Part 1/ Bonding with Sex / Wrong Relationship / Attachment and Rushing Sexual Relating

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  • Park 1/ Bonding with Sex / Wrong Relationship / Attachment and Rushing Sexual Relating
    Alan Robarge, Attachment-Focused Psychotherapist
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 15

  • @clairem3707
    @clairem3707 5 місяців тому +5

    That's me. High tolerance, denying red flags. Thanks so much

    • @AlanRobargeHealingTrauma
      @AlanRobargeHealingTrauma  5 місяців тому

      I hear you and you probably wouldn’t believe how many of us can relate. I know when we mentioned ignoring red flags in our relationships in the Community Program, Improve Your Relationships. We learn so much from each other. You’re invited to join us. www.healingattachmenttrauma.com/iyr_quiz_2?r_done=1

  • @delaneyfayce
    @delaneyfayce 6 місяців тому +3

    this was so incredibly helpful in understanding myself. Thank you

    • @AlanRobargeHealingTrauma
      @AlanRobargeHealingTrauma  5 місяців тому +1

      Glad to hear this video spoke to you and was helpful. We learn so much when we relate with what others share. I want to share about the Community Program, Improve Your Relationships. You're invited. www.healingattachmenttrauma.com/iyr_quiz_2

  • @NickEBN79
    @NickEBN79 Місяць тому

    I just got out of an 8 year relationship just like this. It was an absolute disaster. 🤦‍♂️

  • @Mom_Luvs_Tech
    @Mom_Luvs_Tech 4 місяці тому

    But Alan…………..Am I REALLY sure it’s not a good fit?? Like, I should check at least 5 more times. Just to be sure. It feels like I have OCD and have to check the stove or locks over and over. Lol!!

  • @vwbeep
    @vwbeep 6 місяців тому +4

    I can't partner anymore (edit: except with my animals)

    • @AlanRobargeHealingTrauma
      @AlanRobargeHealingTrauma  5 місяців тому

      I know many of these us can relate with feeling that way. You might want to check out the relationship quiz. www.healingattachmenttrauma.com/iyr_quiz_2?r_done=1

  • @mrstoner2udude799
    @mrstoner2udude799 6 місяців тому +1

    I refer to my last gf as my fairy god lover.

  • @leicalove9384
    @leicalove9384 5 місяців тому +1

    Your videos are precious. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge.

    • @AlanRobargeHealingTrauma
      @AlanRobargeHealingTrauma  5 місяців тому

      I appreciate the kind words. Since you like the videos you may also be interested in taking the relationship quiz. www.healingattachmenttrauma.com/iyr_quiz_2

  • @Starterwife100
    @Starterwife100 Місяць тому

    Thanks!

  • @kathykendall6317
    @kathykendall6317 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this content! Keep it coming please. Makes me feel like I'm not some freak! "We have a high tolerance for not getting our attachment needs met" 😢

    • @AlanRobargeHealingTrauma
      @AlanRobargeHealingTrauma  5 місяців тому +1

      Glad this content speaks to you. So many of us had to develop that high tolerance for absence. I know when we mentioned this in the Community Program, Improve Your Relationships. Take the quiz if you'd like to learn more about the Community. www.healingattachmenttrauma.com/iyr_quiz_2