WHAT THE NARCISSIST REGRETS MOST ABOUT YOU
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You are the best Andrew you have helped me in so many ways I tell people to watch you God Bless❤
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There is so much evil in this world that I prefer to stay single.
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This is how I feel right now. You have to be pure evil, the purest form, to put someone through what we are going through. A spawn of Satan to render this kind of pain onto someone else...
@@GreaterDeity evil is live backword Hmmm
Most of the time the narcissist comes back when you start healing. Stay strong. When the door closes, make sure it stays closed 😉
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Really?
It's closed FOREVER
...and locked!
Too late, I opened it. Have to heal again 😢💔
He missed my income, my slavery to his laundry list of daily tasks, etc. Thank God I don't have to deal with his abuse anymore. I will NEVER allow myself to be sucked into another narcissistic abusive relationship again. 😕
💪💪😁🙌 A-MEN, Mary!!! ❤❤❤
Ditto, well said!
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I'm living with my brother and his narcissist son!
Amen to that Mary 💪🙌 i am so happy for you. Free at last. 😉❤🙏
And one day, they have to stand before God, to give an account for their doings..
The hardest truth about narcissistic abuse according to my own experience: It is almost impossible to REALLY explain how the abuse worked. Even if you have all the terms for narcissism.Most people will only really get it when they have experienced themselves (which i still hope will never happen)
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That’s so true. Not one single person I know gets it
So true!!
Heal those childhood wounds that’s why we didn’t see those creatures coming. Make sure you don’t take them back.
I was “Programmed” in my childhood to accept abuse from my manager, NEVER from a romantic partner!!!
I am not willing to be continually attacked anymore.
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By ANYONE!!!!!!🖕🏿
You’ve nailed it with your insightful comment. So true - just sick of it and no more. Well done you x
Married 35 yrs to a narcissist, always playing victim, always accusing me of cheating, even after a polygraph that she hired for me to take. Long story short, she’s the one that was cheating and got caught. My sorrow is losing my home and pension after working all my life, kind of hard to rebuild at 60. Narcissist are demonic and evil. I pray every day that I’ll be okay and meet a loving woman that I deserve and deserves me. Your message reveals my soon to be ex wife’s narcissistic behavior 100 percent. Thank you for your message.
Nick. I was in a very similar situation. Except , I was never accused of infidelity. I suspected she cheated , but the marriage was poor and ending and I had young children. So I put it out of my mind, we were married in 77 so by the time she became truly intolerable and said This Marriage is Over, You have to leave…I was 54.
Years of horrid Family Court , in an absurd State with archaic laws . She behaved beyond what anyone could believe ( Attorneys)
They ruin lives. I don’t think they are evil, per se, but they have no boundaries at All. Thing we would Never do because we were brought up with good morals, are just OK with them.
Police,TROs, making sure your children forsake you with brainwashing and lies, cheating. All in a Days work for them. Lol
By the time I was clear of her Many ancillary lawsuits, I too was older, 59. I had lost a terrific home that I put so much of myself in it . Kids were now liars or hateful towards me. So she accomplished what she set out to..
Total destruction of someone who only wanted to Love, Provide and Protect her .
Work on yourself. Kemo Sabe, I met a great PsyD who put me on the path as to what was wrong with her.
I used to just say. I can’t make her happy.
Sad to ruin lives, but they would never discuss that with you. They were so damaged early on that they know no other way than to seek Adulation or obtain supply by hurting and devaluing others.
My life has been hard, I dated a bit, but the women I read into were so damaged, either always or after their divorce and the people they met after .
@@josephsimontacchi2285 thank you for sharing Joseph.
Hey brother almost like my story with ex- wife only 22 years in the marriage.. my pension I work 33 years gave her 10 1/2 year of my pension to the Narc guess what first wife was a Narc also these Narc love to cheat anyway first Narc die the beginning of the year I believe in karma…
Forget relationships with modern women at this stage. You didn’t learn your lesson? 🤷🏻♂️
Take it to court, prove it to the judge
I am actually thinking about getting off of social media totally and completely, because nothing is realistic and the flying monkeys are on every app. As soon as they find where you are, they hoover and attack. I am sick of it. I don't need the stress. I am fine without it. This empath is protecting herself from ALL toxicity.
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I thought I was the only one who had to deal with that. At least that's what they said they would do. Namaste
I hear ya Mary. I left all social media behind (other than UA-cam). I don’t miss it. ❤
Animal channels, documentaries, and comedy would gladly welcome your presence! No strings attached. . . And MUCH enjoyment.
Mary,I did it 3 years ago,best choice ever.The only thing I am on, is U tube as a watcher not a producer ,because it's where I self educate)
Even though I have less Idea of what is going on with everone because they are all addicted to it,it has saved my peace of mind and made it easy to avoid minions and flying monkeys of the Narcissists.It also stops the Narcissists I have gone no contact with (Mother,ex H and a friend) from having a window into my life.Huge improvement in privacy !!!
My daughters ( 20 and 27) dont use social media much compared to many of their peers, other than how it supposed to be used (,not as self promotion) and they do not post pictures of me or my home so it has really helped me to clear out my life of fakery.
Also problematic people from my past cannot contact me out of the blue,and try a hoover or a do over,like they used to.
What i did notice is that social media really reveals the ClusterBs once one becomes educated.
(It plays out in what they say,the comments they make on others posts and pics and the things they choose to promote about themselves)
BUT the benefit of the huge firewall I have around my life due to being off social media out weighs this for me.
Information that Cluster B types get from social media is used to ,smear ,covertly seek supply ,triangulate etc etc.
Took me 10 and 20 years respectively to get clear and recover. I was devastated. I became deathly physically ill and got a LOT of help. Definitely self-isolated. Until I found out what a narcissist is, I was in the dark. I am just now coming out of it. Your insights are concise and on point - very clear and helpful. I thank you, Andrew!
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Narcissist was the word I've been looking for my entire adult life. It suddenly had a name, and I suddenly knew it wasn't going to ever change. These people are what they are.
@@cc1k435 Same, I'm 55 years old & I never heard (and learned) that word till about 4 years ago .... Andrew & his channel here is outstanding! Blessing to you for loads of healing!
It takes such a long time. I'm glad I'm not only one challenged by this.
@@FieryKTarot You are not alone xxx
The ex narc regrets taking advantage and thinking I was stupid & too in love to figure him out. I blocked, discarded and went NC without looking back.
Your videos are keeping me going. I feel down and I just watch one and I wake up again to fight and start.
Thank you very much.
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His last words about me were 'she made my life miserable ' to our son. That was 26 years of being a slave and putting his needs before mine. Still wasnt able to find contentment. I am in good place now after years of abuse and slavery. He is still finding faults with the new supply the grass wasnt greener after all that. Im glad out of that chaos and drama.
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Parallel experience for me too. I think, however, my ex will chose to not move in with any new supply again, so that she wont see who he truly is, so that he wont find fault in her and so that he can continue dating lots of other women. Like you, Im just glad to be out of that chaos and drama (everyday).
I stop listening to content like this once I started healing more... But I still have times where I feel low and wonder what is wrong with me... And something like this pops up and it really helps me get through these times. Thank you so much for your kind yet stern words. I really appreciate this channel.
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I left my covert narcissist 3 days ago after 3 years... I've suffered every angle of narcissism & ashamed I stayed so long... I miss something but not him... my time now is to heal & flourish... I've learnt so much here!
I discarded a covert narcissist a couple of months ago. I realized that I missed who I thought the narcissist was, not who the narcissist Really was. Think about that.
This is a great channel. I have learned a lot from Andrew. The community is kind and supportive.
I wish you well with your path.
@Nikki G yes the planted seed of hope that didn't grow... out of the darkness of a narcissist realm I wish you happiness on your journey back to a vivid light...
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Good it was only 3 years
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I ran into my ex-husband Narc at McDonald’s in 2019. I heard him on the phone in a booth as I walked in, never turning to look at him.
There was no one else in the lobby. I had to wait a long time to get my coffee.
I walked out the door near the counter, never once looking back at him near the opposite wall and took a path all the way around the outside of the building to get to my car.
I drove off.
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Way to go!
Best move ever!😅
The narcisists regret how we made them feel, what we did for them, what we gave them, how we provided for them - simply what supply we were. The truth will set us free. Thank you Andrew.
The narcissist regrets nothing.
They have no soul, no empathy, no regret. Nothing.
I believe empaths are introverts generally. Narcissists are extroverts. I'm cautious of all extroverts now, and I certainly wouldn't date one.
Introverts unite, alone, in our rooms.
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I did everything for my ex. Any time she complained about something or had a problem....I fixed it and took care of it. Fixing the cars, house, take care of the dogs, constant back cracks and massages for her bad back, always attended all her family events, cooked and cleaned, etc. Literally everything. I stayed for way way too long and put up with way way too much bad behavior....behavior I never tolerated with anyone else and Im frankly ashamed of myself for it. I really thought she was the one and I wanted kids and a family with her.
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You are not alone. I felt/did the same. She's the one, kids, house, dog, etc. Only to find out that I was dating the worst person I ever met. I nicknamed her Satans mistress. They are demons and only want to drag you into the muck where they live.
Eh, wiser now and moving on.
I did the same, everything to keep peace in the house. I had to feed the kids before she got home from work so I would not have to listen to her yelling at the kids at the dinner table. She dumped every responsibility and chore on me including our kids. After 10 years of marriage, she had her affair and moved out on us. Her best gift for me was leaving me.
I can relate, was with her for 20 years. Did everything to provide, yet she still monkey branched to another man and lied and cheated throughout the ManipulationShit!
After a 9 year relationship and harsh discard, and 6 months of researching narcissism and trauma bonds, I discovered your site this morning and feel understood and better equipped to go forward 🙏
Welcome to the community..😌💯🙌😊
I've said it before and will say it again : this narcissist, my now ex husband, will NEVER find anyone who cared about him as much as I did or will do as much for him as i did with the amount of effort i did. If he ever has any regrets sorry, that's his problem. He had almost 7 years to be a true husband, a true friend but he chose to use me for money, for personal gain, as someone to put credit cards and loans for him in my name meanwhile he was running around with whoever doing whatever, never had any time for me only excuses.
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After 16 years & a child together, I found out the narc was cheating with someone he was seeing on the side, even brought her into my home to play house for a week while I was out of town. He denied all of it, even though I have audio /video recordings of it & is blaming me for cheating (never even thought about another man, I was so in love with him). He has done some awful things to me, even gaslighting to the point where he almost had me believing I was losing my mind & needed help!
Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge & insights. It’s helping me get through this very difficult time. I appreciate your help!
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Some of your story is similar to mine. I hated going on work trips. One time I was giving a presentation and I literally got sick from a whole different state! The narc had the nerve to bring that low life ho into my home to be with her. That is even worse than the act itself bc I see it as being a real devil
I don't know whether my narcissist thinks about me anymore or not, and I'm not sure I care. I know, however, that the experience opened an opportunity for me to learn about myself in ways I otherwise wouldn't have. The wounds we all experience through narcissistic abuse are like cuts into our souls. Ironically, those cuts aren't all bad. They become windows into ourselves that we wouldn't have made on our own. Thanks to the narcissists, we can now see deeper into ourselves and our souls. We now have understanding and truth, two of the most powerful things a person can possess.
We are all made of scars.
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Well said.. When I think about the first version of myself.. I was so lost, so weak, people pleaser, willing to do anything to make someone like me. Seeking approval, no idea what I WANT from life. Such a poor existence. Now I know all I need is myself and my own approval!
@@mmnde12 I’m glad you transformed into a self-loving, self-respecting person. Your life will be much happier. Thank you for sharing. - Joe
Yes! They (IMO) are meant to be the catalyst for your ultimate awakening 🙏🏻
I’ve never experienced such pain but pain is what causes us to have profound growth forces us to see the truth.
I’ve been saying this is the hardest thing I’ve ever endured although I’ve been through some really rough times this takes the cake BUT I am extremely grateful it has opened me up to my shadow and made me fearless!🖤✨
While we are learning a valuable lesson and becoming the best version of ourselves, the narcissist is and always will be stuck in their skewed perception false reality miserable; and fine tuning their manipulative skills only to remain stagnant.
We are victors not victims 🦋
I wasn’t going to watch this video, because I COULDN’T CARE LESS about what the narcissist thinks about me or even THAT she thinks about me, but I wanted to do my part in supporting a great guy who has been there for our community. Thanks for the ego stroke, and thanks always for your kind and thoughtful insights, Andrew. ❤
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Andrew- you are so spot on! You are humble and direct, experienced, wise and generous! I appreciate you tremendously. I am grateful for YT’s algorithm sending you to me today!!! Best man with narc knowledge 💛👍🙏
It's important to me that I don't regret anything about them.
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Don't waste that energy ✌️
Good attitude.
@@artluvr6170 It's not an attitude, but I really feel that way. It is difficult for many to understand.
@@artluvr6170 I'm not writing phrases here. I always write what I feel.
They (IMO) are meant to be the catalyst for your ultimate awakening 🙏🏻
I’ve never experienced such pain but pain is what causes us to have profound growth forces us to see the truth.
I’ve been saying this is the hardest thing I’ve ever endured although I’ve been through some really rough times this takes the cake BUT I am extremely grateful it has opened me up to my shadow and made me fearless!🖤✨
While we are learning a valuable lesson and becoming the best version of ourselves, the narcissist is and always will be stuck in their skewed perception false reality miserable; and fine tuning their manipulative skills only to remain stagnant.
We are victors not victims 🦋
I like that. Victors! Not victims 🎉 I feel sad that I fell for it but realized now that the master manipulators are con artists. I have self forgiveness now. Listen to what people say but SEE what they do. Actions, NOT words!
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Good call on that. Thank you
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I had to get rid of flying monkeys and this included some family members. I am not on social media period. I have a peaceful life now. ❤❤❤❤
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My narc regrets I am making him accountable for adult behaviors and have EXPOSED his childish behaviors to the community. ( He has been displaying his temper tantrums in public. ) 😔
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Ditto! I'm making him pay child support. 'You didnt have to do that', he said. Well, yes I did, because I didnt want to keep chasing him down for money, having to keep in contact with him, still under his control.
@@TheSeekeroftruth1 Not my experience but my sister's experience. ( Late 70's early 80's $15/ week 2 kids in diapers. ) He didn't even pay that and it was court ordered. 🙄 Didn't really cover the cost of ANYTHING. NOT DIAPERS, NOT FORMULA, NOTHING. 😔
With three different narcissistic exes, I had the opportunity to observe them from a distance when they believed they were alone and were unaware anyone was observing. In all three instances, they appeared emotionally dead. There was no joy in them. They were like black holes waiting for the next human to come into their orbit. I had believed the love was in them, but it had been coming from me.
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Good analogy. My ex narc never seemed happy. If he was, it was pretense.
@@Hatbox948mine had a whiteboard in his room with various goals, projects, trips & finances .. and on the bottom is “Stay Happy!!!”… must be his reminder to pretend that he is happy and to keep the facade of happiness at all times…
Yes just an empty vessel. So sad. Grateful to be away from them forever.😊 TGBTG
'These people don't have a life of their own '...
I was nothing more but a servant and a sex slave. I was given the “I care about you “ card , before the discard I was given the “ I want to keep you in my life because you’re older and I have questions “ card. “I want to stay friends “ card. Was given the “I want to live with you let’s get a place together “ card. I probably have more but I’m going through the been discarded totally, which is fine except I’m emotionally exhausted.
Hang in there. You are not alone in where you are on your recovery journey. I'm so glad you had the courage & strength it took (& I KNOW it took a lot!) to reach out & post a helpful comment.
Thank you!
Stay safe, remain sane, be YOUR best self TO yourself. Best of luck to you, sister.
@@shivasgirl1609 Thank you for being supportive, it’s people like you on here that have helped me as well as the individuals who make the videos. My freedom is coming, I can feel it 👍and then it’s moving forward to live my best life 🥰
@@emilykathleenn absolutely and the future faking. I even got the smear campaign up at the ski lodge, I was supposed to be the stalker because women just won’t leave him alone, yeah right. I saw more nice looking women give him the brush off when ever he would flirt and then deny it. One gal actually waved him away and I knew exactly why. I kind of laughed about that to myself. When he was finally caught with both of us girls in the same restaurant and he backed out I confronted him and he got upset with accusing me of he wasn’t allowed to have other friends. Everything this jerk was saying from the getgo was all lies. My bff said that it’s better for me because now he can be someone else’s problem 🤣🤣😂🤭. Sounds like a better plan for me 👍I’m still having to deal with the mental abuse I endured, I’m sure I’ll get through 😂
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That was me. Servant and sex slave. My body wasn't my own. It was disgusting. He even asked to come back for sex while seeking and having new supply. How pathetic. And they actually think you want them back for that. Omg
My first indication that they are indeed a narc. is indifference to peoples emotions.
At times it looks like empathy, but its only empathy when the narc still needs something
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it's hard to believe that they can be that insensitive. My ex passed it off as being "honest".
All I know, is he will never find a more devoted woman than I was to him....
My ex will never find a one like me either
One of the good things about reaching the "pinnacle of indifference " is that you do not care if the narcissist has regrets or not. You simply don't care. I do most definitely remember the days when I did wonder if the narcissist regretted leaving. I knew in my heart that he must have, because I did know that I gave everything I had. Not everyone does that. As you always say Andrew, each day brings you closer & closer to realizing who the narcissist is. They weren't having a bad year, they weren't stressed, they won't go back to who they were in the beginning. That was an act. They never were that person. My friends, you will realize this one day. Be patient with yourselves. Thank you Andrew for doing a video on what a lot of people are wondering. God bless 🙂
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Not everyone does that! So flipping true ❤️
Every narcs i had in my life broke my trust and that's why i will never take them back in my life. That's a done deal folks. Great video Andrew thank you. ❤😊
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Every narc left me out for dead hanging to pick up the piece's and to achieve my potential
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Each time I've been kicked to the crub I've picked myself up, brushed myself off and moved forward without them. Surprise 😊 I'm still here. ✌️🙏😇💯
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With all due respect, I don't see them as human beings. What makes us humanoid and sets us apart from other beings is humanity.
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I see them as robotic playing the same programme over and over, no insight or introspection to grow or learn from mistakes, due the deep shame instinctively motivating all their behaviour and keeping the mask in place.
@@SLS64 they ARE robotic. I agree. There are nobody there.
@@rubyjet9513 I see them, Ruby, as evil with evil intent.
@@margaretrussell7202 I understand you. Me too.
Ive been there and still picking up the pieces.. im not gona waste my time on mentally trying to figure out everyone anymore . I just stay away from these people. Alot of messed up people too .
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You WILL get through this! Keep educating yourself and watching as many videos as you can. I was a shell of myself after my ex narc discarded me after 4 1/2 years and a 2 year engagement. I honestly thought I had gone crazy, didn’t know who I was and cried almost every day. I immersed myself in watching videos and gathering as much information as I could. It’s been a month and 2 days since my discard and I’m finally feeling like my old self before she came into my life. Had to go no contact and haven’t looked back. It’s no easy task but what will help is knowing you’re not alone!! It also helps to not take it so personally once you know how the narcissist’s mind works. Still hurts badly but it’s easier knowing how their sick minds work
In the end they lose everything
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I really did a lot for the relationship, until I realized that MY LOYALTY BECAME SLAVERY !
It will be difficult for him, to find another replacement.I don't know, if he has any regrets or feelings, I was just a posession not a real independent person for him.
It doesn't matter!
Thx for this powerful video, Andrew❤😊🌞
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The I own you, I will destroy you 😅😢 in part the words that come out of them are pure evil. And I believe in God so thank you for this lesson learned the hard way. Can't change a narcissist, no more abuse
You DO matter ❤
“my loyalty became slavery” . . . whew, I am gonna have to sit with THAT statement because that is hitting REALLY close to home.🤔🤔🤔🤔🙏🏾
It's been six years and ten months since I left the narcissist. And every day I live my life freely and joyfully. Thank you, Andrew, for this video. You're right about these evil people. I hope everyone have a blessed day. Stay strong. We are beautiful, loving and compassionate.
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You're 100% on point Andrew, if you were to interview me you would be stunned.
I've endured being married to a narcissist for 39 years and she is just toxic, I'm going to divorce her in a few weeks and get my sanity back along with my happiness.
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How did your divorce go Peter. ?
Mine was a nightmare.
What was regretted most by the narcissist is why couldn't I be the person I am after the narc relationship during the time I was in the relationship. Namaste. 🙏 ❤️
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Things got way unbalanced dealing with the Narc(s). Earlier days of naivete- "There are givers and takers." No one wants to be labeled as an obvious "taker" and Narcs are good at disguising that. Where "giving" too much got way out of hand for myself, I'm working on better boundaries. Little did I know about narcissism that goes 500 fathoms deeper in mind games, manipulation and cruelty, than most who haven't experienced it, realize.. I feel it's like a war of attrition- an empath can recover energy and recharge upon getting out, but the narc will eventually wear down.👍🙏
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Good fences make good neighbors. Set sensible boundaries and stop rescuing people. The only thing my ex misses about me is my credit card.
I got a Hoover last weekend and he told me that he’s slow but he gets it now, and all good!! Wow! The way he had turned it all around on me! He’s the one that started ghosting me off and on 7 months ago! Now I didn’t answer his message he’s mad so I most likely won’t hear from him again. Thank God I found your channel. Thank you Andrew 🙏💪
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Thank you for your videos, you have helped me so much. I know my ex still thinks about me no doubt. I treated him like a king. My loving caring nature. He never had that in his relationships. He never reciprocated... He would always belittle me, degrade me, make a fool of me , manipulate and try and control me. His ex wife cheated on him numerous times then divorced him... Oh well as the saying goes. I didn't lose him he lost me... See how that works for him.
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They fall in love with you again, but only when you completely change everything about yourself and in yourself, your appearance, put a smile back on your face, etc. That's what Sam Vaknin claims.
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Yes, I can send you a link if you want.
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Andrew, to them we are just snapshot 😅 they took at the first second they see us. They see us as a static image.
@@palomahair8616 It's deleting the link. I'll give you the name of the video.
I left a narcissist in 2008 and I’m recovered now. In my healing process I had other narcissistic relationships and had to look at childhood trauma and dealt with complex PTSD from childhood abuse and neglect and it’s a process and the first narcissist I experienced was my mother and it conditioned me for other narcissistic relationships.
They have to live with themselves 24/7!! It sucks being them. I love God I love myself and he couldn't take that away from me. Demonic behavior that I had to rebuke.
It has really bugged me that this could happen to me, though I knew my value. I'd had a happy marriage of 46 years, and my husband passed. My Mom passed, and my two siblings who had discarded me when I married, returned with lawyers. It has been hard to get free of them because of the law firms. But I've stayed strong, and am coming through a challenging time period. I have been bashed. Never would have believed that this would have happened. But I am seeing that it is a spiritual path. I am doing this, and will take the lessons with me.
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It's always hard, & a shame, when family comes back into the picture via lawyers. It's tough. Hang in there. 💪
I’m loving the timing of the bin collection in the background !! Throwing out the trash 😅taking the rubbish away !
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Thanks Andrew. It still amazes me how this happened..I would have never thought But when I look back at the last 2 AND a half years I am just totally stunned. I'm a giver I know how to love. I'm a yes man I take care of people because it makes me feel good..I get that SICK FEELING in my guts..😢
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Exactly how I am feeling too. I can't believe that my son and I went through all of it. Kept forgiving and trying. BE WELL!
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Thank you for another great video, Andrew. I know that the biggest regret the narcissist has regarding me is that I watched videos on UA-cam and found out about narcissism. After finding out the truth, I made a plan. I discarded them. I don’t think the narcissist’s life is filled with rainbows or puppies or kittens. 😊 I’m thrilled that they are not a part of my life. With every passing day, I’m becoming empowered and stronger.
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@NikkiGRocks4Ever I just finished reading your comment and as I started rejoicing, I got a revelation from the Lord Jesus Christ. I don't know what you believe spiritually but I felt compelled to share this. The Lord just made me understand that in His mercy, He heard our cries - us, the multitudes who have been victimized by narcissists. He caused these teachers on here to really, really understand narcissists, help us understand the narcs too and to help us heal. Meanwhile, we get the community in the comments section so we can encourage each other and know we are not alone and there is light at the end of the tunnel. The Lord is saying that it is not the UA-cam income, books or courses they may sell but they truly have received grace to help us whether or not we can pay for it. So they give us grace. These UA-cam content creators are the mother and father I never had. In the comment section, I find the brothers and sisters I never had as I only had one sibling, a narcissist sister!
One evening, after the worst terror from my narcissist mom for 50 years, I cried out to the Lord Jesus in utter despair. The next evening, He led me to search UA-cam and before you now it, I was watching these videos. That was last December. I had no idea I was dealing with a malignant narcissist. Now I know what's up! The Lord had reminded me to focus on my one perfect parent, my heavenly Father. That plus this UA-cam community of empathetic teachers who teach us, counsel us, love us and fellow survivors is one of the best things that's ever happened to me. Thank You Jesus!
Before I got the education; when I was discarded, I chalked it up to that we couldn't live together harmoniously; and that whoever she was going off to (yes she hinted at it to hurt me) that they weren't going to love her. I was aware of how much poor behavior I put up with, and also that I stood on my head and did cartwheels for her- to no avail- I knew that hope in the relationship was misguided but I tried anyways. Whatever superficial supply she hopped onto- was doomed. Then I got the education and holy smokes! And yes btw I did accept a hoover 6 months post discard before I knew what a hoover was- guys don't go there- a hoover is only meant to use you again to prop up their ego for a very short amount of time only to subsequently grind you into the ground- much much worse than you ever thought possible. It's PURE EVIL- DON'T FALL FOR IT! I almost didn't make it- I even had a plan- yup- I did; I didn't want to be here anymore- I wanted it to stop. DON'T GO THERE!!!
You have to find the courage to stop replaying their lies in your head. It's very difficult- but your'e worth saving. At one point I had a dream that I ran into my 8yo self- and he was so beautiful, innocent, and uncorrupted- he just wanted to run and play and he didn't recognize me at all- I was a complete stranger to him. It was very profound. But it motivated me to get back to being who I AM, and not the person the narcissist tried to insidiously gaslight me into believing I was.
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I often think of that innocent little girl,I was, I could see her dressed in shorts,cotton top,bangles,gold, on her wrist sitting on a brick wall .looking out,so innocent,,I would love to meet her in my dreams..she was a lovely child back then...hold her hands and tell her I am sorry for the pain,and regrets.
Listening to alot of these videos an reading many of the comments I have more clearity of what the experience was like. Being trama bonded to the narc I could not see the empaths that crossed my path. Some had reached out to me but I was so wrapped up with the narc that I could not respond . I like to think I have a better roadmap to guide me now. There are many beautiful people that care and are willing to walk this journey called life with us. If there were not this channel would not exist. So much hope here with all of you! Thanks Andrew for opening the door for all of us!
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Proverbs 10:7 the memory of righteous is a blessing but the name of the wicked shall rot 🙏
Common sense, sound judgment and following Christ is the way ❤
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Great video Andrew. I eventually woke up to the fact that I was devalued and discarded on a regular basis. I gave to a fault but not anymore, the fountain has been turned off. One suggestion I have for ppl is to keep a journal and review it from time to time. Keeps you from lying to yourself. When you see the negatives out weighing the positives, it’s time to do your own discard.
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This is great advice. And a calendar, to see patterns to events. There's no denial after a while when it's ongoing, right in front of you through the months & years.
& keep it private if the narc is on site because they'll use it againstU
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Journaling is what helped me to wake up to the abuse.
Wow! Another strong empowering message, saying it how it is. Thank you Andrew.
Come on guys, we’ve got this 💪🏼🙏🧚🏼♀️
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Thank you, Andrew, for this great succinct and educational video. I was married nearly 38 years to a narcissist and finally, SAFELY, got out 4 years ago. God opened my eyes to what a narcissist is, thanks to my daughter directing me to a book on this personality disorder. I am now educated, have gone no contact with his flying monkeys out there, as well, and have moved on the other side of the country! God has healed me from false guilt and the self -condemnation for why I stayed so long in the relationship. I thank Him that He is helping me move forward in His grace and enabling me to live my best life in His wisdom, while encouraging other survivors of narcissistic abuse!
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Sad they are void of real feelings of love ,trust,and human compassion
"Who you are, what you provided - your honor, your dignity, your integrity, your courage, your strength, your resilience, your empathy"... Is what they'll never have. Is what they'll never be. Remember these words. Thank you, Andrew. ❤️
Love to you all, fellow survives! and thrivers! You are not alone! 💞
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Great video Andrew. Yes after the discard i had to climb out of a really dark place, my heart and soul were broken i had no clue if I was going to make it. I did make it but i had to literally disappear from the narcissist. No social media i moved away i left everything behind i turned my phone off for about 4 months. It's taken alot of work some good days and some bad , but the difference is that now things don't seem so bad. And i can walk away and do what i want read go to a movie and i answer to nobody but myself. What my ex narcissist is doing or thinking i really don't care anymore he can stay where he is. Thank you everyone for your kind words and thank you Andrew for the video.
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I think the ex regrets getting caught, and losing all the things he selfishly used the relationship for. But for the things he did, I only think he regrets not doing it worse to harm me more.
Lol super glue the mask 😂
Luv your videos everything is so true
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Taking all the vehicles to be inspected, serviced, etc ❣️
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In the early days I used to wonder did he ever think of me now I really don’t care I know what he lost I’m the one that got away re found myself never to fall for lies and manipulation & control, I can sleep at peace knowing that I’m moving forward in life with only good intentions towards anyone. 🙏💕
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These people consist of way more than 1% of the population. I’m sure of it.
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I think the same thing. Too many narcs around…
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I would say they are at least 99 percent of the population.
I didn't find my out of the fog until I was 65 years young! I'm my own person now. No longer put up with anyone's bulls**t! Blessings, Andrew. ❤
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People of the lie by Scott Peck.
So fits with the narcissist!
Thank you Andrew. You were telling my story.
oh yeah and a few others did warn me..I was blinded...but as you say eventually they reveal themselves...the con man cant con forever
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Thank you again Andrew! 4 1/2 years of a terrible narcissistic relationship! Moved out of state changed my phone number went no contact! Just discovered my mother was an alcoholic narcissist who poisoned my sisters against me, I was the scapegoat my one sister the golden child bosses my younger sister around all the time! What an awakening I’ve had! This explains the terrible treatment all my life where my family would try to degrade me even though I had a wonderful career and great family! I now feel validated and am moving on with my life with the narcs or without them! God bless all! It does get better!
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Well, haven't got rid of him yet, but he misses homemade meals, laundry done, his dishes done,..he misses the use of my Berkey.😁 I make him buy his own water! He misses that I didn't know exactly what a narcissist really was, cause now ..he's met his match!!! 😁😁 I get a lot of giggles now. I've been over him for many years, and always stayed to just try to figure him out, and kids. That's why that one word was so eye opening for me. Now, I don't feel sorry for him, and I'm extremely abrasive if he chooses to engage me. I tell him I didn't ask for his company, and he runs back downstairs, raging, screaming, and I'm 😂😂😂 the whole time!
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Oh Andrew I had a whole conversation but I Lost it. You are getting thru. I just wished I wouldn’t read his blocked messages. Everything you said is so true. Why do I read them. And he is such liar that I still owe him money that is the furthest from the truth. He thinks that gonna get me mad enough to call him back. Well it won’t work this time. Andrew I don’t owe him a dime. No more guilt, No more pain. No more calling back. No more contact. You heard of a black widow that’s what he is. Etc. Thank you Andrew. ❤
Took a whole year of me being this way too he left 2 days ago after 43 almost 44 yrs . So much rage cause you don’t bow down to them 😂 hooray to you - pray you are rid of him soon because you will feel so much peace ❤
@@Jeepster858 thank you. I'm out of his house 6 months now. I'm already leaps and bounds healthier and life is good.
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❤ thank you for educating survivors of abuse
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Good afternoon Andrew 🥰. SUPER GLUE😁, good one!! That's what us as Empaths do,SUPER GLUE our path forward and NEVER look back👍. Thank you, Andrew,you are definitely and absolutely a life saver. Take care,God bless 🙏 and much love💖🥰💞
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Stagnant beings!
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It is so sad when you realise the nark never cared about you 💔
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Ohhhh how I pray that he regrets hurting and losing me every single day and night! I rlly do! 😤💪🙏
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You are a good man, trying to help others. Keep up your great work. We need more people like yourself in this world. Narcs are a dangerous beings and are deasroyers of the Love, trust, and beauty of life and this world, balance is always achieved eventually.
Take care all who are suffering out there. God bless and peace to you all.
Thank you Andrew. I have been a bit stagnant lately as my divorce to my narc is finally ending. And left some sort of loss that frustrated me. Your words gave me peace that I have needed to get past this hurdle. Appreciate your words!
For 40 years and now I am just learning this.
I discarded the narc/addict after 24 yrs of relapse & lies. The narc got real sloppy last relapse, his many addictions really took over big time
Social media, gay porn boy toy
I let him spin out of control, played dump. He loved that😄😄😄😄
1-1-23 I got his suitcase out !!!!!
No more EVER.
Acceptance to what they are is key.
Sign my divorce papers next week
Live is ALL about me. Went through a lot to heal & am still a work in progress but never to live a lie again!
Andrew you help this community so much !
Friend just said to me” he could NEVER hold a candle to you.” I believe😊😊😊😊😊
💫🕊Yes, it’s only a matter of time before flying monkeys associated with the top narcissist figure it out. Makes absolutely no sense to manipulate people who are unaware, differently abled and are children- for cash or supply. Karma is the reciprocity for the abuser only not sent by the victims.
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Andrew this is a great topic Saturday the narcissist called me and said that I let my volleyball team down I said who-do-you-think-you-are to tell me what to do are you my father I said don't you ever tell me what to do again I said you don't care about anyone but yourself after I got off the phone with the narcissist I felt really good about myself
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone no thank you Andrew
I guess I am one of the lucky ones. I walked away from him and his control. I am an empath and I feel very sorry for the miserable life he has and wish it could have been different but I also have to protect myself so I told him I had to go. He’s trying to come back now but I’m a lot wiser now and know the word narcissist. Thank you for educating people about toxic people.
Wow this is 100% truth. My abuse was 35 years ago but it still surfaces now and then.
The yellow shirt is great on you Andrew 🥰
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Thank you! you opened a few doors for me. Now ,,,, courage to step thru and see what's on the other side. I am a combat veteran and would rather do that again than another betrayal of an abusive relationship. Having someone to love and care for has always been my deepest desire. Blessings!
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Andrew, your videos do me so good. My best nourishment in times of pain, doubts or lonely moments.
I always feel better after I listened to you.
Thank you ever so much.
Life is becoming better and better each day.
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#THIS^
One might think that narcissists are a few, but sometimes one is surrounded by them. Not only socially but also in family circle.
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Exactly what is unfolding for me, time and patience exposes them. Don't underestimate other people's thoughts about the narcissist, they do eventually " get it ". Yes, i knew there was something wrong with my marriage, it was too difficult. Post discard I googled mid life crisis and narcissistic collapse came up WOW tick tick tick all the boxs. Thank you Andrew for walking this journey with all of us...
I am not on any social media. None.
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You're so right Sir,fear of everyting because they are insecure,coward,scared to be exposed.
They are heartless, soulless... even formless. The purest form of evil to render such pain onto others. There is no justice for the pain I feel. No consolation for my tears. No soothing to this bottomless sadness. I want vengeance... I want this suffering to stop.
If I had to say… 🤔 she’s regretting that I actually _communicate_ with my parents and _tell_ them what she does late at night after they’ve gone to bed 😳😳😳
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 The fact that I stay up late _really_ throws a wrench in her drinking plans! LOL🫸💥🫷High five!!!
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@@gratefultobehere Why not make it interesting, huh, Chelsea?! I made TWO promises. NOT making her stay MISERABLE enough that it sends her running/ screaming out the front door wasn’t one of them 😛😁
@@jennifernewton4637 hehe 😜 love it 🤭🙌💪😆
Glad you’re keeping your sense of humor
Yes..once again the irony is we as those who choose to heal and move forward ...getting wisdom from you..wisdom from cocooning and diving deep into our own strength and resilience...we will have no regrets following the path to remove all narcs and toxic people...we can experience new freedom and find those who also are genuine to have healthy relationships with....this is another great one because accepting what happened-how it happened and who they (the narc) really is...sets you free...the narc will never be free because I do believe they feel regret because they are hungry ghosts...large belly small mouth..never satisfied...makes life awful while ours those on healing path can rise and be whole again!!! Thank you another day moving forward!!!
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Outstanding vlog Andrew! It stands to reason those who sneak attack you with their own abnormalities, are profoundly afraid to evolve past the familiar toxicity. Think what it would be like to try to love when they can't. Many will pass through the revolving door of a dark individuals affliction. No one will light their candle. I would at first thought this would be just feel good post narc thoughts. I know it is an absolutely true discernment. Many indicators were there the entire duration of the toxic tryst.
It was because of my boundaries he never got me thank you God.
Andrew I can tell that you have healed a lot and I am so happy for you. I love the smile that you have on your face at the end of this video. Thank you so much for helping so many people by continuing to make these videos,, even though I am past the point where I am devastated and struggling to make it through the day I still appreciate everything that you have done to put these videos out and how much you have helped me to move forward.
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