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    Hello, wonderful people! I warmly welcome you to another enlightening episode. Today, we are going to dive into the realm of understanding the emotions and reactions of a narcissist when you finally decide to assert yourself, when you choose to prioritize your needs, and when you decide that it's time to leave. But before we delve into this insightful episode, I would kindly request you to subscribe to our channel. This episode is going to be a deep dive into the psyche of a narcissist. Please hit the subscribe button so that you don't miss out on our upcoming videos and updates, as well as some exciting new developments that we have planned for you. So without any further ado, let's dive right in.
    So, what exactly goes on in the mind of a narcissist? Many people often harbor the simplistic, black-and-white notion that narcissists are incapable of experiencing pain or hurt when you decide to leave, primarily because they usually have a new 'supply' ready and waiting. This implies they are indifferent to your departure. However, when people decide to leave narcissists, they often perceive it as walking away, but in reality, you're not just walking away - you're walking towards a new goal. You're not merely distancing yourself from the narcissist; you're choosing to prioritize yourself. But when people unexpectedly leave the narcissist's life, it can indeed cause pain. It can be difficult, it can be heartbreaking.
    However, I want to stress this point - don't interpret this as a signal to return to your narcissistic partner or give them another chance. It's not what this is about. Just because a narcissist experiences pain when you decide to leave, it doesn't mean you should reconsider your decision.
    "Disclaimer: The information provided in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you suspect you or someone you know may be involved with a narcissist, or are dealing with any psychological issues, please consult a qualified healthcare professional. This content is shared to offer insights and perspectives and should not be considered as professional or medical counsel."
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 44

  • @NarcPedia
    @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому +1

    The Narcissist Discarded You But It Makes Them Crazy And Suffering! 👇🏼
    ua-cam.com/video/ynXWkTfHWc4/v-deo.htmlsi=ZYTu5PI7zLRCin0v

  • @Levon_James5150
    @Levon_James5150 6 місяців тому +31

    NEVER go back ❤‍🔥

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому +7

      Indeed, going back to a relationship with a narcissist can often mean returning to a cycle of abuse and manipulation. Thank you for sharing this emphatic advice.

  • @scleo1959
    @scleo1959 6 місяців тому +12

    You are correct in stating the narcissist takes along their past losses and abandonments with them. My ex narc had bins of saved photos, letters, phone bills, movie tickets, flyers of dates shared with others, saved vacation airfare tickets and even phone call recordings of past lovers. All hoarded at my house when they moved in. I should have known I would be just another stopping ground for them. Very evasive and void of intimacy. 100K+ in debt when I met them. I have no sympathy for the hurts they have and continue to cause so many people. Emotional and physical bulldozers.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому +1

      It sounds like you've had a firsthand look at how past attachments and memories can be clung to by someone with narcissistic tendencies, sometimes to the detriment of their current relationships. The hoarding of past mementos can indeed be a red flag, signaling an inability to move forward or form genuine, intimate connections. It's unfortunate you had to experience this, but your insights are valuable and could help others recognize similar patterns. Thank you for sharing your experience.

  • @phutton88
    @phutton88 6 місяців тому +4

    I got hoovered back in once before. I’m more experienced now, after suffering substantial heartbreak.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому

      I'm sorry to hear about your experience. It's tough to deal with the heartbreak that comes from such a situation. But remember, each experience, no matter how difficult, teaches us something. It sounds like you've learned and grown from this, which is incredibly courageous. Stay strong and continue prioritizing your well-being. You have the strength to navigate this. Take care.

  • @OnderHassan
    @OnderHassan 6 місяців тому +5

    I honestly think they don’t care. They’re too busy having fun with their new supply. At least it feels that way to me. She just up and left with no remorse.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому +1

      It sounds like you've been through a very difficult experience, and it's understandable to feel that the other person has moved on without care. Narcissists often seek new relationships or 'supply' to maintain their self-esteem, and this can be incredibly painful for those they leave behind. It's important to acknowledge your feelings and allow yourself to grieve the loss and the abrupt end to the relationship. Over time, and with support, you may find that focusing on your own healing and happiness is the best path forward. Thank you for sharing your feelings, and be gentle with yourself as you navigate this challenging time.

    • @OnderHassan
      @OnderHassan 6 місяців тому +1

      @@NarcPedia Thank you for the encouragement. I learned about Narcissism recently and prior to that, I thought I was to blame for the breakup.
      But it turns out, I was devalued and discarded, which weirdly makes me feel better knowing it’s a typical thing they do to get rid of someone.
      My only wish is to meet someone better who I get to feel the same way for who genuinely feels the same for me and cares for what we have.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому

      @@OnderHassan Thank you for sharing your experience and feelings. It's a big step to recognize and accept the nature of a past relationship, and it's great that you've been able to gain insight into what happened. Remember, you are not to blame for the narcissistic behaviors of others.
      Your wish to meet someone who genuinely cares for you and values your relationship is absolutely valid. Remember to take care of yourself during this healing process. Keep learning, growing, and believing in your worth. You are deserving of a healthy, respectful, and loving relationship. Stay strong!

  • @balderjohnson430
    @balderjohnson430 6 місяців тому +6

    Eyes on Christ keep moving Forward!!!!

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому

      Keeping your focus on faith and moving forward is a powerful strategy. If your belief brings you strength and guidance, then it's a priceless part of your journey. Thank you for sharing your source of hope and encouragement. May your path be filled with light and progress as you continue forward. Keep the faith!

  • @sallydaly5597
    @sallydaly5597 6 місяців тому +4

    In every case with the narcissist situationship it was transactional from the moment the narcissist see you.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for your comment. You've hit the nail on the head. Narcissists often view relationships as transactional, seeing people as tools to meet their own needs rather than as individuals with their own feelings and rights. Recognizing this pattern is a crucial step in protecting oneself. Continue to stay strong and informed.

  • @tboo41
    @tboo41 6 місяців тому +8

    She cut me off ok I gave her the scissors...💯🤙🏿

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому

      Your response captures a powerful stance of taking control in a difficult situation. By acknowledging that you 'gave her the scissors,' you're expressing ownership of your part in ending the relationship, which can be an important step towards healing and moving forward. It's a reminder that sometimes the best decision for our well-being is to let go. Thank you for sharing your perspective, and may you find strength and peace on your path ahead.

  • @DJSmoothie
    @DJSmoothie 2 місяці тому +1

    I told her 2yrs ago to find someone else. Just being honest and real. She started doing that because she knew I was ready to move on. So when she finally suckered someone, she discarded me from out of nowhere.... but i was already packed and had only remained for the kids. The moment she said gtfo - i bounced. :) Her and her new supply and the kids look happy! Well at least thats what she sent me. Where i am now big upgrade.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  2 дні тому

      It sounds like you've been through a challenging situation, but it's great to hear that you've found your way to a better place! Moving on can be tough, especially for the sake of the kids, but prioritizing your own happiness is so important. Thank you for sharing your journey!

  • @angelvbalasabas4153
    @angelvbalasabas4153 6 місяців тому +8

    Ohh that is why first he descard me he got a high fever he so afraid that I will not coming back with him second time he got depressi 3time he descard me he got high fever again..but I will never ever coming again done..

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому +2

      It sounds like you've been through a very challenging cycle with this person. It's not uncommon for someone to experience intense emotions or even physical reactions like a fever when they're facing the stress of a breakup, especially if they're worried about the finality of it. It's good that you're standing firm in your decision to not return to a situation that isn't healthy for you. Take care of yourself, and congratulations on taking steps towards a healthier future.

    • @scleo1959
      @scleo1959 6 місяців тому +1

      Yes, Angel they have an excuse for EVERYTHING. Did he ever try, “ I am in a life and death situation!” I got that hoover long after the relationship ended. I knew better and ignored them. Good luck to you.

    • @SharonThomas-os4gg
      @SharonThomas-os4gg 6 місяців тому +1

      Sharon Thomas I am so glad that I am not with him the hell and the pain that I went through was a nightmare I will never go back to that Ass again Thank God That I have daughter who knows that there father needs help Thank you 🎉🎉

  • @AnnaMishel
    @AnnaMishel 6 місяців тому +1

    Well said!

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому

      I'm glad you found the content insightful! Your positive feedback encourages me to continue sharing such information. Thank you!

  • @melissalopez9607
    @melissalopez9607 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for this. I have experienced every single thing you described. I wish I would’ve had this information 12 years ago. I have been suffering through a narcissistic relationship all these years, and it took me a really long time to finally break free of it. He was so manipulative and cunning, and did all of the things that you described when I broke up with him. I would feel sorry for him. I would believe him, and I would eventually take him back. And then the cycle would start all over again. It wasn’t till just recently that I had actual evidence of his compulsive and pathological lying and his gaslighting. When I got the evidence, I watched him do everything in his power to make me think I was crazy and imagining things. Thank you so much for the work you’re doing this was a stellar video.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому +1

      I'm deeply moved by your story and your strength to share it with us. It's incredibly brave of you to break free from such a complex and draining relationship. I'm glad my content could provide some insights and support. Remember, it's never too late to start a new chapter in your life. You're not alone and there are numerous resources and communities to support you. Keep prioritizing your well-being, and don't hesitate to seek professional help for further assistance. Take care and stay strong!

    • @melissalopez9607
      @melissalopez9607 6 місяців тому +1

      @@NarcPedia I went to a therapist and told her the outrageous lies that the narcissist was telling me. She was of no help at all. I think it is VITALLY important to find a therapist who has an in-depth understanding of how manipulative these people can be. She almost sounded like she doubted me. Can you imagine what that could do a person! I am stronger than ever, but only after I got concrete evidence. By the way, I got rid of the therapist.
      I also want to say that I have not had an easy life. I’ve been alone and vulnerable and hurt for most of my life by a lot of people that’s why I was so vulnerable to him.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому +1

      @@melissalopez9607 I'm really sorry to hear about your experiences, but I'm also inspired by your strength and resilience. It's indeed crucial to find a therapist who understands the complex nature of narcissistic behaviors. No one should feel doubted, especially when seeking help. I'm glad to hear you are stronger now and managed to find concrete evidence. Your journey hasn't been easy, but remember, every step you take towards healing and self-care is a victory. Your insights are valuable and will surely help others who are going through similar experiences. Stay strong and keep moving forward.

    • @melissalopez9607
      @melissalopez9607 6 місяців тому +1

      @@NarcPediathank you for your kind words and support. They mean a lot to me. I really hope others can benefit from hearing my story. That’s what it’s all about. ❤❤❤

  • @mortischahicks5341
    @mortischahicks5341 6 місяців тому +1

    Can you say Blocked 🚫. Keep it moving!

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому

      Absolutely, sometimes blocking and moving on is the best course of action for our mental and emotional well-being. Kudos to you for taking that step! Here's to moving forward and focusing on healing and self-care. 🚫👏

  • @alfreddaniels3817
    @alfreddaniels3817 6 місяців тому +3

    As I think everyone wants to live a happy life I feel sorry for the narcissist to be caught in his/her mental and emotional state. Are they incurable? How come ?

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому +1

      It's a compassionate view to feel sympathy for someone with narcissistic traits, recognizing their struggles as a part of their mental and emotional state. The question of whether narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is incurable is complex. Treatment for NPD can be challenging because it requires the individual to recognize and admit to their behavior and its impact on others, which is difficult for someone with narcissistic tendencies. Therapy can help, but it's a long and difficult process that requires commitment and a willingness to change. The inherent nature of NPD often leads to a lack of insight into their condition, making them resistant to seeking help. Your empathy for their situation is admirable, and it's important to balance that with taking care of your own emotional well-being. Thank you for bringing up such a thoughtful point.

    • @lv4984
      @lv4984 6 місяців тому +1

      It's exactly how I feel, they are in really sad place. It's hard but it must be accepted that we cannot give all our love to them but we must keep it also for ourselves.

  • @bernicewalker1963
    @bernicewalker1963 6 місяців тому +2

    I walked away silently never going bk ever again yak

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing your experience. It takes a lot of strength to walk away and make the decision to never go back. Your determination is admirable. Keep moving forward and focusing on your own well-being. You're doing great!

  • @still_healing_survivor
    @still_healing_survivor 6 місяців тому +2

    Nothing, he feels nothing 🤷

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому +1

      I'm sorry to hear about your pain. It can be incredibly difficult to deal with someone who seems to lack empathy or emotional depth. Remember, their inability to feel does not reflect on you or your worth. You're not alone in this journey. Stay strong.

  • @ygtbr
    @ygtbr 6 місяців тому +4

    I doubt if narcs feel for you. They already moved on with their supplies.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому

      Thank you for your comment. It's really tough when you feel like someone has moved on without any regard for your feelings. Remember, everyone's experience with a narcissistic individual can be different. The most important thing is to focus on your own healing and growth. Stay strong and keep moving forward.

  • @traceybiles2061
    @traceybiles2061 6 місяців тому +2

    Nothing they are lovebombing new supply

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  6 місяців тому

      Thank you for your comment. It's indeed a common pattern for narcissists to quickly move on to a new 'supply'. It's important to focus on your own healing and not let their actions affect you. Stay strong and keep moving forward.