you are changing lives to "better" and to "forever". Like a doctor that cures you of a terrible disease. No words to thank you.
Thank you for your videos. My narcissist was my sister. I tolerated her behavior to keep,peace in the family. When my parents both passed, I stopped tolerating. My sister sort of “blew up.” I and her daughter were her targets. My niece and I are now our own family unit and we couldn’t be happier. I am 70, my niece is 53. We broke free just this year. My sister unfriended and blocked both of us on Facebook and we are perfectly fine with that. I no longer dread my phone ringing or my sister’s car pulling into my driveway uninvited. My niece and I both pretty much lost her two brothers but that was a price we had to pay for peace. I haven’t been happier.
People used to call me an empath back before I Even knew what it was. After years of getting dicked around I have virtually no empathy left.
Accurate. I’m an empath who survived a narcissist. He fed me everything I was dreaming of but never delivered. My instincts told me to run. I didn’t. Not until it was nearly too late. I gave way too much and it cost me. But I finally left and it took years to heal. I couldn’t even date. I was so afraid of men. BTW, I have a tattoo of a phoenix. It should be the symbol for every survivor of narcissists. ❤
I took back my power, thank you for this message. I am an empath. You are right I had to take back my power, what strength I have gained. ❤ Namaste
🙏😊I always had my suspicions.
I needed answers to prove I was right.
It's taken a lifetime to get these answers.
I have now blown the narc illusion, I am emotionally liberated, the show is over, check mate....when I get out from under the same roof as the narc and have all that was taken from me then it will be .... ULTIMATE CHECK MATE!!!
🗡️🛡️🔥Andrew, from the first video I seen of yours I knew withing a minute you were alive....that you were an empath...you had /have a pulce!!
Hence all of your videos and loving support.🙏🔥🦊🕷️🐕🐕
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I learned the hard way that those that rescue will require rescuing. Unfortunately I escaped to a place where there are ultra dysfunctional people, but it gave me an opportunity to learn boundaries rather than isolate. The narcissist died and now I live
I think an important point is that many people who think they're an empath, in reality is traumatised childhood survivors, who lived with unpredictable parents, which caused them to become hyper aware of others emotions, for their own security and survival. This also explains the poor boundaries and missed red flags
Andrew, every video you do speaks to me. My heart is so full of love like I have never known before. My mother, husband, friend were/are all narcissists. Until I found your channel, I felt so alone and without any understanding of why I suffered day in and day out. Thank you for being here for me and our community. The work you are doing is immensely important to those of us who have been in a narcissistic relationship or those who are trying to set themselves free. You, Andrew, are my inspiration. TU. 🥰
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@@rubyjet9513 that's beautiful, Ruby!
@@emilywilson7308 Yeah, a pure, loving heart can never be imprisoned.
I’m on my healing path 👍🏼I’m truly understanding what it means to be an empath - thank you so much for helping our community heal and know we are not alone👍🏼
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Sometimes an empath is so overwhelmed - the body "temporarily makes it so you can't feel for just a lil bit".
The part when you said “they didn’t think you would pick yourself up” I FELT that.
This is my 1st time coming to this channel, because I definitely identify as an empath. I'm in my mid 50's, and only started to understand and know me about 6 years ago. I've been through some tough things, since young childhood. I have survived traumas, and my sensitivities have always been a part of who I am. When I was a child I was told I'm too sensitive, and I've been playfully mocked. I've been told to toughen up, stop 'crying about everything',or that I'm too emotional. I tried. I really can help what I feel. I can feel........everything. it's a blessing that sometimes feels like a curse. I feel EVERYTHING. I feel it from people all around, I can feel their energy, emotions, moods. I could be blind and still feel it. I haven't had many long term relationships so I can't really relate much to narcissistic partners, though I've known the kind, but I can definitely attest to being an empath. I still feel it strongly from people, but I am very tuned in with animals that way, and they know it too. I am a bit of a recluse, because I'm so sensitive to others and it can overwhelm me pretty fast, and in my quiet space I feel calm. Nature and animals soothe me. People.....well, they drain me. I'm still learning how to not absorb so much and to shield, but it's definitely taking practice bit by bit. I know my limits, my boundaries, and I learn to Love my sensitivities as they are. All of us empaths should love that we're here as the heart of it. 🕉
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I can so relate to animals especially Lovebirds. Here in AZ especially Scottsdale we have the beautiful love birds they communicate and it’s truly amazing. I had been feeding them for 3 years in the backyard it turned into a sanctuary I even went as far as putting up a misting system during the hot summer months. Other birds started joining in it was so amazing to watch those cute birdies they squeak and it sounds like they laugh too they would dive bomb me from the tall bushes in the morning when I was filling up their birdbaths and feeder. My narc husband did help at times… he built a roof over their bird feeder for protection and the big shady tree helps with holding it in place and Shepards hook. It was and still is a perfect wonder land for them and me. I so love ❤️ those free lovebirds, they bring so much joy, in these times of sorrow! God Bless you all. 🦜❤️🦜🙏🏻😇
Narcissists have no idea what encouragement is. If you encourage them they look at it like they deserve it and you owe it. When you need it? Hell will freeze over before you get it.
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I am a INFJ and my daughter married the ultimate narc. Not seen or heard from her for 13 years, something woke me up this year, i dont know what but i suddenly realised i didn't care anymore, after all the heartbreak and tears and self destruction, i now feel free and am losing my fear of others. Thank you so much
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Well said. 20 years with a covert passive aggressive narcissist. One day I just stopped and said “no more.” The past 3 years has been healing and finding my purpose. When you say that you rebound a hundred fold, that is where I am now. Live is amazing on the other side. Thank you for making this video.
Had that same “enough is enough” moment. But I can say the shocked look on ex-hub’s face was priceless. Now 10 years later had a spiritual awakening in the rear view mirror. Now setting boundaries frequently, now acknowledging my empath superpower, now people telling me all the time “I love being around you.” Thanks for the incredible video.
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Thank you Andrew, for bringing this subject up. Today I know myself. I'm proud of being an empath. It's very easy for me to understand other people. Which I consider being very positive. When younger, I thought it was wrong to be like me. I looked up to my older sibling that was very cold and lack of sensitivity. Being an empath I feel it coming. If it's bad or good - I feel it. I know when people are telling lies. They can't fool me anymore. 🙂❤
I am an empath and it has its challenges when narcissists are all around me. My whole family. I have removed myself from the toxicity. It hurts but not as much as being around them. I pray for them from a distance.
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Story of my life. No longer. I changed. I look after my well being more now. I set boundaries.
I feel verbally unkind sometimes but I set a limit now as to how I like to be treated by others.
I am deserving of respect and love, too.
I found peace and contentment by being single. I appreciate my new life. I am now free to be the real me. A person who is kind and deserving of love. My life is so blessed❤️
Thank you. You described the change in me to the last detail. Namaste 🙏
YASSSSS TO THE EMPATHS!!!!! 💚🌳💚 Andrew you are such a GIFT!!! Thank you so much for all you do 🙏🏼
I can't even tell you how spot on you are, when It comes to my personal experiences. It's taken me years, to realize that I'm a Sensitive Empath. Now, I've educated myself on this power. I've watched you, and other informative sites on Sensitive empaths. I thank you so very much for your posts. I've learned boundaries, and learned how to use my gift for the betterment of people who deserve my attention. I'm grateful that I'm still a loving, giving, and empathic person. Yet, I don't allow my positive energy to be drained by narcissists, and, or other, psychologically mentally ill persons. I was told you're just too sensitive....I worked in a prison as a Corrections Officer for 13 yrs. I'm grateful for that. It forced me to see who I am, who I've always been, and how to balance my empathy, and my power to stand up for myself. Thank you. Ps. Looking back, I've always known I was different. I see, feel, smell, and sense things times 💯. I know now, I'm not crazy. I only use my empathy for good. To help others. It's hard sometimes, because I've actually scared people, by sharing things with them, I sense, feel, or hear.
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They’ve called me a “woosey girl”.
Thank you,Andrew ❤
I am an empath, I help others and serve my community . I am also vulnerable to and recovering from narcissistic abuse. I can tell you that being exposed to narcissistic people can affect you and your values and before you know it you start to think selfishly like they do. They can’t stand your kindness and they will do anything to hurt you.
Thank you Andrew, your words of wisdom are helping so many to recognize their worth and to heal.❤
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"I just want to tell you one thing. You deserve someone who will love you sincerely, you deserve someone who will be sensitive to that wounded child in you, someone to whom you can talk for hours about what's bothering you without turning your head and looking at the clock when you're done. You deserve someone who will hold your presence as sacred, not play with it like a toy that they will only keep for as long as it suits them and then throw it away as if they never needed it.
You deserve someone who will understand you in the depth of your heart and soul, someone who will wipe your tears and go with you where you invite him. Believe me, there are many who will camouflage themselves and manipulate you, win over you to some heartbreaking feeling and then leave. There are many who only care about your appearance, but they don't even notice what's inside you. Be strong and wise! You owe it to yourself! Ask for what you deserve and let everything less than that pass. Life is too precious for anything else."
- Mario Zuvela
That's great, Ruby! So true.💕
BEAUTIFULLY said and 1000% TRUE!!! ONLY the BEST for Andrew!!! ♥️👑♥️👑♥️👑♥️
@@jennifernewton4637 And for you my beautiful Jennifer. Only the best for you too ❤️
Andrew will take care of himself, I have no doubt.
@@emilywilson7308 I'm glad you like it 😊
Yes! Shedding tears is a positive cleansing 💪
I new when I was young that I was a Empath. But didn’t know the word. I went many years feeling everyone’s pain, joy, heartbreak, and could identify with them. But it took a Narcissist to bring it out in open for me to understand that I was different. I want to thank you Andrew, for explaining everything to me in your videos. I have listened to you now for 2 years or more, and I’m healing and able to handle anything that comes my way. I didn’t know how strong I was. I now feel all powerful in my life. Like I can handle anything that comes my way. You have made the difference in my life. I owe it all to you and your videos. I am now trying to help others to get help and educate themselves on who they may be dealing with. (Narcissist and their Demons they have in them). Through God all things are possible. It has been a long hard road to go it alone. But, I have done it. Thanks to you Andrew. I can’t thank you enough. Sometimes the student falls in love with the teacher. You won’t be forgotten. Keep on teaching and doing what you do. Saved by you and God. ✝️🙏👵🏻. ❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕💞💞💞💝✝️
I am so empathic I can’t function properly without prescription drugs. I’m on like 6 different anxiety medications now, and I am finally entering that third version of myself.
It's hard to be around people.
“Andrew”…. “Thank you!” Hard to hear, but helps me.
I am an empath with extreme discernment. The narcissist I was married to for almost 20 years almost bled me dry of life. I fled because I knew it was life or death for me. It has been horrible trying to help our children. It has hurt them so much. One of them is very narcissistic as well. I like to call it a nightmare that never ends.
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I always thought so negatively of myself that I didn't understand why people wanted to hang out with me. Now I finally do. I am an empath, I am a lovely, sweet, and caring person. I am very special in that way. And it's great to have that confirmed. Thank you!
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Yes, proud to be an empath, it's awesome 😊
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You had me 😢shedding long held tears, your healing messages and words of encouragement have left me feeling like I can finally move forward, embracing my gifts ...
This video blew my mind. First, I was shocked when you said a lot of people don’t have empathy. Even though I know that, it is incomprehensible how a human being can be indifferent to suffering. But I am very happy you reminded us of that dismal reality because it shows how much the world needs empaths.
Second, you are so completely right about what unfolds in the empath’s life when the narcissist is no longer drawing blood off its host. Everything you said has happened to me since my mother died- everything. It’s happened rapidly but like being reborn into my real self- like I was sleeping all these years. You described this so accurately I wanted to reach through and hug you for such an articulate description.
I endured a lifetime of narcissistic abuse by my mother but at 63, I’m finally free. I don’t have a ton of life left but I thank the universe every day I am lucky enough to have done the self-work to become free.
I’m off to South America to retire and help street dogs. I’m finally happy and I’m truly alive. Thank you for such a beautiful and powerful video. You really nailed it. Keep this up!!
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"Lumbering around for the length of the relationship" 1000% - when it's a family member it's a lifetime. It takes so long to leave because 'it's family'. Weight lifted for sure - very difficult. Yes empath here! This is an awesome video, love your channel Andrew!
Another good one Andrew 🌲🌳🐦also the narcissist is full of envy too 🧐
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NEVER LOSE THE ABILITY TO 💘!!! No matter HOW MANY people have kicked you around in whatever way it happened.
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@@ESSIEMARIE1998 I 2 am an empath. 😉
They were, Also - "banking on you not recovering", after you exited that toxic situation(s) ! Indeed!! Exactly!! But, we did it!!!
Thank you for this powerful and beautiful video
i wish there was a support group for victims of narcissitic relationships whiuch is what narcissists need tough wITHOUT love
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Omg...this resonated with 100% thank you for helping me recognise my power, everything you said has happened to me... I'm post recovery from narcissistic abuse and I feel powerful, even more so from your video (s) . People now don't know how to handle me...pls keep making these videos for us empaths.
I still have a way to go to self improvement but with your guidance, I know I can make it
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True that..people don't know how to handle me lol so they try to control me..always mistake my kindness as my weakness..even when I tell them keep f****** with me and I'm gona have to hurt your feelings! Then OMG they cry victim how could you lol..hey and I'm still not being 100% ugly because then you be an 🐊 snack. Oh my apologies I mean I'm agood empath..but always wear my narc vest of armor
I saw a video the other day talking about empathy fatigue. And it resonated with where I'm at. Just exhausted from being tuned in to everyone elses emotions and not really getting anything back from anyone. I know the game plan is to give without any expectation of anything in return, but at some point, you'd think what comes around goes around. I've had to just detach from caring about anyone elses needs and try to figure out what my needs even are. I don't even know anymore. And by pulling back on being there for others, I've realized that nobody is there for me. Just my faithful dog and my 2 kids. Everyone else sees me as a dry well
Hoping a recharge for you. In those mounds of silt ( takers), there's a few who remember what you did. They're a few Flecks of Gold dust, but they remember and are grateful.
Thank you for another week of wonderful videos, Andrew. Thank you for the reminder at the end that there is no longer room for toxic individuals in our life. ❤️
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