“I HAD Perfect Hair” BALDING Head Shave TRANSFORMATION
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In this video video we welcome Skyler. Skyler is a musician and frontman who began to go bald in his very early 20's. Now at 28 He has had enough of the pain that comes with the insecurities involved with balding. This is the moment that Skyler shaves off his long thinning hair and embraces the shaved head. The end of one era, the beginning of a new one.
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This is Skyler's Balding to Bald Head Shave Transformation.
Thanks so much Skyler for sharing your story as real as it gets here at Baldcafe. That took courage. 🤝 We are forever grateful.
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This response has been absolutely incredible..., I really hope this can help you. For those of you asking my band name, it's W.M.D( When Minds Develop).
The man himself 🤝
I can totally get that it's really hard to lose that amazing head of hair you had but you look great with a shaved head. Thanks for sharing this with us.
You look great man! This new look suits you. Judging from your spoken realization, it sounds like you've received a gift from this change. Godspeed!
Honestly you are very good looking without hair.
I know it's not the same as your own hair- but if you ever wanted to rock the long hair on stage again, wigs and hair systems have come a long way and look super good! Obviously, I admire you being at peace with the shaved head, and you look amazing either way, but know that there are options!
What a rad dude. Let’s not pretend his hair wasn’t extremely cool before the hair loss started. I can imagine it would be VERY hard to let go of that.
True! - He had great hair but I personally prefer the buzzed look.
*I’m a hairdresser so can see the merits in all hair/no hairstyles! :)
He went from fabio to stone cold, he's a G.
As someone with long hair thats prolly going to have to cut it off soon for the same reasons. I def can feeel that/his pain on this. Looks better shaved then with thinning, but mannnnn I know that boy gna regret losing those locks major poon reduction incoming. But then again with hair that thin already im sure ol boy was already seeing the effects.
@@WeeedAsmr nowhere to go but up bro
Thank you for the kind comment! You guys are Rad. I appreciate the love and support more then words can describe
"It's crazy to think how much energy and concentration I put into something I couldn't control" - dude hit the nail on the head with it.
He could have at least tried to control it.
@John Peric finasteride
@@mitch9186 Exactly
The natural and historical hair care communities have solutions. I'm not balding at all but my hair has thinned out a lot (I'm a woman). I started doing onion juice treatments. Blender it up, whole onion and put it in a nut juice bag or sock and either massage the juice into your scalp or put the pulp on your head and wrap it up. Just browse Curly Proverbz channel for example. Tons of testimonials of new growth within days (obviously not a miracle though). I make tea out of fennel seeds..twice a week massage the tea into my scalp. Rinse or don't. I'm only two months in and my hair shedding stopped. I couldn't believe it. My issue was hormones and hard water. I also do oil treatments once a week with whatever oil is in my kitchen. I also tried castor oil. I wanted to see clearly if it worked so I put it on my lashes and brows at night. After maybe two weeks I had to pluck my eyebrows. I previously had perfectly shaped ones that didn't need attention. I stopped applying it there and use it on my head.
@@mitch9186 Doesn't work for a lot of folks
Can we talk about how much of an amazing smile this man has? He's good looking with and without his hair, nothing can stop that face from shining!
I think he looks better without the hair. The smile and his eyes are so freaking gougeous.
He does have quite a face. 😍
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Yea a smile makes such a difference no matter how u look like
Dont forgot how cool with his beard
The smile of acceptance you had when you realized you looked great with your head shaved ❤
❤️🙏
I sadly looked pretty awful with a shaved head. Its better then the balding look but I went from a 1 to a 1.5/10 LOL
Baldcafe is not about balding. It's about acceptance, growth, and love.
And copium, don't forget copium
@@chvjdvpa3746 oh no, not a blackpiller
Well there's a _little_ balding in there
@@chvjdvpa3746 why are you even here? Most people are sharing nothing but positive and happy messages and than we have you.
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That's brutal. The long hair is a big part of the metal culture, the headbanging, etc. That guy couldn't hyde the pain in his face. But, men like Phil Anselmo, Kerry King and Rob Halford prove that is possible to be bald and still rock!
There's a lot of bald dudes in metal aswell
Simmm
Phil Anselmo is not bald, just shaved.
Lol I was just gonna say Phil has been bald for decades. Hair is also a big part of hockey culture so I’ve always been ripped by my teammates on every club I’ve played on for being the only one without awesome hair, not to mention being the only grown man that can’t grow facial hair so being bald and beardless during playoffs made me a very easy target for scrutiny lol.
Indeed, I've been losing some hair in the past year due to stress but of course the thought of me simply going bald has crossed my mind, I don't think that’s what's happening but if it is, my personal bald metal "hero" (not exactly an admirable human being) is John Nödveidt from Dissection
Dude, you are handsome. And as a metalhead woman I can tell you that hair does not matter. Your passion for music and your soft-spoken attitude is what speaks for you and makes you attractive. Good luck out there and congrats!
I hope he can see while his hair is awesome most of his attractiveness was actually his face and personality. The hair was a nice unique thing but it wasn't what made him hot.
should have gone for the hair implants tbh
A serious moment of appreciation here. This is the very definition of Baldcafe. Skyler coming on and literally publicly sharing something that was a debilitating insecurity for years, all in the name of hoping it will help another guy out there who is struggling right now. The words forever grateful don’t do it justice. 🙏
Shave the hair you no**e
When I started balding, I just embraced it instead of trying to spend every last cent to keep my hair. It was such a liberating experience and a massive weight off of me (err...well in a way it was)
🙏 Thank you man, for the strength and courage to share this publicly in hopes that it can help other dudes who are currently struggling.
@@SkylerMills Man, you rock a great 'bald' look! Most men do, imo. We all need to let go of our insecurities and pave the way for a different mindset in our society. I've never even seen this channel before, this vid just popped up in my feed, lol.
My father in law kept his rocker hair far longer than he should have. It was thin and scraggly. But since he could put the remaining bits in a ponytail, he thought it was cool.
I was so happy when he cut it short. He looked much younger and like he had more hair.
The smile changed when he shaved it off - you could tell he was at peace. Thank you for sharing your story and resilience!
I'm an older guy but in my day I think your your new look has more street cred, strength. Rock it, own it, and be more aerodynamic. You're inspiring. Congratulations on your transformation.
He looks damn good with a shaved head, but this video in particular does illustrate something...us guys really do lose something beautiful and irreplaceable when we go bald. Often shaving it off is a good way to go, but there's nothing wrong with still acknowledging that it really does suck.
Totally agree with you here, I feel that it is necessary to 'move-on' after the fact, as there is nothing to fall back on other than memories and flashbacks of what once was...but god, some guys have such incredible hair when young...it tears me apart to see people with incredibly beautiful hair lose it, specially at such young ages! 🤯
That was exactly what I though when I shaved off. I'm better now than when I had a thin hair, but not than when I had a head full.
Very well said, brotha 😥
Dude this a nightmare for me because I have nice long black hair but he looks very cool
'a good way to go but […] it really does suck’
?????????!!!!!!
He looks amazing with hair and without. As a woman, I lost more than half my hair the same age as him and now at 29 it still bothers me sometimes. Change is difficult to accept.
Yeah , feel great once I've shaved it , but as it grows back I feel depressed due to what women are supposed to look like etc
Same here, I used to have abnormally thick, dense hair and people were constantly comment/complimenting it, even though at the time it was the bane of my existence cause it was so unmanageable. My hair started rapidly thinning at age 24 and by 28 I lost more than half my hair, now my scalp constantly shows no matter what way I part it. I thought it was hard to deal with before but now I would give anything just not to have my scalp showing. I should also add that I have PCOS and apparently it's really common with PCOS to go bald like that, not that it makes it any better/easier :/
Vitamin b complex helped me stop my hair loss and regrow most of the missing hairs
@@worm3893 I too have PCOS and struggle with extremely thin hair.
It is a lot harder for women to go bald than men. At least they have shaving as an option.
You look better w out hair. It’s what’s on the inside that matters the most. Much love and prayers to you❤️👍🏻🙏🏻
This is my brother and I’ve gotta say, I’m very proud of him.
Being bald is also metal, not only having long hair \m/
You Bet! Rob Halford and Kerry King to start with!
Yeah just look at Rob Halford, the Metal God himself.
Jens Kidman from meshuggah too
@@miguelpuig1633 YES!!!!
@@miguelpuig1633 scott ian too
The loss of that hair is an enormous tragedy, but your current look is a lot better than prior to your shave. And you're one of the lucky guys that pulls off being bald pretty damn good
Ikr. It looks pretty cool. The beard is the finishing touch 👌
Yeah his beard contrasts the bald head well. ThTs why facial hair is important😬
@@TheLastOutlaw289 I did once shave off my beard, but I felt so naked 😆
@@HomelessShoe I did the same thing last week and I am never doing that again.
Unfortunately, some of us have heads shaped like Uncle Fester, and can’t grow real beards. Pray for us.
He has such a lovely face and personality that it really doesn't matter that he's bald now. His eyes look kind for a start. I hope he has a long and happy life ahead x
Yeah but without his face his personality wouldnt matter
That has to be rough. You're very brave to share this. Much respect.
“Do women find men who are bald attractive?”
Yes, Yes, and HELL YES!!
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A small % of women 😅.
NEVER STOP THESE VIDEOS. You've built a great community that helps countless men and women face one of life's biggest insecurities; Hair loss.
women? I have yet to see a woman in here.
@@luv2stack I’ve seen a small handful comment. Believe it or not, women can lose their hair too. Cheers.
@@luv2stack if you checked the channel, they do have at least one video with a woman suffering from female pattern baldness. It’s a thing, and there are many reasons for women having to lose their hair.
@@luv2stack women can also go bald and not due health issues...now u know something new.
I eventually got over it, because you mature out of vanity and focus on things that really matter
I'm crying watching this. I'm the same guy with beautiful hair that's on its way out. I know exactly how this dude feels and it's got me broken. The realization that I'm losing my identity as well just sucks.
What about a hair system ? Loads of rockers have them or had them , Kevin dubrow , Richie Blackmore ,mick Mars etc some people don’t suit a bald head
Stay strong, you can do this. You are a KING and don't let anyone tell you different. 👑
@@pianoneko9279 thanks man
My best friend went through this until I suggested wigs. They make great wigs these days, very inexpensive. It changed his life, and his confidence came back! Women wear wigs. Why shouldn't guys?
@@starsapphirelee5714 absolutely agree , some people just do not suit a bald head it should be no more stigma than any other item of clothing or fashion /style statement
As a former long-haired rocker, I can totally relate!
My transformation to short hair didn't go as well as I'd hoped it would and I still struggle.
Many fans and those who I considered friends, instead of expressing support, showed shock, disappointment and even anger.
Damn dude, huge respect. I had the same situation, mine wasn't as long but I had some really cool hairstyles over the years and I eventually had the courage to shave it all off and I'm so glad I took control and owned it. Fair player brother. Well done.
I love the little smile as he was shaving it and kinda realized that he didn't look terrible at all lol. He looks so much better than he did before shaving it, he's a handsome guy, but i totally understand the process he had to go through, especially mentally. I think it's badass that he's sharing such a personal moment like this. Rock on, if Skyler reads this, you're still a stud 😉
Well like you said, he's a handsome guy, so of course it's easier, he will look good no matter what, he has a pretty face. Much more difficult when you're not good looking and your hair have been the biggest part of your charm for years, like me... Guys who look good with a bald head are guys who look good period. It's like a dad bod, it looks cool on a 6ft3 dude but of course it won't on a 5ft7 guy...
@@vee1766 i was of course being specific to this guy's case, losing your hair still sucks for anyone no matter how good looking, especially when you're in the public eye as a member of a band performing for a big audience of people who always could identify you by your luscious hair. His story as well as yours are variations of the same subject, it isn't an easy journey for any guy to let go of something that has been so relevant to their identity and that was the case for both of you.
@@Ciclopea2 Oh yeah i'm not questioning how emotional it is for him or for anyone, i'm simply remarking that it's much easier when you have an objectively good looking face and head shape like him, so it's not a particularly great exemple to boost people's confidence about shaving their head. But it sure is an interesting story and experience.
Thank you for posting this, it takes a lot of strength.
The man looks stunning! The courage to face the reality even though it’s tough makes this man beautiful! So many people have hair but a few are capable of handling life like he does with a bright smile.
My story was identical to yours. That pain man. The utter heartbreak of the final shave. Now I don't give a toss. I actually prefer my baldness. The loss of confidence seeded a real don't give a toss attitude in me, which, weirdly. In turn, gave me shitloads of confidence.
You look great dude. The bald works.
All my mates are basically bald or shaved number 1. They call me a hippy cause I’ve got a almost normal short haircut when we’re out. Strangely enough they are all extremely confident & successful people. Maybe I’ll shave my head 🤔🤣
Todavía no es tan grave la caída en mi cabello pero creo q para aya voy desde hace unos 2 años es que empezó a adelgazar mucho y a notarse el cráneo y se lo q se siente por q antes de mis 20s el cabello lo tenía largo y rizado y a la gente le gustaba mucho pero ahora es tan delgado q no se riza tu vídeo inspira mucho, la vida me dejó tener cabello hasta ahora mis 33 talvez me quedé 1 año o 2 en el que aún se vea presentable pero llegado el momento haré lo mismo q tu 😎👍
@@JonxthxnEp. Can't read your reply mate. No translation option.
Thats amazing bro! And the increase in confidence ✌🏻 how are womens reactions? Do they like it?
@@SuperPulseadasArmwrestling I think a lot of woman dig shaved heads - the number 1 thing a woman looks for is safety. A shaved head seems to indicate you are more combat ready haha.
I started balding in high school. My self esteem plummeted. I joined the army in 98 and went with the bald look. I’m now 45 and just now really accepting myself and comfortable being just me. You look good bro. Keep rocking
Did it ever occur to your that your lifestyle brought this on? Your diet, specifically.
@@guitarszenTell me you know nothing about Androgenetic Alopecia without telling me you know nothing about Androgenetic Alopecia.
@@guitarszen Wow… you are incredibly ignorant, you know nothing about this guy. For almost 20 years, I lived a off of junk foods and was a drug addict and I haven’t lost any hair.
@@vhyles facts
@@vhyles what are these guys need is the HairCafe channel not somebody to tell them they look good bald. Guys with thinning hair like him could have just went on finasteride and saved all of their hair instead of reading fear-mongering BS and watching (wo)men empowering channels which is really not for men.
You look so good! I could see the relief on your face after you let it all go! And then later in the video, I could see the confidence you gained from acceptance! Good for you! You look handsome with or without hair! ✌️
What a wholesome community! I’m a woman not balding but I got recommended this video and watch it out of curiosity and man! I am so happy to see such nice comments and the dude in the video seems so awesome! Love the bald head looks great!
He is a very handsome man. And what a great soul he has. This guy is a beautiful person to be able to navigate this. I think he had a much harder road with this because his hair was part of his performance and we have to say how gorgeous it was. Life and time are cruel and this really sucked. But I hope he has even more success with his new look. It suits him in a new way.
gay
@The Faceless One you should try it because women ain’t gonna be fucking ya with that kind of energy
nice love letter
Oh man, this one was heavy. Mad respect for you for being able to take the plunge, I feel like it must have been incredibly hard having even more of your identity wrapped up in your hair as a musician. Lookin great though brother 🤘
Love to see you starting to smile before you'd even finished. Must have been a big push to make that first move but it's amazing how much it accentuates your features. Props for sharing 🤘💋
Takes balls to accept it and go through with it brother! You got guts! Proud of you man! You still rock!
This was me too. It hurt so deeply when I realized I was losing my hair. I was fronting a band too. I had better hair than my girlfriend per other women! But last year it was time for the big shave. Videos like this helped me feel better about letting go.
His smile lit up the room as soon as he deep sixed the thing making him unhappy 🖤, there’s nothing more attractive than watching someone take control of their own self and identity.
Respect! The whole thing is still to come for me in the near future.
You have to be proud of what you do and not of what you look like!!!!
You are still a ROCKER!!!!!! So rock on!!!
Good for you bro. I can’t imagine how hard this must’ve been for you, I started suffering from hair loss myself a couple years ago and it’s been excruciating dealing with the loss of confidence and embarrassment that comes with it, I had super long thick hair as well, so I definitely feel your pain. You 100% pull off the bald look though, wear it with confidence!!
This hits close to home for me. Musician too. Started losing my hair at 20-21. Decided to quit going bald and just be bald at 23. For me at least, the catharsis was in feeling like I could control how I looked again. My life has only improved since that first shave in 2008. I hope the same holds true for this fellow.
Is that genetics?
@@ICRA95 Not sure what you're referring to exactly, but I assume you mean the hair loss. In my case, it was very much genetic, as routine male pattern baldness. It happened to strike me at a young age, much like this guy in the video. The upward trend in my life was most closely related to regaining my confidence after I first shaved my head.
@@jimmyrosendahl5140 My dad had it & now I'm starting too, but it's not that bad yet...
@@wallaceshawn-zk8iw Sounds like you've got it in your genes too. We can't control our genetics, but we can control how we respond to them. Only advice I would have is don't let hair loss take your confidence. How we look has no bearing on who we are. Good luck!
I feel this. I had lost most of my hair by 20. I remember the first time I chose to shave it off. For me, it wasn't too dissimilar to being reborn. Perhaps a tad dramatic but I felt a lot of relief and acceptance once I did it. Your imagination creates a massive sense of attachment that controls your self perception. The day I shaved was the day I created my own self perception and won over my anxiety.
By doing this you are showing more self-reflection, self-respect, courage, maturity and so much more than the hair transplant twotter owner himself. You didnt just scoot over your issues with baldness. You overcame fear and ego. Btw. You would fit in perfectly in Denmark as more than half of all men are balding in their 20s. Rock on dude.
You looks gorgeous with or without hair. Even if it hurts now, trust me, I see a man so strong shaving his head, cause it hurts but it won't change the artist you are ❤
I'm assuming, once you get used to that level of attention, it's probably very difficult to let go of that magnificent hair. The dude was a young Hetfield. But the same gargantuan, steel cojones that made him pursue a career in metal, also made him take this step. Overall ballsy dude and I applaud that. But I'm not going to lie, this time, it hit different. I feel your pain.
This was a feelsy one for sure. Respect levels through the roof honestly
From Young Het to Phil Anselmo Jr 🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻
Imagine having the power to make teens wet by your looks, and then one day you lose this superpower forever, dramatic and sad, the dude managed it very well.
He used to have sabastion bauch hair
@El Axel now my dude is getting the cougars soaked!
We are culturally geared to be extremely attached to our looks. Been around musicians my entire life. For sure, you had great hair! You also look great with your head shaved! I now work with people who are grieving difficult situations. Feel your feelings and grieve this loss fully so you can completely embrace your new look. Cause, brother, it rocks!
Not cultural, it's biological that we care a lot about looks
@@SmashBrosBrawlfacts. Our looks are what determines, biologically, how likely we are to mate
Thank you :)
Good on you, man!
Much respect to your courage and to actively letting go of what shaped your identity for such a long time!
It's a new start, you can re-imagine yourself however you want and maybe that will lead to a new you that you've never met before and end up liking as much or even more than your previous you!
Just for answering your question: it looks different than before, sure and maybe that will affect your personality a little as well but it still looks good and only takes some getting used to.
I wish you all the luck in the world an much more of that courage you've found in you!
Thanks for sharing, very brave move. So glad you’re happy. And you look amazing 😻
Appreciate you putting this out there man. I started balding in my eaaaaaarly 20s. Didn't accept it so I got medication to keep it. Still have it and finally managed to achieve long hair. It's wonderful but I know it won't be forever. Sooner or later I'll be doing what you're doing here. Peace and love bro.
Are u using finasteride 😮
@@askomoisio I think so
@@askomoisio why this emoji ?
My brother went ahead and shaved it.
My cousin got plugs, his sister has female pattern baldness, but in time she started to .. not really let it bother her.
But he was going nuts I guess it really bothered him. I think he's happy with the surgery. And yes he did look good bald, but I get the feeling of looking in the mirror and feeling like the person who is looking back is not you... Doesn't matter how attractive people say you look without your hair, you still don't feel like that's you... And the suddenness and speed of that transition just makes it hard to process. It can be a very tough time. Please take care of yourselves everyone.
@@askomoisio that's the one. And a topical solution to open and thicken my follicles
What a transformation! He had absolutely nothing to worry about, he literally rocks this look! He’s a good looking guy, it looks so well on him.
Went from ‘thin ass to bad ass’ in 8:41 and I mean ‘thin ass’ in the nicest possible way, (it just fits his super transformation well)
Once you finish clipping the hair off, the feeling is just pure relief afterwards, it’s the feeling of yes this is actually done for me now I no longer have to hide/worry over thinning hair. It’s great! 🤘🏻💙
The message at the end was really nice and helpful. Your doing great bro keep going.
Dude, you look absolute FIRE with bald, you've been blessed with great skull shape. Also it's great to hear how you learn to accept all this, even though it can be a decimating experience to one's self-image. I have four brothers who all started to go bald in recent years. I have the fear that soon I'm next in line and wish that I will learn to accept it the way you just did.
We have all been there. Standing with the clippers, hesitating....then we say screw it. I went for a walk in a wooded area and removed my ball cap...I felt freedom for the first time in 45 years. You rock it brother.
Du hast extrem gut ausgehen mit langen Haaren. Und du siehst extrem gut aus, ohne Haare 😊🖤
Lass dich nicht unterkriegen!
Your freaking gorgeous man. That hair was definitely holding you back. You can definitely rock this 👏🏻🤘🏻⭐️♥️ I know tons of guys struggling with this shit. You got this, you are about to shine, just saying, beautiful, smile, beautiful eyes, and lots of talent. Just roll with it man it fits you well. 🤘🏻
I feel for you, I started losing my hair in my early 20s and it's never grown back. I know all to well what it does to your self esteem and confidence. You are still a very good looking young man. Keep your head up ✊❤
I know how you feel. I started losing my hair at 22. At age 24 I had less on top than you did. Finally I shaved it off, but it took me another year to do it. I still would wear a hat almost all the time. I hated formal events, because I would have to show my shaved head. Finally, I got into fitness, so I could concentrate on something to make myself feel better and look better. The shaved head started to be cool and I met my partner. We have been together for 26 years now. Losing your hair sucks though!
My dad had the same problem. Lost his hair at 23. It killed his self-esteem.
Don't let it. you're still the same person.
Yeah, yust ugly...
You looked amazing before & you look amazing now! I’m sorry it was a hard journey for you, but you made it to the other side & we’re all so glad to see you there, happy & enjoying life again.
It breaks my heart
You look good and you have a lot of courage
100x better and looks badass!
From one man that had a long hair for many years to another, i have to say that it fits you perfectly and it's great to see that you fully embraced the new look.
You look great dude. From someone that's dealing with the same thing I thought of doing the same but my head shape isn't nearly as normal as yours. Inspiring my dude.
That’s a really nice and updated look for you. Glad you took the plunge.
When you have the occasional moment of doubt - and you will - remember to compare how you look now not to when your hair was at its best, but how you looked just before you shaved it off. The shaved head looks fantastic.
Very important point. The correct reality comparison must be made 👍
Thanks Rob.
@@Baldcafe nonce
Looks great dude! I had the same thing happen to me. I had awesome long hair until I started going bald at around 28... I've been shaving it for 12 years and it just feels better and looks better. It was hard at first to accept it but honestly... you get over it and it pretty much happens to everyone eventually.
thats a good step forward in realizing you are bald and making the changes to make your life/self better. bravo to you
I love how open this guy is about it. Props to you and you still look cool without it. Keep shredding!
This is such an amazing community. These videos are like therapy for real.
Looks great man! I watched my younger brother go through the same thing at 25 years old. His hair was a huge sense of pride for him. It was a bummer watching him lose his hair so quickly at such a young age, but he actually looks really good with it shaved. The shaved head works on you as well!
Massive respect ❤ You look stunning as always!
I feel your pain man. I am also a shredder and losing my hair to dermatitis. I miss my hair so much and it's just getting worse every day. I hope you feel better now man.
I have a treatment guarantee to help grow your hair back😊
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Props to you my man! As a thinning haired musician myself, this brought a tear and a smile to my face at the same time. You look amazing bro and inspired me a ton. Thanks for being vulnerable!
I absolutely love bald men. To me they are super attractive.
Started losing my hair late teens early twenties. Happens to the best of us. You actually look pretty good with a shaved head. Glad to see you’re not letting it slow you down!
You look great! I’m so glad you are loving yourself. Your hair was beautiful for sure but hair is just one small part of our appearance. I’m so impressed with you!
Sometimes the body has different ideas than we do which is a bummer and you look just as great without the hair which is nice, so yes, a new chapter! I wish you the best.
Wow, I totally commend you for making this video. I’m in the same boat as you: a long haired young metal head who is losing his hair, and your words really resonated with me and gave me hope. There are so many like us: guys who are losing their hair, but do not to go through all the aggravation and flaws associated with hair transplant surgery or wigs. Thanks so much for making this video. And you look great with a shaved head. Up the irons!!
As a metalhead who might go bald eventually, I understand how you feel dude. I'm fortunate to still have my hair, but this is inspiring this level of confidence and I'm grateful to see someone who understands and I feel confident about going bald one day if I do thanks dude STAY METAL !!!! \m/
If you do, just remember.....Scott Ian of Anthrax 🤘🏻💀🤘🏻
Devin Townsend (prior to shaving his head) or Terrance Hobbs. Problem solved!
I loved the long hair and I love the bald head. Not everyone can pull off the bald look but you do it very well!
Not only am I amazed and wondered by the instant wisdom this guy gained from leaning into his balding and the way he beautifully articulated it, but also the happiness it gave Harry. Seeing his face light up by seeing his community embracing such a powerful milestone in their lives is just magical in ways you can't even comprehend. You both are the MEN!
A special moment and I really appreciate your comment here thank you. Genuinely 🤝
Dude, I could feel your pain, I was a front man metal guy in the 80's but didn't go bald but man you're a good looking guy no matter what and no one can take your voice and guitar talent from you!! Well done keep rocking!!!!
you used to move people by banging your head and hair, now that you're bald ,you still rock the worlds. your music is not about your hair , its about you. 👌💯❤️❤️❤️
Thank you 🙏 you're right
He’s an attractive looking dude and clearly very talented going off the gig footage. Looks great, mate.
4:37 the exact moment when he realized he can pull this off. Good for you man.
Congratulations, Skyler, on having the courage to shave your head and record it for the world to see. That took a lot of strength and, as you said, a weight was lifted off your psyche because you don't have to hide your thinning hair anymore. You're free! You look cool and will definitely not have any trouble getting attention from girls. Wishing you the best.
Whata sweet, down to earth guy. So positive and reflective, and I think he has such a handsome face.
Some people just have a face that looks great with or without hair. You are one of them. It makes your eyes even more beautiful.
This video randomly appeared on my feed. I must say you looked so forlorn and defeated at the beginning of the video but as soon as you shaved, you had the biggest smile... It was beautiful to see.
You may have had enviable hair but you definitely suit the buzz cut as well. Whatever image you present as armour, hair doesn't define your character, nor how you connect with other souls.
Well done for embracing your change and sharing. Wishing you all the best with your journey 🖤
You missed the opportunity for an elite level skullet but this look is sooooooooo much better than where the hair was before the shave, looks great my guy! 🤘🏻
Hey bud. I feel your pain but you totally rock the shaved head look. Awesome vid that must inspire others to feel your confidence. Well done bud. From Yorkshire, England 👍👍👍
Skyler, your band kicks @ss!!!! Even dating back to your 2015 live performances I found on youtube, you guys are stellar! I hear a lot of old school influences, such as ''Coroner'', ''Annihilator'', ''Voivod'', '''Death'', 'Flotsam and Jetsam'' and even some ''Dark Angel'' as having inspiration to your sound. It's thrash/prog/technical metal. I love it dude!
A buddy of mine started losing his hair as early as 24 and it wasn't until just last year he decided to shave it all off. He looks much more distinguished and mature because of it and it suits him.
It must be especially hard having to let go of something that you've loved about yourself for so long. It's something we'll all have to deal with someday, but the new look looks great. I'm glad you were able to settle into your new self with confidence because that's what it's all about. It's liberating and freeing to be able to move forward with the acceptance that things won't be the same, but at the same time you're not weighed down by the past. Once again, it looks great, man.
Shaved head looks SO awesome on you! You suit it very well indeed. x
You absolutely rock the look!
Dude you look great! Not many pull it off like that, so many women prefer a buzzed man too & one that can rock the look is just a W🔥🔥
i can TOTALLY relate. im going thru this right now. I've had long hair or have been in the process of growing my hair out my entire life. i shaved my head twice before and always felt like I had an identity crisis when I did it. I'm 45 and my hair is definitely thinning badly. I totally get the compliment and self-esteem factors you spoke of. I really don't want to shave it off again because I know that's the last time it'll ever be long. 🙁
I know I'm a complete stranger but this really sounds just like my fiance hes had long hair all his life and it's been thinning for awhile (still beautiful to me tho)however, hes been afraid itll never grow long again and that's how hes felt comfortable his entire life. what you just said he literally said a few days ago and just surprised me reading your comment.
If yr not ready to shave down then just shave the sides and keep the top long or shaved sides and short top both look good 👍
I'm a stylist, I do men's hair at Sport Clips lemme tell you no men's hair looks bad! All styles look cool, and are attractive it's totally up to u as a dude to rock that style and metal heads have short/shaved hair too Kerry King 😎🤟
Mine started falling out in my early 20’s. Count your blessings you had it as long as you did. But we all know how it feels. Once it’s gone you don’t miss it as much as you think you would.
Like dude before me said count your blessings. You had yours into your early 40s. Imagine loosing it when you need your looks the most.
Massive respect dude, it took some balls to do that... and it looks totally badass 🤘
well… not so much seen that there was almost nothing left !!
Handsome! We are constantly changing, and this is where you are at in life now.. own it, you look awesome!!
I love this partly because someone could watch this 100 years from now and be going through the exact thing.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I appreciate how difficult it must have been. One thing I can promise you is that many women absolutely find bald men attractive. What's really alluring is confidence and self acceptance. When you're comfortable with yourself then other people will be comfortable with you. You could think of this as a blessing. Going through hair loss and all of the introspection and self evaluation at such a young age has given you emotional wisdom way ahead of your peers. And women will definitely appreciate that. And professionally, bald is not uncommon in metal either. In fact, it's really cool.🤘😎🤘
That looks so much better. The smile on his face when he realised it looked ok was priceless.